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nor_o meet_v with_o any_o denial_n leu._n 19.3_o reverence_n unto_o parent_n seem_v call_v for_o as_o a_o mean_a of_o the_o sanctification_n of_o sabbath_n and_o 2_o tim._n 1.2_o we_o be_v plain_o bid_v to_o do_v our_o great_a duty_n to_o king_n and_o all_o in_o authority_n yea_o and_o to_o all_o man_n for_o this_o very_a end_n that_o we_o may_v lead_v quiet_a life_n in_o all_o godliness_n and_o honesty_n in_o a_o word_n it_o be_v the_o holy_a spirit_n pleasure_n ever_o to_o verify_v this_o memorable_a say_n all_o grace_n and_o duty_n be_v mutual_o mother_n and_o daughter_n unto_o each_o other_o love_n of_o god_n and_o his_o service_n bring_v forth_o love_n and_o serviceableness_n unto_o man._n and_o love_n and_o serviceableness_n unto_o man_n bring_v a_o like_a love_n and_o service_n of_o god_n he_o that_o will_v not_o love_n and_o serve_v man_n for_o their_o own_o sake_n shall_v do_v both_o for_o the_o sake_n of_o the_o love_n and_o service_n of_o god_n a_o duke_n will_v court_v 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