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and_o if_o any_o trial_n come_v to_o either_o of_o they_o the_o other_o so_o to_o carry_v himself_o as_o it_o may_v be_v true_o say_v they_o be_v join_v together_o for_o adversity_n thus_o shall_v they_o verify_v the_o truth_n of_o that_o whereby_o god_n be_v move_v to_o creare_fw-la of_o mankind_n male_a and_o female_a namely_o that_o it_o be_v not_o good_a for_o man_n to_o be_v alone_o but_o that_o it_o be_v rather_o good_a 18._o that_o be_v needful_a profitable_a and_o comfortable_a for_o man_n and_o woman_n to_o be_v together_o in_o which_o respect_n the_o wiseman_n say_v he_o that_o find_v a_o wife_n find_v a_o good_a thing_n and_o by_o the_o rule_n of_o 22._o relation_n we_o may_v infer_v she_o that_o find_v a_o husband_n find_v a_o good_a thing_n §._o 30._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n backwandnesse_n to_o help_v one_o another_o in_o time_n of_o need_n contrary_n to_o this_o duty_n be_v a_o certain_a unnatural_a affection_n in_o sundry_a husband_n and_o wife_n who_o much_o grudge_n to_o provide_v the_o thing_n that_o be_v needful_a for_o one_o another_o the_o man_n common_o think_v the_o charge_n too_o great_a the_o woman_n think_v the_o pain_n too_o much_o they_o be_v affect_v one_o to_o another_o as_o if_o they_o be_v mere_a stranger_n nay_o many_o stranger_n will_v be_v more_o ready_a to_o perform_v and_o more_o cheerful_a in_o perform_v needful_a duty_n as_o occasion_n be_v offer_v then_o such_o unnatural_a husband_n and_o wife_n if_o a_o little_a sickness_n or_o other_o like_a cross_n fall_v on_o one_o of_o they_o the_o other_o think_v never_o any_o have_v such_o a_o burden_n and_o by_o their_o discontent_n make_v the_o burden_n much_o more_o heavy_a than_o otherwise_o it_o will_v be_v even_o as_o when_o two_o ox_n be_v in_o one_o yoke_n and_o the_o one_o hold_v back_o the_o draught_n be_v make_v much_o hard_a to_o the_o other_o thus_o do_v they_o pervert_v one_o of_o the_o principal_a end_n of_o marriage_n which_o be_v to_o be_v a_o continual_a comfort_n and_o 18._o help_v each_o to_o other_o and_o to_o ease_v the_o burden_n of_o one_o another_o in_o which_o respect_n they_o be_v make_v yokefellowe_n job_n wife_n by_o her_o unnatural_a carriage_n towards_o he_o in_o his_o affliction_n 9_o do_v much_o aggravate_v his_o misery_n when_o he_o stand_v in_o most_o need_n of_o her_o help_n she_o afford_v least_o unto_o he_o it_o appear_v by_o job_n complaint_n of_o she_o in_o these_o word_n my_o breath_n be_v strange_a to_o 17._o my_o wife_n that_o she_o altogether_o neglect_v he_o in_o his_o misery_n the_o common_a speech_n of_o many_o after_o their_o husband_n or_o wife_n have_v long_o lie_v sick_a be_v depart_v bewray_v their_o unnatural_a affection_n their_o speech_n be_v this_o if_o my_o husband_n or_o wife_n have_v die_v so_o much_o soon_o i_o have_v save_v so_o much_o money_n what_o do_v this_o intimate_a but_o that_o they_o can_v have_v be_v content_v their_o husband_n or_o wife_n shall_v have_v die_v soon_o that_o they_o may_v have_v spare_v the_o more_o §._o 31._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a respect_n of_o one_o another_o good_a name_n the_o provident_a care_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n ought_v further_a to_o extend_v itself_o to_o the_o credit_n and_o good_a name_n of_o one_o another_o as_o dear_a aught_o the_o good_a name_n of_o the_o wife_n be_v unto_o the_o husband_n and_o of_o the_o husband_n to_o the_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o 19_o the_o great_a regard_n that_o joseph_n have_v of_o the_o credit_n of_o marie_n his_o espouse_a wife_n make_v he_o think_v of_o put_v she_o away_o privy_o when_o â—e_n observe_v she_o to_o be_v with_o child_n and_o know_v not_o of_o who_o â—or_a he_o be_v not_o willing_a 〈◊〉_d to_o make_v she_o a_o public_a example_n the_o â—ame_n respect_v move_v 5._o bethsheba_n to_o send_v secret_o to_o david_n and_o â—ell_v he_o that_o she_o be_v with_o child_n the_o commendation_n which_o he_o good_a husband_n precious_a note_v by_o solomon_n give_v of_o his_o wife_n be_v approve_v by_o the_o holy_a ghost_n sheweth_z how_o man_n and_o wife_n â—â—aght_o in_o that_o respect_n to_o honour_v each_o other_o and_o that_o on_o good_a â—ounds_n for_o 1._o a_o good_a name_n be_v a_o most_o precious_a thing_n 3._o better_o than_o preâ—ious_a ointment_n which_o give_v a_o sweet_a savour_n and_o 1._o to_o be_v choose_v â—ove_n great_a riches_n other_o 2._o so_o near_o be_v husband_n and_o wife_n join_v together_o the_o good_a name_n of_o the_o one_o can_v but_o tend_v to_o the_o honour_n and_o credit_n of_o the_o other_o so_o that_o herein_o they_o seek_v their_o own_o honour_n also_o §._o 32._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n prevent_v each_o other_o discredit_n for_o direction_n herein_o consider_v we_o how_o this_o duty_n may_v be_v name_n perform_v and_o how_o it_o may_v be_v manifest_v for_o the_o better_a perform_v of_o it_o care_n must_v be_v have_v both_o to_o prevent_v and_o redress_v a_o ill_a name_n and_o also_o to_o procure_v and_o preserve_v a_o 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the_o second_o husband_n and_o wife_n must_v not_o have_v their_o report_n ear_n wide_o open_v to_o hear_v every_o tale_n and_o report_n that_o shall_v be_v bring_v to_o one_o against_o the_o other_o but_o rather_o show_v themselves_o displease_v and_o offend_v with_o they_o that_o be_v ready_a to_o relate_v thing_n of_o evil_a report_n if_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n manifest_v a_o willingness_n to_o hearken_v after_o tale_n and_o report_n of_o one_o another_o the_o devil_n will_v stir_v up_o instrument_n enough_o to_o fill_v their_o head_n with_o tale_n and_o those_o for_o the_o most_o part_n both_o frivolous_a and_o forge_a not_o only_o stranger_n but_o child_n servant_n and_o they_o which_o be_v of_o the_o same_o family_n will_v ever_o be_v tell_v some_o tale_n or_o other_o to_o curry_v favour_n as_o we_o speak_v but_o a_o utter_a dislike_n of_o such_o flatter_a tale-bearer_n will_v take_v away_o occasion_n from_o they_o of_o tell_v untrue_a or_o slight_a report_n for_o the_o 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report_n name_n by_o envy_v one_o at_o the_o good_a report_n that_o be_v make_v of_o the_o other_o and_o gainsay_v the_o same_o as_o if_o the_o credit_n of_o the_o one_o must_v needs_o turn_v to_o the_o discredit_n of_o the_o other_o thus_o as_o water_n quench_v hot_a iron_n so_o this_o envious_a disposition_n be_v a_o mean_n to_o extinguish_v the_o heat_n of_o fame_n and_o to_o put_v out_o the_o glorious_a light_n of_o a_o good_a name_n whereby_o as_o they_o impair_v the_o credit_n and_o honour_n of_o one_o another_o so_o they_o monstrous_o discredit_v and_o dishonour_v themselves_o the_o other_o general_a vice_n in_o this_o kind_n be_v a_o careless_a regard_n fame_n or_o plain_a neglect_n of_o one_o another_o fame_n when_o the_o husband_n be_v no_o way_n affect_v with_o any_o report_n that_o go_v of_o his_o wife_n nor_o the_o wife_n with_o any_o of_o the_o husband_n but_o as_o if_o they_o be_v mere_a stranger_n one_o to_o another_o they_o pass_v by_o all_o report_v make_v of_o one_o 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stock_n or_o though_o he_o be_v her_o prentice_n or_o bondslave_n which_o also_o hold_v in_o the_o case_n betwixt_o a_o age_a woman_n and_o a_o youth_n for_o the_o scripture_n have_v make_v no_o exception_n in_o any_o of_o those_o case_n 2._o object_n but_o what_o if_o a_o man_n of_o lewd_a and_o beastly_a condition_n as_o a_o drunkard_n a_o glutton_n a_o profane_a swaggerer_n a_o impious_a swearer_n and_o blasphemer_n be_v marry_v to_o a_o wife_n sober_a religious_a matron_n must_v she_o account_v he_o her_o superior_a and_o worthy_a of_o a_o husband_n honour_n answ_n sure_o she_o must_v for_o the_o evil_a quality_n and_o disposition_n quality_n of_o his_o heart_n and_o life_n do_v not_o deprive_v a_o man_n of_o that_o civil_a honour_n which_o god_n have_v give_v unto_o he_o though_o a_o husband_n in_o regard_n of_o evil_a quality_n may_v carry_v the_o image_n of_o the_o devil_n yet_o in_o regard_n of_o his_o place_n and_o office_n he_o bear_v the_o â—mage_n of_o god_n so_o do_v magistrate_n in_o the_o commonwealth_n minister_n in_o the_o church_n parent_n and_o master_n in_o the_o family_n note_v for_o our_o present_a purpose_n the_o exhortation_n of_o s._n peter_n to_o christian_a wife_n which_o have_v infidel_n husband_n 2._o be_v in_o subjection_n to_o they_o let_v your_o conversation_n be_v in_o fear_n if_o infidel_n carry_v â—ot_n the_o devil_n image_n and_o be_v not_o so_o long_o as_o they_o be_v infidel_n vassal_n of_o satan_n who_o be_v yet_o wife_n must_v be_v subject_a to_o they_o and_o fear_v they_o §._o 6._o of_o wife_n deny_v honour_n to_o their_o own_o husband_n contrary_n thereunto_o be_v a_o very_a perverse_a disposition_n in_o some_o own_o wife_n who_o think_v they_o can_v better_o subject_v themselves_o to_o any_o husband_n than_o their_o own_o though_o in_o general_n they_o acknowledge_v that_o a_o husband_n be_v his_o wife_n superior_a yet_o when_o the_o application_n come_v to_o themselves_o they_o fail_v and_o can_v be_v bring_v to_o 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youth_n if_o not_o very_a boy_n a_o mind_n and_o practice_v very_o unseemly_a and_o clean_v wart_v god_n ordinance_n but_o let_v they_o think_v of_o rule_v 7._o what_o they_o list_v the_o truth_n be_v that_o they_o make_v themselves_o and_o both_o by_o god_n law_n and_o man_n of_o which_o subjection_n such_o wife_n do_v oft_o feel_v the_o heavy_a burden_n solomon_n note_v this_o to_o be_v one_o of_o the_o thing_n for_o which_o the_o earth_n be_v disquiet_v when_o 22._o a_o servant_n reign_v now_o when_o can_v a_o servant_n more_o domineer_v then_o when_o he_o have_v marry_v his_o mistress_n as_o for_o age_a woman_n who_o be_v marry_v to_o youth_n i_o may_v say_v as_o in_o another_o case_n it_o be_v say_v woe_n to_o thou_o o_o wife_n who_o husband_n be_v a_o child_n unmeet_a it_o be_v 16._o that_o a_o age_a man_n shall_v be_v marry_v to_o a_o young_a maid_n but_o much_o more_o unmeet_a for_o a_o age_a woman_n to_o be_v marry_v to_o a_o youth_n §._o 7._o of_o a_o wife_n 11_o inward_a 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perverse_a rebellious_a woman_n like_o this_o foolish_a and_o furious_a saul_n i_o say_v they_o take_v the_o most_o open_a place_n of_o the_o family_n before_o child_n servant_n and_o whole_a house_n to_o reprove_v their_o wife_n and_o that_o with_o such_o bitter_a and_o disgraceful_a term_n as_o either_o they_o provoke_v their_o wife_n to_o answer_v again_o for_o maintain_v as_o they_o think_v their_o own_o credit_n and_o reputation_n thus_o jonathan_n 32._o be_v provoke_v to_o answer_v his_o father_n again_o or_o else_o give_v they_o of_o the_o house_n that_o behold_v she_o thus_o trample_v under_o foot_n occasion_n to_o set_v their_o foot_n also_o upon_o she_o most_o husband_n be_v forward_o enough_o to_o reprove_v but_o few_o do_v it_o in_o meekness_n and_o moderation_n they_o can_v do_v it_o but_o in_o company_n nor_o without_o bitter_a word_n many_o in_o rebuke_v their_o wife_n stick_v not_o to_o use_v all_o the_o evil_a term_n that_o they_o can_v think_v of_o even_o such_o as_o 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mildness_n in_o his_o speech_n to_o his_o wife_n §._o 40._o of_o a_o husband_n 10._o amiable_a countenance_n towards_o his_o wife_n a_o husband_n carriage_n towards_o his_o wife_n must_v be_v answerable_a mild_a to_o his_o speech_n or_o else_o all_o the_o mildness_n thereof_o will_v seem_v but_o complemental_a a_o man_n carriage_n comprise_v under_o it_o his_o countenance_n gesture_n action_n in_o all_o which_o must_v mildness_n be_v seat_v 1._o his_o countenance_n in_o his_o wife_n presence_n and_o towards_o his_o countenance_n wife_n must_v be_v compose_v to_o a_o amiable_a pleasantness_n his_o authority_n over_o she_o and_o eminency_n above_o she_o may_v not_o make_v he_o forget_v the_o near_a conjunction_n and_o union_n betwixt_o they_o under_o the_o face_n and_o countenance_n i_o comprise_v head_n brow_n eye_n lip_n and_o such_o other_o part_n which_o be_v according_a as_o they_o be_v frame_v sign_n of_o amiableness_n or_o discontentednesse_n now_o among_o and_o above_o other_o part_n of_o the_o body_n the_o outward_a composition_n of_o the_o countenance_n do_v soon_a and_o best_a declare_v the_o inward_a disposition_n of_o the_o heart_n by_o esau_n pleasant_a countenance_n jaakob_n perceive_v that_o he_o be_v pacify_v in_o his_o heart_n towards_o he_o and_o thereupon_o say_v i_o have_v see_v thy_o face_n as_o though_o i_o have_v 10._o see_v the_o face_n of_o god_n that_o be_v a_o amiable_a gracious_a countenance_n on_o this_o ground_n david_n desire_v god_n to_o lift_v up_o the_o light_n of_o his_o 6._o countenance_n upon_o he_o that_o thereby_o he_o may_v know_v the_o favour_n and_o love_n of_o god_n towards_o he_o on_o the_o other_o side_n by_o a_o frown_a and_o lower_a face_n by_o hang_v down_o the_o head_n put_v out_o the_o lip_n with_o the_o like_a anger_n malice_n grief_n with_o other_o like_a affection_n of_o heart_n be_v manifest_v by_o cain_n cast_v down_o 6._o of_o his_o countenance_n god_n discern_v anger_n and_o envy_n to_o be_v in_o his_o heart_n by_o laban_n countenance_n jaakob_n observe_v that_o his_o affection_n 2._o be_v turn_v from_o he_o a_o wife_n then_o behold_v mildness_n and_o amiableness_n in_o her_o husband_n face_n behold_v it_o as_o the_o face_n of_o god_n and_o therein_o as_o in_o a_o look_a glass_n behold_v the_o kindness_n and_o love_n of_o his_o heart_n and_o so_o have_v her_o heart_n thereby_o the_o more_o firm_o knit_v unto_o he_o and_o be_v move_v the_o more_o to_o respect_v he_o §._o 41._o of_o husband_n too_o great_a austerity_n contrary_n be_v 1._o a_o lofty_a proud_a countenance_n as_o of_o a_o imperious_a brow_n lord_n over_o his_o vassal_n 2._o a_o grim_a stern_a countenance_n as_o of_o a_o judge_n over_o poor_a prisoner_n look_n 3._o a_o lower_a frown_a countenance_n as_o of_o a_o discontent_a
spot_n he_o do_v therefore_o no_o way_n pollute_v or_o defile_v his_o spouse_n and_o that_o his_o love_n may_v the_o better_o appear_v to_o be_v chaste_a love_n cast_v only_o upon_o one_o spouse_n and_o not_o many_o he_o unite_v all_o his_o saint_n together_o by_o the_o 13_o bond_n of_o his_o spirit_n and_o make_v they_o all_o one_o body_n hereby_o husband_n must_v learn_v so_o to_o be_v affect_v towards_o 4._o their_o wife_n as_o may_v stand_v with_o holiness_n and_o chastity_n though_o much_o love_n be_v require_v yet_o it_o may_v not_o overflowe_v those_o bank_n marriage_n be_v honourable_a and_o a_o bed_n undefiled_a it_o must_v therefore_o be_v use_v as_o a_o undefiled_a thing_n this_o indeed_o appertain_v to_o the_o wife_n as_o well_o as_o to_o the_o husband_n but_o because_o he_o be_v the_o head_n and_o guide_v of_o his_o wife_n and_o aught_o to_o be_v as_o a_o pattern_n and_o precedent_n before_o she_o as_o christ_n be_v before_o he_o therefore_o be_v it_o more_o special_o apply_v to_o he_o the_o purity_n of_o a_o husband_n love_n here_o speak_v of_o have_v a_o double_a use_n 1._o it_o restrain_v a_o husband_n love_n to_o his_o own_o wife_n there_o be_v a_o general_a christian_a love_n whereby_o all_o occasion_n of_o do_v good_a be_v take_v with_o which_o a_o husband_n may_v and_o aught_o to_o love_v other_o and_o a_o particular_a matrimonial_a love_n whereby_o he_o be_v move_v to_o prefer_v his_o wife_n before_o all_o and_o to_o have_v his_o heart_n set_v and_o fix_v on_o she_o and_o so_o proper_a and_o peculiar_a to_o she_o 2._o it_o order_n and_o moderate_v his_o love_n so_o as_o it_o turn_v not_o into_o sinful_a lust_n whereby_o that_o estate_n which_o in_o itself_o by_o virtue_n of_o god_n ordinance_n be_v holy_a be_v pollute_v §._o 68_o of_o husband_n lightness_n contrary_a be_v not_o only_a adultery_n whereof_o we_o have_v speak_v 8._o before_o but_o also_o wantonness_n lightness_n and_o uncleanness_n with_o his_o wife_n for_o many_o intemperate_a and_o unchaste_a husband_n give_v the_o reins_n to_o their_o headstrong_a lust_n manifest_a as_o much_o unseemlinesse_n and_o plain_a filthiness_n in_o their_o word_n gesture_n and_o action_n to_o say_v nothing_o of_o their_o thought_n which_o be_v not_o see_v to_o their_o wife_n as_o other_o do_v to_o strumpet_n and_o harlot_n which_o be_v a_o most_o shameless_a thing_n and_o i_o be_o even_o ashamed_a â—_o mention_v but_o because_o it_o be_v mention_v let_v such_o know_v thâ—_n they_o shall_v be_v account_v among_o such_o whoremonger_n and_o adulâ—rers_n 4._o as_o god_n will_v judge_v §._o 69._o of_o husband_n love_v their_o wife_n more_o than_o themselves_o the_o quantity_n of_o christ_n love_n can_v be_v express_v for_o the_o himself_o measure_n of_o it_o be_v above_o measure_n 25._o he_o give_v himself_o for_o his_o church_n and_o in_o that_o respect_n he_o call_v himself_o that_o 11._o good_a shepherd_n that_o give_v his_o life_n for_o his_o sheep_n 13._o great_a love_n than_o this_o have_v no_o man_n what_o will_v not_o he_o do_v for_o his_o spouse_n that_o give_v his_o life_n for_o she_o this_o may_v seem_v to_o be_v too_o high_a a_o strain_n and_o pitch_n of_o love_n for_o a_o husband_n to_o attain_v unto_o a_o matter_n wherein_o he_o be_v to_o 16._o â—eave_v his_o pattern_n and_o not_o to_o follow_v christ_n but_o yet_o s._n john_n add_v even_o this_o extent_n to_o the_o love_n of_o our_o brethren_n we_o ought_v say_v he_o to_o lay_v down_o our_o life_n for_o the_o brethren_n therefore_o by_o â—ust_z consequence_n for_o our_o wife_n but_o that_o this_o extent_n be_v not_o stretch_v too_o far_o and_o husband_n cast_v into_o a_o pit_n of_o needless_a peril_n two_o caution_n must_v be_v note_v 1._o that_o there_o be_v a_o absolute_a necessity_n to_o bring_v we_o to_o this_o himself_o â—raite_n of_o part_v with_o our_o life_n which_o be_v when_o the_o good_a we_o â—ime_v at_o in_o the_o behalf_n of_o our_o wife_n can_v any_o other_o way_n be_v â—ffected_v but_o by_o venture_v our_o life_n there_o be_v no_o other_o way_n â—â—_o redeem_v the_o church_n but_o by_o the_o blood_n of_o christ_n 2._o that_o the_o good_a we_o intend_v in_o this_o case_n to_o our_o wife_n be_v of_o â—reater_a value_n than_o our_o temporal_a life_n as_o be_v the_o good_a of_o her_o â—ule_n the_o save_n of_o it_o thus_o the_o apostle_n say_v i_o will_v most_o glad_o bestow_v for_o your_o soul_n which_o mind_n man_n must_v much_o more_o 15._o â—rie_a towards_o their_o wife_n it_o be_v for_o our_o salvation_n that_o christ_n â—ue_v himself_o §._o 70._o of_o husband_n unkindness_n contrary_n be_v their_o unkindness_n that_o prefer_v every_o trifle_n of_o â—â—eir_n own_o before_o the_o good_a of_o their_o wife_n their_o profit_n their_o â—easure_n their_o promotion_n clean_o draw_v away_o their_o heart_n and_o affection_n from_o their_o wife_n if_o any_o extraordinary_a charge_n must_v â—_o lay_v out_o or_o pain_n take_v for_o their_o wife_n good_a little_a love_n â—ll_v then_o appear_v whereby_o it_o appear_v that_o there_o be_v no_o true_a use_v sound_a love_n settle_v in_o their_o heart_n towards_o their_o wife_n as_o â—ld_v and_o other_o like_a metal_n be_v try_v by_o the_o fire_n so_o love_v by_o eviction_n and_o cross_n §._o 71._o of_o combat_n in_o pretence_n of_o wife_n honour_n contrary_n in_o another_o extreme_a be_v the_o overbold_a and_o over-heady_a pretend_a manhood_n of_o such_o husband_n as_o upon_o every_o jealous_a surmise_n and_o sleight_n report_n be_v ready_a to_o make_v challenge_n of_o fight_n and_o to_o enter_v into_o single_a combat_n and_o duel_n on_o pretence_n of_o maintain_v their_o wife_n honour_n this_o be_v no_o warrantable_a course_n of_o right_v a_o wrong_n no_o honour_n can_v redound_v to_o the_o wife_n thereby_o but_o much_o dishonour_n and_o danger_n to_o the_o husband_n if_o he_o prevail_v over_o his_o adversary_n and_o kill_v he_o be_v make_v guilty_a of_o murder_n thereby_o and_o so_o reproach_n and_o shame_n must_v needs_o come_v to_o himself_o wife_n and_o whole_a family_n if_o he_o be_v overcome_v and_o slay_v she_o may_v be_v repute_v more_o guilty_a than_o she_o be_v before_o and_o oft_o it_o fall_v out_o that_o god_n in_o just_a judgement_n give_v over_o the_o challenger_n into_o his_o adversary_n hand_n because_o he_o have_v undertake_v so_o indirect_a a_o course_n §._o 72._o of_o husband_n perpetual_a constancy_n in_o love_n vi_o the_o continuance_n of_o christ_n love_n be_v without_o date_n 1._o have_v love_v his_o own_o he_o love_v they_o unto_o the_o end_n his_o love_n be_v constant_a not_o by_o fit_n now_o love_v then_o hate_v and_o 19_o everlasting_a never_o repent_v thereof_o never_o change_v or_o alter_v his_o mind_n no_o provocation_n no_o transgression_n can_v ever_o make_v he_o forget_v to_o love_n and_o cease_v to_o do_v that_o good_a which_o he_o intend_v for_o his_o church_n note_v what_o he_o say_v to_o she_o even_o when_o she_o revoult_v from_o he_o thou_o have_v play_v the_o harlot_n with_o many_o 15._o lover_n yet_o return_v again_o to_o i_o and_o again_o my_o mercy_n shall_v not_o depart_v away_o for_o his_o love_n rest_v not_o on_o the_o desert_n of_o his_o church_n but_o on_o the_o unchangeableness_n of_o his_o own_o will_n as_o this_o manifest_a christ_n love_n to_o be_v true_a sound_a love_n so_o it_o make_v it_o profitable_a and_o beneficial_a to_o the_o church_n which_o notwithstanding_o her_o many_o frailty_n by_o virtue_n hereof_o be_v glorify_v this_o last_o branch_n must_v be_v add_v to_o all_o the_o former_a branch_n love_n of_o a_o husband_n love_n or_o else_o they_o will_v be_v all_o in_o vain_a and_o to_o no_o purpose_n this_o give_v the_o true_a trial_n of_o sound_a love_n such_o be_v the_o love_n betwixt_o david_n and_o jonathan_n the_o sound_a love_n that_o ever_o be_v betwixt_o party_n and_o party_n this_o bring_v the_o great_a glory_n to_o the_o party_n which_o love_v and_o the_o great_a benefit_n to_o the_o party_n which_o be_v love_v that_o a_o man_n love_n may_v thus_o remain_v firm_a and_o inviolable_a 1._o he_o must_v be_v sure_a to_o lay_v a_o good_a foundation_n he_o must_v ground_v his_o love_n on_o god_n ordinance_n and_o love_v his_o wife_n in_o regard_n of_o the_o matrimonial_a bond_n which_o knit_v they_o together_o and_o that_o near_a union_n which_o thence_o arise_v and_o so_o it_o will_v last_v so_o long_o as_o that_o knot_n last_v 2._o he_o must_v further_o support_v and_o strengthen_v it_o with_o a_o inviolable_a resolution_n to_o be_v change_v and_o alter_v with_o no_o provocation_n but_o rather_o to_o pass_v by_o all_o infirmity_n endeavour_v in_o love_n to_o redress_v they_o if_o possible_o he_o can_v if_o not_o to_o bear_v with_o they_o §._o 73._o of_o husband_n variableness_n contrary_n be_v their_o
variableness_n who_o love_n be_v ready_a to_o turn_v as_o a_o weather_n cock_n with_o every_o blast_n of_o a_o contrary_a wind_n now_o tender-hearted_n than_o again_o hard-hearted_a now_o smile_v then_o â—owring_v now_o give_v this_o and_o that_o favour_n then_o deny_v every_o thing_n even_o such_o thing_n as_o be_v needful_a many_o who_o love_n be_v as_o hot_a as_o fire_v while_o their_o wife_n be_v â—oung_a or_o their_o friend_n live_v or_o while_o they_o please_v they_o when_o â—hose_v occasion_n be_v take_v away_o prove_v in_o their_o love_n as_o cold_a â—s_n ice_n again_o other_o by_o some_o continuance_n in_o do_v good_a to_o their_o wife_n think_v it_o a_o burden_n and_o wax_v weary_a clean_o leave_v off_o â—heir_o former_a good_a course_n which_o plain_o show_v that_o they_o neâ—er_v true_o and_o entire_o love_v their_o wife_n by_o this_o pattern_n of_o christ_n here_o propound_v to_o husband_n â—e_v have_v on_o the_o one_o side_n a_o good_a direction_n to_o teach_v we_o how_o to_o â—â—ue_v our_o wife_n as_o have_v be_v particular_o declare_v and_o on_o the_o â—ther_n side_n matter_n of_o humiliation_n in_o that_o it_o show_v we_o how_o â—â—re_o short_a we_o come_v of_o our_o bind_a duty_n howsoever_o wife_n â—ay_n most_o complain_v of_o their_o burden_n because_o it_o be_v a_o subiectionâ—hereunto_o â—hereunto_z by_o nature_n we_o be_v all_o loath_a to_o yield_v yet_o i_o be_o sure_o 10._o â—â—e_v heavy_a burden_n be_v lay_v upon_o the_o husband_n shoulder_n and_o â—uch_v more_o easy_a it_o be_v to_o perform_v the_o part_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n than_o a_o good_a husband_n §._o 74._o of_o husband_n love_v their_o wife_n 59_o as_o themselves_o to_o the_o example_n of_o christ_n the_o apostle_n annex_v the_o patâ—â—ne_n of_o one_o self_n in_o these_o word_n so_o ought_v man_n to_o love_v their_o 28._o â—â—es_n as_o their_o own_o body_n quest_n be_v not_o the_o former_a pattern_n sufficient_a be_v this_o latter_a more_o excellent_a or_o more_o perfect_a answ_n christ_n example_n be_v a_o full_a complete_a perfect_a and_o add_v every_o way_n sufficient_a pattern_n far_o more_o excellent_a than_o this_o of_o a_o man_n self_n this_o be_v not_o annex_v to_o add_v any_o thing_n to_o that_o or_o in_o regard_n of_o the_o excellency_n hereof_o but_o only_o in_o regard_n of_o our_o dulness_n to_o make_v the_o point_n somewhat_o more_o plain_a and_o perspicuous_a sensible_a for_o this_o pattern_n be_v more_o sensible_a and_o better_o discern_v every_o one_o know_v how_o he_o love_v his_o own_o body_n but_o few_o or_o none_o know_v how_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n beside_o imitable_a that_o example_n of_o christ_n may_v seem_v too_o high_a and_o excellent_a for_o any_o to_o attain_v unto_o even_o inimitable_a therefore_o to_o show_v that_o he_o require_v no_o more_o than_o a_o man_n may_v perform_v if_o he_o will_v set_v himself_o with_o care_n and_o conscience_n to_o do_v his_o duty_n he_o add_v the_o pattern_n of_o one_o self_n that_o which_o 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to_o hate_v his_o wife_n nor_o any_o vice_n seem_v to_o he_o intolerable_a with_o goodness_n he_o â—â—ught_v to_o overcome_v evil_a if_o notorious_a sin_n seem_v intolerable_a to_o christ_n or_o that_o he_o think_v any_o occasion_n just_a to_o cause_v hatred_n many_o â—hat_n be_v of_o his_o church_n will_v oft_o draw_v his_o hatred_n upon_o they_o but_o christ_n hate_v never_o a_o member_n of_o his_o church_n 4._o there_o be_v no_o hope_n that_o ever_o i_o shall_v receive_v any_o help_n of_o my_o object_n wife_n or_o benefit_n from_o she_o ans_fw-fr there_o be_v little_a charity_n in_o such_o as_o can_v conceive_v no_o hope_n for_o â—ue_v hope_v all_o thing_n but_o yet_o the_o case_n so_o stand_v with_o christ_n the_o 7._o church_n be_v so_o utter_o unable_a to_o help_v or_o benefit_v he_o as_o he_o may_v just_o â—y_a he_o can_v hope_v to_o receive_v any_o thing_n from_o she_o christ_n love_v the_o church_n for_o her_o own_o good_a not_o for_o he_o so_o ought_v husband_n thus_o if_o 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be_v to_o account_v their_o child_n in_o law_n that_o be_v the_o parent_n child_n of_o their_o husband_n and_o wife_n or_o the_o wife_n of_o their_o son_n and_o the_o husband_n of_o their_o daughter_n as_o their_o own_o natural_a child_n and_o according_a to_o the_o age_n and_o place_n of_o these_o child_n to_o perform_v the_o forename_a duty_n and_o every_o way_n to_o seek_v their_o good_a except_o in_o such_o duty_n as_o after_o a_o peculiar_a manner_n belong_v to_o natural_a parent_n as_o nurse_v to_o a_o natural_a mother_n leave_v the_o inheritance_n to_o a_o natural_a parent_n for_o a_o pattern_n hereof_o take_v the_o forename_a example_n of_o joseph_n and_o naomi_n what_o natural_a parent_n can_v do_v more_o for_o their_o own_o child_n than_o joseph_n do_v for_o jesus_n and_o naomi_n for_o ruth_n the_o history_n note_v how_o joseph_n take_v care_n to_o have_v his_o wife_n child_n 22._o circumcise_v and_o present_v in_o the_o temple_n how_o he_o 14._o flee_v from_o place_n to_o place_n to_o preserve_v the_o child_n life_n how_o 48._o perplex_v he_o be_v when_o he_o think_v the_o child_n be_v lose_v how_o he_o 51._o train_v he_o up_o in_o his_o own_o house_n the_o history_n also_o note_v how_o 22._o naomi_n bring_v ruth_n her_o son_n wife_n into_o her_o own_o country_n and_o retain_v she_o with_o herself_o and_o 22._o direct_v she_o whither_o to_o go_v and_o 1._o what_o husband_n to_o have_v and_o 16._o become_v a_o nurse_n to_o her_o child_n 1._o marriage_n make_v man_n and_o wife_n one_o flesh_n in_o which_o respect_n reason_n they_o ought_v to_o have_v one_o mind_n and_o the_o same_o affection_n as_o mutual_o each_o to_o other_o so_o joint_o to_o the_o child_n of_o each_o other_o on_o which_o ground_n also_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n of_o a_o child_n be_v one_o flesh_n with_o the_o child_n aught_o as_o the_o child_n to_o be_v respect_v on_o this_o ground_n god_n count_v the_o saint_n his_o 〈◊〉_d dear_a child_n because_o they_o be_v 2._o espouse_v to_o his_o natural_a son_n 2._o to_o respect_v the_o child_n of_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o be_v a_o great_a evidence_n of_o entire_a love_n to_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o to_o respect_v the_o husband_n and_o wife_n of_o a_o child_n be_v a_o great_a evidence_n of_o love_n to_o the_o child_n itself_o if_o the_o world_n proverb_n hold_v true_a love_v i_o and_o love_v my_o dog_n how_o much_o more_o true_a be_v this_o christian_a rule_n love_v i_o and_o love_v my_o child_n or_o love_v i_o and_o love_v my_o husband_n or_o love_v i_o and_o love_v my_o wife_n 3._o this_o also_o be_v a_o especial_a mean_n to_o kindle_v and_o preserve_v mutual_a love_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n who_o have_v child_n of_o former_a husband_n and_o wife_n as_o also_o betwixt_o parent_n and_o child_n §._o 72._o of_o the_o perverse_a carriage_n of_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n to_o their_o child_n contrary_n be_v the_o carriage_n of_o most_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n especial_o of_o those_o who_o be_v marry_v to_o husband_n or_o to_o wife_n that_o have_v child_n before_o marriage_n so_o far_o they_o be_v from_o perform_v the_o forename_a duty_n as_o rather_o they_o envy_v at_o the_o prosperity_n of_o their_o husband_n and_o wife_n child_n and_o secret_o endeavour_n to_o hinder_v it_o in_o what_o they_o can_v and_o cunning_o leek_v to_o alienate_v the_o natural_a parent_n affection_n from_o they_o whence_o hippolytus_n fearful_a tragedy_n have_v be_v make_v and_o lamentable_a mischief_n have_v follow_v what_o other_o reason_n can_v be_v give_v hereof_o 45._o but_o a_o plain_a instigation_n of_o the_o devil_n who_o thus_o labour_v to_o disunite_v those_o who_o god_n have_v join_v together_o for_o avoid_v this_o snare_n note_v the_o mischief_n that_o follow_v from_o thence_o 1._o such_o parent_n sin_n against_o god_n ordinance_n and_o as_o eve_n lean_a more_o to_o satan_n suggestion_n then_o to_o god_n direction_n 2._o they_o alienate_v the_o heart_n and_o affection_n of_o one_o from_o another_o not_o only_o from_o their_o child_n but_o from_o themselves_o 3._o they_o provoke_v their_o child_n in_o law_n to_o contemn_v and_o despise_v they_o and_o to_o yield_v no_o duty_n unto_o they_o hence_o note_v into_o what_o a_o hell_n unkind_a father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n do_v cast_v themselves_o if_o this_o be_v due_o weigh_v i_o think_v they_o will_v be_v otherwise_o mind_v but_o the_o god_n of_o this_o world_n do_v so_o blind_a their_o eye_n with_o self-love_n and_o with_o envy_n that_o they_o can_v see_v the_o mischief_n whereinto_o they_o implunge_v themselves_o this_o be_v a_o point_n the_o more_o to_o be_v weigh_v because_o the_o fault_n here_o tax_v be_v so_o common_a and_o have_v in_o all_o age_n be_v too_o common_a 4._o what_o grievous_a complaint_n have_v in_o former_a time_n be_v make_v and_o still_o be_v make_v by_o child_n against_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n whence_o also_o direful_a imprecation_n have_v follow_v let_v widower_n and_o widow_n that_o have_v child_n serious_o think_v of_o it_o before_o hand_n and_o be_v the_o more_o circumspect_a in_o take_v a_o second_o or_o three_o husband_n or_o wife_n and_o after_o they_o be_v marry_v let_v they_o take_v heed_n of_o satan_n snare_n and_o let_v conscience_n of_o duty_n more_o prevail_v with_o they_o than_o corruption_n of_o nature_n §._o 73._o of_o the_o fault_n of_o parent_n to_o their_o child_n husband_n and_o wife_n many_o parent_n to_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n of_o their_o child_n do_v also_o much_o transgress_v and_o swerve_v from_o their_o duty_n for_o 1._o they_o will_v show_v much_o more_o respect_n to_o their_o own_o child_n then_o to_o the_o child_n of_o their_o husband_n or_o wife_n as_o by_o come_v to_o their_o daughter_n when_o their_o husband_n be_v abroad_o and_o never_o but_o then_o and_o send_v for_o their_o son_n to_o their_o house_n but_o not_o for_o their_o wife_n 2._o in_o all_o difference_n they_o will_v take_v part_n with_o their_o own_o child_n though_o it_o be_v in_o the_o worse_a part_n and_o show_v great_a partiality_n 3._o they_o will_v oft_o give_v very_o ill_a counsel_n advise_v their_o son_n to_o keep_v their_o wife_n short_a advise_v their_o daughter_n not_o to_o be_v too_o subject_a to_o their_o husband_n yea_o privy_o to_o purloin_v from_o their_o husband_n 4._o if_o they_o live_v with_o their_o child_n they_o will_v so_o pry_v into_o every_o thing_n that_o their_o child_n husband_n or_o wife_n do_v and_o show_v such_o suspicion_n and_o jealous_o in_o every_o thing_n as_o they_o can_v but_o cause_v much_o discord_n and_o hence_o it_o oft_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o either_o parent_n and_o child_n or_o husband_n and_o wife_n must_v be_v part_v
chastity_n one_o end_n of_o marriage_n 1_o cor._n 7._o 2._o ibid._n vers_fw-la 9_o 2._o by_o chastity_n a_o godly_a seed_n preserve_v mal._n 2._o 16._o 3._o chastity_n the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n heb._n 13._o 4._o 4._o matth._n 5._o 32._o 32._o matth._n 19_o 9_o christus_fw-la ab_fw-la adultera_fw-la vero_fw-la separari_fw-la permittit_fw-la greg._n naz._n orat._n 36._o vir_fw-la post_fw-la fornicationem_fw-la non_fw-la est_fw-la vir_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 19_o in_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 7._o 1_o cor._n 6._o 16._o 16._o postquam_fw-la christus_fw-la ait_fw-la adulterae_fw-la nec_fw-la ego_fw-la te_fw-la damnabo_fw-la vade_v deinceps_fw-la noli_fw-la peccare_fw-la quis_fw-la non_fw-la intelligat_fw-la debere_fw-la maritum_fw-la ignoscere_fw-la quod_fw-la videt_fw-la ignovisse_fw-la dominum_fw-la ambor_fw-la they_o nec_fw-la iam_fw-la se_fw-la debere_fw-la adulteram_fw-la dicere_fw-la cvius_fw-la poenitentis_fw-la crimen_fw-la divina_fw-la credit_n miseratione_n deletam_fw-la aug._n the_o adult_n coniug_v lib._n 2._o cap._n 6._o adultery_n as_o great_a a_o sin_n in_o a_o man_n as_o in_o his_o wife_n lex_fw-la jul._n de_fw-fr adult_n l._n 1._o orif_n codic_n in_o l._n illust_n greg._n sayr_a clau._n reg_fw-la l._n 9_o c._n 16._o more_o inconvenience_n of_o a_o woman_n adultery_n than_o a_o man_n man_n mat._n 19_o 5._o 5._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 3_o 4._o 4._o verse_n 5._o 5._o verse_n 15._o tanto_fw-la gravius_fw-la viros_fw-la puniri_fw-la oportet_fw-la quanto_fw-la magis_fw-la ad_fw-la eos_fw-la pertinet_fw-la &_o virtute_fw-la vincere_fw-la &_o exemplo_fw-la regere_fw-la soeminas_fw-la aug._n the_o adult_n coning_n l._n 2._o c._n 8._o 8._o 7._o commandment_n commandment_n prou._n 2._o 17._o 17._o 1_o cor._n 6._o 16._o 16._o 1_o cor._n 6._o 19_o 19_o gen._n 34._o 31._o 31._o prou._n 6._o 35._o 35._o gen._n 21._o 10._o judg._n 11._o 2._o deut._n 23._o 2._o 2._o levit._n 21._o 9_o gen._n 34._o 7._o 2_o sam._n 13._o 22._o 22._o job_n 31._o 12._o 2_o sam._n 12._o 10._o 10._o gen._n 34._o 27._o judg._n 20._o 10._o hos_fw-la 4._o 3._o 3._o mal._n 2._o 15._o 15._o prou._n 6._o 32._o 32._o 1_o cor._n 6._o 18._o 18._o prou._n 6._o 33._o 33._o prou._n 6._o 26._o the_o bitter_a fruit_n of_o adultery_n god_n judgement_n against_o adultery_n adultery_n prou._n 22._o 14._o 14._o hos_fw-la 4._o 2_o 3._o 3._o reu._n 21._o 8._o 8._o gen._n 6._o 2_o etc._n etc._n etc._n ezek._n 16._o 50._o 50._o levit._n 18._o 28._o 28._o num._n 25._o 9_o 9_o jer._n 5._o 7_o 8_o 9_o 9_o heb._n 13._o 4._o 4._o heb._n 10._o 31._o 31._o pro._n 6._o 25._o 25._o job_n 31._o 1._o 1._o pro._n 7._o 21._o 21._o ephes_n 5._o 4._o 4._o pro._n 7._o 13._o 13._o pro._n 6._o 29._o 29._o pro._n 7._o 25._o 25._o ephes_n 5._o 7._o 7._o gen._n 19_o 33._o 33._o ezek._n 23._o 6_o 15_o 40._o 40._o gen._n 39_o 9_o pro._n 2._o 16._o 16._o gen._n 39_o 9_o pro._n 2._o 16._o 16._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 2_o 3_o 5_o 9_o 9_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 1_o cor._n 7._o 4._o 4._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 2_o 3._o 3._o verse_n 5._o 5._o dum_fw-la solitudinis_fw-la i_o deserta_fw-la vallarent_fw-la ardorem_fw-la naturae_fw-la far_o non_fw-la poteram_fw-la quem_fw-la cum_fw-la crebris_fw-la ieiunijs_fw-la frangerem_fw-la mens_fw-la cogitationibus_fw-la aestuabat_fw-la hier._n ad_fw-la rust_n mon._n lege_fw-la eundem_fw-la ad_fw-la eustoc_n de_fw-fr custod_n virgin_n virgin_n hebraei_n inquiunt_fw-la perinde_n ut_fw-la homicidam_fw-la reum_fw-la esse_fw-la qui_fw-la temerè_fw-la semen_fw-mi profundit_fw-la merc._n in_o gen._n 38._o 9_o 9_o joâ—l_o 2._o 6._o 6._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 5._o 5._o quo_fw-la tempore_fw-la si_fw-la vir_fw-la coierit_fw-la cum_fw-la muliere_fw-la dicuntur_fw-la concepti_fw-la foetus_fw-la vitium_fw-la seminis_fw-la tral_a ere_o ita_fw-la ut_fw-la leprosi_fw-la &_o elephantiaci_fw-la ex_fw-la hac_fw-la conceptione_n nascantur_fw-la high_a in_o lam._n 1._o 1._o aug._n de_fw-fr bon_fw-fr coniug_v ca._n 6._o amb._n in_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 7._o nemo_fw-la essenorum_n cum_fw-la praegnante_fw-la concumbit_fw-la joseph_n de_fw-fr bell_n jud._n li._n 2._o c._n 7._o 7._o quod_fw-la in_o bestijs_fw-la ipso_fw-la naturae_fw-la jure_fw-la praescriptum_fw-la est_fw-la ut_fw-la praegnantes_fw-la ad_fw-la partum_fw-la usque_fw-la non_fw-la coeant_fw-la hoc_fw-la in_o hominibus_fw-la sciant_fw-la arbitrio_fw-la relictum_fw-la hier._n in_o eph._n 5._o sanchez_n de_fw-fr matr._n lib._n 9_o disp_n 21_o 22._o agit_fw-fr de_fw-fr petendo_fw-la &_o reddendo_fw-la debito_fw-la quando_fw-la menstruum_fw-la est_fw-la &_o tempore_fw-la praegnationis_fw-la &_o dum_fw-la infans_fw-la lactatur_fw-la lactatur_fw-la treat_n 4._o §._o 2._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d tit._n 2._o 4._o col._n 3._o 19_o hoc_fw-la verum_fw-la est_fw-la coniugium_fw-la quando_fw-la vinculo_fw-la charitatis_fw-la sunt_fw-la concatenati_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 45._o in_o gen._n gen._n rom._n 13._o 10._o 10._o col._n 3._o 14._o 1_o cor._n 16._o 14._o matth._n 5._o 44._o 44._o treat_n 1._o §._o 79_o 80._o 1_o sam._n 18._o 1._o prou._n 18._o 22._o that_o which_o in_o treat_n 4._o §._o 2._o 9_o 11._o be_v speak_v of_o a_o husband_n love_n and_o entire_a affection_n may_v also_o be_v apply_v in_o some_o respect_n to_o a_o wife_n and_o so_o serve_v to_o amplify_v this_o common_a mutual_a duty_n of_o love_n love_n of_o after_o venture_v to_o be_v as_o entire_a as_o of_o former_a rom._n 7._o 2_o 3._o prou._n 10._o 7._o *_o see_v treat_n 3._o §_o 8._o &_o treat_n 4._o §._o 10._o ephes_n 4._o 3._o heb._n 12._o 14._o 14._o §._o 14._o prou._n 21._o 9_o portus_n est_fw-la mulier_fw-la &_o maximum_fw-la securitatis_fw-la remedium_fw-la si_fw-mi ventis_fw-la &_o fluctibus_fw-la portum_fw-la liberaveris_fw-la ex_fw-la foro_fw-la reversus_fw-la tranquillè_fw-la vives_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o direction_n for_o maintain_v peace_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n 1._o avoid_v offence_n 2._o take_v not_o offence_n 3._o offer_v reconciliation_n eph._n 4._o 26._o mat._n 5._o 9_o 4._o take_v no_o part_n with_o other_o 5._o make_v not_o comparison_n 6._o be_v not_o jealous_a pro._n 6._o 34_o 35._o 7._o please_v one_o another_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 33_o 34._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d cum_fw-la vir_fw-la &_o uxor_fw-la domi_fw-la dissentiunt_fw-la nihilo_fw-la melius_fw-la navi_fw-la iactata_fw-la domus_fw-la illa_fw-la disponitur_fw-la cum_fw-la gubernator_fw-la adversus_fw-la prorae_fw-la directo_fw-la rem_fw-la dissentiat_fw-la chrys_n loc_n citat_fw-la gen._n 13._o 8._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d vide_fw-la musc_n in_o gen._n 2._o 22._o see_v treat_n 1._o §._o 79._o psal_n 45._o 10._o 1_o pet._n 3_o 7._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 12_o 13._o 13._o judg._n 19_o 3._o 3._o gen._n 31._o 14._o 14._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d coniux_fw-la 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d uxor_fw-la reason_n for_o cohabitation_n benefit_n of_o cohabitation_n d._n fulke_n against_o rhem._n on_o 1_o cor._n 7._o §._o 6._o 6._o §._o 3._o 3._o numb_a 32._o 26_o 27._o 27._o 2_o sam._n 11._o 3_o 6._o 6._o exo._n 18._o 2._o absence_n 1._o not_o without_o consent_n 1_o cor._n 7._o 5._o 2._o not_o with_o delight_n si_fw-mi vir_fw-la ad_fw-la peregrina_fw-la contenderit_fw-la nulla_fw-la longin_n quitas_fw-la nulla_fw-la absentia_fw-la complacitam_fw-la minuat_fw-la charitatem_fw-la ambr._n hexaem_n l._n 5._o c._n 7._o si_fw-mi quis_fw-la dixerit_fw-la ecclesiam_fw-la errore_fw-la cum_fw-la ob_fw-la multas_fw-la causas_fw-la separationem_fw-la inter_fw-la coniuges_fw-la quoad_fw-la thorum_fw-la sen_fw-la cohabitationem_fw-la ad_fw-la certum_fw-la incertumue_fw-la tempus_fw-la fieri_fw-la posse_fw-la decernit_fw-la anathema_n sit_v council_n trid._n §._o 24._o can_n 8._o 8._o bellarm._n de_fw-fr matrim_n l._n 1._o c._n 14._o heb._n 13._o 4._o 4._o see_v §._o 5._o 5._o matth._n 5._o 32._o fidei_fw-la gratia_fw-la vxorem_fw-la ne_fw-la eijcias_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 19_o in_o 1_o cor._n 7._o si_fw-mi ferus_fw-la moribus_fw-la fit_a coniux_fw-la perferat_fw-la illum_fw-la uxor_fw-la nec_fw-la ullam_fw-la ob_fw-la causam_fw-la societatem_fw-la vinculumque_fw-la dissoluere_fw-la patiatur_fw-la basil_n hexaem_n bom_n 7._o matth._n 5._o 29._o matth._n 5._o 32._o hos_fw-la 4._o 15._o man_n and_o wife_n fault_n in_o part_a room_n and_o bed_n in_o the_o same_o house_n prou._n 31._o 12._o prayer_n a_o mutual_a duty_n 1_o pet_n 3._o 7._o gen._n 25._o 21._o matth._n 7._o 7._o i_o be_o 5._o 16._o gen._n 25._o 21._o 21._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d luke_n 18._o 1._o 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 1_o thess_n 5._o 17._o intemperans_n in_o coniugio_fw-la quid_fw-la aliud_fw-la nisi_fw-la quidam_fw-la adulter_fw-la uxoris_fw-la est_fw-la aug._n ex_fw-la ambr._n contr_n julian._n lib._n 2._o quam_fw-la chara_fw-la sint_fw-la carendo_fw-la intelligunt_fw-la cic._n in_o orator_n amicitiae_fw-la quid_fw-la haberent_fw-la voluptatis_fw-la carendo_fw-la magis_fw-la intellexi_fw-la quam_fw-la sruendo_fw-la idem_fw-la in_o oration_n post_n red_a admonendi_fw-la sunt_fw-la coniuges_fw-la ut_fw-la exhortantes_fw-la inuicem_fw-la saluent_a greg._n in_o past_a part_n 3._o adm._n 28._o 28._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 16._o 16._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 1._o 1._o epb._n 5._o 25._o of_o the_o particular_a duty_n of_o husband_n in_o this_o respect_n see_v treat_n 4._o §._o 47._o 1_o
pure_a cheerful_a constant_a for_o conscience_n sake_n §_o 54_o 55_o etc._n etc._n treat_n iv._o  _fw-fr particular_a duty_n of_o husband_n  _fw-fr wjsdome_n and_o love_n the_o general_a head_n of_o all_o husband_n duty_n §_o 2_o 4._o  _fw-fr 1_o acknowledgement_n of_o a_o wife_n near_o conjunction_n and_o fellowship_n with_o her_o husband_n §_o 6._o 2_o a_o good_a esteem_n of_o his_o own_o wise_a to_o be_v the_o best_a for_o he_o and_o worthy_a of_o love_n on_o his_o part_n §_o 9_o 3_o a_o inward_a entire_a affection_n §_o 11._o 4_o a_o outward_a amiable_a carriage_n towards_o his_o wife_n which_o consist_v in_o a_o husband-like_a gravity_n mildness_n courteous_a acceptance_n of_o her_o courtesy_n and_o allow_v she_o to_o wear_v fit_a apparel_n §_o 4_o 15_o 22_o 40_o 49._o 5_o mild_a and_o love_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o his_o wife_n §_o 24_o 25_o 26_o etc._n etc._n 6_o a_o wise_a maintain_v his_o authority_n and_o forbear_v to_o exact_v all_o that_o be_v in_o his_o power_n §_o 4_o 18._o 7_o a_o ready_a yield_v to_o his_o wife_n request_n and_o give_v a_o general_a consent_n and_o liberty_n unto_o she_o to_o order_v the_o affair_n of_o the_o house_n child_n servant_n etc._n etc._n and_o a_o free_a allow_v she_o something_o to_o bestow_v as_o she_o see_v occasion_n §_o 18_o 54._o 8_o a_o forbearing_z to_o exact_v more_o than_o his_o wife_n be_v willing_a to_o do_v or_o to_o force_v she_o to_o dwell_v where_o it_o be_v not_o meet_v or_o to_o enjoin_v she_o to_o do_v thing_n unmeet_a in_o themselves_o or_o against_o her_o mind_n §_o 18_o 26._o 9_o a_o wise_a order_n of_o reproof_n not_o use_v it_o without_o just_a and_o weighty_a cause_n and_o then_o private_o and_o meek_o §_o 35_o 38._o 10_o a_o provident_a care_n for_o his_o wife_n according_a to_o his_o ability_n §_o 46_o 49_o 50_o 52._o 11_o a_o forbearing_z to_o exact_v any_o thing_n which_o stand_v not_o with_o a_o good_a conscience_n §_o 26._o 12_o such_o a_o love_n as_o christ_n bear_v to_o the_o church_n and_o man_n to_o himself_o which_o be_v first_o free_a in_o deed_n and_o truth_n pure_a chaste_a constant_a §_o 61_o etc._n etc._n and_o 74._o treat_n iii_o  _fw-fr aberration_n of_o wife_n from_o their_o particular_a duty_n  _fw-fr ambition_n the_o general_a ground_n of_o the_o aberration_n of_o wife_n §_o 2._o  _fw-fr 1_o a_o conceit_n that_o wife_n be_v their_o husband_n equal_n §_o 4._o 2_o a_o conceit_n that_o she_o can_v better_o subject_v herself_o to_o any_o other_o man_n then_o to_o her_o own_o husband_n §_o 6._o 3_o a_o inward_a despise_n of_o her_o husband_n §_o 8._o 4_o vnreverend_a behaviour_n towards_o her_o husband_n manifest_v by_o lightness_n sullenness_n scornfulnes_n and_o vanity_n in_o her_o attire_n §_o 9_o 10_o 11_o 12._o 5_o vnreverend_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o her_o husband_n §_o 13_o 14_o 15_o 16._o 6_o a_o stout_a stand_n on_o her_o own_o will_n §_o 17._o 7_o a_o peremptory_a undertake_n to_o do_v thing_n as_o she_o list_v without_o and_o against_o her_o husband_n consent_n this_o be_v manifest_v by_o privy_a purloin_v his_o good_n take_v allowance_n order_v child_n servant_n and_o cattle_n feast_v stranger_n make_v journey_n and_o vow_n as_o herself_o list_v §_o 42._o 8_o a_o obstinate_a stand_n upon_o her_o own_o will_n make_v her_o husband_n dwell_v where_o she_o will_v and_o refuse_v to_o go_v when_o he_o call_v or_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n upon_o his_o command_n §_o 44_o 45_o 46_o 67._o 9_o disdain_n at_o reproof_n give_v word_n for_o word_n and_o wax_v worse_o for_o be_v reprove_v §_o 47_o 48._o 10_o discontent_n at_o her_o husband_n estate_n §_o 50._o 11_o such_o a_o please_a of_o her_o husband_n as_o offend_v christ_n §_o 53._o 12_o such_o a_o subjection_n as_o be_v most_o unlike_a to_o the_o church_n viz._n feign_a force_a fickle_a etc._n etc._n §_o 56_o etc._n etc._n treat_n iv._o  _fw-fr aberration_n of_o husband_n from_o their_o particular_a duty_n  _fw-fr want_n of_o wisdom_n and_o love_n the_o general_a ground_n of_o the_o aberration_n of_o husband_n §_o 3_o 5._o  _fw-fr 1_o too_o mean_a account_n of_o wife_n §_o 8._o 2_o a_o preposterous_a conceit_n of_o his_o own_o wife_n to_o be_v the_o worst_a of_o all_o and_o that_o he_o can_v love_v any_o but_o she_o §_o 10._o 3_o a_o stoical_a disposition_n without_o all_o heat_n of_o affection_n §_o 12._o 4_o a_o unbeseeming_a carriage_n towards_o his_o wife_n manifest_v by_o his_o baseness_n tyrannical_a usage_n of_o she_o loftiness_n harshness_n and_o niggardliness_n §_o 5_o 15_o 17_o 41_o 44_o 53._o 5_o harsh_a proud_a and_o bitter_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o his_o wife_n §_o 24_o 25_o 30_o 32_o 36_o 39_o 6_o lose_v of_o his_o authority_n §_o 5._o 7_o too_o much_o strictness_n over_o his_o wife_n this_o be_v manifest_v by_o restrain_v she_o from_o do_v any_o thing_n without_o particular_a and_o express_a consent_n take_v too_o strict_a account_n of_o she_o and_o allow_v she_o no_o more_o than_o be_v needful_a for_o her_o own_o private_a use_n §_o 19_o 55._o 8_o too_o lordly_a a_o stand_n upon_o the_o high_a step_n of_o his_o authority_n be_v too_o frequent_a insolent_a and_o peremptory_a in_o command_a thing_n frivolous_a unmeet_a and_o against_o his_o wife_n mind_n and_o conscience_n §_o 30_o 32._o 9_o rashness_n and_o bitterness_n in_o reprove_v and_o that_o too_o frequent_o on_o slight_a occasion_n and_o disgraceful_o before_o child_n servant_n and_o stranger_n §_o 36_o 38_o 39_o 10_o a_o careless_a neglect_n of_o his_o wife_n and_o niggardly_a deal_n with_o she_o and_o that_o in_o her_o weakness_n §_o 46_o 51_o 53_o 11_o a_o command_a of_o unlawful_a thing_n §_o 26_o 30_o 32._o 12_o such_o a_o disposition_n as_o be_v most_o unlike_a to_o christ_n and_o to_o that_o which_o a_o man_n bear_v to_o himself_o viz._n complemental_a impure_a for_o by-respect_n unconstant_a etc._n etc._n §_o 62_o etc._n etc._n and_o 74._o a_o table_n of_o the_o several_a point_n handle_v in_o the_o eight_o treatise_n of_o domestical_a duty_n i._o treatise_n a_o exposition_n of_o that_o part_n of_o scripture_n out_o of_o which_o domestical_a duty_n be_v raise_v §_o 1_o of_o the_o apostle_n transition_n from_o general_a duty_n to_o particular_n pag._n 1_o 2_o of_o join_v service_n to_o man_n with_o praise_v of_o god_n 2_o 3_o of_o every_o one_o submit_v himself_o to_o another_o 4_o 4_o of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n 8_o 5_o of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n move_v we_o to_o do_v service_n to_o man_n 11_o 6_o of_o limit_v all_o duty_n to_o man_n within_o the_o compass_n of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n 13_o 7_o of_o perform_v the_o duty_n of_o particular_a calling_n 16_o 8_o of_o the_o lawfulness_n of_o private_a function_n in_o a_o family_n 17_o 9_o of_o the_o apostle_n order_n in_o lay_v down_o the_o duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o the_o first_o place_n 20_o 10_o of_o the_o apostle_n order_n in_o set_v down_o inferior_n duty_n in_o the_o first_o place_n 21_o 11_o of_o the_o reason_n why_o wife_n duty_n be_v first_o teach_v 25_o 12_o of_o wife_n subjection_n 26_o 13_o of_o the_o person_n to_o who_o wife_n must_v be_v subject_a 27_o 14_o how_o a_o husband_n be_v his_o wife_n head_n 29_o 15_o of_o the_o resemblance_n of_o a_o husband_n to_o christ_n 30_o 16_o of_o the_o resemblance_n betwixt_o the_o church_n to_o christ_n 31_o a_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n  _fw-fr  _fw-fr 17_o of_o the_o relation_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n 32_o 18_o of_o the_o benefit_n of_o christ_n headship_n 34_o 19_o of_o christ_n a_o sufficient_a saviour_n 35_o 20_o of_o christ_n the_o only_a saviour_n 36_o 21_o of_o the_o church_n the_o body_n of_o christ_n 38_o 22_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o christ_n goodness_n to_o all_o his_o body_n 38_o 23_o of_o the_o restraint_n of_o the_o benefit_n of_o christ_n headship_n to_o they_o only_o that_o be_v of_o his_o body_n 40_o 24_o of_o the_o church_n subjection_n to_o christ_n 41_o 25_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o the_o church_n subjection_n 42_o 26_o of_o the_o sum_n of_o husband_n duty_n 43_o 27_o of_o the_o example_n of_o christ_n love_n 44_o 28_o of_o christ_n give_v himself_o 46_o 29_o of_o the_o willingness_n of_o christ_n to_o die_v 47_o 30_o of_o the_o kind_n of_o christ_n death_n and_o oblation_n 48_o 31_o of_o the_o infinite_a value_n of_o the_o price_n of_o our_o redemption_n 48_o 32_o of_o christ_n seek_v the_o good_a of_o the_o church_n 50_o 33_o of_o the_o particular_a end_n why_o christ_n give_v himself_o and_o of_o the_o condition_n of_o the_o church_n before_o christ_n take_v she_o 51_o 34_o of_o christ_n prevent_v grace_n 54_o 35_o of_o christ_n seek_v to_o make_v his_o church_n pure_a 55_o 36_o of_o
the_o church_n justification_n 55_o 37_o of_o the_o church_n sanctification_n 56_o 38_o of_o the_o church_n purity_n before_o god_n and_o man_n 56_o 39_o of_o the_o order_n and_o dependence_n of_o justification_n and_o sanctification_n one_o upon_o another_o 58_o 40_o of_o sacramental_a wash_n of_o water_n 59_o 41_o how_o baptism_n be_v a_o mean_n of_o cleanse_v and_o sanctify_v 60_o 42_o objection_n against_o the_o efficacy_n of_o baptism_n answer_v 61_o 43_o what_o kind_n of_o mean_n of_o grace_n baptism_n be_v 62_o 44_o of_o the_o necessity_n of_o baptism_n 62_o 45_o of_o the_o contrary_a extreme_n of_o papist_n and_o ana._n baptist_n about_o the_o necessity_n and_o efficacy_n of_o baptism_n 63_o 46_o of_o the_o inward_a wash_n by_o baptism_n 65_o 47_o of_o join_v the_o word_n with_o baptism_n 66_o 48_o of_o the_o inference_n of_o glorification_n upon_o instification_n and_o sanctification_n 68_o 49_o of_o the_o fruition_n of_o christ_n presence_n in_o heaven_n 70_o 50_o of_o the_o glory_n of_o the_o church_n in_o heaven_n 72_o 51_o of_o the_o church_n freedom_n from_o all_o deformity_n in_o heaven_n 73_o 52_o of_o the_o perfect_a purity_n of_o the_o church_n in_o heaven_n 74_o 53_o of_o the_o application_n of_o the_o thing_n which_o christ_n have_v do_v for_o the_o the_o church_n unto_o husband_n 75_o 54_o of_o the_o application_n of_o the_o love_n which_o a_o man_n bear_v to_o himself_o unto_o a_o husband_n 76_o 55_o of_o the_o amplification_n of_o a_o man_n love_n of_o himself_o 78_o 56_o of_o man_n natural_a affection_n to_o himself_o 79_o 57_o of_o natural_a self-love_n 80_o 58_o of_o spiritual_a self-love_n 82_o 59_o of_o evil_a self-love_n 82_o 60_o of_o the_o error_n of_o stoic_n in_o condemn_v all_o passion_n 83_o 61_o of_o well_o use_v natural_a affection_n 83_o 62_o of_o man_n forbear_v to_o wrong_v himself_o 84_o 63_o of_o unnatural_a practice_n against_o one_o self_n 85_o 64_o of_o hater_n of_o other_o 86_o 65_o of_o man_n care_n in_o provide_v and_o use_v thing_n needful_a for_o his_o body_n 87_o 66_o of_o they_o that_o neglect_v to_o cherish_v their_o body_n 88_o 67_o of_o contentment_n in_o that_o which_o be_v sufficient_a 89_o 68_o of_o christ_n forbear_v to_o hate_v the_o church_n 90_o 69_o of_o christ_n nourish_v and_o cherish_v his_o church_n 91_o 70_o of_o the_o union_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o the_o saint_n 93_o 71_o of_o the_o privilege_n appertain_v to_o the_o saint_n even_o in_o this_o life_n by_o reason_n of_o their_o union_n with_o christ_n 98_o 72_o of_o the_o privilege_n of_o our_o union_n with_o christ_n in_o the_o time_n of_o death_n 102_o 73_o of_o the_o privilege_n of_o our_o union_n with_o christ_n after_o death_n 103_o 74_o of_o the_o duty_n which_o be_v require_v of_o the_o saint_n by_o virtue_n of_o their_o union_n with_o christ_n 104_o 75_o of_o their_o regeneration_n who_o be_v member_n of_o christ_n 105_o 76_o of_o the_o author_n of_o our_o regeneration_n christ_n 106_o 77_o of_o the_o matter_n of_o our_o regeneration_n christ_n 108_o 78_o of_o the_o excellency_n of_o regeneration_n 109_o 79_o of_o the_o ancient_a law_n of_o marriage_n 110_o 80_o of_o prefer_v husband_n or_o wife_n before_o parent_n 112_o 81_o of_o the_o firmness_n of_o the_o matrimonial_a bond_n 114._o 82_o of_o two_o only_a to_o be_v join_v together_o in_o marriage_n 114_o 83_o of_o polygamy_n and_o bigamy_n 115_o 84_o of_o the_o near_a conjunction_n of_o man_n and_o wife_n together_o 115_o 85_o of_o the_o matrimonial_a conjunction_n of_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n 117_o 86_o of_o christ_n leave_n his_o father_n and_o mother_n for_o his_o spouse_n 120_o 87_o of_o the_o indissoluble_a union_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n 121_o 88_o of_o the_o equal_a privilege_n of_o all_o the_o saint_n 122_o 89_o of_o the_o near_a union_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n 123_o 90_o of_o the_o mystery_n of_o the_o union_n of_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n 124_o 91_o of_o the_o pope_n usurp_v to_o be_v spouse_n of_o the_o church_n 125_o 92_o of_o the_o false_a sacrament_n of_o marriage_n 126_o 93_o of_o the_o sum_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n duty_n 128_o 94_o of_o apply_v the_o word_n to_o ourselves_o 129_o 95_o of_o every_o one_o look_v to_o his_o own_o duty_n especial_o 130_o 96_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o first_o verse_n of_o the_o six_o chapter_n 132_o 97_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o second_o verse_n 134_o 98_o of_o aim_v at_o our_o own_o in_o seek_v the_o good_a of_o other_o 137_o 99_o of_o prefer_v honesty_n before_o commodity_n 138_o 100_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o three_o verse_n 139_o 101_o of_o prosperity_n how_o far_o forth_o it_o may_v be_v a_o blessing_n 140_o 102_o of_o prosperity_n bestow_v on_o the_o wicked_a how_o it_o prove_v a_o curse_n 141_o 103_o how_o both_o have_v and_o want_v prosperity_n be_v a_o blessing_n to_o the_o saint_n 142_o 104_o of_o long-life_n how_o far_o forth_o it_o be_v a_o blessing_n 143_o 105_o of_o long_a life_n prove_v a_o curse_n to_o the_o wicked_a 144_o 106_o of_o limit_v the_o promise_n of_o temporal_a blessing_n 144_o 107_o of_o appropriate_a prosperity_n and_o long_a life_n to_o the_o obedience_n which_o child_n yield_v to_o their_o parent_n 145_o 108_o of_o god_n order_v his_o favour_n so_o as_o they_o may_v appear_v to_o be_v true_a blessing_n 147_o 109_o of_o god_n high_a account_n of_o dutiful_a child_n 148_o 110_o of_o child_n do_n good_a to_o themselves_o by_o honour_v their_o parent_n 148_o 111_o of_o parent_n do_v good_a to_o their_o child_n by_o keep_v they_o under_o obedience_n 149_o 112_o of_o the_o perpetuity_n of_o the_o substance_n of_o such_o thing_n as_o in_o their_o circumstance_n respect_v the_o jew_n be_v vanish_v 150_o 113_o of_o the_o determine_a period_n of_o man_n life_n 151_o 114_o of_o reward_n promise_v to_o obedience_n that_o it_o imply_v no_o merit_n 153_o 115_o of_o the_o connexion_n of_o parent_n duty_n with_o child_n 153_o 116_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o these_o word_n father_n child_n 154_o 117_o of_o parent_n provoke_v child_n 155_o 118_o of_o parent_n seek_v the_o good_a of_o their_o child_n 156_o 119_o of_o parent_n nurture_v their_o child_n 157_o 120_o of_o parent_n fix_v precept_n in_o their_o child_n mind_n 158_o 121_o of_o add_v information_n to_o discipline_n 158_o 122_o of_o parent_n teach_v their_o child_n the_o fear_n of_o god_n 159_o 123_o of_o the_o subjection_n which_o believe_v servant_n owe._n 159_o 124_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o five_o verse_n 160_o 125_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o six_o verse_n 164_o 126_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o seven_o verse_n 168_o 127_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o eight_o verse_n 168_o 128_o of_o the_o connexion_n of_o master_n duty_n with_o servant_n 171_o 129_o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o this_o phrase_n do_v the_o same_o thing_n 172_o 130_o of_o master_n forbear_v threaten_a 174_o 131_o of_o master_n subjection_n to_o a_o great_a master_n 175_o 132_o of_o god_n be_v in_o heaven_n 175_o 133_o of_o god_n have_v no_o respect_n of_o person_n 177_o ii_o treatise_n part_n i._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n who_o be_v so_o to_o be_v account_v §_o 1._o of_o those_o who_o may_v seek_v to_o be_v marry_v 179_o 2_o of_o ripeness_n of_o year_n in_o they_o that_o be_v to_o be_v marry_v 180_o 3_o of_o impotent_a person_n that_o ought_v not_o to_o seek_v after_o marriage_n 181_o 4_o of_o barrenness_n that_o it_o hinder_v not_o marriage_n 182_o 5_o of_o that_o inevitable_a danger_n which_o hinder_v marriage_n 183_o 6_o of_o the_o lawfulness_n of_o marriage_n to_o all_o sort_n of_o person_n 183_o 7_o of_o the_o thing_n which_o be_v absolute_o necessary_a to_o make_v a_o person_n fit_a for_o marriage_n 185_o 8_o of_o the_o lawfulness_n of_o other_o marriage_n after_o one_o of_o the_o marry_a couple_n be_v dead_a 186_o 9_o of_o equality_n in_o year_n betwixt_o husband_n and_o wife_n 188_o 10_o of_o equality_n in_o estate_n and_o condition_n betwixt_o those_o that_o be_v to_o be_v marry_v together_o 189_o 11_o of_o equality_n in_o piety_n and_o religion_n betwixt_o those_o that_o be_v to_o be_v marry_v together_o 191_o 12_o of_o marriage_n betwixt_o person_n of_o diverse_a profession_n 192_o 13_o of_o that_o mutual_a like_n which_o must_v pass_v betwixt_o marriageable_a person_n before_o they_o be_v marry_v 196_o 14_o of_o a_o contract_n what_o it_o be_v 198_o 15_o of_o the_o ground_n of_o a_o contract_n 198_o 16_o of_o the_o reason_n which_o show_v how_o requisite_a a_o contract_n be_v 200_o 17_o of_o abuse_v or_o neglect_v a_o contract_n 202_o 18_o of_o the_o distance_n of_o time_n betwixt_o a_o contract_n and_o marriage_n 202_o 19_o of_o a_o religious_a consecrate_v of_o marriage_n
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adultery_n 219_o 9_o of_o remedy_n against_o adultery_n and_o in_o particular_a of_o due_a benevolence_n and_o of_o defect_n or_o excess_n therein_o 221_o 10_o of_o mutual_a love_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n 224_o 11_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a hatred_n contrary_a to_o love_v 227_o 12_o of_o mutual_a peace_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n 228_o 13_o of_o contention_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n 230_o 14_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n dwell_v together_o 230_o 15_o of_o the_o respect_n for_o which_o man_n and_o wife_n may_v for_o a_o time_n live_v asunder_o 231_o 16_o of_o the_o error_n of_o papist_n about_o man_n and_o wife_n separation_n 232_o 17_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n unlawful_a absent_v themselves_o one_o from_o another_o 234_o 18_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a prayer_n 235_o 19_o of_o the_o thing_n for_o which_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v to_o pray_v alone_o 236_o 20_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n hateful_a imprecation_n and_o wish_n one_o against_o another_o 237_o 21_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n neglect_v of_o mutual_a prayer_n 238_o 22_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a care_n for_o one_o another_o salvation_n 238_o 23_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n care_v to_o win_v one_o the_o other_o when_o one_o of_o they_o be_v not_o call_v 239_o 24_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n edify_v one_o another_o 240_o 25_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n hinder_v sin_n one_o in_o another_o 240_o 26_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n redress_v sin_n in_o one_o another_o 242_o 27_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n help_v forward_o the_o growth_n of_o grace_n in_o each_o other_o 242_o 28_o of_o the_o sin_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n contrary_a to_o a_o mutual_a care_n of_o one_o another_o salvation_n 243_o 29_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a care_n over_o one_o another_o body_n 245_o 30_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n backwardness_n to_o help_v one_o another_o in_o time_n of_o need_n 246_o 31_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a respect_n of_o one_o another_o good_a name_n 247_o 32_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n prevent_v each_o other_o discredit_n 248_o 33_o of_o the_o wisdom_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o redress_v one_o another_o ill_a name_n 249_o 34_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n care_v in_o procure_v one_o another_o good_a name_n 249_o 35_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n wisdom_n in_o preserve_v each_o other_o good_a name_n 250_o 36_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n like_o affection_n towards_o one_o another_o credit_n 250_o 37_o of_o the_o vice_n contrary_a to_o that_o mutual_a care_n which_o man_n and_o wife_n shall_v have_v of_o one_o another_o credit_n 251_o 38_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a providence_n about_o the_o good_n of_o the_o family_n 253_o 39_o of_o the_o vice_n contrary_a to_o the_o good_a providence_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n about_o the_o good_n of_o the_o family_n 255_o 40_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n joint_a care_n in_o govern_v the_o family_n 256_o 41_o of_o the_o vice_n contrary_a to_o a_o 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wive-like_a sobriety_n 277_o 10_o of_o wive-like_a mildness_n 278_o 11_o of_o wive-like_a courtefie_v and_o obeisance_n 279_o 12_o of_o wive-like_a modesty_n in_o apparel_n 280_o 13_o of_o a_o wife_n reverend_a speech_n to_o her_o husband_n 281_o 14_o of_o the_o title_n which_o wife_n give_v their_o husband_n 282_o 15_o of_o wife_n meekness_n in_o their_o speech_n 284_o 16_o of_o a_o wife_n speech_n of_o her_o husband_n in_o his_o absence_n 285_o 17_o of_o a_o wife_n obedience_n in_o general_n 286_o 18_o of_o the_o case_n wherein_o a_o wife_n have_v power_n to_o order_v thing_n of_o the_o house_n without_o her_o husband_n consent_n 287_o 19_o of_o diverse_a kind_n of_o consent_n 288_o 20_o of_o the_o thing_n whereabout_o a_o wife_n must_v have_v her_o husband_n consent_n 290_o 21_o of_o the_o thing_n which_o a_o wife_n may_v dispose_v without_o her_o husband_n consent_n 291_o 22_o of_o a_o wife_n liberty_n in_o extraordinary_a matter_n 292_o 23_o of_o a_o wife_n restraint_n in_o dispose_n good_n without_o consent_n of_o her_o husband_n and_o of_o the_o ground_n of_o that_o restraint_n 293_o 24_o of_o the_o example_n of_o the_o shunemite_n in_o ask_v her_o husband_n consent_n 294_o 25_o of_o the_o law_n of_o a_o wife_n vow_n 294_o 26_o of_o humane_a law_n which_o restrain_v wife_n from_o dispose_v good_n without_o or_o against_o their_o husband_n consent_n 296_o 27_o of_o the_o inconvenience_n which_o may_v follow_v upon_o a_o wife_n dispose_n good_n without_o or_o against_o her_o husband_n consent_n 297_o 28_o of_o property_n in_o good_n whether_o it_o give_v liberty_n to_o dispose_v they_o as_o a_o wife_n will_n 298_o 29_o of_o the_o reason_n against_o a_o wife_n property_n in_o the_o common_a good_n of_o the_o family_n 299_o 30_o of_o answer_n to_o the_o reason_n for_o a_o wife_n property_n 301_o 31_o of_o the_o privilege_n of_o wife_n above_o child_n and_o servant_n in_o and_o about_o the_o good_n of_o the_o family_n 302_o 32_o of_o example_n and_o other_o reason_n allege_v for_o liberty_n of_o wife_n to_o dispose_v good_n 302_o 33_o of_o the_o subjection_n of_o wife_n in_o distribute_v good_n to_o charitable_a use_n 304_o 34_o of_o general_a exhortation_n to_o work_n of_o mercy_n how_o far_o they_o bind_v wife_n 305_o 35_o of_o obedience_n to_o a_o husband_n in_o such_o thing_n as_o he_o sinful_o forbid_v 305_o 36_o of_o zipporahs_n case_n in_o circumcise_n her_o son_n 306_o 37_o of_o the_o wife_n of_o chuzas_n case_n in_o minister_a to_o christ_n 307_o 38_o of_o the_o restraint_n of_o wife_n about_o allowance_n for_o themselves_o or_o family_n without_o their_o husband_n consent_n 308_o 39_o of_o a_o wife_n subjection_n to_o her_o husband_n about_o child_n 309_o 40_o of_o a_o wife_n subjection_n to_o her_o husband_n about_o order_v servant_n and_o beast_n 310_o 41_o of_o a_o wife_n subjection_n in_o entertain_v stranger_n journey_v abroad_o and_o make_v vow_n 311_o 42_o of_o aberration_n contrary_a to_o wife_n subjection_n in_o do_v 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husband_n forbid_v 325_o 52_o of_o case_n wherein_o a_o wife_n ought_v to_o forbear_v what_o her_o husband_n require_v 328_o 53_o of_o wife_n fault_n in_o show_v more_o respect_n to_o their_o husband_n then_o to_o god_n 329_o 54_o of_o the_o manner_n of_o a_o wife_n subjection_n to_o her_o husband_n 329_o 55_o of_o wife_n humility_n in_o every_o duty_n 331_o 56_o of_o wife_n pride_n 331_o 57_o of_o wife_n sincerity_n in_o every_o duty_n 332_o 58_o of_o wife_n compliment_n all_o subjection_n 334_o 59_o of_o wife_n cheerfulness_n in_o every_o duty_n 334_o 60_o of_o wife_n sullen_a and_o force_a obedience_n 334_o 61_o of_o wife_n constancy_n in_o do_v their_o duty_n 335_o 62_o of_o wife_n repent_v their_o former_a goodness_n 335_o 63_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o a_o wife_n obedience_n 336_o 64_o of_o a_o wife_n labour_v to_o bring_v her_o judgement_n to_o the_o bent_n of_o her_o husband_n 337_o 65_o of_o wife_n overwein_v conceit_n of_o their_o own_o wisdom_n 338_o 66_o of_o a_o wife_n 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wife_n see_v that_o she_o reverence_v her_o husband_n the_o apostle_n have_v make_v a_o large_a digression_n about_o the_o mutual_a relation_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n who_o he_o propound_v as_o pattern_n to_o husband_n and_o wife_n he_o now_o return_v to_o the_o main_a point_n intend_v namely_o to_o the_o duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o so_o much_o do_v the_o first_o particle_n imply_v nevertheless_o as_o if_o he_o have_v thus_o say_v though_o i_o have_v a_o little_a digress_v 〈◊〉_d into_o the_o mystery_n of_o the_o union_n of_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n yet_o nevertheless_o do_v you_o o_o husband_n and_o wife_n call_v to_o mind_n that_o which_o i_o principal_o aim_v at_o even_o your_o duty_n this_o verse_n than_o contain_v a_o conclusion_n of_o the_o apostle_n discourse_n concern_v the_o duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n two_o point_n be_v especial_o note_v therein_o 1._o a_o declaration_n of_o their_o several_a and_o distinct_a duty_n 2._o a_o direction_n to_o apply_v their_o own_o proper_a duty_n each_o of_o they_o to_o themselves_o their_o distinct_a duty_n be_v note_v in_o two_o word_n love._n fear_n  _fw-fr these_o two_o as_o they_o be_v distinct_a duty_n in_o themselves_o so_o be_v they_o also_o common_a condition_n which_o must_v be_v annex_v to_o all_o other_o duty_n love_n as_o sugar_n to_o sweeten_v the_o duty_n of_o authority_n which_o appertain_v to_o a_o husband_n fear_v as_o salt_n to_o season_v all_o the_o duty_n of_o subjection_n which_o appertain_v to_o a_o wife_n the_o apostle_n therefore_o have_v set_v they_o down_o as_o two_o mark_n for_o husband_n and_o wife_n to_o aim_v at_o in_o every_o thing_n wherein_o they_o have_v to_o deal_v one_o with_o the_o other_o of_o these_o i_o will_v more_o distinct_o speak_v in_o the_o treatise_n of_o the_o particular_a duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n §._o 94._o of_o apply_v the_o word_n to_o ourselves_o the_o direction_n for_o a_o particular_a application_n of_o 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husband_n to_o he_o he_o say_v let_v he_o love_v his_o wife_n and_o reverence_n be_v peculiar_a to_o a_o wife_n to_o she_o he_o say_v let_v the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o reverence_v her_o husband_n the_o direction_n in_o every_o of_o those_o several_a epistle_n which_o be_v send_v to_o the_o seven_o church_n of_o asia_n in_o these_o word_n he_o that_o 7._o have_v a_o ear_n let_v he_o hear_v what_o the_o spirit_n say_v to_o the_o church_n do_v teach_v every_o member_n in_o any_o of_o those_o church_n to_o apply_v to_o himself_o that_o which_o be_v deliver_v to_o the_o whole_a church_n so_o do_v a_o like_a 8._o exhortation_n which_o christ_n with_o a_o exclamation_n make_v to_o the_o people_n who_o he_o teach_v in_o parable_n and_o this_o declaration_n of_o the_o extent_n of_o christ_n counsel_n what_o i_o say_v to_o
37._o you_o i_o say_v to_o all_o to_o this_o purpose_n many_o precept_n give_v to_o whole_a church_n and_o to_o all_o sort_n of_o people_n be_v set_v down_o in_o the_o singular_a number_n as_o give_v to_o one_o as_o awake_v thou_o that_o 14._o sleep_v thou_o stand_v by_o faith_n be_v not_o thou_o high_a mind_a etc._n etc._n 20._o the_o life_n and_o power_n of_o god_n word_n consist_v in_o this_o particular_a application_n application_n thereof_o unto_o ourselves_o this_o be_v to_o mix_v faith_n with_o hear_v faith_n i_o say_v whereby_o we_o do_v not_o only_o believe_v the_o truth_n of_o god_n word_n in_o general_a but_o also_o believe_v it_o to_o be_v a_o truth_n concern_v ourselves_o in_o particular_a and_o thus_o will_v every_o precept_n thereof_o be_v a_o good_a instruction_n and_o direction_n on_o to_o we_o to_o guide_v we_o in_o the_o way_n of_o righteousness_n every_o promise_n therein_o will_v be_v a_o great_a encouragement_n and_o consolation_n to_o we_o to_o uphold_v we_o 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to_o all_o parent_n and_o child_n master_n and_o servant_n concern_v their_o duty_n §._o 95._o of_o every_o one_o look_v to_o his_o own_o duty_n especial_o in_o the_o forename_a application_n a_o eye_n must_v be_v have_v rather_o to_o the_o duty_n which_o we_o owe_v and_o aught_o to_o be_v perform_v by_o we_o to_o other_o then_o to_o that_o which_o be_v due_a to_o we_o and_o other_o ought_v to_o perform_v to_o we_o for_o the_o apostle_n say_v not_o to_o the_o husband_n see_v that_o thy_o wife_n reverence_v thou_o but_o see_v that_o thou_o love_v she_o so_o to_o the_o wife_n for_o this_o purpose_n the_o holy_a ghost_n press_v particular_a duty_n upon_o those_o particular_a person_n who_o ought_v to_o perform_v they_o as_o subjection_n on_o wife_n love_v on_o husband_n and_o so_o in_o other_o this_o therefore_o be_v especial_o to_o be_v consider_v of_o thou_o how_o thou_o 11._o may_v show_v thyself_o blameless_a i_o deny_v not_o but_o that_o one_o ought_v to_o provoke_v another_o and_o 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which_o the_o prophet_n speak_v of_o father_n and_o son_n may_v be_v apply_v to_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o to_o all_o other_o sort_n of_o people_n if_o a_o father_n do_v that_o which_o be_v lawful_a and_o right_a he_o be_v just_a he_o etc._n shall_v sure_o live_v if_o he_o beget_v a_o son_n that_o do_v not_o so_o he_o shall_v sure_o die_v his_o blood_n shall_v be_v upon_o he_o again_o if_o a_o father_n do_v that_o which_o be_v not_o good_a he_o shall_v die_v in_o his_o iniquity_n but_o if_o his_o son_n do_v that_o which_o be_v lawful_a and_o right_a he_o shall_v sure_o live_v the_o righteousness_n of_o the_o righteous_a shall_v be_v upon_o himself_o and_o the_o wickedness_n of_o the_o wicked_a shall_v be_v upon_o himself_o that_o this_o shall_v be_v so_o betwixt_o husband_n and_o wife_n may_v be_v gather_v out_o of_o these_o word_n two_o shall_v 34._o be_v in_o one_o bed_n the_o one_o shall_v be_v take_v the_o other_o leave_v let_v this_o be_v note_v against_o the_o common_a vain_a 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own_o nor_o the_o wife_n say_v the_o like_a of_o husband_n duty_n and_o not_o regard_v she_o own_o this_o be_v it_o that_o make_v the_o subjection_n of_o many_o wife_n very_o harsh_a and_o irksome_a to_o they_o because_o their_o husband_n that_o urge_v and_o press_v they_o thereto_o show_v little_a or_o no_o love_n to_o they_o at_o all_o and_o this_o be_v it_o that_o make_v many_o husband_n very_o backward_o in_o show_v love_n because_o their_o wife_n which_o expect_v much_o love_n show_v little_a or_o no_o reverence_n to_o their_o husband_n wherefore_o let_v every_o one_o of_o you_o in_o particular_a so_o love_v his_o wife_n even_o as_o himself_o and_o the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o reverence_v her_o husband_n §._o 96._o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o first_o verse_n of_o the_o six_o chapter_n from_o those_o particular_a duty_n which_o concern_v husband_n and_o wife_n the_o apostle_n proceed_v to_o lay_v down_o such_o as_o concern_v child_n and_o parent_n as_o before_o he_o lay_v 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matrimonial_a unity_n be_v so_o necessary_a as_o it_o may_v not_o be_v disunited_a or_o dissolve_v though_o one_o be_v a_o christian_n the_o other_o a_o pagan_a if_o any_o brother_n 13._o say_v the_o apostle_n have_v a_o wife_n that_o believe_v not_o let_v he_o not_o put_v she_o away_o and_o the_o woman_n which_o have_v a_o husband_n that_o believe_v not_o let_v she_o not_o leave_v he_o the_o reason_n of_o this_o inviolable_a union_n be_v especial_o two_o one_o take_v from_o the_o author_n of_o marriage_n the_o other_o from_o the_o nature_n thereof_o 1._o the_o author_n of_o marriage_n be_v god_n it_o be_v his_o ordinance_n and_o 24_o he_o it_o be_v that_o by_o his_o ordinance_n have_v make_v of_o two_o one_o flesh_n now_o mark_v the_o consequence_n which_o christ_n as_o a_o rule_a case_n and_o undeniable_a principle_n infer_v thereon_o what_o god_n have_v join_v together_o 6._o let_v no_o man_n put_v asunder_o if_o no_o man_n then_o nor_o wife_n nor_o husband_n himself_o 2._o such_o be_v the_o nature_n of_o the_o matrimonial_a bond_n as_o it_o make_v of_o two_o one_o and_o 80._o more_o firm_o bind_v they_o two_o together_o than_o any_o other_o bond_n can_v bind_v any_o other_o two_o together_o how_o then_o shall_v they_o be_v two_o again_o §._o 3._o of_o desertion_n the_o vice_n contrary_a to_o matrimonial_a unity_n be_v desertion_n when_o one_o of_o the_o marry_a couple_n through_o indignation_n of_o the_o true_a religion_n and_o utter_a detestation_n thereof_o or_o some_o other_o like_o cause_n shall_v apparent_o renounce_v all_o matrimonial_a unity_n and_o withdraw_v he_o or_o herself_o from_o all_o society_n with_o the_o other_o and_o live_v among_o infidel_n idolater_n heretic_n or_o other_o such_o persecutor_n as_o a_o faithful_a christian_a with_o safety_n of_o life_n or_o a_o good_a conscience_n can_v abide_v among_o and_o though_o all_o good_a mean_n that_o can_v be_v think_v of_o be_v use_v to_o reclaim_v the_o party_n so_o depart_v yet_o nothing_o will_v prevail_v but_o obstinate_o persist_v in_o renounce_v all_o matrimonial_a fellowship_n this_o desertion_n be_v in_o the_o case_n of_o marriage_n so_o capital_a as_o it_o 7._o free_v the_o innocent_a party_n from_o any_o further_o seek_v after_o the_o other_o in_o which_o respect_n the_o apostle_n say_v if_o the_o unbelieve_a depart_n let_v he_o depart_v a_o brother_n or_o a_o sister_n be_v not_o under_o bondage_n in_o such_o case_n 1_o cor._n 7._o 15._o by_o bondage_n he_o mean_v matrimonial_a subjection_n by_o reason_n whereof_o neither_o of_o the_o marry_a person_n have_v power_n of_o their_o own_o body_n but_o one_o of_o the_o other_o now_o they_o that_o be_v not_o under_o this_o bondage_n be_v not_o bind_v to_o seek_v after_o it_o that_o desertion_n therefore_o on_o the_o delinquent_n divort_fw-la part_n be_v such_o dissolution_n of_o marriage_n as_o free_v the_o innocent_a party_n from_o the_o bondage_n thereof_o in_o many_o reform_a church_n beyond_o the_o sea_n 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obstinacy_n the_o matter_n be_v hear_v and_o adjudge_v by_o the_o magistrate_n the_o marriage_n bond_n may_v be_v break_v and_o liberty_n give_v to_o the_o party_n forsake_v to_o marry_v another_o but_o because_o our_o church_n have_v no_o such_o custom_n nor_o our_o law_n determine_v such_o case_n i_o leave_v they_o to_o the_o custom_n of_o other_o church_n §._o 4._o of_o matrimonial_a chastity_n the_o second_o necessary_a common-mutuall_a mariage-dutie_n be_v matrimonial_a chastity_n chastity_n in_o a_o large_a extent_n be_v take_v for_o all_o manner_n of_o purity_n in_o soul_n or_o body_n in_o which_o respect_n the_o apostle_n call_v the_o church_n of_o god_n a_o chaste_a virgin_n but_o in_o the_o 2._o sense_n wherein_o we_o here_o use_v it_o it_o especial_o appertain_v to_o the_o body_n which_o be_v that_o virtue_n whereby_o we_o possess_v our_o vessel_n to_o 4._o use_v the_o apostle_n phrase_n in_o holiness_n and_o honour_n or_o more_o plain_o to_o our_o purpose_n whereby_o we_o keep_v our_o body_n undefiled_a chastity_n thus_o restrain_v to_o the_o body_n be_v of_o single_a life_n wedlock_n  _fw-fr that_o of_o single_a life_n be_v oppose_v to_o fornication_n and_o it_o be_v either_o of_o such_o as_o never_o be_v marry_v such_o a_o one_o be_v s._n paul_n in_o which_o respect_n he_o wish_v that_o all_o be_v as_o he_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 7._o or_o of_o such_o as_o be_v lawful_o free_v from_o the_o bond_n of_o marriage_n such_o a_o one_o the_o apostle_n call_v 11._o a_o widow_n indeed_o chastity_n of_o wedlock_n be_v that_o virtue_n whereby_o party_n marry_v observe_v the_o lawful_a and_o honest_a use_n of_o marriage_n keep_v their_o body_n from_o be_v defile_v with_o strange_a flesh_n thus_o the_o apostle_n command_v wife_n to_o be_v chaste_a tit._n 2._o 5._o so_o as_o carm._n they_o that_o keep_v the_o law_n of_o wedlock_n be_v as_o chaste_a as_o they_o that_o contain_v here_o by_o the_o way_n note_v the_o dotage_n of_o our_o adversary_n who_o think_v there_o be_v no_o chastity_n but_o of_o single_a person_n whereupon_o in_o their_o speech_n and_o write_n 9_o they_o oppose_v chastity_n and_o matrimony_n one_o to_o another_o as_o two_o contrary_n some_o of_o their_o holy_a father_n and_o pope_n and_o those_o not_o the_o least_o learned_a nor_o of_o worst_a note_n among_o they_o have_v infer_v by_o their_o argument_n against_o priest_n marriage_n that_o marriage_n be_v a_o live_n in_o the_o flesh_n a_o sow_v to_o the_o flesh_n a_o pollution_n of_o the_o flesh_n to_o that_o 5._o purpose_n s._n paul_n advice_n to_o man_n and_o wife_n to_o abstain_v that_o they_o may_v give_v themselves_o to_o fast_v and_o prayer_n be_v urge_v but_o direct_o contrary_a to_o the_o intent_n of_o the_o apostle_n for_o 1._o he_o speak_v there_o of_o extraordinary_a humiliation_n 2._o he_o interpose_v this_o limitation_n for_o a_o time_n 3._o he_o say_v not_o simple_o that_o you_o may_v pray_v but_o that_o you_o may_v give_v yourselves_o or_o have_v 19_o leisure_n to_o prayer_n as_o if_o it_o do_v only_o hinder_v but_o not_o pollute_v prayer_n but_o how_o can_v the_o forename_a spot_n and_o blot_n of_o marriage_n stand_v with_o that_o beauty_n and_o glory_n wherewith_o the_o apostle_n set_v it_o forth_o in_o these_o word_n marriage_n be_v honourable_a in_o all_o hâ—b_fw-mi 13._o 4._o if_o marriage_n be_v as_o papist_n set_v it_o forth_o to_o be_v the_o marriage-bed_n be_v very_o unfit_o call_v a_o bed_n undefiled_a behold_v how_o contrary_a the_o spirit_n of_o s._n paul_n and_o of_o their_o pope_n be_v i_o wot_v well_o far_o more_o contrary_a than_o chastity_n and_o matrimony_n but_o to_o return_v to_o our_o matter_n clear_v it_o be_v that_o marry_v person_n may_v be_v chaste_a and_o according_o they_o aught_o to_o be_v chaste_a to_o which_o purpose_n the_o apostle_n counsel_v man_n and_o woman_n for_o avoid_v fornication_n to_o have_v wife_n and_o husband_n insert_v this_o particle_n own_o let_v every_o man_n have_v his_o own_o wife_n 〈◊〉_d and_o every_o woman_n have_v she_o own_o husband_n whereby_o he_o imply_v that_o they_o shall_v not_o have_v to_o do_v with_o any_o other_o that_o which_o 11._o solomon_n express_v of_o a_o husband_n by_o the_o rule_n of_o relation_n must_v be_v apply_v to_o a_o wife_n as_o the_o man_n must_v be_v satisfy_v at_o all_o time_n in_o his_o wife_n and_o even_o ravish_v with_o her_o love_n so_o must_v the_o woman_n be_v satisfy_v at_o all_o time_n in_o her_o husband_n and_o even_o ravish_v with_o his_o love_n by_o the_o like_a rule_n the_o precept_n give_v to_o wife_n to_o be_v chaste_a must_v husband_n take_v as_o direct_v to_o themselves_o 5._o also_o and_o be_v chaste_a this_o duty_n do_v isaak_n and_o rebekah_n faithful_o and_o mutual_o perform_v each_o to_o other_o 1._o it_o be_v one_o main_a end_n why_o marriage_n especial_o since_o the_o
unto_o as_o if_o they_o have_v never_o be_v join_v to_o a_o former_a the_o live_a husband_n or_o wife_n be_v the_o present_a pledge_n of_o god_n favour_n he_o be_v now_o thy_o own_o husband_n and_o she_o be_v now_o thy_o own_o wife_n and_o not_o the_o party_n that_o be_v dead_a i_o deny_v not_o but_o the_o memory_n of_o a_o virtuous_a husband_n or_o wife_n ought_v to_o be_v precious_a to_o the_o suruive_a party_n for_o the_o memorial_n of_o the_o just_a be_v bless_v 7._o but_o as_o the_o virtue_n of_o a_o person_n decease_v may_v not_o be_v bury_v with_o the_o dead_a corpse_n so_o neither_o may_v the_o person_n be_v keep_v above_o ground_n with_o the_o memory_n of_o he_o or_o her_o virtue_n which_o after_o a_o sort_n be_v do_v when_o love_n of_o the_o party_n decease_v either_o take_v away_o or_o extenuate_v the_o love_n of_o the_o live_n this_o be_v to_o give_v dominion_n to_o the_o dead_a over_o the_o live_n which_o be_v more_o than_o the_o law_n enjoin_v §._o 11._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a hatred_n contrary_a to_o love_v there_o be_v a_o generation_n of_o so_o crabbed_a and_o crooked_a a_o disposition_n 10._o as_o they_o can_v love_v but_o rather_o hate_v one_o another_o because_o they_o be_v man_n and_o wife_n for_o many_o husband_n have_v wife_n and_o wife_n husband_n every_o way_n worthy_a to_o be_v love_v will_v notwithstanding_o say_v to_o the_o astonishment_n of_o the_o hearer_n i_o have_v indeed_o a_o good_a husband_n or_o i_o have_v a_o good_a wife_n but_o i_o can_v love_v he_o or_o i_o can_v love_v she_o and_o be_v demand_v a_o reason_n stick_v not_o open_o and_o impudent_o to_o reply_v i_o think_v i_o can_v love_v he_o if_o he_o be_v not_o my_o husband_n or_o i_o think_v i_o can_v love_v she_o if_o she_o be_v not_o my_o wife_n o_o more_o than_o monstrous_a impudency_n be_v not_o this_o direct_o to_o oppose_v against_o god_n ordinance_n and_o against_o that_o order_n which_o he_o have_v set_v betwixt_o man_n and_o woman_n be_v it_o not_o to_o trample_v under_o foot_n god_n favour_n though_o there_o be_v nothing_o else_o to_o move_v love_n but_o this_o that_o such_o a_o one_o be_v thy_o husband_n or_o such_o a_o one_o be_v thy_o wife_n yet_o this_o shall_v be_v motive_n enough_o and_o shall_v this_o be_v the_o ground_n of_o thy_o hatred_n assure_o such_o a_o spirit_n be_v a_o plain_a diabolical_a spirit_n contrary_a to_o that_o spirit_n which_o be_v from_o above_o and_o if_o it_o be_v not_o cast_v out_o it_o will_v cast_v those_o who_o it_o possess_v into_o the_o fire_n of_o hell_n §._o 12._o of_o mutual_a peace_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n among_o other_o mean_n of_o maintain_v a_o inward_a love_a affection_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n outward_a mutual_a peace_n concord_n and_o agreement_n be_v one_o of_o the_o principal_a whereupon_o the_o apostle_n exhort_v to_o keep_v the_o unity_n of_o the_o spirit_n in_o the_o bond_n of_o 3._o peace_n for_o peace_n be_v a_o bond_n that_o tie_v one_o to_o another_o and_o make_v they_o to_o be_v as_o one_o even_o one_o in_o spirit_n as_o on_o the_o contrary_a side_n outward_a discord_n disunite_v man_n spirit_n we_o be_v enjoin_v to_o follow_v peace_n with_o all_o man_n how_o much_o more_o of_o all_o person_n ought_v 14._o husband_n to_o have_v peace_n with_o their_o wife_n and_o wife_n with_o their_o husband_n they_o be_v near_o than_o brother_n and_o sister_n behold_v then_o how_o good_a and_o pleasant_a a_o thing_n it_o be_v for_o they_o to_o dwell_v together_o in_o unity_n 9_o dwell_v together_o they_o must_v but_o without_o peace_n there_o be_v no_o dwell_n together_o it_o be_v better_a to_o dwell_v in_o a_o corner_n of_o the_o house_n top_n then_o with_o a_o contentious_a woman_n in_o a_o wide_a house_n person_n at_o variance_n be_v far_o better_o be_v out_o of_o sight_n and_o place_n then_o present_v together_o out_o of_o sight_n and_o place_n man_n and_o wife_n must_v not_o be_v at_o peace_n therefore_o 11._o they_o must_v be_v mutual_a peace_n betwixt_o they_o be_v a_o great_a refresh_n to_o their_o mind_n be_v beat_v with_o the_o discord_n of_o other_o it_o be_v say_v that_o a_o wife_n be_v in_o this_o respect_n as_o a_o haven_n to_o man_n how_o much_o more_o man_n to_o his_o wife_n if_o the_o haven_n be_v calm_a and_o free_a from_o storm_n and_o tempest_n what_o a_o refresh_a will_v it_o be_v to_o the_o mariner_n that_o have_v be_v toss_v in_o the_o sea_n with_o wind_n and_o wave_n for_o maintain_v peace_n 1._o all_o offence_n so_o much_o as_o possible_o may_v be_v must_v be_v avoid_v wife_n the_o husband_n must_v be_v watchful_a over_o himself_o that_o he_o give_v no_o offence_n to_o his_o wife_n and_o so_o the_o wife_n on_o the_o other_o side_n offence_n cause_v contention_n 2._o when_o a_o offence_n be_v give_v by_o the_o one_o party_n it_o must_v offence_n not_o be_v take_v by_o the_o other_o but_o rather_o pass_v by_o and_o then_o will_v not_o peace_n be_v break_v the_o second_o blow_n make_v offence_n the_o fray_n reconciliation_n 3._o if_o both_o be_v incense_v together_o the_o fire_n be_v like_a to_o be_v the_o great_a with_o the_o great_a speed_n therefore_o must_v they_o both_o labour_n to_o put_v it_o out_o wrath_n must_v not_o lie_v in_o bed_n with_o two_o such_o 26._o bedfellow_n neither_o may_v they_o part_v bed_n for_o wrath_n sake_n that_o this_o fire_n may_v be_v the_o soon_o quench_v they_o must_v both_o strive_v first_o to_o offer_v reconciliation_n they_o be_v the_o glory_n who_o do_v first_o begin_v for_o they_o be_v most_o proper_o the_o bless_a peacemaker_n not_o 9_o to_o accept_v peace_n when_o it_o be_v offer_v be_v more_o than_o heathenish_a but_o when_o wrath_n be_v incense_v to_o seek_v atonement_n be_v the_o duty_n of_o a_o christian_a and_o a_o grace_n that_o come_v from_o above_o 4._o child_n servant_n nor_o any_o other_o in_o the_o family_n must_v be_v other_o bolster_v up_o by_o the_o one_o against_o the_o other_o the_o man_n partake_v with_o any_o of_o the_o house_n against_o his_o wife_n or_o the_o wife_n against_o her_o husband_n be_v a_o usual_a cause_n of_o contention_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n 5._o they_o must_v forbear_v to_o twit_v one_o another_o in_o the_o tooth_n comparison_n with_o the_o husband_n or_o wife_n of_o other_o person_n or_o with_o their_o own_o former_a husband_n or_o wife_n in_o case_n they_o have_v have_v any_o before_o comparison_n in_o this_o kind_n be_v very_o odious_a they_o stir_v up_o much_o passion_n and_o cause_v great_a contention_n 6._o above_o all_o they_o must_v take_v heed_n of_o rash_a and_o unjust_a jealousy_n jealous_a which_o be_v the_o bane_n of_o marriage_n and_o great_a cause_n of_o discontent_n that_o can_v be_v give_v betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n jealous_a person_n be_v ready_a to_o pick_v quarrel_n and_o to_o seek_v occasion_n of_o discord_n they_o will_v take_v every_o word_n look_v action_n and_o motion_n in_o the_o worse_a part_n and_o so_o take_v offence_n where_o none_o be_v give_v when_o jealousy_n be_v once_o kindle_v it_o be_v as_o a_o flame_a fire_n that_o can_v hardly_o be_v put_v out_o it_o make_v the_o party_n who_o it_o possess_v implacable_a 35._o 7._o in_o all_o thing_n that_o may_v stand_v with_o a_o good_a conscience_n they_o must_v endeavour_n to_o please_v one_o another_o and_o either_o of_o another_o they_o suffer_v their_o own_o will_n to_o be_v cross_v rather_o than_o discontent_a to_o be_v give_v to_o the_o other_o saint_n paul_n note_v this_o as_o a_o common_a 34._o mutual_a duty_n belong_v to_o they_o both_o and_o express_v their_o care_n thereof_o under_o a_o word_n that_o signify_v more_o than_o ordinary_a 〈◊〉_d care_n and_o imply_v a_o divide_n of_o the_o mind_n into_o diverse_a thought_n cast_v this_o way_n and_o that_o way_n and_o every_o way_n how_o to_o give_v best_a content_n §._o 13._o of_o contention_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n contrary_n to_o mutual_a peace_n be_v contention_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n which_o be_v too_o frequent_a in_o most_o family_n and_o by_o which_o 8._o the_o common_a good_a be_v much_o hinder_v discord_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n in_o a_o house_n be_v as_o contention_n betwixt_o the_o master_n and_o pilot_n in_o a_o ship_n may_v not_o great_a danger_n and_o much_o mischief_n be_v thence_o just_o fear_v we_o hear_v before_o that_o man_n to_o his_o wife_n and_o she_o to_o he_o be_v as_o a_o haven_n now_o by_o experience_n we_o find_v that_o if_o the_o haven_n be_v tempestuous_a it_o be_v much_o more_o troublesome_a and_o dangerous_a to_o the_o mariner_n then_o the_o wide_a sea_n wherefore_o let_v man_n and_o wife_n be_v of_o the_o same_o mind_n one_o to_o another_o as_o abraham_n be_v to_o lot_n and_o when_o
so_o fall_v out_o in_o many_o for_o christ_n have_v express_o foretell_v it_o that_o of_o two_o that_o be_v oneâ—ed_v â—ed_z together_o who_o be_v more_o fit_o set_v forth_o under_o this_o phrase_n then_o man_n and_o wife_n who_o most_o usual_o be_v style_v bedfellow_n â—ne_n shall_v be_v take_v to_o mercy_n and_o glory_n the_o other_o shall_v be_v for_o saken_a or_o leave_v to_o endless_a and_o easeless_a torture_n and_o torment_n but_o though_o it_o be_v foretell_v that_o thus_o it_o shall_v fall_v out_o with_o many_o a_o â—ouple_n yet_o our_o care_n must_v be_v and_o that_o with_o our_o uttermost_a power_n love_n to_o prevent_v it_o as_o in_o ourselves_o so_o in_o our_o bedfellow_n if_o it_o please_v the_o lord_n to_o give_v such_o a_o blessing_n to_o the_o endeavour_n of_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n as_o to_o be_v a_o mean_n of_o the_o conversion_n of_o their_o bedfellow_n then_o will_v the_o party_n convert_v both_o entire_o love_v the_o other_o and_o also_o hearty_o bless_v god_n as_o there_o be_v just_a cause_n that_o ever_o they_o be_v so_o near_o link_v together_o this_o duty_n of_o win_v one_o another_o be_v to_o be_v apply_v to_o such_o as_o be_v marry_v not_o only_o to_o plain_a infidel_n but_o also_o to_o papist_n or_o other_o like_a idolater_n to_o atheist_n or_o any_o other_o profane_a person_n to_o heretic_n separatist_n schismatics_n or_o any_o that_o believe_v not_o aright_o §._o 24._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n edify_v one_o another_o the_o second_o duty_n tend_v to_o the_o soul_n salvation_n be_v that_o two_o believer_n be_v marry_v together_o they_o endeavour_n mutual_o to_o build_v up_o one_o another_o more_o and_o more_o 11_o one_o christian_n owe_v this_o duty_n to_o another_o much_o more_o man_n and_o wife_n 15._o take_v heed_n say_v the_o apostle_n that_o no_o man_n fall_v away_o from_o the_o grace_n of_o god_n if_o no_o man_n then_o nor_o wife_n nor_o husband_n a_o spiritual_a edify_n of_o one_o another_o be_v the_o best_a use_n which_o conjunction_n we_o can_v make_v and_o aught_o to_o make_v of_o those_o 19_o joint_n and_o bond_n whereby_o we_o be_v knit_v one_o to_o another_o by_o virtue_n of_o they_o 16._o the_o body_n namely_o the_o mystical_a body_n of_o christ_n receive_v increase_v to_o the_o edify_n of_o itself_o and_o 19_o increase_v with_o the_o increase_n of_o god_n now_o the_o bond_n of_o marriage_n be_v of_o all_o other_o the_o firm_a and_o that_o whereby_o we_o be_v near_o knit_v together_o by_o virtue_n of_o what_o bond_n shall_v we_o edify_v one_o another_o if_o not_o by_o virtue_n of_o the_o marriage_n bond_n §._o 25._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n hinder_v sin_n one_o in_o another_o two_o thing_n be_v requisite_a unto_o spiritual_a edification_n one_o respect_v the_o hindrance_n of_o growth_n in_o grace_n the_o other_o the_o help_v thereof_o the_o hindrance_n of_o grace_n be_v all_o manner_n of_o sin_n sin_n to_o grace_n be_v as_o water_v to_o fire_n it_o slake_v the_o heat_n of_o it_o and_o if_o without_o ho_o it_o be_v pour_v on_o it_o it_o will_v clean_o put_v it_o out_o in_o regard_n hereof_o there_o ought_v to_o be_v a_o mutual_a care_n in_o husband_n and_o wife_n both_o to_o prevent_v sin_n before_o it_o be_v commit_v and_o also_o to_o make_v what_o redress_n they_o can_v after_o it_o be_v commit_v that_o it_o be_v a_o mutual_a duty_n for_o husband_n and_o wife_n so_o much_o another_o as_o they_o can_v to_o prevent_v sin_n one_o in_o another_o be_v evident_a by_o that_o reason_n which_o the_o apostle_n use_v to_o keep_v they_o from_o defraud_v one_o another_o in_o these_o word_n that_o satan_n tempt_v you_o not_o 5._o for_o out_o of_o the_o scope_n and_o matter_n of_o those_o word_n this_o general_a doctrine_n may_v be_v gather_v husband_n and_o wife_n ought_v to_o be_v careful_a to_o keep_v one_o another_o from_o the_o temptation_n of_o satan_n that_o be_v from_o sin_n whereunto_o all_o his_o temptation_n tend_v etc._n rebekah_n perform_v the_o duty_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n in_o keep_v isaak_n from_o blessing_n esau_n which_o if_o he_o have_v do_v he_o have_v sin_v against_o 23._o god_n express_a word_n though_o she_o fail_v in_o the_o manner_n of_o do_v it_o yet_o her_o end_n be_v good_a as_o that_o love_n they_o owe_v one_o to_o another_o so_o that_o care_n which_o they_o themselves_o ought_v to_o have_v of_o themselves_o require_v as_o much_o for_o sin_n provoke_v god_n wrath_n his_o wrath_n send_v down_o vengeance_n that_o vengeance_n which_o fall_v on_o the_o husband_n can_v hardly_o miss_v the_o wife_n or_o that_o the_o husband_n which_o fall_v on_o the_o wife_n and_o that_o by_o reason_n of_o their_o near_a union_n though_o it_o fall_v not_o on_o both_o their_o pate_n yet_o it_o can_v but_o much_o affect_v and_o even_o afflict_v the_o party_n that_o escape_v the_o wife_n of_o those_o rebel_n who_o be_v 32_o swallow_v up_o quick_a in_o the_o wilderness_n perish_v in_o like_a manner_n with_o their_o husband_n for_o they_o who_o be_v so_o near_o as_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o do_v not_o what_o they_o can_v to_o prevent_v one_o another_o sin_n make_v themselves_o accessary_a thereto_o for_o the_o better_a effect_v of_o this_o duty_n husband_n and_o wife_n sin_n must_v be_v watchful_a over_o one_o another_o and_o observe_v what_o sin_n either_o of_o they_o be_v give_v unto_o or_o what_o occasion_n be_v offer_v to_o draw_v either_o of_o they_o into_o sin_n if_o either_o of_o they_o be_v choleric_a or_o prone_a to_o be_v angry_a on_o a_o sudden_a the_o other_o must_v endeavour_n to_o take_v away_o all_o occasion_n of_o offence_n and_o if_o both_o shall_v be_v testy_a and_o hasty_a to_o wrath_n when_o the_o one_o see_v the_o other_o first_o move_v the_o party_n who_o passion_n be_v not_o yet_o stir_v ought_v the_o rather_o to_o be_v settle_v and_o compose_v to_o all_o meekness_n and_o patience_n lest_o if_o both_o together_o be_v provoke_v the_o whole_a household_n be_v set_v on_o fire_n if_o either_o of_o they_o be_v give_v to_o drunkenness_n covetousness_n or_o any_o other_o sin_n the_o other_o aught_o by_o wise_a and_o gentle_a persuasion_n to_o keep_v they_o as_o much_o as_o they_o can_v from_o those_o sin_n yea_o they_o may_v also_o get_v other_o that_o be_v discreet_a and_o able_a to_o dissuade_v they_o or_o use_v what_o other_o good_a mean_n they_o can_v to_o that_o purpose_n §._o 26._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n redress_v sin_n in_o one_o another_o when_o either_o husband_n or_o wife_n be_v fall_v into_o any_o sin_n a_o mutual_a duty_n it_o be_v for_o the_o other_o to_o use_v what_o redress_n may_v be_v of_o that_o sin_n as_o if_o one_o of_o they_o be_v wound_v the_o other_o must_v take_v care_n for_o the_o heal_n of_o that_o wound_n abigail_n perform_v 25._o her_o duty_n in_o this_o kind_n when_o after_o she_o have_v hear_v what_o churlish_a entertainment_n her_o husband_n give_v to_o david_n servant_n she_o hasten_v to_o carry_v store_n of_o provision_n to_o david_n and_o humble_v herself_o before_o he_o and_o so_o move_v david_n to_o assuage_v his_o wrath_n yea_o she_o take_v a_o seasonable_a time_n also_o to_o tell_v her_o husband_n his_o fault_n and_o the_o danger_n whereinto_o he_o bring_v himself_o thereby_o more_o direct_o and_o with_o better_a success_n do_v jaakob_n redress_v the_o superstition_n or_o rather_o idolatry_n of_o his_o wife_n rachel_n as_o may_v be_v gather_v by_o compare_v gen._n 31._o 19_o 34_o gen._n 35._o 2_o 4._o  _fw-fr a_o brother_n at_o large_a must_v not_o suffer_v sin_n to_o lie_v on_o his_o brother_n 17._o much_o less_o may_v husband_n or_o wife_n the_o one_o upon_o the_o other_o thou_o shall_v not_o hate_v thy_o brother_n say_v the_o law_n and_o suffer_v any_o sin_n to_o lie_v on_o he_o to_o do_v this_o then_o be_v a_o token_n and_o fruit_n of_o hatred_n if_o a_o husband_n shall_v see_v his_o wife_n or_o a_o wife_n her_o husband_n lie_v in_o the_o fire_n or_o water_n ready_a to_o be_v burn_v or_o drown_v and_o not_o afford_v their_o best_a help_n to_o pull_v they_o out_o may_v they_o not_o just_o be_v think_v to_o hate_v they_o but_o sin_n be_v as_o fire_n and_o water_n which_o will_v burn_v and_o drown_v man_n in_o perdition_n this_o duty_n may_v be_v perform_v by_o meek_a instruction_n pithy_a persuasion_n gentle_a reproof_n yea_o and_o by_o the_o help_n of_o some_o 16._o good_a minister_n or_o other_o discreet_a and_o faithful_a friend_n §._o 27._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n help_v forward_o the_o growth_n of_o grace_n in_o each_o other_o hitherto_o of_o prevent_v and_o redress_v hindrance_n of_o grace_n hereunto_o must_v be_v add_v a_o help_a forward_o of_o the_o growth_n thereof_o which_o man_n and_o wife_n must_v mutual_o endeavour_n to_o effect_v
and_o wife_n may_v be_v the_o more_o spare_v in_o censure_v one_o another_o they_o must_v not_o rash_o believe_v any_o evil_a report_n of_o one_o another_o but_o rather_o suppress_v all_o light_a suspicion_n as_o much_o as_o they_o can_v that_o the_o judgement_n which_o they_o give_v one_o of_o another_o may_v be_v charitable_a in_o judge_v they_o must_v well_o observe_v the_o property_n of_o love_n which_o be_v 1._o to_o interpret_v doubtful_a thing_n in_o the_o better_a part_n 2._o to_o mitigate_v so_o far_o as_o truth_n and_o justice_n will_v suffer_v the_o fault_n which_o be_v evident_a michal_n offend_v against_o 20._o the_o first_o in_o a_o high_a degree_n and_o be_v curse_v abigail_n observe_v 25._o the_o latter_a and_o be_v bless_v §._o 33._o of_o the_o wisdom_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o redress_v one_o another_o ill_a name_n to_o redress_v a_o ill_a name_n husband_n and_o wife_n must_v first_o give_v one_o another_o notice_n of_o the_o report_n that_o go_v of_o they_o and_o endeavour_n name_n to_o work_v in_o they_o both_o a_o sight_n and_o also_o a_o sense_n of_o those_o evil_n which_o be_v in_o the_o mouth_n of_o other_o after_o notice_n give_v they_o must_v labour_v to_o bring_v they_o to_o repentance_n of_o those_o sin_n for_o which_o they_o be_v ill_o report_v of_o and_o to_o a_o manifestation_n of_o repentance_n by_o do_v thing_n meet_v for_o repentance_n which_o be_v by_o a_o zealous_a and_o conscionable_a practice_n of_o such_o vettue_n as_o be_v clean_o contrary_a to_o the_o vice_n for_o which_o they_o be_v evil_o speak_v of_o it_o may_v with_o good_a probability_n be_v gather_v out_o of_o the_o history_n of_o the_o levite_n who_o wife_n play_v the_o whore_n that_o thus_o he_o etc._n deal_v with_o she_o and_o thus_o abigail_n endeavour_v to_o deal_v with_o her_o husband_n 37._o §._o 34._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n care_v in_o procure_v one_o another_o good_a name_n to_o procure_v a_o good_a report_n husband_n and_o wife_n must_v report_n first_o take_v notice_n of_o the_o good_a quality_n which_o be_v in_o one_o another_o and_o as_o one_o have_v occasion_n to_o speak_v of_o the_o other_o to_o make_v those_o good_a quality_n the_o subject_n of_o their_o speech_n as_o we_o 29._o hear_v it_o before_o commend_v in_o the_o husband_n of_o that_o wife_n which_o be_v describe_v by_o solomon_n second_o they_o must_v lend_v a_o willing_a and_o joyful_a ear_n to_o such_o as_o shall_v so_o far_o as_o they_o can_v conceive_v true_o and_o unfeigned_o without_o flattery_n or_o hypocrisy_n speak_v any_o thing_n in_o commendation_n of_o the_o one_o or_o of_o the_o other_o not_o think_v themselves_o dispraise_v which_o be_v the_o conceit_n of_o many_o when_o their_o bedfellow_n be_v praise_v but_o rather_o have_v their_o heart_n the_o more_o enlarge_v to_o praise_n god_n for_o bestow_v on_o they_o such_o a_o excellent_a token_n and_o pledge_n of_o his_o favour_n three_o they_o must_v imitate_v those_o good_a thing_n which_o they_o behold_v or_o hear_v to_o be_v in_o one_o another_o and_o so_o imitate_v they_o as_o they_o which_o have_v before_o time_n know_v both_o husband_n and_o wife_n may_v say_v this_o she_o learn_v of_o he_o or_o this_o he_o learn_v of_o she_o §._o 35._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n wisdom_n in_o preserve_v each_o other_o good_a name_n to_o preserve_v a_o good_a name_n it_o will_v be_v meet_a for_o a_o husband_n or_o name_n wife_n wise_o and_o seasonable_o to_o give_v one_o another_o notice_n of_o that_o good_a fame_n which_o be_v raise_v of_o they_o thereby_o to_o provoke_v they_o both_o to_o give_v glory_n to_o god_n for_o the_o same_o 4._o as_o the_o apostle_n thank_v god_n for_o that_o report_n which_o be_v spread_v abroad_o of_o the_o faith_n and_o love_n of_o the_o colossian_n and_o also_o to_o walk_v worthy_a of_o that_o good_a report_n as_o the_o apostle_n who_o have_v give_v a_o great_a testimony_n of_o the_o bounty_n of_o the_o corinthian_n earnest_o exhort_v they_o to_o finish_v their_o benevolence_n lest_o say_v he_o i_o shall_v be_v ashamed_a in_o 4._o this_o my_o constant_a boast_n for_o if_o they_o of_o who_o there_o be_v once_o a_o good_a report_n raise_v decay_n wax_v cold_a grow_v backward_o or_o fall_v into_o notorious_a and_o scandalous_a sin_n they_o will_v clean_o extinguish_v and_o put_v out_o their_o good_a name_n among_o man_n and_o turn_v it_o into_o a_o evil_a report_n according_a to_o that_o which_o solomon_n say_v dead_a fly_n cause_v the_o ointment_n of_o the_o apothecary_n to_o sendforth_o a_o 1._o stink_a savour_n so_o do_v a_o little_a folly_n he_o that_o be_v in_o reputation_n for_o wisdom_n and_o honour_n name_n §._o 36._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n like_o affection_n towards_o one_o another_o credit_n in_o the_o last_o place_n to_o manifest_v a_o mutual_a provident_a care_n of_o one_o another_o good_a name_n husband_n and_o wife_n must_v be_v so_o affect_v with_o the_o report_n that_o go_v of_o either_o of_o they_o as_o if_o the_o report_n be_v of_o their_o own_o self_n if_o the_o report_n be_v good_a to_o be_v glad_a thereof_o and_o to_o rejoice_v thereat_o if_o it_o be_v evil_a to_o be_v grieve_v and_o after_o a_o holy_a manner_n vex_v at_o it_o thus_o shall_v they_o show_v a_o true_a sympathy_n and_o fellow_n feel_v of_o one_o another_o credit_n according_a to_o that_o general_a rule_n of_o the_o apostle_n 15._o rejoice_v with_o they_o that_o rejoice_v and_o weep_v with_o they_o that_o weep_v §._o 37._o of_o the_o vice_n contrary_a to_o that_o mutuallcare_n which_o man_n and_o wife_n shall_v have_v of_o one_o another_o credit_n vice_n contrary_a to_o these_o duty_n concern_v the_o good_a name_n of_o vice_n a_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v in_o general_n two_o one_o be_v a_o readiness_n to_o disgrace_n and_o discredit_v one_o another_o that_o like_o michal_n the_o wife_n of_o david_n of_o who_o we_o hear_v before_o a_o hateful_a and_o detestable_a vice_n this_o be_v which_o can_v stand_v with_o 20._o true_a 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meet_v with_o their_o boon_n companion_n make_v their_o wife_n the_o common_a subject_n of_o all_o their_o talk_n one_o accuse_v his_o wife_n of_o one_o vice_n another_o he_o of_o another_o there_o be_v two_o respect_n for_o which_o this_o vice_n most_o detestable_a in_o itself_o be_v make_v more_o odious_a in_o a_o husband_n or_o a_o wife_n 1._o because_o they_o know_v more_o than_o any_o other_o of_o one_o another_o infirmity_n so_o as_o if_o they_o be_v so_o evil_o mind_v they_o may_v much_o more_o discredit_v one_o another_o than_o any_o other_o can_v 2._o because_o in_o regard_n of_o their_o near_a union_n they_o be_v most_o bind_v to_o conceal_v and_o cover_v each_o other_o imperfection_n 25._o cam_n be_v curse_v for_o reveal_v his_o father_n nakedness_n but_o a_o more_o horrible_a curse_n do_v husband_n and_o wife_n deserve_v that_o so_o do_v 2._o by_o open_v their_o ear_n and_o give_v credit_n to_o every_o light_a report_n report_n that_o any_o shall_v raise_v more_o secret_a 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licence_n must_v be_v give_v §._o 19_o of_o husband_n too_o much_o strictness_n towards_o their_o wife_n contrary_n be_v the_o rigour_n and_o austerity_n of_o many_o husband_n who_o stand_v upon_o the_o uttermost_a step_n of_o their_o authority_n and_o yield_v no_o more_o to_o a_o wife_n then_o to_o any_o other_o inferior_a such_o be_v they_o 1._o who_o be_v never_o content_v or_o satisfy_v with_o any_o duty_n the_o strictness_n wife_n perform_v but_o ever_o be_v exact_v more_o and_o more_o 2._o who_o care_v not_o how_o grievous_a and_o burdensome_a they_o be_v to_o their_o wife_n grievous_a by_o bring_v such_o guest_n into_o the_o house_n as_o they_o know_v can_v be_v welcome_a to_o they_o burdensome_a by_o tu_fw-la frequent_a and_o unseasonable_a invite_v of_o guest_n or_o impose_v other_o like_a extraordinary_a business_n over_o and_o above_o the_o ordinary_a affair_n of_o the_o house_n too_o frequent_a impose_v of_o such_o thing_n can_v but_o breed_v much_o wearisomeness_n unseasonable_a as_o when_o the_o wife_n be_v weak_a by_o sickness_n child-bearing_a give_v suck_n or_o other_o like_o mean_n and_o so_o not_o able_a to_o give_v that_o contentment_n which_o otherwise_o she_o will_v can_v but_o much_o disquiet_v she_o and_o give_v her_o great_a offence_n 3._o who_o hold_v their_o wife_n under_o as_o if_o they_o be_v child_n or_o servant_n restrain_v they_o from_o do_v any_o thing_n without_o their_o knowledge_n and_o particular_a express_a consent_n 4._o who_o be_v over_o busy_a in_o pry_v into_o every_o business_n of_o the_o house_n and_o will_v have_v their_o hand_n in_o all_o beside_o that_o such_o husband_n afford_v no_o opportunity_n to_o their_o wife_n of_o give_v proof_n of_o that_o understanding_n wit_n wisdom_n care_n and_o other_o gift_n which_o god_n have_v endow_v they_o withal_o they_o take_v away_o that_o main_a
end_n for_o which_o a_o wife_n be_v give_v a_o man_n namely_o to_o be_v aâ—_n help_v such_o husband_n can_v but_o neglect_v other_o more_o weighty_a 18._o matter_n which_o more_o proper_o belong_v unto_o they_o for_o observe_v it_o and_o you_o shall_v find_v that_o such_o husband_n as_o be_v most_o busy_a about_o the_o private_a affair_n of_o the_o house_n appertain_v to_o their_o wife_n be_v most_o negligent_a of_o such_o affair_n as_o appertain_v unto_o themselves_o they_o think_v they_o walk_v in_o integrity_n but_o yet_o be_v they_o not_o just_a nor_o wise_a therein_o for_o the_o just_a man_n walk_v in_o his_o integrity_n 8._o and_o the_o wisdom_n of_o the_o prudent_a be_v to_o understand_v his_o way_n i_o that_o integrity_n which_o appertain_v to_o his_o own_o peculiar_a place_n and_o his_o own_o way_n but_o every_o fool_n will_v be_v meddle_v namely_o with_o thing_n not_o belong_v to_o his_o place_n 3._o 5._o who_o be_v over_o suspicious_a of_o their_o wife_n and_o thereupon_o over_o strict_a in_o take_v account_n of_o they_o s._n paul_n call_v surmize_n 4._o evil_a and_o that_o not_o without_o just_a cause_n for_o evil_a they_o be_v in_o their_o nature_n and_o evil_a in_o their_o effect_n be_v occasion_n of_o many_o mischief_n but_o in_o none_o so_o evil_a as_o in_o husband_n over_o their_o wife_n if_o a_o wife_n fidelity_n to_o who_o good_a the_o welfare_n of_o the_o family_n and_o increase_v of_o the_o stock_n redound_v as_o well_o as_o to_o the_o husband_n be_v without_o just_a cause_n suspect_v who_o shall_v be_v trust_v it_o be_v the_o overthrow_n of_o many_o family_n that_o servant_n be_v trust_v and_o not_o wife_n thus_o far_o of_o a_o husband_n kind_a acceptance_n of_o that_o which_o his_o wife_n be_v willing_a and_o able_a to_o do_v §._o 20._o of_o husband_n encourage_v their_o wife_n in_o good_a thing_n the_o love_n which_o a_o husband_n owe_v to_o his_o wife_n further_o require_v wife_n that_o he_o wise_o commend_v and_o reward_v what_o she_o have_v well_o â—one_n that_o which_o the_o apostle_n faith_n of_o the_o magistrate_n authority_n may_v fit_o be_v apply_v to_o a_o husband_n in_o relation_n to_o his_o wife_n do_v that_o which_o be_v good_a and_o thou_o shall_v have_v praise_n of_o the_o same_o it_o be_v express_o note_v in_o the_o description_n of_o a_o good_a husband_n 3._o â—hat_n he_o praise_v his_o wife_n and_o in_o that_o he_o say_v 31._o give_v she_o of_o the_o 29._o â—uit_n of_o her_o hand_n it_o be_v imply_v also_o that_o he_o reward_v she_o this_o be_v a_o undoubted_a evidence_n of_o his_o good_a acceptance_n of_o â—er_n duty_n and_o a_o further_a encouragement_n to_o stir_v she_o up_o to_o go_v on_o and_o continue_v in_o well_o do_v yea_o this_o be_v also_o a_o evidence_n of_o he_o by_o and_o delight_n both_o in_o her_o person_n and_o also_o in_o she_o well_o do_v 〈◊〉_d there_o be_v no_o delight_n in_o one_o person_n well_o do_v will_v rather_o stir_v up_o envy_v then_o joy_n and_o they_o that_o envy_v a_o man_n well_o do_v will_v never_o commend_v or_o reward_v he_o for_o it_o in_o a_o husband_n commend_v of_o his_o wife_n this_o caveat_n must_v be_v put_v that_o he_o so_o order_v his_o commendation_n as_o it_o savour_v not_o of_o flattery_n or_o dotage_n nor_o yet_o laudare_fw-la stir_v up_o lust_n or_o envy_n in_o other_o §._o 21._o of_o husband_n ungrateful_a discourage_v their_o wife_n contrary_n be_v a_o ungrateful_a if_o not_o envious_a disposition_n of_o such_o 2._o husband_n as_o pass_v by_o many_o good_a thing_n ordinary_o and_o usual_o every_o day_n do_v by_o their_o wife_n without_o any_o approbation_n commendation_n or_o remuneration_n be_v ready_a to_o dispraise_v the_o least_o slip_n or_o neglect_v in_o they_o and_o that_o in_o such_o general_a term_n as_o if_o they_o never_o do_v any_o thing_n well_o so_o as_o their_o wife_n may_v well_o complain_v and_o say_v as_o it_o be_v in_o the_o proverb_n oft_o do_v i_o well_o and_o that_o hear_v i_o never_o once_o do_v i_o ill_a and_o that_o hear_v i_o ever_o yet_o such_o will_v be_v ready_a to_o praise_v other_o man_n wife_n and_o up_o braid_v their_o own_o wife_n with_o the_o example_n of_o those_o other_o when_o their_o own_o do_v far_o excel_v they_o in_o all_o kind_n of_o goodness_n what_o do_v this_o show_n but_o that_o either_o they_o take_v no_o notice_n of_o their_o own_o wife_n goodness_n or_o else_o by_o reason_n of_o the_o commonness_n thereof_o little_a regard_n it_o if_o their_o wife_n have_v not_o the_o more_o grace_n in_o they_o this_o disposition_n be_v enough_o not_o only_o to_o discourage_v they_o from_o do_v any_o good_a duty_n but_o also_o to_o breed_v jealousy_n in_o they_o and_o to_o alienate_v their_o heart_n from_o they_o §._o 22._o of_o a_o husband_n 10._o mildness_n hitherto_o of_o that_o respect_n which_o a_o husband_n be_v to_o have_v of_o that_o duty_n which_o his_o wife_n perform_v to_o he_o for_o avoid_v just_a offence_n a_o husband_n must_v further_o have_v good_a respect_n to_o that_o which_o as_o duty_n he_o do_v to_o his_o wife_n as_o kind_o he_o must_v accept_v duty_n at_o his_o wife_n hand_n so_o mild_o he_o must_v perform_v that_o connub_fw-la duty_n which_o he_o owe_v to_o she_o this_o mildness_n be_v a_o especial_a fruit_n and_o evidence_n of_o love_n and_o a_o notable_a mean_n to_o take_v away_o all_o offence_n that_o otherwise_o may_v be_v take_v from_o many_o thing_n which_o he_o do_v sugar_n and_o hony_n be_v not_o more_o pleasant_a to_o the_o tongue_n than_o mildness_n to_o the_o heart_n it_o cause_v such_o thing_n as_o otherwise_o be_v irksome_a and_o grievous_a to_o the_o soul_n to_o be_v well_o take_v and_o apply_v even_o as_o bitter_a pill_v dip_v in_o sweet_a syrup_n or_o roll_v up_o in_o the_o soft_a pap_n of_o a_o apple_n be_v soon_o swallow_v down_o and_o well_o digest_v if_o a_o husband_n desire_v to_o be_v account_v a_o servant_n of_o the_o lord_n he_o must_v learn_v this_o lesson_n for_o the_o servant_n of_o the_o lord_n must_v be_v gentle_a to_o all_o man_n if_o any_o other_o servant_n of_o the_o lord_n much_o more_o husband_n 24._o if_o to_o all_o man_n most_o of_o all_o to_o their_o wife_n and_o that_o in_o many_o respect_n 1._o because_o of_o the_o near_a union_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n 2._o because_o of_o the_o joint_a authority_n she_o have_v with_o he_o over_o other_o that_o herein_o he_o may_v be_v a_o precedent_n and_o example_n to_o she_o 3._o because_o of_o her_o weakness_n glass_n be_v tender_o handle_v a_o small_a knock_n soon_o break_v they_o §._o 23._o of_o husband_n bitterness_n contrary_n be_v bitterness_n a_o vice_n express_o forbid_v and_o that_o in_o particular_a to_o husband_n a_o vice_n that_o can_v stand_v with_o a_o husband-like_a love_n whereupon_o the_o apostle_n command_v the_o one_o forbid_v the_o other_o love_n say_v he_o and_o be_v not_o bitter_a nothing_o 19_o more_o turn_v the_o edge_n of_o his_o authority_n pervert_v the_o use_n of_o his_o government_n provoke_v the_o stomach_n of_o his_o wife_n make_v his_o word_n and_o deed_n less_o regard_v than_o bitterness_n it_o be_v as_o gall_v and_o wormwood_n mix_v with_o sweet_a and_o wholesome_a meat_n which_o cause_v that_o they_o can_v be_v well_o digest_v but_o with_o violence_n be_v spit_v out_o again_o so_o soon_o as_o ever_o they_o be_v taste_v man_n in_o authority_n be_v much_o prone_a hereunto_o and_o therefore_o o_o husband_n be_v so_o much_o the_o more_o watchful_a against_o it_o love_v your_o wife_n and_o be_v not_o bitter_a unto_o they_o §._o 24._o of_o the_o manifest_v title_n which_o a_o husband_n give_v to_o his_o wife_n the_o forename_a mildness_n of_o a_o husband_n must_v be_v manifest_v in_o his_o speech_n carriage_n  _fw-fr for_n so_o far_o as_o reverence_n extend_v itself_o in_o the_o duty_n of_o wife_n must_v mildness_n be_v extend_v in_o the_o duty_n of_o husband_n whether_o a_o husband_n speech_n be_v to_o his_o wife_n before_o her_o face_n or_o of_o she_o mildness_n behind_o her_o back_n it_o must_v be_v sweeten_v with_o mildness_n 1._o for_o his_o speech_n to_o she_o 1._o the_o title_n wherewith_o he_o call_v she_o 2._o the_o instruction_n which_o he_o give_v she_o 3._o the_o commandment_n which_o he_o lay_v upon_o she_o 4._o the_o reproof_n wherewith_o he_o check_v she_o must_v all_o be_v mix_v with_o mildness_n among_o other_o title_n the_o most_o ordinary_a and_o usual_a title_n wife_n title_n be_v a_o mild_a and_o kind_a title_n and_o least_o offensive_a of_o all_o other_o if_o a_o husband_n give_v any_o other_o title_n to_o his_o wife_n it_o must_v be_v such_o a_o one_o as_o manifest_v kindness_n familiarity_n love_n and_o delight_n such_o be_v all_o the_o title_n which_o christ_n give_v
to_o the_o church_n as_o spouse_n love_n dove_n with_o the_o like_a i_o do_v not_o deny_v but_o that_o in_o the_o song_n of_o solomon_n and_o in_o other_o place_n of_o scripture_n many_o title_n be_v give_v and_o speech_n use_v by_o christ_n to_o the_o church_n which_o be_v not_o meet_v to_o be_v use_v by_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n because_o they_o be_v metaphorical_a and_o hyperbolical_a but_o yet_o in_o they_o all_o we_o may_v observe_v token_n of_o amiableness_n kindness_n and_o mildness_n which_o be_v the_o end_n for_o which_o i_o have_v allege_v his_o example_n but_o contrary_a be_v such_o title_n as_o on_o the_o one_o side_n set_v the_o wife_n title_n in_o too_o high_a a_o place_n over_o her_o husband_n as_o lady_n mistress_n dame_n mother_n etc._n etc._n and_o on_o the_o other_o side_n set_v she_o in_o too_o mean_v a_o rank_n as_o woman_n wench_n etc._n etc._n and_o their_o christian_a name_n contract_v as_o sal_fw-la malipiero_n bess_n nan._n etc._n etc._n and_o name_n of_o kindred_n as_o sister_n and_o cousin_n and_o opprobrious_a name_n as_o stut_v drab_n queant_fw-la and_o name_n more_o befit_v beast_n than_o wife_n as_o cole_n browne_n muggle_n etc._n etc._n object_n these_o be_v title_n of_o mildness_n kindness_n and_o much_o familiarity_n for_o husband_n call_v their_o wife_n by_o these_o name_n not_o when_o they_o be_v angry_a with_o they_o and_o displease_v but_o ordinary_o and_o usual_o even_o when_o they_o be_v best_a please_v answ_n the_o mildness_n and_o familiarity_n which_o be_v require_v of_o a_o husband_n must_v be_v such_o as_o may_v stand_v with_o his_o authority_n and_o place_n of_o eminency_n as_o some_o of_o those_o name_n do_v not_o and_o with_o that_o near_a conjunction_n which_o be_v betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n about_o all_o other_o as_o other_o do_v not_o and_o with_o christian_a gravity_n and_o discretion_n as_o other_o do_v not_o christian_n therefore_o must_v take_v heed_n that_o by_o their_o practice_n they_o justify_v not_o corrupt_a custom_n §._o 25._o of_o a_o husband_n manner_n of_o instruct_v his_o wife_n 2._o to_o instruction_n the_o apostle_n express_o annex_v meekness_n meekness_n instruct_v say_v he_o with_o meekness_n those_o that_o oppose_v themselves_o if_o minister_n must_v use_v meekness_n when_o they_o instruct_v their_o people_n much_o more_o husband_n when_o they_o instruct_v their_o wife_n if_o 〈◊〉_d in_o case_n of_o opposition_n meekness_n must_v not_o be_v lay_v aside_o then_o in_o no_o case_n at_o no_o time_n in_o this_o case_n to_o manifest_a meekness_n let_v these_o rule_n be_v observe_v meekness_n 1._o note_v the_o understanding_n and_o capacity_n of_o thy_o wife_n and_o according_o fit_a thy_o instruction_n if_o she_o be_v of_o mean_a capacity_n give_v precept_n upon_o precept_n line_n upon_o line_n here_o a_o little_a and_o there_o a_o little_a a_o little_a at_o once_o oft_o give_v namely_o every_o day_n something_a will_v arise_v in_o time_n to_o a_o great_a measure_n and_o so_o arise_v as_o together_o with_o knowledge_n of_o the_o thing_n teach_v love_v of_o the_o person_n that_o teach_v will_v increase_v 2._o instruct_v she_o in_o private_a betwixt_o thyself_o and_o she_o that_o so_o her_o ignorance_n may_v not_o be_v blaze_v forth_o private_a action_n pass_v betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v token_n of_o much_o kindness_n and_o familiarity_n 3._o in_o the_o family_n so_o instruct_v child_n and_o servant_n when_o she_o be_v present_a as_o she_o may_v learn_v knowledge_n thereby_o there_o can_v be_v no_o more_o meek_a and_o gentle_a manner_n of_o instruct_v then_o by_o one_o to_o instruct_v another_o 4._o together_o with_o thy_o precept_n mix_v sweet_a and_o pithy_a persuasion_n harshness_n which_o be_v testimony_n of_o great_a love_n contrary_n be_v a_o harsh_a and_o rough_a manner_n of_o instruct_v when_o husband_n go_v about_o to_o thrust_v into_o their_o wife_n head_n as_o it_o be_v by_o violence_n deep_a mystery_n which_o they_o be_v not_o able_a to_o conceive_v and_o yet_o if_o they_o conceive_v not_o they_o will_v be_v angry_a with_o they_o and_o in_o anger_n give_v they_o evil_a language_n and_o proclaim_v their_o ignorance_n before_o child_n servant_n and_o stranger_n this_o harshness_n be_v ordinary_o so_o fruitless_a and_o withal_o so_o exasperate_v a_o woman_n spirit_n as_o i_o think_v he_o be_v better_a clean_o omit_v the_o duty_n then_o do_v it_o after_o such_o a_o manner_n §._o 26._o of_o a_o husband_n manner_n of_o mildness_n command_v his_o wife_n any_o thing_n 3._o the_o commandment_n which_o a_o husband_n give_v to_o his_o wife_n whether_o they_o be_v affirmative_a bid_v she_o to_o do_v something_o or_o negative_a forbid_v she_o to_o do_v this_o or_o that_o must_v all_o be_v season_v with_o mildness_n for_o which_o end_n respect_n must_v be_v have_v to_o the_o matter_n and_o manner_n of_o his_o commandment_n in_o regard_n of_o the_o matter_n the_o thing_n which_o he_o command_v wife_n his_o wife_n to_o do_v must_v be_v 1._o such_o as_o be_v indeed_o lawful_a and_o honest_a 2._o such_o as_o she_o be_v persuade_v to_o be_v so_o 3._o such_o as_o beseem_v her_o place_n 4._o such_o as_o be_v of_o weight_n and_o moment_n and_o on_o the_o contrary_a the_o thing_n which_o he_o forbid_v must_v be_v 1._o such_o as_o be_v indeed_o unlawful_a to_o be_v do_v wife_n 2._o such_o as_o he_o can_v evident_o prove_v unto_o she_o to_o be_v unlawful_a 3._o such_o as_o be_v unbeseeming_a her_o place_n 4._o such_o as_o will_v have_v some_o evil_a and_o mischievous_a effect_n if_o they_o be_v do_v 1._o to_o command_v a_o thing_n unlawful_a or_o forbid_v a_o thing_n which_o ought_v to_o be_v do_v be_v to_o bring_v his_o own_o authority_n into_o opposition_n with_o god_n in_o which_o case_n he_o bring_v his_o wife_n into_o this_o strait_a either_o to_o reject_v god_n commandment_n or_o he_o how_o then_o can_v she_o think_v that_o her_o husband_n love_v she_o when_o he_o bring_v she_o into_o such_o snare_n and_o strait_n that_o she_o must_v needs_o fall_v into_o the_o gulf_n of_o god_n displeasure_n or_o knock_v against_o the_o rock_n of_o her_o husband_n offence_n mildness_n be_v far_o from_o such_o commandment_n 2._o the_o like_a may_v be_v say_v of_o such_o thing_n as_o to_o a_o wife_n conscience_n she_o seem_v to_o be_v sinful_a if_o they_o be_v enjoin_v to_o she_o or_o her_o bind_a duty_n if_o they_o be_v forbid_v especial_o if_o she_o have_v any_o ground_n for_o her_o conscience_n out_o of_o god_n word_n the_o conscience_n be_v subject_a to_o god_n alone_o if_o it_o be_v force_v it_o will_v be_v a_o fearful_a horror_n and_o a_o very_a hell_n in_o that_o party_n who_o conscience_n be_v force_v she_o that_o doubt_v be_v condemn_v if_o she_o do_v that_o whereof_o 23._o she_o make_v doubt_n 1._o object_n in_o doubtful_a matter_n the_o command_a power_n warrant_n of_o a_o governor_n be_v sufficient_a warrant_n and_o ground_n to_o resolve_v the_o conscience_n of_o they_o that_o be_v under_o authority_n answ_n 1._o in_o thing_n mere_o doubtful_a concern_v which_o the_o party_n in_o subjection_n have_v not_o warrant_v out_o of_o god_n word_n one_o way_n or_o other_o it_o may_v be_v so_o but_o when_o the_o conscience_n do_v not_o doubt_n and_o hang_v in_o suspense_n but_o be_v out_o of_o some_o ground_n take_v from_o god_n word_n persuade_v that_o that_o which_o be_v command_v be_v unlawful_a or_o that_o which_o be_v forbid_v be_v a_o bind_a duty_n then_o to_o do_v this_o or_o to_o leave_v that_o undo_v be_v to_o the_o party_n so_o persuade_v a_o sin_n and_o this_o be_v the_o doubt_v whereof_o the_o apostle_n speak_v that_o condemn_v a_o man_n in_o this_o case_n to_o urge_v a_o wife_n to_o do_v this_o or_o not_o to_o do_v that_o be_v to_o urge_v she_o to_o sin_n which_o a_o mild_a spirit_n and_o love_a heart_n will_v not_o do_v 2._o though_o the_o husband_n command_v be_v sufficient_a warrant_n to_o the_o wife_n and_o if_o he_o peremptory_o press_v she_o to_o this_o or_o that_o she_o ought_v to_o yield_v yet_o the_o love_n and_o mildness_n require_v of_o a_o husband_n shall_v make_v he_o so_o to_o tender_v she_o as_o to_o remit_v something_o of_o his_o power_n and_o when_o he_o see_v her_o conscience_n trouble_v about_o his_o command_n to_o relieve_v her_o conscience_n by_o for_o bear_v to_o press_v that_o which_o seem_v so_o burdensome_a to_o she_o a_o husband_n may_v sin_v in_o press_v that_o too_o much_o upon_o his_o wife_n which_o she_o upon_o his_o press_n may_v without_o sin_n yield_v unto_o §._o 27._o of_o a_o husband_n 66._o wise_a carriage_n when_o his_o wife_n be_v erroneeus_o scrupulous_a 2._o object_n what_o if_o a_o husband_n upon_o his_o knowledge_n observe_v his_o wife_n to_o be_v erroneous_o scrupulous_a and_o to_o misinterpret_v and_o misapply_v the_o word_n of_o
god_n which_o she_o make_v the_o ground_n of_o her_o scruple_n answ_n he_o must_v first_o labour_n to_o resolve_v her_o conscience_n by_o a_o plain_a discovery_n of_o her_o error_n which_o be_v a_o true_a and_o a_o great_a token_n of_o love_n if_o notwithstanding_o all_o that_o he_o can_v do_v in_o that_o kind_n she_o can_v be_v bring_v to_o yield_v to_o that_o which_o he_o will_v have_v than_o he_o must_v careful_o observe_v these_o two_o thing_n 1._o whether_o her_o refuse_v to_o yield_v be_v a_o obstinacy_n or_o weakness_n 2._o whether_o it_o be_v about_o a_o sleight_n or_o weighty_a matter_n by_o the_o reason_n which_o she_o render_v and_o her_o manner_n of_o press_v weakness_n they_o he_o may_v discern_v whether_o weakness_n or_o obstinacy_n make_v she_o stand_v out_o against_o he_o if_o the_o reason_n which_o she_o rest_v on_o take_v from_o god_n word_n be_v doubtful_a and_o to_o one_o that_o have_v not_o a_o good_a sound_a judgement_n and_o a_o sharp_a discern_a wit_n it_o may_v appear_v to_o make_v something_o for_o she_o it_o be_v to_o be_v presuppose_v that_o there_o be_v more_o weakness_n than_o stoutness_n in_o she_o but_o if_o she_o can_v render_v no_o good_a reason_n but_o only_o take_v every_o show_n that_o any_o way_n seem_v to_o incline_v to_o her_o word_n and_o peremptory_o hold_v the_o conclusion_n and_o stiff_o stand_v on_o she_o own_o resolution_n though_o the_o vanity_n of_o her_o pretence_n be_v evident_o discover_v to_o she_o so_o as_o she_o have_v not_o any_o thing_n further_o to_o object_n or_o if_o she_o render_v no_o reason_n at_o all_o but_o her_o own_o thought_n conceit_n and_o will_n and_o yet_o refuse_v to_o yield_v sure_o obstinacy_n possess_v her_o heart_n in_o case_n of_o obstinacy_n it_o be_v very_o expedient_a that_o a_o husband_n stand_v upon_o his_o power_n to_o maintain_v his_o authority_n and_o by_o the_o best_a wisdom_n he_o can_v use_v only_o such_o mean_n as_o be_v lawful_a bring_v she_o to_o yield_v from_o her_o stoutness_n to_o that_o which_o he_o require_v especial_o if_o the_o matter_n be_v weighty_a as_o in_o case_n a_o religious_a man_n have_v be_v marry_v to_o a_o popish_a wife_n and_o she_o by_o no_o reason_n will_v be_v move_v to_o forbear_v go_v to_o mass_n or_o yield_v to_o go_v to_o the_o preach_n of_o the_o gospel_n but_o if_o through_o weakness_n she_o can_v be_v persuade_v of_o the_o lawfulness_n of_o that_o her_o husband_n require_v and_o the_o matter_n require_v be_v of_o no_o great_a consequence_n nor_o the_o weakness_n of_o her_o conscience_n cause_v any_o great_a error_n a_o husband_n ought_v so_o far_o to_o manifest_v his_o mildness_n as_o to_o forbear_v to_o press_v her_o conscience_n §._o 28._o of_o a_o husband_n etc._n forbear_v to_o press_v thing_n unbeseeming_a a_o wife_n place_n 3._o thing_n unbeseeming_a the_o place_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v dishonourable_a unto_o she_o for_o a_o husband_n to_o urge_v his_o wife_n by_o strict_a charge_n to_o do_v they_o imply_v more_o rigorousnesse_n than_o mildness_n have_v the_o spirit_n of_o that_o stout_a monarch_n ahashuerosh_n be_v more_o mild_a towards_o his_o wife_n he_o will_v not_o have_v so_o far_o press_v his_o wife_n unto_o so_o unseemly_a a_o thing_n as_o he_o do_v namely_o to_o come_v before_o all_o his_o prince_n and_o people_n to_o make_v show_n of_o her_o beauty_n it_o be_v true_a indeed_o as_o we_o show_v 28._o before_o that_o she_o offend_v in_o refuse_v to_o yield_v thereunto_o he_o peremptory_o require_v it_o but_o that_o offence_n on_o her_o part_n do_v not_o justify_v his_o fact_n and_o free_v he_o from_o all_o blame_n it_o be_v note_v that_o he_o be_v merry_a with_o wine_n when_o he_o give_v that_o commandment_n 10._o whereby_o be_v intimate_v that_o his_o practice_n be_v more_o beseem_v a_o drunken_a than_o a_o sober_a man_n such_o be_v their_o practice_n who_o exact_a of_o their_o wife_n to_o do_v such_o business_n as_o beseem_v maidservant_n rather_o than_o wife_n or_o strumpet_n rather_o than_o honest_a woman_n as_o to_o go_v to_o tavern_n alehouse_n playhouse_n and_o such_o place_n where_o light_a companion_n be_v §._o 29._o of_o a_o husband_n press_v his_o authority_n in_o weighty_a matter_n 4._o to_o use_v a_o man_n authority_n about_o weighty_a matter_n matter_n of_o moment_n make_v it_o to_o have_v such_o weight_n in_o it_o as_o it_o will_v much_o better_o be_v regard_v for_o thus_o a_o wife_n will_v either_o be_v bring_v to_o yield_v unto_o that_o which_o be_v command_v or_o to_o condemn_v herself_o for_o not_o yield_v yea_o thus_o a_o wife_n may_v see_v that_o it_o be_v not_o his_o own_o will_n so_o much_o which_o make_v he_o to_o use_v his_o authority_n in_o command_v as_o the_o necessity_n of_o the_o thing_n itself_o which_o redound_v especial_o to_o her_o good_a that_o do_v it_o for_o the_o performance_n of_o a_o duty_n be_v for_o the_o most_o part_n most_o advantageable_a to_o the_o party_n that_o perform_v it_o so_o as_o hereby_o a_o husband_n show_v love_n to_o his_o wife_n in_o press_v that_o which_o he_o press_v this_o token_n of_o love_n that_o it_o may_v the_o better_o appear_v it_o be_v behooveful_a render_v that_o a_o husband_n add_v to_o his_o commandment_n just_a &_o weighty_a reason_n that_o thereby_o his_o wife_n may_v the_o better_o discern_v the_o meetness_n lawfulness_n expediencie_n and_o necessity_n of_o the_o thing_n command_v we_o know_v that_o all_o the_o thing_n which_o god_n command_v be_v weighty_a and_o necessary_a yea_o his_o will_n be_v the_o very_a rule_n and_o ground_n of_o all_o goodness_n make_v thing_n absolute_o necessary_a yet_o unto_o his_o commandment_n he_o use_v to_o add_v weighty_a reason_n show_v on_o the_o one_o side_n the_o benefit_n and_o blessedness_n that_o will_v come_v to_o such_o as_o obey_v his_o commandment_n and_o on_o the_o other_o side_n the_o mischief_n and_o misery_n that_o will_v fall_v on_o their_o pate_n who_o refuse_v to_o obey_v whereby_o he_o show_v the_o great_a good_a respect_n which_o he_o bear_v to_o we_o and_o the_o earnest_n desire_v he_o have_v of_o our_o good_a thus_o may_v a_o husband_n even_o in_o his_o commandment_n show_v much_o love_n and_o kindness_n §._o 30._o of_o husband_n too_o great_a pride_n in_o command_v contrary_n be_v the_o peremptory_a pride_n of_o husband_n when_o they_o will_v have_v their_o own_o will_n do_v it_o boot_v not_o whether_o the_o thing_n command_v be_v lawful_a or_o unlawful_a whether_o their_o wife_n conscience_n can_v yield_v unto_o it_o or_o no_o whether_o it_o stand_v with_o the_o honour_n of_o their_o place_n or_o no_o and_o whether_o it_o be_v weighty_a or_o light_n their_o will_v it_o be_v it_o shall_v be_v do_v and_o do_v it_o shall_v be_v there_o be_v all_o the_o reason_n they_o will_v give_v some_o think_v it_o a_o glory_n to_o command_v what_o they_o list_v and_o think_v that_o there_o be_v no_o proof_n of_o their_o authority_n and_o of_o their_o wife_n subjection_n but_o in_o such_o thing_n as_o upon_o their_o own_o will_n without_o any_o further_a ground_n or_o reason_n they_o command_v if_o such_o husband_n meet_v with_o confront_v if_o though_o they_o command_v much_o they_o find_v not_o answerable_a performance_n they_o may_v thank_v themselves_o who_o run_v the_o ready_a course_n to_o have_v their_o authority_n contemn_v and_o even_o tread_v under_o foot_n §._o 31._o of_o husband_n rare_a and_o mild_a use_v their_o command_a power_n respect_n must_v be_v have_v by_o husband_n to_o the_o manner_n of_o use_v their_o authority_n in_o command_v as_o well_o as_o to_o the_o matter_n in_o regard_n of_o the_o manner_n his_o commandment_n must_v be_v 1._o rare_a not_o too_o frequent_a 2._o by_o way_n of_o entreat_v not_o too_o peremptory_a authority_n be_v like_o a_o sword_n which_o with_o over_o much_o use_v will_v rare_a be_v blunt_v and_o so_o fail_v to_o do_v that_o service_n which_o otherwise_o it_o may_v when_o there_o be_v most_o need_n a_o wise_a grave_a peaceable_a man_n may_v always_o have_v his_o sword_n in_o readiness_n and_o that_o also_o very_o bright_a keen_a and_o sharp_a but_o he_o will_v not_o be_v very_o ready_a to_o pluck_v it_o out_o of_o his_o scabbard_n he_o rather_o keep_v it_o for_o a_o time_n of_o need_n when_o it_o shall_v stand_v he_o in_o most_o steed_n such_o husband_n therefore_o as_o be_v too_o frequent_a in_o their_o command_n show_v themselves_o nor_o grave_a nor_o wise_a nor_o lover_n of_o peace_n as_o the_o use_n of_o a_o husband_n authority_n in_o command_v must_v be_v 9_o rare_a so_o when_o there_o be_v occasion_n to_o use_v it_o it_o must_v be_v with_o such_o mildness_n and_o moderation_n temper_v so_o as_o according_a to_o saint_n paul_n example_n though_o he_o have_v power_n to_o command_v that_o which_o be_v
convenient_a yet_o for_o love_n sake_n he_o rather_o entreat_v it_o note_v how_o mild_o abram_n frame_v his_o speech_n to_o his_o wife_n say_v i_o pray_v thou_o 13._o say_v he_o thou_o be_v my_o sister_n though_o the_o thing_n he_o require_v favour_v of_o too_o much_o weakness_n yet_o his_o manner_n of_o require_v it_o be_v well_o beseem_v a_o kind_a husband_n §._o 32._o of_o husband_n insolency_n and_o peremptorinesse_n contrary_n be_v the_o insolency_n of_o many_o who_o can_v speak_v to_o their_o wife_n but_o in_o commanding-wise_a their_o authority_n be_v like_o a_o swaggerer_n sword_n which_o can_v long_o rest_v in_o the_o sheath_n but_o upon_o every_o small_a occasion_n be_v draw_v forth_o this_o frequent_a use_n of_o command_v make_v their_o commandment_n nought_o regard_v the_o like_a may_v be_v say_v of_o they_o who_o be_v too_o peremptory_a in_o command_v there_o must_v be_v no_o say_n of_o nay_o to_o that_o which_o they_o say_v upon_o command_n they_o will_v have_v their_o mind_n do_v and_o no_o other_o way_n no_o persuasion_n no_o entreaty_n shall_v be_v use_v they_o will_v rather_o not_o at_o all_o have_v their_o will_n do_v than_o not_o upon_o absolute_a command_n nay_o they_o will_v not_o suffer_v other_o in_o case_n of_o any_o refusal_n to_o entreat_v or_o persuade_v but_o will_v try_v what_o absolute_o they_o can_v do_v by_o authority_n thus_o as_o by_o try_v to_o bend_v steel_n how_o far_o it_o will_v go_v it_o oft_o break_v so_o by_o put_v their_o authority_n to_o the_o uttermost_a trial_n they_o oft_o lose_v all_o their_o authority_n in_o which_o case_n the_o mend_n as_o we_o speak_v be_v in_o their_o own_o hand_n §._o 33._o of_o a_o husband_n reprove_v reprove_v his_o wife_n 4._o the_o authority_n and_o charge_n which_o god_n have_v give_v to_o a_o husband_n over_o his_o wife_n do_v require_v that_o as_o good_a and_o just_a occasion_n be_v offer_v he_o shall_v reprove_v she_o for_o this_o be_v a_o especial_a mean_n to_o draw_v she_o from_o those_o sin_n wherein_o otherwise_o she_o may_v live_v and_o lie_v yea_o and_o die_v also_o and_o so_o live_v lie_v and_o die_v under_o god_n wrath_n out_o of_o which_o misery_n and_o wretchedness_n to_o free_v a_o wife_n be_v as_o great_a a_o token_n of_o love_n as_o to_o pull_v she_o out_o of_o the_o water_n when_o she_o be_v in_o danger_n of_o drown_v or_o out_o of_o the_o fire_n when_o she_o be_v in_o danger_n of_o burn_v solomon_n thus_o style_v reproof_n 31._o reproof_n of_o life_n and_o express_o note_v 23._o reproof_n to_o be_v the_o way_n of_o life_n a_o mean_n to_o breed_v and_o preserve_v spiritual_a life_n and_o to_o bring_v one_o unto_o eternal_a life_n and_o so_o to_o escape_v death_n and_o damnation_n in_o these_o respect_n rebuke_n be_v call_v a_o precious_a balm_n or_o excellent_a oil_n which_o may_v heal_v a_o wound_n but_o make_v none_o it_o 47._o break_v not_o the_o head_n as_o the_o psalmist_n speak_v upon_o this_o ground_n no_o doubt_n it_o be_v note_v of_o many_o good_a husband_n who_o be_v without_o all_o question_n love_v kind_a meek_a and_o mild_a husband_n that_o they_o reprove_v their_o wife_n as_o 2._o jaakob_n 10._o job_n 22._o david_n and_o other_o §._o 34._o of_o neglect_v reproof_n contrary_n be_v a_o servile_a and_o timorous_a mind_n of_o many_o husband_n who_o be_v loath_a to_o offend_v and_o as_o they_o think_v to_o provoke_v their_o wife_n and_o thereupon_o choose_v rather_o to_o let_v they_o continue_v in_o sin_n then_o tell_v they_o of_o it_o wherein_o they_o both_o dishonour_n their_o place_n and_o the_o image_n of_o god_n which_o by_o virtue_n of_o their_o place_n they_o carry_v and_o also_o in_o effect_n and_o in_o truth_n hate_v their_o wife_n which_o the_o law_n imply_v where_o it_o say_v thou_o shall_v not_o hate_v thy_o brother_n in_o thy_o heart_n 17._o but_o shall_v plain_o rebuke_v thy_o neighbour_n and_o not_o suffer_v sin_n upon_o he_o §._o 35._o of_o mildness_n well_o order_v reproof_n in_o the_o matter_n thereof_o that_o a_o husband_n may_v evident_o demonstrate_v that_o his_o reprove_v of_o his_o wife_n be_v indeed_o a_o fruit_n of_o his_o love_n he_o must_v have_v a_o especial_a care_n to_o sweeten_v it_o especial_o with_o mildness_n for_o it_o be_v the_o bitter_a pill_n that_o by_o a_o husband_n can_v be_v give_v to_o a_o wife_n it_o be_v a_o verbal_a correction_n &_o in_o that_o respect_n a_o middle_a mean_n as_o i_o may_v so_o speak_v betwixt_o admonition_n and_o correction_n partake_v somewhat_o of_o both_o it_o go_v no_o further_a than_o word_n and_o so_o be_v a_o admonition_n the_o word_n of_o a_o reproof_n be_v sharp_a and_o so_o it_o be_v a_o correction_n though_o it_o be_v but_o a_o mild_a correction_n yet_o it_o be_v a_o sharp_a admonition_n and_o all_o the_o correction_n which_o by_o himself_o a_o husband_n can_v give_v his_o wife_n for_o we_o shall_v 44._o after_o show_v that_o he_o may_v not_o proceed_v to_o blow_n and_o stroke_n to_o sweeten_v reproof_n with_o mildness_n respect_n must_v be_v have_v as_o before_o be_v note_v of_o command_v both_o to_o the_o matter_n and_o also_o to_o the_o manner_n thereof_o the_o matter_n of_o reproof_n must_v be_v just_a 1._o just_a 2._o weighty_a  _fw-fr justice_n require_v that_o it_o be_v a_o truth_n and_o a_o know_a truth_n even_o a_o thing_n whereof_o he_o be_v assure_v for_o which_o he_o reprove_v his_o wife_n christ_n in_o give_v direction_n for_o reprove_v aright_o lay_v down_o this_o as_o a_o ground_n if_o thy_o brother_n shall_v trespass_v etc._n etc._n a_o trespass_n 15._o therefore_o must_v go_v before_o reproof_n where_o no_o trespass_n be_v there_o reproof_n be_v unjust_a again_o the_o apostle_n advise_v that_o a_o accusation_n shall_v not_o 19_o be_v receive_v but_o under_o two_o or_o three_o witness_n whereby_o he_o imply_v that_o a_o light_a report_n must_v not_o be_v receive_v but_o where_o blame_n be_v lay_v there_o must_v be_v two_o or_o three_o witness_n to_o confirm_v it_o so_o as_o he_o that_o censure_v may_v have_v good_a and_o sure_a ground_n for_o that_o which_o he_o do_v indeed_o that_o advice_n be_v in_o particular_a give_v about_o a_o elder_n but_o from_o the_o less_o to_o the_o great_a it_o will_v follow_v to_o be_v a_o good_a advice_n concern_v wife_n for_o no_o kind_n of_o person_n must_v be_v more_o wary_a in_o lay_v blame_n upon_o another_o and_o reprove_v for_o the_o same_o than_o a_o husband_n on_o his_o wife_n equity_n further_o require_v that_o the_o matter_n for_o which_o a_o husband_n y._n reprove_v his_o wife_n be_v weighty_a namely_o for_o some_o fault_n that_o be_v dangerous_a to_o her_o soul_n hurtful_a to_o their_o estate_n contagious_a by_o reason_n of_o ill_a example_n to_o child_n and_o other_o in_o the_o family_n but_o most_o of_o all_o for_o sin_n against_o god_n which_o provoke_v his_o wrath_n and_o pull_v down_o his_o heavy_a curse_n upon_o he_o her_z and_o the_o whole_a family_n when_o that_o for_o which_o a_o wife_n be_v reprove_v be_v a_o 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spiritual_a earthly_a and_o heavenly_a it_o be_v not_o therefore_o his_o own_o good_a that_o he_o respect_v in_o love_v the_o church_n but_o her_o good_a for_o he_o be_v 16._o god_n become_v man_n be_v lord_n of_o heaven_n and_o earth_n he_o take_v upon_o he_o 7._o the_o form_n of_o a_o servant_n be_v 9_o rich_a he_o become_v poor_a have_v the_o 18._o key_n of_o hell_n and_o of_o death_n and_o be_v 15._o the_o lord_n of_o life_n he_o 8._o humble_v himself_o and_o become_v obedient_a unto_o the_o death_n thus_o to_o show_v love_n to_o his_o church_n he_o leave_v much_o for_o her_o sake_n but_o receive_v nothing_o of_o she_o but_o the_o benefit_n which_o man_n reap_v from_o a_o wife_n be_v very_o great_a for_o 18._o it_o be_v not_o good_a for_o a_o man_n to_o be_v alone_o in_o so_o much_o as_o 22._o he_o who_o find_v a_o wife_n find_v a_o good_a thing_n and_o that_o in_o all_o the_o point_n of_o goodness_n a_o profitable_a thing_n a_o comfortable_a thing_n a_o delightful_a thing_n they_o know_v not_o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o marry_a estate_n who_o 27._o prefer_v single_a life_n before_o it_o especial_o if_o the_o marry_a estate_n be_v order_v by_o god_n word_n and_o man_n and_o wife_n careful_a to_o perform_v their_o own_o duty_n each_o to_o other_o to_o apply_v this_o point_n also_o and_o to_o bring_v it_o to_o the_o conclusion_n wife_n if_o christ_n who_o can_v receive_v nothing_o from_o the_o church_n notwithstanding_o love_v she_o ought_v not_o man_n much_o more_o to_o love_v their_o wife_n who_o many_o way_n receive_v much_o good_a from_o they_o and_o without_o who_o they_o can_v well_o be_v this_o example_n of_o christ_n be_v the_o rather_o to_o be_v note_v because_o it_o clean_o wipe_v away_o all_o those_o false_a colour_n and_o vain_a pretence_n which_o many_o allege_v as_o reason_n to_o show_v that_o there_o be_v little_a reason_n they_o shall_v love_v their_o wife_n some_o of_o their_o pretence_n be_v these_o 1._o their_o wife_n be_v of_o a_o far_o mean_a rank_n than_o object_n themselves_o shall_v they_o then_o perform_v duty_n to_o their_o inferior_n they_o common_o who_o marry_v their_o kitchen_n maid_n or_o other_o far_o under_o their_o degree_n allege_v this_o pretence_n answ_n i_o may_v reply_v that_o marriage_n advance_v a_o wife_n to_o the_o degree_n of_o her_o husband_n and_o that_o it_o be_v his_o own_o folly_n to_o marry_v one_o so_o mean_a but_o for_o the_o purpose_n and_o point_n in_o hand_n let_v any_o tell_v i_o whether_o the_o suppose_a disparity_n betwixt_o they_o &_o their_o wife_n be_v in_o any_o degree_n comparable_a to_o that_o which_o be_v betwixt_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n yet_o christ_n think_v not_o much_o to_o do_v duty_n of_o love_n to_o his_o church_n 2._o there_o be_v nothing_o in_o their_o wife_n worthy_a to_o be_v love_v object_n answ_n this_o very_a thing_n that_o such_o a_o one_o be_v thy_o wife_n be_v matter_n enough_o to_o make_v her_o worthy_a of_o love_n but_o what_o be_v there_o in_o the_o church_n to_o make_v her_o worthy_a of_o christ_n love_n if_o it_o be_v say_v that_o she_o be_v endue_v with_o many_o excellent_a grace_n which_o make_v her_o amiable_a in_o christ_n sight_n i_o answer_v that_o of_o herself_o she_o have_v none_o of_o those_o grace_n christ_n have_v bestow_v they_o upon_o she_o and_o so_o make_v her_o amiable_a and_o thus_o ought_v thou_o to_o endeavour_n by_o use_v all_o good_a mean_n thou_o can_v to_o make_v thy_o wife_n answerable_a to_o thy_o love_n but_o howsoever_o to_o love_v she_o 3._o their_o wife_n give_v just_a occasion_n to_o be_v hate_v by_o reason_n of_o their_o object_n beevishnesse_n stoutness_n insolency_n and_o other_o like_a intolerable_a vice_n answ_n no_o occasion_n may_v seem_v just_a to_o move_v a_o husband_n
of_o love_n deut._n 13._o 6._o 3._o love_n keep_v a_o man_n from_o abuse_v his_o authority_n 4._o love_n make_v he_o bear_v with_o her_o infirmity_n 5._o his_o love_n draw_v love_n from_o she_o how_o love_n be_v a_o husband_n particular_a duty_n 1_o cor._n 13._o 5._o love_v a_o common_a condition_n to_o be_v annex_v to_o every_o duty_n contrary_a 1._o hatred_n deut._n 22._o 13_o etc._n etc._n deut._n 24._o 3._o mat._n 19_o 8._o 2._o want_v of_o love_n 1_o joh._n 4._o 20._o 20._o treat_n 3._o §._o 9_o branch_n of_o love_n ii_o husband_n must_v maintain_v their_o authority_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d see_v treat_n 3._o §._o 3._o reason_n 1._o god_n authority_n maintain_v by_o the_o husband_n 1_o cor._n 11._o 7._o 2._o the_o wife_n good_a promote_v thereby_o it_o be_v in_o the_o man_n power_n to_o maintain_v his_o authority_n 1_o tim._n 4._o 12._o how_o a_o man_n authority_n may_v be_v well_o maintain_v ad_fw-la viros_fw-la pertinet_fw-la virtute_fw-la vincere_fw-la &_o exemplo_fw-la regere_fw-la foeminaâ—_n aug._n the_o adult_n coniug_v lib._n 2._o cap._n 8._o contrary_a 1._o base_a carriage_n 2._o cruel_a deal_n 3._o yield_v in_o unlawful_a thing_n thing_n dent._n 13._o 6_o 7._o 7._o 1_o king_n 21._o 7_o 9_o 1_o king_n 11._o 4._o maximè_fw-la obseruate_v vos_fw-la atque_fw-la attendite_fw-la anim_fw-la bus_fw-la vestris_fw-la o_o viri_fw-la ab_fw-la uxoris_fw-la concitationibus_fw-la atque_fw-la malis_fw-la instigationibus_fw-la per_fw-la hanc_fw-la enim_fw-la in_o ultimo_fw-la supplantare_fw-la job_n visus_fw-la est_fw-la diabolus_fw-la etc._n etc._n per_fw-la istas_fw-la etiam_fw-la nunc_fw-la plurimos_fw-la subvertit_fw-la orig._n in_o joh._n lib._n 2._o 2._o treat_v 3_o §._o 3._o how_o a_o man_n authority_n may_v be_v well_o manage_v husband_n must_v account_v their_o wife_n yokefellowe_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o gen._n 2._o 18._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d eph._n 5._o 28._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d treat_n 3._o §._o 4._o rom._n 8._o 17._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 1_o cor._n 3._o 9_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d vxor_fw-la &_o serua_fw-mi &_o domina_fw-la est_fw-la viri_fw-la chrysost_fw-la in_o 1_o cor._n 7._o hom_n 19_o 19_o debet_fw-la in_o vxorem_fw-la vir_fw-la dominari_fw-la ut_fw-la animus_n in_fw-la corpus_fw-la consentiens_fw-la ei_fw-la &_o conspirans_fw-la benevolentia_fw-la plut._n praec_fw-la connub_fw-la non_fw-la es_fw-la dominus_fw-la sed_fw-la maritus_fw-la non_fw-la ancillam_fw-la sortitus_fw-la es_fw-la sed_fw-la vxorem_fw-la gubernatorem_fw-la â—e_n deus_fw-la voluit_fw-la esse_fw-la sexus_fw-la inferioris_fw-la non_fw-la praepotentem_fw-la ambr._n hexaem_n lib._n 5._o cap._n 7._o 7._o treat_v 3_o §._o 5._o four_o husband_n must_v account_v their_o own_o wife_n best_a for_o they_o they_o eph._n 5._o 25._o 25._o ves_n 28._o reason_n every_o one_o wife_n be_v provide_v by_o god_n god_n pro._n 19_o 14._o 14._o &_o 18._o 22._o 22._o socrates_n interrogatus_fw-la qua_fw-la gratia_fw-la uxoris_fw-la mores_fw-la toleraret_fw-la respondit_fw-la ut_fw-la gymnasium_fw-la &_o palaestram_fw-la philosophiae_fw-la domi_fw-la habeam_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o 11._o ars_fw-la tua_fw-la tiphy_n iacet_fw-la si_fw-la non_fw-la sit_fw-la in_o aequore_fw-la fluctus_fw-la ovid._n de_fw-fr trist_n l._n 4._o eleg_a 3._o 3._o treat_n 3._o §._o 7._o v._o husband_n must_v entire_o delight_v in_o their_o wife_n wife_n ezec._n 24._o 16._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d gen._n 24._o 67._o pro._n 5._o 18_o 19_o expound_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d col._n 1._o 13._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d nihil_fw-la viro_fw-la uxore_fw-la bona_fw-la amabilius_fw-la hier._n in_o ezec._n 24._o gen._n 26._o 8._o 8._o treat_n 3._o §._o 10._o vi_o husband_n must_v kind_o accept_v every_o good_a duty_n of_o his_o wife_n gen._n 21._o 8._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 23._o contrary_a 1._o to_o take_v no_o notice_n of_o their_o wife_n goodness_n 2._o slight_o to_o pass_v it_o over_o 1_o sam._n 25._o 21._o 3._o scornful_o to_o reject_v it_o rom._n 12._o 21._o ephes_n 6._o 4._o 4._o treat_n 3._o §._o 11._o 55._o how_o a_o man_n good_a acceptance_n of_o his_o wife_n duty_n be_v manifest_v 1._o by_o answer_v reverence_n with_o courtesy_n depone_n asperitatem_fw-la morum_fw-la cum_fw-la tibi_fw-la sedula_fw-la uxor_fw-la occurrit_fw-la etc._n etc._n ambr._n hexaem_n lib._n 5._o cap._n 7._o courtesy_n may_v stand_v with_o superiority_n gen._n 23._o 6_o 7._o gen._n 33._o 3_o 4._o esth_n 5._o 2._o 2._o treat_n 3._o §._o 15._o 2._o by_o grant_v her_o humble_a request_n request_n est_fw-la 5._o 3._o 3._o 1_o king_n 1._o 28._o etc._n etc._n etc._n gen._n 28._o 1._o 1._o &_o 16._o 6._o 6._o &_o 21._o 10._o 11._o 11._o §._o 5._o 5._o treat_n 3._o §_o 38_o 39_o etc._n etc._n &_o §._o 43_o 44_o etc._n etc._n 3._o by_o accept_v what_o she_o be_v willing_a to_o do_v 4._o by_o forbear_v to_o exact_v too_o much_o 5._o by_o suffer_v she_o to_o dwell_v where_o it_o be_v meet_a for_o she_o she_o gen._n 31._o 4_o etc._n etc._n 6._o by_o forbear_v to_o tire_v she_o with_o guest_n 7._o by_o suffer_v she_o to_o manage_v the_o affair_n of_o the_o house_n house_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 23._o 23._o pro._n 31._o 11._o 11._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 14._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d materfamilias_n what_o thing_n be_v to_o be_v put_v to_o the_o wife_n dispose_n dispose_n pro._n 31._o 21_o 22._o 22._o vers_fw-la 15._o 15._o gen._n 16._o 6._o 6._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 10._o it_o be_v 2_o 4._o 2_o king_n 4._o 19_o caution_n about_o refer_v matter_n of_o the_o house_n to_o the_o wife_n order_v order_v pro._n 31._o 11._o 11._o gen._n 39_o 6._o difference_n betwixt_o the_o trust_n put_v in_o a_o wife_n and_o in_o other_o in_o what_o thing_n a_o husband_n manifest_v too_o much_o strictness_n gen._n 2._o 18._o pro._n 20._o 7._o &_o 14._o 8._o &_o 20._o 3._o 1_o tim._n 6._o 4._o husband_n must_v commend_v and_o reward_v good_a thing_n in_o their_o wife_n a_o rom._n 13._o 3._o 3._o verse_n 31._o b_o prou._n 31._o 28_o 29._o 29._o lege_fw-la apud_fw-la t._n liv._o dec._n 1._o l._n 1._o quid_fw-la inde_fw-la evenit_fw-la quòd_fw-la regij_fw-la iwenes_fw-la svam_fw-la cuique_fw-la vxorem_fw-la miris_fw-la modis_fw-la laudare_fw-la cuique_fw-la svam_fw-la laudot_n studijs_fw-la certamina_fw-la crescunt_fw-la ovid._n fast_o lib._n 2._o 2._o treat_n 3._o §._o 10._o oportet_fw-la virum_fw-la praecsse_fw-la uxori_fw-la oblectando_fw-la &_o indulgendo_fw-la plut._n praec_fw-la connub_fw-la 2_o tim._n 2._o 24._o col._n 3_o 19_o 19_o treat_n 3._o §._o 13._o 14._o wherein_o a_o husband_n mildness_n be_v manifest_v manifest_v of_o his_o speech_n about_o she_o behind_o her_o back_n see_v treat_n 2._o part._n 2._o §._o 36._o the_o speech_n of_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n sweeten_v with_o mildness_n 1._o mild_a and_o kind_a title_n contrary_a unseemly_a title_n instruction_n to_o be_v give_v with_o meekness_n 2_o tim._n 2._o 25._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d direction_n to_o instruct_v with_o meekness_n contrary_a harshness_n harshness_n treat_n 3._o §._o 43_o 51_o 52._o 63_o 64._o etc._n etc._n commandment_n to_o be_v order_v with_o mildness_n what_o thing_n he_o may_v command_v his_o wife_n what_o thing_n he_o may_v forbid_v his_o wife_n such_o thing_n as_o a_o wife_n make_v doubt_n of_o not_o to_o be_v press_v upon_o she_o rom._n 14._o 23._o of_o what_o doubtful_a thing_n the_o command_a power_n of_o a_o governor_n may_v be_v a_o warrant_n warrant_n treat_n 4._o §._o 66._o how_o a_o wife_n refuse_v to_o yield_v may_v be_v discern_v to_o be_v on_o obstinacy_n or_o weakness_n weakness_n treat_n 3._o §._o 43_o 44._o etc._n etc._n etc._n treat_n 3._o §._o 28._o est_fw-la 1._o 10._o reason_n of_o press_v a_o commandment_n to_o be_v render_v 1._o command_a must_v be_v rare_a 2._o command_a must_v be_v by_o way_n of_o entreat_v philem_n 9_o gen._n 12._o 13._o 13._o treat_n 3._o §._o 47._o husband_n ought_v to_o reprove_v reprove_v pro._n 15._o 31._o 31._o &_o 6._o 23._o 23._o psal_n 141._o 5._o see_v the_o fruit_n of_o reproof_n treat_n 3._o §._o 47._o 47._o gen._n 30._o 2._o 2._o job_n 2._o 10._o 10._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 21_o 22._o levit._n 19_o 17._o 17._o treat_n 3._o §._o 47_o a_o husband_n reproof_n must_v be_v sweeten_v with_o mildness_n mildness_n §._o 44._o matter_n of_o reproof_n 1._o just_a matth._n 18._o 15._o 1_o tim_n 5._o 19_o 2._o weigh_v y._n y._n gen._n 30._o 2._o 2._o job_n 2._o 10._o 10._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 21_o 22._o contrary_a 1._o credulity_n 2._o suspicion_n 3._o rashness_n luk_n 4._o 23._o mat._n 7._o 5._o rom._n 2._o 21._o rom._n 2._o 1._o gen._n 38._o 26._o 2_o sam._n 12._o 13._o manner_n of_o reprove_v 1._o seldom_n contrary_a continual_a chide_n 2._o reprove_v mild_o gal_n 6._o 1._o 3._o reprove_v in_o secret_a mat._n 18._o 15._o direction_n for_o reprove_v such_o a_o wife_n as_o regard_v not_o a_o secret_a
reproof_n mat._n 18._o 15._o direction_n for_o reprove_v a_o wife_n who_o offence_n be_v public_a 4._o reprove_v gentle_o pro._n 25._o 15._o a_o reproof_n may_v be_v sharp_a not_o bitter_a gen._n 30._o 2._o job_n 2._o 10._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 21_o 22._o rebuke_v never_o to_o be_v give_v by_o a_o man_n in_o passion_n mat._n 6._o 22._o rebuke_v to_o be_v put_v off_o while_o a_o wife_n be_v in_o passion_n 1_o sam._n 20._o 30._o 1_o sam._n 20._o 32._o 32._o treat_n 3._o §._o 10._o a_o husband_n carriage_n must_v be_v mild_a 1._o a_o mild_a countenance_n gen._n 33._o 10._o psal_n 4._o 6._o gen._n 4._o 6._o gen._n 31._o 2._o contrary_n 1._o a_o lofty_a brow_n 2._o a_o grim_a look_n 3._o a_o frown_a forehead_n 4._o a_o fiery_a eye_n 2._o mild_a geslure_n object_n gen._n 26._o 8._o answ_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 4_o 5._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 4._o vipera_fw-la virus_fw-la ob_fw-la venerationem_fw-la nuptiarum_fw-la evomit_fw-la et_fw-la tu_fw-la duritiem_fw-la animi_fw-la tuferitatem_fw-la tu_fw-la crudelitatem_fw-la ob_fw-la unionis_fw-la reverentiam_fw-la non_fw-la deponis_fw-la basil_n hexaem_n hom_n 7._o ambr._n hexaem_n l._n 5._o c._n 7._o urget_fw-la hanc_fw-la ipsam_fw-la similitudinem_fw-la huiusmodi_fw-la virum_fw-la siquidem_fw-la vir_fw-la appellandus_fw-la est_fw-la potius_fw-la quam_fw-la fera_fw-fr &_o patricidae_fw-la &_o matricidae_fw-la similem_fw-la dixeris_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o a_o husband_n may_v not_o beat_v his_o wife_n reason_n 1._o no_o warrant_n in_o the_o word_n word_n §._o 4._o 2._o small_a disparity_n summa_fw-la iniuria_fw-la est_fw-la aquavitae_fw-la sociam_fw-la &_o in_o rebus_fw-la necessarijs_fw-la tibi_fw-la coniunctam_fw-la taquà m_fw-la mancipium_fw-la ignominia_fw-la affioere_n chrys_n ibid._n 3._o near_o conjunction_n conjunction_n eph._n 5._o 31._o 31._o 1_o king_n 18._o 28._o 28._o mar._n 5._o 5._o eph._n 5._o 30._o mat._n 28._o 18._o 4._o no_o profit_n much_o mischief_n adhibitis_fw-la verberibus_fw-la morbus_fw-la non_fw-la tollitur_fw-la sed_fw-la augetur_fw-la &_o exasperatur_fw-la melch._n jun._n quaest_n polit._n par_fw-fr 2._o nullum_fw-la sit_fw-la tam_fw-la magnum_fw-la peccatum_fw-la quod_fw-la ad_fw-la verberandum_fw-la vxorem_fw-la compellat_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o sedefendendo_fw-la gal._n 6._o 2._o considera_fw-la mulierem_fw-la debile_a vas_fw-la esse_fw-la tu_fw-la autem_fw-la vir_fw-la propterea_fw-la princeps_fw-la factus_fw-la es_fw-la ut_fw-la subditae_fw-la feras_fw-la imbecillitatem_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1._o cor._n 11._o 1._o pet._n 3._o 7._o direction_n to_o husband_n for_o bear_v with_o their_o wife_n infirmity_n neque_fw-la saram_fw-la tanquam_fw-la sterilem_fw-la contempsit_fw-la abraham_n nâ—que_fw-la quicquam_fw-la tale_n exprobavit_fw-la si_fw-mi uxor_fw-la pauper_fw-la sit_fw-la noli_fw-la exprobare_fw-la &_o si_fw-la stulta_fw-la noli_fw-la ei_fw-la insultare_fw-la ibid._n uxor_fw-la iracunda_fw-la etc._n etc._n admonenda_fw-la &_o adiuvanda_fw-la consilio_fw-la &_o omni_fw-la conatu_fw-la anniten_v dum_o ut_fw-la illis_fw-la liberetur_fw-la affectibus_fw-la ibid._n 1_o sam._n 1._o 8._o gen._n 21._o 14._o prou._n 19_o 11._o eccl_n 7._o 23._o gen._n 30._o 1._o 2_o etc._n etc._n reason_n best_a trial_n of_o a_o man_n wisdom_n &_o love_n matth._n 5._o 46._o luk._n 6._o 32_o 33._o eph._n 5._o 23._o 23._o treat_n 1._o §._o 15._o &_o treat_n 3._o §._o 73._o 1._o provide_v thing_n needful_a 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 17._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 8._o recordare_fw-la quòd_fw-la pater_fw-la uxoris_fw-la tamquam_fw-la depositum_fw-la quoddam_fw-la filiam_fw-la tibi_fw-la tradidit_fw-la &_o omnibus_fw-la relictis_fw-la matre_fw-la domo_fw-la &_o seipso_fw-la omnem_fw-la eius_fw-la curam_fw-la tuus_fw-la dexterae_fw-la commisit_fw-la chrys_n hon_fw-mi 26._o in_o 1._o cor._n 11._o contrary_a to_o take_v a_o wife_n only_o for_o himself_o pro._n 18._o 22._o private_a mean_n of_o edification_n act._n 10._o 2_o 30._o judg._n 17._o 10._o 2_o king_n 4._o 11._o public_a mean_n of_o edification_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 7._o &_o 2._o 19_o luk._n 2._o 41._o ezek._n 3._o 18._o etc._n etc._n etc._n jsa_n 4._o 1._o 1._o exo._n 21._o 10._o 10._o treat_n 2._o part._n 2._o §._o 29._o treat_n 3._o §._o 49._o the_o pain_n of_o woman_n travel_n psal_n 48_o 6._o isa_n 13._o 8._o &_o 21._o 3_o jer._n 4._o 31._o &_o 30._o 6._o mic._n 49._o gen._n 35._o 16_o etc._n etc._n 1_o sam._n 4._o 19_o 20._o *_o see_v treat_v 2._o part._n 2._o §_o 30._o 39_o si_fw-mi quid_fw-la uxor_fw-la peccaverit_fw-la consolare_fw-la &_o noli_fw-la moerorem_fw-la augere_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o 11._o treat_n 3._o §._o 38._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 23._o 23._o §._o 6._o 6._o treat_n 3._o §._o 23._o 29._o 33._o pro._n 31._o 15._o etc._n etc._n verse_n 21._o vers_fw-la 28._o verse_n 20._o verse_n 11._o vers_fw-la 28._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o eph_n 4._o 8._o husband_n before_o they_o die_v must_v make_v their_o will_n even_o for_o their_o wife_n good_a 1_o king_n 1._o 21._o husband_n on_o their_o deathbed_n must_v commend_v their_o wife_n to_o some_o faithful_a friend_n job._n 19_o 26_o 27._o reason_n true_a trial_n of_o love_n at_o departure_n contrary_n 1._o a_o wilful_a inability_n 2_o make_v away_o their_o wife_n jointer_n or_o any_o other_o right_o 3._o defeat_v of_o three_o rom._n 13._o 5._o 4._o make_v no_o will_n gen._n 20_o 16._o ruth_n 3._o 9_o ruth_n 2._o 12._o 12._o treat_n 1._o §._o 15._o and_o treat_v 3._o §._o 73._o 1_o sam._n 27._o 3._o &_o 30._o 18._o a_o wife_n must_v be_v keep_v from_o be_v seduce_v a_o wise_a steal_v away_o must_v be_v fetch_v home_o judg._n 19_o 2._o 2_o san._n 3._o 13_o 14._o 1_o sam._n 30._o 18._o a_o wife_n credit_n must_v be_v maintain_v see_v treat_n 2._o part_n 2._o §._o 31._o etc._n etc._n luke_n 10._o 16._o a_o wife_n must_v be_v defend_v against_o stranger_n servant_n and_o child_n est_fw-la 7._o 7_o 8._o etc._n etc._n licèt_fw-la omne_fw-la proijcias_fw-la nihil_fw-la molestius_fw-la continget_fw-la quam_fw-la non_fw-la habere_fw-la benevolam_fw-la domi_fw-la vxorem_fw-la peccatum_fw-la nullum_fw-la magis_fw-la dolendum_fw-la inveneris_fw-la quam_fw-la cum_fw-la uxore_fw-la seditionem_fw-la habere_fw-la chrysost_n hon_fw-mi 26._o in_o 1._o cor._n 11._o genes_n 16._o 6._o &_o 21._o 14._o contrary_a dissolute_a carelessness_n 1._o in_o suffer_v seducer_n to_o come_v to_o the_o house_n 2._o in_o suffer_v wife_n to_o go_v whither_o they_o list_v luke_n 15._o 4._o 3._o in_o not_o regard_v ill_a report_n of_o wife_n pro._n 12._o 4._o 4._o in_o suffer_v wife_n to_o be_v misuse_v exod._n 2._o 13._o 5._o in_o boulstr_n up_o child_n or_o servant_n against_o wife_n si_fw-mi illam_fw-la quae_fw-la secundum_fw-la post_fw-la te_fw-la locum_fw-la obtinet_fw-la contumelia_fw-la afficis_fw-la non_fw-la parum_fw-la tui_fw-la principatus_fw-la honori_fw-la derogas_fw-la chrys_n loc_n cit_fw-la the_o manner_n of_o a_o husband_n love_v set_v forth_o by_o christ_n manner_n of_o love_v his_o church_n in_o six_o branch_n 1._o christ_n first_o love_v the_o church_n 1_o joh._n 4._o 19_o cant._n 1._o 2._o husband_n must_v by_o their_o love_n provoke_v their_o wife_n to_o love_n pro._n 2._o 17._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d sicaput_fw-la est_fw-la vir_fw-la praecedere_fw-la debet_fw-la in_o omnibus_fw-la bonis_fw-la factis_fw-la vxorem_fw-la svam_fw-la ut_fw-la illa_fw-la imitetur_fw-la virum_fw-la &_o sequatur_fw-la caput_fw-la suum_fw-la aug._n de_fw-fr decem_fw-la chor_n c._n 3._o 3._o treat_n 1._o §._o 10._o treat_n 3._o §._o 57_o 2._o christ_n love_v in_o truth_n verse_n 26_o 27._o husband_n must_v love_v in_o deed_n deed_n 1_o joh._n 3._o 18._o 18._o 1_o cor._n 9_o 5._o 3._o christ_n love_v free_o deut._n 7._o 7_o 8._o eph._n 5._o 27._o husband_n love_n must_v be_v free_a 1_o cor._n 13._o 5._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o 4._o christ_n love_n pure_a eph._n 5._o 26_o 27._o 1_o cor._n 12._o 12_o 13_o husband_n love_n must_v be_v chaste_a heb._n 13._o 4._o 4._o treat_n 2._o part_n 2._o §._o 5_o 8._o heb._n 13._o 4._o 5_o christ_n love_n extend_v to_o the_o give_v of_o himself_o himself_o ephes_n 5_o 25._o 25._o john_n 10._o 11._o 11._o &_o 15._o 13._o how_o husband_n must_v love_v their_o wife_n more_o than_o themselves_o 1_o john_n 3._o 16._o caution_n about_o a_o husband_n love_v his_o wife_n more_o than_o himself_o 2_o cor._n 12._o 15._o 15._o treat_n 3._o §._o 6._o 6_o christ_n love_n perpetual_a perpetual_a joh._n 13._o 1._o 1._o hos_fw-la 2._o 19_o jer._n 3._o 1._o 2_o sam._n 7._o 15._o husband_n must_v be_v constant_a in_o their_o love_n see_v treat_n 1._o §._o 10._o 10._o treat_n 3._o §._o 59_o eph._n 5._o 28._o to_o christ_n example_n the_o pattern_n of_o one_o self_n be_v add_v 1._o because_o it_o be_v more_o sensible_a 2._o because_o it_o be_v more_o imitable_a the_o pattern_n of_o love_a one_o self_n set_v forth_o the_o same_o thing_n that_o christ_n love_n do_v 1_o cor._n 2._o 11._o man_n be_v tender_a towards_o himself_o eph._n 5._o 29._o husband_n must_v deal_v tender_o with_o their_o wife_n man_n be_v cheerful_a in_o do_v himself_o
constituere_fw-la pyras_fw-la huc_fw-la corpora_fw-la cuique_fw-la suâ—rum_fw-la more_n tulere_fw-la â—aâ—rum_fw-la subject_a sive_fw-la ignibus_fw-la etc._n etc._n virg._n aeneid_n 11._o 11._o gen._n 25._o 9_o 9_o &_o 35._o 29._o 29._o &_o 50._o 7._o 1._o reason_n reason_n 1_o king_n 14._o 13._o 2_o king_n 22._o 20._o 2._o reason_n reason_n jer._n 22._o 19_o 1_o king_n 21._o 23_o 24._o psal_n 79._o 3._o 3._o 2_o sam._n 2._o 5._o 3._o reason_n sin_n of_o child_n to_o neglect_v their_o parent_n dead_a corpse_n sin_n of_o child_n enter_v upon_o their_o parent_n estate_n before_o they_o be_v dead_a 1_o king_n 1._o 5._o sin_n of_o child_n disturb_v their_o parent_n funeral_n gen._n 27._o 41._o gen._n 50._o 7._o contrary_a 1._o too_o sumptuous_a funeral_n act._n 8._o 2._o 2._o too_o base_a funeral_n child_n respect_n to_o the_o credit_n of_o their_o decease_a parent_n psal_n 37._o 21._o §._o 7._o mat._n 7._o 2._o quaecunque_fw-la parentibus_fw-la stipendia_fw-la intuleris_fw-la eadem_fw-la ipse_fw-la a_o filiis_fw-la expecta_fw-la thal._n miles_n apud_fw-la diâ—g_n laert._n l._n 1._o 1_o king_n 3._o 3_o 2_o king_n 22._o 2._o 1_o king_n 15._o 11._o nullum_fw-la monumentum_fw-la clarius_fw-la relinquere_fw-la potuit_fw-la quam_fw-la effigiem_fw-la morum_fw-la suorum_fw-la virtutis_fw-la constantiae_fw-la pietatis_fw-la filium_fw-la cic._n philip._n 9_o 1_o king_n 12._o 16._o 1_o king_n 15._o 26._o bellar._n tom._n 2._o contr._n 3_o de_fw-fr purgator_n l._n 2._o c._n 16._o etc._n etc._n etc._n in_o whole_a armour_n of_o god_n treat_n 3._o §._o 39_o 40._o in_o ephes_n 6._o 18._o seneca_n in_o agamen_fw-la poetae_fw-la tradiderunt_fw-la filios_fw-la patris_fw-la ulciscendi_fw-la causa_fw-la supplicium_fw-la de_fw-la matre_fw-la sumpsisse_fw-la idque_fw-la deorum_fw-la iussis_fw-la atque_fw-la oraculis_fw-la fecisse_fw-la cic._n pro._n sex_n ros_n ros_n rom._n 12._o 17_o 17_o 19_o mat._n 5._o 39_o 39_o 1_o king_n 2._o 5._o 8._o 8._o 2_o sam._n 3._o 39_o &_o 19_o 23._o 23._o §_o 37._o how_o child_n obey_v their_o parent_n in_o the_o lord_n 1._o by_o obey_v for_o the_o lord_n sake_n rom._n 13._o 5._o 1_o pet._n 2._o 13._o col._n 3._o 20._o 2_o in_o sincerity_n col._n 3._o 23._o 3._o with_o cheerfulness_n 2_o cor._n 9_o 7._o 4_o with_o revetence_n revetence_n §._o 3._o 5._o in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n god_n §._o 37._o &_o 38._o 6._o with_o perseverance_n fault_n in_o the_o manner_n of_o do_v duty_n 1._o by-respect_n 2._o complemental_a 3._o rude_o 4._o grudge_o grudge_o §._o 38._o 5._o only_o to_o please_v man_n 6._o vnsetle_o gen._n 28._o 7._o reason_n both_o parent_n to_o be_v of_o like_a account_n with_o child_n direction_n for_o a_o child_n when_o one_o parent_n command_v one_o thing_n the_o other_o another_o familiaritas_fw-la parit_fw-la contemptum_fw-la teren._n in_o andr._n andr._n §._o 2_o 3._o 3._o §._o 54._o leu._n 19_o 3._o de_fw-fr necessitate_v de_fw-fr honestate_fw-la honestate_fw-la see_v §._o 16._o phil._n 4._o 8._o exo._n 18._o 7._o ruth_n 1._o &_o 2._o luk._n 2._o 51._o 1._o reason_n leu._n 18._o 8_o 17._o 2._o reason_n 1_o pet._n 2._o 18._o rom._n 12._o 21._o mic._n 7._o 6._o galat._n 4._o 2._o esth_n 2._o 20._o 2_o kin._n 2._o 15_o etc._n etc._n &_o 6._o 1._o 2_o king_n 2._o 12._o 12._o treat_v 6._o §._o 74_o etc._n etc._n etc._n â—_o 37._o 37._o §._o 52._o liberis_fw-la suis_fw-la pater_fw-la dei_fw-la vice_fw-la est_fw-la greg._n naz._n ad_fw-la vitit_fw-la vitit_fw-la see_v §._o 5._o rom._n 13._o 2._o right_n imply_v three_o thing_n 1._o it_o be_v agreeable_a to_o all_o law_n 2._o it_o be_v due_a by_o virtue_n of_o parent_n place_n 3._o it_o be_v a_o debt_n coloss_n 3._o 20._o 20._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 1_o tim._n 5._o 4._o 4._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d gen._n 31._o 7_o etc._n etc._n vers_fw-la 42._o 1_o sam._n 2._o 34._o 2_o sam._n 18._o 9_o 1_o king_n 2._o 25._o child_n obedience_n to_o parent_n be_v 1._o no_o arbitrary_a thing_n 2._o a_o eternal_a law_n and_o general_a to_o all_o child_n child_n gen._n 47._o 12._o &_o 48._o 12._o &_o 50._o 5._o 5._o 1_o king_n 2._o 19_o 3._o indispensable_a exo._n 20._o 1._o mat._n 22._o 39_o promise_v of_o reward_n a_o great_a motive_n how_o god_n promise_v be_v a_o strong_a motive_n than_o any_o man_n how_o god_n promise_v commend_v god_n love_n isa_n 5._o 3_o 4._o 4._o tit._n 2._o 4._o 4._o gen._n 22._o 2._o 2._o &_o 25._o 28._o 28._o ibid._n as_o i_o have_v heretofore_o lay_v down_o love_n a_o fountain_n of_o wife_n husband_n and_o child_n duty_n so_o must_v i_o continue_v my_o course_n and_o set_v it_o forth_o as_o the_o fountain_n of_o parent_n duty_n for_o the_o scripture_n have_v note_v it_o as_o a_o duty_n belong_v to_o all_o and_o every_o of_o they_o and_o therefore_o i_o may_v not_o omit_v it_o in_o any_o of_o they_o yet_o let_v not_o any_o thereupon_o think_v that_o the_o same_o point_n be_v oft_o handle_v and_o repeat_v again_o and_o again_o for_o according_a to_o the_o several_a party_n and_o the_o several_a relation_n they_o 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sam._n 1._o 10._o paulam_fw-la antè_fw-la votis_fw-la quam_fw-la utero_fw-la concepisti_fw-la hier._n ad_fw-la 1_o aet_fw-la aet_fw-la gen._n 25._o 21._o 21._o gen._n 25._o 22._o 22._o luk._n 1._o 64._o 64._o job._n 1._o 5._o 5._o gen._n 27._o 4._o parent_n neglect_v of_o prayer_n parent_n imprecation_n against_o child_n child_n psal_n 1._o 12._o 2._o 2._o pro._n 20._o 7._o 7._o &_o 13._o 22._o 22._o deut._n 5._o 29._o 29._o ezec._n 18._o 20._o hab._n 2._o 4._o 4._o gen._n 4._o 11._o 11._o &_o 9_o 25._o 25._o 2_o sam._n 18._o 15._o 15._o 1_o sam._n 2._o 30._o 30._o 2_o chr._n 28._o 27._o 27._o 2_o sam._n 13._o 14_o 29._o relinque_fw-la bonam_fw-la filijs_fw-la memoriam_fw-la magis_fw-la quam_fw-la divitias_fw-la multas_fw-la bas_n serm_n in_o scrip._n loc_n loc_n pro._n 23._o 5._o 5._o tro._n 10._o 22._o 22._o hos_fw-la 13._o 11._o ne_fw-fr liberos_fw-la praetexas_fw-la qui_fw-la enim_fw-la filium_fw-la fecit_fw-la &_o te_fw-la fecit_fw-la qui_fw-la etiam_fw-la tibi_fw-la 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27._o 2._o to_o give_v husband_n a_o better_a direction_n for_o their_o providence_n towards_o their_o wife_n who_o they_o must_v nourish_v and_o cherish_v not_o only_o as_o their_o body_n but_o as_o christ_n nourish_v and_o cherish_v his_o church_n not_o only_o with_o thing_n temporal_a but_o also_o with_o thing_n spiritual_a and_o eternal_a §._o 56._o of_o man_n natural_a affection_n to_o himself_o ephes._n 5._o 28_o 29._o so_o ought_v man_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o body_n he_o that_o love_v his_o wife_n love_v himself_o for_o no_o man_n ever_o yet_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n but_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v it_o even_o as_o the_o lord_n the_o church_n have_v brief_o show_v the_o general_a scope_n of_o the_o 28_o and_o 29_o verse_n i_o will_v proceed_v to_o a_o more_o distinct_a handle_n of_o they_o they_o setforth_o the_o natural_a affection_n of_o a_o man_n to_o himself_o 2d_o two_o point_n be_v here_o to_o be_v note_v 1._o the_o general_a proposition_n that_o 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from_o take_v away_o as_o it_o do_v establish_v it_o for_o such_o as_o be_v 〈◊〉_d without_o natural_a affection_n be_v direct_o condemn_v and_o we_o be_v 10_o command_v to_o be_v so_o kind_o affection_a 30._o one_o to_o another_o as_o 〈◊〉_d we_o be_v to_o ourselves_o yea_o the_o law_n in_o 3_o the_o strict_a rigour_n thereof_o lay_v down_o that_o natural_a affection_n which_o be_v in_o a_o man_n to_o himself_o as_o a_o rule_n for_o the_o love_n of_o his_o neighbour_n 39_o thou_o shall_v love_v thy_o neighbour_n as_o thyself_o hence_o be_v it_o that_o the_o 7._o prophet_n 8._o apostle_n and_o christ_n himself_o do_v oft_o call_v upon_o we_o to_o have_v a_o eye_n to_o that_o affection_n which_o we_o bear_v to_o ourselves_o of_o this_o pattern_n christ_n say_v 12._o this_o be_v the_o law_n and_o the_o prophet_n this_o be_v the_o brief_a sum_n of_o they_o this_o be_v it_o which_o they_o do_v much_o urge_v and_o press_v 1._o natural_a affection_n be_v at_o first_o create_v of_o god_n by_o 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and_o commendable_a the_o other_o evil_a and_o damnable_a good_a and_o commendable_a love_v of_o a_o man_n self_n be_v 1._o natural_a 2._o spiritual_a  _fw-fr that_o which_o be_v natural_a be_v in_o all_o by_o the_o very_a instinct_n of_o nature_n and_o it_o be_v at_o first_o create_v and_o still_o be_v by_o god_n providence_n preserve_v in_o our_o nature_n and_o that_o for_o the_o preservation_n of_o nature_n be_v there_o not_o such_o a_o natural_a love_n of_o himself_o in_o every_o one_o man_n will_v be_v as_o careless_a of_o himself_o as_o of_o other_o and_o as_o loath_a to_o take_v pain_n for_o himself_o as_o for_o other_o wherefore_o that_o every_o one_o may_v have_v care_n at_o least_o of_o one_o even_o of_o himself_o and_o so_o the_o world_n be_v better_o preserve_v god_n have_v reserve_v in_o man_n this_o natural_a affection_n notwithstanding_o his_o corruption_n by_o sin_n yea_o further_o because_o every_o one_o be_v not_o able_a to_o look_v to_o himself_o at_o least_o when_o 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kindred_n and_o for_o a_o further_a extent_n thereof_o have_v institute_v marriage_n betwixt_o such_o as_o be_v not_o of_o the_o same_o blood_n and_o by_o virtue_n of_o that_o bond_n raise_v a_o natural_a affection_n not_o only_o in_o husband_n and_o wife_n one_o to_o another_o but_o also_o in_o all_o the_o alliance_n that_o be_v make_v thereby_o moreover_o this_o affection_n be_v wrought_v in_o neighbour_n friend_n fellow_n and_o other_o by_o like_a bond_n knit_v together_o that_o the_o bow_n of_o god_n providence_n may_v have_v many_o string_n and_o if_o one_o break_v another_o may_v hold_v in_o all_o these_o kind_n the_o near_a a_o man_n come_v to_o himself_o the_o more_o do_v this_o affection_n show_v itself_o according_a to_o the_o proverb_n near_o be_v my_o
coat_n but_o near_a be_v my_o skin_n god_n have_v wrought_v this_o natural_a affection_n in_o the_o several_a kind_n thereof_o and_o there_o be_v good_a end_n and_o use_v thereof_o it_o be_v not_o to_o be_v condemn_v §._o 58._o of_o spiritual_a self-love_n spiritual_a self-love_n be_v that_o which_o be_v supernatural_o wrought_v in_o man_n by_o god_n spirit_n whereby_o he_o be_v both_o enlighten_v to_o discern_v what_o be_v most_o excellent_a and_o best_a for_o he_o and_o also_o move_v to_o choose_v the_o same_o so_o as_o this_o serve_v to_o rectify_v the_o former_a hence_o it_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o their_o chief_a care_n be_v for_o their_o soul_n and_o for_o the_o eternal_a salvation_n thereof_o for_o the_o further_a whereof_o they_o can_v be_v content_a as_o need_n require_v to_o 27._o beat_v down_o their_o body_n to_o 27._o deny_v they_o sometime_o their_o ordinary_a refresh_n by_o food_n rest_z and_o other_o like_a mean_n yea_o and_o to_o 37._o suffer_v they_o to_o be_v imprison_v rack_v and_o otherways_o torture_v and_o life_n itself_o to_o be_v take_v from_o they_o this_o man_n do_v 25._o and_o suffer_v not_o for_o want_v of_o natural_a affection_n but_o by_o reason_n of_o spiritual_a affection_n which_o persuade_v they_o that_o it_o be_v good_a for_o they_o it_o shall_v be_v so_o a_o man_n be_v not_o therefore_o to_o be_v say_v not_o to_o love_v the_o health_n and_o safety_n of_o his_o body_n because_o he_o love_v something_o more_o for_o a_o covetous_a man_n though_o he_o love_v his_o money_n yet_o he_o can_v be_v content_a to_o part_v with_o it_o for_o bread_n to_o nourish_v his_o body_n so_o a_o spiritual_a man_n though_o he_o love_v his_o life_n yet_o he_o can_v be_v content_a to_o lose_v it_o for_o his_o soul_n salvation_n for_o he_o love_v himself_o sufficient_o who_o do_v his_o best_a to_o enjoy_v the_o chief_a and_o true_a good_a this_o spiritual_a affection_n extend_v itself_o as_o 26._o far_o as_o natural_a affection_n namely_o to_o wife_n husband_n child_n parent_n brethren_n cousin_n friend_n etc._n etc._n much_o be_v this_o urge_v and_o press_v in_o the_o scripture_n as_o isa_n 55._o 1_o 2_o 3._o mat._n 6._o 19_o 20_o 33._o joh._n 6._o 27._o 1_o tim._n 6._o 11_o 19_o §._o 59_o of_o evil_a self-love_n the_o self-love_n which_o be_v evil_a swerve_v in_o the_o object_n measure_n  _fw-fr 1_o in_o the_o object_n when_o it_o be_v cast_v upon_o our_o corruption_n our_o lust_n our_o evil_a humour_n when_o we_o affect_v and_o love_v they_o and_o for_o they_o pursue_v whatsoever_o may_v satisfy_v they_o as_o the_o ambitious_a lustful_a riotous_a gluttonous_a and_o other_o like_a person_n this_o be_v express_o forbid_v make_v not_o provision_n for_o the_o flesh_n to_o fulfil_v 14._o the_o lust_n thereof_o 2._o in_o the_o measure_n when_o our_o love_n be_v whole_o and_o only_o cast_v upon_o ourselves_o so_o seek_v our_o own_o good_a as_o we_o regard_v no_o man_n good_a but_o our_o own_o nor_o care_v what_o damage_n another_o receive_v so_o we_o may_v get_v advantage_n thereby_o this_o be_v also_o forbid_a 24._o for_o it_o be_v contrary_a to_o the_o property_n of_o true_a love_n which_o seek_v not_o her_o own_o namely_o to_o the_o prejudice_n of_o another_o this_o have_v the_o title_n of_o 〈◊〉_d self-love_n appropriate_v to_o it_o it_o spring_v from_o the_o corruption_n of_o nature_n and_o be_v daily_o increase_v by_o the_o instigation_n of_o satan_n for_o the_o destruction_n of_o mankind_n it_o manifest_v itself_o by_o the_o many_o trick_n of_o deceit_n which_o most_o man_n use_v in_o their_o deal_n with_o other_o by_o make_v advantage_n of_o other_o necessity_n as_o in_o the_o case_n of_o usury_n of_o raise_v corn_n and_o other_o commodity_n in_o time_n of_o scarcity_n with_o the_o like_a by_o man_n backwardness_n to_o help_v such_o as_o stand_v in_o need_n of_o their_o succour_n by_o want_n of_o compassion_n in_o other_o man_n misery_n and_o by_o many_o other_o like_o unkindness_n all_o which_o 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62._o of_o man_n forbear_v to_o wrong_n himself_o ephes._n 5._o 29._o for_o no_o man_n ever_o yet_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n but_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v it_o the_o first_o particle_n for_o show_v that_o in_o this_o verse_n a_o evidence_n and_o manifestation_n of_o a_o man_n love_n of_o himself_o be_v give_v the_o first_o part_n thereof_o which_o be_v set_v down_o negative_o show_v that_o it_o be_v against_o the_o common_a instinct_n of_o nature_n for_o a_o man_n to_o hate_v doctr._n himself_o it_o be_v note_v as_o a_o evidence_n that_o devil_n be_v in_o the_o gadarene_n in_o that_o he_o cut_v himself_o with_o stone_n have_v not_o the_o devil_n 5._o force_v he_o he_o will_v never_o have_v do_v it_o hatred_n be_v contrary_a to_o love_v it_o be_v therefore_o before_o prove_v reason_n that_o every_o man_n by_o nature_n love_v himself_o by_o necessary_a consequence_n it_o follow_v that_o no_o man_n hate_v his_o flesh_n for_o two_o contrary_a effect_n proceed_v not_o from_o the_o 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scripture_n note_v many_o husband_n to_o be_v elder_a than_o their_o wife_n as_o abraham_n be_v ten_o year_n elder_a than_o sarah_n and_o if_o we_o 17._o narrow_o mark_v the_o circumstance_n of_o the_o history_n of_o isaac_n and_o jacob_n and_o their_o wife_n we_o shall_v find_v that_o the_o husband_n be_v elder_a than_o their_o wife_n to_o my_o remembrance_n a_o approve_a example_n of_o a_o husband_n young_a than_o his_o wife_n can_v be_v give_v out_o of_o scripture_n contrary_n to_o this_o equality_n in_o year_n be_v the_o practice_n of_o many_o one_o man_n and_o woman_n who_o be_v age_v to_o satisfy_v their_o lust_n or_o for_o some_o other_o by-respect_n marry_o such_o as_o be_v but_o in_o the_o flower_n of_o their_o age_n wherein_o they_o do_v many_o time_n much_o fail_v of_o their_o expectation_n for_o those_o young_a one_o find_v the_o society_n of_o age_a folk_n to_o be_v burdensome_a and_o irksome_a unto_o they_o soon_o begin_v to_o loathe_v the_o same_o and_o thereby_o cause_v 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the_o more_o to_o be_v love_v the_o extreme_a in_o the_o excess_n be_v too_o much_o dote_v upon_o child_n child_n as_o they_o do_v who_o so_o unmeasurable_o love_v they_o as_o they_o make_v reckon_v of_o nothing_o in_o comparison_n of_o child_n even_o god_n himself_o be_v light_o esteem_v his_o worship_n neglect_v his_o word_n transgress_v all_o duty_n to_o other_o omit_v their_o own_o soul_n forget_v through_o care_n of_o child_n be_v not_o this_o meeâ—â—_n apish_a kindness_n for_o ape_n kill_v their_o young_a one_o with_o hug_v this_o be_v no_o love_n but_o plain_a dotage_n but_o what_o may_v be_v say_v of_o those_o that_o be_v so_o hellish_o enamour_v with_o their_o child_n as_o to_o commit_v incest_n or_o buggery_n with_o they_o §._o 4._o of_o parent_n pray_v for_o their_o child_n the_o first_o and_o best_a stream_n which_o issue_v out_o of_o the_o forename_a fountain_n of_o love_n be_v faithful_a and_o fervent_a prayer_n this_o extend_v itself_o to_o all_o thing_n at_o all_o 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pet._n 3._o 7._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 1_o pet._n 3._o 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d eph._n 5._o 23._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 12_o 13_o a_o woeful_a thing_n that_o one_o flesh_n shall_v be_v in_o heaven_n and_o hell_n luk._n 17._o 34._o mean_n of_o conversion_n the_o best_a cause_n of_o love_n love_n 1_o thess_n 5._o 11_o 11_o heb._n 12._o 15._o spiritual_a edification_n a_o main_a end_n of_o matrimonial_a conjunction_n conjunction_n col._n 2._o 19_o 19_o eph._n 4._o 16._o 16._o col._n 2._o 19_o man_n and_o wife_n to_o prevent_v sin_n in_o one_o another_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 5._o 5._o gen._n 27._o 6_o etc._n etc._n etc._n gen._n 25._o 23._o by_o prevent_v sin_n in_o each_o other_o they_o keep_v judgement_n from_o themselves_o num._n 16._o 27_o 32_o direction_n for_o prevent_v sin_n 1_o sam._n 25._o leu._n 19_o 17._o it_o be_v a_o branch_n of_o hatred_n to_o suffer_v sin_n to_o lie_v on_o any_o mat._n 18._o 16._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 4._o etc._n etc._n 2_o king_n 4._o 10._o how_o growth_n in_o grace_n may_v be_v help_v forward_o nemo_fw-la magister_fw-la ita_fw-la persuadere_fw-la poterit_fw-la quemadmodum_fw-la uxor_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 19_o 1_o cor._n 7._o maritum_fw-la co_fw-la adducito_fw-la ut_fw-la sanctorum_fw-la dierum_fw-la rationem_fw-la habeat_fw-la greg._n naz._n ad_fw-la olymp._n 1._o great_a need_n thereof_o 2._o husband_n and_o wife_n may_v be_v very_o helpful_a one_o to_o another_o therein_o 1._o care_v only_o for_o temporal_a thing_n 2._o unworthy_a walk_v 3._o negligence_n in_o prevent_v sin_n mat._n 27._o 19_o 4._o man-pleasing_a eph._n 6._o 6._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d diabolus_fw-la saepe_fw-la sollicitus_fw-la est_fw-la subvertere_fw-la viros_fw-la per_fw-la os_fw-la coniugum_fw-la orig._n in_o job._n lib._n 2._o 5._o undue_a fear_n of_o offence_n 6._o scoff_v at_o the_o sign_n of_o grace_n 2_o sam._n 6._o 20._o 20._o eph._n 5._o 29._o 29._o eph._n 5._o 31._o 31._o gen._n 2._o 18._o 18._o gen._n 27._o 14._o pro._n 17._o 17._o gen._n 2._o 18._o 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name_n name_n rom._n 12._o 15._o contrary_a vice_n 1._o to_o discredit_v each_o other_o and_o that_o 2_o sam._n 6._o 20._o 1._o by_o blaze_v one_o another_o infirmity_n abroad_o abroad_o gen._n 9_o 22_o 25._o 2._o by_o hear_v and_o believe_v other_o ill_a report_n 3._o by_o turn_v every_o thing_n to_o the_o worst_a 4._o by_o conceal_v evil_a rumour_n 5._o by_o envy_v and_o gainsay_v good_a report_n 2._o neglect_v of_o each_o other_o fame_n treatise_n 3._o §._o 29._o 29._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 8._o see_v treat_n 4._o §._o 46._o 46._o gen._n 2._o 18._o 18._o prou._n 18._o 22._o 22._o prou._n 31._o 12._o 12._o verse_n 11._o 11._o gen._n 31._o 40._o 40._o prou._n 31._o 10._o etc._n etc._n externa_fw-la negotia_fw-la viro_fw-la permit_v greg._n naz._n ad_fw-la olymp._n olymp._n tit._n 2._o 5._o 5._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 14._o contrary_a vice_n 1._o covetousness_n 2._o prodigality_n 1_o tim._n 5._o 8._o 3._o idleness_n idleness_n 1_o tim._n 3._o 4._o 4._o verse_n 12._o 12._o gen._n 18._o 19_o 19_o &_o 35._o 2_o etc._n etc._n etc._n jâ—sâ—_n 4._o 15._o 15._o psal_n 101._o 2._o etc._n etc._n etc._n joh._n 4_o 53._o 53._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 14._o 14._o prou._n 31._o 11_o etc._n etc._n etc._n mater-familias_a mater-familias_a pater-familias_a pater-familias_a 1_o tim._n 2._o 12._o 12._o pro._n 31._o 4._o 4._o act_n 18._o 26._o 1._o reason_n husband_n and_o wife_n by_o their_o mutual_a assistance_n bring_v great_a help_v one_o to_o another_o plus_fw-fr vident_fw-la oculi_fw-la quam_fw-la oculus_fw-la arist_n polit._n li._n 3._o c._n 7._o 2._o reason_n many_o thing_n in_o a_o family_n more_o fit_a for_o the_o one_o to_o meddle_v with_o then_o for_o the_o other_o in_o familia_fw-la dispertita_fw-la sunt_fw-la officia_fw-la suntque_fw-la alia_fw-la viri_fw-la alia_fw-la uxoris_fw-la propria_fw-la pro_fw-la sunt_fw-la ergo_fw-la uterque_fw-la alteri_fw-la sua_fw-la in_o commune_v confe_fw-mi rent_n ob_fw-la eamque_fw-la causam_fw-la suavitas_fw-la in_o hac_fw-la tali_fw-la amicitia_fw-la inest_fw-la utilitasque_fw-la maxima_fw-la arist_n eth._n li._n 8._o ca._n 12._o vice_n contrary_n 1._o when_o husband_n put_v off_o all_o government_n to_o their_o wife_n wife_n 1_o sam._n 3._o 12_o 13._o 13._o 2_o sam._n 15._o 2._o when_o wife_n refuse_v to_o add_v their_o aid_n 3._o when_o husband_n or_o wife_n be_v hindrance_n each_o to_o other_o pro._n 21._o 9_o 9_o heb._n 13._o 2._o rom._n 12._o 13._o 13._o 1_o tim._n 3._o 2._o 2._o &_o 5._o 10._o 10._o gen._n 18_o 6._o etc._n etc._n etc._n 2_o king_n 4._o 8._o reason_n 1._o hospitality_n a_o commendable_a duty_n duty_n heb._n 13._o 2._o 2._o the_o entertainment_n will_v be_v the_o better_a by_o a_o mutual_a help_n help_n gen._n 18._o 7._o 7._o verse_n 6._o 3._o guest_n will_v be_v more_o cheerful_a 4._o mutual_a love_n will_v be_v more_o firm_a 5._o a_o desire_n of_o one_o another_o good_a manifest_a manifest_a 1_o tim._n 5._o 8._o 8._o neh._n 8._o 10._o 10._o pro._n 31._o 20._o 20._o verse_n 28._o 28._o treat_n 3._o §._o 23._o 33._o 33._o prou._n 19_o 17._o 17._o 2_o cor._n 9_o 6._o 6._o luke_n 16._o 9_o 9_o job_n 29._o 13._o &_o 31._o 20._o 20._o matth._n 5._o 7._o 7._o mat._n 25._o 34._o 34._o heb._n 13._o 16._o 16._o act_n 20._o 35._o 2._o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o place_n to_o give_v good_a direction_n one_o to_o another_o vice_n contrary_n 1._o vnmercifulnesse_n of_o the_o husband_n husband_n 2_o cor._n 9_o 7._o 2._o bind_v his_o wife_n hand_n read_v jam._n 5._o 1_o 2._o etc._n etc._n etc._n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d as_o unto_o the_o lord_n lord_n as_o the_o church_n be_v subject_a to_o christ_n christ_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d in_o every_o thing_n thing_n treat_n 4._o §._o 2._o maritum_fw-la habere_fw-la dominum_fw-la meruit_fw-la mulieris_fw-la culpa_fw-la quod_fw-la tamen_fw-la nisi_fw-la seruetur_fw-la depravabitur_fw-la ampliùs_fw-la natura_fw-la &_o augebitur_fw-la culpa_fw-la aug._n de_fw-fr gen._n ad_fw-la lit_fw-fr lib._n 11._o c._n 37._o ante_fw-la peccatum_fw-la non_fw-la aliter_fw-la factam_fw-la fuisse_fw-la decet_fw-la credere_fw-la mulierem_fw-la nisi_fw-la ut_fw-la vir_fw-la ei_fw-la dominaretur_fw-la ibid._n quem_fw-la vocavit_fw-la ad_fw-la culpam_fw-la mulier_fw-la iustum_fw-la est_fw-la ut_fw-la eum_fw-la gubernatorem_fw-la assumaâ—_n ne_fw-la iterum_fw-la foeminea_fw-la facilitate_v labatur_fw-la ambr._n hexaem_n l._n 5._o c._n 7._o 7._o treat_n 4._o §._o 6_o 7._o proof_n that_o the_o husband_n be_v above_o the_o wife_n wife_n rom._n 13._o 1._o mari_n &_o foeminae_fw-la ae_z natura_fw-la tribuium_fw-la est_fw-la ut_fw-la hi_o praesit_fw-la illa_fw-la obediat_fw-la cum_fw-la mass_fw-la praestantior_fw-la sit_fw-la arist_n pol._n lib._n 1._o 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d sicapilli_n pro_fw-la velamine_fw-la dati_fw-la sunt_fw-la qua_fw-la gratia_fw-la aliud_fw-la addendum_fw-la est_fw-la velamen_fw-la ut_fw-la non_fw-la tantum_fw-la natura_fw-la sed_fw-la etiam_fw-la voluntate_fw-la subiectam_fw-la se_fw-la esse_fw-la confiteatur_fw-la chrys_n in_o 1_o cor._n hom_n 26._o 1._o wife_n must_v acknowledge_v a_o superiority_n in_o husband_n of_o all_o that_o be_v inferior_n the_o wife_n come_v near_a to_o a_o paritic_n paritic_n gen._n 2._o 21._o 21._o 1_o cor._n 11._o 12._o 12._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 4._o cum_fw-la de_fw-la pudicitia_fw-la sermonem_fw-la habet_fw-la magna_fw-la paritas_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 19_o in_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 7._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d gen._n 1._o 28._o 28._o &_o 16._o 4._o object_n answ_n answ_n possunt_fw-la coniuges_fw-la per_fw-la charitatem_fw-la seruire_fw-la inuicem_fw-la sed_fw-la mulierem_fw-la non_fw-la permittit_fw-la apostolus_fw-la dominari_fw-la in_o virum_fw-la aug._n de_fw-fr gen._n ad_fw-la lit_fw-fr l._n 11._o c._n 37._o 37._o treat_n 4_o §._o 9_o
excusâ—bit_fw-la bona_fw-la intentio_fw-la uxoris_fw-la etiamsi_fw-la ea_fw-la acciperet_fw-la ad_fw-la eleemosynam_fw-la faciendam_fw-la greg._n sayr_a clav_fw-mi reg_fw-la lib._n 9_o cap._n 16._o 16._o luke_n 11._o 41._o 41._o gal._n 6._o 10._o 10._o heb._n 13._o 16._o 16._o luke_n 11._o 41._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d date_fw-la quae_fw-la habetis_fw-la eleemosynam_fw-la tertul._n contr_n martion_n l._n 4._o 2_o cor._n 8._o 12._o numb_a 30._o 16._o exod._n 4._o 25._o factum_fw-la zephorae_n singular_a est_fw-la &_o extraordinarium_fw-la neque_fw-la constat_fw-la illud_fw-la simpliciter_fw-la à _fw-la deo_fw-la approbatum_fw-la fuisse_fw-la simler_n in_o exod._n 4._o luke_n 8._o 3._o matth._n 1._o 6._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d gen._n 38._o 8._o matth._n 10._o 3._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d chemnit_fw-la harm_n euang._n cap._n 33._o joh._n 4._o 53._o prou._n 31._o 11._o 11._o treat_n 4._o §._o 18._o 52._o treat_v 4._o §._o 18._o 1._o name_n name_n gen._n 17._o 19_o 19_o luk._n 1._o 13._o 13._o gen._n 5._o 3._o 3._o 29._o 29._o &_o 21._o 3._o 3._o gen._n 35._o 18._o 18._o luk._n 1._o 62._o 62._o mat._n 1._o 21._o 21._o gen._n 29._o 32._o 32._o &_o 30._o 24._o 24._o gen._n 27._o 43_o etc._n etc._n 2._o place_n and_o marriage_n marriage_n gen._n 28._o 1_o 2._o 2._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 11._o 3._o call_v verse_n 22._o 4._o apparel_n apparel_n 1_o sam._n 2._o 19_o 5._o portion_n deut._n 21._o 15_o etc._n etc._n etc._n treat_n 4._o §._o 18._o 18._o gen._n 16._o 5._o 5._o &_o 21._o 10._o 10._o 2_o king_n 4._o 22._o 2_o king_n 4._o 22._o 22._o treat_n 4._o §._o 18._o 2_o king_n 4._o 10._o 2_o king_n 4._o 22._o num._n 30._o 9_o 1._o privy_a purloin_v husband_n good_n good_n si_fw-mi uxor_fw-la ex_fw-la bonis_fw-la communibus_fw-la siâ—e_fw-la viri_fw-la licentia_fw-la saltem_fw-la praesumpta_fw-la accipiat_fw-la verè_fw-la furtum_fw-la commiâ—â—it_fw-la greg._n sayr_a clau_fw-fr reg_fw-la l._n 9_o c._n 16._o 2._o take_v what_o allowance_n they_o list_v 3._o order_v child_n against_o their_o husband_n mind_n 4._o order_v servant_n against_o their_o husband_n mind_n 5._o lend_v forth_o their_o husband_n cattle_n 6._o feast_v when_o their_o husband_n shall_v not_o know_v it_o absente_v marito_fw-la compotationes_fw-la domi_fw-la ne_fw-la excita_fw-la greg._n naz._n ad_fw-la olymp._n olymp._n prou._n 7._o 19_o 7._o gad_a abroad_o at_o their_o own_o pleasure_n noli_fw-la pedem_fw-la tuum_fw-la limine_fw-la crebro_fw-la efferre_fw-la etc._n etc._n naz._n loc_n citat_fw-la citat_fw-la 1_o tim._n 5._o 13._o 13._o tit._n 2._o 5._o 5._o prou._n 7._o 11._o 11._o judg._n 19_o 2._o 8._o bind_v themselves_o without_o consent_n of_o husband_n husband_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 15._o 15._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d componitur_fw-la ex_fw-la diversis_fw-la vocibuâ—_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d petivi_fw-la eum_fw-la a_o deo_fw-la i_o have_v ask_v he_o of_o god_n god_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 22._o 22._o vers_fw-la 23._o 23._o 1_o sam._n 2._o 19_o a_o wife_n active_a obedience_n respect_v first_o her_o husband_n commandment_n gen._n 31._o 16._o 16._o treat_n 4._o §._o 18._o gen._n 31._o 14._o 1_o cor._n 9_o 5._o jam._n 5._o 17._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 15._o contrary_a when_o a_o wife_n make_v her_o husband_n dwell_v where_o she_o will_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 5_o 6._o judg._n 19_o 2._o 2._o treat_n 4._o §._o 29._o 29._o gen._n 31._o 4._o 4._o esth_n 1._o 17._o contrary_a stoutness_n in_o refuse_v to_o come_v esâ—h_o 1._o 16_o etc._n etc._n hebraei_n docent_fw-la vastâ—am_fw-la natam_fw-la fuisse_fw-la ex_fw-la baltbasare_fw-la rege_fw-la chaldaeorum_n fevard_n in_o esth_n 1._o alij_fw-la ex_fw-la cyro_fw-la merl._n in_o esth_n esth._n 1._o 17._o 17._o pelican_n lavater_fw-la gualt_n strigel_n cuper_fw-la merlin_n fevard_n bellator_n rupert_n isiodor_n hisp_n raban_n alijque_fw-la comment_n in_o esth_n gen._n 20._o 16._o 16._o treat_n §._o 29._o gen._n 18._o 6._o 1_o king_n 14._o 2_o etc._n etc._n contrary_a stubbornness_n in_o refuse_v to_o do_v a_o thing_n upon_o command_n command_n treat_n 4._o §._o 34_o 35._o a_o wife_n active_a obedience_n to_o her_o husband_n reproof_n the_o best_a trial_n of_o obedience_n 1._o she_o must_v meek_o take_v reproof_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 4._o gen._n 30._o 1._o wisdom_n learned_a joh._n 2._o 4_o 5._o suadeo_fw-la mulieribus_fw-la ut_fw-la viros_fw-la etiam_fw-la asperiores_fw-la perserant_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1._o cor._n 11._o excandescenti_fw-la marito_fw-la cede_fw-la &_o molli_fw-la oratione_fw-la iuva_fw-fr greg._n naz._n ad_fw-la olymp._n 1_o pet._n 2._o 19_o 20._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d rom._n 12._o 21._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 20_o etc._n etc._n job_n 2._o 10._o prou_z 9_o 7_o 8._o 8._o treat_n 4._o §._o 35._o 2_o she_o must_v redress_v what_o be_v just_o reprove_v reprove_v gen._n 31._o 19_o 19_o &_o 35._o 2_o 4._o contrary_a to_o be_v worse_o for_o reprove_v prou._n 9_o 8._o prou._n 26._o 12._o 12._o treat_n 4._o §._o 50_o job_n 2._o 10._o expound_v discontent_n manifest_v 1._o by_o repent_v their_o marriage_n non_fw-fr est_fw-fr sapientis_fw-la dicere_fw-la non_fw-la putâram_fw-la cic._n offic._n lib._n 1._o 2._o by_o impatient_a carriage_n 3._o by_o refuse_v to_o stoop_v 4._o by_o refuse_v to_o help_v help_v treat_n 4._o §._o 26._o eph._n 5._o 22._o verse_n 23._o verse_n 24._o 24._o treat_n 1._o §._o 6._o 6._o see_v §._o 4._o of_o this_o treat_n 2._o caution_n for_o limit_v a_o wife_n persist_v to_o do_v that_o which_o her_o husband_n forbid_v gen_n 3_o 16._o dan._n 6._o 7_o etc._n etc._n act._n 4._o 18_o etc._n etc._n 1_o sam._n 25._o 18._o gen._n 27._o 6._o gen._n 25._o 23._o 2._o caution_n for_o limit_v a_o wife_n refuse_v to_o do_v that_o which_o her_o husband_n command_v 1_o sam._n 20._o 31._o 1_o sam._n 22._o 17._o deut._n 13._o 6._o 1_o ki._n 21._o 7._o etc._n etc._n gen._n 12._o 13._o etc._n etc._n ephes_n 5._o 24._o 24._o see_v §._o 5._o of_o this_o treatise_n cant._n 2._o 2._o four_o grace_n needful_a to_o season_v a_o wife_n subjection_n subjection_n treat_v 4._o §._o 15._o phil._n 2._o 3._o ephes_n 4._o 2._o 2._o see_v before_o §._o 4._o pro._n 13._o 10._o 10._o treat_n 4._o §._o 63._o 63._o ephes_n 6._o 5._o 5._o act_n 1._o 24._o 24._o gen._n 6._o 9_o 9_o &_o 17._o 1._o 1._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 5._o 5._o gen._n 18._o 12._o reason_n for_o sincerity_n 1_o because_o wife_n have_v to_o do_v with_o christ_n 2._o this_o make_v a_o difference_n betwixt_o holy_a woman_n and_o other_o other_o 1_o pet._n 3._o 5._o 3._o great_a be_v the_o benefit_n hereof_o hereof_o isa_n 38._o 3._o 3._o psal_n 45._o 13._o 13._o cant._n 3._o 1_o 2._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 16._o pro._n 30._o 20._o pro._n 2._o 16._o 16._o treat_n 4._o §._o 65_o 74._o 2_o cor._n 9_o 7._o 1_o chro._n 29._o 9_o gen._n 18._o psal_n 110._o 3._o 3._o treat_n 4._o §._o 72._o 1_o sam._n 4._o 21._o matth._n 16._o 18._o contrary_a 1._o intermission_n 1_o sam._n 19_o 11_o etc._n etc._n 2_o sam._n 6._o 16_o 20._o 2._o apostasy_n pro._n 2._o 17._o 2_o chron._n 24._o 2._o ezek._n 18._o 24._o 24._o treat_n 4._o §._o 26._o eph._n 5._o 21._o &_o 22._o col._n 3._o 18._o act_n 5._o 29._o 29._o treat_n 4._o §._o 28_o 29._o 1_o tim._n 2._o 11._o pro._n 26._o 16._o 16._o treat_n 4._o §._o 27._o si_fw-mi res_fw-la aliqua_fw-la occurrat_fw-la quae_fw-la consilio_fw-la opus_fw-la habeat_fw-la quin_fw-la ipsa_fw-la quoque_fw-la quid_fw-la censeas_fw-la diâ—_n as_o minimè_fw-la prohibeâ—_n sed_fw-la viri_fw-la tui_fw-la sententiam_fw-la vim_o maiorem_fw-la semper_fw-la obtinere_fw-la volo_fw-la greâ—_n naz._n ad_fw-la olymp._n act_n 5._o 9_o see_v treat_n 2._o part._n 1._o §._o 11._o tutum_fw-la obsequium_fw-la est_fw-la quoties_fw-la qui_fw-la dux_fw-la est_fw-la ipse_fw-la dei_fw-la spiritu_fw-la ducitur_fw-la 1._o reason_n reason_n §._o 51._o joh._n 14._o 9_o mat._n 10._o 40._o joh._n 5._o 23._o luk._n 10._o 16._o 1_o sam._n 8._o 7._o 1_o pet._n 2._o 16._o rom._n 13._o 2._o 2._o reason_n 1_o cor._n 11._o 3._o 1_o cor._n 11._o 14._o 3._o reason_n subjection_n due_a to_o a_o husband_n as_o well_o as_o to_o christ_n est_fw-la 1._o 16._o christ_n will_v reward_v the_o good_a subjection_n and_o revenge_v the_o rebellion_n of_o wife_n 1_o sam._n 2._o 30._o 4._o reason_n gen._n 31._o 14._o psal_n 128._o 3._o a_o wife_n subjection_n tend_v to_o her_o own_o good_a gratitude_n require_v a_o wife_n to_o be_v subject_a 5._o reason_n husband_n bind_v to_o duty_n propterea_fw-la debent_fw-la mulieribus_fw-la suis_fw-la ad_fw-la virtutis_fw-la exemplum_fw-la se_fw-la praebere_fw-la quia_fw-la viri_fw-la sunt_fw-la aug._n the_o adult_n coniug_v l._n 2._o c._n 8._o 8._o 1_o cor._n 11._o 7._o husband_n particular_a duty_n duty_n treat_n 3._o §._o 2._o 1._o husband_n must_v love_v their_o wife_n wife_n eph._n 5._o 25_o 28_o 33._o 33._o gen._n 24._o 67._o no_o duty_n well_o perform_v without_o love_n 1_o cor._n 16._o 14._o 2._o a_o wife_n the_o most_o proper_a object_n
good_a leu._n 19_o 18._o husband_n must_v be_v cheerful_a in_o seek_v their_o wife_n good_a ruth_n 3._o 11._o general_n reason_n 1._o christ_n example_n christ_n example_n the_o great_a motive_n that_o can_v be_v be_v treat_n 3._o §._o 74._o two_o thing_n in_o christ_n pattern_n provoke_v husband_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n 1._o the_o great_a inequality_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o his_o spouse_n spouse_n eph._n 1._o 21._o 21._o phil._n 2._o 6._o 6._o heb._n 1._o 3._o 3._o job._n 1._o 1_o 3._o 3._o ezec._n 16._o 1._o etc._n etc._n etc._n isa_n 40._o 17._o 17._o gal._n 3._o 28._o 28._o mat._n 22._o 30._o 2._o the_o small_a benefit_n that_o christ_n reap_v by_o love_v his_o church_n church_n job_n 35._o 7._o 7._o 1_o tim._n 3._o 16._o 16._o phil._n 2._o 6_o 7._o 7._o 2_o cor._n 8_o 9_o 9_o reu._n 1._o 18._o 18._o act._n 3._o 15._o 15._o phil._n 2._o 8._o 8._o gen._n 2._o 18._o 18._o pro._n 18._o 22._o 22._o see_v treat_n 2._o part._n 1._o §._o 27._o christ_n example_n remove_v all_o pretence_n which_o man_n make_v for_o not_o love_v their_o wife_n 1._o object_n 2._o object_n 3._o object_n 4._o object_n 1._o cor._n 13._o 7._o vers_fw-la 28._o mat._n 10._o 37._o gen._n 37._o 2._o gen._n 43._o 7._o gen._n 45._o 9_o gen._n 46._o 29._o reason_n 1._o equity_n 2_o necessity_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d rom._n 1._o 30._o 2_o tim._n 3._o 3_o 3_o see_v treat_n 1._o §._o 4._o 4._o exo._n 20._o 12._o 12._o leu._n 19_o 3._o 3._o num._n 12._o 14._o 14._o gen._n 27._o 12._o reason_n 1._o fear_n order_v love_n 2._o it_o well_o guide_v the_o carriage_n contrary_a light_a and_o base_a esteem_n of_o parent_n parent_n gen._n 9_o 22._o how_o to_o breed_v and_o cherish_v a_o filial_a fear_n child_n ought_v to_o forbear_v speak_v in_o their_o parent_n presence_n job._n 29._o 9_o 10._o child_n must_v patient_o hearken_v to_o their_o parent_n speech_n verse_n 25._o gen._n 49._o 2._o pro._n 1._o 8_o &_o 4._o 1._o &_o 7._o 1._o jam_fw-la 1._o 19_o contrary_a 1._o boldness_n of_o speech_n 2._o impatient_a harken_v to_o parent_n a_o child_n reverence_n in_o speech_n be_v manifest_v 1._o by_o reverend_a title_n title_n jer._n 31._o 9_o gal._n 4._o 6._o 6._o matt._n 23._o 9_o 9_o 1_o sam._n 24._o 12._o 12._o 2_o kin._n 5._o 13._o 13._o judg._n 18._o 19_o 19_o 2_o king_n 6._o 21._o 21._o 1_o cor._n 4._o 15._o 15._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 1._o 1._o gen._n 22._o 7._o 7._o &_o 27._o 18._o 18._o 1_o king_n 2._o 20._o 20._o matt._n 21._o 30._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d gen._n 31._o 35._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 2._o by_o few_o word_n 3._o by_o humble_a speech_n speech_n 1_o sam._n 19_o 4._o 4._o &_o 24._o 10._o 4_o by_o seasonable_a speech_n speech_n 1_o sam._n 19_o 6._o 6._o &_o 20._o 30._o 5._o by_o ready_a answer_n answer_n 1_o sam._n 3._o 4_o 6_o 6_o 18._o 18._o mat._n 21._o 30._o contrary_a 1._o scorn_v to_o acknowledge_v a_o parent_n 1_o king_n 2._o 20._o 2._o too_o much_o importunity_n 3._o stout_a answer_n ne_fw-fr filius_fw-la cum_fw-la patre_fw-la quoquo_fw-la modo_fw-la expostulet_fw-la cum_fw-la lex_fw-la interdixit_fw-la tum_fw-la antelege_n ipsa_fw-la natura_fw-la greg._n naz._n in_o senten_a matt._n 21._o 29._o luke_n 15._o 29._o 4._o unseasonable_a speech_n ephes_n 6._o 4._o 5._o stomachfull_a silence_n silence_n §._o 4._o direction_n for_o child_n how_o to_o speak_v of_o their_o parent_n john_n 8._o 49._o prou._n 30._o 11._o child_n unreverend_a speech_n of_o their_o parent_n parent_n gen._n 9_o 22._o 22._o 2_o sam._n 15._o 3._o 3._o prou._n 30._o 11._o 11._o leu._n 20._o 9_o 9_o pro._n 30._o 17._o 17._o gen._n 40._o 19_o child_n reverence_n to_o their_o parent_n manifest_v 1._o by_o meet_v they_o they_o gen._n 46._o 29._o 1_o king_n 2._o 19_o 2._o by_o obeisance_n to_o they_o they_o gen._n 48._o 12._o 12._o 1_o king_n 2._o 19_o 3_o by_o well_o compose_v the_o countenance_n 4._o by_o give_v the_o upper_a hand_n 5._o by_o ask_v blessing_n gen._n 27._o 19_o gen._n 48._o 1._o etc._n etc._n gen._n 49._o 1._o etc._n etc._n how_o the_o blessing_n which_o the_o patriarch_n give_v their_o child_n be_v pattern_n to_o other_o see_v treat_n 6._o §._o 58._o heb._n 11._o 20._o gen._n 17._o 7._o act._n 2._o 39_o jam._n 5._o 17._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d see_v treat_n 6._o §._o 4._o prou._n 15._o 8._o how_o wicked_a parent_n may_v bless_v their_o child_n heb._n 7._o 7._o it_o be_v lawful_a for_o child_n to_o kneel_v to_o their_o parent_n gen._n 48._o 12._o mar._n 10._o 17._o vnreverend_a gesture_n of_o child_n 1._o rudeness_n 2._o stateliness_n 3._o boldness_n 4._o ambition_n 5._o refuse_v to_o ask_v blessing_n pro._n 26._o 16._o gen_n 27._o 34._o heb._n 12_o 17._o 17._o eph._n 6._o 1._o col._n 3._o 20._o 20._o matt._n 21._o 31._o 31._o 1_o pet._n 1._o 14._o 14._o luk._n 2._o 5_o 1._o 1._o pro._n 23._o 22._o disobedience_n most_o contrary_a to_o parent_n authority_n authority_n 2_o tim._n 3._o 2._o 2._o it_o be_v 1._o 6._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d deut._n 13._o 13._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d ex_fw-la non_fw-la &_o profuit_fw-la hier._n absque_fw-la iugo_fw-la quasi_fw-la 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d deut._n 21._o 18_o etc._n etc._n the_o part_n of_o a_o child_n obedience_n of_o the_o several_a way_n whereby_o consent_n may_v be_v give_v see_v treat_n 3._o §._o 19_o num._n 30._o 17._o job_n 1._o 12_o 19_o galat._n 4._o 1._o exod._n 21._o 7._o num._n 30._o 4._o 4._o gen._n 28._o 2._o 2._o 1_o sam._n 16._o 11_o 19_o 19_o 1_o sam._n 17._o 17._o 17._o jer._n 35._o 7._o 7._o justin_n mart._n in_o dial._n cum_fw-la tryph._n contr_n jud._n jud._n erasm_n paraphr_fw-mi in_o mar._n 6._o bez_n annot_n in_o mar._n 6._o basil_n lib._n de_fw-fr vit_fw-fr solit_fw-la cap._n 15._o theod._n eccl._n hist_o l._n 3._o 6._o 23._o muscul_fw-la in_o mat._n 13._o danaeus_n schol_a in_o mar._n 6._o gualt_n hom_n 46._o in_o mar._n muthe_n in_o mar._n 6._o alijque_fw-la reason_n 1._o equity_n 2._o god_n charge_n bellarm._n de_fw-fr mon._n lib._n 2._o cap._n 36._o licet_fw-la filijs_fw-la ingredi_fw-la religionem_fw-la invitis_fw-la parentibus_fw-la conditio_fw-la est_fw-la ut_fw-la parent_n non_fw-la sint_fw-la in_o tali_fw-la necessitate_v ut_fw-la sine_fw-la siliorum_fw-la auxilio_fw-la vivere_fw-la non_fw-la possint_fw-la tunc_fw-la enim_fw-la tenentur_fw-la ex_fw-la praecepto_fw-la dei_fw-la parentibus_fw-la adesse_fw-la bellarm._n loc_n cit_fw-la eos_n iuvant_fw-fr quomodo_fw-la religiosos_fw-la decet_fw-la nimirum_fw-la precibus_fw-la apud_fw-la deum_fw-la bellarm._n ibid._n gen._n 12._o 1._o deut._n 33._o 9_o psal_n 45._o 10._o mat._n 10._o 37._o luk._n 9_o 60._o gen._n 12._o 1._o exo._n 32._o 26_o etc._n etc._n exo._n 32._o 27._o mat._n 15._o 6._o 6._o psal_n 45._o 10._o 10._o gen._n 2._o 24._o luk._n 15._o 12_o etc._n etc._n gen._n 37._o 35._o argument_n to_o prove_v that_o child_n may_v not_o marry_v without_o parent_n consent_n non_fw-fr est_fw-fr virginalis_fw-la pudoris_fw-la eligere_fw-la maritum_fw-la electionem_fw-la mariti_fw-la parentibus_fw-la deferat_fw-la ambr._n de_fw-fr patr._n l._n 1._o c._n 9_o legitimum_fw-la non_fw-la est_fw-la coniugium_fw-la nisi_fw-la uxor_fw-la petatur_fw-la a_o parentibus_fw-la euarist_n in_o epist_n ad_fw-la eccles_n africa_n africa_n silij_fw-la sine_fw-la consensu_fw-la parentum_fw-la ritè_fw-la &_o jure_fw-la nubere_fw-la non_fw-la possunt_fw-la tertul._n ad_fw-la uxor_fw-la l._n 2._o 2._o tempore_fw-la crevit_fw-la amor_fw-la tedae_fw-la quoque_fw-la jure_fw-la coissent_fw-la sed_fw-la vetuere_fw-la patres_fw-la ovid._n metam_fw-la 4._o i_o parenti_fw-la potius_fw-la quam_fw-la amori_fw-la obsequi_fw-la oportet_fw-la teren._n in_o hecyra_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d eurip._n in_o androm_n androm_n council_n trid._n decr_n de_fw-mi reform_v matr_n c._n 1._o 1._o matris_fw-la voluntatem_fw-la in_o tradenda_fw-la filia_fw-la omnibus_fw-la natura_fw-la praeponit_fw-la august_n epist_n 233._o 233._o cum_fw-la sponsus_fw-la &_o sponsa_fw-la benedicendi_fw-la sunt_fw-la a_o sacerdote_fw-la offerantur_fw-la ecclesiae_fw-la a_o parentibus_fw-la grat._n 30._o quast_o 5._o cau._n quod_fw-la ipsi_fw-la philosophi_fw-la mirati_fw-la sant_z seruate_v virgin_n ambr._n de_fw-fr patr_n l._n 1._o c._n 9_o 9_o erasm_n in_o colloq_fw-la de_fw-fr matrim_n luth._o in_o serm_n de_fw-fr matrim_n bucer_n in_o mat._n 19_o calu._n instit_n l._n 4._o c._n 19_o §._o 37._o bez._n de_fw-fr divort_fw-la zanch._n de_fw-fr oper._n dei_fw-la par_fw-fr 3._o l._n 4._o c._n 1._o chemn_v in_o exam._n part_n 2._o brent_n in_o catec_n melanc_fw-fr loc_n de_fw-fr coniug_n perkins_n in_o oecon._n c._n 6._o alijâ—_n hoc_fw-la fieri_fw-la debere_fw-la &_o civilis_fw-la &_o naturalis_fw-la ratio_fw-la suadet_fw-la justin_n instit_n l._n 1._o tit_n 10._o digest_v l._n 23._o tit_n 2_o the_o reason_n allege_v §._o §._o gen._n 2._o 24._o 12._o may_v be_v apply_v to_o this_o particular_a whether_o parent_n may_v force_v their_o child_n to_o marry_v or_o no._n see_v treat_n 6._o §._o