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A61830 Eight cases of conscience occasionally determined by the late Reverend Father in God, Robert Sanderson, Lord Bishop of Lincoln. Sanderson, Robert, 1587-1663. 1674 (1674) Wing S598; ESTC R37202 62,486 160

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consent_n so_o long_o as_o he_o live_v because_o she_o be_v all_o that_o while_n under_o his_o power_n yet_o after_o that_o she_o be_v loose_v from_o the_o law_n of_o her_o husband_n by_o his_o death_n it_o shall_v thenceforth_o bind_v she_o because_o she_o than_o become_v svi_fw-la juris_fw-la i_o say_v this_o make_v no_o difference_n at_o all_o in_o the_o case_n for_o this_o be_v a_o general_a rule_n that_o what_o ju_o act_n soever_o have_v a_o nullity_n in_o it_o at_o the_o first_o when_o it_o be_v do_v can_v by_o any_o succeed_a tract_n of_o time_n grow_v to_o be_v of_o force_n as_o if_o a_o young_a scholar_n shall_v be_v institute_v to_o a_o benefice_n be_v not_o of_o lawful_a year_n or_o a_o young_a heir_n make_v a_o sale_n of_o his_o land_n during_o minority_n the_o institution_n and_o the_o sale_n as_o they_o be_v both_o void_a at_o the_o beginning_n so_o they_o shall_v continue_v void_a as_o well_o after_o the_o clerk_n be_v of_o lawful_a year_n and_o the_o heir_n at_o full_a age_n as_o before_o so_o that_o to_o judge_v of_o the_o validity_n of_o any_o vow_n promise_v or_o covenant_n respect_n must_v be_v have_v to_o eodem_fw-la that_o very_a time_n wherein_o it_o be_v make_v and_o to_o the_o present_a condition_n of_o the_o person_n at_o that_o time_n and_o not_o to_o any_o time_n or_o condition_n before_o or_o after_o if_o then_o there_o be_v indeed_o a_o nullity_n in_o this_o gentlewoman_n vow_n at_o the_o time_n when_o she_o make_v it_o there_o be_v a_o nullity_n in_o it_o still_o and_o if_o it_o be_v indeed_o of_o no_o force_n to_o bind_v she_o then_o neither_o be_v it_o of_o any_o force_n to_o bind_v she_o now_o sect._n 7._o but_o after_o due_a ponder_v of_o the_o matter_n i_o rather_o think_v that_o there_o be_v not_o a_o nullity_n in_o the_o promise_n at_o the_o first_o neither_o suppose_v it_o have_v be_v right_o qualify_v in_o other_o respect_n be_v it_o void_a upon_o this_o ground_n because_o although_o she_o be_v not_o svi_fw-la juris_fw-la absolutè_fw-la it_o be_v sufficient_a yet_o that_o she_o be_v so_o quantum_fw-la ad_fw-la hoc_fw-la for_o a_o person_n that_o be_v under_o the_o power_n of_o another_o have_v yet_o power_n of_o himself_o and_o so_o be_v svi_fw-la juris_fw-la to_o dispose_v of_o all_o such_o thing_n as_o by_o the_o free_a disposal_n whereof_o the_o proper_a right_n of_o he_o under_o who_o power_n he_o be_v be_v no_o way_n prejudice_v but_o in_o whatsoever_o may_v be_v prejudicial_a to_o the_o other_o in_o any_o of_o his_o right_n he_o be_v juris_fw-la alieni_fw-la neither_o may_v dispose_v thereof_o without_o the_o other_o consent_n and_o if_o such_o a_o person_n shall_v make_v a_o vow_n or_o other_o promise_n concern_v any_o of_o those_o thing_n wherein_o he_o be_v svi_fw-la juris_fw-la such_o vow_n or_o promise_n shall_v stand_v good_a and_o be_v not_o void_a though_o possible_o it_o may_v be_v vicious_a in_o other_o respect_n from_o the_o inability_n of_o the_o person_n that_o make_v it_o as_o for_o example_n if_o a_o servant_n shall_v promise_v to_o his_o own_o father_n to_o work_v with_o he_o a_o day_n or_o two_o in_o harvest_n this_o promise_n unless_o his_o master_n consent_n thereunto_o shall_v be_v void_a because_o the_o master_n have_v a_o right_a in_o the_o servant_n wo●k_v to_o which_o right_n it_o will_v be_v prejudicial_a if_o the_o servant_n shall_v dispose_v thereof_o after_o his_o own_o pleasure_n but_o if_o such_o a_o servant_n shall_v promise_v unto_o his_o needy_a father_n to_o relieve_v he_o from_o time_n to_o time_n with_o a_o three_o or_o four_o part_n of_o all_o such_o wage_n as_o he_o shall_v receive_v for_o his_o service_n this_o promise_n shall_v be_v good_a of_o itself_o neither_o shall_v the_o master_n consent_n be_v requisite_a to_o make_v it_o so_o because_o the_o master_n have_v no_o right_a at_o all_o in_o the_o servant_n wage_n wherein_o to_o be_v prejudice_v by_o the_o servant_n dispose_v thereof_o according_a to_o his_o own_o mind_n now_o forasmuch_o as_o the_o husband_n right_a and_o power_n over_o the_o wife_n cease_v together_o with_o his_o life_n as_o the_o apostle_n 7.23_o express_o teach_v and_o so_o can_v be_v prejudice_v by_o any_o act_n of_o the_o wife_n do_v after_o his_o decease_n it_o be_v manifest_a that_o the_o wife_n be_v svi_fw-la juris_fw-la to_o make_v a_o vow_n or_o promise_v during_o her_o husband_n life-time_n concern_v something_o to_o be_v do_v after_o his_o decease_n in_o case_n she_o over-live_a he_o because_o his_o right_n will_v be_v expire_v before_o the_o performance_n of_o the_o say_a vow_n or_o promise_n be_v due_a as_o to_o give_v instance_n in_o a_o case_n not_o much_o unlike_a to_o this_o in_o question_n a_o wife_n estate_v upon_o her_o marriage_n in_o a_o jointure_n or_o annuity_n for_o her_o life_n of_o a_o 100_o l._n per_fw-la annum_fw-la make_v a_o promise_n in_o her_o husband_n life-time_n to_o one_o of_o her_o young_a brother_n that_o have_v but_o short_a mean_n to_o allow_v he_o thence_o forward_o out_o of_o the_o say_a estate_n 10_o l._n yearly_a towards_o his_o better_a maintenance_n this_o promise_n be_v void_a unless_o the_o husband_n consent_n because_o the_o performance_n thereof_o will_v prejudice_v he_o in_o that_o right_n which_o he_o have_v during_o his_o own_o life_n in_o the_o revenue_n of_o all_o the_o land_n and_o annuity_n estate_v upon_o the_o wife_n in_o reversion_n but_o if_o such_o a_o wife_n shall_v promise_v to_o her_o say_a brother_n to_o allow_v he_o the_o say_v yearly_a sum_n of_o 10_o l._n after_o the_o decease_n of_o her_o husband_n in_o case_n she_o survive_v he_o this_o promise_n be_v good_a though_o make_v by_o the_o wife_n in_o her_o husband_n life-time_n and_o without_o his_o consent_n because_o the_o husband_n right_a be_v to_o cease_v before_o the_o promise_n be_v to_o be_v perform_v can_v be_v prejudice_v by_o the_o performance_n thereof_o and_o this_o i_o find_v agreeable_a to_o the_o best_a casuist_n who_o peremptory_a opinion_n it_o be_v that_o alios_fw-la husband_n and_o master_n can_v disannul_v such_o vow_n as_o their_o wife_n and_o servant_n make_v concern_v thing_n to_o be_v perform_v at_o such_o time_n as_o they_o shall_v be_v from_o under_o their_o power_n which_o position_n if_o it_o be_v true_a and_o i_o yet_o see_v no_o reason_n why_o it_o shall_v not_o then_o doubtless_o this_o gentlewoman_n vow_n make_v to_o her_o friend_n though_o in_o the_o life-time_n and_o without_o the_o consent_n of_o her_o husband_n be_v not_o original_o void_a from_o the_o inability_n to_o make_v it_o upon_o this_o respect_n that_o she_o be_v not_o svi_fw-la juris_fw-la so_o to_o do_v point_n iii_o sect._n 8._o but_o though_o i_o dare_v not_o say_v neither_o do_v i_o think_v that_o there_o be_v a_o nullity_n in_o it_o in_o respect_n of_o the_o person_n to_o make_v it_o void_a that_o way_n yet_o it_o can_v be_v deny_v but_o there_o be_v much_o obliquity_n in_o it_o in_o respect_n of_o the_o matter_n to_o make_v it_o otherwise_o utter_o unlawful_a in_o which_o point_n much_o need_v not_o be_v say_v because_o the_o truth_n thereof_o will_v soon_o appear_v for_o there_o be_v in_o it_o manifest_o a_o threefold_a obliquity_n and_o thereby_o also_o a_o breach_n of_o three_o several_a commandment_n the_o first_o obliquity_n be_v in_o respect_n of_o the_o unlawful_a affection_n from_o which_o it_o proceed_v which_o be_v place_v upon_o another_o than_o the_o husband_n and_o that_o in_o such_o a_o high_a degree_n as_o to_o produce_v a_o promise_n of_o this_o kind_n must_v needs_o be_v vicious_a both_o for_o the_o object_n and_o for_o the_o measure_n and_o such_o inordinate_a affection_n by_o the_o analogy_n of_o our_o saviour_n 5.28_o expression_n of_o the_o law_n be_v a_o violation_n of_o the_o chastity_n of_o the_o heart_n and_o so_o
this_o issue_n that_o they_o mutual_o vow_v either_o to_o other_o that_o if_o happy_o either_o of_o they_o shall_v at_o any_o time_n be_v free_v from_o the_o bond_n of_o matrimony_n either_o he_o by_o the_o death_n of_o his_o wife_n or_o she_o by_o the_o death_n of_o her_o husband_n that_o party_n so_o free_v shall_v continue_v afterward_o unmarried_a and_o stay_v for_o the_o other_o till_o the_o other_o shall_v be_v free_v also_o though_o it_o be_v during_o life_n now_o so_o it_o be_v that_o this_o gentlewoman_n husband_n die_v and_o her_o affection_n and_o resolution_n so_o alter_v that_o glad_o she_o will_v marry_v if_o she_o may_v be_v release_v of_o the_o engagement_n of_o that_o vow_n or_o persuade_v of_o the_o unlawfulness_n or_o nullity_n thereof_o concern_v the_o present_a case_n as_o it_o be_v propound_v sundry_a point_n be_v needful_a to_o be_v resolve_v that_o so_o we_o give_v a_o right_a judgement_n de_fw-fr praeterito_fw-la of_o what_o be_v already_o do_v for_o the_o time_n past_a in_o respect_n of_o the_o gentlewoman_n former_a promise_n and_o find_v direction_n also_o de_fw-la futuro_fw-la which_o be_v further_o to_o be_v do_v for_o the_o time_n to_o come_v in_o respect_n of_o her_o present_a distress_n point_n i._n sect._n 1_o first_o of_o all_o it_o be_v considerable_a whether_o the_o promise_v make_v by_o the_o gentlewoman_n and_o her_o friend_n be_v proper_o a_o vow_n or_o no_o so_o it_o be_v call_v in_o the_o proposal_n of_o the_o present_a case_n and_o that_o agreeable_a to_o the_o common_a use_n of_o speech_n with_o we_o here_o in_o england_n who_o extend_v the_o word_n vow_v very_o far_o neither_o shall_v i_o make_v scruple_n in_o the_o ensue_a discourse_n sometime_o to_o call_v it_o so_o for_o loquendum_fw-la ut_fw-la vulgus_fw-la but_o to_o speak_v proper_o a_o vow_n be_v a_o word_n of_o a_o narrow_a extent_n than_o a_o promise_n every_o vow_n be_v indeed_o a_o promise_n but_o not_o every_o promise_n necessary_o a_o vow_n 3._o promise_n may_v be_v make_v indifferent_o either_o to_o god_n or_o man_n but_o promise_v make_v to_o man_n be_v no_o vow_n wherefore_o it_o be_v usual_o insert_v into_o the_o definition_n of_o a_o vow_n as_o a_o condition_n ibid._n essential_o requisite_a thereunto_o that_o it_o be_v make_v un●o_o god_n alone_o insomuch_o as_o to_o make_v a_o vow_n to_o any_o creature_n be_v interpretative_a to_o exalt_v the_o creature_n into_o the_o place_n of_o god_n and_o so_o to_o make_v it_o a_o idol_n which_o be_v clear_a not_o only_o from_o the_o 76.11_o express_a precept_n of_o god_n and_o the_o constant_a 11.25_o example_n of_o godly_a man_n and_o the_o usual_a 56.11_o phrase_n of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n in_o the_o scripture_n but_o also_o from_o the_o universal_a consent_n of_o all_o learned_a man_n both_o divine_n and_o other_o and_o even_o of_o leg._n heathen_n also_o this_o gentlewoman_n promise_n then_o be_v make_v to_o the_o gentleman_n her_o friend_n alone_o as_o be_v his_o also_o to_o she_o and_o neither_o of_o both_o to_o god_n be_v therefore_o to_o be_v take_v for_o a_o mere_a promise_n but_o no_o vow_n sect._n 2._o if_o for_o more_o confirmation_n thereof_o she_o bind_v herself_o also_o by_o oath_n as_o it_o be_v not_o unlike_a yet_o it_o be_v no_o more_o for_o all_o that_o but_o a_o mere_a promise_n still_o and_o not_o a_o vow_n for_o albeit_o the_o very_a use_v of_o a_o oath_n be_v a_o call_n in_o of_o god_n into_o a_o business_n and_o the_o person_n that_o take_v a_o oath_n do_v thereby_o set_v himself_o in_o the_o presence_n of_o god_n yet_o a_o oath_n call_v he_o in_o only_a to_o be_v offic._n a_o witness_n without_o any_o intent_n to_o make_v he_o a_o party_n to_o the_o business_n whereas_o in_o a_o vow_n he_o be_v make_v a_o party_n and_o not_o only_o a_o witness_n whereunto_o agree_v those_o form_n so_o frequent_a in_o holy_a scripture_n in_o oath_n both_o assertory_n and_o stipulatory_a 2.14_o the_o lord_n be_v witness_n between_o we_o 1.5_o god_n be_v my_o witness_n 1.28_o i_o take_v god_n to_o record_v and_o the_o like_a for_o even_o as_o when_o a_o promise_n be_v make_v unto_o god_n whereunto_o for_o the_o more_o solemnity_n the_o presence_n of_o some_o man_n be_v require_v as_o witness_n such_o a_o promise_n be_v to_o be_v hold_v for_o a_o vow_n because_o it_o be_v make_v to_o god_n alone_o although_o in_o the_o presence_n of_o man_n so_o on_o the_o other_o side_n when_o a_o promise_n be_v make_v unto_o some_o man_n whereunto_o for_o the_o more_o assurance_n the_o presence_n of_o god_n be_v require_v as_o a_o witness_n such_o a_o promise_n be_v not_o to_o be_v hold_v for_o a_o vow_n because_o it_o be_v make_v unto_o man_n alone_o although_o in_o the_o presence_n of_o god_n sect._n 3_o nay_o further_o if_o the_o gentlewoman_n when_o she_o thus_o engage_v herself_o do_v use_v these_o very_a word_n i_o vow_v to_o god_n or_o word_n to_o that_o effect_n as_o we_o know_v be_v often_o do_v in_o solemn_a promise_n between_o man_n and_o man_n yet_o neither_o be_v that_o sufficient_a to_o make_v it_o proper_o a_o vow_n for_o to_o judge_n right_o when_o question_n be_v make_v concern_v any_o particular_a promise_n whether_o it_o be_v a_o vow_n yea_o or_o no_o we_o be_v not_o to_o be_v guide_v so_o much_o by_o the_o form_n of_o speech_n which_o be_v subject_a to_o change_v impropriety_n and_o many_o defect_n as_o by_o the_o true_a intention_n and_o purpose_n of_o the_o party_n especial_o the_o promiser_n now_o what_o be_v the_o whole_a intent_n and_o purpose_n of_o these_o party_n when_o they_o mutual_o bind_v themselves_o in_o such_o sort_n as_o in_o the_o case_n propound_v be_v lay_v down_o no_o reasonable_a man_n can_v be_v ignorant_a even_o this_o and_o no_o other_o to_o give_v as_o good_a assurance_n as_o they_o can_v devise_v either_o to_o other_o and_o to_o receive_v the_o like_a assurance_n again_o that_o the_o thing_n by_o they_o agree_v on_o and_o promise_v shall_v be_v faithful_o perform_v and_o if_o either_o oath_n or_o protestation_n be_v also_o use_v by_o way_n of_o confirmation_n they_o be_v all_o in_o common_a intendment_n to_o be_v take_v as_o tend_v to_o the_o selfsame_a purpose_n without_o look_v at_o any_o further_a thing_n &_o clear_o where_o the_o promiser_n have_v no_o intention_n to_o bind_v himself_o to_o god_n but_o to_o man_n only_o the_o promise_n so_o make_v be_v no_o vow_n whatsoever_o formality_n of_o word_n may_v be_v use_v in_o the_o make_n of_o it_o sect._n 4._o neither_o be_v the_o examination_n of_o this_o point_n a_o curiosity_n either_o in_o it_o self_n fruitless_a or_o impertinent_a to_o the_o case_n in_o hand_n for_o albeit_o in_o that_o which_o seem_v to_o be_v the_o very_a main_a point_n of_o all_o viz._n the_o power_n of_o bind_v the_o conscience_n there_o be_v no_o material_a difference_n between_o a_o vow_n and_o a_o ordinary_a promise_n a_o lawful_a promise_n no_o less_o bind_v unto_o performance_n than_o a_o lawful_a vow_n and_o a_o unlawful_a vow_n no_o more_o bind_v than_o a_o unlawful_a promise_n yet_o there_o be_v some_o difference_n between_o they_o and_o that_o of_o some_o importance_n too_o in_o respect_n of_o the_o relaxation_n of_o that_o bond_n for_o since_o it_o belong_v to_o he_o to_o who_o a_o bond_n be_v make_v to_o grant_v a_o release_n thereof_o it_o belong_v therefore_o to_o god_n alone_o to_o release_v the_o obligation_n of_o a_o vow_n and_o no_o man_n have_v power_n so_o to_o do_v because_o the_o vower_n by_o his_o vow_n bind_v himself_o to_o god_n not_o to_o man_n whereas_o the_o obligation_n of_o a_o mere_a promise_n wherein_o the_o promiser_n bind_v himself_o but_o to_o some_o man_n may_v be_v release_v by_o that_o man_n and_o a_o release_n from_o he_o be_v to_o the_o conscience_n of_o the_o promiser_n a_o sufficient_a discharge_n from_o the_o say_a obligation_n which_o consideration_n of_o what_o use_v it_o will_v be_v in_o the_o present_a case_n will_v in_o the_o due_a place_n further_o appear_v in_o the_o mean_a time_n we_o have_v evident_o prove_v that_o this_o gentlewoman_n bind_v he●_n self_n by_o promise_n only_o and_o not_o by_o vow_n point_n ii_o sect._n 5._o we_o be_v next_o to_o inquire_v concern_v the_o validity_n thereof_o whither_o or_o no_o the_o gentlewoman_n 〈◊〉_d 7.2_o have_v a_o husband_n at_o that_o time_n be_v so_o disable_v in_o that_o respect_n from_o make_v such_o a_o promise_n that_o the_o promise_n then_o make_v by_o she_o without_o the_o husband_n consent_n be_v utter_o void_a from_o the_o very_a beginning_n for_o the_o wife_n be_v under_o 2._o the_o law_n and_o 7.4_o under_o the_o power_n of_o her_o husband_n and_o so_o be_v not_o svi_fw-la juris_fw-la nor_o can_v bind_v he●_n self_n by_o vow_n oath_n promise_v or_o otherwise_o without_o the_o