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A53076 The compleat mother, or, An earnest perswasive to all mothers (especially those of rank and quality) to nurse their own children by Henry Newcome ... Newcome, Henry, 1650-1713. 1695 (1695) Wing N893; ESTC R3355 36,818 118

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