Selected quad for the lemma: love_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
love_n	affection_n	child_n	parent_n	4,224	5	8.6238	4	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A39528	The honour of marriage, or, The institution, necessity, advantages, comforts, and usefulness of a married life set forth in a sermon January 27, 1694, at Seven-Oak in Kent / by Joseph Fisher ...	Fisher, Joseph, d. 1705.	1695 (1695)	Wing F1010; ESTC R14340	16,478	32

religion_n and_o useful_a in_o the_o world_n for_o what_o be_v all_o man_n and_o the_o riches_n of_o the_o world_n but_o so_o many_o monument_n of_o marriage_n blessing_n what_o be_v it_o else_o that_o maintain_v the_o port_n and_o carry_v on_o the_o business_n of_o humane_a society_n the_o be_v and_o wellbeing_a of_o family_n and_o kingdom_n nay_o the_o cloister_n itself_o which_o contend_v for_o pre-eminence_n do_v whole_o depend_v upon_o it_o dare_v therefore_o any_o be_v so_o bold_a and_o impudent_a as_o to_o think_v slight_o or_o talk_v scurrious_o of_o that_o which_o have_v produce_v so_o much_o good_a in_o the_o world_n and_o of_o which_o he_o himself_o unless_o he_o be_v bise_n and_o ignominious_a be_v a_o fruit_n and_o production_n 4._o and_o last_o when_o i_o have_v name_v child_n i_o have_v say_v enough_o upon_o this_o head_n of_o my_o discourse_n for_o these_o be_v the_o great_a worldly_a blessing_n that_o god_n can_v bestow_v upon_o any_o they_o be_v the_o repository_n where_o parent_n bestow_v the_o fruit_n of_o their_o industry_n and_o labour_n they_o be_v the_o darling_n of_o their_o affection_n which_o ill_a behaviour_n and_o undutifulness_n can_v never_o whole_o extinguish_v experience_n teach_v we_o and_o the_o young_a part_n of_o mankind_n may_v be_v glad_a of_o it_o that_o nothing_o excite_v great_a love_n or_o care_n in_o parent_n than_o child_n for_o which_o this_o reason_n may_v be_v give_v that_o nature_n who_o inclination_n and_o propension_n be_v unconquerable_a have_v implant_v in_o they_o a_o deep_a tenderness_n and_o love_n for_o their_o offspring_n whereas_o god_n know_v they_o have_v too_o too_o often_o very_o little_a cause_n to_o be_v kind_a and_o love_a oh_o how_o do_v they_o rejoice_v at_o the_o bloom_a hope_n and_o welfare_n of_o their_o child_n they_o think_v no_o pain_n too_o much_o no_o labour_n too_o tedious_a for_o a_o happy_a provision_n for_o they_o and_o why_o shall_v not_o father_n do_v so_o for_o their_o child_n be_v nothing_o less_o than_o themselves_o multiply_v their_o name_n and_o being_n in_o a_o manner_n make_v immortal_a in_o the_o world_n or_o continue_v down_o from_o generation_n to_o generation_n this_o we_o find_v reckon_v a_o blessing_n from_o god_n on_o the_o pious_a man._n 6._o bless_a be_v every_o one_o that_o fear_v the_o lord_n that_o walk_v in_o his_o way_n for_o thou_o shall_v eat_v the_o labour_n of_o thy_o hand_n happy_a shall_v thou_o be_v and_o it_o shall_v be_v well_o with_o thou_o thy_o wife_n shall_v be_v as_o a_o fruitful_a vine_n by_o the_o side_n of_o thy_o house_n thy_o child_n like_o olive-plant_n round_o about_o thy_o table_n they_o shall_v see_v thy_o child_n child_n again_o 5._o child_n be_v a_o heritage_n of_o the_o lord_n and_o the_o fruit_n of_o the_o womb_n be_v his_o reward_n as_o arrow_n be_v in_o the_o hand_n of_o mighty_a man_n so_o be_v child_n of_o the_o youth_n happy_a be_v the_o man_n that_o have_v his_o quiver_n full_a of_o they_o they_o shall_v not_o be_v ashamed_a but_o they_o shall_v speak_v with_o the_o enemy_n in_o the_o gate_n iv._o the_o last_o thing_n i_o propose_v be_v to_o consider_v marriage_n as_o a_o antidote_n against_o the_o most_o notorious_a and_o cry_a sin_n and_o now_o what_o be_v these_o even_o the_o vile_a that_o man_n can_v be_v guilty_a of_o and_o which_o god_n have_v severe_o threaten_v and_o censure_v in_o his_o reveal_v word_n they_o be_v such_o as_o neither_o sex_n can_v commit_v till_o they_o have_v cast_v off_o all_o modesty_n all_o manner_n and_o all_o fear_n of_o god_n the_o very_a name_n of_o they_o and_o for_o brevity_n and_o haste_n i_o will_v but_o just_a name_n they_o be_v enough_o to_o make_v all_o man_n detest_v and_o dread_v they_o they_o be_v adultery_n fornication_n and_o act_n of_o uneleanness_n the_o horrid_a and_o damn_v nature_n of_o which_o may_v be_v manifest_v if_o we_o consider_v 1._o that_o they_o be_v downright_a violation_n of_o the_o marriage_n institution_n 2._o they_o bring_v a_o infamy_n upon_o humane_a nature_n for_o they_o bastardize_v the_o race_n of_o man_n they_o entail_v a_o disgrace_n upon_o posterity_n which_o be_v count_v ignominious_a and_o base_a both_o in_o the_o law_n of_o god_n and_o men._n and_o then_o 3._o last_o they_o be_v sin_n against_o that_o purity_n and_o chastity_n both_o of_o mind_n and_o body_n which_o our_o lord_n require_v in_o every_o one_o of_o his_o disciple_n 18._o flee_v fornication_n say_v the_o apostle_n every_o sin_n that_o a_o man_n do_v be_v without_o the_o body_n but_o he_o that_o commit_v fornication_n sin_v against_o his_o own_o body_n again_o 10._o know_v you_o not_o that_o the_o unrighteous_a shall_v not_o inherit_v the_o kingdom_n of_o god_n be_v not_o deceive_v neither_o fornicator_n nor_o idolater_n nor_o adulterer_n nor_o effeminate_a or_o abuser_n of_o themselves_o with_o mankind_n shall_v inherit_v the_o kingdom_n of_o god_n o_o sad_a and_o tremendous_a judgement_n in_o short_a such_o sin_n as_o these_o when_o indulge_v in_o and_o not_o punish_v as_o the_o law_n require_v when_o the_o actor_n of_o they_o be_v discover_v be_v of_o infection_n enough_o to_o spread_v over_o and_o debauch_v mankind_n and_o of_o weight_n and_o guilt_n enough_o to_o sink_v and_o condemn_v a_o nation_n for_o my_o text_n tell_v we_o whoremonger_n and_o adulterer_n god_n will_v judge_v i_o have_v now_o finish_v so_o far_o as_o the_o time_n will_v give_v i_o leave_v the_o four_o particular_n i_o at_o first_o propose_v and_o shall_v hasten_v to_o a_o conclusion_n you_o find_v from_o what_o have_v be_v say_v from_o whence_o a_o marriage_n have_v its_o original_a what_o be_v the_o benefit_n and_o blessing_n of_o it_o which_o be_v so_o many_o and_o so_o great_a that_o to_o man_n who_o consider_v what_o the_o world_n be_v what_o the_o state_n and_o condition_n of_o humane_a nature_n be_v it_o must_v both_o appear_v necessary_a and_o praiseworthy_a god_n and_o nature_n have_v make_v it_o a_o honourable_a state_n of_o life_n and_o where_o it_o be_v there_o be_v power_n and_o a_o just_a and_o high_a respect_n be_v due_a unto_o it_o so_o that_o every_o marry_a man_n as_o such_o 23._o shall_v be_v know_v in_o the_o gate_n when_o he_o fit_v among_o the_o elder_n of_o the_o land_n to_o be_v a_o father_n or_o a_o mother_n a_o husband_n or_o a_o wife_n a_o master_n or_o a_o mistress_n be_v all_o of_o they_o title_n of_o authority_n and_o honour_n and_o some_o of_o they_o be_v communicate_v to_o the_o great_a monarch_n as_o name_n of_o endearment_n and_o veneration_n for_o they_o be_v father_n to_o the_o kingdom_n they_o govern_v and_o when_o they_o be_v such_o as_o that_o name_n import_v they_o then_o have_v power_n and_o they_o do_v deserve_v it_o what_o now_o need_v i_o add_v more_o to_o recommend_v this_o state_n of_o life_n to_o the_o good_a opinion_n of_o all_o man_n see_v that_o by_o the_o law_n of_o god_n so_o much_o honour_n be_v due_a to_o it_o yet_o however_o what_o i_o have_v say_v must_v not_o be_v so_o understand_v as_o that_o i_o will_v seem_v to_o lay_v a_o necessity_n or_o a_o obligation_n in_o conscience_n upon_o all_o man_n to_o marry_o no_o i_o do_v not_o intend_v that_o for_o i_o dare_v not_o censure_v celibacy_n so_o severe_o when_fw-mi as_o the_o jew_n do_v and_o it_o be_v sufficient_o know_v what_o the_o opinion_n and_o practice_n of_o the_o primitive_a christian_n be_v with_o relation_n to_o the_o unmarried_a and_o marry_a life_n a_o great_a deal_n i_o think_v be_v to_o be_v allow_v to_o the_o prudence_n or_o temper_n of_o man_n in_o this_o case_n and_o to_o their_o circumstance_n in_o the_o world_n and_o therefore_o though_o i_o dare_v not_o condemn_v any_o for_o remain_v single_a yet_o i_o think_v no_o reason_n can_v be_v so_o excusable_a or_o at_o least_o laudable_a for_o it_o as_o when_o man_n continue_v in_o it_o upon_o the_o account_n of_o religion_n viz._n when_o they_o may_v serve_v god_n the_o better_a in_o that_o than_o the_o marry_a station_n certain_o to_o abstain_v from_o marriage_n from_o a_o principle_n of_o looseness_n a_o sordid_a and_o base_a temper_n of_o mind_n from_o sourness_n ill_a nature_n and_o the_o like_a be_v a_o thing_n very_o sinful_a to_o conclude_v all_o i_o shall_v from_o a_o consideration_n of_o what_o have_v be_v say_v upon_o the_o sacredness_n necessity_n consolation_n end_n and_o vsefulness_n of_o a_o marry_a life_n shut_v up_o this_o discourse_n with_o some_o expression_n of_o the_o wise_a son_n of_o syrach_n who_o rule_n of_o life_n judgement_n of_o thing_n and_o elegance_n of_o speech_n animate_v with_o a_o strain_n of_o piety_n show_v he_o to_o be_v a_o man_n of_o a_o extraordinary_a spirit_n 3._o a_o friend_n and_o a_o companion_n never_o meet_v amiss_o but_o above_o both_o be_v a_o wife_n with_o her_o husband_n bless_a be_v the_o man_n that_o have_v a_o virtuous_a wife_n for_o the_o number_n of_o his_o day_n shall_v be_v double_a a_o virtuous_a woman_n rejoice_v her_o husband_n and_o he_o shall_v fulfil_v the_o year_n of_o his_o life_n in_o peace_n a_o good_a wife_n be_v a_o good_a portion_n which_o shall_v be_v give_v in_o the_o portion_n of_o they_o that_o fear_v the_o lord_n finis_fw-la monendas_fw-la es_fw-la b._n l._n quod_fw-la ob_fw-la defectum_fw-la typorum_fw-la aethiopicorum_fw-la arabisorum_fw-la &_o samaritanorum_n voces_fw-la istarum_fw-la linguarum_fw-la quibus_fw-la usi_fw-la sumus_fw-la charactere_fw-la hebraico_fw-la edi_fw-la curavimus_fw-la vale_n &_o boni_fw-la consul_n isaiah_n 55._o 11._o isaiah_n 6._o 9_o 10._o matth._n 13._o 14_o 15._o rom._n 11._o 8._o jer._n 1._o 21._o rom._n 1._o 26._o 1_o peter_n 2._o 11._o eph._n 4._o 19_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 34._o prov._n 14._o 9_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d encratites_n saturninus_n etc._n etc._n etc._n epiph_n haer._n 3_o sect._n 2._o &_o seq_n &_o haer_fw-mi 47._o sect._n 1_o 2._o iren._n l._n 1._o c._n 22._o 22._o euseb_n 4_o 28_o 29._o 29._o cl._n alex._n lib._n 3._o tert._n contr_n marc._n lib._n 1._o vid._n 1._o tim._n 4._o 3._o &_o ibi_fw-la commentatores_fw-la commentatores_fw-la ham._n in_o loc_n lit_fw-fr a._n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d estius_fw-la 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 1_o cor._n 7._o 34._o chrysost_n de_fw-fr virgin_n c._n 15_o 16._o eus_n prop._n evang._n 1._o 9_o grot._n in_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 34._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d grotius_n gen._n 2._o 22._o c._n 1._o 27._o gen._n 2._o 21_o etc._n etc._n etc._n vid._n hiedeg_n exercit._fw-la 1._o sect._n 9_o etc._n etc._n j._n meyer_n uxor_fw-la christ_n disler_fw-mi prim_fw-la sect._n 1._o cap._n 3._o p._n 34_o etc._n etc._n c._n 2._o p._n 19_o 19_o matth._n 19_o 3_o 4_o 5_o 6._o 6._o lomb._n 4._o d._n 27._o light_v b._n aq._n sup._n q._n 44._o art_n 1_o 2._o greg._n de_fw-fr val._n tom._n 4_o disp_n 10._o punct_a 1._o the_o sponsal_n c_o 27._o q._n 2._o eccl._n 36._o 24._o eph._n 5._o 29._o see_v bp._n patrick_n comment_n gen._n 2._o 22._o vid._n perer._n in_o dissert_v de_fw-fr formatione_fw-la evae_n ex_fw-la adam_n l._n 4._o p._n 157_o etc._n etc._n in_o gen._n gen._n vid._n theoph._n ad_fw-la aut●licum_fw-la l._n 2._o p._n 104._o gen._n 2._o 24._o 24._o vid._n pro._n 19_o 14._o &_o ibi_fw-la inter_fw-la chald._n &_o syriac_n item_n glossas_fw-la ab._n ezrae_n &_o l._n gersom_a waganscil_n sota_n p._n 66._o 66._o tal._n babyl_n tit._n jeb_n 65._o 2._o shulcan_n aruch_n in_o eben_n ezre_n p._n 3._o n._n 1._o sect._n 1._o &_o sic_fw-la passim_fw-la apud_fw-la alios_fw-la alios_fw-la gen._n 1._o 28._o 28._o vid._n ja●chi_n in_o gen._n 1._o 28._o 28._o maim_v hal._n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d cap._n 15._o sect._n 1_o 2._o vid._n buxt_n de_fw-fr son_n p._n 8_o 9_o hottin_n de_fw-fr jur._n heb._n p._n 6._o etc._n etc._n seld._n de_fw-fr jur._n n._n &_o gent._n 5._o c._n 3._o 3._o gen._n 1._o 22._o gen._n 1._o 27_o 28._o 28._o exit_fw-la v._o si_fw-la synopseos_fw-la authori_fw-la fides_fw-la fides_fw-la mr._n le_fw-fr clerk_n clerk_n f._n simon_n simon_n vid._n def_n des_fw-fr sentemens_n etc._n etc._n letter_n 1._o p._n 3._o gen._n 2._o 18._o vid._n buxt_n de_fw-fr spons_fw-la 132._o m._n ben._n israel_n council_n in_o gen_n q._n 16._o 16._o ezet_n cenegdo_n cenegdo_n vid._n lud._n de_fw-fr dieu_fw-fr in_fw-la loc_n loc_n vid._n fag_n &_o kimchi_n in_o rad._n rad._n vid._n buxt_n loc_n praed_fw-we praed_fw-we vid._n nold_z conc_fw-fr p._n 1003._o num._n 1381._o gen._n 3._o 12._o 12._o vid._n inter._n syr._n chald._n chald._n nold_z conc_fw-fr p._n 1059._o num._n ●830_n prov._n 12._o 4._o prov._n 31_o 10_o 11_o 12._o ecclus_n 36._o 24._o 24._o vid._n decret_a ●_o cans_fw-mi 27._o q._n 2._o matrimonium_fw-la &_o sufficiat_fw-la col._n 3._o 19_o psalm_n 128._o 1_o 2_o 3_o 6._o psalm_n 127._o 3_o 4_o 5._o 1_o cor._n 6._o 18._o ibid._n v_o 9_o 10._o prov._n 31._o 23._o 23._o ber._n rabbah_n par_fw-fr 34._o 21._o 2._o ed._n when_fw-mi eccl._n 40._o 23._o and_o 26._o 1_o 2_o 3._o

be_v create_v 16._o the_o lord_n god_n say_v it_o be_v not_o good_a that_o man_n shall_v be_v alone_o i_o will_v make_v he_o a_o help_n meet_v for_o he_o it_o be_v not_o good_a that_o be_v to_o say_v it_o be_v no_o way_n convenient_a or_o comfortable_a or_o agreeable_a to_o he_o or_o his_o condition_n in_o the_o world_n and_o therefore_o he_o create_v cenegdo_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d a_o help_n meet_v for_o he_o as_o we_o interpret_v it_o but_o the_o word_n be_v various_o translate_v by_o other_o viz._n anxilium_fw-la simile_n sibi_fw-la in_o the_o vulgar_a latin_a follow_v by_o the_o syriack_n version_n a_o help_v like_a unto_o himself_o i._n e._n one_o of_o the_o same_o nature_n and_o constitution_n with_o he_o one_o of_o equal_a tenderness_n and_o regard_n for_o he_o as_o he_o have_v for_o himself_o or_o one_o create_v on_o purpose_n to_o perform_v all_o those_o kind_a office_n of_o assistance_n which_o his_o condition_n in_o the_o world_n require_v from_o she_o in_o the_o 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〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d a_o yoke-fellow_n that_o may_v go_v out_o with_o he_o praed_fw-we i_o shall_v pass_v by_o those_o extravagant_a interpretation_n some_o jew_n make_v on_o purpose_n to_o countenance_v their_o opinion_n concern_v divorce_n and_o shall_v content_v myself_o with_o 1381._o that_o gloss_n of_o a_o rabbi_n as_o i_o find_v he_o cite_v because_o the_o jew_n general_o agree_v in_o it_o i_o will_v make_v a_o help_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d which_o shall_v be_v always_o with_o he_o or_o at_o hand_n to_o minister_v unto_o and_o to_o observe_v he_o but_o what_o need_v criticism_n the_o best_a way_n to_o interpret_v word_n be_v to_o confider_v thing_n and_o to_o direct_v the_o meaning_n of_o those_o to_o the_o nature_n and_o use_n of_o these_o and_o therefore_o by_o the_o word_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d we_o may_v understand_v that_o the_o woman_n be_v create_v to_o perform_v all_o the_o duty_n incumbent_a upon_o she_o towards_o the_o man_n not_o exclude_v he_o 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