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one_o temper_n or_o constitution_n for_o a_o young_a wife_n that_o be_v in_o the_o spring_n of_o her_o age_n be_v like_o the_o sun_n in_o the_o spring_n of_o the_o year_n it_o not_o only_o get_v the_o ascendant_n every_o day_n high_o and_o high_o but_o grow_v every_o day_n more_o strong_a and_o vigorous_a but_o a_o old_a husband_n be_v like_o autumn_n who_o strength_n go_v only_o downward_o therefore_o i_o fancy_v a_o old_a man_n marry_v a_o handsome_a young_a lady_n have_v nothing_o to_o plead_v but_o guilty_a but_o a_o young_a lady_n for_o marry_v a_o old_a man_n may_v have_v some_o colourable_a excuse_n to_o moderate_v the_o folly_n and_o lessen_v the_o shame_n of_o such_o a_o unequal_a match_n for_o perhaps_o
the_o second_o discourse_n 〈◊〉_d mere_a beauty-love_n with_o some_o of_o the_o vile_a art_n and_o wicked_a deceit_n many_o gallant_n use_v to_o ruin_v their_o mistress_n reputation_n under_o a_o false_a pretence_n of_o true_a friendship_n and_o of_o the_o great_a folly_n of_o such_o woman_n who_o delight_n in_o censure_v other_o but_o slight_a all_o other_o censure_v they_o because_o they_o fancy_v they_o do_v not_o deserve_v it_o with_o some_o useful_a advice_n thereon_o p._n xxxii_o the_o three_o discourse_n of_o young_a man_n great_a folly_n in_o adore_v and_o over-praising_a all_o young_a handsome_a lady_n and_o their_o great_a vanity_n in_o receive_v it_o and_o believe_v they_o p._n 1_o the_o four_o discourse_n of_o the_o extraordinary_a govern_v power_n woman_n beauty_n now_o exercise_n over_o most_o young_a men._n p._n 21_o the_o five_o discourse_n of_o the_o inconstancy_n most_o lady_n especial_o such_o as_o be_v cry_v up_o beauty_n and_o the_o folly_n of_o any_o man_n that_o believe_v he_o be_v full_o acquaint_v with_o and_o soley_n possess_v of_o a_o vain_a beauty_n heart_n and_o can_v give_v good_a reason_n for_o the_o various_a motion_n of_o her_o love-change_n p._n 42_o the_o six_o discourse_n of_o marriage_n and_o of_o wife_n who_o usurp_v a_o gover_a power_n over_o their_o husband_n which_o be_v now_o so_o common_a as_o it_o be_v almost_o become_v the_o general_a grievance_n of_o the_o nation_n p._n 5â—_n the_o seven_o discourse_n of_o the_o inequality_n of_o many_o marriage_n awe_v of_o the_o inconstancy_n of_o most_o wife_n that_o man_n marâ—â—â—_n for_o mere_a beauty_n or_o their_o parent_n match_v forbaâ—_n money_n with_o the_o sad_a end_n that_o usual_o attend_v suâ—_n matches_n p._n 6â—_n the_o eight_o discourse_n against_o maid_n marry_v for_o mere_a love_n or_o only_a 〈◊〉_d please_v their_o parent_n inclination_n though_o quite_o contrary_a to_o their_o own_o p._n 8â—_n the_o nine_o discourse_n against_o widow_n marry_v p._n 9â—_n the_o ten_o discourse_n against_o keep_v of_o misses_n p._n 11â—_n the_o eleven_o discourse_n of_o the_o vain_a folly_n of_o such_o woman_n as_o think_v to_o sheâ—_n their_o wit_n by_o jeer_a at_o and_o censure_v of_o their_o neighbour_n p._n 12â—_n the_o twelve_o discourse_n of_o the_o french_a fassion_n and_o dress_n late_o use_v 〈◊〉_d england_n by_o the_o modish_a lady_n and_o your_o spark_n p._n 13â—_n the_o thirteen_o discourse_n of_o worldly_a praise_n which_o all_o lady_n love_n to_o receive_v but_o few_o strive_v to_o deserve_v and_o the_o sad_a eâ—_n of_o it_o and_o they_o when_o they_o come_v to_o die_v p._n 15â—_n the_o fourteen_o discourse_n useful_a advice_n in_o order_n to_o the_o vain_a modish_a lady_n we_o regulate_v their_o beauty_n and_o life_n p._n 17â—_n the_o first_o discourse_n of_o some_o of_o the_o common_a way_n many_o virtuous_a wife_n take_v to_o lose_v their_o reputation_n though_o they_o keep_v their_o chastity_n be_v virtuous_a in_o their_o inward_a intention_n but_o 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