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A37135 The Dying man's assistant, or, Short instructions for those who are concern'd in the preparing of sick persons for death being also no less worthy the consideration of all good Christians in time of health, as shewing the importance of an early preparation for their latter end, with regard as well to their temporal, as eternal state ... 1697 (1697) Wing D2954; ESTC R17100 52,686 145

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by repeated acts to root it in his heart it being the best Disposition he can die in in order to his perfect enjoyment of God after his Dissolution And First For the bringing him duly to consider how much God deserves our Love let him make use of such Words as these Thou knowest Dear Brother that the Sum of all the Evangelical Law is That we should love God with all our Hearts with all our Souls with all our Minds and with all our Strength and this not only with regard to our selves because it is necessary and profitable for us and without which we cannot be happy but also with respect to Him and his Divine Attributes who being transcendently Good and Wise and Almighty and Gracious and Merciful and possessing all Perfections above utterance or Conception it ought to be our great desire that all Men should acknowledge Him for such and pay Him the Honour Obedience and Love due to so Supream a Being Who by his Own Nature and as the Fountain of all Goodness possesses the Virtues of the Saints and Angels and of all other Creatures Visible and Invisible their greatest Perfections how admirable soever they may appear to us being at the best but faint glimpses and reflections of his immense Light and Glory And thus you see how much we are bound to love God for his own sake whom to behold is alone sufficient to make both Angels and Men happy Let the Minister also observe to him that God has even prevented us by his Love and a greater Love than ever Father bore towards Son than ever Friend bore towards Friend than ever Husband bore towards Wife And that upon this account it is He has given Himself the three Titles of Father Friend and Husband to the end that by these endearing Appellations which express the greatest tenderness among Men He might make us sensible how great the Love is He bears towards us If a King that loves his Subjects deserves from them a reciprocal Love 't is surely very fit and just that though we were even vile enough not to love God for his own sake yet at least out of common gratitude we should love Him because He has first loved us Moreover let him be admonished to love God for the Benefits he has receiv'd at his Hand and this under a double Consideration I. With regard to the Order of Nature For his Creation and Being for his Immortal Soul capable of Eternal Happiness for the use and preservation of his Senses for the Rank assign'd all other Creatures in subservience to his Aid Pleasure and Convenience And then let him be put in mind that 't was not for any need He had of him that God had heaped all these Benefits upon him but purely out of an abundant Love and Goodness and for which He expects no return of Profit or Reward but only a mutual and reciprocal Love II. With regard to the Order of Grace That the Father Everlasting forbore not to give his own Son to redeem him from the Slavery of the Devil and perpetual Torments That this beloved Son humbled himself even to the Death of the Cross to purchase Eternal Glory for him That the Holy Ghost has many times been pleas'd to descend into his Soul to purifie it from its Spots and Blemishes and replenish it with his Divine Inspirations That He it is that comforts him in his Sickness that allows him time to prepare himself to die as behoves a pious Christian and has preserv'd him from being snatch'd away suddenly In short let the Minister present to his Consideration the Pleasures which God has provided for him Pleasures so great and ravishing as exceed the power of Mortal Man with Tongue to express or Thought to conceive And from all this leave him to judge with what fervency and faithfulness he ought to love Him Again The Minister may encline his heart to the Divine Love by way of Prayer causing him to repeat after him some Words of the Holy Scripture like these Lord Thou hast said that we ought to love Thee with all our Hearts and with all our Souls Oh! if it be thy blessed Will encrease in me this Divine Charity I feel a great desire of loving Thee and if in this Life I cannot do it to the degree I wish Lord grant I may in the Eternal State For whom have I in Heaven but Thee and whom upon Earth can I desire in Comparison of Thee Thou art the God of my Life and my Portion for ever Grant that I may not only love Thee above all the Creatures in the World but that I may love nothing but Thee and for Thy sake that so I may look upon Thee as my only Good both in this Life and in that which is to come O infinite Goodness Who shall give me power and strength to love Thee infinitely When will that blessed State come that Thou alone shalt have the sole possession of my Heart When shall I be wholly Thine who am by so many ties and on so many accounts bound to be so O let it come that blessed Time when God shall possess me fully and entirely and when I shall be able to offer my self to Him without reserve Lord who hast loved me with an Eternal Love Who createdst me of nothing who savedst me when I was worse than nothing and hast so often restored to me Thy Heavenly Grace when I had lost it by my Sins If I owe my Soul to Thee so many ways what do I not owe Thee for Thy Self who art so Holy and Merciful To the rest of Thy transcendent Favours be pleas'd to add that of inflaming my Heart so as I may love Thee without bounds or measure O Blessed Spirit who art that immense Love proceeding from the Father and the Son Who vouchsafest to fill us with Thy Divine Gifts Encrease I beseech Thee every moment the Love I have and shall ever continue to have for Thee Lastly The Minister shall engage him to a Love of God by some eminent Instances of the Great Love of the Saints towards Him whether from the Lives of the Holy Apostles or other Blessed Martyrs and Confessors of Jesus Christ raising there-from an Occasion of exciting him to Acts of Contrition and the acknowledging himself a miserable Sinner who contrary to the Example of those Holy Men had so often abandoned his God and Creator for the sake of the World and vilest of its Creatures directing him at the same time to lift up his heart to the Eternal Father in these Words Lord who hast prevented me by thy manifold Blessings I own my self to be that miserable Sinner that ungrateful Slave that Wicked Wretch who have despised Thee even Thee my Creator and my Father In the Name and for the sake of Thy dear Son Christ Jesus my Redeemer I implore Thy Pardon O Father of Mercy Wash away all my Iniquities and have mercy upon me Thy poor Creature who am the Work
by him and causing those that are present to join with him therein In short let his whole Discourse be plain tender and affectionate particularly with Persons of Piety and Understanding who are not to be spoke to by way of Instruction but as it were only to refresh their Minds with those Virtues they have already known and practis'd But if the Minister has no knowledge of or acquaintance with the Sick Person the first thing he is to do when he goes to his House is to get information concerning him with respect to the Qualities and Circumstances above mention'd Viz. Whether he be a Man of Learning or not Whether of a meek and sweet Nature whether he has still his Senses good and the use of his Reason Whether he is at the point of Death Whether he has been already visited by any other Minister and has receiv'd the Sacred Viaticum What Course of Life he has led Whether there be any particular thing of which he ought to be put in mind necessary to his Salvation Whether he lies under any secret trouble or affliction and whether he has his Hearing so good as to be able to hear what may be spoken softly to him As soon as the Minister is come into the Sick Person 's Chamber let him begin his Exhortation with greeting him in an affectionate manner that so by his Civility he may render himself the more agreeable and welcome to him Then if he finds it convenient he may ask him some Questions about the State of his Conscience but this he must do gently and with a modest liberty And when the Sick Person shall give him Answers he ought to hear him patiently taking care not to disturb him with any Discourse forrein to the purpose or with vain repetitions And thus having made himself acquainted with his Temper and Disposition of Mind let him not omit any thing of Gentleness Tenderness or the like that may win the Sick Person to a Confidence in him whereby he may the more easily perswade him of what he shall say and in case he be oblig'd to come again the Patient may receive him with pleasure and delight CHAP. II. What things are requisite for the disposing a Sick Person to die well THEY are two-fold Some absolutely necessary which are such as may put him into a State of Grace Others only useful to the comforting him and strengthening his Hope To which is to be added the Disposal of his Body and of his Estate for the benefit of his Relations And though there are different ways of effecting this according to the Condition he is in and the time he has for it yet we shall hereafter treat thereof as if he had all the leisure he could desire for the same and from thence shall proceed to speak of what he ought to do when he wants time and his Understanding grows weaker What therefore the Minister is principally to take care of is to put the Patient into a State of Grace To which end he ought to dispose him to the receiving of the Blessed Sacrament of the Lord's Supper which is the Channel whereby the Holy Ghost descends into our hearts He must also read to him some proper Places in the Gospel and the Service for the Sick And that done he may go on to the asking him Questions and let his Discourse fall upon his Distemper insinuating to him that the Physicians are apprehensive of his Life and therefore he should not rely too much upon Human Means or what Help his Friends and Relations can give him but put his whole Trust and Confidence in God Who loving him with an unbounded Love and being able to do all things will if it be for the good of his Soul restore him to his Health again or else afford him those means whereby he may attain to Everlasting Bliss That he ought with all his heart to turn himself towards Jesus Christ his most true Friend whose Love to him extended so far as to the shedding even his Blood for him as himself expresseth it in his Holy Gospel Who is the only Faithful Friend that never abandons us at the point of Death whereas our other Friends either will not or cannot in that last moment be of any avail to us Who is also a Wise Physician that is able not only to cure the Body so as to continue it still in life for many Years but even to heal the Soul too and make it happy for evermore Having thus spoken to him and hereon inlarg'd according to his discretion the Minister should in the next place ask him whether he has any thing which troubles his Conscience and ought to be reveal'd so that if he finds his Distemper to be violent and dangerous he may admonish him forthwith to disburthen himself by Confession But if he be in no present danger of Death he may be allow'd more time for it to the end he may the better recollect himself of all he has done amiss and heartily beg God's pardon for the same the Minister putting him in mind of the Words of the Prophet to this purpose In the bitterness of my Soul O Lord will I call to remembrance before Thee all the Years that I have spent in Sin But in case the Patient desires no time to examine himself and the Minister knows that this is only to avoid the trouble of searching his Conscience perhaps out of fear that in reflecting upon his sinful Life past he may unhappily meet with some new Temptation or at the best not reap much fruit there-from he ought to perswade him that to be re-established in Grace he must without delay make an humble Confession of all his Sins to Almighty God and according to the Advice of the Son of Sirach in his Ecclesiasticus not defer his Conversion from day to day Forasmuch as we cannot promise to our selves one hour longer and that according to our Repentance or Obdurateness of Heart we shall be for ever happy or miserable On which occasion let the Minister remember him of what the Wiseman saith That delay of Conversion has been the Destruction of many Sinners who flattering themselves with the hopes of long life often fall into a Delirium and lose their Senses or else are surpris'd by a sudden Death and so being prevented of time and opportunity to repent are irrecoverably lost adding that he who is not ready to be converted to day will be less so to morrow In short the Minister ought to stir him up to a true Contrition of heart by representing to him the heinousness of his Sins yet with such moderation as not to affright him and cast him into Despair It will be sufficient that he make him sensible of the Majesty of that God he has offended before whom the Angels themselves tremble of his inflexible Justice which severely punishes the Devils and all Reprobates and no less of his Holiness that bears so great a hatred to Sin that whoever
dies in impenitence though formerly he may have led a Righteous Life must expect to be adjudg'd to Everlasting Flames Yet let the Minister as is said before take care not to affright the Patient especially if he be naturally timorous but rather increase and support his Contrition by laying before him God's Mercies and Goodness in the order both of Nature and Grace shewing him what great Love He had for him in not sparing his only begotten Son but delivering him up to the Death of the Cross for the Redemption of him and all penitent Sinners What Glory He has prepar'd for him in Heaven How good and gracious He is and worthy of our Love and Praise who has both made him out of nothing and adopted him in his Son and our Redeemer Christ Jesus And so the Minister shall continue with an affectionate tenderness to represent to him that this is that Good God he has offended by his manifold Sins and for which therefore he ought sensibly to be afflicted and heartily repent Which having said the Minister may here make a pause and give the Sick Person time to reflect upon what he has now spoken so as he may be excited to Contrition And then he shall raise his Hope again and animate his Love by telling him that the same God forgives him all his Sins who in his infinite Mercy waited for his Repentance and has promised by his Prophet that at what time soever the Sinner shall return to Him He will pardon his iniquities and remember them no more That his Saviour has his Arms stretched out upon the Cross ready to embrace him and put him into the possession of Heaven which He has purchased for him with his Precious Blood After this let the Minister exhort him to say both with Heart and Mouth as the Publican in the Gospel Lord have mercy upon me a poor Sinner And with David Lord forgive me all my Sins Have mercy upon me O Lord according to thy great Goodness according to the multitude of thy Mercies do away mine Offences Wash me throughly from my Wickedness and cleanse me from my Sin O turn thee unto me and have mercy upon me for I am desolate and in misery Against Thee O my God! have I sinn'd and done evil in thy sight And if thou Lord wilt be extream to mark what I have done amiss I cannot abide it O enter not into Judgment with thy Servant for in thy sight shall no man living be justified My soul cleaves unto the dust O quicken thou me according to thy Word I am full of heaviness because I have offended thee My Soul also is sore troubled but Lord how long wilt thou punish me O be thou merciful unto me and help me for I put my trust in Thee Remember not O Lord the Sins and Offences of my Youth but according to thy mercy think thou upon me Turn thy face from my Sins and put out all my misdeeds O let me hear of joy and gladness that the bones which thou hast broken may rejoyce Make me a clean heart O God and renew a right spirit withinme Cast me not away from thy presence and take not thy Holy Spirit from me O give me the comfort of thy help again and stablish me with thy free Spirit Lord I am thine O save me and deliver me Shew the light of thy countenance upon me Make hast to help me O Lord Thou art my Helper and my Redeemer O Lord make no long tarrying Cast me not away in this time of distress forsake me not now my strength fails me but draw nigh unto my soul and save it for thy mercies sake Bow down thine Ear O Lord and hear me for I am poor and in misery Be merciful unto me O Lord for my spirit waxeth faint Comfort the soul of thy servant for unto thee O Lord do I lift up my soul For thou Lord art good and gracious and of great mercy unto all them that call upon thee Give ear Lord unto my Prayer and ponder the voice of my humble desires In the time of my trouble I will call upon Thee for Thou hearest me Teach me thy way O Lord and I will walk in thy Truth O knit my heart unto Thee that I may fear thy Name Lord Thou knowest all my desire and my groaning is not hid from Thee My heart panteth my strength has failed me and the sight of my Eyes is gone from me There is no health in my fl●sh because of thy displeasure neither is there any rest in my bones by reason of my Sin Take thy plague away from me I am even consumed by the means of thy heavy hand O hide not thou thy face from me nor cast thy Servant away in displeasure Thou hast been my succour leave me not neither forsake me O God of my Salvation Hear my prayer O Lord and with thine ears consider my calling Hold not thy peace at my tears For thy hand is heavy upon me day and night and my moisture is like the drought in summer O spare me a little that I may recover my strength before I go hence and be no more seen These Divine Sentences or some of them or the like with which the Book of Psalms is abounding the Minister may use according as he shall judge most proper and suitable to the Capacity of the Sick Person and the Condition he shall find him in to the end he may still keep him in a state of Contrition and remove from his heart all inclinations to Sin But as we have intimated before let him take great care that this Contrition of his be not imperfect and grounded only upon fear of Punishment but be excited and supported by a true Love of God and perfect Charity towards all Men. And when the Minister shall perceive the Patient to be thus throughly affected with the sense of his Sins and to express a hearty Sorrow for them and fervent Love towards his offended Creator let him for his Comfort declare to him In the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Ghost that upon his sincere Repentance all his Sins are done away and will never more be remembred That the Gracious and Merciful God has passed by and forgiven his Iniquities and Transgressions has now received him into his Favour and will shortly admit him into the Company of his Holy Angels and Blessed Saints That He will make him sit at Table with him in the Kingdom of Glory and replenish him with Joy and Felicity for ever more But before this Declaration be made 't is necessary that the Minister exhort him to take his Sickness and if it should so please God his Death too with patience and submission it being a Tribute we are all obliged to and acceptable to God when freely paid He must also admonish him that if he has any Goods in his possession that belong to his Neighbour he should if possible make immediate Restitution
thereof and not leave it to be done by his Heirs or Executors who perhaps will forget it as soon as he is dead What we have here said of Restitution is to be understood of things that are undoubtedly another Man's or Debts that he has legally contracted and admit of no dispute But if it be a doubtful Debt and the Sick Person be able to give a clear account of it he must by all means be advis'd to do it in order to the restoring what is not his own Or if he cannot presently clear the Matter as may happen in the Case of a Guardian to a Minor or a Steward or Agent to One of a great Estate or Dealings he must be told that he ought by a special Clause in his Last Will and Testament to oblige his Heirs Executors or Administrators under a certain penalty to prepare immediately after his Death the Accounts he should have given-in himself had he lived and what shall be found to be remaining due to pay without delay And if he ow'd a clear Sum which he was not then in a condition to pay he ought likewise to oblige his said Administrators to discharge it as soon as may be But if it were at all possible 't would be much better and safer for him to make all those Restitutions himself before his Death than to charge them that come after him therewith Again if the Sick Person be publickly known to have been at Enmity with any one he ought not only to be now in Charity with him but if possible see him and as his Hatred has made a noise in the World so it would not be amiss that his Reconciliation were made before Witnesses to remove the Scandal occasioned thereby And if it was he that gave the first offence to his Neighbour he ought to send to him to beg his Pardon for his misbehaviour and make him satisfaction for the Wrong he may have done him This is meant of publick Injuries But if it be a private Grudge or Spleen Prudence requires That Satisfaction should be made in private and only with the Persons concern'd therein And if he is under an Obligation of repairing the Honour and Reputation which by Slander he may have taken away from his Neighbour let him do it in the best manner he can either by himself or another by word of Mouth or in Writing And Lastly If he has had the misfortune to incur the Publick Censure of the Church he should be exhorted to an humble submission and acknowledgment of his Crime This being over the Minister shall more particularly dispose him to receive the Holy Sacrament of the Lord's Supper preparing him thereto by Acts of Faith Hope and Charity and above all a profound Humility before God who has said by his Prophet That he dwelleth with him that is of a contrite and humble Spirit CHAP. III. Advice to be given to a Sick Person concerning his Relations his Body and his Estate THE Minister having done with the Patient in whatever he thought necessary for the good of his Soul he must now proceed to the advising him to think of his Relations to declare where he will be Buried and to dispose of his Worldly Goods Of which he might have put him in mind before he administred the Holy Sacrament to him But if he omitted it then he ought now to do it and first of all to offer to him the consideration of his Wise and Children especially if the latter be under Age that he may appoint an honest and careful Person for their Guardian whom he can trust with their Education and Estate And in case he has any Daughters not yet dispos'd of that he may leave them according to his Ability wherewith to live either a Single or Married Life as it shall please God to order it And if he has Nephews or other Relations under his Care or Servants he owes any Wages to or is in conscience oblig'd to provide for that he be not remiss in his Justice and Charity to every of them In like manner if the Sick Person has had the Management and Administration of any one's Estate or Affairs or has been in any Publick Employment or concerned in any part of the King's Service let the Minister exhort him strictly to examine his Conduct and Behaviour with relation thereto that if he finds any thing respecting the discharge of such his Duty or Trust that troubles his Conscience he may tell it him or cause it to be told by some body else to the Parties concerned He should be ask'd also what Place he desires to be Buried in in case he has not yet declared it But above all should be desired to prohibit any superfluous Pomp at his Funeral which does not in the least contribute to the Salvation of the Soul but is commonly done by the Friends and Relations out of Pride and Vain-glory Shewing him that a good Christian ought to direct and enjoyn that his Burial be made in an humble and modest and decent manner and at most but suitable to his Quality and Condition In the making his Will and disposing of his Estate let the Minister exhor● him carefully to avoid all unjust Partialities which are often-times very ill grounded Or if he has made his Will already 't is fit he be ask'd whether he has any thing to add to take from or alter in it which may be done by a Codici● annext putting him in mind to order therein the payment of his Domesticks Wages and what other Debts he owes If his Estate be so considerable as to admit of Pious Legacies the Minister may shew him the Order he ought to observe herein And much better and safer it would be for him to see the Distribution of his own Charities before he dies than to charge his Heirs or Administrators with them it too often falling out that they prove very hard and backward in the acquitting themselves therein Whereas if he saw the same done in his Life-time the Poor would reap the greater benefit and himself the more satisfaction from it and he might say with St. Lawrence The hands of the Needy have carried up my Alms to Heaven And if among his pious Legacies he designs to found an Hospital or Almshouse or ought of this kind that may remain a Monument to Posterity let him take great care that he does it not more out of Pride and a Vain-glorious Expectation of being celebrated for his Munificence than through a sincere Love to God making him sensible that those Foundations that are laid purely for Charity-sake and the Service of God and true Religion are infinitely more pleasing and acceptable to Him than the bestowing of a Man's whole Estate upon the Poor with any other prospect or intention Upon which the Minister shall advise him to make a serious reflection and to take notice also that though the Foundation of Hospitals and other Places of Charity be a very commendable Work yet the
a Sick Person is by Words or Sentences taken out of the Holy Scripture and adapted into a Form of Prayer which the Minister shall first devoutly pronounce and the Patient if able repeat after him saying both with Heart and Mouth O Almighty God and my Eternal Creator I shall ever be troubled in my Mind until I am perfectly united to Thee The Number of my Transgressions I confess should set me far from that happy Union But Thine infinite Mercy will draw me to Thy self Remember Lord that I am the Work of Thine own Hands and that through the means of Thy Blessed Son Jesus Christ Thou hast call'd me to the Participation of Thy Kingdom I acknowledg my unfaithfulness to be such as renders me wholly unworthy so great a Favour But by the Merits of Thine only Son vouchsafe I beseech Thee to admit me into that Place of Rest and Bliss where I shall to all Eternity celebrate the Glory of Thy Name Be Thou pleased O Father of Mercies to look upon me as a miserable Slave whom Thou hast redeem'd with the Sacred Blood of Thy Dear Son and whose Sins Thou hast punish'd and taken satisfaction for by causing Him to die upon the Cross O have pity on my Soul and suffer not that so much Merit be cast away upon me In Thee O Lord do I put my trust let me never be confounded But deliver me for the sake of Thy dearly beloved Son Jesus Christ who by the Merits of his Death and Passion is become my Righteousness my Sanctification and my Redemption Why art thou so full of heaviness O my Soul and why art thou so disquieted within me O put thy trust in God for I will yet give him thanks who is the help of my Countenance and my God Blessed are they O Lord that dwell in Thy House they shall be always praising Thee O lead Thou me into that Sacred Place where I may return Thee perpetual Thanks for the great Benefits Thou hast bestow'd upon me And Thou O my Saviour Jesus Christ who didst undergo the heavy Punishment due to my Sins that I might be capable of Eternal Happiness hast said that Thou art the Resurrection and the Life that he who does believe in Thee shall never die nay though he was even dead shall live O my God! I believe in Thee and hope e're long to enjoy and possess Thee in the Land of the Living I will come into Thy House I will worship in Thy Temple and confess Thy Name For Thou art the Way the Life and the Truth I have set God before mine Eyes and He is on my right hand so that I shall not fall Wherefore my heart is glad and does rejoyce My Flesh also shall rest in hope Thou shalt shew me the Path of Life In Thy Presence is the fulness of Joy and at Thy right Hand there is Pleasure for evermore The Minister shall also cause the Sick Person to mix Contrition with his Hope crying-out with David Have mercy upon me O God after Thy great goodness according to the multitude of Thy Mercies do away mine Offences Wash me throughly from my Wickedness and cleanse me from my Sin For I acknowledge my faults and my Sin is ever before me Against Thee only have I sinned and done ill in Thy sight Turn Thy Face from my Sins and put out my my Misdeeds Make me a clean heart O God and renew a right spirit within me Cast me not away from thy presence and take not thy Holy Spirit from me In a word let not his Hope of Pardon be any ways confin'd but let it be extended to all his past Sins whether Sins of Commission or Sins of Omission whether actual Offences against God and his Neighbour or neglect of his Duty towards both To which purpose the following Ejaculations may be us'd O Blessed JESU my only Helper and Amender repair that good which I have so unworthily destroy'd in my self by the abuse I have made of thy Graces to me as well as the scandal I have given my Neighbour by my ill Example Words and Actions Supply the imperfections and unprofitableness of my Life which with grief I confess to have spent in coldness towards Thee and indifference for my own Salvation Thou canst O Lord if Thou wilt even in the little time that I have now remaining restore to me all that I have lost Supply my wants and strengthen the weakness and infirmitys of my Soul Of all the Actions of my Life there is not one how pure soever it may appear but has been attended with many defects nor have I the least merit of my own But I fly to Thee O my Saviour beseeching Thee to support me with the abundance of Thy Grace to apply the Merits of Thy Sufferings to my Soul and present her to thy Father all covered with that most precious Blood Thou hast shed for her so as she may find Mercy with Him and be admitted into his Kingdom of Glory The Minister having thus established him in the Hope he ought to have of obtaining the forgiveness of all his Sins he may if he finds him able to bear it still continue the exercising of him in pious Thoughts and Ejaculations requiring him to say after him with an attentive mind O Father of Mercy and God of all Comfort be favorable to me and pardon the numberless Errors and Wickednesses and extravagancies of my Life who like the Prodigal Son whom Thou hast propos'd to me as an Instance of Thy Fatherly Goodness have wasted and abus'd not only the Temporal but Spiritual Talents which Thou hadst committed to my improvement O my gracious God I humbly beseech Thee for the Lord Jesus Christ ' s sake and by the Merits of his Death and Passion forgive me all my Sins and remit the Punishment due to me for them O Lord JESU to whom all Power and Authority belongs Thou hast promis'd that those who forgive the injuries done to them Thou wilt also forgive I do heartily forgive every one that has offended me Vouchsafe therefore to forgive me all my Wickednesses Ingratitudes and Infirmities and let thy Death make atonement for whatever I have done amiss to the end that when my Soul shall be separated from this Earthly Body she may presently be united to Thee and made Partaker of Thy Glory The Minister may also if he judges it convenient express himself in other words remembring especially to put the Sick Person often in mind of the great Love of Christ towards him and of the unspeakable Sufferings He has undergone to make Satisfaction for his Sins that the remembrance thereof may encrease his Hope and excite him to Acts of Faith Charity and Contrition CHAP. VII The Means for exciting Charity in a Sick Person AS Charity is of all Virtues the most excellent and the greatest of all Spiritual Gifts so the Minister ought as much as in him lies to entertain the Sick Person in this Divine Love and
pleases to lay upon us Which Arguments the Minister may greatly inforce by inculcating to him the Examples of Job the Holy Apostles Martyrs and Confessors and CHRIST Himself Crucified especially by displaying to him the excessive Torments of the Cross and at the same time proposing to his Meditation by way of Prayer and Self Resignation these Words of St. Austin's Lord burn me cut me into pieces scourge me and correct me in this World so Thou pardon me in the next Or these O God who chastisest those whom Thou do'st love admit me I beseech Thee after my Death into the Number of Thy Blessed Children since Thou makest me to endure thy Corrections in this Life My God! and my Father Who art my only Refuge and Defence succour me in all my Afflictions and Miseries either by asswaging and moderating them or giving me strength to sustain the same without repining I thank Thee O Merciful Father for the troubles Thou hast laid upon me Thou that knowest my weakness vouchsafe to fortifie and support me so as I may not fall into impatience and murmur but that I may truly humble my self under Thy Afflicting Hand and wholly submit to Thy Chastisements To which the Minister may still add what other Words of the like kind he shall judge convenient with regard to the Condition of the Sick Person CHAP. XII How those Persons ought to be managed that lie under Temptations against the Faith OF Persons tempted against the Faith there are two Sorts Either they are such as have not a clear apprehension of all that is necessary to be believed in the Law of Grace whom how to instruct we have shewn in the First Chapter Or they are such as are tormented by Satan who is continually endeavouring to cast Doubts into their Minds about their Faith in general or some particular Article of it The former of which Cases being as we have said provided for in the First Chapter we shall here need only to speak to the latter Which the Minister perceiving to be the Sick Person 's shall advise him not to dispute with the Devil whose sole aim is to destroy his Faith Without which as the Apostle tells us it is impossible to please God but humbly to implore the Holy Ghost so to inlighten him as that he may never fall into Infidelity nor the Enemy have any advantage over him Let him cry out with the Prophet Lord thou seest how I am tempted be thou pleased to answer for me Adding thereto if occasion be what is before mentioned in the Fifth Chapter and making an humble Confession of that Faith which is founded not upon human Reasons but the Eternal Truth Which will secure him against all the ill suggestions wherewith the Devil may labour to assault and disturb him and set him entirely at liberty to think of those things that will administer pleasure and comfort to him such as the unspeakable Joys of Heaven which he is hoping for the infinite Love of God towards him and Spiritual Graces He has confer'd upon him And for a yet further diversion of those Temptations he finds himself obnoxious to it may be convenient for him to speak sometimes to those that are present But if notwithstanding all these Precautions he shall still perceive his Faith to be wavering let him first pray to God to help his Unbelief and then protest before Him and all the Standers by that he resolves to die in that Faith which Jesus Christ is the Author of and the Martyrs have sealed and attested by their Blood And here if the Patient's illness will permit it the Minister may offer him some general Reasons to confirm him in the Christian Faith and Religion as that it flows directly from the Divine Wisdom and is not like others grounded only upon Human Arguments but the Authority and Truth of God himself who has been pleas'd to reveal it to his Church But at the same time he must be very cautious of descending to any particular Point least it should provoke the Sick Person to Disputation a thing most dangerous on such an occasion unless he desires to be inform'd about some of the Mysteries of our Religion Which is to be done too in as few words as may be Let him be shewn that the Christian Faith is establish'd upon no less than the Testimony of the Eternal Father who said of Christ He is my beloved Son hear ye him Than the Word of Jesus Christ himself who assures us that his Father and He are but One God and commanded his Apostles to Preach these Truths throughout the World saying that they who believe shall be saved and that there is no Salvation but in Him For the reasonableness thereof he may be refer'd to the Jews themselves who though the very Enemies of Christ gave sufficient Testimony to his Divinity when being astonish'd at the Miracles wrought by Him they openly profess'd that unless a stop was put thereto by securing his Person and forbidding his Doctrine all Nations would believe in Him Nor have their Historians alone but other Unbelievers also own'd the Christian Religion to be of all others in the World the best theirs only excepted which they 〈◊〉 before it either through ignorance or prejudice For indeed what Religion could ever shew such Marks and Tokens of the Hand of God as this of the Christian through the whole Course of its Propagation In its first Institution by how many Miracles was it confirm'd As we find them recorded in the Holy Scriptures by those who were Eye-witnesses thereof and whose plainness and simplicity apparent in all their Relations of the same is proof sufficient of their Sincerity Nor is it less to be admired how succesfully it was Preached and Established by Persons of neither Learning Eloquence nor Authority but on the contrary destitute of all outward Accomplishments exposed to Poverty and the Contempt of all Mankind Who yet by the meer force of Truth reduced both Learned and Unlearned whole Empires and Nations to the same Christian Faith and under which by the special Providence of Almighty God they have for so many Ages been preserved notwithstanding its containing not only Mysteries above the Reach but Precepts again the Inclinations and Passions of Men's Minds In a Word That he need not doubt of believing that which those Blessed Spirits so divinely proclaim'd who foretold the Birth of Jesus Christ and published it with Songs of Rejoycing giving Glory to God and promising Peace to all Men Who also were Witnesses of his Resurrection and Ascension into Heaven That which so many Saints and Holy Men and Women enlighten'd by God have profess'd which such vast Numbers of the Faithful in all Ages have by their Mortification and Self-denial sacrificed the Pleasures of this World to and through the midst of so many cruel Persecutions maintained at no less a Price than that of their Blood as knowing what sure Grounds they were on even the Authority as we have
well to ponder that from his Reflections thereupon which may be shorter or longer according as his pains will allow him more or less opportunity for it he may receive Spiritual Help and Comfort Lastly He should be admonished to look up to Jesus the Author and Finisher of our Faith and God of our Salvation to fix in his Mind the continual remembrance of his Sufferings and break forth to Him in these Words O Lord who hast shed thy precious Blood for me have mercy upon me Thou Lord who for the attonement of my sins didst in the midst of so many torments and with so much ignominy resign thy Divine Spirit upon the Cross have mercy upon me O Lamb of God that takest away the sins of the World have mercy upon me I commend my Soul to Thee I commit it into Thy Hands Lord receive it Lord vouchsafe to save it Amen To this the Minister may add the Words set down in the Sixth Chapter if he judges them necessary for the fortifying of the Patient's Hope and administring Comfort to him CHAP. XIV What is to be said to such as shew too great a Confidence and presume too far upon their Salvation AS the Devil labours nothing more than the undoing of us to all Eternity so he endeavours to bring this his pernicious Design about by quite contrary Means sometimes by suggesting too great a Fear of God's Judgments and sometimes too great a Confidence in his Mercy If the Minister shall perceive that the Sick Person is flattering himself with the good Works he has done and so from them presumes too much upon his Salvation he ought meekly to admonish him to enter into and recollect himself in order to the making him sensible that our Felicity depends only upon Christ on whom we are wholly to build our Hope of Salvation That God alone enables us to act and that to Him it is we owe all the Honour and Glory of our Good Works That of our selves we are but Weakness and capable of nothing that is good not so much as one good Thought without his preventing and assisting Grace That we ought to give Him Thanks and Praise for what we are and what we have That all our Virtue is derived from Him and that we should find a terrible Account if when He comes at the last Day to judge us He would look upon our Merits only That we must always remember what is said in the Gospel That when we have done all that we are commanded to do we are but unprofitable Servants In a word that we are bound to God by so many Ties of Favours and Blessings that though we should humble our selves even to nothing before Him yet should we be very far from expressing a due acknowledgment to Him for the same But if the Sick Person shall still run upon an excess of Hope and rely so far upon the Merits of Christ as not to be at all afflicted or concerned for his Sins 't will be expedient to affright him into a due sense of them by recalling to his Memory the many Transgressions of his past Life and shewing him the heinousness of them that so he may be made apprehensive of the necessity of a sincere Repentance and Humiliation before he can expect to obtain Pardon The Minister may tell him that his Hope is laudable but considering what great Sinners we are we should mix with our Confidence a Filial Fear accompanied with Sorrow and Contrition for our having offended so Good so Gracious and so Benign a Father adding hereto what further he shall think conducive to the raising in him the just Notion he ought to have of God's Mercy CHAP. XV. How a Sick Person is to be managed when bereft in a great measure of his Senses and Understanding IN the first place the Minister is to inform himself whether the Sick Person has already been pray'd with and received the Holy Communion Whether he has set his House and Affairs in order and thought of every thing requisite for him to do of which we shall speak in the Seventeenth Chapter If they answer him that nothing has yet been done of all this as it often happens to those that are backward in preparing themselves for Death or are struck on a sudden with a violent and unforeseen Distemper he shall call to the Patient with a loud Voice and ask him whether he hears him and if he perceives him to have still some remainder of Understanding he is to advertise him of the danger his Life is in and of the great Concern of his Salvation which without delay lest it should prove fatal to him he ought to secure by Repentance and true Contrition of heart for all the Sins known and unknown he has committed against his Maker his Neighbour and Himself and to restore or cause to be restored as far as he is able whatever he may have of another Body's Then he shall ask him whether he be not desirous to receive the Blessed Sacrament as well for the Confirmation of his Faith as Assurance of God's Pardon of all his Transgressions and intitling him to Christ's Merits To which if the Minister finds him dispos'd he shall administer it to him declaring that God has put away his Sins and will remember them no more and that the same moment this Breath shall depart from him God will receive him to Himself and admit him into the Number of the Righteous that are Sanctified With whom he shall live a Life full of Joy and Bliss which never shall have end If the Patient be in a Condition of doing any thing which he hath omitted towards the future settlement of his Family or Estate the Minister shall advise him to do ●● now as we have said elsewhere And this done he shall go on with entertaining him in Devotion and Spiritual Contemplations But if the Minister is told that the Patient has been already visited by another and has received the Holy Sacrament he may spare asking him many Questions about the State of his Soul especially if he finds him very weak and apply himself only to the comforting him and raising his Hope and Affections more and more to God and there fixing them Or if the Patient be fallen into a Delirium or Lethargy the Minister shall either wait till he is come to himself again or desire to have notice so soon as those that look after him shall find his Judgment return'd to him Which interval of sensibleness it will concern the Minister to improve as much as he is able by exciting in him those good Motions and Dispositions that may help him to die in a true State of Regeneration as well as with solid Comfort and Satisfaction making use to that purpose of those means we have proposed in the preceding Chapters particularly in the Eighth and what else in his prudence he shall see fit CHAP. XVI What the Minister is to do when he finds the Sick Person posess'd of
the Days of Salvation pass away apace and when once gone it being for ever out of our power to recall them again we ought to employ them with the Care and Circumspection becoming good Christians by weaning our selves without delay from the Things of this World and dispossessing our Hearts of all other Thoughts but what relate to God alone Nor need we any other Arguments than the sight of this very Dead Body to convince us how vain and transistory how deceitful and perishable all those false Enjoyments are which the Devil makes use of to dazzle our Eyes and allure us to Sin Neither Riches nor Honours are able to procure one Minute's Respit from the Stroke of Death When she summons we must immediately obey and quit them all nay and our very Bodies too as straightly as we are ty'd to them and resign them to unavoidable Corruption In a word That the Goods of this World are so far only to be desired as may serve for the necessary support of our selves and enable us to be assisting to others From whence he may take occasion of saying something to them about the Settlement of their Temporal Concerns advising them to make their Wills and Testaments whilst in a state of perfect Health and Understanding that so they may be able to deliberate the more maturely thereon and dispose of their Estates with the greater satisfaction to themselves as well as Justice and Equality to others by a due regard to Relation Friendship and Deserts it often happening where this Caution is not us'd that a Feaver or some other violent Distemper surprises a Man and puts it out of his power to do the Good he intended to have done Or some of his greedy Friends and Relations finding him in a helpless condition do by their tiresome importunities oblige him to make an unequal Testament Or lastly not to mention more of the many inconveniencies arising from this neglect he dies Intestate and leaves his Estate for a Prey to the Lawyers and a standing occasion of Discord in his Family But when by a prudent timely and just disposal of his Earthly Possessions he has convey'd the Blessings of Peace Plenty and Prosperity to his Family When by an upright and unspotted Life he has preserved himself fit to enter into the Holy of Holies the Sacred Mansions of the Most High And last of all when by his Merciful Deeds he has secur'd to himself Mercy from his Blessed Saviour Oh! with what unspeakable Comfort may he end his days and with what Confidence and Alacrity appear before the Tribunal of God to receive his Everlasting Reward applying to himself the Words of the Revelation I heard a Voice from Heaven saying to me Write From henceforth blessed are the Dead which die in the Lord even so saith the Spirit for they rest from their Labours and their Works follow them Thus much in case the Patient shall die IF it shall please God to restore him to his health again The Minister is to visit and congratulate him thereon and with so much the more fervency by how much the more dangerous his Sickness has been Which will give him the fairer Opportunity of inlarging upon and rendring him sensible of God's transcendent Mercies to him and the Gratitude on his part due for the same A Debt he may tell him no other ways to be discharg'd than by his making such good use of this Visitation as may tend to the Glory of God the Edification of his Neighbour and the Amendment of his own Life for the future In order whereto the Minister shall remind him of what pass'd between them during his Illness upon the Subject of his Spiritual Welfare Of the Difficulties met with in his Preparation for Death for want of a timely regard thereto Of the Defects in his Repentance still remaining to be supply'd Of the particular Frailties against which he is chiefly to arm himself for the time to come And Lastly Of his Pious Vows and Resolutions concerning these or any other Points founded upon the Condition of his Recovery and requiring to be now confirm'd and made good Adding thereto to conclude all That as when Sick he desired and had the Publick Prayers of the Church as well as those of his Private Friends so is it meet and his bounden Duty that having received the Benefit of them in his Redemption from the Grave and the Gates of Death he should now Give Thanks unto the Lord with his whole heart not only secretly but among the Faithful and in the Congregation Where he ought also with the first Opportunity to Offer his Vows unto the Most High by receiving the Cup of Salvation and calling upon the Name of the Lord with humblest Supplications for the Assistance of his Holy Spirit towards enabling him duely to perform the same In the mean time and ever continuing fervent in his Private Devotions and sering himself in some measure therein with the Prayer and Thanksgiving hereto annext Which God of his Infinite Mercy accept Amen A PRAYER and THANKSGIVING to be offer'd to GOD by One newly Recover'd from a dangerous SICKNESS O MOST GRACIOUS GOD and MERCIFUL FATHER Who art a Physician to the Sick Strength to the Weak Comfort to the Afflicted Relief to the Needy and Succour to the Helpless I Thy poor Wretched Creature having so deeply tasted of Thy Mercies do with a profound sense of Thine Infinite Goodness and of my own unworthiness yeild Thee most humble and hearty Thanks and Praise for Thy manifold Benefits and Favours towards me and particularly for that Thou hast been pleased in so fatherly a manner to visit me and to bring me back from the Grave and from the Gates of Death restoring me to my former Health and Strength LORD What shall I render unto Thee as for all other so more especially for this tender Mercy of thine in thus sparing me longer in the Land of the Living and affording me still a larger space for my Repentance Thou hast chasten'd and corrected me but hast not given me over unto Death Thou hiddest not Thy Face from me when I was in trouble Thou hast not made my Life like them that go down into the pit nor cast Thy Servant away in Displeasure O sanctifie this Thy Fatherly Correction to me that it may prove an effectual Means for my Thorough-amendment And grant I humbly beseech Thee that through the Assistance of Thy Divine Spirit I may be enabled hereafter to make such good use of the Time which Thy unspeakable Goodness hath now inlarged to me and so husband and improve the same to Thy Service as that it may not repent Thee to have lent it me Grant that I may seriously ponder and admire Thy transcendent Favours to me and my just Obligations of Gratitude to Thee as well as Encouragement continually to depend upon Thee and may without further delay set about the Business Thou hast appointed for me here even the 〈◊〉 Business of my Eternal Salvation 〈◊〉 I may spend the precious Remainder of my ●ife in a constant practice of my Duty towards Thee O MY GOD and towards my Neighbour and my self That I may redeem the time which alas I have so unworthily mispent by living in ignorance and after the Corruptions and Vanities of the World And that considering how short this my time is which is but a Vapour that vanishes away I may never imploy it in making provision for the Flesh to fulfil the lusts thereof but live in Righteousness Purity and Holiness all my days That I may apply my Heart to that true Wisdom which is to know and serve Thee That I may begin even here on Earth that blessed Work I shall continue in Heaven to all Eternity namely to love and adore Thee and to walk before Thee with all humility and uprightness to Praise Laud and Magnifie Thy Holy Name for Thy great Glory and for Thy Goodness-sake Inlighten my mind that I may have a more perfect Knowledge of Thee and inflame my heart with a greater Love towards Thee Teach me to do the thing that pleases Thee for Thou art my God Let Thy loving Spirit lead me forth into the Land of Righteousness O give me grace to do Thy Will in all Things and to delight in nothing more than in obeying Thy Laws and Commandments wherein there is Great Pleasure and Great Reward And to all the Favours I have already received at Thy Merciful Hand LORD Vouchsafe to add this one more That I may never depart from Thee or be abandoned by Thee but that I may in my whole Life please Thee and in my Death praise Thee That when ever Thou shalt see fit to call me out of this World I may be ready to obey Thy Heavenly Summons and to follow Thee and be admitted into Thine Everlasting Kingdom of Bliss and Glory with this most sweet and comfortable Invitation of my BLESSED SAVIOUR's Well done Good and Faithful Servant Enter thou into the Joy of thy Master Grant this O MERCIFUL FATHER for Thine own sake and for the sake of this Dear Son of Thy Love for whom I and all that is within me give Praise and Adoration to Thee and in whose most prevailing Name I further implore Thy Divine Majesty humbly and earnestly praying as He Himself has taught me in his Holy Gospel Our Father c. 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