in_o the_o lord_n i_o may_v put_v many_o question_n to_o you_o about_o the_o intent_n of_o these_o word_n as_o to_o inquire_v who_o may_v be_v say_v to_o be_v in_o the_o lord_n whether_o it_o respect_v a_o be_v in_o the_o faith_n a_o baptise_a person_n or_o whether_o a_o be_v in_o the_o lord_n respect_v not_o a_o person_n be_v be_v allow_v of_o by_o the_o lord_n and_o respect_v not_o the_o line_n of_o consanguinity_n and_o then_o to_o be_v in_o the_o lord_n in_o that_o sense_n be_v to_o be_v one_o who_o marriage_n be_v approve_v of_o by_o the_o lord_n he_o not_o be_v too_o near_o of_o kin_n and_o last_o whatsoever_o it_o be_v to_o be_v in_o the_o lord_n yet_o whether_o man_n be_v bind_v by_o the_o same_o law_n see_v the_o apostle_n speak_v only_o of_o the_o woman_n and_o although_o many_o time_n when_o man_n be_v mention_v the_o woman_n be_v include_v yet_o i_o know_v not_o where_o the_o woman_n be_v mention_v include_v the_o men._n but_o these_o and_o more_o i_o will_v omit_v and_o 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wise_a how_o shall_v you_o and_o i_o help_v it_o more_o than_o if_o your_o wife_n or_o i_o shall_v listen_v their_o servant_n and_o here_o themselves_o reproach_v without_o cause_n contrary_a to_o the_o advice_n of_o the_o wise_a man_n in_o eccles_n 7.21_o also_o take_v no_o heed_n to_o all_o word_n that_o be_v speak_v lest_o thou_o hear_v thy_o servant_n curse_v thou_o and_o by_o this_o mean_v they_o be_v put_v into_o a_o passion_n and_o misbehave_v themselves_o can_v you_o deal_v with_o they_o for_o harken_v to_o their_o servant_n discourse_v no_o sure_o though_o contrary_a to_o advice_n but_o for_o their_o passion_n and_o misbehaviour_n you_o may_v though_o the_o former_a be_v the_o lead_a cause_n thereof_o and_o again_o the_o wise_a man_n advise_v man_n against_o suretyship_n prov._n 22.26_o be_v not_o thou_o one_o of_o they_o that_o strike_v hand_n or_o of_o they_o that_o be_v surety_n for_o debt_n show_v the_o danger_n in_o vers_n 27._o &_o chap._n 6.1_o &_o chap._n 11.15_o yet_o if_o you_o or_o i_o contrary_a to_o this_o advice_n shall_v become_v bind_v for_o another_o man_n and_o by_o that_o mean_n shall_v be_v impoverish_v and_o make_v miserable_a and_o not_o able_a to_o support_v ourselves_o and_o family_n yet_o who_o shall_v deal_v with_o we_o for_o our_o neglect_v this_o advice_n and_o bring_v trouble_n upon_o our_o own_o head_n and_o you_o may_v take_v notice_n that_o the_o whole_a of_o this_o chapter_n be_v advice_n and_o information_n how_o to_o behave_v themselves_o in_o a_o time_n of_o difficulty_n occasion_v by_o a_o question_n concern_v marriage_n which_o by_o the_o answer_n of_o the_o apostle_n be_v not_o as_o i_o conceive_v about_o the_o lawfulness_n of_o marriage_n but_o it_o be_v first_o about_o the_o expediency_n of_o it_o in_o such_o a_o time_n as_o that_o be_v in_o which_o persecution_n be_v so_o great_a or_o like_v sudden_o so_o to_o be_v that_o they_o that_o have_v wife_n shall_v be_v as_o they_o that_o have_v none_o that_o be_v they_o shall_v be_v unsettle_a in_o the_o world_n and_o can_v promise_v themselves_o as_o little_a enjoyment_n of_o wife_n or_o child_n as_o he_o that_o have_v none_o at_o all_o verse_n 29._o and_o they_o that_o buy_v as_o though_o they_o poss_v not_o for_o they_o can_v not_o reasonable_o think_v to_o live_v in_o the_o enjoyment_n of_o their_o possession_n for_o the_o fashion_n of_o this_o world_n pass_v away_o vers_n 30.32_o now_o the_o case_n be_v such_o it_o become_v a_o question_n whether_o marriage_n be_v allow_v and_o it_o may_v be_v some_o may_v not_o think_v it_o lawful_a as_o savour_v of_o the_o flesh_n other_o perhaps_o may_v think_v it_o sinful_a to_o beget_v issue_n and_o to_o be_v take_v from_o they_o leave_v a_o woman_n with_o child_n or_o child_n to_o the_o mercy_n of_o pagan_a tyrant_n to_o be_v bring_v up_o in_o their_o idolatry_n and_o other_o who_o be_v the_o more_o moderate_a among_o they_o all_o this_o consider_v may_v think_v marriage_n very_o unadvisable_v in_o any_o member_n whatsoever_o now_o to_o this_o the_o apostle_n give_v answer_v vers_n 1._o that_o it_o be_v good_a for_o a_o man_n not_o to_o touch_v a_o woman_n which_o answer_n if_o you_o take_v it_o in_o any_o other_o sense_n than_o have_v be_v deliver_v be_v altogether_o contrary_a to_o what_o god_n declare_v gen._n 2.18_o it_o be_v not_o good_a the_o man_n shall_v be_v alone_o and_o altogether_o contrary_a to_o the_o dictate_v of_o nature_n and_o to_o the_o common_a consent_n of_o mankind_n and_o to_o your_o own_o experience_n and_o opinion_n too_o otherwise_o why_o do_v you_o marry_v your_o son_n and_o daughter_n with_o such_o speed_n if_o you_o believe_v it_o best_o for_o they_o to_o be_v alone_o so_o that_o it_o be_v plain_a the_o apostle_n answer_v respect_n the_o time_n and_o not_o marriage_n itself_o yet_o nevertheless_o to_o avoid_v fornication_n let_v every_o man_n have_v his_o own_o wife_n and_o every_o woman_n her_o own_o husband_n therefore_o though_o the_o time_n be_v so_o 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time_n that_o when_o persecution_n come_v upon_o they_o they_o may_v have_v no_o clog_n nor_o weight_n upon_o they_o but_o to_o be_v without_o carefulness_n vers_fw-la 32._o and_o have_v thus_o give_v his_o judgement_n and_o advice_n he_o now_o in_o this_o 39_o ver_fw-la come_v to_o speak_v of_o the_o wife_n that_o she_o be_v not_o at_o liberty_n to_o leave_v or_o forsake_v her_o husband_n let_v what_o will_v befall_v she_o for_o the_o gospel_n sake_n but_o be_v bind_v by_o the_o law_n of_o marriage_n to_o live_v and_o abide_v with_o he_o as_o long_o as_o he_o live_v but_o when_o her_o husband_n be_v dead_a she_o be_v free_a from_o that_o tie_n or_o obligation_n and_o
with_o stranger_n for_o which_o of_o these_o it_o be_v or_o what_o else_o i_o will_v not_o determine_v but_o sure_o i_o be_o not_o upon_o the_o account_n of_o religion_n as_o appear_v first_o abraham_n have_v the_o church_n of_o god_n according_a to_o institution_n in_o his_o own_o house_n and_o can_v not_o want_v a_o wife_n for_o his_o son_n among_o his_o own_o servant_n for_o he_o that_o bring_v a_o family_n out_o of_o haran_n gen._n 12.5_o and_o have_v 318_o men-servant_n bear_v in_o his_o own_o house_n gen._n 14.14_o can_v not_o be_v without_o woman_n to_o make_v his_o son_n a_o wife_n if_o religion_n have_v be_v the_o thing_n design_v for_o the_o law_n of_o circumcision_n be_v give_v to_o abraham_n long_o before_o isaac_n be_v bear_v second_o when_o isaac_n send_v jacob_n to_o the_o house_n of_o laban_n it_o can_v not_o be_v upon_o the_o account_n of_o religion_n for_o the_o same_o reason_n before_o allege_a and_o beside_o laban_n be_v a_o idolater_n gen._n 31.30_o and_o rachel_n no_o less_o when_o she_o steal_v her_o father_n god_n ver_fw-la 19_o and_o frame_v a_o lie_n to_o hide_v they_o ver_fw-la 34._o a_o daughter_n of_o heth_n can_v have_v do_v little_o worse_o than_o this_o so_o that_o you_o may_v see_v it_o be_v not_o religion_n that_o cause_v these_o good_a man_n to_o travail_v so_o far_o for_o wife_n what_o ever_o it_o be_v therefore_o i_o pray_v you_o come_v to_o the_o next_o b._n second_o the_o command_n of_o god_n forbid_v such_o marriage_n exod._n 34.12_o take_v heed_n to_o thyself_o lest_o thou_o make_v a_o covenant_n with_o the_o inhabitant_n of_o the_o land_n whither_o thou_o go_v lest_o it_o be_v for_o a_o snare_n in_o the_o midst_n of_o thou_o ver_fw-la 16._o and_o thou_o take_v of_o their_o daughter_n to_o thy_o son_n and_o their_o daughter_n go_v a_o whore_v after_o their_o god_n and_o make_v thy_o son_n go_v a_o whore_v after_o their_o go_n and_o in_o deut._n 7.3_o thou_o shall_v not_o make_v marriage_n with_o they_o thy_o daughter_n shall_v thou_o not_o give_v unto_o his_o son_n nor_o take_v his_o daughter_n unto_o thy_o son_n for_o she_o will_v turn_v away_o his_o heart_n from_o follow_v i_o that_o they_o may_v serve_v other_o go_n and_o in_o joshua_n 23.12_o if_o you_o in_o any_o wise_a go_v back_o and_o cleave_v unto_o the_o remnant_n of_o these_o nation_n even_o those_o that_o remain_v among_o you_o and_o shall_v make_v marriage_n with_o they_o and_o go_v in_o unto_o they_o and_o they_o to_o you_o know_v for_o certain_a that_o the_o lord_n will_v no_o more_o drive_v out_o any_o of_o these_o nation_n from_o before_o you_o but_o they_o shall_v be_v snare_n and_o trap_n unto_o you_o and_o scourge_n in_o your_o side_n and_o thorn_n in_o your_o eye_n until_o you_o perish_v off_o this_o good_a land_n which_o the_o lord_n your_o god_n have_v give_v you_o now_o have_v give_v you_o these_o proof_n out_o of_o the_o old_a testament_n i_o proceed_v to_o some_o far_a proof_n out_o of_o the_o new_a testament_n and_o i_o shall_v begin_v with_o that_o of_o the_o apostle_n paul_n in_o 1_o cor._n 6.18_o flee_v fornication_n and_o revel_v 2.14_o but_o i_o have_v a_o few_o thing_n against_o thou_o because_o thou_o have_v there_o they_o that_o hold_v the_o doctrine_n of_o balaam_n who_o teach_v balak_n to_o cast_v a_o stumble_a block_n before_o the_o child_n of_o israel_n to_o eat_v thing_n sacrifice_v unto_o idol_n and_o to_o commit_v fornication_n and_o 2._o cor._n 6.14_o be_v plain_a be_v not_o unequal_o yoke_v together_o with_o unbeliever_n for_o what_o fellowship_n have_v righteousness_n with_o unrighteousness_n etc._n etc._n and_o shall_v conclude_v with_o 1_o cor._n 7.39_o the_o wife_n be_v bind_v by_o the_o law_n as_o long_o as_o her_o husband_n live_v but_o when_o her_o husband_n be_v dead_a she_o be_v at_o liberty_n to_o be_v marry_v to_o who_o she_o will_v only_o in_o the_o lord_n thus_o i_o have_v prove_v my_o position_n by_o the_o word_n of_o truth_n that_o a_o contract_n of_o marriage_n make_v between_o two_o person_n of_o different_a opinion_n in_o the_o matter_n of_o institute_v religion_n etc._n etc._n be_v unlawful_a all_o these_o text_n forbid_v marriage_n with_o the_o uncircumcised_a with_o those_o that_o be_v in_o the_o harlot_n state_n with_o unbeliever_n and_o such_o as_o be_v not_o in_o the_o lord_n as_o no_o person_n unbaptise_v be_v i_o do_v therefore_o expect_v your_o compliance_n or_o answer_n a._n comply_v with_o you_o i_o can_v because_o of_o your_o many_o mistake_n but_o you_o shall_v have_v my_o answer_n in_o order_n as_o soon_o as_o i_o can_v give_v it_o first_o than_o you_o mistake_v the_o nature_n of_o those_o three_o text_n exod._n 34.12_o deut._n 7.3_o jos_n 23.12_o which_o you_o take_v to_o be_v command_v relate_v to_o piety_n and_o devotion_n when_o well_o consider_v they_o be_v no_o command_n at_o all_o in_o a_o proper_a sense_n but_o caution_n relate_v to_o their_o prudent_a and_o politic_a government_n as_o may_v appear_v from_o the_o sense_n of_o the_o word_n which_o advise_v to_o forbear_v these_o marriage_n not_o as_o god_n enjoin_v other_o thing_n because_o they_o be_v abomination_n levit._n 18.22_o thou_o shall_v not_o lie_v with_o mankind_n as_o with_o womankind_n it_o be_v abomination_n and_o vers_fw-la 21._o thou_o shall_v not_o let_v any_o of_o thy_o seed_n pass_v through_o the_o fire_n unto_o molech_n neither_o shall_v thou_o profane_v the_o name_n of_o thy_o god_n i_o be_o the_o lord_n see_v also_o chap._n 20._o v._n 1_o 2_o 3_o 4_o 5_o 6._o and_o the_o reason_n be_v render_v in_o chap._n 18.27_o for_o all_o these_o abomination_n have_v the_o man_n of_o the_o land_n do_v which_o be_v before_o you_o and_o the_o land_n be_v defile_v neither_o as_o god_n forbid_v kill_v and_o steal_v thou_o shall_v not_o kill_v thou_o shall_v not_o steal_v because_o kill_v and_o steal_v be_v evil_a in_o their_o own_o nature_n no_o but_o god_n forbid_v these_o marriage_n as_o a_o thing_n that_o be_v not_o in_o its_o self_n evil_a but_o 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