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why_o weep_v thou_o i_o and_o why_o eat_v thou_o not_o i_o be_o not_o i_o better_o to_o thou_o then_o ten_o son_n i_o sam._n 1.8_o and_o the_o wife_n ought_v to_o be_v careful_a not_o to_o provoke_v her_o husband_n by_o any_o unkind_a behaviour_n towards_o he_o but_o to_o be_v ready_a to_o show_v her_o love_n to_o her_o husband_n in_o sickness_n and_o health_n and_o both_o to_o look_v to_o the_o example_n of_o christ_n our_o heavenly_a husband_n the_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n as_o his_o own_o body_n for_o he_o that_o love_v his_o wife_n love_v himself_o for_o no_o man_n yet_o ever_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n but_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v it_o as_o the_o lord_n do_v the_o church_n ephes_n 5.28_o 29._o each_o follow_v christ_n his_o
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to_o another_o husband_n and_o wife_n etc._n eph._n 6.1_o 2_o 3_o 4_o 5_o 6_o etc._n etc._n parent_n and_o child_n master_n and_o servant_n make_v lord_n our_o child_n thy_o child_n our_o servant_n thy_o servant_n our_o friend_n thy_o friend_n and_o bless_v they_o and_o we_o in_o all_o our_o and_o their_o righteous_a labour_n this_o day_n and_o all_o the_o day_n of_o our_o life_n especial_o those_o who_o have_v desire_v or_o deserve_v our_o prayer_n requite_v and_o return_v all_o their_o love_a favour_n a_o thousand_o fold_n into_o their_o bosom_n succour_n we_o most_o humble_o pray_v thou_o all_o thy_o child_n in_o any_o manner_n of_o affliction_n let_v the_o good_a will_n of_o he_o that_o dwell_v in_o the_o bush_n dwell_v with_o they_o 4.12_o exod._n 3.2_o deut._n 33.16_o amos_n 4.12_o prepare_v we_o to_o meet_v thou_o in_o whatsoever_o trial_n thou_o shall_v prove_v our_o faith_n and_o any_o other_o grace_n with_o and_o give_v to_o we_o and_o all_o thy_o a_o happy_a deliverance_n out_o of_o all_o in_o thy_o doe_n time_n and_o season_n and_o preserve_v we_o all_o in_o body_n and_o soul_n to_o thy_o heavenly_a kingdom_n 4.18_o 2_o tim._n 4.18_o we_o most_o humble_o beg_v these_o and_o whatsoever_o thou_o in_o thy_o divine_a wisdom_n know_v to_o be_v needful_a for_o we_o or_o any_o of_o thou_o in_o the_o name_n and_o for_o the_o merit_n of_o our_o bless_a saviour_n and_o in_o that_o prayer_n he_o have_v teach_v we_o our_o father_n which_o be_v in_o heaven_n etc._n etc._n a_o evening_n prayer_n for_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o either_o of_o they_o with_o their_o family_n or_o any_o other_o fit_a person_n in_o the_o husband_n absence_n o_o most_o might_n and_o powerful_a lord_n our_o god_n who_o be_v the_o great_a creator_n and_o high_a possessor_n of_o heaven_n and_o earth_n 17.1_o gen._n 14.19_o gen._n 17.1_o the_o all-sufficient_a god_n and_o gracious_a ruler_n of_o the_o whole_a world_n who_o be_v the_o lord_n god_n glorious_a in_o holiness_n dreadful_a in_o 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keep_v we_o safe_a at_o home_n and_o abroad_o thou_o have_v bless_v we_o in_o our_o just_a and_o honest_a occasion_n and_o endeavour_n if_o any_o thing_n now_o 27._o gen._n 24.12_o 27._o or_o at_o any_o time_n have_v fall_v out_o cross_a to_o our_o desire_n 119.7_o psal_n 119.7_o thou_o oh_o our_o good_a god_n do_v see_v it_o good_a for_o we_o to_o be_v afflict_v that_o we_o may_v be_v put_v in_o mind_n of_o our_o go_v wrong_n and_o our_o too_o great_a ingratitude_n of_o former_a day_n mercy_n but_o we_o acknowledge_v thy_o goodness_n thy_o mercy_n to_o we_o and_o thy_o people_n of_o old_a and_o thy_o glorious_a name_n 9.5_o neh._n 9.5_o have_v be_v far_o above_o and_o beyond_o all_o our_o thanksgiving_n and_o praise_n yea_o that_o unspeakable_a gift_n of_o thy_o mercy_n namely_o 3.16_o john_n 3.16_o thy_o only_a beget_v son_n who_o have_v make_v a_o gracious_a promise_n that_o whatsoever_o thy_o servant_n shall_v ask_v of_o thou_o in_o his_o name_n 16.23_o john_n 16.23_o it_o shall_v 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3.24_o col._n 3.24_o because_o in_o do_v faithful_a service_n according_a to_o god_n will_n they_o serve_v the_o lord_n christ_n forgive_v we_o pray_v thou_o our_o enemy_n and_o bless_v our_o friend_n now_o thou_o o_o lord_n be_v the_o keeper_n of_o israel_n who_o neither_o slumber_v nor_o sleep_v except_o thou_o o_o lord_n 2._o psal_n 127.1_o 2._o keep_v the_o city_n the_o watchman_n wake_v but_o in_o vain_a it_o be_v in_o vain_a to_o rise_v up_o early_o and_o late_o take_v rest_n and_o eat_v the_o bread_n of_o carefulness_n 4.8_o psal_n 3.5_o psal_n 4.8_o except_o the_o lord_n bless_v our_o labour_n neither_o can_v we_o lie_v down_o and_o sleep_v and_o take_v our_o rest_n except_o the_o lord_n sustain_v we_o except_o thou_o o_o lord_n make_v we_o to_o dwell_v in_o safety_n therefore_o now_o we_o
and_o vain_a as_o king_n solomon_n witness_n first_o of_o riches_n prov._n 23.5_o will_v thou_o set_v thy_o eye_n upon_o that_o which_o be_v not_o for_o riches_n certain_o make_v themselves_o wing_n and_o fly_v away_o as_o eagle_n towards_o heaven_n they_o be_v uncertain_a 6.17_o 1_o tim._n 6.17_o and_o not_o to_o be_v trust_v in_o and_o again_o the_o like_a for_o beauty_n favour_n be_v deceitful_a and_o beauty_n be_v vanity_n but_o a_o woman_n that_o fear_v the_o lord_n she_o shall_v be_v praise_v prov._n 31.30_o when_o a_o right_a ground_a love_n in_o the_o fear_n of_o the_o lord_n which_o be_v praiseworthy_a be_v permanent_a and_o will_v endure_v for_o life_n i_o know_v upon_o some_o occasion_n objection_n a_o prevention_n of_o objection_n there_o may_v want_v time_n and_o opportunity_n of_o such_o a_o familiar_a converse_n with_o each_o other_o which_o may_v be_v helpful_a to_o such_o a_o well_o ground_a love_n as_o between_o great_a prince_n who_o be_v constrain_v to_o woo_v and_o 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own_o wisdom_n there_o be_v care_v take_v that_o one_o or_o both_o have_v a_o estate_n for_o convenience_n and_o comfortable_a maintenance_n if_o not_o of_o great_a riches_n yet_o to_o have_v what_o agur_n pray_v for_o prov._n 30.8_o 9_o to_o be_v feed_v with_o food_n convenient_a least_o want_n of_o necessary_n occasion_n complaint_n and_o that_o breed_v difference_n and_o love_n receive_v a_o damp_n and_o a_o abatement_n and_o so_o marriage_n which_o shall_v be_v a_o merry-age_n prove_v a_o age_n of_o sorrow_n sadness_n and_o discontent_n yea_o of_o sin_n and_o wickedness_n sometime_o for_o although_o the_o husband_n take_v the_o wife_n and_o the_o wife_n the_o husband_n for_o better_a or_o worse_o for_o rich_a or_o poor_a yet_o if_o god_n of_o his_o free_a grace_n in_o christ_n give_v not_o a_o contentedness_n of_o spirit_n and_o humbleness_n of_o mind_n to_o submit_v to_o divine_a providence_n and_o to_o know_v and_o learn_v as_o st._n paul_n do_v 13._o phil._n 4.11_o 12_o 13._o in_o every_o estate_n to_o be_v content_a both_o soul_n and_o body_n may_v repent_v such_o marriage_n and_o wish_v they_o have_v be_v wise_a when_o it_o be_v too_o late_o before_o god_n make_v man_n and_o woman_n our_o first_o parent_n adam_n and_o eve_n and_o marry_v they_o together_o he_o first_o make_v the_o world_n 28._o gen._n 1.27_o 28._o and_o enrich_v they_o with_o dominion_n over_o the_o creature_n 24._o gen._n 2.23_o 24._o for_o their_o comfortable_a live_n in_o a_o marry_a estate_n etc._n gen._n 1.1_o 2_o etc._n etc._n he_o give_v they_o plentiful_a provision_n for_o they_o and_o their_o posterity_n 4._o gen._n 9.1_o 2_o 3_o 4._o as_o he_o do_v after_o to_o noah_n thus_o shall_v parent_n take_v care_n for_o their_o child_n or_o child_n for_o themselves_o to_o preserve_v love_n between_o husband_n &_o wife_n during_o life_n thus_o much_o for_o pre-consideration_n before_o marriage_n now_o a_o six_o gold-link_a of_o love_n love_n a_o six_o direction_n or_o gold-link_a of_o love_n for_o a_o joyful_a happy_a life_n in_o a_o marry_a estate_n be_v that_o the_o marry_a party_n ought_v to_o labour_v for_o a_o daily_a increase_n of_o grace_n 3.18_o 1_o pet._n 3.7_o 2_o pet._n 3.18_o and_o to_o get_v assurance_n that_o they_o be_v both_o of_o they_o marry_v to_o christ_n 32._o eph._n 5.31_o 32._o and_o have_v the_o lord_n jesus_n for_o their_o heavenly_a husband_n and_o so_o be_v marry_v one_o to_o another_o in_o christ_n as_o christ_n be_v to_o his_o spouse_n the_o church_n hos_fw-la 2.19_o 20._o happy_a be_v the_o soul_n which_o be_v marry_v to_o christ_n 9.6_o isa_n 9.6_o he_o be_v a_o everlasting_a father_n to_o take_v care_n and_o provide_v for_o his_o spouse_n the_o church_n 1.18_o rev._n 1.18_o a_o heavenly_a husband_n that_o never_o die_v but_o live_v ever_o to_o provide_v for_o his_o belove_a spouse_n for_o every_o soul_n that_o be_v unite_v in_o marriage_n to_o he_o 54.5_o isa_n 54.5_o he_o be_v a_o bless_a husband_n who_o name_n be_v the_o lord_n of_o 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pray_v for_o his_o christian_a ephesian_n 19_o eph._n 3.17_o 18_o 19_o that_o christ_n may_v dwell_v in_o their_o heart_n by_o faith_n that_o be_v root_v and_o ground_v in_o love_n they_o may_v be_v able_a to_o comprehend_v with_o all_o saint_n what_o be_v the_o breadth_n and_o length_n and_o depth_n and_o height_n of_o that_o love_n of_o god_n which_o pass_v knowledge_n they_o may_v be_v fill_v and_o satisfy_v with_o the_o fullness_n of_o god_n so_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v root_v and_o ground_v in_o love_n may_v be_v satisfy_v with_o each_o other_o love_n as_o that_o wise_a king_n solomon_n advise_v 19_o prov._n 5.18_o 19_o i_o speak_v not_o of_o a_o mere_a carnal_a love_n which_o will_v not_o make_v their_o soul_n happy_a but_o of_o a_o right_n conjugal_a love_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n well_o root_v and_o right_o cherish_v which_o will_v make_v their_o life_n delightful_a and_o have_v god_n blessing_n of_o perseverance_n in_o true_a love_n unite_v unto_o it_o with_o joy_n to_o the_o end_n 7._o cant._n 2.3_o cant._n 8.6_o 7._o like_o the_o love_n of_o christ_n to_o his_o church_n a_o tree_n new_a set_v or_o plant_v may_v easy_o be_v pluck_v up_o again_o but_o if_o it_o have_v take_v root_n and_o be_v well_o grow_v it_o will_v abide_v both_o wind_n and_o weather_n and_o a_o true_a fervent_a love_n many_o water_n can_v quench_v it_o as_o solomon_n speak_v of_o that_o love_n between_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n it_o will_v endure_v during_o the_o life_n of_o the_o lover_n to_o their_o rejoice_n as_o be_v seal_v with_o constancy_n and_o settle_v in_o the_o heart_n this_o be_v a_o six_o gold-link_a of_o love_n a_o seven_o direction_n love_n a_o seven_o direction_n or_o gold-link_a of_o love_n or_o gold-link_a of_o love_n to_o enjoy_v happy_a
golden_a rule_n 7.12_o mat._n 7.12_o to_o do_v to_o each_o other_o as_o they_o will_v be_v do_v by_o and_o if_o any_o unkindness_n have_v be_v not_o to_o rest_v quiet_o until_o there_o be_v a_o reconciliation_n sleep_v not_o until_o they_o can_v sleep_v in_o love_n and_o love_a embracement_n of_o each_o other_o say_v in_o any_o neglect_n of_o love_n or_o in_o any_o occasion_n of_o breach_n will_v i_o have_v christ_n my_o lord_n and_o spiritual_a husband_n so_o unkind_a to_o i_o as_o i_o be_o to_o my_o wife_n and_o may_v the_o wife_n say_v will_v i_o have_v christ_n so_o unkind_a to_o i_o to_o forsake_v my_o soul_n or_o withdraw_v his_o love_n from_o i_o as_o i_o have_v do_v from_o my_o husband_n and_o so_o may_v the_o husband_n say_v in_o respect_n of_o his_o wife_n this_o mutual_a care_n of_o kindness_n be_v a_o precious_a gold_n link_v of_o love_n to_o bind_v love_n fast_o during_o life_n love_n a_o ten_o direction_n or_o gold-link_a of_o love_n the_o ten_o direction_n or_o gold_n link_v of_o love_n husband_n and_o wife_n must_v take_v heed_n their_o love_n be_v right_o qualify_v first_o let_v love_n be_v without_o dissimulation_n this_o be_v that_o rule_n of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n record_v by_o the_o apostle_n st._n paul_n rom._n 10.9_o second_o let_v love_n be_v without_o bitterness_n so_o the_o same_o apostle_n coloss_n 3.19_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n and_o be_v not_o bitter_a against_o they_o nor_o ought_v wife_n to_o be_v such_o to_o their_o husband_n love_n and_o bitterness_n conne_n agree_v well_o together_o 64.3_o psal_n 64.3_o this_o be_v contrary_a to_o love_v to_o shoot_v out_o arrow_n even_o bitterness_n or_o bitter_a action_n instead_o of_o pleasant_a and_o lovely_a sinilitude_n sinilitude_n this_o be_v to_o mingle_v gall_n with_o honey_n or_o sour_a sharp_a vinegar_n with_o sweet_a wine_n it_o will_v make_v all_o distasteful_a a_o husband_n must_v not_o be_v like_a unto_o a_o crab_n orange_n or_o lemon_n fair_a on_o the_o outside_n to_o the_o show_n and_o sour_a and_o bitter_a within_o please_v with_o sugar_a word_n abroad_o sweetheart_n before_o company_n and_o of_o a_o froward_a and_o perverse_a disposition_n at_o home_n or_o in_o private_a nor_o must_v the_o wife_n be_v so_o to_o the_o husband_n 2._o eph._n 5.1_o 2._o but_o both_o walk_n in_o true_a love_n as_o christ_n have_v love_v we_o the_o eleven_o direction_n love_n the_o eleven_o direction_n or_o gold_n link_v of_o love_n or_o gold_n link_v of_o love_n to_o preserve_v mutual_a love_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v mutual_o fidelity_n and_o faithfulness_n each_o to_o other_o according_a to_o the_o marriage_n covenant_n they_o ought_v to_o forsake_v all_o other_o and_o keep_v mutual_o only_a to_o themselves_o so_o long_o as_o they_o both_o shall_v live_v yea_o they_o ought_v to_o be_v very_o careful_a to_o avoid_v all_o occasion_n of_o jealousy_n of_o or_o against_o each_o other_o and_o to_o hate_v jealousy_n as_o a_o most_o dangerous_a enemy_n except_o there_o be_v evident_a and_o sure_a ground_n of_o each_o other_o disloyalty_n and_o sinful_a breach_n of_o the_o marriage_n covenant_n the_o jew_n be_v a_o very_a jealous_a people_n jealous_a of_o their_o wife_n upon_o slight_a occasion_n and_o often_o put_v their_o wife_n away_o with_o a_o bill_n of_o divorce_n for_o slight_a occasion_n and_o cause_n which_o do_v not_o break_v the_o band_n of_o matrimony_n against_o which_o our_o saviour_n speak_v mat._n 5.31_o 32._o mat._n 19.3_o 4_o 5_o etc._n etc._n the_o jew_n be_v so_o jealous_a that_o upon_o small_a suspicion_n they_o will_v forbid_v their_o wife_n to_o keep_v any_o company_n in_o secret_a with_o any_o of_o who_o they_o be_v jealous_a and_o if_o after_o the_o wife_n be_v thus_o forbid_v before_o two_o witness_n as_o the_o jewish_a doctor_n declare_v if_o she_o be_v prove_v to_o be_v in_o secret_a with_o such_o a_o 5._o maymony_n in_o misn_a come_v 2._o see_v mr._n ainsworth_n in_o numb_a 5._o one_o the_o husband_n bring_v she_o before_o the_o magistrate_n and_o she_o be_v to_o be_v put_v to_o the_o trial_n of_o seu_fw-la honesti_fw-la by_o the_o bitter_a water_n of_o jealousy_n which_o if_o she_o be_v guilty_a will_v cause_v her_o belly_n to_o swell_v and_o her_o thigh_n to_o rot_v as_o you_o may_v read_v in_o that_o law_n for_o trial_n of_o jealousy_n numb_a 5.11.12_o to_o the_o end_n and_o ver_fw-la the_o thirty_o the_o text_n say_v that_o when_o the_o man_n be_v free_a from_o iniquity_n 8._o mâ—ymoâ—y_o in_o jotaâ—_n cap._n 2._o sect_n 8._o the_o woman_n guilty_a bear_v her_o iniquity_n therefore_o among_o the_o israelite_n it_o be_v say_v 5.30_o see_v mr._n ainsworth_n in_o num._n 5.30_o that_o no_o man_n which_o have_v himself_o be_v guilty_a that_o way_n can_v bring_v his_o wife_n to_o this_o trial_n 2.1_o the_o guilty_a man_n can_v not_o bring_v his_o wife_n to_o this_o trial_n of_o bitter_a water_n rom._n 2.1_o that_o be_v by_o this_o bitter_a water_n according_a to_o the_o law_n of_o jealousy_n afore_o but_o it_o be_v most_o certain_a that_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n both_o of_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n to_o be_v careful_a by_o power_n from_o christ_n to_o avoid_v all_o occasion_n of_o jealousy_n in_o both_o according_a to_o that_o rule_n of_o god_n word_n and_o direction_n of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n by_o the_o apostle_n st._n paul_n to_o abstain_v from_o all_o appearance_n of_o evil_n 2_o thess_n 5.22_o and_o that_o ancient_a law_n of_o god_n levit._n 19.14_o thou_o shall_v not_o put_v a_o stumble_a block_n before_o the_o blind_a but_o thou_o shall_v fear_v thy_o god_n i_o be_o the_o lord_n and_o press_v again_o by_o the_o bless_a apostle_n rom._n 14.13_o let_v we_o not_o judge_v one_o another_o any_o more_o but_o judge_v thus_o rather_o that_o no_o man_n put_v a_o stumble_a block_n or_o a_o occasion_n to_o fall_v in_o his_o brother_n way_n i_o must_v avoid_v occasion_n of_o sin_n myself_o and_o i_o must_v not_o give_v occasion_n of_o sin_n to_o another_o nor_o of_o this_o sin_n of_o unjust_a jealousy_n to_o my_o husband_n or_o to_o my_o wife_n for_o many_o be_v the_o misery_n may_v follow_v to_o husband_n or_o wife_n jealousy_n be_v the_o rage_n of_o a_o man_n therefore_o he_o will_v not_o spare_v in_o the_o day_n of_o vengeance_n he_o will_v not_o regard_v any_o ransom_n neither_o will_v he_o rest_v content_a though_o thou_o give_v many_o gift_n witness_v king_n solomon_n pro._n 6.34_o 35._o and_o jealousy_n be_v cruel_a as_o the_o grave_a the_o coal_n thereof_o be_v coal_n of_o fire_n which_o have_v a_o most_o vehement_a flame_n witness_v the_o spirit_n of_o god_n can._n 8.6_o this_o take_a care_n to_o avoid_v all_o occasion_n of_o jealousy_n be_v a_o powerful_a mean_n to_o preserve_v conjugal_a love_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n but_o much_o more_o the_o grace_n of_o fidelity_n and_o constant_a care_n of_o faithfulness_n each_o to_o other_o according_a to_o that_o sacred_a bond_n of_o marriage_n the_o husband_n ought_v to_o be_v careful_a to_o be_v faithful_a to_o his_o wife_n forsake_v all_o other_o witness_v the_o spirit_n of_o god_n prov._n 5.18_o 19_o let_v thy_o fountain_n be_v bless_v and_o rejoice_v with_o the_o wife_n of_o thy_o youth_n let_v she_o be_v as_o the_o love_a hind_n and_o pleasant_a roe_n let_v her_o breast_n satisfy_v thou_o at_o all_o time_n and_o be_v thou_o ravish_v always_o with_o her_o love_n and_o the_o same_o spirit_n of_o god_n speak_v the_o same_o again_o prov._n 6.23.24_o 25_o etc._n etc._n the_o commandment_n be_v a_o lamp_n and_o the_o law_n a_o light_n and_o reproof_n of_o instruction_n be_v the_o way_n of_o life_n to_o keep_v thou_o from_o the_o evil_a woman_n which_o flatter_v with_o her_o tongue_n and_o from_o the_o flattery_n of_o the_o tongue_n of_o the_o strange_a woman_n lust_n not_o after_o her_o beauty_n in_o thy_o heart_n neither_o let_v she_o take_v thou_o with_o her_o eyelid_n for_o by_o mean_n of_o a_o whorish_a woman_n a_o man_n be_v bring_v to_o a_o piece_n of_o bread_n and_o the_o adulteress_n will_v haunt_v for_o the_o precious_a life_n can_v a_o man_n take_v fire_n in_o his_o bosom_n and_o his_o clothes_n not_o be_v burn_v can_v one_o go_v upon_o hot_a coal_n and_o his_o foot_n not_o be_v burn_v so_o he_o that_o go_v into_o his_o neighbour_n wife_n whosoever_o touch_v she_o shall_v not_o be_v innocent_a this_o sin_n of_o adultery_n or_o fornication_n break_v the_o command_n of_o the_o great_a god_n who_o be_v a_o consume_a fire_n heb._n 12.29_o the_o law_n of_o that_o all-seeing_a every_n where_o present_a god_n 24._o jer._n 23_o 23_o 24._o before_o who_o eye_n 4.13_o prov._n 5.21_o heb._n 4.13_o mat._n 12.36_o amos_n 4.13_o all_o thing_n be_v open_a and_o naked_a whatsoever_o we_o can_v speak_v do_v or_o think_v the_o command_n of_o this_o
a_o especial_a gold-link_a of_o love_n to_o bind_v love_n fast_o between_o husband_n and_o wife_n the_o fourteen_o gold-link_a of_o love_n follow_v love_n the_o fourteen_o direction_n or_o gold_n link_v of_o love_n there_o aught_o to_o be_v a_o mutual_a care_n of_o and_o for_o education_n of_o their_o child_n which_o god_n have_v gracious_o give_v unto_o they_o as_o jacob_n speak_v to_o his_o brother_n esau_n gen._n 33.5_o that_o they_o be_v teach_v and_o instruct_v both_o in_o civil_a and_o spiritual_a respect_n both_o in_o divine_a and_o humane_a learning_n according_a to_o the_o honour_n and_o dignity_n of_o their_o place_n and_o call_v it_o be_v king_n solomon_n counsel_n prov._n 22.6_o teach_v a_o child_n in_o the_o way_n he_o shall_v go_v and_o he_o will_v not_o depart_v from_o it_o when_o he_o be_v old_a especial_o that_o they_o be_v season_v with_o the_o catechism_n and_o first_o principle_n of_o the_o oracle_n of_o god_n 5.12_o heb._n 5.12_o and_o the_o knowledge_n of_o god_n will_n in_o the_o sacred_a scripture_n as_o bless_a timothy_n be_v for_o which_o st._n paul_n give_v that_o excellent_a testimony_n you_o may_v read_v 2_o tim._n 3.15_o that_o from_o a_o child_n he_o have_v know_v the_o holy_a scripture_n which_o be_v able_a to_o make_v we_o wise_a unto_o salvation_n through_o faith_n which_o be_v in_o christ_n jesus_n this_o be_v life_n eternal_a to_o know_v god_n the_o only_a true_a god_n and_o who_o he_o have_v send_v jesus_n christ_n john_n 17.3_o for_o this_o care_n of_o instruct_v child_n and_o family_n the_o lord_n himself_o commend_v faithful_a abraham_n and_o make_v he_o of_o his_o secret_a counsel_n shall_v i_o hide_v from_o abraham_n the_o thing_n that_o i_o do_v and_o he_o give_v this_o for_o one_o reason_n for_o i_o know_v he_o say_v the_o lord_n that_o he_o will_v command_v his_o child_n and_o his_o household_n after_o he_o to_o keep_v the_o way_n of_o the_o lord_n to_o do_v justice_n and_o judgement_n that_o the_o lord_n may_v bring_v upon_o abraham_n that_o which_o he_o have_v speak_v of_o he_o and_o his_o posterity_n gen._n 18.19_o again_o this_o be_v god_n command_n to_o his_o people_n israel_n that_o they_o shall_v teach_v their_o child_n diligent_o the_o law_n and_o word_n of_o the_o lord_n and_o thou_o shall_v talk_v of_o they_o when_o thou_o be_v in_o thy_o house_n and_o when_o thou_o walk_v by_o the_o way_n and_o when_o thou_o rise_v up_o as_o it_o be_v record_v deut._n 6.6_o 7._o and_o this_o no_o doubt_n with_o holy_a reverence_n and_o devotion_n as_o desirous_a to_o reveal_v god_n mind_n to_o their_o child_n and_o family_n and_o child_n be_v command_v to_o hearken_v to_o their_o parent_n instruction_n prov._n 1.8_o my_o son_n hear_v the_o instruction_n of_o thy_o father_n and_o forget_v not_o the_o law_n of_o thy_o mother_n and_o again_o prov._n 31.1_o you_o may_v find_v the_o word_n of_o king_n lemuel_n the_o prophecy_n which_o his_o mother_n teach_v he_o to_o conclude_v the_o apostle_n st._n paul_n ephes_n 6.1_o 2_o 3_o 4._o press_v the_o duty_n both_o of_o child_n and_o parent_n first_o child_n obey_v your_o parent_n in_o all_o thing_n as_o it_o be_v fit_a in_o the_o lord_n and_o honour_v thy_o father_n and_o mother_n which_o be_v the_o first_o commandment_n with_o promise_n that_o it_o may_v be_v well_o with_o thou_o and_o thou_o may_v live_v long_o in_o the_o land_n and_o father_n provoke_v not_o your_o child_n to_o wrath_n that_o they_o be_v not_o discourage_v but_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o the_o nurture_n and_o admonition_n of_o the_o lord_n thus_o child_n well_o instruct_v in_o the_o knowledge_n of_o god_n mind_n may_v be_v a_o joy_n to_o parent_n and_o parent_n enjoy_v their_o child_n as_o blessing_n from_o the_o lord_n and_o behold_v they_o as_o olive_n branch_n round_o about_o their_o table_n to_o god_n glory_n 128._o psal_n 128._o and_o as_o the_o pledge_n of_o their_o mutual_a love_n to_o each_o other_o and_o this_o be_v a_o excellent_a gold-link_a of_o love_n to_o preserve_v and_o keep_v mutual_a conjugal_a love_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n the_o fifteen_o direction_n love_n the_o fifteen_o direction_n or_o gold-link_a of_o love_n or_o gold-link_a of_o love_n be_v that_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n according_a to_o their_o duty_n do_v live_v together_o and_o not_o separate_v the_o one_o from_o the_o other_o except_o with_o consent_n for_o a_o time_n upon_o most_o necessary_a occasion_n or_o that_o they_o may_v give_v themselves_o to_o fast_v and_o prayer_n and_o come_v together_o again_o that_o satan_n tempt_v they_o not_o as_o st._n paul_n direct_v 1_o cor._n 7.5_o that_o so_o live_v love_o together_o as_o heir_n of_o the_o grace_n of_o life_n they_o may_v be_v mutual_a helper_n to_o each_o other_o in_o these_o conjugal_a duty_n this_o rule_n st._n peter_n give_v 1_o pet._n 3.7_o husband_n dwell_v with_o your_o wife_n as_o man_n of_o knowledge_n and_o st._n paul_n 1_o cor._n 7.13_o if_o a_o woman_n that_o believe_v have_v a_o husband_n that_o believe_v not_o or_o be_v not_o a_o christian_a yet_o if_o he_o please_v to_o dwell_v with_o she_o let_v she_o not_o leave_v he_o but_o continue_v that_o she_o may_v be_v a_o help_n to_o he_o for_o his_o soul_n as_o well_o as_o for_o his_o body_n and_o estate_n when_o god_n do_v make_v the_o woman_n the_o lord_n god_n say_v it_o be_v not_o good_a for_o man_n to_o be_v alone_o i_o will_v make_v he_o a_o help_n meet_v for_o he_o gen._n 2_o 18._o and_o a_o good_a wife_n will_v be_v a_o helper_n for_o good_a not_o a_o hindrance_n to_o her_o husband_n god_n do_v make_v the_o woman_n to_o be_v a_o second-self_n 2._o mr._n ainsworth_n in_o gen._n 2._o like_v he_o in_o nature_n knit_v to_o he_o in_o love_n needful_a for_o child_n helpful_a in_o all_o duty_n present_v always_o with_o he_o and_o so_o very_o mere_a and_o profitable_a as_o a_o joyful_a companion_n in_o all_o estate_n in_o adversity_n as_o well_o as_o in_o prosperity_n in_o sickness_n as_o well_o as_o in_o health_n in_o poverty_n as_o well_o as_o in_o a_o rich_a estate_n this_o require_v cohabitation_n that_o the_o wife_n leave_v not_o the_o husband_n nor_o the_o husband_n forsake_v the_o wife_n because_o this_o unjust_a and_o unchristian_a forsake_v of_o husband_n or_o wife_n for_o light_a difference_n for_o any_o thing_n less_o than_o that_o which_o be_v a_o sufficient_a ground_n for_o a_o lawful_a divorce_n by_o the_o law_n of_o god_n this_o give_v occasion_n of_o sin_n abate_v love_n and_o can_v expect_v a_o blessing_n from_o god_n yea_o this_o too_o often_o do_v break_v off_o love_n betwixt_o husband_n and_o wife_n when_o cohabitation_n do_v preserve_v conjugal_a love_n and_o will_v do_v if_o they_o live_v in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n and_o follow_v his_o direction_n to_o the_o end_n the_o sixteenth_o direction_n love_n the_o sixteenth_o direction_n or_o or_o gold-link_a of_o love_n or_o gold-link_a of_o love_n to_o bind_v love_n fast_o and_o prevent_v sinful_a breach_n betwixt_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v for_o both_o to_o learn_v that_o first_o lesson_n of_o a_o christian_a which_o our_o saviour_n teach_v his_o disciple_n math._n 16.24_o they_o must_v sometime_o deny_v themselves_o that_o be_v their_o own_o will_n and_o desire_n passion_n and_o affection_n bridle_v rash_a anger_n and_o over-rule_v their_o passion_n yea_o their_o right_n sometime_o for_o quietness_n sake_n they_o must_v not_o be_v both_o self-willed_a nor_o both_o angry_a at_o once_o or_o at_o the_o same_o time_n king_n solomon_n witness_v that_o he_o that_o be_v stow_v to_o anger_n be_v better_a than_o the_o mighty_a and_o he_o that_o rule_v his_o spirit_n than_o he_o that_o take_v a_o city_n prov._n 16.32_o and_o a_o soft_a answer_n turn_v away_o wrath_n but_o grievous_a word_n stir_v up_o anger_n prov._n 15.1_o and_o again_o that_o wise_a man_n prov._n 19_o 19_o prov._n 19.9_o 19_o it_o be_v better_a to_o dwell_v in_o a_o corner_n of_o the_o house_n top_n then_o with_o a_o brawl_v woman_n in_o a_o wide_a house_n and_o again_o verse_n 19_o it_o be_v better_a to_o dwell_v in_o the_o wilderness_n then_o with_o a_o contentious_a and_o angry_a woman_n and_o that_o kingly_a preacher_n again_o eccles_n 7.9_o be_v not_o hasty_a in_o thy_o spirit_n to_o be_v angry_a for_o anger_n rest_v in_o the_o bosom_n of_o fool_n simile_n simile_n it_o be_v a_o witty_a conceit_n of_o the_o father_n who_o give_v two_o cap_n to_o his_o new_a marry_a son_n and_o daughter_n make_v fit_a for_o solomon_n angry_a fool_n with_o this_o contract_n that_o they_o shall_v never_o put_v they_o on_o both_o at_o once_o but_o if_o the_o husband_n have_v put_v on_o his_o cap_n the_o wife_n shall_v let_v she_o lie_v still_o not_o take_v it_o by_o any_o mean_n and_o the_o same_o direction_n to_o
4._o 1_o sam._n 1.15_o nor_o pour_v out_o our_o soul_n to_o god_n like_o hannah_n and_o therefore_o if_o any_o discomfort_n or_o disagreement_n have_v fall_v out_o between_o we_o we_o may_v well_o thank_v ourselves_o that_o we_o have_v not_o have_v wisdom_n and_o power_n to_o do_v better_a 15.13_o 1_o chron._n 15.13_o because_o we_o have_v not_o seek_v they_o at_o god_n hand_n 3._o james_n 4.2_o 3._o or_o not_o in_o a_o right_a manner_n for_o although_o thou_o god_n do_v free_o promise_v blessing_n to_o his_o church_n yet_o he_o will_v be_v inquire_v of_o 36.37_o ezek._n 36.37_o and_o pray_v unto_o by_o his_o child_n for_o his_o grace_n or_o any_o the_o like_a mercy_n o_o therefore_o most_o gracious_a father_n i_o most_o humble_o entreat_v thou_o give_v 〈◊〉_d i_o and_o my_o wife_n true_o humble_a and_o penitent_a and_o contrite_a heart_n 16._o mic._n 6.6_o isaiah_n 57.15_o 16._o for_o this_o and_o all_o our_o former_a fail_n and_o give_v we_o wisdom_n and_o strength_n of_o grace_n for_o the_o time_n to_o come_v right_o to_o perform_v our_o duty_n to_o thou_o our_o god_n and_o mutual_o one_o to_o another_o whilst_o we_o live_v that_o so_o our_o marriage_n may_v be_v a_o joyful_a and_o christian-like_a merry-age_n indeed_o 21._o prov._n 5.18_o 19_o 20_o 21._o to_o thy_o glory_n and_o our_o comfort_n to_o the_o end_n of_o our_o life_n o_o then_o give_v we_o grace_n i_o most_o humble_o beseech_v thou_o to_o fly_v all_o occasion_n of_o discord_n or_o disagreement_n that_o there_o may_v never_o be_v any_o such_o breach_n between_o we_o thy_o servant_n as_o there_o have_v be_v between_o too_o many_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o the_o world_n let_v it_o be_v far_o from_o we_o upon_o any_o discontent_n unkind_o to_o separate_v one_o from_o another_o 7.5_o 1_o cor._n 7.5_o except_o it_o be_v with_o consent_n for_o a_o time_n that_o we_o may_v give_v ourselves_o to_o fast_v and_o prayer_n and_o come_v together_o again_o willing_o and_o joyful_o as_o we_o ought_v to_o do_v and_o if_o either_o of_o we_o have_v fail_v in_o our_o choice_n in_o not_o follow_v the_o apostle_n rule_n to_o have_v be_v careful_a to_o marry_v in_o the_o lord_n or_o any_o other_o scripture_n direction_n to_o have_v be_v consider_v better_a before_o hand_n 7.39_o 1_o cor._n 7.39_o for_o our_o comfortable_a communion_n in_o marriage_n ay_o most_o humble_o beg_v pardon_n for_o that_o which_o be_v pass_v for_o the_o merit_v sake_n of_o my_o dear_a redeemer_n and_o now_o o_o bless_a lord_n give_v we_o thy_o heavenly_a grace_n that_o we_o may_v follow_v the_o direction_n of_o thy_o most_o holy_a word_n set_v before_o we_o 119.105_o psal_n 119.105_o and_o true_o and_o religious_o seek_v by_o all_o good_a mean_n the_o eternal_a salvation_n of_o both_o our_o soul_n that_o we_o may_v be_v happy_a here_o and_o hereafter_o o_o give_v we_o wisdom_n to_o cherish_v love_n and_o increase_v it_o in_o one_o towards_o and_o with_o the_o other_o and_o let_v there_o be_v no_o bitterness_n between_o we_o in_o word_n or_o deed_n give_v we_o contentedness_n of_o mind_n with_o our_o present_a condition_n 8._o 1_o tim._n 6.6_o 7_o 8._o keep_v we_o true_o faithful_a to_o each_o other_o according_a to_o our_o marriage-covenant_n in_o obedience_n to_o thy_o command_n and_o fear_v of_o thy_o heavenly_a majesty_n who_o be_v present_v in_o all_o place_n and_o before_o who_o all-seeing-eye_n all_o thing_n be_v open_a and_o naked_a that_o we_o have_v do_v or_o shall_v do_v all_o the_o day_n of_o our_o life_n 23.23_o jer._n 23.23_o give_v we_o i_o most_o humble_o entreat_v thou_o 8.6_o heb._n 4.13_o prov._n 6.34_o 35._o cant._n 8.6_o wisdom_n and_o power_n to_o avoid_v all_o occasion_n of_o jealousy_n that_o our_o heart_n may_v true_o trust_v one_o another_o in_o the_o lord_n 5.14_o numb_a 5.14_o that_o peace_n and_o happiness_n may_v be_v our_o portion_n all_o our_o day_n help_v we_o by_o thy_o spirit_n grace_v to_o pray_v one_o for_o another_o and_o to_o seek_v thy_o blessing_n upon_o our_o self_n and_o for_o our_o child_n which_o thou_o have_v or_o shall_v in_o thy_o goodness_n gracious_o give_v thy_o servant_n 33.5_o gen._n 33.5_o enable_v we_o to_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o the_o fear_n and_o nurture_n and_o admonition_n of_o thou_o o_o lord_n that_o they_o may_v fear_v and_o honour_v thou_o as_o their_o heavenly_a father_n 10.27_o prov._n 1.7_o prov._n 10.27_o and_o obey_v we_o as_o be_v fit_a in_o thou_o our_o lord_n as_o their_o earthly_a parent_n that_o a_o blessing_n may_v be_v upon_o we_o and_o upon_o they_o and_o their_o posterity_n to_o many_o generation_n if_o it_o be_v thy_o bless_a will_n bless_v i_o pray_v thou_o our_o servant_n and_o our_o substance_n which_o thou_o have_v or_o shall_v bestow_v upon_o we_o it_o be_v thy_o blessing_n 10.22_o prov._n 10.22_o o_o lord_n which_o make_v rich_a and_o add_v no_o sorrow_n with_o it_o be_v gracious_a i_o most_o humble_o beseech_v thou_o to_o thy_o church_n through_o the_o world_n bless_v these_o nation_n and_o in_o they_o our_o most_o gracious_a king_n and_o his_o royal_a queen_n with_o his_o royal_a family_n and_o his_o kingdom_n with_o all_o estate_n and_o order_n of_o man_n in_o church_n and_o in_o common_a wealth_n grant_v o_o lord_n that_o truth_n and_o peace_n 8.19_o zach._n 8.19_o righteousness_n and_o love_n with_o the_o gospel_n of_o peace_n may_v be_v a_o blessing_n to_o these_o nation_n to_o we_o and_o we_o to_o the_o end_n of_o the_o world_n if_o it_o be_v thy_o bless_a will_n and_o pleasure_n hear_v thy_o unworthy_a servant_n most_o merciful_a god_n and_o grant_v that_o what_o i_o have_v ask_v according_a to_o thy_o will_n and_o whatsoever_o else_o thou_o know_v necessary_a for_o this_o life_n or_o that_o happy_a life_n to_o come_v ay_o most_o humble_o beg_v they_o further_o in_o that_o prayer_n which_o christ_n jesus_n have_v teach_v we_o our_o father_n which_o be_v in_o heaven_n etc._n etc._n a_o special_a closet_n or_o secret_a prayer_n for_o a_o wife_n to_o seek_v the_o lord_n for_o herself_o and_o her_o husband_n and_o family_n that_o they_o may_v have_v grace_n and_o strength_n from_o god_n through_o christ_n to_o perform_v their_o mutual_a duty_n to_o each_o other_o live_v happy_o together_o and_o enjoy_v god_n blessing_n upon_o they_o and_o they_o for_o ever_o o_o most_o love_a god_n 63.16_o isa_n 63.16_o and_o my_o most_o tender_a father_n in_o jesus_n christ_n thou_o be_v love_n and_o thy_o holy_a spirit_n have_v witness_v that_o he_o who_o dwell_v in_o love_n 4.16_o 1_o joh._n 4.16_o dwell_v in_o thou_o o_o god_n and_o thou_o in_o he_o thou_o who_o do_v require_v by_o thy_o bless_a son_n jesus_n 5.44_o mat._n 5.44_o that_o we_o shall_v love_v our_o enemy_n 5.25_o eph._n 5.25_o and_o much_o more_o our_o friend_n husband_n their_o wife_n 2._o titus_n 2._o and_o wife_n their_o husband_n and_o those_o that_o be_v near_o relate_v unto_o they_o behold_v 1.11_o 1_o sam._n 1.11_o i_o thy_o unworthy_a handmaid_n a_o woman_n feeble_a in_o devotion_n 3.7_o 1_o 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