your selves not that every professor of the Gospel is to be a publick Preacher of the Gospel Private persons are not to invade an office to which God never called them but yet private Christians may be a kind of private teachers they may read the Scriptures in their houses who yet may not take upon them to explain it in the publick they may catechize and as Abraham Gen. 18.19 teach their Children and their housholds to know the way of the Lord who yet are not to instruct congregations they may exhort one another and admonish one another and teach one another in Godly discourse and conference communicating each others experiences and solving each others doubts who yet are not to usurp a work into their hands for which Christ hath appointed a particular Office in his Church 9. Be sure to practice what you know and live up to what you have learned Doing duty is the way to gain knowledg Ordinarily the more holy you are the more really wise you are or are like to be The better your hearts are the clearer your heads will be as to the knowledg of those Spiritual things you are most concerned to know You will most easily learn to know what you love most to do Though the receiving the truths of God be the immediate office of the understanding yet the affections where they are right Cupiditas hostis intelliâ—â—â—ae will help the understanding in its work The purifying of the heart will rid it of those lusts which are wont to steam and vapour up into the head and darken the eyes oâ— the mind and hinder it from a right receiving of Spiritual truths Where sanctification is promoted in heart and life knowledg will certainly be increased too They that exercise themselves unto Godlyness and thereby shew their love to God's Law shall not want for the knowledg of it They that love his wayes shall not want for a guide The secret of the Lord is with them that fear him and he will teach them his covenant Psal 25.9 If any Man do his will he shall know of the doctrine whether it be of God c. John 1.17 Vse 1. This doctrine informs us 1. How miserable they are that are without knowlede poor ignorant blind sinners that know nothing of God and Christ and the mysteries of the Gospel and the way of duty but especially they that enjoy the means of knowledg and are in a capacity of obtaining it Woe be to them that are ignorant in an Age of knowledg blind in a land of light see so little even in a valley of vision that are ignorant in England ignorant in London that are ignorant because they will be ignorant are in the dark because they love darkness We may even wonder at many what shift they make to maintain their ignorance when so much knowledg is abroad but that they draw the curtains and close their eyes and wink away the light and instead of looking for saving knowledg they hope to be excused by their ignorance What though such as are under an invincible ignorance of revealed truths may not be damned for not believing what they have not heard or for not doing what they have not known they are miserable enough in not knowing what might save them as well as in their not practising the little they do know which though it be not sufficient to make them happy yet is sufficient to make them inexcusable And what is this to those that are so deeply ignorant under the means of knowledge who is there among us but might come to know so much as is needful to his Salvation who is there but might hear good Ministers or hath some good Relations or might converse with some good people or read some good book Who is there but hath or may have a Bible and a Catechism and so long as Men have the Bible in their hands they can never be excused if they perish in their ignorance So long as Christ is the Prophet of his Church and promiseth his Spirit to them that ask him and offereth so freely to instruct them the case of those that are among and converse with God's people and yet remain ignorant must needs be desperate Is it so great a matter to hear the word to read the Scriptures and to pray to God for an understanding of them who will pity a man that perisheth for thirst and yet sits by a fountain or that starves for hunger and yet may come every day to a full granary 2. How foolish are they that cry down knowledg and consequently cry up ignorance Make that the mother of devotion which is indeed the Parent of irreligion as if they were like to do most who know least as if they were the best servants who were least acquainted with their Master's will or might be wise to Salvation and yet ignorant of the truth Others there are too who under the name of Head-knowledg do upon the matter cry down all knowledg at least vvhich themselves have not reached and care not for seeking after Because some men have only a notional knowledg floating in their heads these persons are ready to condemn all knowledg under that notion They have got a fine word by the end and are resolved to make much of it A form of speech they have taken up as a way of excusing their own sloth and ignorance by declaiming against those that are better taught Heart-knowledg without Head-knowledg is nonsence in divinity as well as reason it is but fire without light and so at the best but that which the Apostle ascribes to the Jews Rom. 10.2 A zeal of God but not according to knowledg 3. How wicked are they how great is their sin that keep others from knowledg Some there be that would perswade men from labouring after it tell them private persons need not be so knowing they may be saved with less learning and less teaching a little knowledg will carry them to Heaven if they do but live honestly and do their duty And is it possible for a man to live honestly without knowledg or do his duty without understanding his duty I add to believe as he should without knowing what to believe can you be religious by instinct or do the will of God by guess though you never inquire after it why do they not as well tell men that they may be rich enough if they do but keep to their shops and sell their goods though they do not understand their trade or that they may maintain their health if they do but eat and drink though they cannot distinguish between meat and poyson others there be who if they cannot perswade men against knowledg vvill do their best to hinder them from the means of obtaining it Such are the Popish Clergy that keep the people from reading the Scriptures vvould have God's revealed will kept secret or known to none but themselves who never intend to do it at least no more of
Cant. 3. This is to call the day Honourable Thirdly Then we call it Honourable when we have a precious esteem of every moment of Sabbath-time and jealous lest any drop of it should run waste even the filings of Gold and the dust of Diamonds are pretious No man can call the Sabbath Glorious that sets light by an hour or minute or moment of so Divine a creation Time is a ring of Gold but the Sabbath is the rich sparkling Diamond in it Davids heart smote him for cutting off but a lap of Sauls Royal coat So should ours for profaning or unprofitably wasting any part of Christ's day It is like his seamless coat and cannot be divided without sacriledge Fourthly The day is honourable when we have a singular esteem of all the Institutions and Ordinances of the day When Prayer is precious and the word Read Preached is precious when singing of Psalms is precious the Sacraments precious when every one in its time and order is observed with such due regard that none do justle out or exclude the other but one doth catch in the other as the links in a chain of Gold Fifthly When it is the grief of our souls that we can keep Sabbaths no better and strive cordially and conscientiously to keep the next better than we did the last Sixthly and lastly when we are careful that all ours as well as our selves keep Sabbaths this is a main clause in our obedience to the 4th commandment Thou thy Son and thy Daughter thy man-servant and thy maid-servant c. Every one in their several capacities must keep the Sabbath To be strict our selves in the duties of a Sabbath and careless what the rest of our Families do whether our children or servants steep or be idle dance or play at cards sing idle songs or take Gods name in vain c. This is not to call the Sabbath Honourable Deut. 5.14 Gen. 8.19 I know Abraham that he will command his children and his houshold after him and they shall keep the way of the Lord. And shalt honour him or glorifie him From Cabad honorare The verb in the Hebrew Vecibbactto may be rendred It or Him but the sence seems to incline to the latter Him rather than It the day having had its title of veneration put upon it before honourable this may more properperly belong to God even to the whole blessed and glorious Trinity requiring at the hands of every one that enjoyeth this blessed priviledge of a Sabbath that they ascribe the honour and glory of it unto God and that is done 1. When we make divine Authority the sole ground of our separating and sanctifying the whole day to his peculiar Service and Worship without alienating any part or parcel of that holy time to our own carnal uses and purposes Keep the Sabbath day to sanctifie it there 's the duty as the Lord thy God commanded thee there 's the Authority 2. When as we make Gods command our ground so we make Gods glory our end When we make it our design to set up God Father Son and Holy Ghost in all his glorious and infinite perfections in our Adorations and Admirations upon that his holy day And that is done in a special manner when we make it the great business of a Sabbath To ascribe to each glorious Person in the Trinity the glory of his proper work and operation whereby he challengeth a title to and interest in the Sabbath ex gra 1. When we ascribe to God the Father the glory of the stupendious work of Creation and that is done by a due contemplation of all his glorious Attributes shining forth in this beautiful structure of heaven and earth celebrated by the Royal Psalmist in Psal 19. v. 1. The heavens declare the glory of the Lord and the firmament sheweth his handy work the transcendent excellencies of the glorious Jehovah are conspicuous and illustrious in this admirable Theatre of the world that is to say 1. His Power 1. In creating all things out of nothing 2. And that by a word of his mouth 2. His Wisdom In making all things in such a beautiful and exact manner and order Galen l. de usu partium As the great Physitian said of the body of man no man can come after God and say this might have been better so in the Fabrick of Heaven and Earth neither man nor Angels can say here is a Defect and there is a redundancy it had been better there had been more Suns and fewer stars more land and less Sea c. No when the divine prophet had stood and in his most serious contemplation looked through the Creation he could spye out nothing that could have been otherwise but breaks out in admiration O Lord how manifold are thy works In wisdom hast thou made them all he could see nothing from one end of the Universe to the other but what speaks infinite perfection In wisdom hast thou made them all and as the Omnipotency and wisdom of God is magnified in the Creation so also 3. His bounty in bestowing all this visible creation upon man for his use and benefit as one saith God made man last that he might bring him as a father brings his son into an house ready furnished This is one branch of our honouring God when we ascribe to God the Father the glory of the work of Creation Secondly When we ascribe to God the Son the glory of his most glorious work of Redemption wherein these particulars are wonderful 1. His inessable incarnation 1 Tim. 3.16 Without controversie great is the mystery of godliness God manifest in the flesh i. e. The invisible God made visible in a bâ—dy of flesh This was a Mystery indeed A Son in Heaven without a Mother Gal 4.4 And a Son on Earth without a Father Secondly Christ his stupendious being made under the Law Behold he that made the Law was made under the Law under the Ceremonial Law that he might abolish it under the Moral Law The preceptive power of it that he might fulfill it that so every believer might have a Righteousness which he may call his own Rom. 10.4 The maledictive power of it that he might take it away Gal. 3.13 3. Christ his work of Redemption was principally transacted by his death and passion for therein he laid down pretium Redemptionis Acts 20.28 the price of Redemption which was his own precious blood 1 Pet. 1.18 19 20. 4. This great work and mystery of our Redemption was perfectly consummated in Christ his glorious Resurrection Col. 2.15 wherein he spoiled principalities and powers and made a shew of them openly 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 some render it in it and would refer it to his Cross but 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 is to be understood here in the masculine gender not in the neuter and so to be translanted in himself Christ rising from the dead like a conqueror lead
doing of greater good in humane Society for the time to come but more especially in Religious Nurture instruction in Righteousness 2 Tim. 3.16 and as it follows in the admonition of the Lord In the best and highest kind of Nurture that which is drawn and fetcht from the Word of the Lord and so will be most accepted of him and most profitable to Children Not only in Arts and Sciences to make them Worldly wise and Learned nor only in the Mysteries of Trading and Worldly employment to make them Rich nor only in matters of Morality and Civil honesty to make them Sober and vertuous but in the mysteries of true Religion in the nurture and admonition of the Lord 1 Tim. 4.6 in the words of Faith and good Doctrine to make them truly happy 2. Presidents It was the constant practice of the Saints of old carefully to instruct their children in the things of God And that 1. In the Truths and Worship of the true God Thus Divines conclude that Adam instructed his Sons Gen. 4.3 4. Cain and Abel to bring their Offerings to the Lord And from Adam down along to Moses for the space of two thousand years how was the true Religion communicated but by Oral Tradition from Parents to their Children Gen. 18.19 I know Abraham that he will command his Children and his Houshold after him and they shall keep the way of the Lord to do Justice and Judgment that the Lord may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him In this Text we have Abraham's Testimonial subscribed by God himself Wherein God 1. Asserts what Abraham was for the present a man of integrity a man greatly beloved of God I know Abraham I know his judgment I know his heart I am well acquainted with the frame of his spirit the inclination of his Will the bent of his Affections and I know him so well that I cannot but highly approve and dearly love him and will trust him with an Arcanum make him as it were of my Privy Councel in imparting to him my great design concerning wicked Sodom 2. Foretells for the future 1. What Abraham would do for God viz. That he would endeavour to bring all that were under his Command to be at God's Command Abraham will not leave his children and servants to their own Genius counsels lusts ignorance idleness superstition idolatry but command them to keep the way of Jehovah Abraham will endeavour to set up God in his Family to instruct it in that way of Faith Worship and Obedience which God requireth 2. What God will do for Abraham viz. fulfil his Promise keep his Word Holy Job that Non pareil of the World none like him in the Earth Job 1.8 that perfect that upright man Job sends and sanctifies his children i. e. says that late burning and shining Light sent a Message to them to command them to prepare and fit themselves for the holy duty of Sacrificing This preparation to holy Duties is often call'd Sanctifying Exod. 19.20 1 Sam. 6.5 Job 11.55 Job 1.5 Josâ—ph Caryl on Job 1.5 Job's main and special care was for the Souls of his children Job's Message to his children was not to ask them how they did after their Feasting whether they had surfeited how the reckoning was inflamed No his eye and heart mostly fixt on this that they might be sanctified His holy Soul struck a perfect light to Paul's desire before Agrippa Acts 26.29 I would to God that not only thou but all that hear me this day were both almost and altogether such as I am And to John's joy John Ep. 3.4 I have no greater joy than to hear that thy children walk in the truth Thus David that man after God's own heart Psal 34.11 Come ye children hearken unto me I will teach you the fear of the Lord. But more especially I would commend to your most accurate view that lovely Prospect presented to us in Prov. 4.3 4. Behold there a great and glorious King descending from his Imperial Throne laying aside his Golden Crown and Royal Scepter and sitting down on a lower seat with a Child a Solomon at his knee So that the King is now humbled into a Tutor the Prince into a Pupil A brief account of the Lecture the Text gives us I was my Father's Son i. e. I was so my Father's Son as that I was also his Jedidiah so beloved as if I had been his only Son He taught me also and said unto me Let thine heart retain my words keep my Commandments and live Thus we have seen the practice of godly Fathers but what have godly Mothers done have they been so cruelly forgetful of their children as not to have compassion on the Sons of their Womb What! worse than Sea-Monsters who draw out their breasts and give suck to their young ones No Lam. 4.3 no those true Daughters of Sarah have been more spiritually kind and benign 1. In the Front of these stands our Mother the Spouse of Christ Can. 8.2 Ass Annot in Cant. 8.2 I would lead thee and bring thee into my Mothers House i. e. into mine own House or Mansion as is usual with us to call our own Houses the Houses of our Fathers The Church in her Universal Latitude is the Mother of all her Members who would or doth instruct me The Church John 6.45 who is the Pillar and ground of truth in this respect that she presenteth and holdeth forth that truth outwardly which only Christ bringeth to the heart and makes effectual 2. Upon her right hand stands David's Royal Consort Queen Bathsheba whom we find laying the Law before King Lemuel i. e. her Son Solomon called Lemuel i. e. of God because God had ordained him to be King over Israel rather than any of his Elder Brethren 1 Kings 2.15 22. The words of King Lemuel the Prophesie Doctrine or Instruction that his Mother taught him 2. What my Son and what the Son of my Womb Prov. 31.1 2. and what the Son of my Vows 3. Upon her left hand let the hoary-headed holy Grand mother Lois and the tender discreet pious Mother Eunice be placed who even from the Dug as it were instructed their hopeful Timothy in the knowledg of the Holy Scriptures 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 2 Tim. 1.5 3.15 16 11. which were able to make him wise unto Salvation 2. In the ways and works of God's Providence Thus Gideon gives testimony to his Forefathers that they had told their Children of all the Miracles which the Lord had done saying did not the Lord bring us from Egypt Jud. 6.13 Thus the Psalmist Psal 44.1 2. We have heard with our ears O God Psal 44.1 c. our Fathers have told us what work thou didst in their days in the times of old And again Psal 78.3 4 5 6 7. Sayings of old which we have heard and known and our Fathers have told us 4. We will not hide
doth God mean to give me such a command as never to any one else in this world He consults not his Wife Oh what will Sarah say He sticks not at what might expose Religion What will the Heathen say You may well suppose great struglings between Nature and Grace but God seemed to press upon him with this Question Whether dost thou love me or thy child most Abraham doth as it were answer Nay Lord if that be the question it shall soon be decided how and where thou pleasest Another instance we have in Moses (k) Exod. 3.13 and 33.15.18 if you will compare two or three Scriptures Moses at first he enquires of God as we do of a stranger what is his Name upon Gods further discovery he begs more of his special presence and upon God's granting of that his Love grows bold and he said I beseech thee shew me thy Glory upon his finding God propitious he begs that God would remove the cloud and shew him as much of his Glory as he was possibly able to bear the sight of Take one instance more and that is of Paul who thinking God might have more glory by saving of many than by saving of him was willing to quit the happiness of salvation for not the least Grace much less grace in the height of it could possibly choose a necessity of hating and blaspheming God which is the venom of Damnation but his Love to God is greater than his love to himself and so he 'l reckon himself happy without Glory provided God may be more glorified And thus I have produced three Examples of one before the Law one under the Law and one under the Gospel How will you receive it if I shall venture to say We have in some respect more cause to love God than any than all these Persons put together What singular gleams of warm Love from God they had more than we are in some respects exceeded by the noon-day light and heat of Gospel-love that we have more than they What love-visits God was pleased to give them are excelled by Christs as to them extraordinary presence among us What was to them a Banquet is to us our daily bread God opens the windowes of heaven to us God opens his very heart to us We may read more of the Love of God to us in one day than they could in their whole Life 2. Angels that unweariedly behold the face of God (l) Mat. 18.10 they refuse nothing that may evidence their love to God 'T is ordinarily the Devils work to be the Executioners of Gods wrath it is said (m) Psal 78.49 he cast upon them the fierceness of his anger wrath and indignation and trouble by sending evil Angels among them but the good Angels will not stick at it when God requires it (n) 2 King 19.35 The Angel of the Lord went out and smote in the Camp of the Assyrians 185000. But now we have more cause to love God than the Angels God hath expressed greater Love to us in Christ than he hath to them He took no hold of Angels c. (o) Heb. 2.16 not any one of them receiv'd so much as the pardon of any one sin God would not bear with them in so much as the least tittle So soon as they ceased to love God with a perfect love God hated them with a perfect hatred And for the blessed Angels (p) Heb. 1.14 are they not all ministring spirits sent forth to minister for them who shall be heirs of salvation but none of the Saints are to minister to the Angels in any thing How should we love such a Master but I have a Pattern to commend to you above the Angels 3. Christ and oh that the mention of Christs Love to his Father might transport us though Christ did nothing but (q) Joh. 8.29 what pleased his Father Christ suffered every thing that might please him ( ) Phil. 2.8 Christ obeyed every Command endured every Threatning that it was possible to endure and that to the intensive extent of them yet God dealt more hardly with Christ than ever he doth with any of us (s) Isa 53.10 It pleased the Father to bruise him and to put him to grief whereas the Church in the midst of her Lamentations must acknowledge (t) Lam. 3.33 he doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the Children of men yet Christ pray'd (u) Joh 17.23 that the world may know that thou hast loved them as thou hast loved me Should not we then pray and strive to love God as near as it is possible as Christ loved him Christ had not one hard thought of Gods severe Justice no not when he endur'd what was equivalent to the eternal torments of the Damned and shall our love shrink at Gods fatherly Chastisements Christs love to God did not abate while God poured out his Wrath and shall ours abate under Medicinal Providences whatever our outward condition is in this World 't is better than Christ's Thus I have endeavoured to acquaint you what Abilities are requisite and how to attain them that you may love God c. How to improve and augment our love to God 4. How to improve and augment all our possible abilities to love God with all our Heart Soul Mind and Strength and for this I shall give you one general yet singular direction though I must inform direct and press several things under it and that is set your selves to love God Set upon it as you are able do for the engaging of your love to God as you would do for engaging your hearts in love to a person commended to you for marriage Here 's a person commended to you which you never saw nor before heard of All the report you can hear speaks a great suitableness in the person and consequently happiness in the match you thereupon entertain the motion and a treaty to see whether reports be true and affections feasible though at first you find no affection on either side yet if you meet with no discouragements you continue converse till by a more intimate acquaintance there ariseth a more endearedness of affection at length a non-such love becomes mutual Do something like this in spirituals I now solemnly bespeak your highest love for God Perhaps God and thy soul are yet strangers thou hast not yet met with him in his ordinances nor savingly heard of him by his spirit Don't slight the overture for from thy first entertainment of it thou wilt be infinitely happy Every thing of Religion is at first uncouth the work of mortification is harsh and the work of holâ—ness difficult but practice will facilitate them and make thee in love with them so the more thou acquaintest thy self with God the more thou canst not but love him especially considering that God is as importunate with thee for thy love as if his own happiness was concern'd whereas he is infinitely above receiving benefit
of the Church done they have been to them the very joy and life of their souls Psal 122.1 I was glad when they said unto me let us go into the house of the Lord our feet shall stand within thy gates O Jerusalem I never was â—â—re affected with joy and gladness in all my life then when I was wont to hear the people encouraging one another to assemble themselves to the publique worship of God in the house of God on Gods day O it did my heart good to hear with what alacrity and rejoycing they did provoke one another come let us go to the house of the Lord notably prophesied of in words at length Isa 2.2 3. verses many people shall go and say Come ye and let us go up to the Mountain of the Lord to the house of the God of Jacob and he will teach us of his ways and we will walk in his paths for out of Zion shall go forth the Law and the word of the Lord from Jerusalem In the loss of Ordinances and Sabbaths they have been dead in the nest like Rachel weeping for her children and would not be comforted because they were not And in the recovery and enjoyment of them they have rejoyced as men rejoyce that divide the spoil see Psal 3. Psal 42. 43. 84. per totum Christians we must write after this copy and count the Sabbath not our Duty only but our Delight and priviledge 2. Affirmative duty The Holy of the Lord. We must call it i. e. ut sup count it keep it as Lichdosh Jehovah sanctum Domini One of the titles of Jesus Christ The Holy one of God we must observe the Sabbath as Holy time Holy yet not by constitution not essentially holy as Christ is holy nor inherently as the Saints are holy but holy by institution by sanction relatively holy the Lord blessed the Sabbath-day and hallowed it i. e. he set it apart for holy uses Deut. 5.12 keep the Sabbath-day to sanctifie it Nothing but holy things must be done in this holy time praying reading hearing singing of Psalms c. as Psal 92. which is both a precept and plat-form for Sabbath-sanctification meditation rejoycing in God and Thanksgiving as you may read at large Thirdly We must call it i. e. count it honourable or the glorious day of God Glorious upon several accounts 1. For Gods glorious resting upon that day Gods rest that is a glorious rest rest of God As things of God in scripture are great and glorious things 2. Glorious or Honourable by a glorious sanction Coyn with the Kings stamp upon it is counted Royal not for the mettal so much though it be of Silver or Gold but for the Image superscription and impression it beareth Every day in the week is Honourable because it is Gods Creation but the Sabbath is glorious for the inscription Jehovah hath set his Image upon it He did sanctifie it It hath Gods sanction upon it and that is glorious 3. It is Honourable for those glorious ends for which it was set apart and they are three 1. That God might sanctifie his people Ezekiel 20.12 moreover I gave them my Sabbaths for a sign between me and them not a ceremonial sign as some would dwindle it that have no more Religion in them than an old rotten Ceremony cometh to but a moral sign i. e. a Testimony Pledge or Covenant whereby it might appear that they were Gods people sanctified to his service and honour So it follows that they might know that I am the Lord that sanctifieth them The Sabbath is Gods Medium to raise up to himself an holy people 2. That Gods people might sanctifie him so ver 41. I will be sanctified in you so Levit. 10.3 I will be sanctified in them that draw nigh me God sanctifieth us when he makes us holy we sanctifie God when we acknowledge him to be holy God sanctifieth us when he makes us what we are not we sanctifie him when we acknowledge him to be what he is These be glorious ends but 3. Another glorious end for which God made the Sabbath was that the Sabbath on Earth might be a type and figure of the Sabbath in Heaven That in this initial and imperfect Sabbath on earth we might see though in a glass darkly what the Saints and Angels are doing in Heaven without ceasing that we might peep into Heaven before we come thither and long and wait for that eternal Sabbath A day wherein God bows the Heaven and comes down and offers himself in ways of sweet and friendly Communion with his people Exod. 20. v. 23. Fourth Duty is As we must call and count it glorious so we must actually honour it or him it may be rendred both and indeed when we honour this day we glorifie God and we glorifie God when we make him our end in honouring his day Without both these we do take Gods Name in vain and do but mock God rather in pretending to keep a Sabbath than glorifie him We must set up God in his own day and in his own Institution And thus I have done with the opening of this blessed Model in the Duties of it I should come now to the Priviledges annexed but sufficient to the day is the travel thereof For the Improvement of this doctrinal Exposition I shall do these two Things 1. I shall endeavour the stating of some Cases of Conscience concerning the Sabbath 2. I shall raise some observations instead of more distinct Uses and application Case 1 If it be inquired what Sabbath it is that is here spoken of we shall not need to stick long upon the solution Some indeed of the Antisabbatical Doctors who love neither the Name nor Thing will needs expound it of the yearly Sabbath the day of the strictest rest among the Jews in their solemn convention for Humiliation and Atonement of which we read Levit. 16.31 and 23.27.31 But surely it is an unreasonable straitning of the text to confine it to this especially since the Prophet had sufficiently insisted upon that subject both by way of reproof and Exhortation in the former part of the chapter Here therefore I conceive we are to understand the Weekly Sabbath not only the seventh day Sabbath which was yet in being but the First day Sabbath also which was to succeed the Prophet being an Evangelical Prophet as one calls him the Evangelist Isaiah speaks of the Evangelical Sabbath which was to continue to the end of the world Rules drawn from the Negative part of this model Rules 1. Note in the first place that from the Creation of the world to this day God never suffer'd his Church to be without a Sabbath As soon as ever there was a Church though it was but in its infancy and confin'd within the narrow limits of a single-family and few souls therein God did immediately institute a Sabbath for it Gen. 2.3 And on the seventh day God ended all his works which
but the whole made up of these parts And the whole must needs be such as the parts are of which it consists Families are but like the Book in loose sheets and Kingdoms like the Book bound up The one but like letters that are single and apart the other like letters joined together Now if the sheets be not good or the letters not good the book or writing cannot possibly be good Give us the best Magistrates let them Enact the best Laws and back them with the strictest Exccution yet Societies will be naught whilest Governours of Families neglect their duty in Religious Education 3. With what a Cloud of Witnesses do the Holy Scriptures present us of Governours of Families that have been greatly conscientious in their faithful discharge of this duty Josh 24.15 We told you before of Abraham's Trained Instructed Catechized servants Gen. 18.19 After him Joshua who resolves that whatever others might do he and his houshold would serve the Lord though others should forsake the Lord yet he like Noah and Lot just in his Generation Joshua doth not only chuse to be saved by Jehovah but to serve Jehovah But more especially observe the latitude and circumference of his choice I and my House Not himself without his Family much less his Family without himself but himself and his Family and first himself and then his Family We vvill serve the Lord. Lo here the firmness and stability of Joshua's choice We will serve the Lord not only we desire to do it but we are fully resolv'd to do it Hear what David promises and pre-ingages when ever he came to sway the Royal Scepter viz. to be a singular example both as a Prince and as a Master of a Family Psal 101. In which respect this Psalm should be often read and ruminated on by such that their Houses may be as the House of David Zech. 12.8 And as Melancthon attests concerning the Palace of George Prince of Anhalt that it was at once Ecclesiastica Academica Curia a Royal Court a Learned Academy and an Holy Church Act and Mor. 1559. fol. Mr. Fox reports that Bishop Ridley often read and expounded this Psalm to his houshold hiring them with money to get it by heart Well what says David here v. 2. I will behave my self wisely in a perfect way I will begâ—n the intended Reformation at my self and then set things to rights in my Family I will walk within my house with a perfect heart and then see what work he makes how conscientiously he demeans himself towards those under his Family-charge from v. 3. to 8. Good Governours of Families are like that Noble-man who had for his impress two bundles of Millet bound together with this Motto Servare servari meum est for the Nature of Millet is to guard it self from all corruption and all those things that lye near it 'T is a rare Elogy that is given the late Reverend and Religious Dr. Chatterton that he was an House-keeper 53 years yet in all that time never kept any of his Servants from Church to dress his Meat saying Clark's lives that he desired as much to have his Servants know God as himself In short observe the strain and current of the whole Scriptures Dr. Jacom â— Dom. Deo Jun. â—07 and you shall find very few or none of those Family-Governours that were really converted themselves but they gave this excellent testimony of the Truth and soundness of the Grace of God in them viz. in being careful and sollicitous to beget and breed it in the hearts of those that were under their roof and charge If Esther fasts so shall her Maids too Esth 4.16 And in the New Testament we find the Masters interest and duty taken to be so great for the Conversion of the rest that as he was not to content himself with his own Conversion but to labour presently that his houshold should join with him that so the whole Family at once might be devoted to God So God did bless his own Order and Ordinance to that end And where he imposed duty on Masters he usually gave such success that commonly the whole Family was converted and baptized with the Ruler of the Family So we read Act. 10.2 Cornelius a Centurion a godly Captain a devout man and one that feared God with all his house to whom the Angel promised that Peter should tell him words whereby he and all his houshold should be saved Acts 11.14 Doth the Lord open Lydia's heart to attend to the things spoken by Paul It follows instantly she was baptized and her houshold Doth the Gaoler believe on the Lord Jesus Paul assuxes him that he shall be saved and his house and so it was for he and all his were baptized streightway for he believed in God with all his house Acts 16.32 33 34. Christ no sooner comes to Zacheus his Soul but Salvation comes to Zacheus house Luke 19.9 Crispus believes on the Lord with all his house Acts 18.8 The Noble man himself believed and his whole house John 4.53 These Family-Governours it seems took special care of the welfare of their Servants Souls did not act like Turks who mind nothing about their Slaves but their doing their own work These judg'd that if it were cruelty not to allow their servants bodily food much more savage and bloody to starve their Souls And therefore it might well be said of those happy Servants whom Providence fixt under their Conduct as the Queen of Sheba of Solomon's Servants 1 Kings 10.8 Happy are these thy servants which stand continually before thee and that hear thy wisdom Obj. But there are some Masters whose weakness and delusion I cannot but pity that are apt to object thus True 't is good to teach our ignorant Servants but we must question yea in our Consciences doubt whether we may require and command them to learn Will not this incroach on the Liberty of their Consciences which ought to be left free Sol. 1. I cannot but wonder at this depth of Satan who so strangely inveigles men to tolerate all things by meer scrupling of them and to let the Reins loose purely out of strictness To think it a sin in themselves to press a duty on others and no less than a breach of God's Holy Laws to injoin the keeping of them 2. Tell me how comes it to pass that Masters who can allow themselves to be severe enough to their Servants for loytering in their Shops cannot find in their hearts to rebuke them for neglect of their Souls that they who hold themselves bound in Conscience to inform their Servants in all the secrets of their Trade should think themselves as much tied up from pressing them to learn the Mysteries of Religion 3. There is but too much cause of fear lest they who use not all the means they can to bring their own Servants to the Faith be themselves brought at last to an unprofitable Repentance
temptations to secure and advance his evidences and therefore is so much conversant in secret prayer The glory of the King's daughter shines within Psal 45.13 arrayed with clothes of gold but they are the spangled and glittering hangings of the closet of her heart when she entertains communion with her Lord. The more a Saint converses with his own heart the more he searches his spiritual wants and feels his spiritual joys 2. Because a sincere heart aims at the eye of God he knows that God being a spirit loves to converse with our spirits and to speak to the heart more than the outward ear Hos 2.14 He labours to walk before God as being always in his sight but especially when he presents himself at the footstool of mercy Because God is invisible 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 An invisible God is delighted with invisible prayers Chrysost when no eye sees but his he takes most pleasure in the secret glances of a holy heart Therefore a gracious soul prays in secret with the same diligence and care nay sometimes more when in a holy frame that he may reap the comfort of his sincerity before the eyes of God Job 31.33 But no more of this let 's descend to the question deducible from the words a question of no less importance than daily use and of peculiar concernment to the growth of every Christian Quest Quest How to manage secret prayer that it may be prevalent with God to the comfort and satisfaction of the soul For methods sake I shall divide it into two branches 1. How to manage secret prayer that it may prevail with God 2. How to discern and discover answers to secret prayer that the soul may acquiesce and be satisfied that it hath prevailed with God Before I handle these I would briefly prove the duty and its usefulness leaving some cases about its attendants and circumstances towards the close As to the duty it self the text is plain and distinct in the point yet further observe in Solomon's prayer that if any man besides the community of the people of Israel shall present his supplication to God 1 Kings 8 38 v. 39. 2 Chron. 6.29 30. 2 Chron. 7.1 he there prays for a gracious and particular answer and we know Solomon's prayer was answered by fire and therefore hence we may learn a promise given forth to personal prayer Besides the many special and particular injunctions unto individual persons in the case as Job 22.27 and 33.26 Psal 32.6 and 50.15 c. wives as well as husbands are to pray apart Zech. 12.14 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 solitary alone by themselves and Jam. 5.13 We may argue this point from the constant practice of the holy Saints of God in all ages but especially of our blessed Lord and 't is our wisdom to walk in the way of good men and keep the paths of the righteous Prov. 2.20 what should I speak of Abraham Eliezar Isaac Jacob Moses Hannah Hezekiah David and Daniel The time would fail me to bring in the cloud of Witnesses our Lord we find sometimes in a Desert in a Mountain in a Garden at prayer Cornelius in his house and Peter upon the house top in secret supplications to God The experience of God's gracious presence and answers sent in upon secret prayer as in the stories of Eliezer Jabez Nehemiah Zechariah 2 Chron. 4.10 Nehem. 2.4 Psal 32.6 Cornelius and Paul c. For this cause because David was heard shall every one that is godly pray unto him I might urge the usefulness nay in some cases the necessities of secret applications to God 1. Are we not guilty of secret sins in the light of God's countenance that cannot ought not to be confessed with or before others insomuch that near relations are exhorted to secret and solitary duties Zechariah 12.12 1 Cor. 7.4 2. Are there not personal wants that we would prefer to God alone 3. Are there not some special mercies and deliverances that concern our own persons more peculiarly which should engage to commune with our own hearts and offer the sacrifices of righteousness to God Psal 4.45 4. May there not be found some requests to be poured out more particularly in secret as to other persons and as to affairs of the Church of God which may not commodiously be insisted upon in common 5. Do not sometimes emergent and urgent passions spring out of the soul in secret that are not comely in society 6. To argue from the text may not the souls secret addresses about inward sorrows and joys Prov. 14.10 2 Sam. 18 3◠be a sweet testimony of the sincerity and integrity of the heart when the heart knoweth its own bitterness and a stranger intermeddles not with his joy perhaps a man has an Ishmael an Absalom a Rehoboam to weep for Job 16.19 20. and therefore gets into an inward chamber where behold his witness is in heaven and his record on high and when others may scorn or pity his eye poureth out tears unto God To end this when a holy soul is close in secret what complacency does it take when it has bolted out the world and retired to a place that none knows of to be free from the disturbances and distractions that often violate family communion when 't is in the secret of the face of God in the hidden place of the most high Psal 31.20.91.1 Job 29.4 and in the shadow of the Almighty oh how safe how comfortable These and the like I pass by neither can I insist upon secret prayer under the variety of mental and vocal nor enlarge upon it as sudden occasional or ejaculatory referring somewhat of this toward the end Let 's address then to the first question in answer whereto I must preface that some things which aptly belong to secret prayer yet being in some measure coincident with all prayer publick private and secret it 's congruous to treat of such as are of great use as to the management of our present duty and therefore must refer to a double head 1. Quest How to manage secret prayer as 't is coincident with prayer in general so that it may prevail 1. Use some preparation before it rush not suddenly into the awful presence of God Sanctuary preparation is necessary to sanctuary communion Such suitable preparatory frames of the heart come down from God Thou wilt prepare the heart and cause thine ear to hear 'T was a good saying of one intime devotè nunquam mens orat quae se c. praemeditationibus priùs non excitat He never prays ardently Psal 10.17 Richard de S. Vict. de erud hom in t l. 1. c. 7. Dan. 9.3 2 Chron. 20.3 Isa 26.9 that does not premeditate savourly Daniel when he made that famous prayer it 's said he set his face to seek the Lord. Jehoshaphat also set himself to seek the Lord. The Church in her soul desires the Lord in the
then follows song and praise This streams from the sense of divine love and love is the fountain of thankfulness and of all spritely and vigorous services that prayer that does not end in chearful obedience is called by Cyprian â—e Orat. p. â—7 oratio sterilis and preces nudae barren and unfruitful naked and without ornament and so we may glance upon the expression of holy James the 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Jam. 5.16 a working prayer within will be working without and demonstrate the labour of love 2. Obs The principal subject-matter of prayer the mark the white that the arrow of prayer is shot at the scope it aims at there 's usually some special sin unconquer'd some untamed corruption some defect some pressing strait that drives the soul to prayer and is the main burden of the spirit take notice how such a sin withers or such a grace flourishes or such a need supplied upon the opening our hearts in prayer Watch unto prayer Eph. 6.18 watch to perform it and then to expound the voice of the divine oracle and to know that ye are successful Cry to thy soul by vvay of holy soliloquy Watchman Isa 21.11 what of the night 3. Obs Ensuing providences Set a vigilant eye upon succeeding passages examine them as they pass before thee set a wakeful centinel at the posts of vvisdom His name is near his wondrous works declare His name of truth Psal 75 1. his glorious title of hearing prayers When prayer is gone up by the help of the spirit mark hovv all things work together for good Rom. 8.28 v. 27. Isa 58.9 11. and note the connexion there the working of things together follows the intercession of the Spirit for all Saints God is pleased often to speak so clearly by his vvorks as if he said here I am I will guide thee continually and thou shalt be like a watered garden whose waters fail not Secret promises animate prayer and open providences expound it Isa 45 4 11 19. Cyrus was promised to come against Babylon for the Churches sake But Israel must ask it of God and they had a vvord for it that they should not seek his face in vain Psal 107.19 20. and then follows Babylon's fall in the succeeding chapters When we cry unto the Lord in trouble he sends his vvord of command and heals us There 's a set time of mercy a time of life when Abraham had prayed for a son the Lord told him Gen. 15.2 18.10.14 Esth 4.16 6.1 Psal 3.4.5 Eliezer Gen. 24.15 at the time appointed I 'le return In a great extremity after the solemn fast of three days by the Jews in Shushan and the Queen in her Palace on the fourth day at night the King could not sleep and must hear the Chronicles of Persia read and then follows Haman's ruine Prayer has a strange vertue to give quiet sleep sometimes to a David and sometimes a waking pillow for the good of the Church When Jacob had done wrestling and the Angel gone at the springing of the morning then the good man saw the Angel of God's presence in the face of Esau Sometimes providence is not so quick Rev 6.11 the Martyr's prayer as to compleat answer is deferred for a season but long white robes are given to every one a triumphant frame of spirit and told they should wait but a little season till divine justice should work out the issue of prayer the thunder upon God's enemies comes out of the temple the judgments roar out of Zion Rev. 11.19 Joel 3.16 the place of divine audience but the means and methods and times of God's working are various such as we little forethink Submit all to his infinite wisdom prescribe not but observe the Embroidery of Providence its difficult to spell its characters sometimes but 't is rare employment (d) Isa 64.5 Psal 111 2â— Eccl. 3.11 2 Sam. 23.4 His vvorks are searcht into by such as delight in his providences for all things are beautiful in his season 4. Mark thy following communion vvith God Inward answers make the soul veget and lively like plants after the shining of the Sun upon rain lift up their heads and shoot forth their flowers A Saint in favour does all with delight Isa 61.3 Answer of prayer is like oil to the spirits and beauty for ashes The sackcloth of mournful fasting is turned to a wedding garment He grows more free and yet humbly familiar vvith heaven This is one I vvould wish you to pick acquaintance vvith that can come and have what (h) Joh. 16 23. Gen. 20.7 he vvill at Court. As the Lord once told a King by night that Abraham was a Prophet and vvould pray for him he vvas acquainted vvith the King of heaven O blessed person I hope there 's many such among you vvhose life is a continued prayer Psal 109.4 As David that gave himself to prayer Heb. But I prayer he 's all over prayer prays at rising prays at lying down prays as he walks he 's always ready for prayer like a prime favourit at Court that has the golden key to the privy stairs and can vvake his Prince by night Christians there are such whatever the besotted profane world dreams vvho are ready for spiritual ascents at all seasons besides the frequency of set communions His wings never vveary his willing spirit is flying continually and makes God the rock of his dwelling 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 into which he may upon all assaults have holy retirements Psal 71.3 But so much for the main Question with its branches There be many particular queries of some weight that may attend the princ pal subject and such I shall briefly reply to as Qu 1. What 's the proper time for secret prayer Ans Various providences different temperaments and frames of spirit motions from heaven opportunities dictate variously Some find it best at even others in the night when all is silent others at morning when the spirits are freshest I think with respect to others that conscientious prudence must guide in such cases when others are retired and the spirit in the best frame for communion Qu. 2. How often should we pray in secret Ans If we consult Scripture-president we find David at prayer in the morning our blessed Lord early before day in the morning Psal 5.3 Mark 1.35 Chrys in Psal 5. p. 542 Etim Mat. 14 23. Gen. 24.63 Psal 55.17 Dâ—n 6 10. Psal 119.164 Chrysostom advises 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 c. wash thy soul before thy body for as the face and hands are cleansed by water so is the soul by prayer At another time our Lord went to secret prayer in the even and Isaac went to prayer in the eventide David and Daniel pray'd three times a day and once 't is mentioned that David said seven times a day will I praise thee that is very often Such cases may happen that
say I would my poor hungry child I would but I have it not Why then will you not come at me live together and eat together at my cost and care and charge and yet be whole months and never come at Me and that your children have reason raiment limbs not born blind nor of a monstrous birth which things Heathens have been affected with and a thousand ways besides have I done you good may God say Why then will you live whole years together and never together come at me Have you found one more able or more willing to do you good that you never can Why then are you so unthankful as not to come at me After the like manner the Lord expostulates with his People to whom he had been a bountiful Benefactor and yet they answered not his bounty nor served him their Benefactor for which he calls to the Heavens to be astonished and the Earth to be horribly afraid Jer. 2.5 Thus saith the Lord Mercies do engage to duties We should have him for our God for ever and serve him that always doth us good So the Poet. O Melibaec Deuo. nobis haec otia fecit Namque erit ille mihi semper Deus illius aram Saepe tener nostris ab ovilibus imbuet agnus Virg. Eclog. 1. Officia etiam saerae sentiunt nec ullum tam immansuetum animal est quod non cura mitiget in amorem sui vertat Leonum ora à magistris impunè tractantur Eliphantorum feritatem usque in servile obsequium demeretur cibus adeo etiam quae extra intellectum atque aestimationem bemeficii sunt posita assiduitas tamen meriti pertinacis evincit Ingratus est adversus unum beneficium adversus alterum non erit Duorum obliru est tertium etiam corum quae excideruâ—t memoriam reducet Qui instat onerat priora sequentibus etiam ex duto Immemori pectore gratiam extundat Nâ—o audebit adversus multa ocuâ—câ— allollere Senec. de benef c. 3. what iniquity have your Fathers found in me that they are gone far from me 6. Neither said they where is the Lord that brought us up out of the land of Egypt Should such a people forsake such a God and go far from him that did them so much good yet they did ver 13. Be astonished at this oh ye heavens You see when God is a Benefactor to a People and there is the same reason for Families and they do not serve him what monstrous wickedness it is God hath kept you all safe in the night and yet in the morning you do not say Where is the Lord that did preserve us come ô come Let us give joint praises to him God hath done you and your Families good so many years and yet you do not say where is the Lord that hath done such great things for us come let us acknowledg his mercy together God hath carried you through affliction and sickness in the Family the Plague hath been in the house and yet you live the Small pox and burning Feavors have been in your houses and yet you are alive your conjugal companion hath been sick and recovered children nigh to death and yet restored and for all this you do not say Where is the Lord that kept us from the Grave and saved us from the Pit that we are not rotten among the dead and yet you do not pray to nor pra se this your wonderful Benefactor together Let the very walls within which these ungrateful wretches live be astonished at this Let the very beams and pillars of their houses tremble and let the very girders of the floors on which they tread and walk be horribly afraid that such as dwell in such an House together go to bed before they go to Prayer together Let the earth be amazed that the Families which the Lord doth nourish and maintain are rebellious and unthankful Being worse than the very Ox that knoweth his Owner and of less understanding than the very Ass Isa 1.2 3. There is such validity in the consequence from God's being our Benefactor to our duty to him in serving of him that Joshua builds his exhortation to the Heads and People of Israel to fear and worship God upon this very foundation as appeareth plainly to any that read the Chapter where the Text lieth From what hath been said I reason in this manner 3. Arg. If God be the Founder Owner Governour and Benefactor of Families as such then Families as such are jointly to worship God and pray unto him This cannot be denied But God is the Founder Owner Governour and Benefactor of Families as such Neither can this be denied 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Aristot Moral Nunc adhibe puro Pectore verba puer nunc te melioribus affer Quo semel est imbuta recensâ— servabit odorem Testa diu Horat. Ep. l. 12. adeo in teneris consuescere mulâ—um est Virg Geor. l. 2. Therefore Families as such are jointly to worship God and pray unto him Argument 4. Masters of Families ought to read the Scripture to their Families teach and instruct their Children and Servants in the matters and doctrines of Salvation therefore they are to pray in and with their Families No man that will not deny the Scripture can deny the unquestionable duty of reading the Scripture in our houses Governours of Families teaching and instructing them out of the Word of God Amongst a multitude of express Scriptures look into these Exod. 12.26 And it shall come to pass when your Children shall say unto you what mean you by this service 27. Ye shall say it is the Sacrifice of the Lord 's Passeover who passed over the houses of the Children of Israel in Egypt when he smote the Egyptians and delivered our houses And there is as much reason that Christian Parents should explain to their Children the Sacraments of the New Testament to instruct them in the nature use and ends of Baptism and the Lord's Supper Deut. 6.6 And these words which I command thee this day shall be in thine heart 7. v. And thou shalt teach * Crebris admonitionum quasi ictibus haec mea praecepta infiges optabis sicut repetitis mallei ictibus fâ—rram aptatur Lud. de Dieu Et dentabis ea i. e. inter dentes versabis assidue lo queris vel dentibus mandes praemansa in os ingeres filiis tuis Malvend 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 whet or sharpen them diligently to thy children and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thy house and when thou walkest in the way and when thou liest down and when thou risest up i. e. morning and evening Deut. 11.18 19. Ephes 6.4 And ye Fathers provoke not your Children to wrath but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. And God was pleased with this in Abraham Gen. 18.19 For I know him that he will command his children and his houshold after him and they
vvill have mercy on you Do you not think that these glad tidings did wonderfully affect their hearts Do you not think that this grace and kindness in their sad condition at the first manifesting of it did strongly oblige them to yield obedience to what God should reveal to them to be his Will Or do you think that neither the sense of their before desperate condition when they saw no way of help or hope nor the sense of this grace and mercy did stir them up to hearken to the commands that God would give them Is it likely that they did not go together and praise God for such love as this Do but consider what they did enjoy before they fell and what their fears were after and then how much must this first tidings of mercy needs affect their hearts and engage them to obedience 3. That our first Parents had religious Worship in their Family appears by the religious education of their Children Do you think that when they had undone their children and yet God had discovered a way of salvation to them that they did not timely tell their children of this Had they exposed their childrens souls to Hell and to damnation and yet not tell them and teach them God's gracious dealings with them by which it might be prevented Do you think that they did not pray with them that themselves and theirs might be indeed partakers of this mercy Is it likely that Adam and Eve did not acquaint their children how God did make them in a blessed condition and how they lost it and how God himself had been with them after they had so offended and made known a way of salvation to them Would not their natural affection to their children and the sense of God's mercy put them on to instruct them in these things and praise God with them for his love and pray for the certain fruits and benefits of it Obj. This might make it probable Vnde haâ—uerunt Cain Abel quod sacrificiis Deum honorarent à patre suo qui eos instituit Fag Lyra. Ex Dei instinctu aut verbo primi parentes obtulerunt Oleast Constat cultum aliquem externum Majestati divinae fuisse institutum à patre Adamo de eo fuisse instructos Cainem Abâ—lem Rivet Cain obtulit non fide sed pro consuetudine paternae institutionis Musculus Deus d cuit Adam cultum divinum quo ejus benevolentiam recuperaret quam per peccatum amiserat ipsumque docuisse filios suos dare Deo decimas primitias but there is nothing in Scripture from whence you can conclude it Ans But there is The express mention of Cain's and Abel's offering doth plainly prove that they were thus brought up in the worship of God Cain though he had no grace yet did make a profâ—ssion of Religion And that they were instructed in the things before expressed is the Judgment of learned men who conclude that Adam receiv'd instructions from God and Cain and Abel from their Father Adam And Abel's Sacrifice being accepted doth fully prove that he did understand the fall and recovering grace by Messias then to come for was God pleased with the Sacrifice it self and for it self that Abel did bring There never was any thing in them to reconcile God to Sinners but they were types and shadows of good things to come and they pointed unto Christ Abel then must understand this Besides Abel did offer by faith in whom in Christ to come then he was instructed in the Doctrine of Redemption by Christ and this doth suppose a lost estate Moreover it is said Heb. 11.4 That by this faith Abel obtained a testimony that he was righteous What By the Works he did By the Sacrifice it self that he offâ—red Is any Sinner justified from the condemning sentence of the Law by Works of his own No but Abel vvas justified by faith in Christ signified by the Sacrifice which he did offer for vvithout a Mediator there is no peace vvith God no pardon from God no justification before God no acceptance vvith him for any sinful man There were then religious duties in Adam's Family and that by God's command and appointment Obj. But this was offering of Sacrifice what is this to Prayer or to us when the way of Sacrificing is abolished Ans 1. Do you think they did Sacrifice and not pray when they did so Ponéâ—que manum c. quo protestebatur se dignum qui pro peccato jugularetur Oleast in loc Quae lex instituit oblationem sacrificiorum eadem praecipit quoque orationes Deo fieri quia absque orationibus illa peragi nequeunt Hoornbeck Socin confu tom 2. p 431. The offerer laid his two hands between the horns of the Sacrifice and confessed his sin over a sin-Offering in this wise I have sinned I have done Perversly I have rebelled and done thus and thus but I return by repentance before thee and let this be my expiation Lightfoot Temp. Service c. 8. Did they not confess their sin when Sacrifice was offâ—red and acknowledg that they deserved to dye for their sins and this was signified by a man's laying his hand upon the head of the burnt-Offering Lev. 1.4 Prayer then usually accompanying Sacrificing Heb. 10.3 the one doth infer the other Luke 1.10 And the whole multitude of the people were praying without at the time of incense If such Sacrifices are ended yet there are Sacrifices for Christians to offer up to God your selves your hearts your prayers and praises Rom. 12.1 Heb. 13.15 And there are the same moral grounds and reasons why you should serve God in your Families in the way prescribed by God since the coming of Christ as there was why they should serve God in their Families in the way of Worship appointed by God before the coming of Christ Ans 2. And this was not practised only in Adam's Family but by godly Families after too So Enoch walked with God Gen. 5.24 and Noah Gen. 6.9 vvhich implies their universal sincere obedience at home as well as abroad and that this implies their worshipping God in their Families I think for this reason because if a man be never so great a Professor abroad if he totally and constantly neglect God's worship at home nay if it be not constantly done except in some cases that might fall out he shall not be accounted to be one that walketh with God I judg that man cannot be said to walk with God that in his house with his Family doth not Kneel before him Besides Abraham's duty was comprehended in this phrase Walk before me Gen. 15.1 but Abraham in his walk took his Houshold along with him Gen. 18.19 He will command his children and his houshold after him and they shall keep the way of the Lord the vvay in vvhich his houshold should walk and by the way of the Lord is often understood the worship of God One place more I would have considered for
and therefore though her Beauty be decayed her Portion spent her Weaknesses great and her Vsefulness small yet she is a piece of my Self and here the wise God hath determined my affection And when all is said This is the only Sure Foundation and holds perpetually 2. This Love must be right for the Extent of it I mean it reaches the whole Person both Soul and Body Every man should choose such an one whose outward features and proportion he can highly esteem and affect and it speaks the admirable Wisdom of God to frame such variety of fancies to answer the variety of persons and there being such choice it is sottish folly to choose where a man cannot love and the greatest Injury possible to the wife to insnare her heart and bind her to one that shall afterwards say he cannot love her But besides this true Conjugal Love to a Wife reaches her Soul So as to see an amiableness in her mind and disposition so as to study how to polish her Soul more and more with wisdom and piety and to indeavour that her Soul may prosper as her body prospers 3. Right for the Degree of it It must be transcendent above your Love to Parents For this cause shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave to his Wife Gen. 2.24 The Husband must honour his Parents but he must love his Wife as himself and must yet with all prudence prefer her in his respects when ever they come in Competition and those Parents have forgotten the Relation and Duty of an husband that expect other from their Children when they are married And so he must prefer her in his affection before his Children and (l) 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Chrysost in Eph. 5. rather love them for her sake than her for theirs and before all others in the World In short he must so love her as to delight in her company above all others Let her be as the loving hinde and pleasant roe let her breasts satisfie thee at all times and be thou ravisht always with her love Prov. 5.19 20. 4. The Husbands love must be right for the Duration of it And the last named Scripture clears that be thou always ravisht with her love Not only kind before other folk and then cold in private but always not for a week or moneth or the first year but while life lasts Yea as he hath experience of her vertue and sweetness his love should daily (m) Vbi uxo â—m magis fueris expertus teneriùs est amauda Illud verò ubi uxore ad satietatem fueris potitu refrigescere amorem quem arder ut videtur libidiuis accenderat hominum est spurcorum abjâ—ctissimorum imò verò non hominum sed belluarum Lud. Vives de off mar increase as you know we love any creature the more by how much the longer we have had them and nothing more betrays the baseness of a mans spirit then to neglect his Wife when his sensual appetite is once cloyed For you have had her beauty and strength why should you not also have her wrinkles and infirmities yea and give the more respect to her tryed fidelity However this is certain still you are one Flesh and every man continues kind to his own flesh how infirm and noysom soever it be And if there be less comliness in the body yet usually there is more beauty in the mind more wisdom humility and fear of the Lord so that still there are sufficient Arguments in her or Arguments in the Bible to perpetuate your conjugal Affection 2. Let us trace the Husbands Love to his Wife in its Pattern laid down in the Scripture and particularly in the Context and Words which I am handling And 1. The Husband ought to love his Wife as our Saviour Christ loveth his Church Ver. 25. Husbands love your Wives even as Christ also loved his Church He must nourish and cherish her even as the Lord the Church ver 29. Now these Texts direct us to the quality of our Love though we cannot reach to an equality with Christ herein How then doth Jesus Christ love his Church I shall search no farther into this Depth than so far as it is proposed in this Context for a Pattern surely to all Husbands in their love And this his Love is represented here to be 1. Hearty without dissimulation Ver. 25. He loved the Church and gave himself for it His Love was Real for he Dyed of it The Husband must write after this Copy Not to love his wife in word and tongue only but in deed and in truth that if his heart were opened her Name might be found written there Some vain complemental persons there are that do outstrip in their overt addresses many sincere and true-hearted husbands but neither doth God nor should a discreet wife look only at the appearance but at the heart 2. Free without being prevented before or likely to be rewarded after For ver 26. he gave himself that he might cleanse his Church which implies that she was in ill plight when he began his motions She was no beauty no we loved him because he loved us first The Husband must precede and by his love draw out the love of his wife for (n) Ego tibi monstrabo amatorium sine medicamento sine herba Si vis amari ama Hec in Sen. Ep. 9. Love is the whetstone of Love And if she appear weak as their sex by constitution is both in wisdom strength and courage or prove unlovely and (o) 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Chrysost in Eph. 5. hom 20. negligent of her duty yet he must love her For love seeketh not her own True love doth more study to better the object beloved than to advantage the subject that loveth And to love a Wife only in hopes of some Advantages by her is unworthy the heart of an Husband and no way like the example of Christ 3. Holy without impurity For ver 26. He loved his Church that he might sanctifie and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word that is by the use of the Word and Sacraments The Husband cannot have a better Copy and is taught hereby to indeavour at any cost and pains whatsoever to further the sanctification and salvation of his wife Of which before 4. Great without comparison For greater love hath no man than this to lay down his life for his friend and so did our Saviour ver 25. he (p 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Affectum indicat 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Effectum amoris demonstrat Daven in Col. p. 340. gave himself for his Church He took not on him the Nature of Angels but preferr'd the seed of Abraham The Husband must herein imitate his Lord and Master by preserving a singular and superlative respect for his wife because she is a member of his body of his flesh and of his bones But of this also before 5. Constant without alteration
Manner of her subjection speaks her Reverence and that is free willing chearful Thus the Church yields up her self to the will of her husband insomuch as it is made a kind of proverbial pattern Eph. 6.7 with good will doing service as to the Lord implying that the subjection and service that we perform to the Lord is with a good will And such ought to be the subjection of the wife most free and willing so as if there were but (a) Nam quae ita vivit ut se ac maritum rem prorsus unam esse arbitretur haec absolvit numeros omnes sanctae uxoris Lu. Vives de Chr. foem pag. 678. one will in two breasts Thus Leah and Rachel Gen. 31.16 followed Jacob like his shadow when he makes a motion they consent if he 'l go they will follow him And was not Sarah's Reverence (b) This submission must not be for worldly respects or for fear of wrath but religious and for conscience sake Gatak Serm. p. 198. cordial when within her self in her heart she called her husband Lord Gen. 18.12 And therefore a contradicting or grudging spirit is very unsuitable to the religious wife and ever leaves a sting in his heart and guilt in hers For usually it is a sign of unmortified pride and self-conceit and entails the curse of unquietness upon the Family and writes a dangerous example to inferiors If the husband's government be too heavy yet it is better for you to leave him to answer for his severity than for you to answer for your (c) She ows her Duty not only or principally to her husband but to the Lord so that his neglect will not excuse hers Id. p. 199. contempt 2. The wife ought to Reverence her husband as the Members do the Head So vers 23. For the husband is the head of the wife He is an Head for influence and sympathy that 's her priviledg he is an Head for eminence and rule that is his And how should she expect benefit from her head if she do not honour her head To (d) 1 Cor. 11.4 dishonour a man's head is always rank'd among unnatural sins All the members are sensible of what use the Head is for their good There are continual cares and projects for the sustenance and comfort of the body and therefore they are willing to give the head its due honour The hand will submit to a wound to save the head If the head resolve to rise up to work or pray the whole body is up presently if the head design a journey never so long never so dangerous the body says not nay but obeys as long as possibly it can Why so should the wife shew honour to her head she ought to honour him next unto her Maker she must be afraid by her frowardness or sullenness to break her own head she must not cross the purposes of her head it is preposterous for the (e) Non secus ac miles suo imperato ri imperare si postulet aut luna soli praeesse aut brachium capiti L. Vives ubi supra head to go one way and the rib another She must readily follow the directions and counsels of her head for the members must not teach the head which way to go they support it but they do not direct it Indeed it is said that the vertuous woman is the crown of her husband but yet there is more (f) Vxor coruscat radiis mariti Justinian worth in the head than in the crown So that still except always cases wherein the head is (g) The man hath government in the house except he be verbum anomalum i. e. a fool Luther craz d or notoriously distempered it will be the wisdom and duty of the wife to be subject to the husband as unto her Head And this hath brought us to the Third thing by which the Reverence of the Wife is described and that is by the Effects thereof And they also are either 1. In word or 2. In deed 1. In word For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh And if there be that inward fear and respect in the heart which God requires it will be legible in the words of their mouths The same Law that binds the heart in this case doth also govern the tongue In her tongue is the law of kindness Prov. 31.26 And here certainly a wholsom tongue is a tree of life whereas perversness therein is a breach in the spirit Prov. 15.4 Now this Reverence in the Wife is shewed 1. In her words of her husband Which should always be compos'd of respect and honour Thus Sarah is brought in by the Apostle 1 Pet. 3.6 Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham calling him Lord whose daughters ye are as long as ye do well And this was the language of her heart as you heard before out of Gen. 18.12 And no wife is too great or good to imitate her example in the main by giving respectful titles and expressions of her husband whereas on the contrary it is observed of the naughty woman Prov. 7.19 she only affords her husband in his absence the man for so it is in the Hebrew is not at home And it were well if this were the worst title and character which many wives do give their husbands behind their backs Whereas all the reproach and ignominy that they pour out on their husband doth infallibly redound to their own shame their (h) Nam vir uxoris majestatem amere benevolentia tuetur wulier viri cultu obedientia Nihil genus nihil opes nihil fortuna proderunt honore carebis si caruerit vir Lu. Vives ubi supâ—a honour and respect standing and falling together 2. The words of the wife to her husband ought to be full of Reverence And therefore she should beware 1. Of an Excess in the quantity not preposterously interrupting her husband while he is speaking nor answering ten words for one For (i) Vxorium est ornamâ—ntum aut cum mari o aut per maritum loqui Id. ibid. silence doth more commend the wisdom of a woman than speech and she that is wise spareth her words and though she seem to be religious yet if she do not bridle her tongue her religion is vain And 2. She must beware of a Defect in the quality of them viz. of meekness and respect For the great study of the wife should be to get a meek and quiet spirit which in the sight of God yea and of man too is of great price 1 Pet. 3.4 When the heart is once meekened by the grace of God then her words will savour of it and not till then And though they may think that this will invite and further the insolency of an unkind husband yet they may rest assured that that which is most pleasing to God shall not tend to their prejudice any way For hath not God said that a soft tongue breaketh the
years are apt many times to despise them as more subject to infirmities and as looking for less of respect from their hands So that really to give them honour is a fuller evidence of cordial performance The Lord is pleas'd to begin there where the duty is most tried Reverence thy Mother and thy Father de leg l. 4. Ethic. l. 9. l. 2. Spizel de re literar Sineas p. 243. Both are to be had in a just veneration Plato and Aristotle could by Nature's light teach thus 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 This as the prime law of Nature the Spartans and generally all Nations of old did and Chinoises at this day do maintain with admirable care Now doing reverence to the Fathers of our flesh (h) Heb. 9.12 in Scripture may comprehend what Children owe to their Parents both with reference to their speech and behaviour 1 With respect to their speech that it be seasonable and agreeable to the relation grac'd with humility (i) 1 Pet. 5.5 and modesty in all converse with them in presence and discourse of them in absence They should give them honourable titles as that of Father and Mother do connote dignity (k) Jer. 31.9 Gal. 4.6 and so Sir or Lord (l) Mat. 21.30 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 thus we have good Children in the Book of God saluting their Parents as Isaac his Father Abraham (m) Gen. 22.11 Jacob Isaac (n) 17.18 David Saul his Father in law (o) 1 Sam. 24.28 Solomon Bathsheba my Mother (p) 1 King 2.20 21. Rachel Laban making her Apology My Lord (q) Gen. 31.35 David again Saul (r) 1 Sam. 26.18 and that with all meekness at a sit season in a few words with freedom and readiness (s) Gen. 22 7. 27.12 giving pleasing answers when spoken to in a becoming civility (t) 1 Sam. 12.4 6.18 waiting with contentment to hear them speak first (u) Prov 4.1 laying their hands on their mouths and refraining to talk in their presence without just occasion (w) Job 29.9 10 21. 32.5 6. And in their absence by speaking so of them amongst those they do converse that by the commendable reports they make of them or prudent apologies for them it may be understood what venerable respects they have for their Parents Thus 't is said of the Children of the prudent Mother they rise up as those who speak pathetically and call her blessed (x) Prov. 31.28 in that laudable discourse they have of her Hereby Children will prove themselves to be of a vertuous temper and not like that elder brother of the penitent Prodigal who spake undecently in a surly manner to his Father (y) Luk. 15 29 30. and sometime some of Jacob's sons to theirs (z) Gen. 34.31 and such like who by their rude and malapert prating disparage and aggrieve their parents (a) 26.35 27.46 Yet of a more untoward generation are they whom the Wiseman took notice of that curse their Father and do not bless their Mother but saith he their lamp shall go out in obscurity (b) Prov. 20.20 Neither can there be a better end of those who are under the Almighty's curse devoted to death (c) Lev. 20.9 Exod. 21.17 neither can they who do any way set light by their Father or Mother avoid a much easier censure (d) Deut. 27 16 Lib. 44. de Rep. sith by interpretation it is a dishonour to God himself Plato in his Commonwealth orders that Children should in their words through their whole life revere their Parents there being a great punishment imminent for light and idle discourse Further 2 The hehaviour and carriage of Children should ever be significative and expressive of reverence to their Parents in all their addresses the countenance so composed in their presence as may argue awfulness and respect the deportment lowly rising up before those they honour for relation as well as those venerable for age (e) Lev. 19.32 and at meeting thus Solomon though a King did to his Mother Bathsheba (f) 1 Kings 2.19 hasting to attend them in a lowly posture thus Joseph who liv'd as a Prince made ready to meet and presented himself to his Father whom he had maintained (g) Gen. 46.29 so Achsah Caleb's daughter who was married to her Cousin German when she addressed her self to her Father she alighted from her beast before she spoke to him (h) Judg. 1 14.5◠and again Joseph thought it no disparagement to prostrate himself to his aged father Jacob whose eyes were then dim that he could not see his behaviour when he also gave his own Children an example in praying for his Father's blessing (i) Gen. 43.12 which Esau though he came tardè did passionately beg for (k) 27.19 34. And though Parents now have not a Prophetick spirit as the Patriarch's had yet it seems still very equitable that Christian Children considering their Parents Superiority in the Lord should frequently upon occasion in an (l) Heb. 7 7. Mar. 10.17 humble manner crave their Parents prayers for God's blessing The rude and haughty looks which are in many Children before their Parents cannot comport with this duty which discards a dogged and supercilious countenance that betokens scorn and derision opposite to this filial reverence The Wise man makes a smart remark upon such odious insolent behaviour which might deter any of understanding from it when he saith (m) Prov. 30.17 The eye that mocketh his Father and despiseth to obey his Mother the Ravens of the Valley shall pick it out and the young Eagles shall eat it Here is a signal retaliation to those who in speech or behaviour deride the persons or despise the counsels of their Parents whether yet alive or deceased 'T were to be wish'd it had been better studied by some Children in this Generation I mean some late and present Preachers of our Age who do not parentare manibus but indeed upbraid the Ghosts of their reverend and pious Parents who warmly argued the necessity of regeneration either by reckoning them amongst the herd of Divines or with an harangue of lame sequels perch up to vent their callow notions and bespatter their own nest in complacence with the lax humour of the times when many for the bags cry Hail Master but betray the Son of Man with a kiss (n) Mat. 26.49 wic Luk. 22.48 yet I would hope there are but a few of this feather I proceed to mind Children of another duty and that is 2. Observance whereby their Parents pleasure with fit subjection is perform'd out of a real desire to promote their honour vvhich is more than in countenance and ceremonies to express obedience (o) Mat. 21.30 It is very requisite Christian Children should with an heedful circumspection observe the holy and wise prescripts and practices of their Parents by acknowledging subjection to their government Our blessed Lord himself set a
pattern herein for he went down with his Mother and her Husband and came to Nazareth and was subject to them (p) Luk. 2.51 Mar 6.3 Mat 13.55 Joâ— 6.42 Quis quibus Deus hominibus c. saith Bernard * Homil 1. Super missus est He to whom Angels are subject whom Principalities and Powers do obey was observant of his Mother Mary and her espoused Husband Joseph yea most likely in the business of Joseph's calling More particularly this filial observance shews it self in 1. Attending to their instructions 2. Executing their commands 3. Depending on their counsels And 4. Following their examples 1. We ought to attend seriously to our Parents instructions and learn what they teach us for good receiving their djctates with humility and laying them up in our hearts those especially of spiritual advantage out of a love to wisdom and our Parents joys (q) Prov. 29.3 〈◊〉 Solomon bids from his own experience My Son hear the instruction of thy father and forsake not the law of thy mother (r) 1.10 Again Hearken unto thy father which begat thee and despise not thy mother when she is old And then that Daughters might not think themselves exempted Hearken ye Children to the instruction of a father and attend to know understanding and good doctrine (Å¿) 4.1 2 3. which if heedfully observ'd makes a wise child when the contrary bewrays folly (t) 13.1 which is a grief and discouragement to the father as was that of Eli's Sons (u) 1 Sam. 2-25 and Lot's Sons in law (w) Gen. 19.14 who sleighted their fathers documents as the Prodigal also did his before he felt the smart of it and came to his wits again (x) Luk. 15.2.13 17. Yet this is dissonant to the voice of Nature which hath taught the very Chickens to hearken unto the clocking of the Hen hath been ever distastful to the wiser Heathens and would bring a disparagement upon the Christian institution So that Christian Children should be very heedful of their Parents teachings especially in the concerns of their souls Hence 2. Children should execute their Parents commands and dispatch readily what they order them to do without whartling disputes this is the most special duty required in my Text the extent of it will come under consideration anon They should be as those under the Centurions authority go and come and do at his command (y) Mat. 8 9. Samuel came at the supposed call of his pro-Parent once and again (z) 1 Sam. 3.5 c. David when his Father Jesse had sent for him out of the field e're he knew what it was for (a) 16.12 and so went as he commanded him (b) 17.17 20. So Jacob when Isaac sent him (c) Gen. 28.5 and Joseph when Jacob sent him (d) 37.14 yea the other ten Sons also upon their Fathers order (e) 42.2 3. Isaac attended in carrying the wood when the servants were free from the burden at his Father's pleasure (f) 22 6. Joseph and the Rechabites are famous instances of observing faithfully the charge of their Parents even when they were dead and gone (g) 50.20 Jer â—5 8 c. out of conscience in a respectful manner with reference to the divine authority Abraham's Children walked in the way of the Lord as their Father commanded them (h) Gen. 8.9 Solomon did not only command his own Son (i) Prov. 6 1â— though he prov'd disobedient but he observ'd his Father David's charge to walk in the Lord's statutes (k) 1 King 2.3 and â— 3. though drawn aside after with temptations and to build the Temple (l) 1 Câ—ro 2â— 11 2 Chron 5 and 6. God takes it for granted a good Child will serve his Father (m) Mal. 3 17. yea and when put to pain in things not only necessary but of no reputation supposing in things purely indifferent both in their nature and use their Parents to be more judicious to determine what is expedient and decent yet not without the use of their own discerning faculty nor without any examination in a blind irrational obsequâ—ousness (n) Prâ—v 14.15 Ne pâ—câ—uâ— ritis sâ—quâ—mur amecedentiam grâ—â—em pâ—â—â—nâ—â—s nonqua 〈◊〉 eâ—â— seâ— qua â—â—r Senec. like the brutish obedience of the Jesuits Novicâ—s For though I should grant that Parents have in some sort a power over the consciences of their Children whiles they are as in God's stead (o) 1 Sam 2.30 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 swaying their apprehentions in their tenderest years before they come to the use of their ripened reason yet when there is a judgment of discerning betwixt good and evil their obedience ought to be reas â—â—blâ— such as God requires to his own service 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 such as is according to his Word not merely childish though the obedience of Children but acceptable * Rom. 12.1 and well-pleasing unto him as in my Text and in the fear of God vers 22. Again 3. Children ought to depend upon their Parents counsels and take their good and wholsom advice giving them the honour of being in an ordinary course more prudent and sagacious than themselves as having greater experience ability and a call to govern in affairs of importance For to disregard them herein were to slight the paternal authority which God would have kept in reputation He was a Prodigal who would not be advised till he was bitten with the ill effect of that extravagant course which grieved his Father (p) Luk. 15.12 13. but the docible Child who is righteous and wise rejoyceth the heart of both his Parents (q) Pro 23.22 24. 15.20 Here I might enter on particulars to shew that Children have no power being under government to dispose of their Parents goods without their advice or allowance (r) Gal. 4.1 2. with Gen. 31.36 37 with 19. 32.10 Prov 28.24 19 26. for faultiness here is aggravated by the relation nor to choose their company disagreeable to their Parents minds (s) 1.10 15. 1 Cor 5.9 but to take their advice and be content with that sutable dress their Parents do order them to appear in (t) Gen. 27.15 37.3 2 Sam. 13 8. and not in strange apparel * Zeph 1.8 But I shall only suggest two more eminent instances wherein Children are more especially to consult their Parents and observe their advice viz. as to a particular Calling and Marriage 1 'T is fit to he advised by Parents in the choice of a Calling or lasting course of life Jacob and David mov'd and liv'd according to their Parents disposal (†) Gen. 28.2 1 Sam. 16.11 19. 17.17 as was hinted before and so did Jonadab's Children (‖) Jer. 35.6 7. It being unfit they should carve for themselves without leave but follow the parental conduct unless that leads them into an unlawful Calling The pretension of Religion in a Monastick life which the Papists urge
monuments (u) Jos 4.6 7 21. whereby Children might take occasion to ask the meaning of them and so Parents might acquaint them with the Ordinances of God (w) Deut. 6.20 21. No doubt but religious Parents have been careful to observe this for the transmitting of pure Religion Adam had taught his Sons to sacrifice as well as train'd them up to business though one of them did not worship God in an acceptable manner (x) Gen. 4.3 4.5 26. Heb. 11.4 He had acquainted them it seems with the fundamental promise concerning remission of sin which the Apostle saith could not be without shedding of blood (y) Heb. 9.22 represented in the instituted Sacrifice which Cain wanted faith to offer acceptably as Abel did giving credit to the divine institution and behaving himself sincerely in this solemn worship as he was instructed Noah also taught his Children though one of them did not observe the instructions (z) Gen. 9 8 22. But we have Abraham the Father of the faithful expresly commended with a special approbation of God for effectually instructing i. e. training or catechizing his children and servants after his example to keep the way of the Lord (a) 18.19 with 14.14 And therefore they are called his initiated ones or 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 whom the Rabbins say †Alting Hist Acad Hebâ— p. 18 19. he did no less instruct in the divine precepts and their observation than train up to war Other memorable instances we have of David (b) Prov. 4 3 4. with Psal 7â— Titl who seems kindly to call Children apart to teach them the fear of the Lord (c) 34.11 which Obadiah learn'd from his youth (d) 1 Kings 18.12 So of his Wife Bathsheba (e) Prov. 31.1 2 c. and those good Women in the New Testament Lois and Eunice (f) 2 Tim. 1 5. And other persons there were who did catechize in all good things (g) Gal 6 6. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 i. e. the rudiments of the Gospel wherein the most excellent Theophilus was catechized or instructed (h) Luke 1.4 as the Jewish children had been catechized in the Law (i) Rom. 2.18 But this part of Education viz. Catechziing being handled at this Exercise in another distinct Query by one well vers'd in the practick part of this necessary Duty may fairly give me who have so much on mine hands a Supersedeas from enlarging now upon it Only let it be remembred that sith Man is born like a wild Asse's colt (k) Job 11 12. and the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom (l) Prov 1.7 with Psal 111.10 Parents are concern'd to be industrious and not be discourag'd from teaching their offspring the words and terms of goodness in confidence they will afterwards comprehend the sense and practically hold fast the form of sound words (m) 2 Tim. 1.13 the little Bibles as Luther us'd to call orthodox Catechisms gather'd up from the holy Scripture which it seems Timothy had known from a child (n) 3. â—5 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 a little one indeed yea and we have some late considerable examples of such little ones * Token and little Book for Chiâ—dren And therefore Parents themselves according to their different calls and abilities taking in convenient help and all to forward the Pastor's work should not through humour indisposition laziness or an over-eager minding of worldly business neglect this affair of so great importance to the welfare of their Children but be solicitous to get the seeds sown in their tender hearts before the weeds of the world grow up therein and canker the soyl Even according to Natures dictates Diotima timely instill'd such notions of prudence into Socrates which rendred him famous And Cato though he kept a Tutor for his Son yet was frequent himself in teaching and examining of him in learning and natural Religion Much more should Christians as Theodosius the Great who was diligent in catechizing his Sons Arcadius and Honorius with the assistance of Arsenius A notable means was Catechizing to propagate the Reformed Religion notwithstanding the contagion of Popery as Sir Edwyn Sandys well observ'd †Survey of Religion in Europe 1593. pag. 113. mihi and it will be so to preserve it Especially if Instruction be follow'd with a 2. particular in Education and that is Watchfulness or Inspection which is a dayly putting children on exercise to practise the things wherein they have been instructed by a prudent oversight of their behaviour This domestick Episcopacy or Family discipline is of singular use for the edification of children Governors especially should watch unto al things (o) 2 Tim. 4.5 This is the most proper means to preserve the good seed which is sown from being stoln away and to guard it lest the enemy come slily and sowe tares amongst the wheat which he lays wait to do if he can take Parents asleep or inobservant (p) Mat. 13.25 when they should be awake in this good government (q) 1 Tim. 3.4 and intent upon it in their houshold (r) Pâ—al 101.6 7. taking special care that in practice their children be found faithful and not chargeable with riot and unruliness (s) Tit. 1.6 It is not enough to teach children the rudiments of faith worship and obedience but to bring them where the Ark is to the acts of solemn worship both in the Family and Congregation Our Saviour's Parents brought him (t) Luke 2.41 42 48 49. though he was born without sin and had not need upon that account as others have much more should others who now are not required to go so far bring theirs to worship God according to his appointment see to their reverend deportment there examine them afterward and observe their proficiency carry a jealous eye and hand over them as Job did over his (u) Job 1.5 and take care there be no connivance at palpable faults but a seasonable discountenancing of every sin in the dearest of them (w) Gen 49.6 no allowance of any practice dissonant to that which is right (x) Deut. 33.9 with 13.6 and Exod. 32.28 Zach. 13 6. but a solicitous care that they do not decline and apostatize or be not seduced from the pure worship of the holy God and the good ways they have acquainted them with (y) Jos 22.27 c. Gen. 24.6 7. 18.19 We know Abraham that Father of blessed memory commanded his children as was noted before and there was a positive Law after to command children upon their lives to observe and do what God enjoyned (z) Deut. 32.46 47. This belongs to the training up of youth to a good habit which will not easily be removed (a) Prov. 22.6 They that handle this matter wisely will find good (b) 16.20 in their children and to do it so as to avoid undue lenity and severity is great prudence For it requires
by the Prophet in the name of the Lord (m) Jer. 29.6 1 Cor. 7.36 to take wives to their sons and give daughters to their husbands should with a good and serious conscience without carnal glosses study this prime Canon as they really design the promotion and spiritual advancement of their offspring Thus Abraham so famous in his parental government (n) Gen. 18.19 was very careful with respect to the Lord in covenant for the matching of his son Isaac that in a matter of so great importance lest he should be tempted to a failure in his trust he took a most solemn oath by the Lord God of Heaven and Earth from his faithful Steward Eleazer (o) 24.2 4 6 8. upon serious seeking of God by Prayer that he should take a wife for him out of a religious Family and by no means yield that Isaac should be brought into a relation communion and residence with any of those who might be an occasion to alienate his affections from the service of the true God in a true manner which had an excellent effect sith Isaac and Rebekah were the most chast pair of all those Patriarchal Worthies their affections being entirely united And Isaac at his wife Rebekah's motion when almost dead for fear of an ungodly wife (p) 27. ver followed his Father's example in the disposal of his son Jacob (q) 28.2 c. We indeed live in an age wherein there is much complaint by many wealthy Parents that though they like well of this grand rule yet they know not where to have suitable matches for their children especially of the female sex I confess there is too much ground for this lamentation The Lord remove it Yet I may with submission not being sollicitous to please man but my Lord and Master (r) Gal. 1.10 Eph. 6.6 Mr. White put these complainants in mind of what hath been observ'd by another before me That Persons of quality and estate likely have in one respect a greater advantage than others in that they have a greater latitude of choice amongst those who are in estate below them So that of religious prudent and suitable persons they may choose almost whom they please But the truth is many Parents who sit at the upper end of the world though they profess Religion they are too often so biassed with the love of this world that marrying to the very height of their estate hath the casting vote and so they bestow their pious hopeful children upon persons in whom they have no probable positive evidence of real godliness and sobriety or on such who are not comparably so vertuous as others they might have more religious prudent and desirable who upon conjuncture of Estates would be abundantly well accommodated for a comfortable and chearful livelyhood When alas some of them are so sway'd by carnal motives that as one saith †Mr. Baxter pol. p. 484. they marry their children to a swine for a golden trough they prefer temporals to spirituals and eternals riches and honour or comliness to vertue and godliness and take one that is at enmity with God (s) Rom. 8.7 8. into the nearest and strictest league of amity with those they are oblig'd to love best And thence it comes to pass that in succeeding generations by unequal mixture of the holy seed with the profane (t) Ezra 9 2 4. there is such a decay of piety as at this day amongst those sprung on one side from worthy Progenitors being much like those of the old world who defiled the face of the earth with an unblest generation which so grieved the Almighty that after he had given the inhabitants fair warning by the preacher of righteousness (u) Gen. 6.2 4. See more Gen. 26.34 35. 34 14. 38.2 7 8.9 10. he swept them all away but eight persons with an universal deluge I know upon the hearing of this some professing Parents of our Age will be touch'd to the quick though they do thereby a little shake their own title to the best inheritance but it concerns a watchman when call'd to give them warning from the Lord (w) Ezek. 3.17 to deal faithfully Upon the remembrance of which and an affecting apprhension of this growing epidemical distemper I do in the name of the Lord put all Christian Parents in mind not too vehemently to seek after great things to themselves (x) Jer. 45.5 in bestowing of their children richly but labour to link them with gracious and suitable persons where there may be mutual kindness and hearty liking of each other and with vvhom they may live religiously and contentedly For the truth is without this mutual complacency and loving contentment each in other vvhich the Scripture calls for (y) Prov. 5.19 with Gen. 20.16 Ezek. 24.16 18. upon a good foundation there cannot be an happy match Wherefore in this great office of Parents vvhich is a comfortable one for their Children if well done but most uncomfortable if otherwise they are mostly concern'd to look after the fear of the Lord. For the Wise man by the spirit of God hath so determin'd upon weighing of things saying (z) Prov. 31.30 with 19.23 Favour is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman that feareth the Lord she shall be praised and so shall the man also If things be tryed at God's ballance Religion will weigh most Houses and riches are the inheritance of Fathers but a prudent wife is from the Lord (a) 19.14 and so is a prudent husband too Either is to be valued as a more blessed gift than any temporal portion left by Parents who may and ought to be provident but there is a more special finger of God who gives wisdom and unites hearts in every happy match Wherein good-nature or as we now speak good-humour doth much sweeten society in a humane way but I pray you what doth it in a Christian way wherein the married couple should live as being heirs together of the grace of life that their prayers he not hindred (b) 1 Pet. 3.7 Alas my Friends as to this a good nature as one saith * Mr. Thomas Couns l to married Couples is but like the white of an egg which as it offends not so it relisheth not There may be a tolerable conversation as to temporals on the week day but what is pleasant in it as to spirituals especially on the Lord's day and at other seasons when the Soul hath need of quickening direction and comfort or a companion in Heavenly joys Then real grace with all its faults will be better than refined nature (c) Eccles 2.13 as light than darkness Discretion will set a lustre on Religion and is to be look'd after else how troublesom will it be for wisdom to be subject to folly No one can live lovingly and comfortably with a Fool. Next an ungodly an unworthy yoke-fellow especially if in Husbands is to be feared And next to
Martyrs William Hunter's Mother cheared up her son in that great duty of bearing testimony to Jesus Christ saying William I think thee as well bestow'd as ever any child that I bare in my womb Thus Jacob did in an holy wile get as it were into Joseph's heart by insinuating the special kindness he had for his dear Rachel Joseph's Mother (i) Gen 48.7 If you gain your Childrens hearts then they will give ear to you so as to observe what you would have done (k) Prov. 23.26 Hence it is that our Heavenly Father in Scripture is so abundant in satisfying us of his love (l) 3.12 Deut. 8.3 4 5. that he may gain our hearts and affections Your converse then with your children in all parental offices should in all decent manner be still expressive of love thus much is peculiarly imply'd in my Text which inhibits discouragement From love and tender bowels (m) Phil. 1.8 if tears or compassionate expressions be mingled with instructions this will help much to win and commend Children unto goodness Suitable gifts and rewards prudently and seasonably bestow'd will allure them Upon which account it is that Tertullian * Gratius est nomen pietatis quam potestatis etiam familiae magis Patres quam Domini vocantur Apol. c. 34. saith The name of Piety is more grateful than that of power yea they are called Fathers rather then Lords of the Family Hence also Pliny †l. 5. epist 19. was taken with a similitude of Homers ‖ 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 which he useth once and again to shew that a Prince should be moderate in his Government even as a Father is gentle in ruling of his Children So the People esteemed Joseph under Pharaoh when he had power in Aegypt when he procured such hearty obeysance (n) Gen. 41.43 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 that some render that word tender Father as in the Margent which in our Translation is bow the knee Certainly the great friendship betwixt Parents and Children requires all expressions of endearments as in the tongue of the prudent woman there should ever be the law of kindness (o) Prov. 31.26 For as Maximus Tyrius * 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 c. Dissert 36. observes in another case so here If once the power of friendship be enervated there is nothing but it may easily move Relatives to anger and disturb them even as by taking the rudder from a Ship it is very soon tossed any way And here I think it very advisable that Parents who have their infirmities should encourage their honest Children by giving a favourable ear unto their humble and discreet monitions and good advice for their honour and spiritual welfare even as Saul did being convicted with reason hearken unto the voice of Jonathan his son (p) 1 Sam. 19.6 And as Terah upon the discovery which his son Abraham did from the Lord make to him comply'd with his advice for the removing of himself and family (q) Gen. 11.31 with 12.1 4. Labour to carry it with all eavenness and impartiality to every child according to a rational proportion so that it may be evident you account all that descend from you dear or beloved Children as God himself doth his (r) Eph. 5.1 1 Pet. 1.3 Jam. 1.18 for you are really concern'd in all 'T is true you should very distinctly observe the different carriages of your Children towards God your self and others to approve vertue and disapprove vice but yet you are to cherish as near as may be an equal desire of doing them all good alike not hugging one and hunching another out of some partial respect or distorted apprehension A good Parent as one †Mr. Fuller ingeniously notes should observe a species of Gavelkind in dividing his affections to his children to prevent envying amongst them and if the expression thereof be different it should be with equity and discretion that they in their own consciences may plainly read the reasons of it Though there is no necessity to make an equal distribution of Estate wherein the right of Primogeniture may seem from Scripture (s) Gen. 37.4 49 3. Exod. 13 2. Deut. 21.15 16. 1 Chron. 5.2 as abovesaid to claim a greater proportion unless some kind of rebellion put in a demurrer For however a prudent Parent should like a well-drawn Picture cast an eye equally upon all his Children in point of affection yet when he makes a distribution of his Estate in point of justice it can be no disparagement to him to encourage the obedient with a reward when by an equitable abatement he may suffer the disobedient justly to feel the smart of his misbehaviour But yet he is concern'd to be indifferent and impartial the same to every child in the same circumstances It is I confess rare to find a Parent indeed of this excellent temper amongst the sons of men but a truly Christian Parent should strive to resemble God in it sith as every child came from his own substance so he is to give an equal account to God of all and therefore should labour to overcome sense with reason and in very deed exhibit himself upon a due expence of circumstances one and the same to all So that they who upon by and undue respects do prefer one child to another whiles led by a partial affection cannot manage parental duties in a manner well-pleasing to God 'T is said Scipio Africanus * Dignus commiseratione magis est cui natura faves minus was so affraid of being unkind to his child as too many are for a natural defect that he rather shew'd most affection to his Son that was a fool saying He was most worthy of commiseration whom nature did favour least 5. And last of all Advise with your faithful Pastors and spiritual Guides especially in more intricate circumstances yea and study well your office Which that you may perform acceptably 't is good also to get what assistance you can from others to help you in the management thereof As Manoah did not only seek the Lord but consulted the Angel concerning his Son Sampson how they should order him and how they should do unto him (t) Judges 13.8 12. so should Parents endeavour to inform themselves and get the best counsel they can from those God hath set over them in the ministration of ordinances (u) EPh. 4.11 12. sith now under the Gospel they are as spiritual Fathers appointed for the feeding of Christ's sheep and his lambs (w) Jo. 21.15.16 17. which are directed to find pasture by the shepherds tents (x) Cant. 1.7 8. Ezek. 47.8 9 10. Jer. 8.22 and there get waters and balm for healing Monica Augustin's Mother †August Conf. repair'd to them for aid to reduce her Son and indeed theirs is as John Baptist's Ministry was to bring all to rights betwixt Parents and Children according to the Prophet's prediction (z) Mal.
wisdom and Religion worth calling so in the world in that so few blessed be God some there are are good in their Relations Where are Magistrates to be found that are God's Vicegerents in their places Where are the Masters that command and direct in wisdom so as their service is rather a priviledg than a toil a pleasure than a vassalage Where are the Servants that obey in singleness of heart as unto Christ Isa 3.5 What a strange disorder and confusion is there in the world in Kingdoms Corporations Jam. 4.1 and Families and who may be thanked for it but mens lusts and their not faithfully filling up that Relation God hath set them in Most are governed by the Law of corrupt nature and hell but few too few have that respect to the Law of God which should be Ar. Epict. 1.13 How excellently doth that Imperial Philosopher declaim against those that are unfaithful in their places and do not willingly submit to and order their lives according to the direction of the most good wise and just Law-giver of the world Hear his words Antoninus ◠4. n. 24. l. ◠n. 38. He is an Aposteme of the world who being unfaithful in his place doth as it were apostatize and separate himself from God's rational administration O that men were wise and understood their true interest and were faithful to it O that every one would labour to rectifie that ataxy and disorder that is in himself and then in his Family Then O then how happy would our Kingdom Cities Families be It was no small commendation of the Grecian Commander Plutarch in vita Them that he reckon'd it none of the best qualifications of a man to be able to play well upon a Harp but to be able to govern himself and others well and if a City were put into his hands poor dis-mantled un-disciplined to be able quickly to make it rich strong orderly To fill up our Relations with Religion is the divine precept our true wisdom our peace profit it 's honest I had almost said it 's one of the fairest fruits of real Christianity Would we could all as one man engage to do our best for the putting this in execution and then holiness to the Lord might quickly be written upon our Door our City might be called Jehovah Shammah the Lord dwells there and our Land Hephsibah and Beulah For this let every honest soul pray for this let Ministers preach And in the prosecution of this design I shall in my poor way give you advice by resolving of this Question which I have made way to by this Preface What are the Duties of Masters and Servants and how must both eye their great Master in Heaven In the answering of this Question the more fully I shall do these things First Show you what is meant by Master and Servant Secondly Show you how both are to eye their great Master in Heaven Thirdly I shall show you what is the Master's duty exhort him to it and give him helps for the performance of it Fourthly I shall show what is the duty of Servants press them to it and give them some helps for the performance of it First I shall show what is meant by Master and Servant By Master here is meant either Master or Mistress such a one as hath the power of himself and upon whose government and command another dependeth Now in an absolute and most proper sense there is none may be called Master but God he only hath an absolute independent unlimited power of himself and hath all others at his command and direction and he alone is fit for this despotick Monarchy being infinite in wisdom goodness and justice And this clears the meaning of those words of our Saviour Call no man Father Master Mat. 23.8 but God that is look upon none as absolute infallible Lords of the Conscience but him But in a more limited sense there are Masters to which respect and honour must be paid by their Servants and that with all readiness and chearfulness so far as they command nothing that is contrary to God's command By Servant I mean one that is not at his own disposal but at the command of another so far as his commands thwart not the commands of God Remember whatever is spoken of Servants is spoken to Maid-Servants as well as Men-Servants Now this Relation seems in a word to rise from Nature Law or Contract From Nature in that some are of a more strong body and weaker understanding others of weaker bodies but of more judgment and experience and so one is by nature fit to rule and the other to be ruled That Relation that riseth from Law is when any one by some flagitious act hath justly forfeited his liberty and is condemned to servility either for a time or during his life The last and usual foundation of this Relation is by Contract and that is where one that is by nature free subjects himself to another's command for a certain time upon such and such just considerations Now this is that Relation that I am principally concerned to shew you the Duties of Secondly I come now to shew you how both Master and Servants are to eye their great Master in Heaven First they are both to have an eye to the presence of their great Master which is in Heaven God in his Nature is a Spirit that is infinitely immense filling Heaven and Earth and yet not included in either If man did indeed lye under the lively impressions of God's omnisciency and omnipresence what an awe would it put upon their spirits how honest would it make them in the dark This this would make the Master reasonable just and merciful this would make the Servant faithful diligent and constant in his obedience to his Master What makes men to act like Devils but this a hope that God doth not see Gen 17.1 Psal 16.8 What made Abraham so upright but his walking before God What kept David so unmoved but his setting the Lord always before his eyes I am perswaded the greatest failures in either Master or Servant have their spring here a secret root of atheism and disbelief of God's eye and observation What truth in all the Bible more clear than this and yet what almost less believed O what do men make of God How do they rob him of his glory and themselves of the truest motives of fidelity activity and chearfulness Sirs Is the hundred thirty ninth Psalm canonical Scripture or no Can any hide any thing from God's eye Jer. 23.24 Prov. 15.3 Prov. 5.21 Psal 94.7 9. Ar. Epict. 2. c. 8. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Ar. Ep. l. 1. c. 14. 1 Cor. 10.31 Rom. 6.16 Do not his eyes behold the good and evil Doth not he ponder the ways of men Do you indeed believe this What then is the meaning of falseness on all hands It was no unjust complaint of the Moralist when he said that
or colour sinful practices hereby they are profaned and the holier they be the wickeder Woe to you ye devour Widow's Houses and for a pretence make long Prayers 3. Our most common Speeches that might otherwise seem culpable are not only allowable but commendable as they may be referred unto some good purpose As first for the remission of a mind over-bent and burthened with serious matter that one may return with more vigor to it Secondly For the prevention of worse Discourse where better will not be entertained Thirdly For insinuation into bad men that we may gain an opportunity of doing good upon them and for introduction into better Discourse which abruptly cannot be brought in So much then depending upon the Scope of our Discourse let me give two Cautions hereon Caution First That none Pride themselves in the material goodness of their Discourse if the design be bad it is like a fair Apple rotten at the core 2. That we judg none rashly for the seeming commonness of their Discourse if it be not their common dialect and especially if they are among common spirited People there may be a pious guile in it a reason for it and it is Charity to suppose it but let every one judg himself who only hath a Capacity to know himself and let us all be cautious however that we lay not a stumbling block before a weak Brother How may Detraction be best prevented or Cured Serm. XXI Psal 15.3 He that backbiteth not with his Tongue nor doth evil to his Neighbour nor taketh up a Reproach against his Neighbour AMong the many Sins for which God is contending with England and especially with the Professors of Religion in it I doubt not but one and that none of the least is the gross misgovernment of their Tongues The abuses of the Tongue are many one whereof is the malignity of it And whereas in David's time a malignant and virulent Tongue was the badg and cognizance of an Atheist Psal 59.7 Behold they belch out with their mouths Swords are in their Lips for who say they doth hear Now alas this Spot is become the Spot of God's Children and high professors of Religion A man can scarce come into any Company but his Ears shall be filled with censures detractions reproaches Party against Party Person against Person Instead of that old Christian Love and Charity for which the Ancient Christians were noted and applauded even by their Adversaries Behold said they how the Christians love one another Mens hearts are generally full of rancour and their Tongues of sharp reflections contemptuous and reproachful expressions censures and slanders against their absent and oft-times innocent and more worthy Brethren This is the Disease which I would endeavour to administer some Physick to from these words The Coherence is plain David proposeth a Question verse 1. Lord who shall abide in thy Tabernacle Who shall dwell in thy holy Hill By which you may understand either Sion where the Ark then was or Moriah where the Temple was to be Built and by either of them the Church of God here and especially the Heavenly Temple hereafter So that it is as if David had said and asked what is the qualification of the true Members of God's Church of the Citizens of the New Jerusalem By what properties are they known and distinguished from other men To this David doth not answer that they are so differenced by their high Talks by their crying out upon the sins of other men or the wickedness of the times by their frequent attendance at God's Tabernacle but by the uprightness of their Hearts by the good Government of their Tongues by the holiness of their Lives Verse 2. He that walketh uprightly and worketh Righteousness and speaketh the Truth in his heart And in this 3d. Verse that I have now read He that backbiteth not with his Tongue nor doth evil to his Neighbour nor taketh up a Reproach against his Neighbour It is the last clause which I intend to speak to because it will comprehend the former Nor taketh up a Reproach against his Neighbour The words I shall explain in the handling of the Doctrine which is this Doct. It is the Duty and must be the care of every true Christian not to take up a Reproach against his Neighbour I shall first explain the point then prove it and lastly apply it For Explanation three things are to be enquired into 1. Who is my Neighbour There are some men of Name in the world that will tell you that in the Language of the Old Testament by Neighbour is to be understood one of the same Countrey and Religion Popularis Israelita and it is the peculiarity of the Gospel that every man is made my Neighbour But if we examine Scripture we shall find this to be a gross mistake I need not go farther for the confutation of it than to the Decalogue it self Thou shalt not bear false Witness against thy Neighbour I suppose it will seem a very hard saying to affirm that it is Lawful to bear false Witness against a Stranger So when God commands Thou shalt not lye carnally with thy Neighbour's Wife Lev. 18.20 I presume these Gentlemen would not allow themselves that Liberty with the Wife of a Stranger If God may be his own Interpreter this Controversie will quickly be ended from Lev. 19. ch where if you compare two Verses Verse 18. Thou shalt love thy Neighbour as thy self with Verse 34. But the Stranger that Dwelleth with you shall be unto you as one born among you and thou shalt love him as thy self you will not need the help of an Artist to form this Conclusion that the Stranger is in God's Account and ought to be in mine Account my Neighbour To the same purpose you may please to compare two other places of Scripture together Deut. 22.4 Thou shalt not see thy Brother's Ass nor his Ox fall down by the way and hide thy self from them thou shalt surely help him to lift them up again with Exod. 23.4 5. If thou meet thine Enemie's Ox or his Ass going astray thou shalt surely bring him back again If thou seest the Ass of him that hateth thee lying under his Burthen thou shalt help him up He who is my Brother which is nearer than a Neighbour in the one place is mine Enemy and he that hateth me in another place And it is further observable to this end that the Hebrew word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 and the Greek 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 a Neighbour is usually rendred in Scripture by 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 another as Rom. 13.8.9 He that loveth another hath fulfilled the Law for the Law saith thou shalt love thy Neighbour as thy self Most true therefore is that of St. Augustine Proximus est omnis homo homini every man is a Neighbour to any other man Nay the more intelligent part of the Jews were of this Opinion and Kimchi upon these words saith He is
the one and the other might see the right way of Salvation by Jesus Christ for though the Light of Nature by which we are convinc'd of the equity and righteousness of the Moral Law do bind us to Repentance when we act against it yet it cannot promise that we shall get any thing by our Repentance being altogether ignorant of the Mystery of the Gospel Thus we see the Mountains must be brought low and the Valleys filled up and both reduc'd to such an exact level evenness and plainness that Christ may sit close upon the soul without the least interposition of any thing between him and us or the least remaining vacuity or emptiness in our selves into which his Fulness doth not descend making up whatsoever is wanting in us and when it is so there is a through perfect closure with Christ in the greatest nearness in the strictest and most intimate union that can be But you will say How shall we come to this How shall we walk thus between the Mountain and the Valley in a streight direct line of Faith and Hope to Jesus Christ which brings me to the Case or Question now to be spoken to from the Text which is this viz. How may we steer an even course between Presumption and Despair The true state of this Question depends upon a clear discovery of the real difference that is between the Grace of Hope and both these extreams Presumption and Despair therefore 1. I shall distinguish between Presumption and Hope The difference between Hope and Despair is more apparent but we are too too apt to confound Presumption and Hope there being a greater Affinity between these than the other as in Morality some vertue come nearer to one extreme than to the other So here there is something of the general nature of Hope in Presumption Presumptio non excludit spem sed rectitudâ—nem spei Zanch. Therefore we must be the more acurate and strict in distinguishing between the Grace of Hope and the Sin of Presumprion which fallente quâdam Specie Aquinas resembles the grace of Hope and those who are guilty of this Sin do alwayes put the specious name of Hope upon it they are not sensible of any Presumption as others are of Despair and therefore their case is more dangerous Eo magis desperati quo minus desperantes Ames de Consc And where one despairs thousands do presume Before I come to particulars I must distinguish of a double Presumption 1. Of our Selves and our own merits 2. Of God and his mercy Both stand in a direct opposition to the true Grace of Hope and I shall shew you where the difference lies I begin with 1. The First sort of Presumption which is of our selves This is a proud arrogant presumption arising from a vain conceit of our own supposed worth and righteousness we think to stand upon our own legs insisting not upon what Christ is to us or hath done for us but upon what we are in and to our selves and have done for Christ We have Prophecied in thy Name c. Mat. 7.22 We are not as this Publican we have done thus and thus and ought to be considered for our good works and we doubt not but we shall 't is not the Promises of Free-grace but the Law and their strict observance of that which these men ground their hope upon But the true Grace of Hope is alwayes grounded upon Faith in the Promises and is all along fed nourish'd maintain'd and strengthened by those believing perswasions that it hath of the truth of those Promises which at first produced and begat this hope in the Soul and in the continual exercise of this Grace in its daily actings it eyes the Promises hath daily recourse to them for its further confirmation 't is bottomed upon them takes its rise from thence and bears up the Soul upon the credit of them Rom. 15.4 Psal 119.74 this is the hope of the Gospel Col. 1.23 that carries us out of our selves A Christian's Hope is hope in another and not in himself The right notion of Hope as it is an Evangelical Grace implies our sole dependance upon God as the only Author and Fountain of all that good which we desire and look for which doth sufficiently difference it from that false hope or self-presumption that I have been speaking of and which was principally aimed at by John in the Text being a Presumption more peculiar to those times and persons here spoken of who lived under the Law and were much in doing but understood not the End of their Moral or Ceremonial Works but trusted in them and made Saviours of them and at the first entrance of the Gospel they opposed the Doctrine of Free-grace would hear neither John nor Christ himself but rejected the Counsel of God against themselves Luke 7.30 33 34. See what a Character Paul gives of them and of all others throughout the world who should entertain the least thought of Salvation out of Christ Rom. 3.16 17. Destruction and misery are in their wayes and the way of peace have they not known This one Scripture if well weighed is enough to shake the confidence of the most Presumptuous Self-justitiary that is and to convince him and all the world of their need of Christ In Psal 14. which Paul quotes in this Chapter God is brought in taking a strict Survey of Mankind before he sent his Son into the World to see if there were any that stood in no need of him q. d. If there be any such let him come forth and shew himself David answers for himself ver 7. Not I Lord not I Lord I wait for Christ I long for Christ O that the Salvation of Israel were come out of Zion O that Christ were come that the Free grace and mercy of God were more clearly revealed then Jacob shall rejoice and Israel shall be glad this will be good news indeed So Jer. 17.5 6 7. The result of all is this true Hope eyes God in Christ and argues from him this Presumption now spoken of eyes self and argues from thence in all its actings 2. The second sort of Presumption to be distinguish'd from Hope is that by which we presume upon God and his mercy This is grown up since the preaching of the Gospel there is indeed too great a spice of the former Presumption among Professors and as that vvears off this succeeds nay they unhappily mingle together If Legal Presumption cannot altogether shut out conviction yet it minces the matter 't is a little one and my Soul shall live and so makes vvay for this credulous presumption that brings in a Salvo for all presently God is gracious mercy is promised Christ has died for Sinners and all vvill be vvell vve shall go to Heaven of course vvithout any more ado and so they sit down in security all their dayes till they are surprized vvith their everlasting doom unawares This is Infidelis fiducia Bern. a
fed with these comforts have no losses or crosses in the world we are apt to grow proud secure wanton to forget God to cast off Duty to dream of an earthly paradise to say it's good being here to neglect spiritual and divine things 't is high time therefore for God by these waies to cut us short thereby to reduce us to a little better temper of soul If the sap run out too much into the branches there 's no way to preserve the root but by the cutting off the luxuriant branches God will have a thousand Estates to be lost rather than that one soul should be lost the burning of Cities is nothing if that be necessary to the saving of souls 4. Suppose all be lost in that All we lost but little for the All of this world is but one remove from a mere Nothing Perdidit infoelix totum nil is applicable to the losses of the rich as well as of the poor Is there any thing in this but what might be expected from the nature of the thing therefore there should be no disturbance about it Who will be concern'd at the melting of snow what wise man will be moved for the breaking of a glass 'T is strange that a Jonah should be in such a pet for the withering of a gourd Prov. 27.24 Riches are not for ever and doth the Crown endure to every generation 1 Cor. 7.31 The fashion of this world passeth away All the estate here is made up of Moveables that usual distinction which is good in Law is not so in Divinity 5. Again thou sayest all is lost perdiderat omnia quae dederat Deus sed hahuit ipsem qui omnia dederat Deum August but if thou beest a child of God the best is yet secure God and Christ and Grace and Heaven are yet thine and no loss is very considerable so long as these are safe O believer in all thy losses be quiet and chearful God who is thy portion is the same for ever Job lost all he had from God but God himself he did not lose and in him he had all that he had lost Never complain till God be lost Fas tibi non est de fortunâ conqueri salvo Caesare said Seneca to Polybius Let the stars disappear if we may have the Sun who will be troubled let earthly things vanish so long as God abides 't is enough Had we the whole world to lose one God would abundantly recompense the loss of all of it Many are inward gainers by their outward losses by having the less of the Creature they have the more of God O happy exchange the worse their condition is without the better it is within in respect of grace and comfort 6. 'T is an excellent frame of spirit under losses to be patient and contented All the possessions of Job when he was in the height of them did not reflect so much glory upon him as his blessed submission when he was deprived of them then God blessed him now in another sense he blessed God All are convinced they should do this when God gives but 't is very rare for any to do it when God takes away Micah's mother had some shekels of silver taken from her and she falls a cursing Judg. 17.2 this precious Saint had all taken from him yet no cursing as Satan had belied him no nothing but blessing God 'T is an excellent temper comfortably to enjoy outward blessings whilst God shall continue them contentedly to part with them when God shall remove them Suave est si quid dás parvus dolor hoc ubi tollis When I see any carrying it thus I conclude that earthly things are not too fast rivetted in their hearts as 't is a sign the tooth is loose which is drawn out without much pain and that they are duly affected towards God heaven and heavenly things These are some of the things the due consideration whereof would much help on Contentment under Losses And so much for the using of this Means towards the furtherance of tranquillity of mind with respect to what may disturb it in and about the Estate How Consideration ought to be acted in order to Contentment under cr ssâ—s in Relations 2. Secondly I 'le instance in Relations In and about whom there is as much of mercy or affliction of comfort or discomfort and consequently of content or discontent as in any one thing whatsoever The Discontent usually is occasioned and vented in these three Cases The want of Relations much desired The death of Relations much beloved The uncomfortableness of Relations who are spared Now Consideration wisely and faithfully managed would be of great use to allay all storms and to keep the heart even and calm in all these Cases and therefore my next work is to shew what we are under each of them to consider in order to the promoting of this frame But I must of necessity be briefer under this Head than I was under the former that I may not draw out this Discourse to too great a length Wherefore I will but shortly set the Particulars before you that you are to consider of and leave the enlargement of them to your selves in your consideration 1. When Relations are much desired but denied and withheld there is too often discontent How as to the want of Relations desired As to instance only in Children what daily inquietudes of spirit are there in some because of the want of these they have many other Comforts but the not having of this imbitters all Abraham himself was much troubled about it Gen. 15.2 3. Lord God what wilt thou give me seeing I go childless Behold to me thou hast given no seed and lo one born in my house is mine heir But Rachel's passion rose very high Give me Children saith she to her husband or else I die Gen. 30.2 Children are very great blessings they are promised as such Psal 128.3 4. and in other places and indeed they are one of the sweetest flowers that grow in the garden of earthly comforts hence 't is hard for persons contentedly to bear the want of them But whoever you are upon whom this affliction lies pray labour after a contented mind under it and in order thereunto Consider 1. It is the Lord who withholds this mercy for he gives it or withholds it as seems good to him Providence is not more seen in any of the affairs and Concerns of men than in this of Children that there shall be many or few some or none Gen. 32. all falls under the good pleasure and dispose of God When Rachel was so passionate under the want of these Jacob rebuked her sharply am I in God's stead who hath withheld from thee the fruit of thy womb Psal 127.9 Lo children are an inheritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb is his reward Psal 113.9 He maketh the barren woman to keep house and to be a joyful Mother of
time of day it is with your Soul Pray therefore and strive for renewed sights of Grace and for anointing with fresh Oyl for the Saints do often lose their Impressions through carelesness and inadvertency whilest they have here and there to do or indulgence to some Carnality and through the malignancy of some over beating temper or temptation in an hour and power of Darkness And this makes the Soul to drive heavily which sometimes ran as pleasantly as the Chariots of Aminadib but now the Wheels begin to skreek through want of fresh anointings It being so look to your Vessels and your Oil and see how they are stored with it and how the Spirit shineth at any time upon his own Lines and Figures This also I premise to the answer of the Question because the soul never acteth Grace so vigorously as vvhen ones state is cleared First therefore for resolution Maintain your Faith in frequent exercise and make no less conscience of acting daily Faith than you do of daily Prayer For we are apt to rest in a quondam Call to Christ and in the original work of Faith and not to be coming still to Christ and that as earnestly and studiously as if we had never come before He that is coming unto me saith Christ John 6.35 1 Pet. 2.4 The word in the Original is a Participle of the Present Tense And through the neglect of this daily coming the soul is often in the dark and seemeth to have lost the Promise in which it was formerly drawn to Christ by means whereof it is sometimes midnight with the wisest Virgins as well as so at other times by means of their security For instance By Faith Abraham when he was called not only unto Canaan but unto Christ obeyed for he looked more to the Promised Seed than to the Promised Land else what had his Faith been But now in tract of time viz. about ten years after he begins to call the Promise into question Gen. 15.2 and to make the Steward of his house his Heir till God renewed the Promise to revive thereby the actings of his sleeping Faith Look now towards Heaven saith God and tell the Stars if thou be able to number them and he said unto him so shall thy Seed be Upon this Abraham believed in the Lord and it was accounted to him for righteousness Why Did he not believe before Yes The Apostle dateth his Faith from his coming out of Vr of the Caldees Heb. 11.8 And yet here we meet with a second Date i. e. as to an eminent reviving act of his Faith as if he had omitted to believe as indeed he did and now began again which was only an interruption not an intercision Now thus it may be with you who believed many years ago but the Promise and Impression of it is perhaps almost worn out and your Faith begins to languish but the Promise is still the same and the word of the Lord endureth for ever and that is the word of the Gospel which is preached to you wherefore take hold of it again and again and of Christ therein and not only of that particular promise wherein Christ at first was held out unto you but of any other that occurreth and in the frequent renewings of your Faith your drooping hearts will be revived and long at last for the coming of him in whom your Soul believeth You know that your Faith will determine with your Life and therefore improve it daily for your Death which draweth on by gradual steps in which you are still making forwards towards the Bridegroom's coming who keeps equal paces with you so that he and you will meet together at the point of dissolution Your Faith cannot conquer Death for there is no discharge in that war between Death and Nature only Faith will vanquish the dread and horror of it For Death in which the Bridegroom first cometh to us is in it self the King of Terrors other Afflictions as Poverty Reproach Imprisonment Debt Exile Sickness c. are inferiour fears which possibly may be escaped and out of which there is oftentimes deliverance but Death is the Soveraign Lord and King of all of them from whence there is no return He that goeth down to the Grave shall come up no more but passeth presently unto the highest Tribunal there to receive the eternal judgment whether of Absolution or of Condemnation And upon this account the fear of the King of Terrors is the King of Fears and a sore and painful bondage in which many are held all their Life-time till Faith in Christ release them yea and afterwards also if their Faith be not the stronger What shall I say then but Awake Faith and flee to him for refuge who through death hath destroyed him that hath the power of Death that is the Devil and delivered them who through fear of Death were all their life-time subject unto bondage For without this Refuge of Faith Christ's coming by Death is terrible and astonishing which the bare habit of Faith cannot cure and conquer Believe therefore that you are Christ's and believe it daily by frequent closings with him and resignations of your selves unto him and then you are not so much Death's as Death is yours 1 Cor. 3.22 23. Make good your interest in the Bridegroom and then you will rejoice at his coming Make haste my Beloved saith the Bride Cant. 8. ult Why so Because he is Beloved and my Beloved And the Spirit and the Bride say Come Rev. 22.17 i. e. The Spirit in the Bride or the Spirit of the Bride for a Bride hath a Bride-like Spirit which longeth for the coming of the Bridegroom But perhaps the weak Believer cannot reach to say thus and therefore saith the Bridegroom to him Let him that is athirst come If thou canst not say Come to me I say Come to thee For we must first come to Christ before we can say Come to him yea we must have some sense of our coming unto him before we can heartily say Come to h m. And this Faith that I have spoken of is the principal Grace preparing the Believer for the coming of Christ provided that it be maintained in frequent exercise for hereby the Person is justified the Heart purified the Conscience pacified a sweet Correspondence continued between Christ and the believing Soul Death conquered and Heaven opened Secondly This Faith doth necessarily work by Love and as they always do co-operate so are they commensurate and carry a just proportion each to other though peradventure you may be more sensible of your Love than of your Faith But now the more you abound in both the more you will long for the coming of Christ and be the more prepared for it No marvel therefore that the Apostle loved the appearance of Christ 2 Tim. 4.8 with Acts 21.13 who had so great a love to his person that he was not only ready to be bound but to dye at Jerusalem for the
shall keep the way of the Lord. This then is undeniable if the Word is to be believed received as our Rule and obedience to be yielded thereunto And the Heathens taught a necessity of instructing youth betimes The reason of this consequence from Family reading and instructions 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Justin dialog cum Tryph 173. Scriptura sacra est 1 DEI cathedra ex qua ad nos loquitur 2 Dei Schola in qua nos erudit informat 3 Dei 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 spiritualis rerum medicarum officina 4 Dei 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 armamentarium in quo â—unit armat nos contra omnis generis hostes 5 Dei manus qua nos per semitas fidei justitiae ducit ad vitam aeternam Gerhar loc com Tom. 1. p. 141. to Family praying is evident we need to beg of God the illumination of his Spirit the opening of the eyes of every one in the Family the blessing of God upon our endeavours without which it will be to no saving benefit and vvill be more manifest if vve consider and lay together these things following First Whose Word it is that is to be read in the Family together the Word of the eternal blessed glorious God And doth this call for and require preceding Prayer no more than if you were to read the Book of some mortal man The Word of God is that out of which God speaketh to us it is that by which he doth instruct us and inform us in the highest and weightiest concernments of our Souls it is that from which we must fetch remedies for the cure of our spiritual maladies it is that from whence we must have weapons of defence against our spiritual enemies that do assault our Souls and be directed in the paths of life and is not Prayer together needful then that God would prepare all their hearts to receive and obey what shall be read to them of the mind of God Is all the Family so serious and so sensible of the Glory Holiness and Majesty of that God that speaketh to them in his Word that Prayer is not needful that they may be so And if it be needful should it not first be done And when it hath been read and the threatnings commands and promises of the glorious God been heard and your sins discovered and God's wrath against them and duties enjoined and precious priviledges opened and promises of a faithful God both great and precious promises made to such as do repent believe and turn to God with all their hearts unfeignedly have you not all need together to fall down upon your knees to beg and cry and call to God for pardon of those sins that by this Word you are convinced you are guilty of and to lament them before the Lord and that when your duty is discovered you might have all hearts to practise and obey and that you might unfeignedly repent and turn to God that so you may apply those promises to your selves and be partaker of those priviledges From this then there is great reason when you read together you should also pray together Scripturis sacris incumbat Christianus fidelis ibi inveniet condigna fidei spectacula spectabit mundum in delictis suis Piocum praemia Impiorum supplicia religione superatas feras in mansuetudinem câ—nversas intuâ—bitur animas ab ipsa morte revocatas in his omnibus jam majus videbit spectaculum diabolum illum qui totum triumpharet mundum sub pedibus Christi jacentem quà m hoc decorum spectaculum fratres quam jucundum quam necessarium Cyprian 416. Secondly Consider what great and deep mysterious things are contained in the Word of God which you are to read together and there vvill appear a necessity of praying together also Is there not in this Word the Doctrine concerning God how he might be known loved obeyed worshipped and delighted in concerning Christ God-man a mystery that the Angels wonder at and no man fully understands or can express and fully unfold concerning the Offices of Christ Prophet Priest and King the example and the life of Christ the miracles of Christ the temptations of Christ the sufferings of Christ his death the victories of Christ the Resurrection Ascension and Intercession of Christ and his coming to Judgment Is there not in the Scripture the Doctrine of the Trinity of the misery of man by sin and his remedy by Christ of the Covenant of Grace the Conditions of this Covenant and the Seals thereof the many precious glorious priviledges that we have by Christ reconciliation with God justification sanctification and adoption the several graces to be got and duties to be done and of mens everlasting state in Heaven or Hell are these and such like contained in the Word of God that you ought to read daily in your houses and yet do not you see the need of Prayer before and after your reading of it Weigh them well and you will Thirdly Consider how much all the Family are concerned to know and understand these things so necessary to Salvation If they are ignorant of them they are undone If they know not God how shall they love him Invisa possunt amari incognita nequaquam Things unseen may be loved but things unknown cannot We might love an unseen God and an unseen Christ 1 Pet. 1.8 But not an unknown God If they in your Family know not Christ how shall they believe on him and yet they must perish and be damned if they do not They must for ever lose God and Christ and Heaven and their Souls if they do not repent believe and be converted and yet when that Book is read Petit se doceri divinitus ut doctrinam rectè intelligat ex antithesi verò monet omnium hominum mentes esse coecas nec intelligere doctrinam quamdiu non illuminantur à Spiritu sancto monet igiâ—ur quasi velamen esse obductum oculis nostrae mentis vel volumen legis seu doctrinae clausum convolutum esse ut legi intelligi non possit nisi spiritu detrahente velamen oculis nostris evolvente volumen ut oculis nostris subjiciatur ideóque assiduè petendum esse significat ut hic dâ—ctor mittatur in corda nostra qui ea illuminet sapientia coelesti imbuat Moller in Psal 119.18 by which they should understand the nature of true saving Grace is not Prayer needful especially when many have the Bible and read it yet do not understand the things that do concern their peace Fourthly Consider further The blindness of their minds and their inability without the teachings of God's Spirit to know and understand these things and yet is not Prayer needful Fifthly Consider yet further The backwardness of their hearts to hearken to these weighty necessary truths of God and their unwillingness naturally to learn shews Prayer to be necessary that God would make them able