Selected quad for the lemma: lord_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
lord_n	aaron_n	bear_v	law_n	114	3	4.0122	3	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A43768	Conjugall counsell, or, Seasonable advice, both to unmarried, and married persons directing the first how to enter into marriage estate, and the other how to demeane themselves in the Christian discharge of all such duties as that estate of life blads them to, that God may have glory, the church edification, and themselves and families, present and future comfort, tending much (by the blessing of God) to a through reformation of all the enormities of these evil times / by T.H. ...	Hilder, Thomas.	1653 (1653)	Wing H1974; ESTC R20660	113,375	218

of_o livelihood_n &_o sometime_o to_o enjoy_v society_n of_o choice_n friend_n there_o be_v none_o of_o these_o but_o may_v give_v a_o man_n a_o clear_a call_v sometime_o to_o remove_v his_o habitation_n &_o he_o must_v if_o he_o be_v a_o christian_a obey_v god_n herein_o now_o take_v this_o for_o a_o most_o undeniable_a truth_n that_o whatever_o passage_n of_o divine_a providence_n will_v warrant_v the_o lawfulness_n of_o the_o husband_n change_n of_o place_n of_o dwell_v will_v also_o warrant_v the_o wife_n call_v to_o travel_v with_o her_o husband_n and_o to_o live_v with_o he_o wheresoever_o he_o pitch_v his_o tent._n mark_v the_o apostle_n phrase_n 1_o cor._n 9.5_o have_v we_o not_o power_n to_o lead_v about_o a_o sister_n a_o wife_n as_o well_o as_o other_o apostle_n and_o as_o the_o brethren_n of_o the_o lord_n and_o as_o cephas_n where_o you_o may_v note_v that_o the_o apostle_n the_o brethren_n of_o the_o lord_n and_o cephas_n do_v lead_v about_o their_o wife_n which_o they_o can_v not_o have_v do_v against_o their_o will_n and_o paul_n do_v challenge_v the_o same_o privilege_n as_o due_a to_o he_o as_o well_o as_o to_o the_o other_o but_o to_o add_v a_o clear_a demonstration_n to_o this_o truth_n yet_o further_o by_o join_v precedent_n to_o privilege_n consider_v the_o practice_n of_o sarah_n when_o god_n call_v abraham_n to_o leave_v his_o country_n and_o go_v into_o that_o which_o he_o will_v show_v he_o she_o go_v with_o he_o gen._n 12.5_o when_o god_n call_v he_o the_o second_o time_n to_o remove_v that_o be_v to_o go_v into_o egypt_n because_o of_o the_o famine_n in_o the_o land_n where_o he_o do_v live_v you_o shall_v find_v his_o wife_n do_v go_v with_o he_o ver_fw-la 10_o 11._o who_o do_v also_o return_v with_o he_o chap._n 13.1_o again_o when_o god_n call_v isaac_n to_o go_v to_o gerar_n to_o sojourn_v there_o for_o a_o time_n and_o that_o by_o reason_n of_o famine_n too_o rebekah_n his_o wife_n go_v with_o he_o gen._n 26.1_o 7._o but_o in_o a_o special_a manner_n mind_n the_o practice_n of_o leah_n and_o rachel_n they_o be_v willing_a to_o leave_v their_o father_n house_n and_o kindred_n not_o be_v enforce_v by_o famine_n to_o enjoy_v society_n with_o jacob_n their_o husband_n gen._n 31.4_o to_o the_o end_n of_o ver_fw-la 18._o as_o ruth_n say_v to_o naomi_n her_o mother_n in_o law_n where_o thou_o go_v i_o will_v go_v and_o where_o thou_o lodge_v i_o will_v lodge_v and_o where_o thou_o die_v i_o will_v die_v and_o there_o will_v i_o be_v bury_v the_o lord_n do_v so_o to_o i_o and_o more_o also_o if_o aught_o but_o death_n part_v thou_o and_o i_o ruth_n 1.16_o 17._o so_o must_v every_o christian_a wife_n say_v to_o her_o husband_n where_o thou_o live_v i_o will_v live_v and_o where_o thou_o die_v i_o will_v die_v and_o there_o will_v i_o be_v bury_v for_o nought_o but_o death_n shall_v part_v thou_o and_o i_o by_o all_o which_o it_o do_v or_o may_v appear_v that_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n to_o cohabit_v with_o he_o in_o what_o place_n soever_o god_n shall_v call_v he_o and_o if_o she_o perform_v not_o this_o duty_n she_o disable_v herself_o to_o the_o observation_n of_o other_o but_o in_o case_n first_o that_o the_o husband_n will_v live_v in_o a_o popish_a country_n out_o of_o either_o a_o superstitious_a or_o fantastical_a end_n or_o humour_n the_o wife_n be_v not_o bind_v to_o follow_v he_o for_o she_o must_v look_v more_o after_o the_o true_a worship_n of_o god_n and_o the_o salvation_n of_o her_o own_o soul_n than_o after_o any_o outward_a comfortable_a condition_n in_o the_o world_n or_o second_o if_o the_o husband_n be_v a_o unbeliever_n and_o do_v not_o like_a to_o live_v with_o a_o believe_a wife_n than_o such_o a_o wife_n be_v at_o liberty_n if_o i_o mistake_v not_o the_o apostle_n to_o live_v from_o he_o 1_o cor._n 7.13_o 15._o but_o last_o in_o case_n the_o husband_n do_v violate_v the_o covenant_n of_o marriage_n by_o adultery_n fornication_n etc._n etc._n then_o if_o the_o wife_n please_v she_o may_v forsake_v he_o which_o by_o necessary_a consequence_n may_v appear_v from_o the_o word_n of_o christ_n mat._n 5.32_o chap._n 19_o 9_o for_o if_o the_o husband_n may_v put_v his_o wife_n away_o for_o such_o breach_n of_o marriage-contract_n why_o not_o the_o wife_n put_v away_o her_o husband_n on_o the_o like_a occasion_n but_o if_o upon_o ordinary_a occasion_n the_o wife_n shall_v refuse_v the_o performance_n of_o this_o duty_n to_o her_o husband_n she_o do_v make_v void_a and_o null_a one_o special_a end_n of_o marriage_n and_o so_o sin_n against_o god_n the_o ordainer_n of_o that_o happy_a estate_n also_o against_o her_o husband_n in_o deprive_v he_o of_o his_o due_a comfort_n and_o last_o against_o her_o soul_n and_o conscience_n as_o contract_a sin_n and_o guilt_n and_o against_o her_o body_n in_o a_o violent_a cut_v the_o thread_n of_o her_o chief_a external_a felicity_n so_o much_o for_o this_o particular_a duty_n from_o the_o wife_n to_o the_o husband_n in_o the_o three_o place_n husband_n the_o three_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o the_o husband_n the_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n be_v to_o improve_v her_o spiritual_a ability_n to_o be_v helpful_a to_o he_o in_o the_o best_a thing_n for_o the_o good_a of_o his_o soul_n to_o stir_v he_o up_o to_o good_a duty_n when_o she_o take_v notice_n of_o any_o remissness_n and_o carnal_a security_n in_o he_o by_o sweet_a exhortation_n and_o holy_a conference_n she_o must_v labour_v to_o quicken_v he_o against_o a_o spiritual_a lethargy_n which_o if_o it_o seize_v on_o he_o will_v so_o becloud_v and_o benight_v his_o sense_n that_o he_o shall_v have_v neither_o head_n nor_o heart_n with_o any_o cheerfulness_n of_o spirit_n to_o walk_v with_o his_o god_n which_o if_o his_o wife_n discern_v he_o incline_v to_o but_o in_o a_o special_a manner_n captivate_v under_o she_o have_v need_n to_o bestir_v herself_o to_o salute_v he_o often_o with_o such_o text_n of_o scripture_n as_o these_o viz._n luk._n 9.62_o 1_o cor._n 9_o the_o late_a part_n of_o for_o 24._o phil._n 3.13_o 14._o rev._n 2.4_o and_o the_o begin_n of_o ver_fw-la 5._o rev._n 3.15_o 16._o luk._n 17.32_o ezek._n 18.24_o 26._o she_o must_v labour_v to_o stir_v he_o up_o to_o love_n and_o good_a work_n and_o therein_o follow_v the_o example_n of_o the_o shunamite_n 2_o king_n 4_o 9_o 10._o thou_o that_o be_v a_o wife_n read_v the_o place_n and_o follow_v the_o precept_n she_o must_v labour_v to_o strengthen_v her_o husband_n faith_n when_o he_o show_v most_o weakness_n after_o manoah_n have_v offer_v a_o sacrifice_n to_o god_n the_o angel_n of_o the_o lord_n do_v wonderful_o in_o the_o presence_n of_o he_o and_o his_o wife_n the_o good_a man_n faith_n begin_v to_o fail_v we_o shall_v die_v say_v he_o because_o we_o have_v see_v god_n want_n of_o faith_n be_v like_a to_o kill_v the_o poor_a man_n now_o his_o wife_n step_v in_o very_o opportune_o and_o labour_n to_o strengthen_v his_o faith_n if_o say_v she_o the_o lord_n will_v have_v kill_v we_o he_o will_v not_o have_v tell_v we_o these_o thing_n nor_o accept_v a_o sacrifice_n at_o our_o hand_n judg._n 13.20_o 22_o 23._o so_o she_o make_v good_a that_o place_n in_o eccl._n 4.9_o 10._o two_o be_v good_o than_o one_o for_o if_o one_o fall_v the_o other_o will_v lift_v up_o his_o fellow_n but_o woe_n be_v to_o he_o that_o be_v alone_o for_o he_o have_v not_o another_o to_o help_v he_o up_o true_o there_o be_v a_o marvellous_a sympathy_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o all_o condition_n i_o mean_v when_o they_o live_v and_o love_v together_o as_o man_n and_o wife_n one_o will_n labour_n to_o support_v another_o and_o one_o thing_n let_v i_o put_v thou_o on_o in_o a_o special_a manner_n that_o be_v be_v sure_a as_o thou_o do_v desire_v to_o improve_v thy_o gift_n and_o part_n for_o the_o good_a of_o thy_o husband_n soul_n that_o thou_o do_v never_o neglect_v to_o pray_v for_o he_o as_o aaron_n do_v bear_v the_o name_n of_o the_o child_n of_o israel_n before_o the_o lord_n on_o his_o two_o shoulder_n for_o a_o memorial_n exod._n 28.9_o 12._o so_o be_v thou_o sure_a to_o bear_v the_o remembrance_n of_o thy_o husband_n poor_a soul_n upon_o thy_o heart_n when_o thou_o be_v to_o appear_v before_o the_o lord_n in_o thy_o closet-worship_n that_o thou_o may_v prevail_v with_o god_n for_o a_o blessing_n for_o he_o that_o he_o may_v be_v heavenly_a and_o spiritual_a in_o all_o his_o deportment_n towards_o god_n and_o towards_o man●_n that_o in_o the_o strength_n of_o god_n grace_n he_o may_v be_v a_o selfe-denying_a and_o a_o selfe-mortifying_a christian_a that_o he_o may_v be_v furnish_v with_o

this_o that_o be_v if_o thou_o do_v neglect_v the_o performance_n of_o this_o duty_n of_o seek_v god_n by_o prayer_n for_o a_o good_a wife_n that_o except_o thou_o be_v afterward_o deep_o humble_v for_o this_o sin_n the_o marriage_n condition_n shall_v not_o be_v sanctify_v to_o thou_o and_o if_o not_o thou_o be_v better_v a_o thousand_o time_n not_o live_v in_o that_o estate_n of_o life_n for_o thou_o can_v not_o expect_v so_o much_o as_o one_o honey_n month_n as_o we_o say_v but_o many_o month_n and_o year_n of_o gall_n and_o wormwood_n we_o sometime_o advise_v our_o friend_n that_o they_o take_v heed_n they_o do_v not_o marry_v in_o haste_n lest_o they_o repent_v at_o leisure_n true_o they_o make_v too_o much_o haste_n to_o marry_v that_o forget_v much_o more_o slight_a seek_v god_n for_o direction_n and_o a_o blessing_n this_o way_n therefore_o they_o shall_v have_v cause_n enough_o to_o repent_v but_o god_n grant_v they_o may_v repent_v aright_o that_o the_o curse_n may_v be_v turn_v into_o a_o blessing_n we_o have_v do_v with_o the_o first_o mean_v we_o must_v use_v to_o obtain_v a_o good_a wife_n that_o be_v prayer_n the_o second_o mean_n to_o obtain_v this_o desirable_a blessing_n be_v to_o look_v at_o such_o thing_n in_o the_o choice_n of_o a_o wife_n which_o make_v she_o a_o good_a wife_n and_o a_o meet_a helper_n thou_o will_v say_v what_o thing_n be_v they_o or_o what_o particular_n that_o a_o man_n ought_v to_o look_v on_o in_o a_o woman_n as_o fit_v she_o to_o be_v a_o good_a wife_n and_o meet_v helper_n i_o answer_v there_o may_v be_v some_o thing_n inward_a and_o some_o thing_n outward_a make_v she_o such_o if_o she_o enjoy_v they_o or_o if_o not_o the_o contrary_a if_o it_o be_v demand_v what_o those_o inward_a qualification_n be_v that_o make_v a_o woman_n a_o meet_a helper_n wife_n the_o first_o qualification_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n i_o answer_v the_o first_o be_v grace_n or_o the_o manifestation_n of_o the_o true_a fear_n of_o god_n in_o the_o heart_n by_o the_o fruit_n of_o holiness_n in_o the_o life_n without_o this_o it_o be_v not_o possible_a that_o a_o woman_n can_v be_v a_o meet_a helper_n for_o if_o she_o be_v unable_a as_o a_o instrument_n to_o contribute_v something_o to_o make_v supply_n to_o the_o necessity_n of_o the_o best_a part_n of_o a_o man_n that_o be_v the_o soul_n how_o can_v she_o be_v a_o meet_a helper_n but_o a_o graceless_a wife_n be_v unable_a to_o contribute_v the_o least_o mite_n this_o way_n therefore_o she_o can_v be_v no_o meet_a helper_n be_v not_o say_v the_o apostle_n unequal_o yoke_v with_o infidel_n 2_o cor._n 6.14_o which_o in_o the_o verse_n follow_v he_o labour_v to_o amplify_v there_o can_v be_v no_o spiritual_a society_n between_o a_o gracious_a and_o ungracious_a spirit_n the_o apostle_n speak_v of_o marry_v in_o the_o lord_n the_o wife_n be_v bind_v by_o the_o law_n say_v the_o apostle_n as_o long_o as_o her_o husband_n live_v but_o if_o her_o husband_n be_v dead_a she_o be_v at_o liberty_n to_o marry_v who_o she_o will_v only_o in_o the_o lord_n 1_o cor._n 7.39_o and_o to_o be_v join_v in_o holy_a wedlock_n to_o a_o gracious_a person_n be_v to_o marry_v in_o the_o lord_n the_o apostle_n in_o labour_v to_o maintain_v his_o own_o and_o his_o fellow_n apostles_n privilege_n at_o large_a particularize_v he_o and_o their_o liberty_n to_o marry_v have_v we_o not_o power_n to_o lead_v about_o a_o sister_n a_o wife_n etc._n etc._n power_n they_o have_v to_o marry_v but_o his_o wife_n must_v be_v a_o sister_n 1_o cor._n 9.5_o in_o the_o old_a world_n it_o be_v one_o of_o the_o principal_a sin_n that_o do_v provoke_v god_n to_o drown_v the_o inhabitant_n thereof_o that_o the_o son_n of_o god_n and_o they_o be_v the_o godly_a man_n of_o that_o time_n do_v marry_v with_o the_o daughter_n of_o man_n that_o be_v ungodly_a person_n gen._n 6.2_o david_n tell_v we_o that_o all_o his_o delight_n be_v in_o the_o saint_n even_o in_o those_o that_o do_v excel_v in_o virtue_n psal_n 16.3_o it_o be_v the_o sin_n of_o solomon_n that_o he_o take_v idolatrous_a wife_n which_o be_v the_o cause_n of_o sad_a judgement_n spiritual_a and_o temporal_a on_o he_o his_o wife_n draw_v away_o his_o heart_n from_o god_n to_o their_o false_a god_n which_o be_v a_o spiritual_a judgement_n and_o for_o his_o idolatrous_a marriage_n and_o his_o idolatry_n god_n divide_v his_o kingdom_n and_o leave_v but_o a_o small_a fag_n of_o it_o to_o he_o in_o his_o son_n day_n which_o be_v a_o temporal_a judgement_n 1_o king_n 11._o to_o the_o end_n of_o the_o 11._o verse_n nay_o for_o his_o sin_n whereof_o ungodly_a marriage_n be_v a_o special_a one_o it_o have_v be_v disputable_a by_o many_o good_a divine_n whether_o he_o be_v save_v or_o not_o though_o the_o most_o orthodox_n do_v conclude_v affirmative_o and_o they_o ground_n their_o charity_n first_o upon_o that_o place_n neh._n 13.26_o where_o he_o be_v say_v to_o be_v belove_v of_o his_o god_n and_o who_o god_n love_v he_o love_v to_o the_o end_n joh._n 13.1_o their_o second_o ground_n be_v that_o he_o be_v a_o penman_n of_o scripture_n and_o such_o be_v call_v holy_a man_n of_o god_n 2_o pet._n 1._o ult_n from_o whence_o they_o conclude_v he_o can_v not_o perish_v for_o god_n will_v not_o damn_v holy_a one_o but_o we_o may_v safe_o conclude_v that_o this_o sin_n be_v very_o fearful_a samson_n must_v have_v his_o dalilah_n to_o dally_v with_o as_o a_o companion_n for_o his_o bed_n but_o it_o cost_v he_o the_o loss_n of_o his_o eye_n first_o and_o then_o of_o his_o life_n and_o limb_n he_o have_v a_o bad_a and_o sad_a portion_n with_o she_o by_o the_o way_n we_o may_v see_v they_o be_v much_o deceive_v that_o think_v it_o may_v be_v lawful_a for_o a_o godly_a man_n to_o marry_v with_o a_o profane_a wife_n even_o in_o hope_n to_o be_v a_o mean_n to_o convert_v she_o i_o grant_v that_o sometime_o it_o please_v god_n to_o honour_v the_o believe_a husband_n or_o believe_v wife_n to_o be_v a_o instrument_n to_o convert_v the_o unbeliever_n but_o for_o any_o to_o presume_v of_o this_o at_o the_o time_n of_o woo_v or_o wedding_n the_o party_n opposite_a to_o the_o way_n of_o god_n be_v a_o groundless_a presumption_n but_o be_v she_o tractable_a to_o good_a counsel_n and_o a_o diligent_a frequenter_a of_o the_o mean_n of_o grace_n there_o may_v be_v some_o foot_n for_o hope_n but_o if_o not_o fear_v have_v any_o society_n with_o she_o keep_v thyself_o at_o more_o than_o staff_n length_n from_o she_o for_o she_o be_v more_o like_a to_o pervert_v thou_o than_o thou_o be_v like_a to_o convert_v she_o solomon_n who_o we_o mention_v before_o 11.9_o 1_o king_n 11.9_o be_v better_o fence_v against_o the_o danger_n of_o such_o temptation_n than_o thou_o be_v for_o god_n have_v appear_v unto_o he_o twice_o which_o any_o good_a heart_n will_v have_v conclude_v will_v so_o have_v conjoin_v he_o to_o god_n and_o to_o his_o worship_n that_o he_o will_v never_o have_v make_v so_o much_o as_o a_o seeme-separation_n from_o god_n yet_o we_o see_v that_o in_o the_o day_n of_o his_o temptation_n he_o fall_v back_o and_o start_v from_o god_n like_o a_o break_a bow_n belove_a let_v i_o then_o tell_v thou_o that_o thou_o have_v no_o cause_n to_o presume_v of_o do_v such_o a_o person_n good_a who_o be_v averse_a from_o god_n but_o of_o fear_n of_o thy_o own_o steadfastness_n 21.25_o 1_o king_n 21.25_o evil_a wife_n do_v many_o time_n make_v good_a man_n bad_a but_o always_o bad_a man_n worse_o a_o very_a jade_n will_v draw_v more_o downhill_o than_o many_o good_a horse_n will_v be_v able_a to_o draw_v up_o again_o a_o carnal_a wife_n will_v draw_v a_o man_n further_o from_o god_n than_o many_o good_a christian_n with_o all_o their_o exhortation_n reproof_n and_o good_a counsel_n will_v be_v able_a to_o regain_v back_o belove_a it_o be_v then_o but_o need_n for_o thou_o to_o make_v grace_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n that_o thou_o may_v be_v guard_v against_o those_o danger_n thou_o be_v other_o wise_a like_a to_o be_v environ_v with_o even_o of_o be_v draw_v from_o god_n and_o the_o way_n of_o his_o grace_n second_o thou_o must_v make_v grace_n the_o object_n of_o thy_o love_n in_o regard_n of_o the_o help_v thou_o shall_v find_v by_o a_o woman_n of_o a_o gracious_a spirit_n to_o further_o thou_o in_o thy_o holy_a profession_n she_o will_v be_v a_o mean_n to_o rouse_v thou_o up_o against_o security_n and_o worldly_a mindedness_n she_o will_v be_v a_o mean_n of_o strengthen_v thy_o weak_a faith_n and_o to_o help_v thou_o against_o all_o diffidence_n and_o doubt_n judg._n 13.22_o 23._o she_o will_v be_v a_o mean_n to_o stir_v thou_o up_o