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A36905
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The mourning-ring, in memory of your departed friend ...
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Dunton, John, 1627 or 8-1676.
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Adam fallen my husband had not died But oh he 's dead and since nor tears nor sigh's nor groans nor cries have power to recall him it is therefore my duty and it shall be my care to express my love to him in the rites of his funeral Friends shall carry him neighbours shall attend on him and my tears shall embalm him The preacher shall be instructed in the vertue which adorned him that so he may commend them to others for their due imitation The hearers shall greedily attend to the praises of the dead and not only acknowledg their truth but contentedly wish like him to live and like him to die Now O now another storm approacheth in mine eyes for the company beginneth to approach my doors and my neighbours and my friends are hastening to my house But when they come let them not think to comfort me lest they add to my grief while they vainly strive to conquer my Passion I cannot allow an intermission or forbearance of Tears lest I should appear unnatural If I do not weep I I did not love O methinks I could willingly weep my self into a Statue that I might become his monument It is the height of injustice to forbid my Tears since the delight of mine Eyes is now to be carryed to the place of Oblivion Methinks every thing seemeth to call for a Tear which is the object of a Sense Those Bells which so mournfully accord in their Tunes invite my Neighbours to come to the Funeral yet not to appear with empty Eyes unless they come to learn how to weep These Herbs these Strewings which lately were fresh and at ease in their Beds are willing to lye even under the feet of these that will mourn And because they have no Eyes themselves to weep us a Tear they lye to receive what shall drop from the mourners These Sprigs of Rosemary do call to my remembrance with what joy and delight they pleased me at my Nuptials But lest I should forget the greater happiness of the marriage with the â—…amb even this Herb which served at our Wedding does attend at the Funeral O methinks these Spriggs have sad Rhetorick sitting on their leaves for those drops of Water which hang upon them were once the Blood of the fragrant Flowers and now are the Tears of the drooping Plants So ready were these Spriggs to come when I desired them that they slipped from their stems to attend these obsequies These exotick Perfumes which delight the sense are willing to be burned rather than the living shall be offended with the dead These sable Garments strike Terror into the Eye and command the spectator to lend us a Sigh And what other Lecture is read here or taught but God's decree of Man's Mortality The chief Speaker and Orator is he who hath now forgotten to speak for the locking up of his Senses the silence of his Tongue and the coldness of his pale and frozen Body have more force to prove the shortness of our Lives than the most Eloquent Strains of the best Rhetorician These Bells assure me that my Life is but a sound a noise an air These Perfumes tell me That it is but a Vapour These Herbs do teach me that Flesh is as Grass 1 Pet. 1. 24. And these Tears these early Tears which so suddenly arise when my Heart doth call teach me Mortality in their hasty falling And who can choose but weep for the shortness of our Lives Who can forbear a Tear at the Funeral of a Friend It was a curse inflicted upou the wicked Jews that they neither should be buried nor yet lamented They shall die of grievous deaths saith the Prophet they shall not be lamented neither shall they be buried but they shall be as dung upon the face of the earth and their carkasses shall be meat for the fowls of heaven and for the beasts of the earth Jer. 16. 4. Grace must and most willingly shall have the chief predominance but let Nature have likewise it s qualifyed Drops so they grow not immoderate Though my loss be the greatest to whom he was a Husband yet others may weep too to whom he was a Friend When Joseph went to bury his Father then all the servants of Pharaoh went with him and the Elders of his house and all the Elders of the Land of Egypt And all the house of Joseph and his Brethren and his Fathers House And they came to the Threshing-Floor of Arad and there they mourned with a great and vâ—…y sore lamentation and he made a mourning for his Father seven days Gen. 50. 7 8 10. When Lazarus was buried and the Jews saw Mary rise up hastily and go out they little imagined that she went to meet the Lord of Life but they followed her saying She goeth unto the Grave to weep there Jo. 11. 31. When her Brother Lazarus was dead she wept and her sister wept and her friends the Jews wept And when Christ did see them all thus weeping he was so far from blaming them that he wept himself ver 35. When Josiah was slain his servants took him out of the Chariot wherein he was wounded and put him in the second Chariot which he had and they brought him to Jerusalem And he died and was buried in one of the Sepulchres of his Fathers and all Judah and Jerusalem mourned for Josiah 2 Chron. 35. 24. When Samuel was dead all Israel lamented him and buried him in Ramah in his own City 1 Sam. 28. 3. When the old Prophet took up the Carkass of the Man of God who had been slain by a Lion he laid it upon the Ass and brought it back and came to the City to mourn and to bury him And he laid his Carkass in his own grave and they mourned over him saying Alas my Brother 1 Kings 13. 29 30. The Children of Israel wept for Moses in the Plain of Moab thirty days Deut. 34. 8. Though Samuel took his leave and departed from Saul and came no more to see him until the day of his death nevertheless Samuel mourned for Saul 1 Sam. 15. 35. Though Jephthah's Daughter had been dead and buried long before yet it was a custom in Israel that the Daughters of Israel went yearly to lament the Daughter of Jephthah the Gileadite four days in a year Jud. 11. 39 40. When Stephen was stoned devoâ—… Men carried hiâ—… to his burial and made great lamentation over him Acts 8. 2. When Hezekiah slept with his Fathers he was buried in the chiefest of the Sepulchres of the Sons of David and all Judah and the Inhabitants of Jerusalem did him honour at his Death 2 Chr. 32. 33. When Mary Magdalen stood weeping at the feet of my Saviour and did wash his Feet with Tears and wiped them with the hairs of her head and brought an Alabaster Box of Ointment and anointed him with the Ointment Luke 7. 37 38. He was so far from disliking it in her that he checked his
I musing in these pensive thoughts when I should rather prepare for the burial of the dead Have I taken a course for the place of his Rest where his cold body may be laid to sleep This is a duty which every age hath been careful to perform It was a greater argument of Jehojakim's fury against Uriah the Prophet that he cast his dead body into the graves of the common People than that he slew him with the Sword Jer. 26. 23. It hath also been a testimony of God's revenge when he suffered not the dead to have a decent interment If a Man beget an hundred Children saith the Preacher and live many years so that the days of his years be many and his Soul be not filled with good and also that he have no burial I say that an untimely birth is better than he Eccles. 6. 3. When the Man of God had disobeyed his command the old Prophet told him saying Thy Carcass shall not come into the Sepulcher of thy Fathers 1 King 13. 22. This Curse was accounted as full of dread as any that was sent upon the Sons of Men. But on the contrary Abijah the Prophet telleth the Wife of Jeroboam concerning her sick son Abijah saying Arise get thee to thine house and when thy feet enter into the city the Child shall die But all Israel shall mourn for him and bury him for he only of Jeroboam shall come to the Grave because in him there is found some good thing towards the Lord God of Israel in the house of Jeroboam 1 Kings 14. 12 13. Again when Huldah the Prophetess did foretell the destruction of Jerusalem but a respite thereof in the time of Josiah she told him saying Behold saith the Lord I will gather thee to thy Fathers and thou shalt be gathered into thy Grave in peace 2 Kings 22. 20. Thus hath it often discovered the wrath of the Almighty when the carkasses of the dead have been denyed their funerals and on the contrary it hath sometimes manifested his love when they have peaceably been brought to their longest home Burial is the last of duties which we owe unto our friends to which both religion and nature and civility do prompt us forward When Isaac being old and full of days did give up the Ghost and died and was gathered unto his people his two sons Esau and Jacob buried him Gen. 35. 29. When John the Baptist was beheaded in the prison his disciples came and took up the body and buried it Mat. 14. 12. The disciple that was willing to follow my Redeemer yet accounted it his duty to attend on the funeral of his deceased Father and therefore desired saying Lord suffer me first to go and bury my Father cap. 8. 21. Even the glutton in the Gospel had so much favour as to be brought to his Grave so saith the text The rich man also died and was buried Lu. 16. 22. It is then the duty of the living to provide even for the dead that they may be buried in peace But is it a matter of any moment in what place we lay the bodies of our deceased friends Is it not all one whether in the fields or whether in our Golgotha's No doubtless for even the laws of our land are so justly severe against Idolaters that we suffer not the convicted to be buried in our ground which is dedicated to this use Neither may they be permitted to mix with our dead who have desperately become the murderers of themselves but they lye in the roads where a stake is set up to give notice to passengers that they unnaturally hastened their own departure Is it a matter of some moment to us who are living that we lay our deceased friends in a place convenient for although it extendeth not to their knowledge yet it redoundeth to their honour But is it not all one in what part of the ground I bury my Husband so I lay his body in a place that is set apart for that purpose Surely no although it is equal to him yet is it not to me Although at the resurrection we shall meet again at what distance soever our Graves shall be made yet there is some reason we should be buried so near as we may that as our bodies were injoyned a mutual society in the time of life so they might also sleep together in the silent dust It is but just that one grave should receive the bodies of us for whom one bed was designed upon earth that as in our lives we were made one flesh so after our deaths we should make one lump When Barzillai was offered a favour from King David and wooed to spend his time at the Court he besought the King saying Let thy servant I pray thee turn back again that I may die in mine own city and be buried by the grave of my Father and of my Mother 2 Sam. 19. 37. Friends have ever desired to lye by friends that those especially who were knit together in blood affection might be joyned together in their earth and ashes In the Cave of Machpelah which Abraham bought of Ephron for four hundred shekels of silver was buried both himself and Sarah his wife Gen. 23. 16. There lay Isaac and Rebekah his wife cap. 49. 31. and there lay Leah and Jacob her husband chap. 50. 13. Though Saphira died by the judgment of God for the lye she had told yet when she fell dead at Peter's feet and yielded up the Ghost the young men came in and carried her forth and buried her by her Husband Act. 5. 10. It is therefore convenient that I choose a place for burial of my Husband where if so it may be I my self may be layed Convenient it is but not absolutely necessary for the souls shall not enjoy the less felicity for the remoter distance and separation of the bodies neither shall the bodies either be sensible of the disjunction or shall it retard their meeting at the general day Although the bones of Jacob were carried into the land of Canaan and buried in the câ—…ve of the field of Machpelah which Abraham bought according as he had made his son Joseph swear to him before his death Gen. 50. 13. 5. yet he had formerly buried his beloved Rachel in the way to Ephrah which is Bethlehem and there Jacob set a pillar upon her Grave which was called the pillar of Rachel's grave cap. 35. 19 20. Thus do I sit and muse about the burial of him whom so dearly I loved Yet methinks I could most readily preserve him from the dust if either it were in my power or might bring me content But go he must and I must follow him This narrow room of his coffin must be put in trust with his mouldring earth and he who in his life time was entertained with variety of spacious chambers must now securely sleep in the chamber of a Grave O how it grieveth me to see this effect of sin Had not