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A50088 The counsell and admonition of Henry Massingberd, Esq., to his children Massingberd, Henry. 1656 (1656) Wing M1044; ESTC R7677 141,779 251

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we are very apt to desire change and not to be content with a providentiall disposement as also to think our own and present condition to be very ill or the worst that may be prayer humility true devotion the uncertainty of life the certainty of death the mercy and justice of God with fervent and constant meditation and practice herein may by the mercy of God make an Eunuch for the kingdom of Heavens sake but if it be that it is better for thee to marry then to burn take along with thee these advisements from a Father which if thou well observe by Gods assistance therein thou maist doe well I cannot make them absolute for that there is nothing so bad but some I will praise thee for I am wonderfully made marvelous are thy works O Lord. Psal 139.14 All reason tell 's mee as the Creatures doe Wee haue a maker and redeemer too Though conquering time doth make mee rott Yet shall I liue when time is not Man is but chang'd for man and till his death Like changeing sand still changes for beneath good may be extracted from it not any thing so good but secundary causes may produce evill by it yet some things are so near the producing a necessity to evill that I wish thee take heed how thou touchest pitch least thou be defiled study what thou art and know what thou maist be before thou hast passed these ten Ages then suite the uncorrupted desires and appetites of thy soul in a woman before she be thy wise least after it be too late know well her nature inclination education parentage private devotion and ordinary imployment that after knowledge doe not trouble thee My first advice to thee is not to marry except thy best friends counsell and wish thee to it before twenty years of age in a woman and twenty five in a man about which time by Gods grace thou maist have a little knowledge of good and evill Secondly let not money beauty or friends be the greatest inducement to thy choice for these things all fade and so thy due affection may also fail but choose such a one as may cheerfully walk with thee in Christ to Christ and in that walk thou maist finde a true and lasting refreshment Thirdly be very circumspect how thou marriest one that before was married it may doe well but I can give no encouragement to it for it seemes as good for thee to make thy partner as for another to make thy house whereby we commonly avoid great losse but alwaies great hazard Fourthly it is good to choose equality in parentage and proportion in some reasonable measure and if greater then thy proportion in these be offered search narrowly least there be a Serpent in the grass least these adorne the Owner and not the Owner these Fiftly endeavour thy living in some wholesome ayre where by the blessing of God thou maist probably have health in thy family Sixtly let thy partner be of a strong and healthy habit of body for that a sickly constitution endangereth the losse both of estate and affection Seventhly having made thy choice and providence having therin determined and finished his appointment do thou as the admired Bee that takes honey out of sower herbs and let nothing be so bitter to thee that thou shouldest not convert it to some good use moving thee to true Christian contentment and do thou joyfully delight thy self in all the providences of God towards thee especially when thou seest his pleasure so fully determined and concluded hate all desire to change increase and nourish all good honest and contented inclinations and besure to subdue hate and and avoide all appearances of evill murmuring or dislike of thy choice and know that we are all here but in our journey the way of our pilgrymage which soe it leade to Heaven happy is that passage for the seas are rough through which we must saile to eternall Peace or not attaine it Now a word or two concerning chastity or continency because it is very difficult and must have a carefull and painefull guard for it is no easie matter wholly to resist nature which herein is strong and ardent but the more obstinate the enemy the more commendable the conquest To be truely chast out of due obedience to the commands of God is alike Vertue laudable in men as women Now because this is a violent passion and deceitfull we must arm our selves against it and be wary to discover its baits and the more it flattereth us the more to distrust it it would willingly imbrace us to strangle us pamper us with honey to glut us with gall Unchast incontinency hath many great inconveniencies and dangers it consumes the body and as some say effeminates the soul weakens the spirit and that many by giving way thereto have lost both lives fortunes and spirits and it doth appear true that there is more pleasure in vanquishing pleasure then in possessing it the best of earthly things oft breeds repentance but the worst alwayes There are many kindes and degrees of chastity continency and incontinency of which the conjugall continency is a chief and principall it must be kept and retained within the chast breast of that party whom almighty God hath disposed of in marriage for our companion and whosoever doth otherwise violates his or her own body by the Law of God which commands chastity therein by the Law of nature which forbids that to be common which is proper to one and imposes upon faith and constancy by the Law of nations and by the Law of Justice equity and right which if we violate and offend the justice of heaven must justly punish us Heb. 13.4 Whoremongers and adulterers God will judge Isa 65.21 And they shall build houses and inhabit them and they shall plant vineyards and eat the fruit of them Luk. 6.44 Every tree is known by his fruit for of thorns men doe not gather figgs nor of a bramble bush gather they grapes 1 Chron. 28.7 I will establish his Kingdome for ever if he be constant to doe my Commandements and my judgments 1 Sam. 2.3 The Lord is a God of knowledge and by him actions are weighed Matth. 5.44 45. But I say unto you love your enemies blesse them that curse you doe good to them that hate you and pray for them that dispightfully use you and persecute you that ye may be the children of your Father which is in Heaven for he maketh his Sunne to rise on the evill and on the good and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust Gal. 6.9 Let us not be weary of well doing Rev. 1.10 Be thou faithfull unto death and I will give thee the Crown of life 2 Pet. 1.5 Giving all diligence add to your faith vertue and to your vertue knowledge Ver. 6. To knowledge temporance to temporance patience to patience godlinesse Ver. 7. To godlinesse brotherly kindnesse to brotherly kindnesse charity Ver. 8. For if these be in you and abound they will make you that you shall neither be barren nor unfruitfull in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus
by Children and more oft in their vices then vertues by how much in humane things the bad exceeds the good therefore timely and diligent heed must be prepared against them that so the Cokatrice and subtill Serpent may be killed betime broken in the egg before it shew a deceitfull countenance lest the dissembling Wolfe having gotten a Sheeps cloathing deceive the innocent Lambs and bring them unawares into his slaughterhouse of destruction Nunc adhibe pure Pectore verba puer nunc te melioribus offer Quo semel est imbuta recens servabit odorem Testa diu Horat. Now Childe in the white paper of thy breast Write Vertue now such Precepts from the best A Pot well seasoned holds the primitive taste A long time after 2 Chron. 34.3 For while he was yet young he began to seek after the God of David his father Psal 119.9 Wherewithall shall a young man clense his way by taking heed thereto according to thy word Prov. 1.4 To give subtilty to the simple to the young man knowledge and discretion Prov. 3.6 In all thy wayes acknowledge him aad he shall direct thy pathes Psal 5.3 My voice shalt thou hear in the morning O Lord in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee and will look up Isa 45.13 I have raised him up in righteousnesse and I will direct all his wayes Jer. 10.23 O Lord I know that the way of man is not in himself it is not in man that walketh to direct his steps Psal 36.9 For with thee is the fountaine of life in thy light shall we see light Rev. 7.17 For the Lambe that is in the midst of the throne shall feed them and lead them unto living fountaines of water and God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes Phil. 4.8 If there be any vertue think of these things 2. Pet. 1.3 According to his Divine power he hath given to us all things that pertain to this life and godlinesse through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and vertue Ver. 5. Add to faith vertue and to vertue knowledge Ver. 6. To knowledge temperance and to temperance patience and to patience godlinesse and to godlinesse brotherly kindnesse Luk. 10.42 Mary hath chosen the good part which shall not be taken from her Luk. 10.42 Mary hath chosen the good part which shall not be taken from her Joh. 6.27 Labour not for the meat that perisheth but for that meat which endureth unto everlasting life Prov. 11.28 He that trusteth in his riches shall fall Matth. 23.6 The Scribes and Pharises love the uppermost rooms and chief seats Ver. 7. And greetings in the market-place and to be called of men Rabbi Ver. 12. Whosoever exalteth himself shall be abased and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted Matth. 25.48 But if the evill servant shall say in his heart my Lord delayes his coming Ver. 49. And shall begin to smite his fellow-servants and to eat and drink with the drunken the Lord of that servant shall cut him in sunder Rom. 7.23 But I see another Law in my members warring against the Law of my minde Neh. 9.37 They have dominion over our bodies and over our cattell at their pleasures and we are in great distrasse Prov. 12.21 There shall no evill happen to the just but the wicked shall be killed with mischief Eccl. 12.13 Fear God and keep his Commandements for this is the whole duty of man Eph. 5.19 Quench not the spirit Psal 119.16 I made haste and delayed not to keep thy Commandements Rev. 3.20 Behold I stand at the door and knock if any man hear my voice and open the door I will come in to him and will sup with him and he with me Prov. 1.24 25 26. But because I have called and ye refused I have stretched out my hand and no man regarded but ye have set at nought all my counsell and would none of my reproof I also will laugh at your calamity and mock when your fear cometh Prov. 4.7 Wisdome is the principall thing therefore get wisdome and with all thy gettings get understanding Eccl. 7.8 The patient in spirit is better then the proud in spirit 2 Cor. 11.2 For I am jealous over you with a a godly jealousie for I have espoused you to one husband that I may present you as a chast vergin to Christ Psal 51.12 O Lord uphold me with thy free spirit And 143.10 Teach me to doe thy will for thou art my God Thy spirit is good lead me into the land of uprightnesse Prov. 16.32 He that ruleth his spirit is better then he that taketh the City And 20.27 The spirit of a man is the candle of the Lord searching all the inward prrts of the blly Psal 22.20 The meek shall eat and be satisfied And 25.9 The meek will he guide in judgement and the meeke will he teach his way Phil. 2.8 And being found in fashion of a man he humbled himself and became obedient unto death even the death of the crosse Jer. 9.3 But they are not valiant for the truth upon the earth for they proceed from evill to evill and they know not me saith the Lord. Psal 60.12 Through God we will doe valiantly for he it is that shall tread down our enemies 1 Thes 5.6 Let us not sleep as doe others but let us watch and be sober And ver 8. Let us that be of the day be sober putting on the brest-plate of faith and love and for a helmet the hope of salvation Col. 4.6 Let your speech be alwayes with grace seasoned with salt that ye may know how you ought to answer every man Eccl. 10.10 Wisdome is profitable to direct And 9.16 Wisdome is better then strength And v. 18. Wisdome is better then weapons of warre but one sinner destroyeth much good INfancy and Childhood being passed like the red Sea and the wildernesse the next and third Age is called Youth like passing over Jordan and therein is temperance to be carefully planted This is a dangerous and a difficult passage and our guide herein must be supernaturall it is not humane light that can direct us in this way it must be a coal taken from the Altar and a Candle enlightned at the holy Lampe that must protect us in this voyage here we must take and endear unto us the living fountain of life to curb the threatning floods of death here Vertues shew your strength or vice will soon prevail and conquer here you must wage a war with Epicures and other vain professors that in vain glorious pastimes talk of Vertues and make them handmaids to their vitious pleasures whereas no true pleasure is without them for that is not Vertue which waiteth on delight the chiefest place is hers and she it is that must lead command and be obeyed Take great heed of being bond-slave to delight for all is vain where Vertue hath no place Vertue only giveth perpetuall and assured joy although there be some obstacles