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the_o way_n of_o the_o lord_n to_o do_v justice_n and_o judgement_n etc._n etc._n suitable_o to_o this_o example_n we_o find_v a_o general_a command_n give_v to_o the_o jew_n deut._n 4._o 9_o 10._o take_v heed_n to_o thyself_o and_o keep_v thy_o soul_n diligent_o lest_o thou_o forget_v the_o thing_n which_o thy_o eye_n have_v see_v and_o leave_v they_o depart_v from_o thy_o heart_n all_o the_o day_n of_o thy_o life_n but_o teach_v they_o thy_o son_n and_o thy_o son_n son_n especial_o the_o day_n that_o thou_o stand_v before_o the_o lord_n thy_o god_n in_o horeb_n etc._n etc._n to_o the_o same_o purpose_n we_o find_v a_o direction_n give_v they_o touch_v the_o passover_n ex._n 13._o 8._o thou_o shall_v show_v thy_o son_n in_o that_o day_n say_v this_o be_v do_v because_o of_o that_o which_o the_o lord_n do_v unto_o i_o
it_o will_v direct_v they_o when_o their_o neighbour_n or_o friend_n be_v overtake_v with_o a_o fault_n to_o restore_v he_o with_o the_o spirit_n of_o meekness_n it_o will_v make_v they_o not_o to_o seek_v their_o own_o thing_n only_o but_o likewise_o their_o neighbour_n good_a as_o well_o as_o their_o own_o it_o will_v not_o only_o restrain_v they_o from_o what_o be_v manifest_o evil_a but_o will_v also_o make_v they_o careful_a to_o avoid_v every_o appearance_n of_o it_o to_o shun_v the_o very_a thought_n and_o desire_n of_o wickedness_n it_o will_v cause_v they_o to_o be_v content_a with_o what_o god_n bestow_v upon_o they_o and_o not_o to_o envy_v other_o not_o to_o covet_v their_o good_n nor_o wrong_v they_o by_o word_n or_o deed_n and_o â—in_z a_o word_n the_o lively_a impression_n of_o religion_n will_v make_v they_o careful_a to_o keep_v their_o conscience_n void_a of_o offence_n both_o towards_o god_n and_o towards_o men._n now_o if_o these_o rule_n of_o our_o holy_a religion_n have_v their_o due_a influence_n on_o the_o mind_n of_o people_n what_o a_o bless_a and_o happy_a society_n will_v there_o be_v in_o the_o world_n how_o easy_a will_v every_o man_n be_v how_o well-pleased_n how_o safe_a and_o secure_a from_o hurt_n and_o danger_n how_o confident_a in_o his_o friend_n neighbour_n and_o acquaintance_n know_v and_o be_v well_o assure_v that_o they_o fear_v and_o love_n god_n and_o therefore_o will_v do_v no_o wrong_n as_o the_o consideration_n of_o these_o thing_n aught_o to_o make_v parent_n very_o careful_a to_o do_v all_o that_o ever_o they_o can_v towards_o the_o right_a education_n of_o their_o child_n so_o iâ—_n ought_v mighty_o to_o excite_v all_o christian_a ruler_n and_o governor_n to_o do_v their_o part_n in_o this_o matter_n particular_o to_o take_v care_n that_o there_o be_v school_n every_o where_o and_o that_o such_o person_n be_v choose_v to_o educate_v child_n at_o school_n as_o not_o only_o be_v skilful_a to_o teach_v they_o to_o read_v write_v etc._n etc._n but_o who_o may_v contribute_v likewise_o towards_o the_o season_n their_o mind_n with_o religious_a principle_n who_o will_v look_v upon_o it_o as_o one_o great_a part_n of_o their_o business_n to_o endeavour_v to_o possess_v they_o with_o the_o fear_n and_o love_n of_o god_n how_o worthy_a of_o christian_a magistrate_n be_v it_o also_o to_o take_v care_n that_o all_o school_n and_o college_n be_v visit_v often_o by_o fit_a person_n that_o the_o diligent_a may_v be_v encourage_v and_o that_o the_o remiss_a and_o negligent_a or_o the_o vicious_a and_o profane_a may_v be_v discourage_v by_o all_o just_a and_o lawful_a mean_n these_o thing_n can_v be_v look_v upon_o as_o foreign_a to_o the_o magistrate_n office_n if_o it_o be_v but_o due_o consider_v how_o much_o benefit_n come_v to_o the_o state_n by_o the_o good_a education_n of_o child_n and_o how_o much_o mischief_n come_v thereto_o by_o the_o neglect_n of_o their_o education_n 1._o of_o old_a the_o persian_n lacedaemonian_n cretan_n and_o other_o think_v it_o their_o interest_n to_o see_v to_o the_o right_a education_n of_o child_n they_o do_v not_o think_v it_o safe_a to_o leave_v so_o great_a a_o trust_n whole_o in_o the_o hand_n of_o parent_n who_o through_o partiality_n fondness_n or_o indiscretion_n may_v utter_o spoil_v they_o and_o thereby_o do_v unspeakable_a mischief_n to_o the_o state_n and_o no_o doubt_n till_o once_o all_o christian_a ruler_n and_o governor_n both_o in_o church_n and_o state_n make_v it_o more_o their_o business_n to_o see_v to_o the_o right_a education_n of_o child_n there_o be_v no_o great_a hope_n of_o ever_o see_v any_o considerable_a reformation_n in_o the_o world_n five_o if_o you_o neglect_v to_o do_v these_o thing_n for_o the_o soul_n of_o your_o child_n duty_n and_o leave_v they_o to_o themselves_o to_o do_v as_o they_o list_v than_o you_o may_v expect_v that_o their_o sin_n and_o folly_n their_o pride_n and_o passion_n their_o gluttony_n and_o drunkenness_n their_o curse_v and_o swear_v their_o lie_v and_o deceive_v their_o malice_n and_o revenge_n their_o chamber_a and_o wantonness_n their_o atheism_n and_o irreligion_n will_v not_o only_o prove_v tragical_a to_o they_o but_o occasion_n great_a uneasiness_n vexation_n and_o grief_n of_o mind_n to_o you_o prov._n 10._o 1._o a_o foolish_a son_n be_v a_o heaviness_n to_o his_o mother_n and_o chap._n 17._o 21._o he_o that_o beget_v a_o fool_n do_v it_o to_o his_o sorrow_n and_o the_o father_n of_o a_o fool_n have_v no_o joy_n it_o be_v true_a it_o be_v not_o in_o the_o power_n of_o parent_n to_o infuse_v good_a quality_n into_o the_o mind_n of_o their_o child_n some_o be_v so_o very_o perverse_a that_o all_o that_o can_v be_v say_v or_o do_v by_o parent_n be_v altogether_o slight_v and_o neglect_v by_o they_o we_o know_v that_o abraham_n have_v a_o ishmael_n as_o well_o as_o a_o isaac_n and_o isaac_n a_o esau_n as_o well_o as_o a_o jacob_n and_o jacob_n a_o reuben_n as_o 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effect_n of_o their_o own_o bad_a example_n by_o mean_n of_o their_o profane_a and_o graceless_a child_n as_o god_n do_v often_o visit_v the_o iniquity_n of_o the_o parent_n upon_o the_o child_n so_o when_o child_n be_v suffer_v to_o go_v on_o in_o their_o foolish_a and_o wicked_a course_n through_o the_o indiscreet_a gentleness_n and_o kindness_n of_o parent_n who_o perhaps_o be_v in_o other_o respect_v good_a people_n the_o lord_n do_v sometime_o punish_v such_o parent_n and_o bring_v temporal_a judgement_n upon_o they_o ely_n be_v a_o great_a instance_n of_o this_o 1_o sam._n 2._o and_o 22._o he_o hear_v all_o that_o his_o son_n do_v unto_o all_o israel_n which_o be_v thing_n of_o a_o very_a vile_a nature_n whereby_o as_o it_o be_v say_v chap._n 3._o and_o 13._o they_o make_v themselves_o vile_a that_o be_v hateful_a to_o god_n and_o base_a and_o contemptible_a to_o all_o the_o people_n by_o their_o lewd_a and_o abominable_a practice_n ely_n do_v reprove_v they_o but_o it_o be_v too_o cold_o and_o gentle_o chap._n 2._o 23_o 24_o and_o he_o say_v unto_o they_o why_o do_v you_o such_o thing_n for_o i_o hear_v of_o your_o evil_a deal_n by_o all_o this_o people_n nay_o my_o son_n for_o it_o be_v no_o good_a report_n that_o i_o hear_v you_o make_v the_o lord_n people_n to_o transgress_v beside_o his_o reproof_n he_o ought_v to_o have_v restrain_v they_o ch._n 3._o and_o 13._o as_o be_v high_a priest_n a_o judge_n and_o chief_a governor_n among_o the_o people_n he_o ought_v to_o have_v put_v they_o out_o of_o the_o priesthood_n as_o accurse_v person_n and_o execute_v the_o law_n of_o god_n against_o they_o which_o because_o he_o do_v not_o therefore_o god_n denounce_v very_o dreadful_a judgement_n against_o he_o by_o a_o prophet_n who_o he_o send_v unto_o he_o chap._n 2._o 31_o 3â—_n 33_o 34_o 36._o and_o chap._n 3._o 13_o 14._o and_o in_o chap._n 4._o we_o find_v his_o two_o son_n hophâ—â—_n and_o phineas_n be_v slay_v in_o battle_n by_o the_o philistine_n and_o the_o ark_n of_o god_n be_v take_v upon_o the_o news_n whereof_o the_o old_a man_n fall_v from_o off_o his_o seat_n backward_o and_o his_o neck_n break_v and_o he_o die_v we_o see_v likewise_o in_o david_n what_o be_v the_o effect_n of_o his_o too_o great_a indulgence_n to_o some_o of_o his_o child_n especial_o absalon_n and_o adonijah_n who_o not_o only_o wrought_v their_o own_o destruction_n but_o prove_v great_a cross_n to_o their_o age_a father_n here_o it_o will_v not_o be_v unfit_a to_o relate_v what_o st._n augustin_n tell_v we_o of_o the_o sad_a effect_n of_o leave_v a_o child_n to_o himself_o and_o not_o endeavour_v to_o educate_v he_o aright_o the_o story_n be_v this_o eremo_fw-la there_o be_v one_o cyril_n a_o citizen_n of_o hippo_n who_o have_v one_o only_o son_n be_v so_o fond_a of_o he_o that_o
consider_v that_o they_o be_v to_o be_v employ_v in_o the_o great_a the_o most_o painful_a and_o most_o dangerous_a work_n in_o the_o world_n and_o therefore_o 3_o dly_a they_o ought_v to_o do_v all_o that_o in_o they_o lie_v to_o fit_a and_o prepare_v such_o child_n that_o they_o may_v undertake_v this_o sacred_a employment_n as_o they_o ought_v to_o do_v more_o than_o ordinary_a care_n be_v to_o be_v take_v that_o their_o mind_n be_v furnish_v with_o good_a impression_n that_o they_o be_v inspire_v with_o a_o great_a love_n to_o god_n and_o with_o a_o mighty_a zeal_n for_o his_o honour_n and_o glory_n they_o must_v be_v daily_o train_v up_o in_o the_o practice_n of_o humility_n of_o meekness_n of_o patience_n of_o temperance_n of_o charity_n and_o of_o all_o other_o virtue_n and_o grace_n they_o must_v be_v keep_v from_o see_v and_o hear_v bad_a thing_n so_o far_o as_o may_v be_v their_o mind_n must_v be_v strong_o fortify_v against_o temptation_n and_o all_o that_o be_v possible_a must_v be_v do_v to_o keep_v they_o from_o the_o danger_n that_o come_v from_o evil_a company_n and_o corrupt_a example_n they_o must_v be_v entrust_v to_o the_o good_a conduct_n of_o excellent_a and_o worthy_a person_n by_o who_o mean_n they_o may_v be_v form_v to_o as_o high_a a_o sense_n of_o true_a piety_n as_o may_v be_v that_o so_o when_o they_o come_v abroad_o into_o the_o world_n their_o light_n may_v shine_v before_o other_o if_o parent_n who_o dedicate_v their_o child_n to_o the_o holy_a ministry_n will_v in_o this_o manner_n endeavour_v to_o act_v the_o part_n of_o man_n who_o have_v a_o lively_a sense_n of_o god_n upon_o their_o soul_n who_o be_v possess_v with_o a_o mighty_a zeal_n for_o his_o glory_n and_o be_v earnest_o desirous_a to_o promote_v the_o kingdom_n of_o jesus_n christ_n we_o may_v hope_v to_o see_v very_o speedy_o the_o bless_a effect_n of_o their_o pious_a endeavour_n religion_n will_v flourish_v more_o than_o it_o do_v at_o this_o day_n and_o impiety_n and_o irreligion_n will_v not_o so_o much_o triumph_n as_o alas_o they_o do_v second_o when_o they_o be_v fit_a for_o marriage_n marriage_n parent_n be_v so_o to_o dispose_v of_o they_o as_o that_o in_o all_o likelihood_n they_o may_v be_v happy_a in_o such_o a_o state_n of_o life_n erato_n they_o be_v not_o to_o constrain_v then_o to_o marry_v against_o their_o will_n for_o such_o marriage_n be_v seldom_o happy_a they_o end_v too_o often_o in_o somewhat_o or_o other_o very_a tragical_a and_o calamitous_a to_o one_o or_o other_o party_n if_o not_o to_o both_o great_a care_n be_v to_o be_v take_v that_o there_o be_v not_o too_o great_a inequality_n of_o outward_a state_n and_o condition_n for_o that_o occasion_n often_o neglect_v and_o contempt_n of_o the_o person_n that_o be_v inferior_a to_o the_o other_o in_o some_o external_n advantage_n nor_o yet_o too_o great_a inequality_n of_o year_n for_o that_o do_v likewise_o soon_o or_o late_a cause_n a_o abatement_n and_o decay_n and_o sometime_o a_o utter_a extinction_n of_o that_o respect_n and_o love_n which_o be_v necessary_a to_o make_v those_o who_o be_v marry_v happy_a parent_n be_v not_o in_o dispose_v of_o their_o child_n in_o marriage_n to_o govern_v themselves_o whole_o by_o their_o respect_n to_o riches_n and_o honour_n but_o be_v to_o have_v a_o regard_n to_o virtue_n and_o goodness_n so_o far_o as_o to_o prefer_v one_o who_o be_v discreet_a and_o wise_a of_o a_o virtuous_a and_o good_a disposition_n to_o another_o that_o be_v foolish_a or_o indiscreet_a and_o profane_a and_o atheistical_a though_o attend_v with_o great_a degree_n of_o wealth_n and_o earthly_a honour_n themistocle_n it_o be_v report_v of_o themistocles_n a_o famous_a athenian_a captain_n that_o when_o several_a young_a man_n come_v iâ—_n suit_n of_o his_o daughter_n he_o prefer_v one_o who_o be_v a_o wise_a and_o virtuous_a person_n to_o another_o that_o be_v very_o rich._n when_o some_o people_n wonder_v at_o this_o choice_n he_o tell_v they_o he_o have_v rather_o have_v a_o man_n without_o money_n than_o money_n without_o a_o man._n what_o a_o great_a reproach_n be_v it_o to_o our_o religion_n to_o think_v that_o so_o many_o parent_n in_o dispose_v of_o their_o child_n only_o consider_v how_o much_o wealth_n they_o may_v have_v and_o what_o friend_n and_o alliance_n they_o may_v make_v by_o marry_v into_o such_o a_o family_n or_o what_o profit_v and_o preferment_n may_v be_v expect_v thereby_o as_o for_o any_o other_o thing_n they_o do_v not_o much_o trouble_v their_o head_n about_o it_o they_o know_v no_o other_o happiness_n but_o in_o the_o thing_n of_o this_o life_n and_o therefore_o they_o seek_v nothing_o else_o for_o their_o child_n but_o to_o make_v they_o great_a and_o wealthy_a person_n by_o which_o mean_v it_o often_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o they_o bring_v their_o child_n into_o a_o most_o miserable_a and_o unhappy_a state_n of_o life_n in_o which_o they_o must_v pine_v away_o their_o day_n in_o sorrow_n 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