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A00415	Certaine godly and learned expositions vpon diuers parts of Scripture As they were preached, and afterwards more briefly penned by that vvorthy man of God, Maister George Estey, sometimes fellovve of Goneuill and Caius Colledge in Cambridge. Late preacher of the word of God in Saint Edmunds Burie.	Estey, George, 1560 or 61-1601.; Estey, George, 1560 or 61-1601. Most sweete and comfortable exposition, upon the tenne commaundements, and upon the 51. Psalme.	1603 (1603)	STC 10545; ESTC S101734	265,746	444

and things being alike I loue my selfe in greater measure Hetherto the summe of the second table which Christ commendeth in that hee saith it is like to the other 1 hard to be kept 2 necessary 3 profitable wherupon the former the Law and the Prophets doe depend that is are chiefly spent in setting downe the duties contained therein The commaundements themselues of the second Table follow requiring all duties of all sorts to men and these are of practise and act or of motion and first thought Practise or act signifieth such as are with consent and these are verse 12 13 14 15 16. whereof as the persons towards whom they must be practised are diuers so are the kinds The persons are superiors or betters and others Duties in respect of betters are commaunded verse 12. before the rest to shew that publique must be preferred before priuate The commaundement requiring these duties is the first with promise Ephe. 6 2 shewing some speciall regard that ought to be had thereof One may doubt howe this should be true since all commaundements if they be kept haue promise of life and againe seeing the second commaundement likewise hath promise of mercie to thousands c. But we are to aunswere that Paule in calling it the first he meaneth the first of the second table and the first which hath particuler promise the commaundements all and so the second haue a generall and indefinite promise This commaundement chargeth to honour Parents and forbiddeth the contrary It hath two parts the dutie the promise The dutie is honour thy father and thy mother The promise in the rest The dutie setteth out the parties and the thing The parties honouring to be honoured The partie honouring or who is to honour thou that is euery one as before noble as well as others great men as well as others So did Salomon honour his mother though hee were a King 1 Kings 2 19. so did Ioseph his parents hee beeing a great Prince This must be thought of for all practises of honor The parties to be honoured father mother Who signifie all other superiors whatsoeuer whom God thus calleth to teach all superiors to be affected to theyr inferiors as parents to children in which meaning the Romans called their chiefe men fathers and withall to teach inferiors in what kindnesse they are to performe dutie to wit as children doe to Parents But Christ forbiddeth Math 23 9 to call any man Father Auns Christes speech must be taken in his owne meaning Hee meaneth heere father in that sence it was vsed among the Pharisees and such as would be counted learned So else where dooth Christ speake fitting himselfe to the conceits of his hearers as Iohn 5 31 If I should beare witnes of my selfe my witnesse were not true That is if I were as you suppose mee to be So likewise Iohn 7 16 My doctrine is not mine that is as you take me to be a meere man c. After the same sort forbiddeth he to call father The Iewes and Pharisees vsed this as a swelling title being desirous to be called in Hebrew Abothemi that is our Fathers as the holy Father the Pope so the Romish priests are Prince c. 4 Then may superiors looke for all duties with a good hart when themselues performe theirs First among all are naturall parents Their duties are ioyntly 1 Before euer they haue children to endeauour themselues to be in the couenaunt of God that their chyldren so may be else are they butchers of their children before they be breeders out of Gods couenant better not to be Other parents one calleth parents of dirt Parents are in the couenaunt when they belieue in Christ and are baptised 2 They must mary in the Lord. Children in whoredome are branded with perpetuall infamie Those marry in the Lord when both professing true religion haue parents consent and holily doe consumate solemnize mariage wherein the children are begotten 3 Such children as God shall giue they must consecrate to the Lord as Hanna did Samuell it is like Eunica did Timotheus Especially God required the first borne 4 Asloone as may be conueniently they must procure them to be baptised in the presence of faithfull witnesses Esay 8 2. 5 All their life long they must giue their children good example As their childrens yeeres will beare they must bring thē vp in nurture and instruction of the Lord. Ephe 6 3. And first acquaint them with the grounds of truth necessary to saluation 1 at home 2 bringing them to publique assemblies 3 looking that they behaue themselues well there Secondly as soone as may be to breake them of theyr corrupt desires The neglect of this marred Ophni and Phineas Elies sonnes Adoniah Absolon Dauids sonnes Thirdly to invre them to doe things rather for to please God then for flattering or gifts Fourthly they must not make them too gay in coates but allow them conuenient diet and attire Fiftly at least let them learne to write and read 7 They must pray for their children 8 They must obserue their childrens dispositions and gifts and thereafter prepare them to such a kind of life and calling as they shall be fittest for Gods glory the common good taking heede of idlenesse and euill companie 9 They must haue a care in due time to prouide meete mariages for them In dooing all these as the fathers gifts are commonly the greater so the greater must his endeuour be But in any case this must be looked vnto that the parents be not deuided that that one doth both must doe one must not cocker against the other one neuer mar what the other maketh This is a common fault this way The mother she hath her peculiar 1 to nurse her owne child if well she may otherwise to get a godly wholsome and carefull nurse 2 to teach it at home in the tender yeres 3 to looke to the cleanlinesse and handsomnesse of it All these same things should others doe who are in the place of naturall parents Parents by spirituall office follow father and mother Father as before so was Paule to the Corinthians 1 4 5 to Timotheus 1 1 2 to Titus 1 3 to Philemon 19. Such an one is hee who is set ouer vs in the Lord enabled with gifts endeuouring the sauing of soules Whose labors if God blesse he is more then a father By fathers we be by such we blessedly shall be though it be GOD who is the chiefe worker Thus was Elias to Elizeus Elizeus to king Ioas. One who endeauoureth this way must be in sauing doctrine deliuering it easily to be vnderstood as particularlie as may be besides prayer and continuance in all Mother is the Church Gala 4 26 out of the which there is no saluation so that hee hath not God his father vvho hath not the Church his mother This is the Catholique Apostolique Church built vppon the Apostles and Prophets Aunsw Before I doe it I must out of

the word of God be perswaded of the lawfulnesse of it and not doe it doubtingly then is it sin 2 I must take heede of giuing scandall But what if searching to finde out the nature of the thing commaunded I cannot finde it out in the particuler as my Prince commaunding mee to assist the distressed King of Portugall I see no further into it Aun I thinke I not onely may but should be perswaded of the lawfulnesse of it In this case I take it rather to be the Commaunders fault if there be any then the obeyers The kinde of the thing heere mentioned is honor shewing all manner of due respect euery way in the highest degree Honour conteineth all other duties in it and is if wee should speake as it is praise-much increased and enlarged declared by all other tokens In this place according to the sundry parties to whom it belongeth it is diuers to all euerie it is as much as is due We may consider of it as generall or speciall Generall wee may call that which belongeth to all parents and this is manifold 1 To iudge that they ought to be honoured for that excellencie God hath put vpon them Rom 1 13. 2 To iudge them better then our selues in that behalfe Phil. 2.3 Rom 12 10. 3 Purpose to shew them honour in all things 4 Commendable shamefastnesse in their presence Iob 29 20 21 22 which ariseth from the conscience of our owne vnworthinesse in comparison of those who are our betters 5 Care in all things to hide their infirmities Gene 9 22 23 24. We see how that displeased God Infirmities should neither make vs shew lesse honor nor procure vs to tell them to others 6 We must pray for them and giue thankes 1 Tim. 2 2. 7 Shew all reuerent behauiour to bewray our inward reuerencing of them and to cause others so to doe and that according to the word of GOD and honest customes of our country as 1 to stand and not to sit Leuiticus 19 32. 2 to be vncouered 3 to be silent and forbeare noise 4 to giue honourable titles But what meaneth that Iob. 32 22. I may not giue titles least my Maker should take me away suddainly Aun It is meant of flattering and glosing titles Therefore mark how Sarah called her husband Lord Elizeus Elias father Ioas Elizeus and such like therefore were the children torne in peeces by Beares for calling bald-head 5 We must preuent their good desires as farre as we may know them and not stay to shewe dutie till it be demaunded 6 Countenaunce gesture gate attire c must be thereafter Speciall followeth and is particular or proper Particuler which agreeth to some but not to euery kind and partie Therefore to naturall parents gardians magistrates maisters pastors 1 Care to please euen the froward 2 obedience to theyr commaundements 3 to haue a care as wel what they think of vs as what they doe to vs 4 to yeelde to their corrections without aunswering againe 5 to relieue them in their wants Christ blameth such who vnder pretence to giue to the offerings of God gaue not to their parents it is true of others 6 Not to dispose of our selues in mariage without due respect of euery of them as the word of God requireth 7 when we are out of their iurisdiction to keepe an honorable conceipt and affection to them So did Hester 2 20. Proper honour remaineth which belongeth to some one kinde And first to the naturall parents belongeth the common and particuler honour in greater measure so as not onely he that striketh his father Exod 21 15 but also hee vvho curseth his father should die Exod 21 17. Looke Prou. 30 17. The Mother bare the father and shee brought vp beare their infirmities relieue theyr wants more then others To the spirituall father 1 Thess 5 13 to haue them in singuler loue for theyr workes sake Yea Gala 4 15 that they would haue beene contented to plucke out their own eyes c. This is called 1 Tim 5 17 double honour which Chrysostome vnderstandeth for reuerence and things necessarie for life I thinke wee should not be curious about the number Double signifieth much and great honour so the Spirit doubled or a double portion 2 Kings 2 9 signifieth very much as the first borne was to haue a double portion All this honour is that the Pastor may with more authoritie preach the word and that the people with more fruite might heare it The first is that the spirituall father may be without feare 1 Cor 16 10. which is to be deliuered from vnreasonable and captious men Second that hee who is taught in the word make him who taught him partaker of all his goods Gala 6 6 thus were the Leuits prouided for The third Rom 16 4 that they aduenture to maintaine the preachers though it be sometimes to endanger themselues The fourth not to receiue an occasion against them but vnder two or three witnesses 1 Tim 5 19. The fift to vse them more secretly in cases of conscience then we will others To our spirituall mother we owe 1 to iudge that shee is the keeper witnesser interpreter of the Scriptures that the authoritie of the Church hangeth vpon the scriptures the scriptures not vpon the Church 2 We must keepe the peace of the Church 3 We must not depart from the Church if it hold the foundation 4 We must duly reuerence the iust censures of the Church To the father of the country that is the Soueraigne 1 not to curse him in our thought nor in our bed-chamber 2 To take lawes and money of his making 3 to be armed at his commaundement To the inferior Magistrate to assist him for the execution of iustice All schollers of neuer so high or great place must yeelde all seemely dutie to theyr Teachers Wiues owe to theyr husbandes subiection Ephe 5 24 submission 22 as to the Lord this is comlie Colo 3 18 and is from that lawe Gene 3 16. in the generall honour which was spoken of before For indeed the wife is the glorie of the man 1 Cor 11 7 that is she ought to doe to her husbands glory rather then her owne and that in her attire and such things which while they are costlier or gayer then their husbands is to his dishonour if it be with neglect of his commaundement to the contrary with impayring his estate leesing his authoritie ouer her To the nurce we must not be vnkind Maisters must haue theyr honour of fidelitie and counsell-keeping Looke vpon Abrahams seruaunt Gene 24 Vpon Ioseph in Egypt before he was in prison when hee was in fauor with Pharaoh looke vpon Iacob with Laban Let old men haue theyr due of experience neuer to vpbraide them with the faultes of age Looke Iob 32 6 7. To them who excell vs in gifts this honour is due 1 that we in honest and plaine meaning acknowledge such gifts without hiding lessening deprauing 2 We must

deede but thought and desire So teacheth Christ Math 5 28 which is likewise to be vnderstood of a woman so as if shee do likewise desire to that end she doth offend if it be beside the owne husband or owne wife So as that a bodie may be free from touch and yet not chast Peter saith there be eyes full of adultery 2 Pet 2 14. Or it is The possession of ones vessell in holinesse and honour 1 Thess 4.4 Possession is continuall so keeping as Luke 21 19 by your patience possesse your soules be constant in patience so as that if one faile but once he leeseth the credite of continuance This continuance is to be thought of for the returning of desires for desires are at one time more stirred and stronger then at an other he that can forbeare in all stirring he possesseth if he yeeld not but resist the temptation Vessell all doe not vnderstand alike some take it for the whole body and euery part not much amisse for indeede the whole body must be chast It was well said by one It skilleth not in what part one be vncleane if he be vncleane Wherefore eyes hands c must be ordered Wee might stretch it though some-what further to the soule and so the whole person of man wherein in euerie power he must be cleane But submitting that which I shall say to be iudged by other I take it by vessell is meant that which honestly cannot be named and putteth difference betweene man and woman In which sence that place 1 Sam 21 5 is to be taken the vessels of the young men were holy for he had said before Women haue beene separate from vs these two or three dayes Where hee sheweth what it is to haue the young mens vessels holy that is separate from women This place the most learned Tremelius and Iunius haue interpreted amisse taking vessels for implements necessary for their iourney So speaketh Plautus in Paenulo I doe otherwise then adulterers taken in the deede dooing I come home with my vessels safe and sound They were wont who tooke them in the deede to cut of their priuities Vessell is the instrument of generation as the Canonists speake of vnnaturall venerie extra vasa Now it is thus called to teach vs to speake thinke honestly and chastly to forbeare all ribaldry and filthy speech This vessell must be possessed in holinesse This holines is in the pure vse of it euen in the presence of God where neither the person is defiled the dutie and instrument not abused by deed word looke thought c. Besides it must be in honour which is when we so vse our selues as that neither in our selues nor before others wee neede to be ashamed Sin in this kinde causeth shame instruments of this sin are likewise shame Now then as on our vncomely parts we put on more honor 1 Cor 12 23 that is let them neuer shew their vnseemlinesse but make them as handsome as we can so must we procure all things heere This chastitie is in single or married life Single life is whē one liueth alone without the other sex and this is in maidens or widdowes life Maiden or virgine life is before one is married Widowes life is after mariage when the husband or wife is dead Each of these is a pure forbearing of the act and motion or stirring to begetting Pure forbearing is that which is free from all pollutions Looke Ephe. 5 12. so as that we must haue continent eyes and lookes This chastitie in single life is not nor neuer can be without a speciall gift So saith Christ Math 19 11 12 Paule 1 Cor 7 37. So as that without this gift all vowes whatsoeuer are impossible in law and voide at the instant This gift is called continence is a speciall gift of God whereby one can liue without the need of other sexe to satisfie desire This gift 1 GOD onely giueth 2 it is rare all haue it not 3 it maketh vs not more acceptable to God 4 sometimes it is preferred before mariage chastitie Onely in respect of some afflictions that then were vpon the Church and for that sometimes the duties of marriage leaue not a maried partie so free from worldly cares as single life doth 5 It is not perpetuall hee that hath it may haue it taken from him afterward Chastitie in mariage life is the bed vndefiled Heb 13 4 in the lawfull vse of the maried companion Bed companie in maried parties one to other with themselues is no sinne though many corruptions creepe into it which it pleaseth God for Christ to forgiue Some cautions in this must be remembred 1 Call to mind what Moses hath Leuit 18 19 20 18. 2 To fast and pray they must forbeare 1 Cor 7 5 that is extraordinary and set solemne prayer vpon some great occasion els must they pray euery day 1 Pet 3 7. vppon extraordinarie occasion The bridegroome newly married must come out of his chamber and the bride out of her bride-chamber Ioel 2 16. 3 Parties must vse grauitie and modestie One saith a partie may commit adulterie with his or her maried companion He meaneth he may sin in want of grauity and modestie As if 1 Either partie be intemperate and vse mariage for brutish lust not for necessitie and child-procreation 2 Too much boldnes be before others This was Isaacks ouersight who though hee might doe that which hee did should not haue done it in other folkes sight Gene 26 8 therefore Gene 25 67 he tooke her into his mothers tent Marke that Sampson Iudg 15 1 would go into the chamber It is too much to vse open dalying with ones own companion too bad is the foule and filthy speech of some maried folkes speaking openly of the secrets of marriage Mariage is a lawful knitting together of one man and one woman in vndeuided societie for remedie of lust comfort of life bringing forth of children This knitting is the most neere that can be and hath full communion of all things betweene them so as that theyr bodies c are not their owne 1 Cor 7 4. Vndeuided societie is that which no cause but warrantable by the word of God can dissolue Lawful is that which is according to Gods lawes and the lawes of honestie Gods lawes require that mariage should be in the Lord. 1 Cor 7 39. That is in the Lord which is 1 betweene parties that do truly feare the Lord in pure religion It is not lawfull to marie an Idolater 2 Is in reuerence 3 Is with consent of parents that is of the necessitie not onely the honestie of marriage Parents must not be too hard or wilfull but what God will that ought they to will And this mariage must be but of one man and one onely woman Many husbands for one wife or many wiues for one husband are not allowable To haue many wiues was a sin in the Patriarches Mariage is dissolued according to the word

our owne soule and body Looke psal 139 13 14. and Iob 10 8 9 10 11 12. Thus much for duties professed in respect of the creation duties in respect of prouidence follow 1 That we acknowledge all things to be most wisely ruled by God 2 That he hath particular care of vs. 3 That the Angels watch about vs. 4 All the creatures shall worke for our good Iob 5 22 23. 5 Be contented with whatsoeuer God doth 6 Vse not the name of fortune lucke chaunce 7 Tempt not God by neglect of meanes 8 Remember Iam 4 15. Hetherto touching God essentially now followeth of him personally Whatsoeuer is said of God in generall in this Creede or in the scriptures is true of euery person the Father onely is not Creator and almighty but so likewise is the Sonne and holy Ghost It may be obiected that the Sonne doth nothing of him selfe Aun True not without the Father but all with the Father 2 Not in the sence the Iewes conceiued of him taking him for a bare man so he doth nothing Que. Why are these ascribed to the Father Aun Onely for order Of God personally it is said that he is Father Sonne holy Ghost First is Father Father is a name that cannot be vnderstood without respect to child or sonne God is father of a sonne who is GOD or of sonnes who are men To vnderstand God the father of a sonne who is God somewhat must be touched concerning the misterie of the Trinitie There is as was said before but one God There are 3. persons Father Sonne holy Ghost A person is a manner of beeing in the God-head distinguished by an incommunicable propertie The persons be coequall and coeternall The Father is of none The Sonne is begotten of the Father The holy Ghost proceedeth frō the Father and the Son The Sonne may be considered as not incarnate and nowe incarnate Not incarnate he was called the Word incarnat the sonne of man In respect of his person and manhood hee is the Sonne of God To vnderstand God the Father of sonnes who are men somewhat must be touched concerning the mistery of our redemption and adoption Of mankinde which might haue perished by the fall of Adam it pleased God in Christ to adopt and make some to be sonnes vnto himselfe Ephe 1 5 Iohn 1 12. Que It may be demaunded whether wee must belieue in God the Father of Christ or our father or both Aun Both. So saith Christ your father my father Praying himselfe calleth father and teacheth vs so to pray Our Father Let vs then consider the grounds of scriptures the meaning of this article and what we doe therein professe But because there be two branches implied first consider of the first then of the latter And that wee ought to belieue in the father of our Lord Iesus Christ it appeareth for that God himselfe maketh himselfe knowne by that name Math 3 17 Luke 3 22 Heb 1 5. He is praysed vnder that title 2 Cor. 1 3 Ephe 1 3. Christ promiseth Iohn 14 23. Is prayed vnto Ephe 3 14. The meaning heereof is that I acknowledge to belieue in that God who is the Father of our Lord Iesus Christ And heereby doe disavow all Turkish Iewish doctrine which holdeth not the doctrine of the blessed Trinitie Now for belieuing in God who is my Father God promiseth himselfe so to be 2 Cor 6 18 Iere 31 1 more particularly Exod 4 22 23. God commaundeth so to be called vpon Iere 3 19. And findeth fault that any other should be so called Iere 2 27 Math 23 9. Christ himselfe applyeth this name Math 6 8 14 15 18 and that very particularly Math 6 18. Thus did the godly Esay 63 162 So are we taught Mat 6 6. Luke 11 2. I meane then that I know the doctrine of adoption am perswaded that it belongeth to me I know it when I know whence I am redeemed namelie from misery for whom I am adopted namely for Christ how I am assured heereof to wit by faith I professe in this branch 1 To make more account of this that God is my father in Christ then of all thinges in the world beside 2 To looke for all fauours from God as a Father beeing now made a sonne of his The first fauour is Gods sparing as a father is wont to doe Mala 3 17. This is in 1 not imputing faults 2 not inflicting punishments 3 moderatly and gently chastising 4 in taking in good worth the weakenes and vnperfectnes of our obedience Hence must needes arise great peace of conscience and ioy in the holy Ghost The second is the Spirit of adoption whereby wee crie Abba father This Spirit 1 hath boldnes to come into the presence of God 2 Ability or gift to poure forth prayers and desires and prayses 3 Perswasion that al are heard and accepted of God The third is his care to prouide things necessary for vs 2 Cor 12 14 Math 6 32 Psal 23 From hence we haue that 1 which is enough 2 Where-with wee are contented 3 That which God blesseth as the womans oyle the Iewes apparell The fourth is his defence of vs. Keeping vs from euill Deliuering out of euill The fift title to the creatures which we lost by the fall of Adam The sixt certainty of inheritance in heauen All mens children are not heires but Gods are and fellow heires with Iesus Christ 3 I professe to performe all duties to God as a child to a father For there is no benefit but requireth a duty All the duties which wee owe to God or can performe are honour Exod 20 3 Mal 1 6. This honour may be considered in respect of God our selues and others In respect of God we ought 1 To acknowledge this our being sonnes is meerely of grace 2 To seeke to God in all our wants 3 To thanke him for all fauours 4 To take all his instruction 5 To obey his commaundements 6 At his corrections to acknowledge our faults and amend In respect of our selues remember whence we came into this fauour to carry our selues humbly all the time of our liues In respect of others who are without and haue not yet giuen their names to Christ wee must doe nothing to the shaming of our house and father but all things to his glorie Who are of the Church all of vs hauing one father to be one to other brother and sister Hitherto of the first person the second followeth to I beleeue in the holy Ghost For the doctrine touching the second person wee may speake of it ioyned with the former and in it selfe It is ioyned with this word and. And sheweth that it goeth with the rest and in this order It goeth with the rest as may appeare euery where in scripture so as that it is not enough to beleeue in the former The order is that it followeth the former not for any vnworthines it hath in respect of the former but for that somwhat must