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A68859 Holsome and catholyke doctryne concerninge the seuen Sacramentes of Chrystes Church expedient to be knowen of all men, set forth in maner of shorte sermons to bee made to the people, / by the reuerend father in God. Thomas byshop of Lincolne. Anno. 1558. Mense Februarij. Watson, Thomas, 1513-1584. 1558 (1558) STC 25112.5; ESTC S100033 209,288 398

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is not onelye expressed in the wrytinges of the holy Prophetes and in the old lawe of Moyses whyche was the fygure declaryng what ought to be done in the new testament where ryghtwisnes doth and ought more to abound than it did in the Scrybes and Pharisyes and yet in this point concerninge the lyuinge of the ministers it was not a bare ceremonye shadowinge a truthe to come nor yet onelye iudiciall perteyninge onelye to the gouernement of the cyuyle state of that people of the Iewes whiche is nowe dissolued but did instructe men how they should behaue theim selues in that behalfe to God and their neighbour whiche ought to take place be obserued aswel now amonges vs in the newe Testament as amonges them in the old but also is declared to be due to be payed of Christen people nowe in the time of the newe testament by the consente of Christes vniuersall Churche as well by the testimonye of the holye Fathers and the vniuersall custome of the sayde Churche euer since the time that anye Realme was holly conuerted to the fayth of Chryste as by the determinacion of generall counsell The consent and iudgement of whom our Sauioure christ hath taught to be obserued in all doubtes as a sure argumente of the vndoubted truthe and a sure pyller for euerye Christē man to leane vnto And as the withdrawinge or not payinge of this duetie of tythes from God that hathe reserued the same in token of hys vniuersall dominion to thintent men should learne to feare hym at al tymes is verye sacrilege and the contempt of God and his true religion so is it the cause of darth and famyn and many other plages which by Gods iuste iudgemente fall vpon the people therfore lyke as the honouringe of God and hys ministers in this point and the true paymente of the same is the cause that God dothe blysse hys people in sendinge vnto them aboundaunce and plentye in all corporal and spiritual benediction For which cause I shal most hartely require you to consider what I haue saied concerninge your duetie to God and the ministers of hys Churche in louing obeying and honouring thē whiche I speake not for their glory or gayne worldly but for your profyt discharging my selfe in declaring vnto you the wyll and commaundement of God in thys behalfe to thintent ye might auoide his high displeasure for doynge the contrary and on the other side obteyne the aboundaunce of hys grace and blessing like obedient seruauntes and thankful children whom he shall at the last day rewarde with the fruition of his glory throughe the merytes and mercy of his onelye sonne our Sauiour Iesus Christ to whom with the father and the holy ghost be all honour and glorye world without end Amen ¶ Of the Sacrament of Matrimonye and what grace is geuen in it Ser. xxvii AFter that almightye GOD oure Lorde good people had created and made the first man Adam and had placed him in Paradyse he by and by coupled and ioyned vnto him in mariage a woman created of hys owne fleshe and bone wherby appeareth that matrimonye is the elder and more auncyent than al the other Sacramentes and instituted by God hym selfe before the fall of man for good and necessarye causes As for the ayde and comforte of man both in their common lyfe together and also for multiplication of mankynd and the Godlye bringinge vp of theyr children it beinge prepared and ordeyned of almighty God to be a meane and instrument for lawfull generation betwene theym and perpetuall continuaunce of mankynde to the worldes end For whiche purpose almightye God when he had ioyned them in mariage together he blessed them wyth hys holy worde sayinge to them Increase you and be you multiplyed and fulfyll the earth Furthermore almyghtye GOD to whome nothing is vnknowen but al thinges both past present and to come be presētly before his eyes foreseinge that man woulde be deceyued by the crafte of the Deuyll and fall from that rightewisenes whiche he had created him in and that as he woulde by his owne free wyl disobey God his superiour so hys fleshe and carnall desyre should by Gods iust iudgement likewyse disobey him therfore he ordeined Matrimony that as it should be to man and woman before their fall a meane of that generation and multiplyeng of Gods people so it should be also after their fal a remedye to excuse the vnlawfull desyre of theyr sinful fleshe Last of all almightie God foreseinge the bondage and damnation of mankynde for hys dysobedience to God and of his infynite mercye purposing to redeme mankynd againe from the said bondage and damnation by sendinge hys onelye begotten sonne to be made man and in our flesh to regenerate vs and to restore vs to be the louinge children of God againe therfore to teache vs this his good wyll purpose that we should by faith continually knowe his godlye counsell concerninge our redemption and regeneratyon he ordeined and instituted this lawfull cōiunction of man and woman in Matrimonye to be a signe or Sacrament of the mariage betwene his onelye sonne the lambe of God oure Sauioure Christ and his spouse the holy Churche Wherof Saint Paule wrote to the Ephesyanes sayinge thus For this cause a man shall forsake hys Father and mother and cleaue vnto hys wyfe and they shall be two in one fleshe For this Sacrament is great I say in Christ and in the church and for the better vnderstandinge of this thing ye maye consider that GOD in the beginninge made twoo merueylous coniunctyons in man One betwene the soule of manne and his fleshe and thys coniunctyon is naturall the other betwene manne and woman in maryage and thys coniunction is voluntarye and Sacramentall euen so there bee twoo merueilous cōiunctyons betwene Chryste and the nature of man the one lyke the coniunction betwene mannes soule and hys fleshe which is when the worde was made fleshe that is to say when Gods sonne in his incarnation dyd ioyne oure mortall nature to hys Godly nature in vnitie of persone The other is lyke the coniunctyon betwene manne and wyfe whyche is made by voluntarye loue betwene Christ and his Church that is to saye that companye or congregation of all Christen people redemed sanctifyed and nouryshed by Chrystes precious bloude And of thys coniunction Matrymonye is an holye Sacrament For as by the vse of Matrymony are borne and broughte forthe into the world naturall children so by the vertue of thys maryage betwene Christ and his spouse the Churche are daylye begotten to GOD spyrytuall chyldren And as GOD made vnto Adam oure forefather a wyfe of a rybbe taken oute of hys syde when he was cast into a slepe euen so by the bloud and water that ranne foorth of Chrystes syde when he sleped by death vpon the crosse was the Church of Christ maried vnto hym and made his spouse to cleaue vnto him as one fleshe
they be the substaunce of the holy spirit of god but that they be wrought in oure soules by his motion inspiration spiritual vnction do make that man a spirituall godly man that hath them vseth thē Now for what intent the holy ghost doth geue thē to a man that is confirmed you shal plainly perceiue if ye will consider the maner order of the deuils tentation in vs. There be vii capital vices called deadly sinnes from which as frō seuē welles or fountaynes all other vices corruptions of the soule do spring procede These be the nets and snares that the deuil laieth to intrappe and catche a man in And considring that he is so mighty being the prynce of darknes so malitious neuer ceasinge to deuoure vs and so crafty knowing in what point we are most weake to withstand being practised fro the beginning of the world in such feats he wyll not fayle to intangle vs with these vices his snares except we haue the assistāce ayde of gods holy spirit to helpe vs be vigilāt our selues to take hede to our fete with faith praier put awai his darts And because we be weak of our selfes not able to match and ouercome this our mighty crafty enemy therfore the holy spirit of god our tutour defēdour being of more strēgth thā the deuil is hath armed vs w t seuen other giftes contrary to the deuils seuen snares or dartes hath also bound him that he shal not tēpt vs further than we being thus armed aided be able to withstand And because these his vii gifts be as it wer the sedes of godly liuing sowē in the groūd of our harts he causeth out of thē other seuē vertues to grow wher by a mā is made able not onely to auoyd the seuen snares of the deuill but also is inwardelye beautified inriched made an happy man for which cause these vertues be called beatitudes And in case a mā lose these gifts vertues our sauior Christ hath taught vs a mean to recouer thē again whiche is praier for that euery man is not of that wisedō learning as he can perticulerly in proper termes aske that he nedeth therfore hath he taught vs one forme of praier cōteining seuē petitiōs wherof euery one of thē is directed in order to the asking atteining of one of the foresaid seuē giftes vertues Thus are we euery way on gods part prouided for sufficiētly may easely ouercome the deuil our enemy if we list to take pain fight as our duetie to almighty god regard to our soules health do require And that ye maye the better vnderstand this that I haue spoken in general I shall by gods help for your edyfying declare shortly perticularly how euery vyce is ouercōmed wyth the contrary gift of the holy ghoste And firste to begin at pryde which is the roote and beginning of all synne the mother of death and misery and the verye cause why the deuyll was expelled out of heauen and man out of Paradyse ye maye consyder that the deuyll by pryde laboureth to take god from vs whom we are most bounde to loue and serue and dayly tempteth vs eyther to thynke and esteme that good qualitie which we haue to come of our selfe and not of god or elles that it is not freely geuen but fullye deserued of our party or els to boast our selues to haue that wee haue not or els to despise other and to labor to appeare synguler or els by one meanes or other he prouoketh vs to contemne god not to regard our state and condition By this dart he laboureth to wounde our soules agaynste the whyche the holy ghoste hath armed vs wyth his gift of the feare of god not only with the seruile feare of the paynes of hell whiche is the begynninge of wisedome and goeth away at his comminge by charitie but also with the reuerente chaste feare of gods maiestye and goodnes that remayneth for euer whereby a manne forbeareth to offend God and is careful to please and serue God as the wyse manne counselleth saying Sonne when thou commest to gods seruice stand in feare prepare thy soule to tentatyon This feare of God is the roote and keper of all religion in which except a mā kepe him self stedfaste the house of vertues builded in his soule wil soone decaye and come to ruine And it is geuen vs by the holy ghost as a present remedye against pride as S. Paule saith Noli altū sapere sed time be not proude hye minded but feare For by feare a man is awaked out of the slepe of negligence his cōscience is examined if any fault be done he is made careful for his life present desirous of the life to come Out of this roote of feare springeth the godly floure of humilitye whiche is called pouertie in spirite whereby a man geueth god the glorye of that vertue he is indued withal and is himself content wyth the fruite of the same and is estemed but litle in his owne sight be he neuer so hye in knowledge an● dignitie and putteth his trust and glory neither in him self his strength his vertues his works or his riches nor yet in no other creature but in his lord God alone and is therfore made moost happy and put in sure hope to attayne Chrystes promise of the kingedome of heauen And if he shal perceiue by his negligence these two giftes of feare and humility to be diminished or decaied in him than let him streight runne to praier and aske them of God in the first peticion of hys Pater noster which is halowed be thy name Wherein he asketh that he maye in al thinges gloryfye gods name by humility and not his owne name by pryde acknowledging al goodnesse to procede from God and labouringe to honor hym by hys good life The second dart of the deuil is enuy for of pryde groweth enuye and as he by pryde robbed man of the loue of god so by enuy he robbeth man of the loue of his neyghbour and alwaies tempteth man to beare gall in hys harte and poyson in his tonge to reioice at the aduersitie of his neighbour and to be sory at his prosperitie to wishe his neighbour euill and to speake euil of him behind his back Against this dart of the deuil the holy ghost hath armed vs with the gift of pity wherby we be armed and instructed to haue compassion of our neighbours aduersity to beare the infirmities of other to wish well to al men for gods cause to procure as much as we can their commodity preferment and with deuout affectiō to honour to do our dueties next god to our parentes to our countrey to our princes to our masters to our children and familye to our neighbors all be they frendes or enemies that is
of the holy ghoste teaching them to obserue al thinges what so euer I haue commaunded you and I shal be with you al daies to the ende of the worlde And as concerninge the purgation of Gods people a Priest hath authoritie to remyt synne as a minister in the name and power of the holy Trinitie both to them that first enter into the churche by ministring to them the Sacrament of Baptisme and also to thē that after Baptisme haue fallen vnto synne agayne by ministring to them the Sacrament of Penaunce The commaundementes of God whereby euery Priest is authorised to baptise and to remitte synnes to the penitent synners I haue here tofore in this sermon sufficientlye declared And as concernynge the perfection of the Churche of Christ and euerye member thereof God hathe geuen to Priestes authoritie to pray ouer sicke persones and to anoynte theim with oyle in his name to the remission of their synnes and the saluation of the sycke according to Gods pleasure and also to ioyne those persones in Matrimonye that marye in Christe And bishoppes also who in the order of priesthoode as the successours of the Apostles haue hier dignitie and distinct offices and aucthoritie aboue other inferiour Priestes for the perfectiō of the people in Christes Religion haue power to geue the holy Ghoste for the confirmation of them that be baptised and by impositiō of their handes to ordeyne Priestes and other ministers of Gods holye woorde and Sacramentes And further for purgyng of Christes misticall bodye the churche from all errours Scismes disobediencies and vngodly lyuynge Bishoppes haue power to vse spirituall and ordinarie iurisdiction as to cal synodes for reformation and good order to be made in the church to visit their diocesanes that neyther by tyrannye nor by heresye nor yet by the subtile craft of the deuyll the flocke of Christe be dispersed or distroyed to correct by excōmunication and other discipline the publike crimes of such as be manifestly accused denounced or found giltie obstinate by diligēt inquisition to examine and determine the causes and enormities whiche arise or may chaunce in the Churche of Christe and finallye to dooe what shall be thought necessarye and expedient for the banishing of vice and errour and the stablishing of vertue true fayth and godly vnitie For that power whiche God hath geuen vnto theym is onelye to builde and not to destroye whiche power is honorable and to bee estemed and obeyed in all Byshoppes and Priestes bee they of good lyuinge or noughty liuyng For the lyfe of an euill Prieste or Bishoppe is no hinderaunce nor preiudice to the effect and vertue of Gods Sacramentes whiche they truelye minister no more than the euyll lyfe of a Phisician hindreth the vertue and operation of a good medicine Therefore good people knowynge the necessitie and commoditie which commeth to vs by this Sacrament of Order for our instruction sanctification and finall saluation Let vs geue moste hie thankes to almightie God that hath geuen suche power to men and by thexecution of that power and the distinct degrees and seuerall functions of this sacrament of Order hath auoyded all confusion oute of his churche that it myght appeare beautyfull and glorious in his sight and let euery person take heede that he neither breake nor contemne this ordinaunce of God and so be occasion of corruptinge Gods truth and disturbyng his peace vnitie whiche by this onely order is kept preserued But in all our prayers let vs humbly make supplicatiō that God of his mercifull goodnes would preserue his churche continually in this good order without disturbaūce and that euery minister in his degree might studie and labour in the law of GOD to bee and dooe as his office requyreth seeking the buylding of Christes Churche and not the onelye increase of his worldly gayne as becōmeth the seruauntes of God being boundē to geue an accompt of that is cōmitted to their charge to the laude and prayse of Christe who with the father and the holy ghost liueth and reigneth in vnitie of Godhead for euermore worlde withoute end Amen ⸫ ¶ In what estimation the Prelates and other ministers in Christes churche ought to be had of the people Serm. xxvi FOr as muche as the Prelates ministers of Christes church good people bee ordeyned of God to bee Iudges ouer hys people in suche thinges as apperteine to the saluatiō of their soules and also to be their gouernours and rulers in all true Religion and thyrdlye to bee their ghostlye and spirituall fathers to beget children to God by the worde of Christe and the preaching of the Gospell Therfore consideryng that almighty God doth so honoure them and doeth so allowe and assiste their ministration in geuyng to them being frail and mortall menne suche power as no other creature hathe at anye tyme receyued and all for the buyldynge perfection and finall saluation of his Churche hys electe and chosen people Therefore I saye it is commaunded to all men and women that bee of the flocke of Christe to loue and to obeye and to honoure those ministers of Christ in suche sorte as the nature and woorthynesse of theyr offyce and ministration dooeth requyre For so Saynte Paule taught the Thessalonians saiynge thus we beseche you brethren that you woulde knowe them that laboure amonge you that is to saye in knowledgyng what benefites we haue of God by their labour and seruice who also bee the rulers and gouernours ouer you in our Lorde and do admonyshe you in all goodnesse as it were executing Christes office amongest you that ye wold haue them in hiest pryce and estimation by syncere loue and charitie more aboundantlye than other and that for theyr woorke and office sake hauing peace with them without vsing any disobedience contention or disdaine towardes thē By this exhortation of the blessed Apostle Saynte Paule may all men and women learne what loue they oughte to beare towardes the ministers of almyghtye God whiche oughte to be in the best sorte not onelye for the worthynesse and vertues of the persones whiche is a cause making all menne to be loued and fauoured the more but speciallye for their office and labour sake and for suche benefites as by their seruice and ministerye menne receyue at Gods hande For they be not onelye oure neighbours whome for that respecte wee oughte to loue as our selues but also they bee the causes of oure spirituall lyfe by theim wee are made Christen men by theim we haue the true knowledge of God remission of our sinnes participatiō with Christe in the vnitie of his misticall bodye the Churche into whiche body we are grafted and made lyuing members to bring forth the fruite of holynes and good woorkes by them we haue geuen vnto vs the holy ghost not onelye to oure sanctificatiō but also to our boldnes strength whereby we bee made able to withstande oure aduersarye the deuill and to ouercome
remedy in this case is easyer than in the other before whiche is this that the man must chaunge his minde and consent in his harte to take that woman to hys wife as he saied before that he did and the woman likewise And this done then be they man and wife before GOD and their matrymoniall knowledge together is no lenger sinne but lawfull and good afterwarde This is the remedy in this case and there is none other Many moo cases and difficulties in this Sacrament of Matrimony I might reherse whiche the Churche of God hath fullye debated and resolued but I thinke these few to be sufficient to the laye man for vnderstandinge howe mariage ought to be ministred and contracted And notwithstandinge that the man and woman consentinge to bee man and wife and sayinge the wordes of the Sacrament be perfitely maryed together yet the marienge of them in the face of the Churche afterwarde by the ministration of the Prieste is not superfluouse but muche expedient for sondrye causes firste to thintent that this Sacramente shoulde haue that solemnitie and reuerence whiche is due to so holye a thinge instituted by our sauiour Christe him selfe for that coniunction whiche the Prieste as Gods minister dothe vs to vnderstande that Matrimonye is made by the assystaunce and working of almightye God Secondlye that the persones whiche be maried may receiue haue the fruite of the praiers and suffrages whiche be saide for them in the sacryfyce of the church and also may be partakers of the blessinge of God which is made ouer them by the priest wherby we knowe that the state of lyuing in mariage is blessed of almightie God And thirdlye it is solemnized in the Churche that it might haue the more recorde and be more allowed and fortyfied by the solemnization and that all doubtes whiche mighte be imagined againste it shoulde be put awaye Further I shal not nede to alledge vnto you at this tyme but onelye shall exhorte you to haue alwaies God his true religion before your eyes in entringe to this state of life by matrimonye whiche can not be dissolued or auoyded at the wyl and affection of man but must be kept and obserued till death departe the same For as we see by experience how vpon noughty affectionate beginninges there commeth seldome good successe so yf the beginninge of these contractes in maryage bee vsed with discretion and Godlye intent in suche forme as I haue declared vnto you where the harte and worde do ioyne together and the dede performeth that was promised and sayd before then shal these manyfold contentions breache of charitie cease the parties loue one an other in chaste loue as Chryste loued hys Churche and shal labour to bringe vp their children in the feare of God and knowledge of true religion which shalbe a great helpe and furtherance to their saluation by the mercy and merites of our sauiour Christe to whome wyth the father and the holy ghost be all honoure and prayse for euermore Amen ⸫ ¶ For what intent and wyth what affection men and women should marrye Ser. xxix AS in the contracting of maryage good people yf the ryghte forme and laudable maner therin prescribed by the holy Church be not obserued ther chaunceth often times muche contention and hatred afterward vpon the same as ye haue bene taught euen so yf thintentes of mariage and the causes that moue and prouoke men and women to bee maryed be not Godlye and honest the successe of those mariages commonlye folowe thereafter For whyche cause I intend God wyllinge to declare vnto you at thys tyme whyche causes bee nought and reproueable and whyche be honeste and Godlye For yf the intent and cause why men and women dooe marrye be not good and Godly than shall not there lyfe be acceptable to almightie God nor yet longe pleasaunte vnto them selues as experience doth many times euidently shewe A great number of folkes do marrye for one of these two causes and intentes or for bothe eyther to haue the luste and vnclenlye desire of the fleshe fulfylled or els to get worldlye goodes and riches therby Both these causes if they be chefely and principally intended by the parties which marry be very euil and vngodly Many yonge men and women doo vse to say in rebuke of other that they wyll not marrye for ryches and goodes but for good loue and yet that good loue is mooste principallye for to haue their sensuall appetyte and carnall desyre fulfylled Whiche maner of loue doth neuer long endure betwene them that so marrye but it decayeth and goeth shortly away And than suche persones beginne to mislyke one an others conditions and to waxe werye one of an other and after continuaunce and increace of that werynesse it groweth to bee so paineful and greuous that the parties wyshe them selues vnmaryed againe yea and many tymes they wyshe them selues buried and no merueyle For an euyl tree suche as is carnall concupiscence and fleshely loue can bring forth no good fruyte but such as I haue rehersed I nede not to shewe and iudge for what intent goodlye younge women marrye poore and miserable persones when they haue done amisse For they be but a smal numbre and yet they vse more vyce vnder the cloke and couer of mariage than they durst do before whē they were syngle Now againste these persones whiche after such sort and with such intēt do enterprise to marry that they do exclude God from them selues and from their mindes and do applie and geue them selues to satisfye their lustes and pleasure as horses and moyles do whiche haue no reason or vnderstandinge againste all suche persones as the Aungell Raphaell taught the good younge Tobye the deuill hath power to preuayle And althoughe almightye God of his greate mercye doth not nowe suffer the deuyl to vse his malyce againste the bodies of suche offendours as he vsed in the time of Tobye agaynste the seuen wicked husbandes of Sara the doughter of Raguell yet no doubte of it their noughtye eye doth make darke their hole bodie that is to saye their wicked and lecherouse intente dothe corrupte their soules whereby they come to the snare of the deuyll who spirituallye preuayleth againste them Moreouer the greater parte of the other people dothe marrye for the other cause that is for goodes and ryches And for this purpose man and woman doo not onelye marrye them selues but they doo also studye and labour to marrye their children and kinsfolkes to gleane and get ryches So that nowe commonlye there is no other vertuouse lyuinge honestye good conditions wisdome stocke lynnage personage beautie youth nor any thinge els so greatly regarded and considered as is worldlye goodes and possessions For if the man be voyde of vertue and discretion and lette him haue deformitie and be without personage and so forthe yet yf hee haue greate lande and goodes there shall be no faute nor lacke founde in him but
shal haue suters vnto him for their doughters kinswomē And on the other syde yf a woman haue greate substāce and goodes and many good Lordships and Manours although she haue neuer one or fewe good conditions or vertues she shal be sure to haue suters to marry with her both of great men and other be she faire or foule yong or old beautiful or deformed but the miserable life and sorowful paine that suche persones many times haue of their mariage they them selues can tell and yet they be not able to expresse wyth theyr tonges all that they fele suffer in their hartes And then they curse their goodes and the daye in the whiche they were maryed Yea and more ouer we see daylye that great men doo sell theyr children as thoughe they were bondes slaues and do nothinge studye or labour to marry their sonnes to good wyues nor their doughters to good husbandes but their principall care is to sell them where they haue moste monye Lykewyse the buyers doo not care for the good conditions of those they buye but loke more vpon the landes and rentes whyche those shall haue and enioye and therfore oftentimes both the buyers and sellers of suche wardes and other marrye their children to great misery and endlesse paine And thus for goodes and riches they be vnkind vnnaturall and cruel Fathers vnto theyr chyldren and cruel frendes vnto theyr kynsfolke in geuing and procuring to theim so painefull and sorowfull a lyfe And manye tymes they distroye their owne families and auncyent houses thereby for that their sonnes noughtly brought vp or els their sonnes in lawe euyll chosen for lacke of grace and the rather also for suche dysagrement as chaunceth betwene them and their wyues maried principallye for possessions sake dooe waste and consume in small tyme all that their parentes and auncetours wyth all theyr wyttes longe seruice and painefull industrye and labour haue gotten together in many yeres before And here ye shall vnderstande good people that I doo not prohybyte and forbydde men to looke for no maner of goodes when they wyll marrye For reason doth graunt that bothe men and women shoulde before they marrye wel consyder what crafte occupation habilitye and what goodes they haue them selues to lyue with all if they marry And reason doth admytte that they shoulde likewise looke what habylitye and substaunce they be of wyth whome they wyll marrye and wey and caste howe suche charges as maye growe vnto theym by chyldren and otherwise when they bee maried maye be borne and susteined These thinges men and women whyche wyll marrye oughte well to remember and consyder and therefore I speake not agaynste suche considerations and lookinge for goodes but I saye almyghtye GOD and reason dothe reproue and condempne all them whiche do marrye most principallye for goodes and ryches For that intent and purpose is noughte and contrarye to Gods ordinaunce in that behalfe And it is also euident that goodes and monye Lordshippes ryche apparell delycate fare and so forthe can doo no pleasure or profyte vnto the hartes of maried persones excepte they haue together faythful love kyndenesse ioye one of an other and godly and comfortable agrement Nowe that I haue shewed vnto you suche causes of mariage as be vngodlye it is lykewise requisyte to declare the other causes whyche almighty GOD and his holye word doth allow whiche be the verye same wherfore GOD did institute and ordeyne thys Sacrament of matrimonye that is to saye the loue and desire of children and posteritie by whom GOD should be more honoured and the hatred of fornication and vnclene life The first cause is set forth in the boke of Genesis where God blessed our firste parentes and bad them increace and multiplye and fulfyll the earthe Tobye the yonger shewed that he maryed onely for thys firste cause sayinge vnto almightye GOD thus O Lorde thou knowest that I take thys woman to my wyfe not for cause of lecherye or to satisfye and fulfyl my carnal lust and desire but I take her onely to haue posteritie and chyldren to the intent that thou mayest be alwayes here blessed lauded and honoured And for thys intent Christen men shoulde mooste principallye marrye and brynge vp their children in vertuouse lyuinge that they maye iustely lyue laude and honour almightye GOD and when God sendeth them chyldren to teache them to doo the same The vnchrystened and heathen men doo marrye to haue children and to encreace their people but not to haue almightye GOD lauded and honoured whose honour and glorye good men shoulde speciallye seeke to set foorth and encreace bothe in them selues and in their children The other cause is that men and women might by this Sacrament haue a iust and good remedye agaynste the sensuall appetyte of the fleshe to auoyde the sinne of fornication when they feared that they coulde not lyue otherwyse chastelye whereof Saint Paule wrote to the Corynthians thus It is good for a manne not to touche hys wyfe yet for auoydinge of fornication lette euerye man haue or vse hys owne wyfe and lette euerye wyfe haue or vse her owne husbande and lette the man paye hys debte to hys wyfe and lykewyse the wyfe to her husbande For the wyfe hathe not nowe power of her owne bodye but her husbande and lykewyse the husbande hathe not power of hys bodye but the wyfe dooe not defraude one an other excepte it bee for a tyme by mutuall consent to the intent ye myghte geue and applye your selues more freely to prayer so forth So that these two intentes that is to saye the loue to haue children and the hatred or auoydinge of fornication as they be the principall causes why this Sacrament of Matrimony was ordeyned of God so they ought to be the principall causes why men and women shoulde marrye together For so shall they receiue the graces whiche God geueth in mariage shall beautifye his church and haue greate helpe and furtherance towardes their saluation And contrarye they that with couetouse and lecherouse affections dooe ioyne theym selues in mariage they loose the grace of the Sacrament whyche they mighte haue hadde they dishonour thys holye Sacrament in making it a cloke and a defence for their noughty and vicious intentes and they brynge them selues vnder the power of the deuyll who than is permitted to preuayle againste them Moreouer good people it is expedient when a man wil marry for the causes before rehersed that he diligentlye remember and consider the lawe of Matrimonye That is to saye howe he shall bynde him self to loue his wife as his owne bodye and better than any other man woman or chylde in suche sorte as Christe loueth hys Churche and did geue him selfe to the death for it to make it holy and without spotte And also the man ought not to be bitter fell against hys wife in vsing brawlinges chyding or fightinge with her And that he muste