parent_n over_o they_o a_o fear_v love_n and_o a_o love_a fear_n q._n what_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o child_n to_o parent_n a._n two_o reverence_n and_o obedience_n q._n wherein_o consist_v their_o reverence_n a._n in_o their_o speech_n and_o gest_n re_fw-mi q._n how_o do_v reverence_n appear_v in_o speech_n a._n 1._o in_o a_o modest_a forbearance_n to_o speak_v in_o their_o presence_n 21_o job_n 22.9_o 10_o 21_o till_o parent_n give_v leave_v 2._o in_o right_o frame_v their_o word_n when_o they_o do_v speak_v q._n how_o may_v they_o frame_v their_o word_n aright_o a._n 1._o their_o word_n must_v be_v honourable_a to_o they_o or_o of_o they_o give_v they_o their_o title_n of_o father_n lord_n sir_n mother_n gen._n 22.7_o 1_o kin._n 2.20_o 2._o they_o must_v be_v few_o only_o as_o occasion_n be_v offer_v 3._o they_o must_v be_v meek_a and_o humble_a as_o jonathan_n to_o his_o father_n 1_o sam._n 19.4_o 4._o they_o must_v observe_v fit_a opportunity_n 30._o 1_o sam._n 19.9_o and_o 20_o 30._o when_o their_o parent_n be_v not_o busy_a or_o in_o passion_n 5._o a_o ready_a please_a in_o their_o answer_n as_o 1_o sam._n 3_o 4_o 6._o matth._n 21.30_o q._n how_o must_v they_o express_v reverence_n in_o their_o gesture_n or_o carriage_n a._n 1._o in_o tender_v obeisance_n 46.12_o gen._n 46_o 29._o 1_o kin._n 2.19_o gen._n 46.12_o uncover_v the_o head_n stand_v up_o bow_v the_o body_n or_o knee_n 2._o in_o modesty_n and_o bashfulness_n in_o their_o countenance_n and_o carriage_n 3._o in_o take_v the_o low_a place_n 4._o in_o ask_v their_o blessing_n gen._n 27.19.34_o q._n what_o obedience_n be_v due_a to_o parent_n a._n both_o passive_a and_o active_a 1_o pet._n 1.14_o q._n wherein_o must_v passive_a obedience_n appear_v a._n in_o forbearance_n to_o do_v any_o thing_n of_o moment_n without_o consent_n of_o parent_n as_o in_o choice_n of_o a_o call_v gen._n 28.2_o 2._o in_o marriage_n deut._n 7.3_o 1_o cor._n 7_o 36_o 37._o gen._n 24.67_o and_o 29.18_o judg._n 14.2_o 3._o in_o 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parent_n q._n what_o motive_n be_v there_o to_o enforce_v these_o duty_n upon_o child_n a._n 1._o this_o be_v well_o please_v to_o the_o lord_n and_o the_o contrary_a displease_v 2._o parent_n be_v in_o god_n stead_n to_o they_o and_o in_o do_v their_o duty_n to_o they_o they_o do_v it_o unto_o god_n and_o contra_fw-la 3_o the_o promise_v make_v to_o their_o obedience_n of_o long_a life_n eph._n 6.1_o 2_o 3._o and_o happiness_n in_o this_o world_n in_o their_o person_n estate_n posterity_n by_o their_o parent_n blessing_n deut._n 5.16_o and_o the_o contrary_a threaten_n and_o curse_n to_o undutiful_a child_n prov._n 30.17_o 4_o this_o obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n on_o earth_n shall_v be_v a_o good_a evidence_n they_o be_v childen_a to_o god_n their_o father_n in_o heaven_n q._n be_v there_o not_o some_o beside_o natural_a parent_n that_o child_n owe_v duty_n to_o a._n yes_o such_o as_o be_v in_o the_o place_n of_o parent_n to_o they_o which_o may_v be_v three_o way_n 1._o father_n or_o mother_n in_o law_n by_o marriage_n 2._o guardiar_n the_o next_o of_o kin_n when_o parent_n be_v dead_a 3._o tutor_n and_o schoolmaster_n entrust_v with_o they_o q._n what_o duty_n do_v child_n owe_v to_o their_o father_n or_o mother_n in_o law_n a._n the_o same_o for_o the_o most_o part_n that_o they_o owe_v to_o their_o natural_a parent_n as_o 1._o reverence_n exod_a 18.7_o 2._o subjection_n luc._n 2.51_o 3_o recompense_n as_o ruth_n 1._o and_o 2._o chap._n q._n upon_o what_o ground_n be_v these_o due_a a._n 1._o the_o marriage_n bond_n make_v man_n and_o wife_n one_o flesh_n and_o so_o to_o be_v account_v by_o they_o 2._o it_o be_v a_o honour_n to_o the_o natural_a parent_n for_o child_n to_o respect_v the_o other_o party_n that_o be_v now_o one_o flesh_n with_o they_o q._n what_o duty_n owe_v they_o to_o guardian_n and_o tutor_n etc._n etc._n a._n a_o subjection_n and_o reverence_n because_o they_o have_v the_o trust_n and_o charge_n of_o parent_n to_o they_o as_o esth_n 2.20_o 2_o king_n 2.12_o 15._o gal._n 4.2_o chapter_n 2._o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n to_o their_o child_n ephes_n 6.4_o and_o you_o father_n provoke_v not_o your_o child_n to_o wrath_n but_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o the_o nurture_n and_o admonition_n of_o the_o lord_n col._n 3.21_o father_n provoke_v not_o your_o child_n to_o anger_n lest_o they_o be_v discourage_v q._n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o those_o text_n a._n three_o 1._o a_o prohibition_n provoke_v not_o your_o child_n to_o wrath_n 2._o a_o reason_n thereof_o lest_o they_o be_v discourage_v 3._o a_o precept_n but_o bring_v they_o up_o etc._n etc._n q._n what_o duty_n be_v here_o enjoin_v a._n 1._o to_o nourish_v or_o breed_v they_o up_o with_o food_n apparel_z and_o other_o necessary_n 2._o to_o nurture_n they_o viz._n with_o good_a discipline_n 3._o to_o instruct_v they_o in_o the_o way_n of_o god_n in_o admonition_n of_o the_o lord_n q._n what_o be_v the_o foundation_n of_o parent_n duty_n to_o their_o child_n a._n love_n as_o in_o other_o relation_n tit._n 2.4_o by_o reason_n of_o the_o pain_n pain_n care_n and_o cost_n which_o nothing_o but_o love_n will_v bear_v out_o q._n what_o vice_n be_v contrary_a to_o this_o love_n a._n 1._o want_v of_o natural_a affection_n in_o the_o defect_n rom._n 1.30_o tit._n 3.3_o 2._o dote_v on_o they_o and_o fondness_n in_o the_o excess_n with_o too_o much_o indulgence_n 1_o sam._n 2.29_o q._n what_o be_v the_o general_a duty_n at_o all_o time_n to_o be_v do_v by_o parent_n a._n 1._o faithful_n and_o fervent_a prayer_n for_o they_o 1_o thes_n 5.17_o from_o beginning_n to_o end_v 2._o upright_o walk_v with_o god_n before_o they_o psal_n 112.2_o prov._n 20.7_o and_o 13.22_o 3._o a_o provident_a care_n for_o their_o child_n good_a all_o their_o day_n both_o temporal_a and_o spiritual_a good_a q._n what_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o mother_n to_o their_o child_n in_o their_o infancy_n a._n 1_o before_o it_o be_v bear_v care_v for_o the_o safe_a carriage_n &_o delivery_n of_o 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house_n we_o will_v serve_v the_o lord_n i_o shall_v only_o say_v more_o true_o what_o once_o be_v false_o apply_v to_o our_o saviour_n this_o man_n be_v not_o of_o god_n because_o he_o keep_v not_o the_o sabbath_n day_n because_o he_o take_v no_o care_n that_o his_o family_n with_o he_o do_v keep_v the_o sahbath_n day_n and_o thus_o much_o of_o the_o three_o use_n where_o 4._o exhortation_n to_o the_o duty_n where_o 4._o the_o last_o be_v a_o word_n of_o exhortation_n to_o set_v on_o this_o duty_n upon_o all_o chief_a householder_n in_o all_o their_o relation_n to_o resolve_v with_o joshua_n what_o ever_o other_o do_v as_o for_o i_o and_o my_o house_n we_o will_v serve_v the_o lord_n to_o persuade_v they_o more_o effectual_o to_o the_o performance_n hereof_o i_o shall_v propound_v some_o more_o special_a motive_n and_o then_o prescribe_v some_o direction_n or_o mean_n how_o they_o may_v effect_v it_o good_n 1_o the_o motive_n from_o the_o good_n 1._o the_o motive_n beside_o those_o 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be_v disobedient_a child_n prove_v sacrilegious_a priest_n etc._n etc._n there_o be_v a_o say_n of_o the_o philosopher_n mulus_n vir_fw-la bone_fw-la civis_fw-la a_o ill_a man_n may_v be_v a_o good_a citizen_n but_o divinity_n say_v a_o ill_a man_n can_v no_o more_o be_v a_o good_a citizen_n or_o neighbour_n then_o evil_o can_v be_v good_a the_o want_n therefore_o of_o family_n reformation_n be_v the_o cause_n of_o all_o the_o miscarrige_n abroad_o in_o town_n church_n country_n nation_n hence_o come_v all_o those_o disorder_n in_o town_n &_o nation_n drunkenness_n uncleanness_n profannesse_n etc._n etc._n from_o want_n of_o discipline_n in_o family_n this_o fill_v the_o goal_n and_o furnish_v the_o gallow_n be_v the_o law_n order_n in_o city_n church_n never_o so_o good_a yet_o all_o in_o vain_a if_o master_n of_o family_n neglect_v their_o duty_n much_o complaint_n there_o be_v of_o the_o general_a badness_n of_o the_o time_n but_o they_o may_v thank_v themselves_o and_o as_o for_o the_o church_n or_o congregation_n the_o long_o desire_v and_o by_o some_o much_o endeavour_v reformation_n stick_v here_o the_o want_n of_o this_o resolution_n in_o master_n of_o family_n i_o and_o my_o house_n will_v serve_v the_o lord_n make_v all_o the_o minister_n labour_v unfruitful_a it_o be_v impossible_a a_o minister_n shall_v teach_v instruct_v and_o make_v a_o town_n or_o congregation_n religious_a unless_o assist_v by_o the_o governor_n of_o house_n if_o their_o household_n be_v not_o teach_v the_o principle_n of_o religion_n at_o home_n acquaint_v with_o the_o word_n by_o private_a read_n bring_v to_o attend_v on_o and_o call_v to_o account_v for_o public_a ordinance_n all_o our_o labour_n come_v to_o nothing_o as_o then_o the_o householder_n intend_v the_o public_a good_a of_o state_n and_o church_n let_v they_o resolve_v i_o and_o my_o house_n etc._n etc._n see_v psal_n 101._o last_o this_o mend_v all_o 3._o to_o themselves_o be_v 3._o to_o themselves_o it_o be_v if_o the_o other_o prevail_v not_o self-love_n shall_v it_o be_v for_o their_o own_o great_a good_a and_o that_o two_o way_n 1._o the_o way_n to_o make_v they_o faithful_a diligent_a profitable_a to_o themselves_o profit_n 1_o for_o their_o profit_n be_v to_o make_v they_o true_o religious_a now_o wife_n child_n servant_n obey_v they_o for_o conscience_n sake_n towards_o god_n onesimus_n while_o unregenerate_a be_v unprofitable_a to_o his_o master_n philemon_n a_o purloyner_n it_o seem_v and_o a_o runaway_n but_o paul_n have_v convert_v he_o send_v he_o home_o now_o profitable_a ungodly_a and_o profane_a servant_n be_v common_o idle_a deceitful_a at_o best_a but_o eye-servant_n and_o bring_v a_o curse_n upon_o the_o whole_a family_n but_o religious_a servant_n if_o true_o so_o prove_v faithful_a you_o may_v trust_v they_o with_o any_o thing_n with_o all_o you_o have_v as_o potiphar_n do_v joseph_n and_o laban_n do_v jacob_n and_o they_o dare_v not_o be_v false_a and_o diligent_a in_o 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in_o a_o wise_a maintain_v their_o authority_n as_o the_o authority_n of_o god_n 2._o in_o a_o right_a manage_n of_o it_o q._n how_o may_v they_o maintain_v wise_o their_o authority_n a._n 1._o by_o a_o good_a example_n and_o worthy_a carriage_n josh_n 24.15_o psalm_n 101.1_o 2._o 2._o by_o a_o awful_a carriage_n that_o servant_n may_v stand_v in_o fear_n of_o they_o 3._o by_o keep_v a_o distance_n from_o they_o lest_o familiarity_n breed_v contempt_n prov._n 30.22_o &_o 29.21_o q._n what_o be_v the_o extent_n of_o their_o authority_n a._n 1._o in_o their_o command_n restrain_v to_o the_o law_n of_o god_n and_o exercise_v in_o execution_n of_o god_n command_n as_o abraham_n gen._n 19_o 25.43_o levit._fw-la 25.43_o 2._o in_o their_o correction_n which_o must_v be_v moderate_a and_o discreet_a in_o consideration_n of_o the_o age_n sex_n fault_n of_o the_o person_n etc._n etc._n q._n how_o may_v they_o manage_v right_o their_o authority_n a._n by_o justice_n and_o equity_n as_o the_o 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well_o do_v good_a servant_n 3._o reward_v the_o good_a when_o go_v away_o as_o deut._n 15.13_o q._n what_o motive_n be_v there_o to_o enforce_v these_o duty_n upon_o they_o a._n 1._o they_o have_v a_o master_n over_o they_o and_o this_o will_v be_v a_o spure_a to_o incite_v they_o to_o their_o duty_n and_o a_o curb_n to_o do_v no_o wrong_n to_o they_o because_o he_o take_v notice_n of_o both_o 2._o their_o equality_n in_o regard_n of_o god_n you_o also_o have_v a_o master_n and_o so_o fellow-servant_n math._n 24_o 49._o 3._o in_o heaven_n servant_n be_v admit_v there_o no_o respect_n of_o person_n with_o god_n and_o yet_o there_o be_v far_o great_a distance_n between_o god_n and_o they_o than_o between_o they_o and_o their_o servant_n chapter_n 5._o of_o marriage_n in_o general_n heb._n 13.4_o marriage_n be_v honourable_a among_o all_o etc._n etc._n q._n wherein_o appear_v the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n a._n 1._o in_o the_o author_n god_n himself_o 2._o in_o the_o place_n paradise_n 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13.4_o 1_o tim._n 4.1_o 3._o as_o the_o disease_n of_o concupiscence_n be_v common_a to_o all_o 1_o cor._n 7.2_o 9_o q._n in_o choice_n of_o a_o person_n what_o be_v require_v a._n choice_n of_o a_o fit_a helper_n gen._n 2.18_o q._n what_o make_v a_o fit_a helper_n a._n 1._o one_o not_o within_o the_o degree_n of_o consanguinity_n or_o affinity_n prohibit_v 2._o equality_n in_o age_n condition_n estate_n and_o piety_n luk._n 1.6_o q._n how_o may_v a_o godly_a person_n be_v know_v a._n 1._o by_o their_o religious_a education_n and_o their_o answerable_a walk_n 2._o by_o the_o report_n and_o fame_n with_o the_o good_a 3._o by_o the_o look_n if_o modest_a and_o chaste_a etc._n etc._n 4._o by_o the_o speech_n if_o spare_v and_o humble_a 5._o by_o the_o apparel_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 6._o by_o the_o companion_n like_o will_n to_o like_v q._n after_o what_o manner_n be_v fit_a person_n to_o be_v join_v together_o a._n 1._o by_o a_o mutual_a like_n of_o each_o other_o gen_n 24.58_o 2._o by_o a_o 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