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A67549 The chiefest divine vertues epitomized, or, A compendious treatise of the three theological graces, faith, hope, and charity by Richard Ward ... Ward, Richard, 1601 or 2-1684. 1655 (1655) Wing W802; ESTC R12309 115,178 272

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blinds judgement according to the French Ad●●e Amour fait trouver b●●u ce qu de soy n' est be●u Love makes us judge a thing fair though it be soul Quisquis amat ranam 〈◊〉 pu●● esse Dianam And 5. It is sometimes the cause of irreconcileable jars and strife The cause of civil dissention between Them●stocles and Aristides was the love of Stesil●a an harlot whose beauty being decayed their hatred did so continue that they could never be reconciled but continued enemies even to death The like hatred was between Cato and Caesar about the love of the harlot Servilia 6. It i● hurtful both to the party loving and beloved the dart of Love being like a stroke with a clod of earth which being thrown amongst a company doth hurt one and blindes another 7. It makes men like beasts the Poets tell us that Jupiter transformed himself into the form of a Swan to enjoy Lae●a and into a Bull to beguil Jo and that Neptune changed himself into a He●fer a Ram and a Dolph●n onely for the love of those he lusted after By these fictions I think the Poets mean that lustful love makes men more like beasts then men 8 Another fruit is loss of peace quiet vertue and all sweet content Marcus Aurelius writing to his Empress Faustina about the careful education of their daughter Lucilla saith Love in young blood and springing and flourishing youth is a poyson that spreadeth into every vein it is an herb that enrreth into the entrails a fainting which incontinently mortifieth all the members a pestilence that infecteth the heart and finally it putteth an end to all vertues For as the precious stone Antracites being thrown into the fire looketh black and tawny but being cast into the water glistereth like the Sun-beams so the precious mind of man once put into the flame of love is ugly and loseth her vertue but sprinkled with the water of wisdom and detestation of such fond delights it shineth like the glorious rays of Phoebus 9. This loose lewd love makes men effeminate low-spirited and base in their courses and carriage The Ambassadors of Lydia coming suddenly into Hercules chamber to speak with him found him attired like a woman lying on Joles lap Dionysius the Tyrant was so devoted to the love of his Curtezan Mirta that he onely ordained and she took care for the execution and administration of all the weighty affairs of the Weal-publique Antenaricus the famous King of the Gothes after many great victories in Italy was so deeply enamoured with one Pincia that whilst she combed his head he made clean her slippers Themistocles that famous Grecian Captain in the wars of Epirus took a woman captive whom he so doted on that if she were sick he would feign himself not to be well if she were appointed to purge he would purge if to be let blood he also would bleed carrying himself towards her not as if she were his prisoner but as if he were her slave King Demetrius having taken ●hodes a beautiful Gentlewoman of the City was presented unto him whom by little he did so immoderately affect that once she seeming angry with him and refu●ing to sit near him he forgetting all majestie and dignity fell before her on his knees entreating her pardon and the Kings of Assyria of old never answered any Ambassadors themselves but by Messengers they wasting their time wholly in their Concubines company Pausamus 10. Another fruit and effect of inordinate love is the ruine and destruction both of soul and body for as fainting and swounding mortifieth every member as pestilence infecteth every part and as poyson pierceth every vein so love if not timely prevented and looked unto will in time bring body and soul to utter confusion Qu. ●0 What are the Remedies against inordinate l●ve Answ To labour that our heart may be taken up with another love for as Rubarb by a certain peculiar vertue doth purge choler although by nature it be cholerick so one love often times doth drive out another as one nail doth another one re another or one grief another And indeed as a ●●ll vessel will receive no more so where the love of God hath taken possession lascivious love will not be entertained 2. Another remedy is speedy resistance for as fire is to be quenched in the spark weeds to be rooted up in the tender blade Tetters and Ring-worms to be cured in the beginning lest they spread over the whole body so the assaults of love are to be beaten back at the first siege lest they undermine at the second 3. Another remedy is to avoid occasions He who hath sore eyes must not behold the candle and he who would not be entrapped or entangled in the meshes of love must not look upon beauty but with Job make a covenant with his eyes If the Flye will flutter about the candle she mu●t expect to be burnt if the Qu●il will seed on the Hemlock she must look to be poysoned and if lascivious dispositions will frequent the society of lewd women they may look to be seduced and led aside and therefore Guevara in his letter to Sir Lewes Brave fol. 186. saith Let Hermogenes Tesiphontes Dorcatius and Ovid write what they please concerning the remedies of love yet I say There is no better remedy for love then to avoid the occasions of love or never to begin to lov● for love is so evil a beast that with a thread he suffereth himself to be taken but he will not depart w th the thrusts of a lance and therefore Fly fly betimes for onely they Do conquer love who run away Thus much for the Evil and inordinate love at present till we come to treat of Fornication and the kinds thereof according to the prescribed order I now proceed unto the Good love and the several sorts thereof Qu. 51. How is love attributed unto God Answ Both in the Abstract and Concret for I. In the Abstract he is said to be love 1 John 4. 8 16. And II. In the Concrete he is said to be loving Qu. 52. What doth the Lord and his Christ love Answ 1. Righteousness Psalm 11.7.33.5 Hebr. 1.9 2. Judgement Psalm 37.28.99.4 Isaiah 61.8 3. The gates of Sion Psalm 87.2 Qu. 53. How manifold is Gods love towards us Answ The love of God is twofold viz. I. Amor benevolentiae the love of Gods good will or the love of Election And. II. Amor complacentiae the love of Gods being well pleased with us and delighted in us Ephes 1.4 5 6 7. Rom. 11 6 7 ●8 God loves us before we are sanctified and called God is pleased with us when we walk worthy of our vocation and according to the rule of sanctification Qu. 54. What is the love of God Answ Love is a will whereby God wils that is approves that which is good and rests therein Psalm 45.8 11. Matth. 3.17 or love is the essence of God whereby he loves his creatures
fortune but by the adversity of time Jacob Almansor King of the Moors going one day on hunting found by chance a poor travelling man who being taken with some sudden sickness was fallen on the ground which he seeing alighted set him upon his horse and with one hand led the horse and with the other upheld him and when his Alcaydes came unto him he refused to ride on another Steed or to let any other conduct him until he had brought him home and then gave him a great sum of money that he might live in good fashion afterwards for which the poor man thanking him when he was recovered he answered there belongs no thanks to me but to God onely who brought me to that place where you was Thus in misery and distress our love to our brother is chiefly to be manifested Qu. 21. What is the Nature and Excellency of Love Answ 1. It is of that nature that many waters cannot quench it Cant. 8.7 and 2. ●t is of that nature that the more it is expressed the more it is enflamed For as fire suppressed doth often flame forth with more violence so doth Love according to the French Proverb Vne amour par contraire est plus chaude rendue Love doth encrease when it is withstood it is like fire which the more it is dammed up the more it burns or like the water which being stopped overflows all and bears all before it 3. Love makes men couragious Castillo in his Courtier lib. 3. thinks and affirms that an Army of Lovers were invincible except by another Army in love and he instanceth in Troy and in Ferdinand and Isabel of Spain in their war against the King of Granada that all notable exploits performed in battel hath still been by Lovers Leander being in love with Hero the fair Sestian Nun ventured for her love to swim over Hellespont but was drowned therein One asking Why Cupid is pictured with wings was answered Because the desires of lovers for the most part tend to high things 4. Love thinks a great deal of labour and pains taken and undergone for the party beloved to be easie and as nothing Gen. 29.20 5. Love descends as appeared by Pythius Bythinius a Persian who feasted all Xerxes Army and gave him four hundred Miriads of gold and onely because of five sons he had Xerxes would leave one of them at home to comfort him in his old age We ordinarily do say Love doth descend more then ascend whence we see that one father doth with less labour and trouble maintain ten children then ten children can one father A certain man and his son being both condemned to dye for a hainous offence the Earl of Flanders promised to save his life who would cut off the others head which after much debate was done by the son Among the Ancients it was a common proverb That the taste of all tastes is bread the savour of savous is salt and the greatest love of all loves is from the fathers to the children 6. Love is of that nature that all is well taken that comes from love Si diligis fac quicquid vis si tacueris dilectione tace si locutus fueris dilectione loquere si precaris dilectione precare c. Aug. in Joh. 1. epist If thou lovest do what thou wilt speak or be silent exhort or rebuke call or cry so it be in love all is well 7. Love is strong as death Cant. 8.6 Reward hath an attractive and punishment an impulsive but love hath a compulsive faculty reward draws punishment drives but love hales a man forward to the discharge of his duty and therefore if God write a Law of Love in our hearts and shed abroad his own love to joyn therewith it will work so strongly that one grain thereof will have more force to purge out sin and to constrain and strengthen to obedience then a whole pound of terrors Chrysostome saith Love i● a pleasing tyrant the power whereof is above all power and reigns over all impediments in heaven and earth prevailing both with God and man As men allure Doves by the beauty of the house and reclaim Hawks by the fairness of the lure so love joyned with virtue is able to recal the most stragling Aeneas to make sails again to Carthage As there is no cloth so fine but Moaths will eat it no iron so hard but rust will fret it no wood so sound but worms will putrifie it no mettal so course but fire will purifie it so there is neither man nor woman so resolute or constant but love will bring them into thraldom and bondage 8. Love will shew it self As bashful Suiters seeing strangers by Parly in silence with their hand or eye The French say to this purpose Vne parfaite amour ne se peut desguiser A perfect love cannot be disguised for as fire cannot be hidden in the flax without smoak nor Musk in the bosom without smell so neither can love be hidden in the breast without some suspicion or manifestation 9. It is free or there is no affection freer then love for as there is nothing more forcible so nothing that can be less forced Marcus Aurelius in his oration to Fulvius the Senator saith There is never true love where there is any particular interest and if so then love is free and then no wonder if love be so rare every one as the Dutch say having their back-door or by end and self-respects in whatsoever they do 10. Love desires love again the party loving desires to be beloved as Hellen saith to Paris Bella gerant alii tu Pari semper ama Whilst others follow Mars do thou follow Venus Pythagoras saith Love is not satisfied with gold but onely payed with love again Hence Sophocles being asked What harm he would wish to his enemy answered That he might love where he was not liked and that such misfortune might last long There is no herb will make lovers sleep but hearts-ease and there is no hearts-ease vvhere love is not mutual and reciprocal 11. It is the cause of all action and motion Parisius saith Omnis animae motus radix est amor Love is the root and principal of all the motions of the soul Quodlibet agens propter amorem agit quodcunque agit Aquin. Every vvise and free agent doth for love vvhatsoever he doth 12. Love is Lord of all Love of old vvas pictured vvith flowers in the one hand and a fish in the other to shevv that he is Lord both of Sea and Land And 13. It is svveet profitable and comfortable Love is like honey in bitter broth and sugar in sour vvine It is a rule to direct us a light to shevv us and a vvay to vvalk unto salvation and therefore full of profit comfort and sweetness 14. Love is the preserver of mankind for as a ship would perish without a Pilot as a City is in danger without a Magistrate as the world is nothing but