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somenesse_n and_o neglect_v of_o the_o duty_n of_o thy_o place_n thou_o may_v gather_v the_o will_n of_o god_n by_o the_o sign_n and_o so_o thou_o be_v to_o yield_v thyself_o to_o a_o single_a life_n wherein_o although_o there_o can_v but_o fall_v out_o some_o petty_a discommodity_n in_o some_o kind_n yet_o they_o ought_v to_o be_v digest_v meek_o for_o the_o a_o void_v of_o worse_a and_o the_o attain_n of_o the_o benefit_n of_o a_o single_a estate_n for_o when_o god_n be_v in_o a_o condition_n that_o shall_v be_v tolerable_a to_o one_o which_o will_v be_v burdensome_a to_o another_o and_o there_o be_v no_o state_n whole_o free_a from_o trouble_n in_o this_o world_n only_o that_o be_v to_o be_v embrace_v as_o near_o as_o we_o can_v which_o be_v free_a from_o the_o most_o and_o have_v once_o understand_v the_o way_n of_o god_n go_v not_o out_o of_o it_o wilful_o nor_o dally_v not_o with_o he_o in_o such_o weighty_a purpose_n if_o it_o please_v he_o to_o alter_v thy_o mind_n thou_o 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experience_n will_v construe_v my_o meaning_n herein_o better_o than_o other_o can_v i_o now_o conclude_v the_o whole_a chap._n with_o use_n of_o exhortation_n and_o with_o some_o short_a direction_n to_o set_v it_o home_o chastity_n first_o i_o say_v let_v all_o who_o desire_v to_o preserve_v the_o honour_n of_o their_o marriage_n look_v to_o their_o chastity_n drink_v of_o the_o water_n of_o thy_o own_o well_o but_z let_v the_o cistern_n be_v thy_o own_o seek_v not_o to_o stranger_n 9_o give_v not_o thy_o strength_n to_o the_o harlot_n and_o thy_o year_n to_o the_o cruel_a abhor_v all_o sweetness_n of_o steal_v water_n let_v not_o thy_o tooth_n water_n after_o forbid_a dainty_n lest_o thou_o find_v bitterness_n in_o the_o end_n if_o meddle_v with_o thy_o neighbour_n hedge_n thou_o may_v fear_v lest_o a_o serpent_n bite_v thou_o how_o much_o more_o with_o his_o bed_n let_v thy_o own_o wife_n delight_v thou_o she_o be_v the_o woman_n who_o thou_o chose_v for_o the_o companion_n of_o thy_o youth_n transgress_v not_o against_o she_o therefore_o let_v her_o love_n satisfy_v thou_o and_o her_o affection_n equal_v thy_o embrace_n let_v thy_o appetite_n be_v subject_a to_o he_o and_o share_v the_o duty_n and_o the_o honour_n of_o it_o between_o you_o both_o and_o keep_v chaste_a till_o the_o come_n of_o the_o lord_n jesus_n know_v that_o this_o be_v a_o equal_a duty_n of_o both_o god_n have_v bestow_v the_o power_n of_o each_o over_o other_o upon_o both_o think_v not_o thy_o husband_n tie_v to_o this_o rule_n o_o woman_n nor_o thou_o thy_o wife_n tie_v o_o husband_n and_o the_o other_o free_a the_o tie_n be_v equal_a it_o be_v not_o jealousy_n of_o each_o other_o odious_a which_o can_v preserve_v this_o honour_n no_o it_o be_v the_o canker_n of_o marriage_n bathsheba_n describe_v the_o condition_n of_o a_o good_a woman_n tell_v we_o the_o husband_n of_o such_o a_o woman_n 11._o rest_v in_o she_o his_o heart_n settle_v upon_o she_o nothing_o that_o a_o wise_a man_n 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chaste_a woman_n have_v be_v draw_v to_o commit_v this_o folly_n by_o no_o great_a motive_n than_o the_o vexation_n of_o jealousy_n as_o not_o fear_v god_n and_o therefore_o think_v they_o be_v as_o good_a commit_v it_o as_o be_v always_o false_o charge_v with_o it_o and_o mark_v it_o it_o be_v common_o the_o sin_n of_o couple_n unequal_a in_o year_n who_o have_v marry_v young_a husband_n wife_n than_o themselves_o lie_v open_a to_o this_o temptation_n alas_o i_o be_o too_o old_a to_o give_v he_o or_o her_o content_n they_o seek_v such_o as_o be_v like_o themselves_o when_o as_o yet_o the_o party_n be_v as_o clear_v from_o such_o aspersion_n as_o the_o child_n new_o bear_v what_o have_v thou_o offend_v once_o and_o be_v there_o no_o remedy_n but_o thou_o must_v solder_v it_o by_o a_o worse_o i_o speak_v not_o as_o if_o i_o will_v make_v man_n pander_n and_o bawd_n to_o their_o wife_n through_o their_o folly_n and_o careless_a confidence_n expose_v they_o to_o any_o temptation_n and_o 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it_o prove_v a_o mere_a idol_n of_o fancy_n nothing_o in_o all_o the_o world_n the_o lord_n indeed_o appoint_v a_o trial_n for_o the_o jealous_a man_n against_o his_o wife_n but_o we_o must_v not_o conceive_v this_o be_v to_o breed_v or_o nourish_v causeless_a conceit_n it_o be_v no_o doubt_n first_o bring_v to_o the_o judge_n in_o criminal_a cause_n to_o determine_v what_o the_o matter_n be_v and_o as_o our_o inquest_n do_v to_o cut_v off_o all_o mere_a surmise_n else_o what_o a_o bondage_n have_v it_o be_v for_o a_o wife_n to_o be_v so_o hurry_v and_o defame_v and_o although_o it_o be_v true_a that_o for_o the_o hardness_n of_o their_o heart_n the_o lord_n permit_v more_o liberty_n to_o man_n at_o that_o time_n be_v sturdy_a and_o rebellious_a shall_v that_o be_v any_o encouragement_n now_o to_o christian_n to_o nourish_v such_o trash_n in_o themselves_o to_o make_v their_o spirit_n their_o prayer_n their_o whole_a life_n sad_a and_o miserable_a to_o themselves_o and_o to_o be_v so_o 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duty_n seem_v to_o discourage_v any_o weak_a one_o as_o if_o their_o oil_n and_o meal_n can_v not_o reach_v out_o so_o far_o they_o shall_v never_o attain_v to_o this_o measure_n i_o will_v not_o answer_v they_o as_o once_o a_o poet_n answer_v one_o that_o ask_v he_o why_o he_o always_o bring_v in_o woman_n as_o very_o virtuous_a always_o commend_v they_o but_o another_o present_v they_o on_o the_o stage_n as_o vicious_a always_o traduce_v they_o oh_o say_v he_o i_o present_v they_o as_o i_o will_v have_v they_o as_o they_o shall_v be_v but_o he_o bring_v they_o in_o as_o they_o be_v common_o so_o i_o may_v say_v my_o discourse_n do_v not_o presuppose_v either_o all_o husband_n or_o wyve_n as_o they_o be_v but_o as_o they_o shall_v be_v aim_v at_o it_o as_o a_o mark_n but_o i_o will_v answer_v as_o a_o learned_a heathen_a in_o his_o epistle_n to_o his_o friend_n speak_v when_o he_o have_v receive_v a_o very_a short_a letter_n from_o he_o i_o have_v read_v over_o thy_o very_a short_a letter_n very_o often_o and_o so_o often_o that_o i_o have_v make_v it_o a_o very_a long_a one_o so_o here_o my_o large_a discourse_n may_v dismay_v some_o for_o come_v so_o short_a of_o practice_n as_o they_o do_v beseech_v the_o lord_n therefore_o to_o behold_v thy_o defect_n with_o a_o merciful_a eye_n to_o read_v the_o short_a line_n of_o thy_o obedience_n often_o over_o in_o the_o glass_n and_o perspective_n of_o the_o lord_n jesus_n and_o so_o by_o his_o large_a interpret_n and_o much_o look_v upon_o thy_o honest_a endeavour_n it_o shall_v be_v esteem_v as_o full_a and_o large_a god_n help_n our_o discourse_n of_o these_o matter_n be_v far_o large_a than_o the_o practice_n of_o
contract_n civil_a one_o and_o no_o more_o unsafe_a match_n for_o religious_a one_o 33._o connivers_n only_o at_o and_o not_o approover_n of_o religion_n in_o their_o yokefelowe_n taxcd_v 39_o comender_n of_o religion_n in_o their_o wife_n for_o by_o end_n reprooved_a ibid._n counsel_n for_o such_o as_o draw_v in_o a_o evil_a yoke_n pag._n 41._o 1._o rip_v up_o thy_o state_n to_o god_n 2._o redâ—eme_v old_a error_n and_o pray_v for_o pardon_n 3_o pass_v by_o pardonable_a fault_n 4._o fret_v not_o at_o thy_o lot_n 5._o utter_v not_o thy_o greivance_n easy_o 6._o justify_v not_o thâ—ne_v own_o sin_n by_o another_o ibi_fw-la &_o seq_n continency_n a_o rare_a gift_n of_o god_n therefore_o to_o be_v seek_v for_o of_o he_o 49._o no_o curiosity_n to_o marry_v apt_o 64._o corruption_n always_o affect_v a_o contrariety_n to_o the_o law_n of_o apt_a marry_n 67._o contemner_n of_o equal_a marriage_n reprooved_a 69._o counsel_n to_o such_o as_o be_v already_o unapt_o marry_v 70._o contract_n and_o consent_n of_o parent_n in_o marriage_n handle_v 71._o consent_v of_o parent_n necessary_a for_o marriage_n and_o why_o 71._o ibid._n exception_n against_o the_o strict_a rule_n of_o parent_n consent_v in_o marriage_n 77._o child_n objection_n against_o parent_n carelessness_n in_o their_o marriage_n answer_v 79._o counsel_n give_v they_o what_o to_o do_v in_o their_o suppose_a wrong_n 80._o parent_n obstinate_a to_o consent_v to_o be_v curb_v 81._o question_v about_o parent_n consent_v answer_v 81._o ibid._n cavil_n of_o such_o answer_v as_o plead_v for_o maintenance_n and_o respect_n from_o parent_n who_o consent_n they_o neglect_v 84._o dissemble_v and_o force_v consent_n of_o parent_n by_o child_n be_v sinful_a 85._o half_n consent_n of_o parent_n or_o consent_v after_o contract_n be_v faulty_a 86._o contract_n of_o marriage_n in_o what_o sense_n here_o use_v 96._o in_o what_o respect_v such_o contract_n may_v be_v say_v to_o be_v essential_a 104._o contract_v very_o ancient_a and_o of_o general_a use_n 105._o jewish_a contract_n what_o and_o how_o solemnize_v ibid._n act_n and_o performance_n of_o a_o solemn_a contract_n how_o to_o be_v do_v 106._o disdainer_n of_o contract_n tax_v 121._o contract_a couple_n must_v prize_v their_o contract_n 123._o special_a counsel_n touch_v it_o 124._o cause_o of_o the_o unhappy_a and_o unprosperous_a estate_n of_o many_o couple_n be_v the_o want_n of_o their_o joint_a religion_n 137._o chastity_n the_o main_a joint_a duty_n of_o marriage_n 163._o proof_n of_o it_o 164._o amplification_n of_o the_o point_n 166._o reason_n for_o it_o 1._o chastity_n be_v the_o main_a support_n of_o union_n 2._o the_o defilement_n of_o each_o party_n defile_v the_o whole_a marriage_n 3._o god_n have_v ordain_v one_o for_o one_o 4._o it_o cover_v all_o other_o defect_n but_o be_v cover_v by_o no_o other_o endowment_n 5._o it_o be_v the_o corner_n stone_n hold_v in_o all_o the_o building_n 6._o because_o it_o honour_v marriage_n in_o many_o respect_n 1._o in_o the_o fruitfulness_n of_o the_o womb_n 2._o bless_v of_o legitimation_n 3._o a_o curse_n be_v turn_v to_o a_o blessing_n hereby_o 167._o to_o 171._o chastity_n to_o be_v preserve_v and_o in_o how_o many_o thing_n it_o consist_v 172._o chastity_n of_o spirit_n necessary_a and_o why_o 172._o 173._o ibid._n chastity_n of_o prevention_n necessary_a wherein_o it_o consist_v why_o here_o urge_v 173._o 174._o 175._o chastity_n of_o bed_n needful_a heathen_a man_n shame_v christian_n in_o this_o two_o extreme_n here_o to_o be_v avoid_v ibid._n 175._o 176._o 177._o 178._o some_o mark_n to_o know_v moderation_n ibid._n 178._o popish_a force_a chastity_n and_o affect_a abstinence_n from_o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o bed_n compare_v 179._o inconvenience_n of_o both_o unjust_a abstinence_n and_o excess_n of_o liberty_n compare_v ibid._n chastity_n of_o body_n needful_a what_o be_v mean_v thereby_o exhortation_n thereto_o 180._o 181._o consent_v between_o couple_n a_o joint_a duty_n and_o needful_a 184._o reason_n 1._o by_o the_o experience_n both_o bad_a of_o such_o as_o want_v it_o and_o sweet_a of_o such_o as_o enjoy_v it_o 2._o the_o pretiousnesse_n of_o it_o 3._o it_o have_v a_o divine_a instinct_n in_o it_o 4._o it_o bring_v god_n into_o the_o marriage_n 184._o 185._o 186._o 178_o 188._o the_o praise_n of_o consent_n 186._o consent_n stand_v in_o three_o thing_n 1._o consent_v of_o heart_n 2._o of_o speech_n 3._o of_o life_n 188._o 189._o consent_v exhort_v unto_o and_o urge_v 200._o what_o ought_v to_o be_v do_v by_o both_o after_o their_o difference_n with_o the_o conclusion_n of_o the_o point_n 201._o 202._o cohabitation_n of_o husband_n with_o wife_n a_o necessary_a duty_n many_o abuse_n of_o this_o kind_n tax_v humiliation_n to_o such_o 217._o reproach_n of_o seperater_n 218._o condition_n requisite_a in_o a_o wife_n in_o the_o act_n of_o god_n matter_n 286._o whether_o wife_n may_v give_v to_o charitable_a use_n or_o not_o 272._o the_o mother_n consent_n in_o marriage_n not_o absolute_o require_v 81._o exhortation_n to_o chastity_n to_o keep_v our_o vessel_n with_o holiness_n and_o honour_n 354._o three_o counsel_n propound_v to_o abhor_v somewhat_o 1._o thou_o own_o self_n 2._o thought_n of_o contemplative_a uncleanness_n 3._o all_o colour_n and_o excuse_n of_o it_o 4._o all_o inward_a fomenter_n of_o it_o 5._o all_o outward_a temptation_n counsel_n 2._o to_o meditate_v of_o somewhat_o 2._o property_n of_o it_o 1._o that_o it_o be_v wise_a 2._o that_o it_o be_v deep_a and_o serious_a about_o both_o the_o property_n and_o penalty_n of_o this_o sin_n first_o the_o property_n and_o they_o be_v three_o 1._o the_o spiritualue_n of_o this_o sin_n show_v in_o six_o step_n or_o degree_n 1._o a_o evil_a heart_n 2._o evil_n work_n 3._o unbelief_n 4._o delusion_n and_o defilement_n 5._o hardness_n of_o heart_n 6._o depart_v from_o the_o live_a god_n second_o meditate_v of_o the_o peculiarne_n of_o this_o sin_n evil_a the_o three_o thing_n that_o it_o separate_v from_o god_n and_o from_o communion_n through_o excommunication_n if_o not_o inflict_v yet_o deserve_v the_o spirit_n of_o god_n excommunicate_v he_o in_o the_o court_n of_o his_o own_o conscience_n then_o second_o meditate_v on_o the_o penalty_n of_o this_o sin_n 1._o a_o giddiness_n and_o drunken_a security_n disable_n the_o sinner_n to_o lay_v it_o to_o his_o heart_n a_o woeful_a example_n of_o it_o from_o 354._o to_o 368._o then_o second_o temporal_a penalty_n of_o it_o 369._o the_o three_o counsel_n to_o practice_v somewhat_o and_o that_o concern_v either_o such_o as_o have_v be_v only_o guilty_a of_o it_o or_o else_o relapse_v to_o it_o after_o conversion_n for_o the_o former_a they_o must_v practice_v 1._o due_a humiliation_n and_o abasement_n under_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n 2._o they_o must_v gather_v hope_v out_o of_o the_o promise_n of_o god_n to_o pardon_v it_o 3._o glorify_v god_n in_o the_o confession_n of_o it_o 4._o set_a before_o thy_o eye_n the_o promise_n in_o 4._o respect_n 5._o sue_v out_o the_o kill_a power_n of_o christ_n to_o destroy_v lust_n 6._o return_v to_o the_o lord_n in_o chastity_n for_o ever_o last_o such_o as_o have_v revolt_v to_o it_o again_o must_v take_v counsel_n in_o divers_a particular_n to_o 384._o encouragement_n to_o all_o undefiled_a one_o 385._o magistrate_n both_o civil_a and_o ecclesiastical_a to_o who_o the_o censure_n of_o lust_n pertain_v must_v be_v in_o god_n stead_n to_o judge_n and_o censure_v all_o unclean_a person_n 384._o d._n diverter_n of_o their_o wife_n from_o religion_n to_o other_o matter_n reprooved_a 39_o duty_n of_o parent_n towards_o child_n unwise_o suffer_v to_o link_v themselves_o 78._o dissension_n of_o religious_a couple_n the_o shame_n of_o profession_n 190._o difference_n in_o couple_n wherein_o it_o stand_v 313._o e._n entrance_n into_o good_a marriage_n require_v marry_v in_o the_o lord_n and_o apt_a marry_n in_o the_o lord_n 21._o exhortation_n to_o it_o in_o many_o branch_n 45._o 46._o 48._o error_n of_o the_o time_n and_o prejudice_n of_o outward_a compliment_n must_v be_v abhor_v by_o he_o who_o will_v marry_v in_o the_o lord_n 51._o exception_n against_o the_o general_a rule_n of_o apt_a marriage_n many_o 62._o exhortation_n to_o parent_n not_o to_o fail_v their_o child_n in_o the_o business_n of_o their_o marriage_n 95._o exhortation_n to_o all_o good_a couple_n to_o close_v together_o in_o religion_n both_o inward_a as_o faith_n and_o outward_a in_o family_n worship_n and_o private_a 138._o 141._o 143._o exhortation_n to_o private_a intercourse_n with_o god_n 145._o exhortation_n to_o wife_n to_o be_v helpful_a in_o their_o place_n 302._o encouragement_n to_o such_o 303._o f._n faith_n the_o main_a duty_n for_o couple_n to_o join_v in_o the_o infinite_a misery_n of_o a_o marry_a life_n for_o lack_v of_o it_o 140._o family_n duty_n and_o private_a worship_n necessary_a for_o the_o marry_v to_o
to_o they_o that_o neglect_v the_o care_n of_o their_o child_n parent_n must_v go_v in_o a_o middle_a way_n between_o â—â—usterity_n and_o fâ—lly_o towards_o their_o child_n bâ—se_a shift_n and_o respect_n of_o parent_n in_o disregard_n of_o their_o child_n a_o contrary_a extreme_a of_o parent_n in_o overmuch_a love_n to_o child_n the_o 1._o degâ—eâ—â—_n the_o 2._o degree_n abuse_n of_o guardian_n and_o governor_n of_o orphan_n in_o this_o kind_n of_o neglect_n sundry_a way_n woeful_a fruit_n hereof_o use_v of_o exhortation_n of_o parent_n to_o attend_v their_o child_n in_o this_o great_a work_n second_o digression_n to_o the_o point_n of_o contract_n contract_n in_o what_o sense_n here_o use_v promise_n of_o marriage_n the_o root_n of_o a_o contract_n to_o be_v very_o cautious_o make_v and_o their_o property_n real_a contact_n as_o good_a as_o verbal_a what_o promise_v for_o marriage_n do_v bind_v a_o mutual_a one_o a_o free_a or_o voluntary_a one_o 3._o a_o plain_a one_o without_o deceit_n what_o that_o be_v admonition_n to_o all_o party_n to_o beware_v of_o their_o marriage_n promise_n raâ—h_o and_o inconsiderate_a promise_n of_o marriage_n very_o foolish_a and_o sinful_a whether_o a_o contract_n be_v essential_a to_o marriage_n contract_v very_o ancient_a and_o of_o general_a use_n jewish_a contract_n what_o josh_n 15._o 16._o action_n and_o performance_n of_o the_o contract_n â—ow_o to_o be_v do_v rational_a respect_n in_o which_o a_o contract_n may_v be_v use_v the_o 1._o sutablenes_n to_o the_o weight_n of_o the_o thing_n the_o 2._o to_o prevent_v inconstancy_n respect_n 3._o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o party_n contract_v general_n touch_v question_n whether_o publication_n of_o contract_n be_v necessary_a what_o be_v to_o be_v think_v of_o the_o marry_n by_o a_o minister_n whether_o cousin_n germane_a may_v marry_v answer_v i_o make_v no_o quarrel_n but_o oâ—ly_o show_v my_o opinion_n leave_v uther_n to_o themselves_o wherein_o differss_n contractfrom_o marriage_n god_n be_v in_o a_o contract_n for_o good_a and_o not_o evil_a but_o in_o marriage_n whether_o good_a or_o evil_n one_o be_v better_a spoil_v than_o 〈◊〉_d why_o a_o space_n be_v allot_v betwixt_o contract_n and_o marriage_n what_o spâ—ce_n be_v he_o most_o convenient_a what_o if_o either_o party_n defile_v itself_o before_o marriage_n of_o reproof_n of_o all_o disdainer_n of_o contract_n exhortation_n contract_a couple_n prize_v your_o contract_n 1._o sam._n 13._o 12._o job._n heb._n 13._o 5._o zach._n 12._o end_n 1._o cor._n 7._o deut._n 32._o end_n luc._n 22._o gâ—lath_n 6._o counsel_n in_o peciall_a for_o such_o the_o second_o general_a preservation_n of_o the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n in_o the_o conversation_n of_o it_o 2._o john_n 8._o prov._n 13._o honour_n of_o marriage_n to_o be_v preserve_v partly_o by_o the_o joint_a act_n of_o both_o and_o partly_o by_o the_o several_a act_n of_o each_o party_n joint_a act_n of_o the_o marry_v four_o jointhes_n iâ—_n worship_v a_o main_a preservative_n of_o honourable_a marriage_n 1._o sam._n 25._o reason_n of_o joinâ—_n religion_n of_o couple_n gâ—â—_n be_v their_o mutual_a god_n because_o the_o grace_n of_o each_o further_v both_o they_o enjoy_v all_o thing_n both_o good_a and_o bad_a in_o common_a religion_n be_v the_o cement_n of_o all_o fellowship_n from_o one_o instance_n viz._n their_o necessity_n of_o joint_a trust_n in_o god_n nothing_o have_v such_o blessing_n annex_v to_o it_o what_o if_o he_o one_o party_n will_v not_o join_v with_o the_o other_o reproof_n severalnesse_n of_o religion_n in_o the_o marry_a sinful_a if_o affect_v branch_n 2._o hinderer_n of_o each_o other_o in_o such_o joint_n religion_n to_o be_v tax_v branch_n 3._o such_o as_o dore_v in_o each_o other_o religion_n tax_v marry_a person_n who_o forsake_v their_o own_o fellowship_n and_o run_v to_o stranger_n faulty_a cause_n or_o the_o unhappy_a and_o unprosperous_a state_n of_o many_o couple_n be_v want_v of_o mutual_a religion_n exhortation_n to_o all_o good_a couple_n to_o be_v joint_a in_o their_o religion_n both_o inward_a as_o in_o faith_n and_o the_o like_a i'faith_o the_o principal_a prop_n of_o the_o marry_v infinite_a misery_n of_o the_o marry_v through_o the_o distrust_n of_o god_n providence_n family_n duty_n and_o private_a worship_n necessary_a for_o good_a couple_n to_o join_v in_o close_o needfnll_n to_o use_v private_a worship_n cause_n why_o it_o shall_v be_v so_o great_a benefit_n of_o prâ—vaâ—e_n jâ—â—â—t_a worship_n counsel_n about_o it_o exhortation_n to_o private_a enâ—â—â—ourse_n with_o god_n the_o second_o joint_a office_n of_o the_o marry_v conjugal_a love_n love_v aught_o to_o be_v joint_o preserve_v for_o the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n not_o only_o breed_v by_o peculiar_a instinct_n but_o oftentâ—ms_n by_o outward_a occasion_n and_o motive_n conjugal_a love_n a_o mix_a affection_n and_o how_o reason_n of_o it_o ephe._n 5._o 29._o rom._n 12._o 20._o ephe._n 5._o 25._o tit._n 2._o 4_o 5._o conjugal_a love_n though_o a_o joint_a duty_n to_o be_v carry_v in_o a_o several_a way_n psal_n 134._o 2._o tit._n 2._o 4._o ephe_n 5._o 22._o 24._o what_o that_o way_n be_v reproof_n branch_n 1._o force_v and_o lovelesse_a match_n dangerous_a and_o in_o what_o respect_v reproof_n branch_n 2._o love_n will_v not_o nourish_v self_n but_o must_v be_v nourish_v daily_o between_o couple_n by_o what_o mean_v love_n may_v be_v nourish_v gen._n 20._o 16._o admonition_n to_o the_o joint_a practice_n of_o conjugal_a love_n pro._n 23._o 29._o 30._o 4._o james_n 1._o danger_n of_o breaâ—h_n of_o conjugal_a love_n be_v sad_a 2._o king_n 7._o 4._o judg._n 18._o 23._o 24._o exhertation_n to_o couple_n to_o love_v join_o john_n 21._o 15._o john_n 14._o 15_o john_n 15._o 12._o 2._o gen._n 23._o motive_n to_o thehuâ—_n band_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n 1_o tim._n 2._o 15._o 1_o sam._n 25._o 39_o motive_n to_o the_o wife_n to_o love_v he_o 2_o sam._n 12._o 3._o third_o mutum_n all_o duty_n of_o the_o marry_v chastity_n chastity_n the_o mâ—yn_n joint_a duty_n of_o the_o marry_a proof_n of_o it_o math_n 196._o mal._n 2._o 15._o 2._o cor._n 7._o 2._o 1._o tim._n 3._o 2._o 1._o thes_n 4._o 4._o 1._o cor._n 3._o 16._o 17._o dâ—ut_fw-la 21._o 14._o gen_n 49._o 4._o pro._n 6._o 33._o judg._n 11._o 3._o 4._o judg._n 16._o 21._o amplification_n of_o this_o truth_n levit._fw-la 14_o 44._o 45._o chastity_n the_o main_n support_v of_o union_n the_o defilement_n of_o each_o party_n be_v enough_o to_o defile_v the_o whole_a state_n of_o marriage_n god_n have_v ordain_v one_o for_o one_o it_o cover_v all_o other_o defect_n but_o itself_o can_v be_v cover_v by_o no_o endowment_n it_o be_v the_o corner_n stone_n which_o hold_v in_o the_o whole_a building_n 1_o sam._n 18._o 28._o â—eâ—â—use_n in_o somerespect_n it_o make_v marriag_n honourable_a 12_o ps_n 3._o 8._o 1._o fruitfulness_n of_o womb_n numb_a 5._o 21._o isai_n 56._o 4._o 2_o respect_n bless_v of_o 〈◊〉_d gen._n 21._o 10._o 3._o the_o curse_n of_o siâ—_n turn_v to_o blessing_n by_o chastity_n 13._o levit._fw-la 49._o tit._n 1_o 15._o luc._n 11._o 41._o how_o chastity_n may_v be_v preserve_v 4._o way_n 1._o the_o spirit_n 2._o prevention_n 3._o bed_n 4._o body_n math._n 12._o 24._o pro._n 2d_o 26._o the._n 1._o chastâ—â—y_o of_o spirit_n must_v be_v keep_v against_o contemplative_a uncleanness_n why_o so_o needful_a the._n 2._o chastity_n of_o prevention_n necessary_a what_o be_v 2._o sam._n 11._o 2._o gen._n 34._o 1._o why_o this_o be_v here_o urge_v 2_o cor._n 12._o 7._o job._n 31._o 1._o 1_o cor._n 9_o 7._o the_o three_o chastity_n of_o the_o bed_n two_o extreme_n here_o the_o first_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 3._o the_o second_o levit._fw-la 20._o 18._o gen._n 26._o 8._o heathen_n shame_v we_o christian_n in_o this_o mark_v to_o know_v the_o moderation_n of_o the_o bed_n popish_a force_a chastity_n and_o affect_a abstinence_n from_o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o bed_n compare_v inconvensence_n of_o both_o unjust_a abstinence_n and_o excess_n of_o liberty_n compare_v the_o four_o &_o last_o head_n of_o the_o mutual_a duty_n be_v the_o chastity_n of_o body_n gen._n 39_o 8._o exhortation_n to_o the_o duty_n of_o chastity_n pro._n 5._o 〈◊〉_d and_o 9_o against_o base_a and_o unjust_a jealousy_n it_o be_v most_o odious_a pro._n 31._o 11._o remedy_n of_o the_o innocent_a party_n the_o four_o general_n and_o joint_a duty_n of_o the_o marry_a consent_n branch_n 1._o experience_n of_o such_o as_o want_v it_o prov._n 13._o 12._o branch_n 2._o the_o experience_n of_o such_o as_o enjoy_v it_o show_v it_o to_o be_v worth_a the_o preserve_n joint_o the_o price_n of_o this_o jewel_n in_o her_o nature_n deserve_v the_o careful_a improove_v of_o it_o the_o praise_n of_o consent_n consent_n hâ—th_v a_o divine_a instinct_n in_o it_o psal_n 133._o 23._o consent_n bring_v god_n into_o the_o marry_a 12._o math._n 26._o 2._o cor_fw-la 6._o 15
a_o question_n answer_v wherein_o consent_n stand_v in_o 3._o â—hâ—â—gs_n 1_o in_o consent_n of_o heart_n as_o chief_a ezek._n 1._o 19_o 2_o consent_n in_o speech_n necessary_a for_o the_o marry_v 2._o king_n 3._o 7._o pro._n 27._o 19_o 3_o consent_n in_o common_a life_n and_o occasion_n of_o it_o 2._o sam._n 3._o 36._o reproof_n vulgar_a guise_n of_o married_a one_o rude_a and_o rustical_a the_o dissension_n of_o religious_a couple_n the_o shame_n of_o profession_n amos._n 3._o 3._o pro._n 26._o 19_o humiliation_n to_o all_o faulty_a couple_n prov._n 20._o 3._o the_o duty_n urge_v luk._n 6._o 27._o 28._o 29._o admonition_n 1._o be_v not_o too_o coâ—fiâ—ent_a of_o yourselves_o in_o a_o tempt_v of_o marriage_n 2_o king_n 8._o 13._o â—er_n 31._o 18._o 19_o caveat_n 2._o pâ—â—y_o for_o this_o â—weet_a gift_n of_o 〈◊〉_d &_o amiableness_n phil._n 4._o luâ—_n 22._o 19_o caveat_n 3._o put_v on_o the_o lord_n jesus_n his_o meekness_n râ—m_fw-la 12._o end_n coloss_n 3._o mark_n 4_o 39_o 1._o sam._n 4._o 5._o job._n 1._o 19_o 1._o king_n 18._o 44._o caveat_n 4._o renounce_v not_o god_n to_o use_v carnal_a shift_n caveat_n 5._o keep_v each_o party_n the_o bound_n of_o his_o place_n caveat_n 6._o be_v prepare_v for_o the_o hard_a before_o 1_o sam._n 25._o exhortation_n to_o the_o marry_a to_o use_v cordial_a consent_n what_o be_v to_o be_v do_v by_o both_o after_o a_o difference_n even_o to_o repent_v and_o be_v humble_v judg._n 9_o 9_o 13._o 1._o king_n 6._o 7._o isaiah_n 42._o 3._o 4._o mâ—th_n 18._o 7._o exod._n 8._o 3._o philip._n 4._o 7._o conclusion_n of_o this_o main_n duâ—y_n coherence_n of_o the_o point_n first_o peculiar_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o be_v a_o man_n of_o understanding_n with_o this_o be_v 1._o pet._n 3._o 7._o particular_n wherein_o it_o consist_v first_o in_o what_o it_o consist_v not_o dan._n 4_o 30._o not_o in_o a_o high_a spirit_n pro._n 17_o 27._o tim._n 1._o 3._o 5._o not_o in_o a_o rash_a self_n willednesse_n joh._n 19_o 22._o psal_n 12._o 4._o to_o know_v but_o not_o practice_v not_o to_o give_v way_n to_o good_a counsel_n but_o no_o follow_v it_o nor_o to_o give_v counsel_n to_o either_o and_o not_o to_o himself_o second_o branch_n what_o be_v to_o be_v a_o man_n of_o understanding_n 1_o king_n 3._o 7._o 9_o to_o renounce_v our_o own_o understanding_n pro._n 30._o 2._o 1._o sam._n 18._o 18._o 1._o sam._n 25_o 41._o to_o be_v first_o subject_n to_o god_n and_o so_o mcgovern_v other_o matth._n 8._o 9_o the_o three_o to_o be_v more_o sensible_a of_o a_o burden_n then_o of_o a_o honour_n to_o be_v qualify_v with_o a_o spirit_n of_o all_o sort_n as_o occasion_n require_v particular_n of_o this_o general_a two_o it_o appear_v in_o matter_n of_o god_n instance_n wherein_o cant._n 8_o 3._o the_o backwardness_n of_o most_o husband_n in_o this_o kind_n understanding_n in_o matter_n outward_a requisite_a for_o the_o man_n reproof_n husband_n not_o walk_v as_o man_n of_o understanding_n to_o be_v blame_v pro._n â—4_n 31._o terror_n husband_n who_o can_v guide_v themselves_o worse_o instruction_n many_o wave_n just_o stumble_v at_o the_o folly_n of_o their_o husband_n 1._o cor._n 11._o 14._o passage_n of_o folly_n in_o husband_n instance_n instance_n instance_n instance_n conclusion_n with_o exhortation_n to_o husband_n to_o be_v man_n of_o understanding_n cohabitation_n of_o the_o man_n with_o the_o wife_n necessary_a 1_o cor._n 7_o 10._o humiliation_n to_o all_o that_o refuse_v to_o cohabite_v reproach_n of_o seperater_n ruth_n 1._o 16._o second_o several_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n providence_n eccles_n 2._o 26._o job._n 5._o 7._o math._n 6._o 25._o 26_o 1._o tim._n 5._o 8._o prov._n 27._o 23._o 1._o cor._n 7._o 33._o reason_n of_o it_o in_o general_a he_o honour_v his_o marriage_n by_o 〈◊〉_d and_o how_o ephes_n 3._o 15._o in_o what_o consist_v it_o first_o in_o the_o through_o skill_n in_o the_o trade_n of_o his_o way_n prov._n 6._o 6._o shun_v unlawful_a trade_n he_o must_v get_v wisdom_n &_o insight_n not_o scorn_v they_o that_o can_v direct_v curiosity_n in_o trade_n must_v be_v abhor_v there_o must_v be_v a_o stock_n less_o or_o more_o to_o occupy_v job._n 7._o 8._o application_n of_o himself_o to_o his_o object_n with_o diligence_n prov._n 10._o 4._o rule_n for_o diligent_a improvement_n prov._n 16_o 3._o begin_v it_o with_o god_n psal_n 127._o 1._o isaiah_n 30._o 7._o rule_n 2._o yet_o destroy_v not_o thy_o own_o prov._n 1._o 32._o prov._n 18_o 9_o rule_v 3_o bâ—waâ—e_v of_o pâ—king_v quareis_n with_o thy_o call_v rule_n 4._o subjection_n to_o god_n in_o a_o call_v deut._n 33._o 8._o 9_o 10._o 1._o tim._n 2_o 15._o prov._n rule_n 5._o aim_v not_o at_o bâ—arding_v up_o â—r_o multiply_v tâ—y_a estate_n rule_n 6._o serve_v god_n with_o thy_o increase_n psal_n 16._o 2._o 3._o eccles_n 11._o 1._o rule_n 7._o tâ—ke_a loss_n as_o well_o as_o gain_n patient_o and_o content_o job._n 42._o 10._o rule_n 8._o be_v joyful_a in_o all_o thy_o labour_n uâ—der_v the_o sun_n pâ—oâ—_n 5._o 18._o job._n 31._o 27._o deut._n 26._o luke_n 1._o 46._o 47._o heb._n 3._o 17._o reproof_n branch_n careless_n deserter_n of_o their_o wife_n odious_a branch_n neglecter_n of_o learning_n their_o trade_n lyvers_n upon_o their_o usury_n odious_a improvidence_n under_o colour_n of_o religion_n vicious_a branch_n 4._o 〈◊〉_d â—â—ing_n course_v dishonour_v marriage_n young_a heir_n wâ—â—stfull_a overthrow_v their_o marriage_n digression_n admon_a tory_n to_o parent_n branch_n 2._o undiscreet_a borrow_n overstocking_n uâ—dersellings_n bad_a husbandry_n branch_n 7._o engross_a many_o farm_n at_o once_o branch_n 8._o change_a of_o calling_n in_o what_o respect_v a_o man_n may_v change_v or_o divert_v from_o his_o call_n branch_n 9_o unsubjection_n to_o the_o rule_n of_o providence_n exhortation_n the_o 3._o particular_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n respectiveness_n gen._n 2._o 23._o the_o open_n of_o the_o point_n at_o large_a eph._n 5._o 18._o 29._o union_n the_o root_n of_o this_o 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