Selected quad for the lemma: heart_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
heart_n	affection_n	know_v	love_v	2,057	5	5.7368	4	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A78163	Heroick education, or Choice maximes and instructions, for the most sure and facile training up of youth, in the ways of eminent learning, and vertues. A treatise very necessary for all men; but most especially for such as undertake the charge, to govern the young nobility and gentry. In two books, together with a short appendix. / By I.B. Gent.	I. B., Gent.	1657 (1657)	Wing B83; Thomason E1634_2; ESTC R22321	45,520	155

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worthy_a of_o such_o esteem_n respect_n be_v a_o tribute_n which_o virtue_n command_v and_o acquire_v even_o from_o those_o that_o hate_v it_o those_o that_o possess_v it_o need_v use_v no_o art_n nor_o false_a grimaces_n she_o always_o keep_v she_o own_o majesty_n and_o be_v revere_v by_o the_o great_a power_n though_o she_o can_v make_v herself_o be_v always_o belove_v let_v he_o be_v careful_a therefore_o to_o deserve_v honour_n and_o obedience_n rather_o than_o to_o exact_v it_o if_o he_o will_v bring_v these_o fruit_n forth_o in_o his_o disciple_n he_o must_v have_v the_o root_n of_o it_o to_o grow_v within_o himself_o the_o honour_n of_o a_o prince_n if_o found_v only_o in_o the_o number_n and_o strength_n of_o his_o guard_n be_v but_o a_o vain_a appearance_n in_o his_o subject_n and_o as_o such_o a_o one_o have_v no_o true_a majesty_n but_o only_o a_o few_o outward_a pomp_n and_o gawdy_a show_n so_o neither_o be_v he_o true_o respect_v or_o observe_v but_o only_o with_o a_o 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