occasionatus_fw-la a_o man_n occasionate_a a_o man_n occasion_n or_o the_o occasion_n of_o a_o man_n to_o serve_v as_o a_o aid_n and_o as_o a_o second_o to_o man_n 3._o the_o woman_n be_v make_v after_o the_o man_n for_o adam_n be_v first_o form_v than_o eve_n 1_o tim._n 2.13_o 4._o 2.14_o 1_o tim._n 2.14_o the_o woman_n be_v first_o in_o the_o transgression_n she_o be_v first_o deceive_v by_o the_o serpent_n than_o she_o draw_v her_o husband_n into_o the_o same_o deception_n hereby_o she_o be_v the_o cause_n and_o beginning_n of_o sin_n and_o ruin_n to_o all_o mankind_n and_o though_o she_o be_v give_v to_o be_v a_o help_n to_o man_n yet_o she_o prove_v at_o first_o to_o be_v a_o great_a hurt_n and_o hindrance_n to_o he_o from_o this_o priority_n and_o causality_n of_o the_o woman_n in_o sin_n the_o apostle_n infer_v and_o press_v subjection_n and_o silence_n upon_o she_o to_o the_o man_n and_o not_o to_o usurp_v authority_n over_o the_o man_n 1_o tim._n 2.11_o 12_o 14._o upon_o this_o account_n she_o be_v more_o strait_o subject_v to_o her_o husband_n for_o this_o be_v inflict_v as_o a_o chastisement_n for_o sin_n upon_o the_o woman_n 3.16_o gen._n 3.16_o that_o her_o desire_n shall_v be_v subject_a to_o her_o husband_n &_o he_o shall_v ruleover_o she_o which_o imply_v as_o some_o observe_v a_o further_a rule_n than_o man_n have_v over_o she_o by_o creation_n and_o with_o more_o trouble_n and_o grief_n unto_o womankind_n so_o that_o the_o yoke_n be_v now_o become_v to_o she_o more_o hard_a and_o heavy_a to_o be_v bear_v woman_n may_v object_n object_n that_o be_v eve_n fault_n to_o be_v deceive_v by_o the_o serpent_n and_o to_o be_v first_o in_o the_o transgression_n not_o we_o answ_n eve_n punishment_n be_v you_o therefore_o her_o fault_n be_v you_o her_o peculiar_a sin_n be_v the_o fall_n distinct_a from_o adam_n be_v just_o impute_v to_o you_o or_o else_o her_o particular_a punishment_n distinct_a from_o adam_n be_v unjust_o inflict_v upon_o you_o eve_n fault_n be_v as_o much_o you_o as_o adam_n sin_n be_v we_o this_o subjection_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o the_o husband_n be_v the_o ground_n of_o the_o woman_n wear_v a_o vail_n or_o cover_n as_o a_o sign_n she_o be_v under_o the_o power_n and_o authority_n of_o her_o husband_n 1_o cor._n 11.9_o 10._o and_o subject_a to_o he_o rebekah_n take_v a_o vail_n and_o cover_v herself_o when_o she_o see_v isaac_n gen._n 24.65_o therefore_o she_o be_v make_v out_o of_o the_o side_n not_o of_o the_o head_n that_o she_o may_v be_v under_o he_o not_o above_o he_o in_o place_n and_o power_n sarah_n obey_v abraham_n who_o daughter_n all_o obedient_a wife_n be_v 1_o pet._n 3.6_o and_o the_o holy_a woman_n in_o old_a time_n who_o trust_v in_o god_n be_v in_o subjection_n to_o their_o own_o husband_n to_o v._o 5._o and_o those_o wife_n that_o be_v not_o obedient_a to_o their_o husband_n be_v not_o good_a tit._n 2.5_o in_o this_o sense_n as_o some_o conceive_v the_o woman_n be_v say_v to_o be_v the_o glory_n of_o the_o man_n 1_o cor._n 11.7_o scilâ—by_o her_o subjection_n when_o she_o obey_v her_o husband_n as_o man_n be_v the_o glory_n of_o god_n when_o he_o obey_v god_n this_o be_v the_o first_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n submission_n a_o comely_a lesson_n for_o she_o to_o learn_v disobedience_n in_o a_o wife_n be_v a_o fault_n even_o in_o a_o queen_n much_o great_a in_o a_o mean_a woman_n even_o among_o heathen_n much_o more_o among_o christian_n that_o be_v better_o teach_v as_o in_o queen_n vashti_n esther_n 1.12.20_o 2._o 5.33_o 2._o reverence_n eph._n 5.33_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n be_v reverence_n to_o her_o husband_n person_n all_o due_a respect_n to_o he_o as_o her_o head_n in_o word_n and_o deed_n in_o gesture_n and_o deportment_n even_o as_o sarah_n obey_v abraham_n and_o call_v he_o lord_n 1_o pet._n 3.6_o she_o be_v as_o one_o say_v crown_v and_o chronicle_v for_o it_o michal_n mock_v her_o husband_n david_n 23._o 2_o sam._n 6.21_o 23._o and_o god_n smite_v she_o with_o barrenness_n for_o it_o she_o be_v childless_a to_o her_o death_n the_o have_v reverential_a respect_n to_o her_o husband_n be_v a_o honour_n to_o he_o and_o a_o ornament_n to_o herself_o 3._o helpfulnes_n 3._o helpfulnes_n duty_n be_v helpfulness_n to_o her_o husband_n in_o every_o thing_n in_o his_o body_n to_o cherish_v that_o in_o his_o soul_n to_o tender_v that_o in_o his_o family_n to_o order_v that_o in_o his_o estate_n to_o get_v at_o least_o to_o save_v and_o to_o dispose_v that_o aright_o not_o to_o spend_v or_o waste_v the_o same_o in_o his_o call_n and_o affair_n to_o promote_v they_o in_o his_o name_n and_o credit_n to_o preserve_v that_o in_o his_o secret_n to_o lock_v they_o up_o in_o her_o bosom_n she_o ought_v to_o be_v a_o help_n to_o he_o in_o every_o thing_n a_o hindrance_n in_o nothing_o else_o she_o be_v a_o woman_n but_o not_o a_o wife_n and_o he_o that_o find_v she_o do_v not_o find_v a_o good_a thing_n prov._n 18.22_o the_o wife_n shall_v cherish_v her_o husband_n as_o the_o better_a part_n of_o herself_o for_o this_o very_a end_n god_n make_v she_o for_o man_n and_o marry_v she_o to_o man_n to_o be_v a_o help_n meet_v for_o he_o gen._n 2.18_o if_o she_o be_v not_o a_o meet_a help_n for_o the_o man_n she_o will_v not_o please_v satisfy_v and_o give_v content_a a_o wife_n be_v like_o a_o garment_n though_o the_o cloth_n it_o be_v make_v of_o be_v very_o good_a yet_o if_o it_o do_v not_o fit_v we_o it_o will_v not_o please_v we_o it_o will_v be_v uneasy_a or_o uncomely_a we_o take_v no_o delight_n to_o wear_v it_o conveniency_n cause_v contentation_n if_o the_o wife_n be_v no_o meet_a help_n shape_v and_o cut_v out_o as_o it_o be_v of_o purpose_n for_o the_o man_n to_o fit_v and_o suit_v he_o every_o way_n in_o his_o disposition_n conversation_n and_o occasion_n she_o will_v not_o sit_v close_o to_o the_o man_n as_o a_o garment_n do_v to_o the_o body_n that_o fit_v it_o but_o hang_v loose_a or_o be_v ready_a to_o fall_v off_o and_o rather_o hinder_v then_o further_o he_o and_o not_o be_v a_o ornament_n to_o he_o i_o commend_v prov._n 31._o from_o 10._o to_o the_o end_n as_o a_o glass_n for_o all_o that_o will_v be_v good_a wife_n to_o look_v and_o dress_v themselves_o in_o or_o as_o a_o pattern_n to_o imitate_v or_o rule_v to_o walk_v by_o every_o day_n a_o virtuous_a woman_n will_v do_v her_o husband_n good_a and_o not_o evil_a all_o the_o day_n of_o her_o life_n etc._n etc._n approve_v herself_o faithful_a to_o he_o in_o every_o thing_n that_o his_o heart_n may_v trust_v safe_o in_o she_o 12._o pro._n 31.11_o 12._o for_o marriage_n be_v conjugium_fw-la the_o fellowship_n of_o a_o yoke_n wherein_o the_o wife_n must_v bear_v one_o end_n and_o draw_v equal_o with_o her_o husband_n 4._o 2.5_o 4._o chastity_n tit._n 2.5_o duty_n be_v chastity_n of_o conversation_n which_o follow_v from_o chastity_n of_o affection_n and_o disposition_n in_o the_o heart_n wife_n must_v abstain_v not_o only_o from_o all_o act_n but_o from_o all_o appearance_n of_o lightness_n wantonness_n dalliance_n or_o unfaithfulness_n that_o their_o husband_n who_o cast_v off_o ordinance_n and_o holy_a duty_n may_v by_o the_o holy_a and_o chaste_a conversation_n of_o their_o wife_n be_v gain_v to_o the_o lord_n to_o have_v a_o like_n and_o good_a opinion_n of_o the_o gospel_n and_o the_o way_n of_o christ_n in_o which_o they_o walk_v 1_o pet._n 3.1_o 2._o this_o shall_v be_v the_o wife_n design_n upon_o her_o husband_n 5._o fear_n 5._o fear_n duty_n be_v conjugal_a fear_n of_o offend_v or_o displease_v her_o husband_n she_o that_o be_v marry_v say_v paul_n care_v for_o the_o thing_n of_o the_o world_n how_o she_o may_v please_v her_o husband_n 1_o cor._n 7.34_o wife_n shall_v couple_v chastity_n with_o fear_n in_o their_o carriage_n to_o their_o husband_n not_o to_o cross_v or_o vex_v or_o grieve_v they_o 6._o modesty_n 6_o modesty_n duty_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v modesty_n of_o apparel_n and_o of_o behaviour_n 1_o of_o apparel_n apparel_n 1_o of_o apparel_n not_o to_o affect_v costly_a gaudy_a attire_n new_a fangle_a fashion_n or_o to_o go_v above_o her_o rank_n or_o to_o give_v way_n to_o pride_n vanity_n excess_n therein_o or_o to_o account_v outward_a adorn_v as_o plait_v of_o the_o hair_n or_o wear_v of_o gold_n etc._n etc._n or_o deck_v of_o the_o body_n her_o chief_a ornament_n but_o 1._o a_o meek_a and_o quiet_a spirit_n the_o frame_n of_o the_o hide_a man_n of_o the_o heart_n which_o be_v incorruptible_a which_o be_v of_o great_a price_n in_o the_o sight_n of_o god_n 1._o pet._n 3.3_o 4._o and_o a_o great_a ornament_n in_o the_o sight_n of_o man_n for_o after_o this_o manner_n in_o the_o
old_a time_n the_o holy_a woman_n who_o trust_v in_o god_n and_o be_v in_o subjection_n to_o their_o own_o husband_n adorn_v themselves_o vers_fw-la 5._o 2._o 10._o 1_o tim._n 2.8_o 9_o 10._o and_o good_a work_n i_o will_v say_v paul_n that_o woman_n adorn_v themselves_o in_o modest_a apparel_n with_o shamefacedness_n and_o sobriety_n not_o with_o broider_a hair_n or_o gold_n pearls_z or_o costly_a array_n but_o which_o become_v woman_n profess_v godliness_n with_o good_a work_n both_o paul_n and_o peter_n be_v to_o be_v understand_v in_o a_o comparative_a sense_n that_o woman_n adorn_v shall_v be_v not_o so_o much_o in_o outward_a attire_n as_o in_o inward_a virtue_n or_o rather_o in_o the_o latter_a then_o in_o the_o former_a even_o godly_a woman_n may_v wear_v gold_n and_o jewel_n and_o precious_a thing_n and_o good_a attire_n as_o rebekah_n do_v the_o earring_n and_o bracelet_n which_o abraham_n servant_n put_v upon_o she_o 47._o gen._n 24.30_o 47._o with_o these_o limitation_n 1._o that_o these_o be_v suitable_a to_o their_o rank_n place_n and_o state_n and_o not_o costly_a above_o their_o ability_n and_o as_o the_o most_o wise_a godly_a grave_a woman_n be_v habit_v 2_o that_o they_o be_v without_o wantonness_n wastfulness_n or_o curious_a nicery_n or_o new_a fangledness_n for_o fashion_n god_n visiâ—eth_v for_o strange_a apparel_n zeph._n 1.8_o 3_o without_o pride_n vanity_n or_o excess_n or_o think_v better_a of_o themselves_o for_o they_o 4_o so_o that_o they_o place_v their_o chief_a fineness_n in_o their_o inward_a adorn_n rather_o then_o outward_a more_o in_o their_o grace_n and_o good_a work_n then_o in_o their_o garment_n and_o endeavour_v by_o the_o outward_a ornament_n of_o their_o body_n to_o set_v forth_o the_o inward_a beauty_n of_o their_o soul_n 2_o 3._o 2_o of_o behaviour_n tit_n 2_o 3._o also_o modesty_n of_o behaviour_n to_o express_v the_o inward_a holiness_n of_o their_o heart_n in_o sober_a deportment_n in_o countenance_n gesture_n and_o speech_n to_o open_v their_o mouth_n with_o discretion_n prov._n 31.26_o 9.13_o prov._n 7.11_o 12_o and_o 9.13_o and_o bridle_v their_o tongue_n and_o not_o be_v as_o the_o harlot_n babble_v and_o clamorous_a who_o be_v as_o extravagant_a in_o her_o tongue_n as_o in_o her_o foot_n good_a wife_n shall_v account_v meekness_n of_o spirit_n their_o chief_a ornament_n and_o take_v heed_n they_o be_v not_o either_o 1_o proud_a or_o imperious_a in_o their_o spirit_n speech_n look_n carriage_n 2_o or_o unquiet_a turbulent_a impatient_a always_o brawl_v or_o chide_v such_o wife_n be_v neither_o credit_n nor_o comfort_n to_o their_o husband_n but_o a_o continual_a vexation_n thorn_n in_o their_o side_n and_o prick_v in_o their_o eye_n the_o contention_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v a_o continual_a drop_n 19_o prov._n 13._o and_o 27.15_o like_a rain_n that_o fall_v into_o all_o the_o room_n of_o a_o house_n which_o be_v very_o tedious_a and_o irksome_a 21.9.25.21_o prov._n 21.9.25.21_o it_o be_v better_a to_o awâ—â—â—_n in_o the_o corner_n of_o a_o housetop_n then_o with_o a_o â—rawling_a woman_n in_o a_o wide_a house_n thus_o much_o concern_v the_o particular_a duty_n of_o husband_n to_o wife_n and_o of_o the_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n 7._o 2._o duty_n common_a to_o both_o 7._o 2._o now_o follow_v the_o duty_n common_a to_o both_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o to_o be_v perform_v by_o both_o or_o exercise_v to_o or_o with_o or_o for_o both_o which_o be_v equal_o reciprocal_a and_o of_o like_a obligation_n these_o be_v seven_o prayer_n 1_o prayer_n 1._o prayer_n to_o god_n frequent_a and_o fervent_a both_o joint_o and_o several_o for_o all_o marriage_n grace_n and_o marriage_n comfort_n especial_o 1._o for_o suitableness_n of_o disposition_n that_o god_n will_v fashion_v your_o heart_n alike_o 2._o for_o wisdom_n to_o carry_v with_o most_o beauty_n amiableness_n and_o swâ—â—tness_n for_o the_o benefit_n and_o advantage_n comfort_n and_o encouragement_n one_o of_o another_o 3_o for_o god_n presence_n with_o you_o in_o it_o and_o for_o god_n blessing_n upon_o it_o and_o that_o god_n will_v build_v you_o a_o house_n psalm_n 127._o by_o give_v you_o hopeful_a child_n faithful_a servant_n bless_a good_n let_v husband_n and_o wife_n interest_n god_n much_o in_o their_o marriage_n by_o prayer_n reas_n 1_o because_o a_o conjugal_a condition_n can_v be_v no_o more_o comfortable_a or_o satisfactory_a to_o we_o than_o god_n make_v it_o it_o will_v be_v a_o empty_a thing_n if_o god_n do_v not_o fill_v it_o and_o bitter_a if_o god_n do_v not_o sweeten_v it_o it_o be_v not_o the_o have_v of_o a_o husband_n or_o a_o wife_n but_o of_o god_n in_o they_o or_o with_o they_o that_o give_v content_a comfort_n and_o satisfaction_n we_o ought_v in_o all_o our_o way_n to_o acknowledge_v god_n especial_o in_o marriage_n which_o be_v one_o of_o the_o chief_a of_o our_o way_n and_o a_o great_a turn_v of_o our_o life_n which_o concern_v the_o future_a comfort_n thereof_o 2_o because_o 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real_o at_o their_o heart_n or_o in_o sincerity_n for_o to_o dissemble_v affection_n and_o counterfeit_n love_n and_o kindness_n will_v deprive_v they_o of_o the_o comfort_n and_o sweetness_n of_o marriage_n and_o make_v it_o in_o time_n a_o burden_n and_o bitterness_n to_o they_o sincere_a love_n knit_v their_o heart_n as_o mâ—n_z join_v their_o hand_n together_o else_o they_o will_v not_o cleave_v but_o sit_v loose_a and_o be_v ready_a to_o leave_v one_o another_o love_n 4._o ground_n of_o mutual_a love_n but_o there_o be_v four_o special_a ground_n of_o mutual_a love_n and_o deareness_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n scil_n donation_n propriety_n union_n and_o necessity_n 1._o donation_n they_o be_v special_a gift_n bestow_v by_o god_n the_o one_o upon_o the_o other_o 19.14_o 1_o donation_n prov._n 18.22_o and_o 19.14_o which_o shall_v be_v a_o precious_a endearment_n of_o one_o to_o other_o thus_o they_o shall_v look_v at_o themselves_o this_o be_v the_o woman_n god_n have_v 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