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A00554 Counsel to the husband: to the wife instruction A short and pithy treatise of seuerall and ioynt duties, belonging vnto man and wife, as counsels to the one, and instructions to the other; for their more perfect happinesse in this present life, and their eternall glorie in the life to come. Ste. B. 1608 (1608) STC 1069; ESTC S118841 33,892 104

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