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〈◊〉_d ruler_n of_o his_o own_o house_n king_n be_v father_n of_o their_o own_o country_n and_o father_n be_v king_n in_o their_o own_o house_n in_o respect_n of_o their_o rule_n and_o authority_n over_o they_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d homer_n ody_n lib._n 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d idem_fw-la ody_n 9_o direction_n ii_o 8._o n_o c_o sibi_fw-la nec_fw-la aliis_fw-la utilis_fw-la omne_fw-la animi_fw-la vitium_fw-la tanto_fw-la conspectius_fw-la in_o se_fw-la crimen_fw-la habet_fw-la quanto_fw-la qui_fw-la peccat_fw-la major_a habetur_fw-la juven_n sat._n 8._o 2._o that_o prayer_n be_v manage_v to_o the_o spiritual_a benefit_n of_o the_o family_n the_o master_n thereof_o shall_v make_v it_o his_o business_n to_o be_v accomplish_v with_o gift_n and_o knowledge_n suitable_a to_o the_o place_n where_o god_n have_v set_v he_o ignorance_n in_o a_o master_n of_o a_o family_n render_v he_o uncapable_a of_o the_o discharge_n 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