Selected quad for the lemma: friend_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
friend_n	word_n	young_a	youth_n	36	3	7.6023	4	false

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ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A47663	The secret miracles of nature in four books : learnedly and moderately treating of generation, and the parts thereof, the soul, and its immortality, of plants and living creatures, of diseases, their symptoms and cures, and many other rarities ... : whereunto is added one book containing philosophical and prudential rules how man shall become excellent in all conditions, whether high or low, and lead his life with health of body and mind ... / written by that famous physitian, Levinus Lemnius.; De miraculis occultis naturae. English	Lemnius, Levinus, 1505-1568.	1658 (1658)	Wing L1044; ESTC R8382	466,452	422

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warn_v we_o of_o it_o that_o we_o do_v not_o give_v the_o right_a hand_n to_o every_o man_n dance_v a_o proverb_n take_v from_o dance_v which_o the_o dutch_a render_v thus_o siet_a wie_a ghy_fw-mi bijden_fw-mi hand_n neempt_v see_v who_o you_o take_v by_o the_o hand_n the_o similitude_n be_v take_v from_o dance_v and_o leap_v together_o for_o young_a man_n when_o they_o go_v to_o dance_v will_v not_o take_v every_o one_o by_o the_o hand_n but_o they_o use_v to_o consider_v among_o maid_n who_o be_v rustic_n and_o who_o of_o a_o gentile_a blood_n which_o also_o be_v chief_o to_o be_v observe_v in_o the_o society_n of_o our_o life_n and_o in_o contract_v of_o friendship_n for_o some_o that_o be_v unskilful_a in_o humane_a affair_n and_o can_v discern_v false_a friend_n from_o true_a admit_v all_o man_n even_o those_o they_o never_o have_v trial_n of_o into_o their_o most_o secret_a famililiarity_n which_o afterward_o they_o find_v to_o be_v false_a impostor_n and_o deceiver_n wherefore_o 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to_o observe_v our_o friend_n to_o the_o damage_n of_o our_o own_o conscience_n or_o wrong_v do_v to_o religion_n chap._n xlii_o flatterer_n which_o the_o dutch_a common_o call_v pluymstrijcker_n must_v be_v avoid_v dangerous_a a_o flatterer_n be_v dangerous_a since_o the_o art_n of_o cog_a and_o flatter_a or_o rather_o craftiness_n which_o consist_v in_o a_o artificial_a entice_a by_o word_n may_v easy_o catch_v a_o simple_a man_n i_o give_v thou_o warning_n that_o thou_o let_v not_o thy_o ear_n be_v open_a to_o flatterer_n and_o not_o to_o suffer_v thyself_o to_o be_v delude_v by_o their_o enchant_a and_o fair_a speech_n by_o these_o mark_n shall_v you_o discern_v between_o a_o true_a and_o faithful_a friend_n 17._o the_o difference_n betwixt_o a_o friend_n and_o a_o flatterer_n prov._n