have_v to_o mind_n if_o vain_a and_o empty_a person_n like_o yourselves_o commend_v you_o for_o your_o bravery_n or_o curiosity_n so_o will_v not_o any_o judicious_a sober_a person_n who_o commendation_n be_v much_o worth_n and_o yet_o i_o must_v here_o with_o grief_n take_v notice_n that_o when_o some_o few_o that_o in_o other_o matter_n seem_v wise_a and_o religious_a be_v themselves_o a_o little_a taint_v with_o this_o childish_a curiosity_n and_o pride_n and_o let_v fall_v word_n of_o disparagement_n against_o those_o who_o dress_n and_o dwelling_n and_o entertainment_n be_v not_o so_o curious_a as_o their_o own_o this_o prove_v the_o great_a maintainer_n of_o this_o sin_n and_o the_o most_o notable_a service_n to_o the_o devil_n for_o then_o abundance_n will_v plead_v this_o for_o this_o sinful_a curiosity_n and_o pride_n and_o say_v i_o shall_v else_o be_v account_v base_a or_o fordo_v even_o such_o and_o such_o will_v speak_v against_o i_o take_v heed_n if_o you_o will_v needs_o be_v such_o yourselves_o that_o you_o prate_v not_o against_o other_o that_o be_v not_o as_o vain_a and_o curious_a as_o you_o for_o the_o nature_n of_o man_n be_v more_o prone_a to_o pride_n and_o vanity_n than_o to_o humility_n and_o the_o improvement_n of_o their_o time_n and_o â—ost_o in_o great_a matter_n and_o while_o you_o think_v that_o you_o speak_v but_o against_o indecency_n you_o become_v the_o devil_n preacher_n and_o do_v he_o more_o service_n than_o you_o consider_v of_o you_o may_v as_o wise_o speak_v against_o people_n for_o use_v to_o eat_v or_o drink_v too_o little_a when_o there_o be_v not_o one_o of_o a_o multitude_n that_o live_v not_o ordinary_o in_o excess_n and_o so_o excess_n will_v get_v advantage_n by_o it_o §_o 10._o direct_v 10._o be_v special_o careful_a in_o the_o government_n of_o your_o tongue_n and_o let_v your_o word_n be_v 10._o direct_v 10._o few_o and_o well_o consider_v before_o you_o speak_v they_o a_o double_a diligence_n be_v needful_a in_o this_o because_o it_o be_v the_o most_o common_a miscarriage_n of_o your_o sex_n a_o laxative_a run_a tongue_n be_v so_o great_a a_o dishonour_n to_o you_o that_o i_o never_o know_v a_o woman_n very_o full_a of_o word_n but_o she_o be_v the_o pity_n of_o her_o friend_n and_o the_o contempt_n of_o other_o who_o behind_o her_o back_n will_v make_v a_o scorn_n of_o she_o and_o talk_v of_o she_o as_o some_o crackt-brained_n or_o half-witted_a person_n yea_o though_o your_o talk_n be_v good_a it_o will_v be_v tedious_a and_o contemptible_a if_o it_o be_v thus_o pour_v out_o and_o be_v too_o cheap_a prov._n 10._o 19_o in_o the_o multitude_n of_o word_n there_o want_v not_o sin_n but_o he_o that_o refrain_v his_o lip_n be_v wise_a you_o must_v answer_v in_o judgement_n for_o your_o idle_a word_n matth._n 12._o 36._o you_o will_v take_v it_o ill_o to_o be_v account_v fool_n and_o make_v the_o derision_n of_o those_o that_o talk_v of_o you_o judge_v by_o the_o scripture_n what_o occasion_n you_o give_v they_o eccles._n 5._o 3_o 7._o a_o dream_n come_v by_o the_o multitude_n of_o business_n and_o a_o fool_n voice_n iâ—_n know_v by_o multitude_n of_o word_n in_o the_o multitude_n of_o dream_n and_o many_o word_n there_o be_v divers_a vanity_n eccles._n 10._o 12_o 13_o 14._o the_o word_n of_o a_o wise_a man_n mouth_n be_v gracious_a but_o the_o lip_n of_o a_o fool_n will_v swallow_v up_o himself_o the_o beginning_n of_o the_o word_n of_o his_o mouth_n be_v foolishness_n and_o the_o end_n of_o his_o talk_n be_v mischievous_a madness_n a_o fool_n also_o be_v full_a of_o word_n whereas_o a_o woman_n that_o be_v canteâ—oâ—â—_n and_o spare_v of_o her_o word_n be_v common_o reverence_v and_o suppose_v to_o be_v wise_a so_o that_o if_o you_o have_v no_o high_a design_n in_o it_o but_o mere_o to_o be_v well_o think_v of_o and_o honour_v by_o man_n you_o can_v scarce_o take_v a_o sure_a way_n than_o to_o let_v your_o word_n be_v few_o and_o weighty_a though_o the_o avoid_n of_o sin_n and_o unquietness_n shall_v prevail_v with_o you_o much_o more_o §_o 11._o direct_v 11._o be_v willing_a and_o diligent_a in_o your_o proper_a part_n of_o the_o care_n and_o labour_n of_o the_o family_n 11._o direct_v 11._o as_o the_o primary_n provision_n of_o maintenance_n belong_v most_o to_o the_o husband_n so_o the_o secondary_a provision_n within_o door_n belong_v special_o to_o the_o wiâ—e_n read_v over_o and_o over_o the_o 31_o chap._n of_o the_o prouâ—_n especial_o the_o care_n of_o nurse_v your_o own_o child_n and_o teach_v they_o and_o watch_v over_o they_o when_o they_o be_v young_a and_o also_o watch_v over_o the_o family_n at_o home_n when_o your_o husband_n be_v abroad_o be_v your_o proper_a work_n §_o 12._o direct_v 12._o dispose_v not_o of_o your_o husband_n estate_n without_o his_o knowledge_n and_o consent_n you_o 12._o direct_v 12._o be_v not_o only_o to_o consider_v whether_o the_o work_n be_v good_a that_o you_o lay_v it_o out_o upon_o but_o what_o power_n you_o â—_o q._n may_v a_o wife_n give_v without_o the_o husband_n consent_n â—_o have_v to_o do_v it_o quest._n but_o may_v a_o woman_n '_o give_v nothing_o nor_o lay_v out_o nothing_o in_o the_o house_n without_o her_o husband_n consent_n answ._n 1._o if_o she_o have_v his_o general_a or_o implicit_a consent_n it_o may_v suffice_v that_o be_v if_o he_o allow_v she_o to_o follow_v her_o judgement_n or_o if_o he_o commit_v such_o a_o proportion_n to_o her_o power_n to_o do_v what_o she_o will_v with_o it_o or_o if_o she_o know_v that_o if_o he_o know_v it_o he_o will_v not_o be_v against_o it_o 2._o or_o if_o the_o law_n or_o his_o consent_n do_v give_v she_o any_o propriety_n in_o any_o part_n of_o his_o estate_n or_o make_v she_o a_o joint_a proprietor_n she_o may_v proportionable_o dispose_v of_o it_o in_o a_o necessary_a case_n the_o husband_n be_v considerable_a either_o as_o a_o give_n see_v dr_n â—â—gâ—â—_n on_o family-relation_n who_o say_v the_o most_o against_o woman_n give_n proprietor_n or_o as_o her_o governor_n as_o a_o proprietor_n he_o only_o may_v dispose_v of_o the_o estate_n where_o he_o be_v the_o sole-proprietor_a but_o where_o consent_n or_o the_o law_n of_o the_o land_n do_v make_v the_o woman_n joynt-proprietor_a she_o be_v not_o disable_v from_o give_v for_o want_n of_o a_o propriety_n but_o then_o no_o law_n exempt_v she_o from_o his_o government_n and_o therefore_o she_o be_v not_o to_o give_v any_o thing_n in_o a_o way_n of_o disobedience_n though_o it_o be_v she_o own_o except_o when_o he_o forbid_v that_o which_o be_v her_o duty_n or_o which_o he_o have_v no_o power_n to_o forbid_v so_o that_o in_o case_n of_o joynt-propriety_n she_o may_v give_v without_o he_o so_o be_v it_o she_o exceed_v not_o her_o proportion_n and_o also_o if_o it_o be_v in_o a_o case_n of_o duty_n where_o he_o may_v not_o hinder_v she_o as_o to_o save_v the_o life_n of_o the_o poor_a in_o extreme_a necessity_n famine_n or_o imprisonment_n or_o the_o like_a 3._o but_o if_o the_o thing_n be_v whole_o her_o own_o except_v from_o his_o propriety_n and_o she_o be_v sole-proprietor_a than_o she_o need_v not_o ask_v his_o consent_n at_o all_o any_o other_o way_n than_o as_o he_o be_v her_o guide_n to_o direct_v she_o to_o the_o best_a way_n of_o dispose_n of_o it_o which_o if_o he_o forbid_v she_o instead_o of_o direct_v she_o to_o it_o she_o be_v not_o thereby_o excusable_a before_o god_n for_o the_o abuse_n of_o her_o trust_n and_o talent_n 4._o i_o conceive_v that_o ad_fw-la aliquid_fw-la as_o to_z certain_z absolute_o necessary_a use_n the_o very_a relation_n make_v the_o 22._o 2_o sam._n 25._o 18_o 29_o 30._o prov._n 31._o 11_o 12_o 13_o 20._o hos._n 6._o 6._o matth._n 9_o 1â—_n &_o 12_o 7._o 2_o king_n 4._o 9_o 22._o woman_n as_o a_o joint_a proprietor_n as_o if_o her_o husband_n will_v not_o allow_v she_o such_o food_n and_o raiment_n as_o be_v necessary_a to_o preserve_v the_o life_n and_o health_n of_o herself_o and_o all_o her_o child_n she_o be_v bind_v to_o do_v it_o without_o or_o against_o his_o will_n if_o she_o can_v and_o if_o it_o be_v not_o to_o a_o great_a hurt_n and_o the_o estate_n be_v his_o own_o and_o he_o be_v able_a rather_o than_o let_v her_o child_n contract_v such_o disease_n as_o apparent_o will_v follow_v to_o the_o hazard_n of_o their_o life_n yea_o and_o to_o save_v the_o life_n of_o another_o that_o in_o famine_n be_v ready_a to_o perish_v for_o she_o be_v not_o as_o a_o stranger_n to_o his_o estate_n but_o out_o of_o these_o case_n if_o a_o wife_n shall_v secret_o waste_v or_o give_v or_o lay_v it_o out_o on_o bravery_n or_o vanity_n or_o set_v her_o wit_n against_o her_o husband_n and_o because_o she_o think_v he_o too_o
we_o q._n 9_o may_v be_v pray_v for_o grace_n who_o desire_v it_o not_o q._n 10._o may_v he_o pray_v that_o doubt_v of_o his_o interest_n in_o god_n and_o dare_v not_o call_v he_o father_n as_o his_o child_n q._n 11._o may_v a_o wicked_a man_n pray_v or_o be_v he_o ever_o accept_v q._n 12._o may_v a_o wicked_a man_n use_v the_o lord_n prayer_n q._n 13._o be_v it_o idolatry_n or_o sin_n always_o to_o pray_v to_o saint_n or_o angel_n q._n 14._o must_v the_o same_o man_n pray_v secret_o that_o have_v before_o pray_v in_o his_o family_n q._n 15._o be_v it_o best_o to_o keep_v set_v hour_n for_o prayer_n q_o 16._o may_v we_o join_v in_o family_n prayer_n with_o ungodly_a person_n q._n 17_o what_o if_o the_o master_n or_o speaker_n be_v ungodly_a or_o a_o heretic_n q._n 18._o may_v we_o pray_v absolute_o for_o outward_a mercy_n or_o only_o conditional_o q._n 19_o may_v we_o pray_v for_o all_o that_o we_o may_v lawful_o desire_v q._n 20._o how_o may_v we_o pray_v for_o the_o salvation_n of_o all_o the_o world_n q._n 21._o or_o for_o the_o conversion_n of_o all_o nation_n q._n 22._o or_o that_o a_o whole_a kingdom_n may_v be_v convert_v and_o save_v q._n 23._o or_o for_o the_o destruction_n of_o the_o enemy_n of_o christ_n or_o the_o kingdom_n q._n 24._o what_o be_v to_o be_v judge_v of_o a_o particular_a faith_n q._n 25._o be_v every_o lawful_a prayer_n accept_v q._n 26._o with_o what_o faith_n must_v i_o pray_v for_o the_o soul_n or_o body_n of_o other_o q._n 27._o with_o what_o faith_n may_v we_o pray_v for_o the_o continuance_n of_o the_o church_n or_o gospel_n q._n 28._o how_o to_o know_v when_o our_o prayer_n be_v hear_v q._n 29._o how_o to_o have_v fullness_n and_o constant_a supply_n of_o matter_n in_o our_o prayer_n q_o 30._o how_o to_o keep_v up_o fervency_n in_o prayer_n q_o 31._o may_v we_o look_v to_o speed_v ever_o the_o better_a for_o any_o thing_n in_o ourselves_o or_o our_o prayer_n or_o may_v we_o put_v any_o trust_n in_o they_o q._n 32._o how_o must_v that_o person_n and_o prayer_n be_v qualify_v which_o god_n will_v accept_v to_o p._n 598_o tit._n 3._o special_a direction_n for_o family_n prayer_n ibid._n tit._n 4._o special_a direction_n for_o secret_a prayer_n p._n 599_o chap_n xxiv_o direction_n fâ—r_v family_n about_o the_o sacrament_n of_o the_o lord_n supper_n p._n 600_o what_o be_v the_o end_v of_o the_o sacrament_n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o it_o q._n 1._o shall_v not_o the_o sacrament_n have_v â—â—â—â—_o preparation_n than_o the_o other_o part_n of_o worship_n q_o 2._o how_o oft_o shall_v it_o be_v administer_v q._n 3._o must_v all_o member_n of_o the_o visible_a church_n communicate_v q._n 4._o may_v any_o man_n receive_v it_o that_o know_v himself_o unsanctified_a q._n 5._o may_v a_o ungodly_a man_n receive_v it_o that_o know_v not_o himself_o to_o be_v ungodly_a q._n 6._o must_v a_o christian_a receive_v who_o doubt_v of_o his_o sincerity_n q._n 7._o what_o if_o superior_n compel_v a_o doubt_a christian_a to_o receive_v it_o by_o excommunication_n or_o imprisonment_n what_o shall_v be_v choose_v q._n 8._o be_v not_o the_o case_n of_o a_o hypocrite_n that_o know_v not_o himself_o to_o be_v a_o hypocrite_n and_o of_o the_o sincere_a who_o know_v not_o himself_o to_o be_v sincere_a all_o one_o as_o to_o communicate_v q._n 9_o wherein_o lie_v the_o sin_n of_o a_o ungodly_a person_n if_o he_o receive_v q._n 10._o do_v all_o unworthy_a receive_n make_v one_o liable_a to_o damnation_n or_o what_o q_o 11._o what_o be_v the_o particular_a preparation_n needful_a to_o a_o fit_a communicant_a p._n 653._o mark_n of_o sincerity_n ibid._n prepare_v duty_n q_o 1._o may_v we_o receive_v from_o a_o ungodly_a minister_n q_o 2._o may_v we_o communicate_v with_o unworthy_a person_n in_o a_o undisciplined_a church_n q._n 3._o what_o if_o i_o can_v communicate_v unless_o i_o conform_v to_o a_o impose_v gesture_n as_o sit_v stand_v or_o kneel_v q._n 4._o what_o if_o i_o can_v receive_v it_o but_o as_o administer_v by_o the_o common_a prayer_n q._n 5._o if_o my_o conscience_n be_v not_o satisfy_v may_v i_o come_v doubt_v obj._n be_v it_o not_o a_o duty_n to_o follow_v conscience_n as_o god_n officer_n what_o to_o do_v in_o the_o time_n of_o administration_n 1._o what_o grace_n must_v be_v exercise_v 2._o on_o what_o object_n 3._o the_o season_n and_o order_n of_o sacramental_a duty_n ad_fw-la p._n 610_o chap._n xxv_o direction_n for_o fearful_a trouble_a christian_n who_o be_v perplex_v with_o doubt_n of_o their_o sincerity_n and_o justification_n cause_n and_o cure_n p._n 612_o chap._n xxvi_o direction_n for_o decline_v backslide_n christian_n about_o perseverance_n p._n 616_o the_o way_n of_o fall_v into_o sect_n and_o heresy_n and_o error_n and_o of_o decline_v in_o heart_n and_o life_n sign_n of_o decline_a sign_n of_o a_o graceless_a state_n dangerous_a sign_n of_o impenitency_n false_a sign_n of_o decline_v motive_n against_o decline_v direction_n against_o it_o p._n 616_o tit._n 2._o direction_n for_o perseverance_n or_o to_o prevent_v backslide_n p._n 618_o antidote_n against_o those_o doctrine_n of_o presumption_n which_o will_v hinder_v our_o perseverance_n p._n 623_o chap._n xxvii_o direction_n for_o the_o poor_a the_o temptation_n of_o the_o poor_a the_o special_a duty_n of_o the_o poor_a p._n 627_o chap._n xxviii_o direction_n for_o the_o rich._n p._n 632_o chap._n xxix_o direction_n for_o the_o weak_a and_o age_a p._n 634_o chap._n xxx_o direction_n for_o the_o sick_a p._n 637_o tit._n 1._o direction_n for_o a_o safe_a death_n to_o secure_a salvation_n i._o for_o the_o unconvert_v in_o their_o sickness_n a_o sad_a case_n 1._o for_o examination_n 2._o for_o repentance_n 3._o for_o faith_n in_o christ_n 4._o for_o a_o new_a heart_n love_v to_o god_n and_o resolution_n for_o obedience_n q._n will_v â—ate_z repentance_n serve_v the_o turn_n in_o such_o a_o case_n ii_o direction_n to_o the_o godly_a for_o a_o safe_a departure_n their_o temptation_n to_o be_v resist_v p._n 637_o tit._n 2._o how_o to_o profit_v by_o our_o sickness_n p_o 642_o tit._n 3._o direction_n for_o a_o comfortable_a or_o peaceable_a death_n p._n 644._o direction_n for_o resist_v the_o temptation_n of_o satan_n in_o time_n of_o sickness_n p._n 648_o tit._n 4._o direction_n for_o do_v good_a to_o other_o in_o our_o sickness_n p._n 651_o chap._n xxxi_o direction_n to_o the_o friend_n of_o the_o sick_a that_o be_v about_o they_o p._n 653_o q._n can_v physic_n lengthen_v man_n life_n q._n be_v it_o meet_v to_o make_v know_v to_o the_o sick_a their_o danger_n of_o death_n q_o must_v we_o tell_v bad_a man_n of_o their_o sin_n and_o misery_n when_o it_o may_v exasperate_v the_o disease_n by_o trouble_v they_o q._n what_o can_v be_v do_v in_o so_o short_a a_o time_n q._n what_o to_o do_v in_o doubtful_a case_n q._n what_o order_n shall_v be_v observe_v in_o counsel_v the_o ignorant_a and_o ungodly_a when_o time_n be_v so_o short_a help_v against_o excessive_a sorrow_n for_o the_o death_n of_o friend_n yea_o of_o the_o worst_a a_o form_n of_o exhortation_n to_o be_v read_v in_o sickness_n to_o the_o ungodly_a or_o those_o that_o we_o just_o fear_v be_v such_o p._n 657_o a_o form_n of_o exhortation_n to_o the_o godly_a in_o sickness_n for_o their_o comfort_n their_o die_a groan_n and_o joy_n p._n 662_o tome_n iii_o christian_a ecclesiastic_n part_n i._o chap._n i._n of_o the_o worship_n of_o god_n in_o general_n the_o nature_n and_o reason_n of_o it_o and_o direction_n for_o it_o how_o to_o know_v right_a end_n in_o worship_n etc._n etc._n p._n 673_o chap._n ii_o direction_n about_o the_o manner_n of_o worship_n to_o avoid_v all_o corruption_n and_o false_a unacceptable_a worship_v of_o god_n p._n 680._o the_o disadvantage_n of_o ungodly_a man_n in_o judge_v of_o holy_a worship_n q._n how_o far_o the_o scripture_n be_v the_o rule_n or_o law_n of_o worship_n and_o discipline_n and_o how_o far_o not_o instance_n of_o thing_n undetermined_a in_o scripture_n what_o command_v of_o scripture_n be_v not_o universal_a or_o perpetual_a may_v danger_n excuse_v from_o duty_n and_o when_o rule_n for_o the_o right_a manner_n chap._n iii_o direction_n about_o the_o christian_a covenant_n with_o god_n and_o baptism_n p._n 688._o the_o covenant_n what_o the_o party_n matter_n term_n form_n necessary_a modes_n fruit_n etc._n etc._n external_n baptism_n what_o complete_a baptism_n what_o of_o renew_v the_o covenant_n chap._n iu._n direction_n about_o the_o profession_n of_o our_o religion_n to_o other_o the_o greatness_n of_o the_o duty_n of_o open_a profession_n when_o and_o how_o it_o must_v be_v make_v p._n 692_o chap._n v._o direction_n about_o vow_n and_o particular_a covenant_n with_o god_n p._n 694_o what_o a_o vow_n be_v the_o sort_n of_o
more_o desirous_a to_o be_v obey_v by_o his_o inferior_n than_o himself_o to_o obey_v his_o absolute_a lord_n he_o expect_v that_o his_o command_n be_v obey_v though_o god_n command_v the_o contrary_a and_o be_v more_o offend_v at_o the_o neglect_n of_o his_o law_n and_o honour_n than_o at_o the_o contempt_n of_o the_o honour_n and_o law_n of_o god_n §_o 55._o sign_n 4._o if_o there_o be_v any_o place_n of_o office_n honour_n or_o preferment_n void_a a_o proud_a man_n think_v 4._o sign_n 4._o that_o he_o be_v the_o fit_a for_o it_o and_o if_o he_o seek_v it_o he_o take_v it_o for_o a_o injury_n if_o another_o be_v prefer_v before_o he_o as_o more_o deserve_a and_o though_o they_o that_o have_v a_o hand_n in_o put_v he_o by_o and_o prefer_v another_o do_v it_o never_o so_o judicious_o and_o impartial_o and_o for_o the_o common_a good_a without_o any_o respect_n to_o any_o friend_n or_o interest_n of_o their_o own_o yet_o all_o this_o will_v not_o satisfy_v the_o proud_a who_o know_v 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wherein_o a_o man_n think_v best_a of_o himself_o herein_o the_o flatterer_n will_v uphold_v he_o most_o bâ—â—_n if_o he_o be_v a_o impudent_a flatterer_n he_o will_v entitle_v he_o by_o force_n to_o that_o which_o he_o be_v conscious_a that_o he_o be_v most_o defective_a in_o lâ—â—â—â—â—â—â—â—oâ—â—ssay_n 52._o what_o he_o ought_v to_o know_v he_o think_v himself_o fit_a to_o contradict_v the_o able_a divine_a when_o he_o have_v scarce_o so_o much_o knowledge_n as_o will_v save_v his_o soul._n if_o he_o have_v but_o some_o smattering_n to_o enable_v he_o to_o talk_v confident_o of_o what_o he_o understand_v not_o he_o think_v himself_o fit_a for_o the_o chair_n and_o be_v elevate_v to_o a_o pugnacious_a courage_n and_o think_v he_o be_v able_a to_o dispute_v with_o any_o man_n and_o constant_o give_v himself_o the_o victory_n if_o it_o be_v a_o woman_n that_o have_v gather_v up_o a_o few_o receipt_n she_o think_v herself_o fit_a to_o be_v a_o physician_n and_o venture_v the_o life_n 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nor_o what_o difficulty_n there_o be_v in_o every_o controversy_n which_o he_o never_o see_v how_o many_o studious_a learned_a holy_a divine_n will_v go_v many_o thousand_o mile_n if_o that_o will_v serve_v to_o be_v well_o resolve_v of_o many_o doubt_n in_o the_o mystery_n of_o providence_n decree_n redemption_n grace_n freewill_n and_o many_o the_o like_a and_o that_o after_o twenty_o or_o forty_o year_n study_n when_o i_o can_v take_v they_o a_o boy_n or_o a_o woman_n in_o the_o street_n that_o can_v confident_o determine_v they_o all_o in_o a_o few_o word_n and_o pity_v the_o ignorance_n or_o error_n of_o such_o divine_n and_o shake_v the_o head_n at_o their_o blindness_n and_o say_v god_n have_v reveal_v they_o to_o themselves_o that_o be_v babe_n yea_o and_o perhaps_o their_o confidence_n take_v dissenter_n for_o such_o heretical_a erroneous_a intolerâ—â—â—â—e_a person_n that_o they_o look_v upon_o they_o as_o heathen_n and_o publican_n and_o either_o with_o the_o papist_n reproach_n and_o persecute_v they_o or_o with_o the_o lesser_a sect_n divide_v from_o they_o as_o from_o man_n that_o receive_v not_o the_o the_o truth_n and_o thus_o pride_n make_v as_o many_o church_n as_o there_o be_v different_a opinion_n §_o 58._o sign_n 7._o pride_n make_v man_n wonderful_a partial_a in_o judge_v of_o their_o own_o virtue_n and_o vice_n in_o 7._o sign_n 7._o comparison_n of_o other_o man_n when_o the_o humble_a be_v complain_v of_o their_o weakness_n and_o sinfulness_n and_o have_v much_o ado_n to_o believe_v that_o they_o be_v any_o thing_n or_o to_o discern_v the_o sincerity_n of_o their_o grace_n and_o think_v their_o prayer_n be_v as_o no_o prayer_n and_o their_o duty_n so_o bad_a that_o god_n will_v not_o regard_v they_o the_o proud_a think_v well_o of_o all_o they_o do_v and_o be_v little_o trouble_v at_o their_o great_a want_n they_o easy_o see_v another_o man_n fail_n but_o the_o very_a same_o or_o worse_o they_o justify_v in_o themselves_o their_o own_o 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be_v but_o humane_a nature_n and_o that_o shall_v have_v be_v foresee_v before_o your_o choice_n and_o as_o it_o be_v no_o excuse_n to_o a_o drunkard_n to_o say_v i_o can_v leave_v my_o drink_n so_o it_o be_v none_o to_o a_o adulterer_n or_o hater_n of_o another_o to_o say_v i_o can_v love_v they_o for_o that_o be_v but_o to_o say_v i_o be_o so_o wicked_a that_o my_o heart_n or_o will_n be_v against_o my_o duty_n but_o the_o innocent_a party_n case_n be_v hard_a tho_o common_o both_o party_n be_v faulty_a and_o therefore_o both_o be_v oblige_v to_o return_v to_o love_n and_o not_o to_o separate_v but_o if_o hatred_n proceed_v not_o to_o adultery_n or_o murder_n or_o intolerable_a injury_n you_o must_v remember_v that_o marriage_n be_v not_o a_o contract_n for_o year_n but_o for_o life_n and_o that_o it_o be_v possible_a that_o hatred_n may_v be_v cure_v how_o unlikely_a soever_o it_o may_v be_v and_o therefore_o you_o must_v do_v your_o duty_n and_o wait_v and_o pray_v and_o strive_v by_o love_n and_o goodness_n to_o recover_v love_n and_o then_o stay_v to_o see_v what_o god_n will_v do_v for_o mistake_n in_o your_o choice_n will_v not_o warrant_v a_o separation_n quest._n 18._o what_o if_o a_o woman_n have_v a_o husband_n that_o will_v not_o suffer_v she_o to_o read_v the_o scripture_n nor_o go_v 18._o quest._n 18._o to_o god_n worship_n public_a or_o private_a or_o that_o so_o beat_v or_o abuse_v she_o as_o that_o it_o can_v be_v expect_v that_o humane_a nature_n shall_v be_v in_o such_o a_o case_n keep_v fit_a for_o any_o holy_a action_n or_o if_o a_o man_n have_v a_o wife_n that_o will_v scold_v at_o he_o when_o he_o be_v pray_v or_o instruct_v his_o family_n and_o make_v it_o impossible_a to_o he_o to_o serve_v god_n with_o freedom_n or_o peace_n and_o comfort_n answ._n the_o woman_n must_v at_o necessary_a season_n though_o not_o when_o she_o will_v both_o read_v the_o scripture_n and_o worship_n god_n and_o suffer_v patient_o what_o be_v inflict_v on_o she_o 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to_o their_o spiritual_a hurt_n and_o calamity_n it_o be_v their_o lesser_a sin_n to_o live_v asunder_o by_o mutual_a consent_n quest._n 19_o may_v one_o part_n from_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n that_o have_v the_o leprosy_n or_o that_o have_v the_o french_a 19_o quest._n 19_o pox_n by_o their_o adulterous_a practice_n when_o the_o innocent_a person_n life_n be_v endanger_v by_o it_o answ._n if_o it_o be_v a_o innocent_a person_n disease_n the_o other_o must_v co-habite_n and_o tender_o cherish_v and_o comfort_v the_o disease_a yea_o so_o as_o somewhat_o to_o hazard_v their_o own_o life_n but_o not_o so_o as_o apparent_o to_o cast_v they_o away_o upon_o a_o danger_n not_o like_a to_o be_v avoid_v unless_o the_o other_o life_n or_o some_o great_a good_n be_v like_a to_o be_v purchase_v by_o it_o but_o if_o it_o be_v the_o pox_n of_o a_o adulterer_n the_o innocent_a party_n be_v at_o liberty_n by_o the_o other_o adultery_n and_o the_o save_n of_o their_o own_o life_n do_v add_v thereto_o 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