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ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A77664	A rare paterne of iustice and mercy; exemplified in the many notable, and charitable legacies of Sr. Iames Cambel, Knight, and alderman of London, deceased : worthy imitation. Whereunto is annexed A meteor, and A starre : or, Briefe and pleasant meditations of Gods providence to his chosen, of the education of children and of the vertue of love; with other poems. / By Edw: Browne.	Browne, Edward.	1642 (1642)	Wing B5105; Thomason E1109_1; ESTC R208421	51,495	182

doth he make inquiry and is sorry That he did so his erring selfe misearry Likewise sometimes God doth his grace restrain From rarest Saints to shew they are but vaine Wiithout his aid also to see and try What bidden Graces in their hearts do lie So fell King David Peter and Saint Paul To humble them us to Repentance call In which respests by Christ some men may say I come in blamles and so goe away Now consider I pray if what David spake in another sense Psal 85. 10 11. verses may not bee truly said of Sir Iames Cambel Mercy and Truth are met together Righteousnesse and Peace have kissed each other Truth shall flourish out of the earth and Righteousnesse hath looked downe from heaven Onely in stead of Truth reade Justice in the 10. verse and Mercy in the 11. verse and then 't is plaine enough that mercy shall spring or bud out of the earth that is as I apply it Sir Iames Cambels name was given him by earthly parents so it sprung out of the earth and that signifies mercy as is before specified in the Anagram Se I came balm and Righteousnes hath looked downe from heaven that is the Sun of Righteousnesse hath infused the Graces of his holy Spirit into his heart to doe righteousnesse as in his life so at his death and that likewise may be applyed to the Anagram on his name I came blamles so that it is evident by these Anagrams and Acrosticke verses that in Sir Iames Cambel Justice and Mercy met together according to this saying of the Prophet David for now I shall not need to change the words in either verse for Truth which is Fides as Tremelius translates it is the root from whence justice and Mercy spring and without justice and mercy faith is dead and truth is falshood But if these two branches of Mercy and Justice spring from the root of a true lively and justifying faith the fruit that they beare will bee peace of conscience and joy in the holy Ghost Thus will I sing with holy David as in a spirituall sense so in remembrance of my late honoured Master Mercy and Truth have met together Righteousnesse and Peace have ki●●ed each other Truth shal flourish out of the earth and Righteousnesse hath looked downe from heaven Therefore I will conclude with these verses following JVstice and Mercy were at great debate Who should in Sir James most predominate True Faith came in and said it was most meet That Mercy she should have the upper seate For she 's the Queene of Grace and for that cause She is to moderate Gods Righteous Lawes So 't was concluded to appease the brall Sweet lovely Mercy should be principall For from true saving Faith Sir James did bring Mercy and Justice like a living spring Of heavenly water to refresh and glad All ●ood mens hearts his losse maks me full sad For Justice ceased with his vitall breath But Mercy will endure long after death And sure his Justice and his Pious waies Shall ever live to his eternall praise For an example though in act it cease But Mercy now in act doth still increase And shewes her beauty in most brave array To poore distressed people whose decay She greatly pittying doth give supply To their necessities and misery Oh had I art I would set forth the praise Of Sir James Cambels pious righteous waies But being my learning 's small conclude will I In mournfull Epitaph and Elegie An Acrostick Elegie IF losse of friends be cause of griefe then I And all good people have some cause to cry Many good men there are I hope but yet Ev'n as Sir James was are full hard to get Such was his Prudence and his Pious care Could order all things well which to declare And show his vertues all in e●ch degree Might mase the Muses nine and much more me But this I doe by my unskilfull Art Eternally to shew my thankfull heart Losses I have how can I chuse but cry Losse hath this City can our eyes be dry Yet though he 's lost to us he 's found in heav'n Because his Mamon to the poore is giv'n Whose Friends are there for to receive and keep His blessed soule although his body sleep Our Friend Lazarus sleepeth John 11. 11. Pretious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his Saints Psal 116. 15. Blessed are the dead that die in the Lord even so saith the Spirit for they rest from their Labours and their works follow them Apoc. 14. 13. An Acrostick Epitaph IN this same Casket lies a Jewell rare And will you know the great worth of the same● Mark well these words his vertu●s passe compare Eternall honour shall raise to his name Soe Just and equall were his vertuous waies Constant in Prastice thereof all his daies A man that alwaies stood for common good Made him belev'd of all men far●e and neere By Prudent Justice he all vice withstood Equall to him where shall we find his peere Lo now hee 's laid up in this earthen mould Like as a Jewell in a case of gold This is the monument upon his name Which I erected by my rustick quill But there 's a thing of cost and curious frame Rarely contrived by industrious skill In Olaves Jewry Church it is to stand A more compleater thing 's not in this land Sir Iames is there to lie in stately port Clad all in armour like a Martiall man Like a grave Senator in gallant sort Hee 's wrapt in robes even as an Alderman Courage and Wisedome in him did remaine And now hee 's dead this Figure shews the same Most Just and equall were his P●ous waies And therefore at his feet doth Justice stand And at his head to his eternall praise Mercy is fixed with her Babe in hand In him sterne Justice did sweet mercy meet And now hee 's dead they stand at 's head and fe●t Close by him kneeles his Lady much lamenting The losse of her deare Pheer this pious man A true Character lively representing The sad Condition of this good woman For shee is truely like the Turtle dove Dayly bewayling the losse of her Love But let her cease to grieve for from above Behold an Angell bright descending downe And for the ●ood deeds done by her true Love With Laurell Garland will his Temples crowne●s To learne by their examples all men may Justice and Mercy drawes the Vaile away Therfore is Fame and Time his Arms supporters To shew to all that in the world doe live That vertuous Actions cannot want reporters For Fame will Time to such man surely give That in good works doe spend the pain and time And now I did intend to cease my Rime But that Fame calls to shew the cost and skill Of this rare structures Fabricke stately brave Contrived and composed but my quill Is blunt and dull for I no learning have Therefore I 'le cease and say 't is rich and faire Marble

is his fatherly correction and a signe of his love because ●e chasteneth whom he loveth yea they receive their sicknesse as the Lords messenger speaking to their soules as the Prophet Isaiah did to Hezekiah Put thine house in order for thou shalt die and not live and therefore they prepare themselves for another world Ye● further in their sicknesse they can pray most fervently as King Hezekiah did Isaiah 38. and then they will give most fruitfull and comfortable instructions to those which they leave behinde As the Swan sings most sweetly a little before his death so the righteous speake most divinely a little before their end Whosoever searcheth the Scriptures may read the divine prophecy of Iacob unto the twelve Patriarches Genes 49. the holy blessing of Moses upon the twelve tribes Deut 33. the godly exhortation of Iosua to the people of Israel plac●d by h●m in Canaan Ios 23. the wise counsell of David unto Salomon who was to succeed him in the kingdome 1 King 2. Whosoever readeth the Ecclesiasticall histories may not onely see the vertuous lives but also the Christian like ends of the Saints and Martyrs in the Church And whosoever will be present at the death of those which truly feare God may thereby learne how they themselves ought to die for when the outward man doth decay the inward man is renewed more and more They shew that the neerer they doe approach unto their end the neerer they draw toward heaven But in these our dayes many may be found who either do not at all consider the death of the righteous or else doe consider it amisse Though it bee a matter worth consideration yet some doe not consider it at all because they see so many dye they make the lesse reckoning of it till death knocke at their owne doores they never regard it they must needs dye themselves before they can bee brought to consider of death they care not who sinke so they swimme nor how many die so they may live yea this is greatly to be lamented that some doe regard the death of a Christian no more then they regard the death of a dog But seeing wee may learne so many profitable instructions by their death let us now begin to consider it better then ever we did before Others doe consider it but yet amisse either fondly or frowardly Fondly through naturall affection arising from kindred affinitie or familiaritie If a stranger die it nothing moves them but if one of their owne friends dye they sigh and sob they howle and lament If the father lose his son he cries most pittifully as David did for Absalom O my son Absalom my sonne my sonne Absalom would God I had died for thee O Absalom my sonne my sonne If the mother lose her children shee behaveth her selfe like Rachel weeping for her children and would not be comforted because they were not If children lose their parents they cry after them as Elisha did after Elias when he was taken up my father my father If a sister lose her brother she weepeth for him as Mary did for Lazarus If the husband lose his wife he weepeth for her as Abraham wept for Sarah yea he mourneth like a Turtle Dove which hath lost his marrow If the wife lose her husband shee dealeth like Naomi who would not be called Naomi that is beautifull but Mara that is bitter because the Lord had given her much bitternesse If one familiar friend lose another hee lamenteth his death as David did the death of Ionathan Woe is me for thee my brother Ionathan very kinde hast thou beene unto me thy love to mee was wonderfull passing the love of women Indeed I cannot deny but that we ought in a speciall manner to consider the death of those which are neere and deare unto us for it may be they are taken from us because wee were unworthy of them or because we gloried and trusted over much in them and were not so thankfull for them as we ought If we had any help by them we must consider whether God have not deptived us of them for the punishment of our sinnes as the widow of Sarepta did at the death of her sonne saying unto Eliah Art thou come unto me to call my sinne to remembrance and to slay my sonne Yet this consideration must bee ordered by wisedome it must not be joyned with excessive sorrow Neither must wee consider their death alone but also the death of others which dye in the Lord and to learne to make an holy use thereof For as Sampson found sweet honey in the carcasse of a dead Lion so wee may finde some sweet instructions in the dead corps of every righteous man yea the more righteous that they are which doe die the more should their death be considered because it may yeeld greater store of instruction unto us And it may bee that God doth take away those which are neare unto us because wee doe carelesly regard the death of those which be farre off Againe some consider the death of the righteous very frowardly and peevishly yea I may say malitiously and preposterously For if any of them bee taken away by a sudden and extraordinary death they presently censure them as plagued of God and condemne their former profession thinking that God would not have so dealt with them if hee approved either of them or their profession But they must bee instructed in this point by wise Salomon who saith that no man knoweth love or hatred of all that is before him All things come alike to all and the same condition is to the just and the wicked to the good and the pure and to the polluted to him that sacrificeth and to him that sacrificeth not Eli was a Priest and a good man yet brake his necke by falling backward from his seat Ionathan was a sworne brother unto David a godly and faithfull friend yet was he slaine in battell by the hands of the Philistims That Prophet of God which came out of Iudah to Bethel to speak with Ieroboam and the altars which he had built for idolatry was no doubt an holy man yet was hee killed in the way by a Lion Iosiah was a good King like unto him there was no King before him neither after him rose any like him yet was he slaine in the valley of Megiddo by Necho King of Egypt Iobs children were well brought up by their godly father and it is said that before Iob offered sacrifice for them they were sanctified yet within a while after as they were eating and drinking in their eldest brothers house a violent winde overthrew the house and killed them all Wee must not therefore judge of men by their death but rather by their life Though sometime a good death may follow an evill life yet an evill death can never follow a good life Correct thine evill life and feare not an evill death he cannot die ill that lives well saith Augustine And afterward answers

be possible to prevent them Their death is a plaine prognostication of some evils to come and should bee as a trumpet to awaken others out of the sleepe of sinne Many of the wicked rejoyce when the godly are taken away from them they love their roomes better then their company they hated them and their profession in their life time because as they say they are not for our profit and they are contrary to our doings they checke us for offending against the law it grieves us to looke upon them for their lives are not like other men and therefore at their death they are glad that they are rid of them when indeed they have greater cause to howle and weepe for the miseries that shall come upon them The righteous need not to imitate the ungodly practice of Herod who being ready to die and thinking that his death would be a great joy to many shut up in prison some Noblemen in every town and required his sister Salome and her husband Alexa that so soone as he was dead they should kill those Noblemen and then all Iudea would lament his death The Lord himselfe doth often make the death of the righteous to bee lamented by sending of extraordinary judgements immediately after their death When Noah entred into the Arke the world is drowned with the floud when Lot departs out of Sodome it is burnt with fire 2 In this respect also the righteous have no cause to feare death but rather to desire it for what is it but an ending of some troubles and a preventing of others They may with Paul desire to be loosed to be with Christ which is best of all It is true which Salomon saith That the day of a mans death is better then the day of his birth For the day of a godly mans birth is the beginning of his miserie but the day of his death is the end of his miserie Indeed the day of a wicked mans death is the most wofull day that ever be●ell him for he is not taken away from the evill to come but he is taken unto evill to bee tormented in hell for evermore And therefore hee feares death as much as a malefactor feareth a Serjeant that commeth to carry him to prison where he is like to abide till the day of execution That is true in them which the Divell said Skin for skin and all that ever a man hath will he give for his life And as the Gibeonites were content rather to be bondmen hewers of wood and drawers of water then to bee killed by the Israelites as other nations were So they had rather indure any kinde of miserie then to die as others doe because they feare a worse estate after death and therefore must bee pulled from the earth with as great violence as Ioab was pulled from the hornes of the altar unto which he had fled as to a place of refuge But the godly knowing what an happie exchange they make by death they desire to die so soone as it pleaseth the Lord. Indeed none ought for the ending of present calamities or preventing of future miseries to shorten their owne dayes as Saul did by falling on his owne sword nor yet for the present enjoying of eternall happinesse procure their owne death as Cleombrotus did who reading Plato his booke of the immortalitie of the soule cast himselfe headlong from a wall that he might change this life for a better He onely who gave life must take it away and the Lord may say to such I will receive no soules which against my will have gone out of the body the Philosophers which did so were martyrs of foolish Philosophy Yet seeing that death freeth the righteous from present and future miseries they may be most willing to die so soone as the Lord calleth for them and when death approacheth may say with Simeon Lord now lettest thou thy servant depart in peace 3 Lastly in this respect we must learne not to mourne immoderately for the death of the righteous Though wee received great comfort and enjoyed some benefit by them while they were alive as I did by my late Master Sir Iames Cambel yet seeing that death is an advantage unto them we should ●ee content patiently to bear our owne losse in respect of their great gaine If two friends should lie in prison together or should dwel together in a strange Countrey where both of them were hardly used were many wayes injured endured great want and sustained much miserie though they loved one another dearly and the one were an he●pe and comfort to the other yet if the one should bee taken from the other and brought to his chiefest friends and among them be not onely freed from all such miseries as before he had endured but also bee advanced to great preferment will the other which is left behinde him be discontented at it Will he not rather wish himselfe to bee there with him in the like then desire that either hee had stayed with him or might returne againe This our life is as a prison or strange Country in which wee indure great miserie and may every day looke for more if therefore our dearest friends bee taken from us freed from these miseries and advanced to great glory with Christ and his Saints in the Kingdome of heaven wee have no cause to wish that either they had stayed longer with us or might returne againe unto us but rather desire that wee might quickly goe unto them to bee glorified in like sort Though we may thinke that they died too soone for us yet they died not too soone for themselves for the sooner they come to rest and happinesse the better it is for them Their condition is farre better then ours for they are freed from miserie we are reserved for further miserie they are already arrived at the haven of eternall rest and we are still tossed on the sea of this world with troublesome waves and dangerous tempests they have ended their journey with lesser travell and making a shorter cut and wee are yet travelling with wearisomnes in our journey If any one of them could speake after their death he would say unto them which weepe for him as Christ said to the daughters of Ierusalem Weepe not for me but weepe for your selves and for your children because of the dangerous dayes that shall ensue Or as Christ said unto his Disciples If ye loved me ye would verily rejoyce because I goe unto the Father But if examples doe move any thing at all I may apply all that hath beene spoken to this present occasion A righteous man is perished a mercifull man is taken away for God hath made me seriously to consider and lay close to my heart the losse of my late ●udicious loving Master Sir Iames Cambel Therefore for a memoriall of him I have presumed to set forth his unparallel'd Legacies Which though they be unskilfully performed yet God may work such an effect in