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A25828 The Son of God walking in the fire with the servants of God in nine sermons upon Dan. III. XXV / by that precious and holy man, Mr. Timothy Armitage ... ; unto which is added another sermon preached by him upon Eccles. 9.10 at the entrance of one of the mayors there into his office. Armitage, Timothy, d. 1655. 1656 (1656) Wing A3703; ESTC R15716 136,561 236

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and remembers that they are but dust and therefore he pities them He knows how unable they are to bear and how little time they are able to hold out and therefore somtimes the Lord Jesus hath spoken comfortable words to his people when they have expressed a great deal of weakness in them See in Mat. 26. when the Disciples could not watch with him at the 41 verse they could not watch with him one houre though he was in great extremity and they might have expected a sharp reproof from him the Lord Jesus he looks upon them and he pities them he rather excuses them and comforts them Oh The Spirit is willing but the flesh is weak He knows what the weakness of flesh is for he was partaker of our flesh and blood he remembers it since he was in the days of his flesh how weak the flesh is he is partaker of our flesh and bl●od saith the Apostle he knows what it is for a poor creature to grapple with fears with inward fears ever since he poured out his strong cries unto his Father with tears none in the world are so sensible of affl●ction as they that have gone under the same affliction themselves the Lord Jesus he is sensible of all the weakness of all the sorrow of his people he knows by experience what they mean he knows what it is to be weak and he knows what it is to be in fear he knows what it is to grapple with the wrath of his Father he knows what it is to want his Fathers Countenance he knows what it is to be acquainted with sorrow with grief there was none so acquainted with them as he See what the Prophet Isaiah says of him in Isaiah 53. vers 3. He was despised and rejected of men a man of sorrow and acquainted with grief and we hid as it were our face from him A man of sorrows and acquainted with grief grief and sorrow were his greatest acquaintance when he was upon earth they were his acquaintance from the beginning of his life and they were his companions from first to last from the wombe to the Cross they were the acquaintance that Christ could never shake off his old acquaintance when all his friends lest him when his Disciples le●t him in affliction did they leave him but his grief did not leave him he was always acquainted with it and he was acquainted with all sorrows with all grief grief of all sorts he knows what spiritual sorrows are and therfore he wil pity people his under them a natural man cannot pity a poor creature that groans under spiritual sorrow he knows not what they mean what it is for a poor creature to groan under corruption and cry out of the want of a believing heart and of the want of Gods presence but now the Lord Jesus is acquainted with these sorrows also he had experience of them in his own person The woman that hath been in Travel pities another that is in the same case the Lord Jesus he newly come out of Travel he remembers his pangs still and therefore he pities door creatures when they groan under grief and sorrows for he was acquainted with them himself 2. Again secondly He knows they have most need of his presence in afflicted conditions because they are most nigh to temptations and he knows what temptations are he knows the strength of Temp●●tions he knows that it is the Divils policy to drive home temptation to the spirit of a poor creature at that time when it groans under affliction and therefore he knows that then a poor creature if ever stands in need of the presence of the Lord Jesus when Sat●● stands at the left hand to resist Christ had need to stand at the right hand to comfort and support and strengthen and therefore the Apostle saith that he was tempted in the days of his flesh in that 2 of Hebrews vers 18. Being tempted he ●● able to succour those that are tempted he knows by experience what it is for a poor creature to b● tempted he knows that temptations are most grievous to a gracious heart Temptations are worse then afflictions and therefore though a poor creature stands in need of succour in affliction yet much more in temptation When temptation goes along with affliction Oh then the Lord Jesus knows that there is need of his pr●sence When a City is besieged and the Inhabitants within it be disquieted and the enemie hath raised their Batteries and makes breat ●s upon the Walls and their Provision grows low Then if ever they have need of relief Truly so it is with a pour tempted soul when it is afflicted Batteries are made against the Spirit provision strength is little knows not how to hold out then the Lord Jesus he is their friend and therefore in such conditions he usually makes hast to afford his presence That the first Gro●nd of the Point The Lord Jesus knows if ever then they have need of his presence when they are in low conditions for then the flesh is weak and then temptations are strong Again secondly The Lord Jesus manifests most of himself to his people in low conditions because he remembers the kindness of his Father when he was in the same condition I say he remembers the kindness of his Father unto him when he was in low conditions now he will requite this kindness upon them that kindness that God the Father did shew to Jesus Christ when he was in affliction and in low conditions I say be will requite it upon his people it makes deep impressions upon the heart of Christ the love that his Father shewed him when he was here in the days of his flesh when he was in weakness and was in perplexity and was in distress he can not forget it You know what impression Jonanathans kindnesse made upon David because Jonathan shewed him kindnesse when he was in distress his kindness made impression upon his heart tha● he could not forget it he inquired for some of his children that he might requite the love of their Father which he shewed to him when he was in low conditions Jonathan shewed him kindness when Saul persecuted David Jonathan stept between David and him and was as a faithful friend to David and therefore saith David I will requite his kindnesse if I can finde but one poor Mephibosheth that calls himself a dead Dog yet David shews a great deal of kindnesse to him to requite the kindnesse of Jonathan And so doth Jesus Christ he goes up and down to inquire in the world where is the Seed of God the Sons and Daughters of the most High that I might shew them kindness for my Fathers sake Oh he shew'd me kindnesse when I was in distress and therefore I will do the like to them when they ere in affliction and low conditions Oh saith the Lord Jesus I remember since your Father and my Father took care of me when I was helpless he
formed me in the womb and he took me out of the womb he guarded me all my life lo●g Thirty years and upward when I was in the midst of the world with Bears and Tygers I remember how he sent his Angels to comfort me when I was wearied out by Satans temptations Nay I remember when he stood by me when all left me and fled when all left me that I had none in the world to stand by me the Fathe● stood by me and therefore I will lay all this kindness upon you his seed The last kindnes● that the Father shewed to the Son it took mighty impression upon him that his Father did not le●ve him alone but was always with him And therefore Christ he often makes mention of it i● that 16 of John vers 32. The Father hath not lef● me alone but he is with me all my life long he never left him alone yea when he was in his affliction and low conditions the Father did not leave him alone See that 16. of John vers 32. B●hold the hour comes yea is now come that ye sha●● be scattered every man to his own and shall leave me alone and yet I am not alone because the Father is with me This made deep impression upon the heart of Christ that the Father did not leave him alone when he was in his affliction when he was persecuted when all his freinds upon earth fled from him then the Father did not leave him And therefore the Lord Jesus Christ he did often retain this Kindnesse and he will not le●●● th● Sons and Daughters of God alone in low conditions but he will be present with them though they be in the fire and water he will be sure to comfort them with the same consolation wherewith his Father comforted h●m when he was in the same distress That 's the second Ground of the Point Thirdly Christ will shew most of his presence i● afflicted conditions because he remembers his Ingagement he is ingaged then to manifest most of himself First of all He is ingaged by his Promise and C●venant He hath promised to be with them always he hath promised never to leave them nor forsake them as the Father promised to be with him in trouble so he hath promised to be with them You may see his Fathers promise to him in Psalm 91. 15. He shall call upon me and I will answer him I will be with him in trouble I will deliver him and honour him Now as the Father made a promise to be with the Son in trouble so hath he made a promise to be with his people in trouble See that promise in the 43. of Isaiah vers 1. 2. how he hath promised to be with his people in all Tribulations in the midst of the fire and water and fiery try al 's nothing shall separate betwixt him and them he is always making good his Promise and therefore he will fulfill it to them Secondly He is ingaged by a Law of Love There is a Law of Love written in the heart of Christ he takes delight in his people they are ●●e joy of his soul in the 16. Psalm at the b●ginning of it it is spoken there of Christ All my delight is in the Saints saith Jesus Christ and these that are excellent upon Earth All my delight is in them next to the delight that Christ hath in his Father to that Infinite Incomprehensible Light his delight is in his Saints in his people and therefore because he loves them because he delights in them he will be present with them he loves their presence whereever they are he loves to be with them though their condition be never so sad though they be in prison it shall be a Heaven to Christ because he bears dear love to them he loves to see their face he loves to hear their voice he loves to injoy Communion with them he loves to be giving out of himself to them and therefore be made it his great request before he went to Heaven that his Father would make room for his people as you may see in John 14. beginning of the third verse And if I go and prepare a place for you I will come again and receive you unto my self that where I am there you may be also he tells them he would have them with him in the same place they shall enjoy the same glory and they shal have no worse room then he And he besought his Father John 17. 24. That those who were given him of his Father might be with him Father I will that they also whom thou hast given me be with me where I am that they may behold my glory which thou hast given me for thou ●o ●e●st me before the foundations of the world Father I desire that they may be with me I desire thou shouldst bid them as welcome to Heaven as thou bidst me and that they may p●●take of the same glory as I do that they may ●e in the same place that they may always see ●y 〈◊〉 and I may see their faces for my delight is in them Heaven could not content Christ with●●● the presence of his Saints and it is a second Heaven unto Christ to be present with them here upon earth wherever they are or whatever their condition though be never so low though they be in prison in chains in the stocks the Lord Jesus loves to be with them he carries them about in his heart and therefore he cannot be absent from them Again Thirdly He is ingaged by a Law of Friendship to be most of all present with them in their low conditions the Law of friendship binds him to it Affliction is a Touch-stone it discovers fained friends and real friends it shews whether a friend be Cordial or no By the Law of Friendship a man is bound to stick to a friend in the midst of all his adversity and then there is most need of a friend It was a reproof unto Hushai that Absalom gave him in that second of Samuel 16. 17. Is this thy kindness to thy friend why went you not along with your friend David was a friend to Hushai and saith Absolom to Hushai Is this thy kindness to thy friend why wentest thou not along with thy friend This shall never be said of the Lord Jesus Christ that he broke the Law of friendship It shall never be said of Christ is this thy kindness to thy friend Why wentest thou not along with thy friend Thov wentest not along with thy friend but thou forsookest thy friend when thy friend had most need of thee no the Law of Friendship is i● Christs heart and he will keep it and therefore he will stick close and most close to his people when they are in low conditions Again Fourthly There is a fourth ingagement He is present with his people most of all in low conditions in afflicted conditions because he is ingaged to l●ok after h●s work 't is the
Jonathans son took him and set him at his Table so doth Jesus Christ deal he remembers the kindness of his Father the kindness the Father shewed him in his low condition says he is there none of the seed of God are there none of the children of the most high that I may shew kindness to for the fathers sake Because he shewed kindness to me in my low condition and though he can hear of none but poor lame Mephibosheth yet he shews kindness to them takes them into communion with himself sets them at Table with him and in the midst of their low conditions will afford his presence because his Father their Father did not leave him alone when he was in low conditions Again The Lord Jesus he is bound unto this by many ingagements I say he is bound to be present with his people in low conditions He is bound by his Word by his Promise by the Law of love that is in his heart All my delight is in the Saints and those that be excellent it is a second Heaven to him next to the presence of the Father he delights to be in the presence of his Saints and therefore because he delights in them he will be present with them though they be in the prison in chains and fetters though they be in the fiery Furnace yet it is a Heaven unto Christ to be with them for all his delight is in his Saints He is bound also by the Law of friendship to be with them in low conditions a friend is tryed in adversity it was a reproof to Hushai when he left David in straits and therefore says Absolom is this thy kindness to thy friend that thou wouldst not go along with thy friend It shall never be said so of the Lord Jesus it shall never be said of him Why didst thou not go along with thy friend for he will go along with his friend in the greatest adversity he will not leave them but afford them his presence Again He is bound because his work is in hand A Physician is bound to look after his Patient because he hath given him a Purge And so the The Lord Jesus is bound to look after his Patient when he hath given him a Purge Gold-Smith is bound to look after his Gold when he hath put it into the Furnace And so the Lord Jesus is bound to look after his Gold when 't is in the Furnace of affliction But I come to the Application First of all for Instruction This lets us see the wonderful unparalel love of J●sus Christ I beseech Vse you take notice of it and get your hearts affected with it here is such love as creatures cannot shew a friend that will never leave one a friend that will always afford his presence in the greatest straits afford his presence that 's a friend indeed a man may be brought into such conditions as all his friends may forsake him all men upon earth may leave him David was left of his best friends Father and Mother forsook him and Jesus Christ was left of his best frsends they all forsook him and fled and truly this may be the condition of any man upon earth cast out and forsaken of friends of most friends of best friends will a friend venture his own life for a friend will a man keep his friend when some deadly infectious disease is upon him when he hath a plag●e sore upon him will he ●hen lye down in the bosome of his friend when a man is condemned to the flames of fire when a man is cast into the fire will a friend follow him into that condition Truly such friends you will hardly finde upon earth but this is the friendship of Jesus Christ to his people when he first lookt upon them he saw how many plague sores infectious diseases were upon them and yet that could not hinder him from drawing nigh and affording his presence and from working mightily by his spirit upon their hearts Nay when they are brought to fiery tryals to great afflictions yet even then he will not leave them and he will not forsake them and this makes the love of Christ the more remarkable that he should thus condescend when he was at the highest for he is now advanced above the Heavens he sits down at the right hand of the Father he is at the highest condition and yet he is pleased to condescend to the lowest condition he is pleased to come down when they are in the depths in the greatest straits that possibly can be what love was that the Spouse speaks of in the 5. of Canticles and the last verse she speaks a great deal of the beauty of Christ and in the last words she makes her boast of her Beloved This is my Beloved and this is my Friend Oh Daughters of Jerusalem I will compare with you all I will compare my friend to all the friends in the world This is my Belov●d and this is my friend she compares him for for his beauty and so you may compare him for his love you may make your boast of the Lord Jesus you may say This is my Beloved and this is my friend Secondly What a strong Motive may this Doctrine be unto such as are strangers unto Jesus Vse Christ to come in and submit unto him What glorious Benefits may you be partakers of What a desireable thing is it to have such a friend as Christ is which will be present with his friends in their lowest conditions Oh that every man would set down and consider that which Solomon speaks of to remember the days of darknesse which will be many many days of darknesse may come upon the earth what a favour will it be to have a friend in the darknesse a friend that will stick by thee when thou art in the dark a friend that thou mayst take hold of his skirts when thou art in the dark Entry a friend that will hold thee fast when thou art in the dark such a friend is Jesus Christ to all that do embrace him Oh what a favour what a mercy will it be to have a friend stand by thee that is both able and willing to help thee when all Creature-comforts shall fail when the very strength of body shall fail to have a friend stand by to help and succour and truly such a friend is the Lord Jesus what saith the Psalmist in the 73. Psalm vers 26. My flesh and my heart faileth but God is the strength of my heart and my portion for ever heart and flesh fail and then there is a strength above nature the Lord then is the strength of my heart and of my flesh and blood What a mercy will it be to have one stand by you when you go through the valley of the shadow of death a friend then to comfort a friend then to uphold such a friend is the Lord to his people David was confident of this therefore you see how his