Selected quad for the lemma: friend_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
friend_n	brother_n	great_a	lord_n	851	5	3.3045	3	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
B20736	The vvay of the churches of Christ in New-England, or, The vvay of churches walking in brotherly equalitie, or co-ordination, without subjection of one church to another measured and examined bythe golden reed of the sanctuary, containing a full declaration of the church-way in all particulars / by Mr. J. Cotton ...	Cotton, John, 1584-1652.	1645 (1645)	Wing C6471; ESTC R209858	96,219	122

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he_o according_a to_o the_o rule_n of_o christ_n to_o heal_v his_o brother_n first_o by_o private_a admonition_n but_o so_o he_o prevail_v not_o to_o bring_v he_o to_o a_o sight_n and_o sense_n of_o his_o sin_n then_o how_o he_o take_v a_o brother_n or_o two_o more_o to_o assist_v he_o in_o the_o work_n but_o neither_o so_o can_v he_o or_o they_o prevail_v with_o he_o which_o they_o be_v present_a do_v open_o testify_v before_o the_o lord_n and_o his_o church_n and_o so_o by_o the_o mouth_n of_o two_o or_o three_o the_o word_n of_o his_o accusation_n be_v establish_v before_o the_o church_n the_o church_n be_v thus_o inform_v of_o the_o estate_n and_o carriage_n of_o the_o offence_n the_o elder_n do_v labour_n in_o public_a with_o the_o offender_n to_o convince_v he_o both_o of_o his_o sin_n and_o impenitency_n under_o it_o notwithstanding_o all_o the_o faithfulness_n and_o love_n of_o his_o brethren_n in_o seek_v to_o heal_v his_o spirit_n in_o private_a it_o be_v free_a also_o for_o any_o of_o the_o brethren_n leave_n and_o liberty_n be_v first_o desire_v and_o obtain_v of_o the_o elder_n to_o help_v forward_o the_o conviction_n by_o any_o word_n of_o wisdom_n and_o zeal_n which_o god_n shall_v put_v into_o their_o mouth_n wherein_o if_o the_o conviction_n and_o persuasion_n of_o the_o church_n do_v prevail_v to_o any_o kindly_a humiliation_n of_o the_o offender_n in_o the_o acknowledgement_n of_o his_o sin_n before_o the_o lord_n and_o his_o church_n the_o offender_n be_v gain_v the_o sin_n be_v subdue_v other_o discourage_v from_o the_o like_a offence_n and_o the_o church_n be_v satisfy_v but_o if_o on_o the_o contrary_a the_o offender_n stand_v out_o in_o defence_n of_o his_o sin_n as_o well_o against_o the_o whole_a church_n as_o he_o do_v before_o against_o the_o brethren_n who_o deal_v with_o he_o in_o private_a the_o church_n than_o enter_v into_o consideration_n of_o the_o nature_n and_o quality_n of_o the_o offence_n whether_o it_o be_v gross_a and_o heinous_a such_o as_o be_v condemn_v by_o the_o light_n of_o nature_n like_o those_o cast_v out_o by_o the_o apostle_n 1_o cor._n 5.11_o or_o whether_o it_o be_v such_o as_o through_o some_o mist_n of_o ignorance_n or_o strength_n of_o present_a passion_n he_o do_v not_o clear_o discern_v the_o sinfulness_n of_o it_o if_o it_o be_v of_o the_o former_a sort_n they_o proceed_v then_o to_o excommunication_n both_o in_o respect_n of_o the_o nature_n of_o the_o crime_n whereof_o more_o hereafter_o as_o also_o in_o respect_n of_o his_o contumacy_n to_o the_o church_n if_o it_o be_v of_o the_o late_a sort_n the_o church_n proceed_v not_o forthwith_o to_o excommunication_n of_o the_o offender_n but_o after_o once_o or_o twice_o admonition_n for_o in_o this_o case_n it_o be_v with_o the_o offender_n as_o with_o a_o heretic_n who_o may_v err_v at_o first_o and_o stand_v in_o his_o error_n for_o want_v of_o clear_a light_n and_o be_v therefore_o once_o and_o again_o according_a to_o the_o rule_n of_o the_o apostle_n tit._n 3.10_o to_o be_v admonish_v before_o he_o be_v reject_v when_o therefore_o a_o admonition_n be_v judge_v seasonable_a one_o of_o the_o elder_n with_o the_o consent_n of_o the_o whole_a church_n do_v recollect_v the_o offence_n and_o all_o the_o argument_n of_o weight_n which_o have_v be_v public_o or_o private_o use_v to_o convince_v the_o offender_n of_o his_o sin_n and_o discover_v to_o he_o also_o that_o invalidity_n and_o shallowness_n of_o all_o his_o answer_n and_o evasion_n and_o thereupon_o do_v solemn_o in_o the_o name_n of_o the_o lord_n admonish_v and_o charge_v he_o to_o see_v the_o danger_n of_o such_o a_o sin_n and_o distemper_n of_o his_o soul_n in_o maintain_v of_o it_o that_o so_o if_o it_o be_v the_o will_n of_o god_n he_o may_v be_v recover_v out_o of_o the_o snare_n of_o the_o tempter_n whilst_o the_o brother_n be_v thus_o cast_v and_o lie_v under_o the_o censure_n of_o admonition_n he_o stand_v in_o the_o judgement_n of_o the_o whole_a church_n as_o a_o convince_a public_a offender_n and_o therefore_o till_o he_o be_v reconcile_v to_o the_o church_n by_o the_o penitent_a and_o public_a acknowledgement_n of_o his_o sin_n before_o they_o he_o do_v abstain_v from_o the_o lord_n table_n according_a to_o the_o direction_n of_o our_o saviour_n who_o will_v not_o have_v a_o offender_n present_v himself_o nor_o his_o gift_n before_o the_o altar_n while_o the_o guilt_n of_o the_o offence_n of_o his_o brother_n lie_v upon_o he_o mat._n 5.23_o 24._o or_o as_o the_o priest_n in_o the_o law_n do_v forbear_v to_o eat_v of_o the_o holy_a bread_n while_o they_o lie_v in_o uncleanness_n leu._n 22.3_o 4._o or_o as_o one_o who_o lie_v in_o his_o uncleanness_n do_v rather_o pollute_v the_o holy_a ordinance_n of_o god_n by_o partake_v of_o it_o then_o receive_v any_o holiness_n from_o it_o hag._n 2.12_o 13._o the_o offender_n then_o by_o this_o public_a admonition_n be_v debar_v of_o his_o wont_a fellowship_n in_o the_o lord_n table_n and_o withal_o be_v solicit_v and_o urge_v by_o his_o brethren_n and_o friend_n to_o consider_v his_o great_a distemper_n of_o spirit_n in_o stand_v out_o so_o long_o in_o that_o which_o be_v evil_a if_o hereupon_o by_o the_o grace_n of_o christ_n he_o come_v to_o himself_o and_o see_v his_o sin_n and_o desire_v to_o reconcile_v himself_o to_o the_o lord_n and_o his_o brother_n he_o then_o acquaint_v one_o of_o the_o elder_n with_o his_o desire_n be_v call_v forth_o in_o the_o face_n of_o the_o church_n to_o make_v public_a confession_n of_o his_o sin_n and_o to_o judge_v himself_o for_o it_o wherein_o if_o the_o lord_n help_v he_o to_o hold_v forth_o a_o ingenuous_a and_o humble_a loathe_n of_o his_o sin_n and_o of_o himself_o for_o it_o they_o bless_v god_n for_o his_o blessing_n upon_o his_o ordinance_n and_o ready_o receive_v he_o into_o wont_a favour_n and_o brotherly_a fellowship_n with_o they_o in_o all_o the_o liberty_n of_o god_n house_n but_o if_o on_o the_o contrary_a the_o 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with_o the_o consent_n of_o the_o whole_a church_n he_o pronounce_v he_o unto_o satan_n as_o a_o heathen_a or_o a_o publican_n for_o the_o destruction_n of_o the_o flesh_n that_o his_o soul_n may_v be_v save_v in_o the_o day_n of_o the_o lord_n jesus_n and_o all_o this_o according_a to_o the_o direction_n of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n matth._n 18.17_o 2_o cor._n 5.4_o 5._o sect_n ii_o and_o thus_o the_o church_n proceed_v in_o case_n the_o offence_n be_v private_a at_o first_o and_z and_o less_o scandalous_a but_o if_o the_o offence_n be_v be_v public_a and_o heinous_a and_o gross_o scandalous_a such_o as_o be_v condemn_v even_o among_o the_o heathen_n by_o the_o light_n of_o nature_n as_o those_o mention_v by_o the_o apostle_n 1_o cor._n 5.11_o fornication_n adultery_n incest_n

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