Selected quad for the lemma: friend_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
friend_n	best_a	death_n	life_n	868	5	4.1334	3	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A56976	Enchiridion Containing institutions, divine contemplative. Practicall. Moral ethicall. Oeconomicall. Politicall. Written by Fra: Quarles.; Enchiridion	Quarles, Francis, 1592-1644.	1644 (1644)	Wing Q87; ESTC R220612	52,804	235

be_v more_o wisdom_n to_o yield_v thy_o body_n then_o hazard_v thy_o soul_n chap._n xxxvi_o cloth_n not_o thy_o language_n either_o with_o obscurity_n or_o affectation_n in_o the_o one_o thou_o discover_v too_o much_o darkness_n in_o the_o other_o too_o much_o lightness_n he_o that_o speak_v from_o the_o understanding_n to_o the_o understanding_n be_v the_o best_a interpreter_n chap._n xxxvii_o if_o thou_o expect_v death_n as_o a_o friend_n prepare_v to_o entertain_v it_o if_o thou_o expect_v death_n as_o a_o enemy_n prepare_v to_o overcome_v it_o death_n have_v no_o advantage_n but_o when_o it_o come_v a_o stranger_n chap._n xxxviii_o fear_v nothing_o but_o what_o thy_o industry_n may_v prevent_v be_v confident_a of_o nothing_o but_o what_o fortune_n can_v defeat_v it_o be_v no_o less_o folly_n to_o fear_v what_o be_v impossible_a to_o be_v avoid_v then_o to_o be_v secure_a when_o there_o be_v a_o possibility_n to_o be_v deprive_v chap._n xxxix_o let_v not_o the_o necessity_n of_o god_n decree_n discourage_v thou_o to_o pray_v or_o dishearten_v thy_o prayer_n do_v thou_o thy_o duty_n and_o god_n will_v do_v his_o pleasure_n if_o thy_o prayer_n make_v not_o he_o sound_v that_o be_v sick_a they_o will_v return_v and_o confirm_v thy_o health_n that_o be_v sound_v if_o the_o end_n of_o thy_o prayer_n be_v to_o obtain_v thy_o request_n thou_o confine_v he_o that_o be_v infinite_a if_o thou_o have_v do_v well_o because_o thou_o be_v command_v thou_o have_v thy_o reward_n in_o that_o thou_o have_v obey_v god_n pleasure_n be_v the_o end_n of_o our_o prayer_n chap._n xl_o marry_o not_o too_o young_a and_o when_o thou_o be_v too_o old_a marry_v not_o lest_o thou_o be_v fond_a in_o the_o one_o or_o thou_o dote_v in_o the_o other_o and_o repent_v for_o both_o let_v thy_o like_n ripen_v before_o thou_o love_v let_v thy_o love_n advise_v before_o thou_o choose_v and_o let_v thy_o choice_n be_v fix_v before_o thou_o marry_v remember_v that_o the_o whole_a happiness_n or_o unhappiness_n of_o thy_o life_n depend_v upon_o this_o one_o act._n remember_v nothing_o but_o death_n can_v dissolve_v this_o knot_n he_o that_o wed_v in_o haste_n repent_v ofttimes_o by_o leisure_n and_o he_o that_o repent_v he_o of_o his_o own_o act_n either_o be_v or_o be_v a_o fool_n by_o confession_n chap._n xli_o if_o god_n have_v send_v thou_o a_o cross_n take_v it_o up_o and_o follow_v he_o use_v it_o wise_o lest_o it_o be_v unprofitable_a bear_v it_o patient_o lest_o it_o be_v intolerable_a behold_v in_o it_o god_n anger_n against_o sin_n and_o his_o love_n towards_o thou_o in_o punish_v the_o one_o and_o chasten_v the_o other_o if_o it_o be_v light_a slight_v it_o not_o if_o heavy_a murmur_n not_o not_o to_o be_v sensible_a of_o a_o judgement_n be_v the_o symptom_n of_o a_o harden_a heart_n and_o to_o be_v displease_v at_o his_o pleasure_n be_v a_o sign_n of_o a_o rebellious_a will_n chap._n xlii_o if_o thou_o desire_v to_o be_v magnanimous_a undertake_v nothing_o rash_o and_o fear_v nothing_o thou_o undertake_v fear_v nothing_o but_o infamy_n dare_v any_o thing_n but_o injury_n the_o measure_n of_o magnanimity_n be_v neither_o to_o be_v rash_a nor_o timorous_a chap._n xliii_o practice_n in_o health_n to_o bear_v sickness_n and_o endeavour_v in_o the_o strength_n of_o thy_o life_n to_o entertain_v death_n he_o that_o have_v a_o will_n to_o die_v not_o have_v power_n to_o live_v show_v necessity_n not_o virtue_n it_o be_v the_o glory_n of_o a_o brave_a mind_n to_o embrace_v pang_n in_o the_o very_a a●mes_n of_o pleasure_n what_o name_n of_o virtue_n merit_v he_o that_o go_v when_o he_o be_v drive_v chap._n xliv_o be_v not_o too_o punctual_a in_o take_v place_n if_o he_o be_v thy_o superior_a it_o be_v his_o due_a if_o thy_o inferior_a it_o be_v his_o dishonour_n it_o be_v thou_o must_v honour_v thy_o place_n thy_o place_n not_o thou_o it_o be_v a_o poor_a reward_n of_o worth_n that_o consist_v in_o a_o right_a hand_n or_o a_o brickwall_n chap._n xlv_o pray_v often_o because_o thou_o sin_v always_o repent_v quick_o lest_o thou_o die_v sudden_o he_o that_o repent_v it_o because_o he_o want_v power_n to_o act_v it_o repent_v not_o of_o a_o sin_n till_o he_o forsake_v not_o he_o that_o want_v power_n to_o actuate_v his_o sin_n have_v not_o forsake_v his_o sin_n but_o his_o sin_n he_o chap._n xlvi_o make_v philosophy_n thy_o journey_n theology_n thy_o journey_n end_v philosophy_n be_v a_o pleasant_a way_n but_o dangerous_a to_o he_o that_o either_o tire_n or_o retire_v in_o this_o journey_n it_o be_v safe_a neither_o to_o loiter_v nor_o to_o rest_v till_o thou_o have_v attain_v thy_o journey_n end_v he_o that_o sit_v down_o a_o philosopher_n rise_v up_o a_o atheist_n chap._n xlvii_o fear_v not_o to_o sin_n for_o god_n sake_n but_o thy_o own_o thy_o sin_n overthrow_v not_o his_o glory_n but_o thy_o good_a he_o gain_v his_o glory_n not_o only_o from_o the_o salvation_n of_o the_o repentant_a but_o also_o from_o the_o confusion_n of_o the_o rebellious_a there_o be_v vessel_n for_o honour_n and_o vessel_n for_o dishonour_n but_o both_o for_o his_o honour_n god_n be_v not_o grieve_v for_o the_o glory_n he_o shall_v lose_v for_o thy_o improvidence_n but_o for_o the_o horror_n thou_o shall_v find_v for_o thy_o impenitence_n chap._n xlviii_o insult_v not_o over_o misery_n nor_o deride_v infirmity_n nor_o despise_v deformity_n the_o first_o show_v thy_o inhumanity_n the_o second_o thy_o folly_n the_o three_o thy_o pride_n he_o that_o make_v he_o miserable_a make_v thou_o happy_a to_o lament_v he_o he_o that_o make_v he_o weak_a make_v thou_o strong_a to_o support_v he_o he_o that_o make_v he_o deform_v give_v thou_o favour_n to_o be_v humble_v he_o that_o be_v not_o sensible_a of_o another_o unhappiness_n be_v a_o live_a stone_n but_o he_o that_o make_v misery_n the_o object_n of_o his_o triumph_n be_v a_o incarnate_a devil_n chap._n xlix_o make_v thy_o recreation_n servant_n to_o thy_o business_n lest_o thou_o become_v slave_n to_o thy_o recreation_n when_o thou_o go_v up_o into_o the_o mountain_n leave_v this_o servant_n in_o the_o valley_n when_o thou_o go_v to_o the_o city_n leave_v he_o in_o the_o suburb_n and_o remember_v the_o servant_n must_v not_o be_v great_a than_o his_o master_n chap._n l._n praise_v no_o man_n too_o liberal_o before_o his_o face_n nor_o censure_v he_o too_o lavish_o behind_o his_o back_n the_o one_o favour_n of_o flattery_n the_o other_o of_o malice_n and_o both_o be_v reprehensible_a the_o true_a way_n to_o advance_v another_o virtue_n be_v to_o follow_v it_o and_o the_o best_a mean_n to_o cry_v down_o another_o vice_n be_v to_o decline_v it_o chap._n li._n if_o thy_o prince_n command_v a_o lawful_a act_n give_v he_o all_o active_a obedience_n if_o he_o command_v a_o unlawful_a act_n give_v he_o passive_a obedience_n what_o thy_o well-grounded_a conscience_n will_v suffer_v do_v cheerful_o without_o repine_v where_o thou_o may_v not_o do_v lawful_o suffer_v courageous_o without_o rebellion_n thy_o life_n and_o livelihood_n be_v thy_o prince_n thy_o conscience_n be_v thy_o own_o chap._n lii_o if_o thou_o give_v to_o receive_v the_o like_a it_o be_v exchange_n if_o to_o receive_v more_o it_o be_v covetousness_n if_o to_o receive_v thanks_o it_o be_v vanity_n if_o to_o be_v see_v it_o be_v vainglory_n if_o to_o corrupt_v it_o be_v bribery_n if_o for_o example_n it_o be_v formality_n if_o for_o compassion_n it_o be_v charity_n if_o because_o thou_o be_v command_v it_o be_v obedience_n the_o affection_n in_o do_v the_o work_n give_v a_o name_n to_o the_o work_n do_v chap._n liii_o fear_v death_n but_o be_v not_o afraid_a of_o death_n to_o fear_v it_o whet_v thy_o expectation_n to_o be_v afraid_a of_o it_o dull_v thy_o preparation_n if_o thou_o can_v endure_v it_o it_o be_v but_o a_o slight_a pain_n if_o not_o it_o be_v but_o a_o short_a pain_n to_o fear_v death_n be_v the_o way_n to_o live_v long_o to_o be_v afraid_a of_o death_n be_v to_o be_v long_o die_v chap._n liv._n if_o thou_o desire_v the_o love_n of_o god_n and_o man_n be_v humble_a for_o the_o proud_a heart_n as_o it_o love_v none_o but_o itself_o so_o it_o be_v belove_v of_o none_o but_o by_o itself_o the_o voice_n of_o humility_n be_v god_n music_n and_o the_o silence_n of_o humility_n be_v god_n rhetoric_n humility_n enforce_v where_o neither_o virtue_n nor_o strength_n can_v prevail_v nor_o reason_n chap._n lv_o look_v upon_o thy_o burn_a taper_n and_o there_o see_v the_o emblem_n of_o thy_o life_n the_o flame_n be_v thy_o soul_n the_o wax_n thy_o body_n and_o be_v common_o a_o span_n long_o the_o wax_n if_o never_o so_o well_o temper_v can_v but_o last_v his_o length_n and_o who_o can_v lentghen_v it_o if_o ill_o temper_v it_o shall_v waste_v the_o fast_o

modesty_n cry_v thy_o heart_n down_o lest_o thou_o ceceiveit_v or_o it_o thou_o there_o be_v no_o less_o danger_n in_o a_o great_a name_n then_o a_o bad_a and_o no_o less_o honour_n in_o deserve_v of_o praise_n then_o in_o the_o endure_v it_o chap._n xciii_o use_n the_o holy_a scripture_n with_o all_o reverence_n let_v not_o thy_o wanton_a fancy_n carve_v it_o out_o in_o jest_n nor_o thy_o sinful_a wit_n make_v it_o a_o advocate_n to_o thy_o sin_n it_o be_v a_o subject_a for_o thy_o faith_n not_o fancy_n where_o wit_n and_o blasphemy_n be_v one_o trade_n the_o understanding_n be_v bankrupt_a chap._n xciv_o do_v thou_o complain_v that_o god_n have_v forsake_v thou_o it_o be_v thou_o that_o have_v forsake_v he_o it_o be_v thou_o that_o be_v mutable_a in_o he_o there_o be_v no_o shadow_n of_o change_n in_o his_o light_n be_v life_n if_o thy_o will_n drive_v thou_o into_o a_o dungeon_n thou_o make_v thy_o own_o darkness_n and_o in_o that_o darkness_n dwell_v thy_o death_n from_o whence_o if_o he_o redeem_v thou_o he_o be_v merciful_a if_o not_o he_o be_v just_a in_o both_o he_o receive_v glory_n chap._n xcv_o make_v use_n of_o time_n if_o thou_o love_v eternity_n know_v yesterday_o can_v be_v recall_v to_o morrow_n can_v be_v assure_v to_o day_n be_v only_o thou_o which_o if_o thou_o procrastinate_v thou_o lose_v which_o lose_v be_v lose_v for_o ever_o one_o to_o day_n be_v worth_a two_o tomorrow_n chap._n xcvi_o if_o thou_o be_v strong_a enough_o to_o encounter_v with_o the_o time_n keep_v thy_o station_n if_o not_o shift_v a_o foot_n to_o gain_v advantage_n of_o the_o time_n he_o that_o act_v a_o beggar_n to_o prevent_v a_o thief_n be_v never_o the_o poor_a it_o be_v a_o great_a part_n of_o wisdom_n sometime_o to_o seem_v a_o fool_n chap._n xcvii_o if_o thou_o intend_v thy_o writing_n for_o the_o public_a view_n lard_n they_o not_o too_o much_o with_o the_o choice_a line_n of_o another_o author_n lest_o thou_o lose_v thy_o own_o gravy_n what_o thou_o have_v read_v and_o digest_v be_v deliver_v in_o thy_o own_o style_n become_v thou_o it_o be_v more_o decent_a to_o wear_v a_o plain_a suit_n of_o one_o entire_a cloth_n than_o a_o ga●dy_a garment_n chequer_a with_o divers_a rich_a fragment_n chap._n xcviii_o if_o god_n have_v bless_v thou_o with_o inheritance_n and_o child_n to_o inherit_v trust_v not_o the_o staff_n of_o thy_o family_n to_o the_o hand_n of_o one_o make_v not_o many_o beggar_n in_o the_o build_n up_o of_o one_o great_a heir_n lest_o if_o he_o miscarry_v through_o a_o prodigal_a will_n the_o rest_n sink_v through_o a_o hard_a necessity_n god_n allowance_n be_v a_o double_a portion_n when_o high_a blood_n and_o generous_a breed_n break_v their_o fast_n in_o plenty_n and_o dine_v in_o poverty_n they_o often_o sup_v in_o infamy_n if_o thou_o deny_v they_o falcon_n wing_n to_o prey_n on_o fowl_n give_v they_o kite_n stomach_n to_o seize_v on_o garbage_n chap_n xcix_o be_v very_o vigilant_a over_o thy_o child_n in_o the_o april_n of_o his_o understanding_n lest_o the_o frost_n of_o may_n nip_n his_o blossom_n while_o he_o be_v a_o tender_a twig_n strengthen_v he_o whilst_o he_o be_v a_o new_a vessel_n season_n he_o such_o as_o thou_o make_v he_o such_o common_o thou_o shall_v find_v he_o let_v his_o first_o lesson_n be_v obedience_n and_o the_o second_o shall_v be_v what_o thou_o will_v give_v he_o education_n in_o good_a letter_n to_o the_o utmost_a of_o thy_o ability_n and_o his_o capacity_n season_n his_o youth_n with_o the_o love_n of_o his_o creator_n and_o make_v the_o fear_n of_o his_o god_n the_o beginning_n of_o his_o knowledge_n if_o he_o have_v a_o active_a spirit_n rather_o rectify_v than_o curb_v it_o but_o reckon_v idleness_n among_o his_o chief_a fault_n above_o all_o thing_n keep_v he_o from_o vain_a lascivious_a and_o amorous_a pamphlet_n as_o the_o primmer_n of_o all_o vice_n as_o his_o judgement_n ripen_v observe_v his_o inclination_n and_o tender_v he_o a_o call_v that_o shall_v not_o cross_v it_o force_v marriage_n and_o calling_n seldom_o prosper_v show_v he_o both_o the_o mow_n and_o the_o plough_n and_o prepare_v he_o as_o well_o for_o the_o danger_n of_o the_o skirmish_n as_o possess_v he_o with_o the_o honour_n of_o the_o prize_n if_o he_o choose_v the_o profession_n of_o a_o scholar_n advise_v he_o to_o study_v the_o most_o profitable_a art_n poetry_n and_o the_o mathematics_n take_v up_o too_o great_a a_o latitude_n of_o the_o soul_n and_o moderate_o use_v be_v good_a recreation_n but_o bad_a calling_n be_v nothing_o but_o their_o own_o rewrd_v if_o he_o choose_v the_o profession_n of_o a_o soldier_n let_v he_o know_v withal_o honour_n must_v be_v his_o great_a wage_n and_o his_o enemy_n his_o sure_a paymaster_n prepare_v he_o against_o the_o danger_n of_o a_o war_n and_o advise_v he_o of_o the_o great_a mischief_n of_o a_o garrison_n let_v he_o avoid_v debauchness_n and_o duel_n to_o the_o utmost_a of_o his_o power_n and_o remember_v he_o be_v not_o his_o own_o man_n and_o be_v his_o country_n servant_n have_v no_o estate_n in_o his_o own_o life_n if_o he_o choose_v a_o trade_n teach_v he_o to_o forget_v his_o father_n house_n and_o his_o mother_n wing_n advise_v he_o to_o be_v conscionable_a careful_a and_o constant_a this_o do_v thou_o have_v do_v thy_o part_n leave_v the_o rest_n to_o providence_n and_o thou_o have_v do_v it_o well_o chap._n c_o convey_v thy_o love_n to_o thy_o friend_n as_o a_o arrow_n to_o the_o mark_n to_o stick_v ●here_o not_o as_o a_o ball_n against_o the_o wall_n to_o rebound_v back_o to_o thou_o that_o friendship_n will_v not_o continue_v to_o the_o end_n that_o be_v begin_v for_o a_o end_n meditation_n be_v the_o life_n of_o the_o soul_n action_n be_v the_o soul_n of_o meditation_n honour_n be_v the_o reward_n of_o action_n so_o meditate_v that_o thou_o may_v do_v so'do_n that_o thou_o may_v purchase_v honour_n for_o which_o purchase_n give_v god_n the_o glory_n finis_fw-la