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have_v their_o friend_n to_o bear_v they_o company_n they_o shall_v live_v most_o sweet_o and_o delicious_o when_o as_o experience_n teach_v we_o that_o we_o be_v still_o desirous_a of_o some_o change_n in_o one_o thing_n or_o other_o about_o we_o it_o be_v the_o heat_n of_o our_o own_o body_n that_o keep_v we_o warm_v which_o our_o clothes_n do_v only_o contain_v and_o keep_v in_o that_o it_o may_v not_o fly_v abroad_o and_o disperse_v in_o the_o air_n and_o so_o be_v it_o the_o liveliness_n and_o strength_n of_o our_o own_o spirit_n that_o must_v make_v we_o live_v merry_o and_o which_o give_v all_o the_o pleasure_n and_o grace_n to_o these_o outward_a thing_n which_o minister_v to_o our_o comfort_n they_o can_v only_o help_v to_o maintain_v and_o increase_v our_o delight_n but_o our_o delight_n must_v arise_v from_o a_o more_o certain_a cause_n within_o ourselves_o add_v one_o heap_n of_o riches_n to_o another_o build_v great_a house_n invite_v to_o thyself_o friend_n and_o lover_n unless_o thou_o do_v free_a thyself_o from_o thy_o own_o desire_n unless_o thou_o do_v put_v a_o end_n to_o thy_o fear_n and_o care_n and_o such_o like_a thing_n thou_o do_v but_o like_o he_o that_o adminster_n wine_n to_o a_o man_n in_o a_o fever_n or_o honey_n to_o a_o choleric_a person_n or_o meat_n to_o he_o that_o be_v trouble_v with_o the_o colic_n which_o do_v not_o strengthen_v but_o destroy_v they_o the_o less_o we_o have_v the_o better_a it_o be_v unless_o we_o desire_v but_o a_o little_a and_o therefore_o it_o be_v of_o absolute_a necessity_n that_o we_o form_n to_o ourselves_o such_o strong_a principle_n as_o will_v moderate_v our_o desire_n and_o make_v they_o reasonable_a but_o then_o let_v i_o tell_v you_o in_o the_o second_o place_n that_o a_o good_a book_n and_o a_o treatise_n of_o the_o principle_n of_o contentment_n may_v be_v without_o we_o as_o well_o as_o any_o thing_n else_o we_o think_v that_o we_o have_v good_a reason_n of_o be_v quiet_a which_o will_v comfort_v we_o upon_o all_o occasion_n but_o where_o be_v they_o in_o our_o book_n that_o be_v no_o more_o we_o than_o our_o money_n that_o buy_v it_o unless_o the_o book_n be_v in_o our_o heart_n we_o must_v labour_v to_o write_v these_o truth_n on_o our_o soul_n and_o turn_v they_o into_o the_o reason_n of_o our_o mind_n thing_n of_o faith_n we_o must_v make_v as_o if_o they_o be_v thing_n of_o reason_n and_o thing_n of_o reason_n we_o must_v make_v as_o sensible_a as_o if_o they_o beat_v continual_o upon_o our_o eye_n and_o ear_n let_v we_o colour_n and_o die_v our_o soul_n with_o these_o notion_n or_o else_o they_o will_v do_v we_o but_o little_a good_a if_o this_o book_n lie_v by_o we_o and_o not_o in_o we_o it_o will_v be_v little_a better_o than_o waste_a paper_n 9_o arrian_n l._n 2._o cap._n 9_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d etc._n etc._n say_v epictetus_n for_o it_o be_v one_o thing_n to_o have_v bread_n and_o wine_n in_o a_o cupboard_n and_o another_o thing_n to_o have_v they_o in_o our_o body_n when_o they_o be_v eat_v and_o drink_v they_o turn_v into_o flesh_n and_o blood_n into_o bone_n and_o nerve_n and_o make_v we_o lusty_a and_o strong_a but_o when_o they_o lie_v by_o we_o we_o only_o seem_v to_o have_v they_o but_o they_o afford_v we_o no_o nourishment_n or_o refreshment_n at_o all_o even_o so_o it_o be_v in_o these_o thing_n if_o we_o inward_o digest_v they_o and_o turn_v they_o as_o it_o be_v into_o the_o substance_n of_o our_o soul_n they_o will_v make_v we_o of_o a_o lively_a complexion_n but_o else_o we_o may_v be_v pale_a with_o fear_n and_o pine_v away_o with_o grief_n and_o it_o be_v not_o their_o fault_n but_o our_o own_o and_o as_o he_o that_o do_v not_o eat_v when_o he_o shall_v may_v have_v no_o stomach_n when_o he_o be_v weak_a but_o present_o vomit_v up_o his_o food_n again_o so_o he_o that_o mind_v not_o these_o thing_n till_o he_o be_v sick_a of_o his_o trouble_n and_o in_o great_a need_n of_o comfort_n will_v find_v his_o soul_n it_o be_v most_o likely_a very_o impatient_a of_o the_o remedy_n and_o it_o will_v be_v a_o trouble_n to_o he_o but_o to_o read_v that_o which_o will_v quiet_v he_o meditate_v therefore_o serious_o of_o what_o have_v be_v say_v say_v a_o recapitulation_n of_o the_o chief_a thing_n that_o have_v be_v say_v think_v that_o you_o be_v not_o loser_n by_o your_o friend_n gain_n and_o that_o there_o be_v no_o reason_n to_o be_v sorrowful_a when_o they_o be_v fill_v with_o joy_n we_o love_v ourselves_o indeed_o better_a than_o we_o do_v they_o and_o be_v trouble_v at_o our_o own_o loss_n not_o at_o they_o but_o then_o if_o the_o loss_n be_v our_o own_o we_o can_v tell_v better_o how_o to_o repair_v it_o that_o be_v our_o comfort_n that_o it_o be_v in_o our_o own_o hand_n to_o ease_v ourselves_o if_o we_o be_v the_o cause_n of_o our_o own_o trouble_n consider_v often_o that_o it_o be_v as_o natural_a to_o die_v as_o it_o be_v to_o be_v bear_v that_o god_n give_v we_o every_o thing_n upon_o this_o condition_n that_o we_o shall_v be_v content_a to_o give_v it_o up_o again_o when_o be_v please_v to_o call_v for_o it_o that_o god_n be_v a_o love_a father_n and_o do_v every_o thing_n for_o the_o best_a that_o he_o will_v have_v we_o love_v he_o more_o when_o he_o leave_v we_o nothing_o else_o to_o love_v that_o nothing_o can_v be_v sad_a which_o by_o his_o grace_n and_o our_o care_n may_v be_v turn_v into_o joy_n that_o we_o ought_v to_o turn_v our_o sorrow_n into_o care_n lest_o there_o be_v something_o worse_o to_o sorrow_n for_o even_o the_o sin_n of_o out_o immoderate_a sorrow_n that_o we_o ought_v to_o live_v so_o that_o we_o may_v