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patient_a that_o little_a sadness_n will_v banish_v and_o chase_v away_o all_o the_o great_a that_o else_o will_v seize_v on_o thou_o hereafter_o there_o will_v be_v little_a to_o do_v when_o death_n come_v if_o thou_o constant_o do_v this_o thy_o soul_n will_v be_v so_o loose_a from_o they_o that_o thou_o will_v not_o give_v a_o shriek_n none_o will_v hear_v the_o string_n crack_v when_o you_o be_v separate_v death_n will_v not_o be_v a_o break_n of_o your_o society_n but_o a_o fair_a and_o easy_a untie_n of_o it_o nothing_o will_v happen_v to_o you_o but_o what_o you_o have_v look_v for_o long_o before_o and_o you_o shall_v be_v able_a to_o say_v this_o be_v not_o the_o first_o time_n that_o i_o have_v see_v my_o dear_a friend_n dead_a yea_o think_v with_o thyself_o that_o thou_o see_v thy_o own_o body_n lay_v in_o the_o grave_n and_o that_o thou_o feel_v thyself_o as_o cold_a as_o a_o clod_n of_o earth_n think_v that_o thou_o be_v turn_v into_o rottenness_n and_o dirt_n and_o that_o 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etc._n l._n 1_o cap._n 19_o we_o present_o cry_v up_o a_o man_n for_o wise_a and_o what_o not_o who_o to_o use_n arrianus_n his_o phrase_n be_v prefer_v by_o caesar_n though_o it_o be_v but_o to_o be_v groom_n of_o his_o close-stool_n and_o on_o the_o contrary_a we_o despise_v virtue_n if_o it_o be_v in_o a_o threadbare_a coat_n and_o count_v he_o a_o fool_n who_o be_v unfortunate_a no_o wonder_n then_o that_o we_o cry_v and_o whine_v like_o child_n when_o we_o lose_v any_o of_o these_o worldly_a thing_n see_v we_o think_v ourselves_o more_o happy_a than_o man_n in_o the_o enjoyment_n of_o they_o we_o think_v that_o we_o be_v undo_v when_o we_o part_v with_o that_o which_o we_o have_v such_o a_o high_a opinion_n of_o and_o there_o be_v no_o way_n to_o make_v we_o think_v that_o all_o be_v safe_a but_o by_o alter_v of_o that_o foolish_a opinion_n we_o expect_v what_o can_v be_v and_o will_v not_o be_v content_a with_o what_o may_v easy_o be_v we_o can_v make_v the_o thing_n of_o this_o world_n to_o be_v still_o and_o quiet_a but_o may_v make_v ourselves_o so_o and_o the_o way_n to_o that_o quietness_n be_v well_o to_o consider_v their_o inconstancy_n and_o that_o our_o happiness_n be_v in_o something_o better_a it_o be_v a_o good_a rule_n which_o pythagoras_n give_v to_o all_o his_o scholar_n and_o be_v the_o same_o that_o i_o will_v have_v you_o learn_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d do_v not_o walk_v in_o the_o high_a way_n i._n e._n do_v not_o follow_v the_o common_a opinion_n be_v not_o lead_v by_o vulgar_a and_o popular_a apprehension_n rectify_v the_o ordinary_a conceit_n which_o you_o have_v careless_o entertain_v of_o thing_n and_o judge_v of_o they_o as_o they_o be_v in_o themselves_o and_o not_o as_o they_o be_v repute_v of_o if_o we_o will_v do_v thus_o then_o that_o which_o be_v the_o cause_n of_o our_o sorrow_n will_v be_v the_o cause_n of_o our_o tranquillity_n because_o nothing_o have_v leave_v we_o but_o that_o which_o we_o know_v will_v not_o stay_v with_o we_o we_o mourn_v now_o because_o thing_n be_v so_o inconstant_a but_o then_o we_o shall_v not_o mourn_v because_o we_o know_v they_o to_o be_v inconstant_a if_o we_o can_v make_v it_o good_a that_o any_o of_o these_o thing_n be_v we_o than_o i_o may_v avouch_v it_o that_o they_o will_v never_o have_v leave_v we_o but_o if_o they_o be_v not_o we_o why_o be_v we_o offend_v that_o god_n do_v what_o he_o will_v with_o his_o own_o and_o beside_o shall_v we_o who_o be_v so_o inconstant_a oblige_v all_o thing_n beside_o ourselves_o to_o constancy_n shall_v we_o who_o desire_n be_v so_o restless_a and_o uncertain_a expect_v that_o all_o thing_n but_o only_o we_o shall_v be_v stable_n and_o quiet_a no_o let_v we_o look_v into_o ourselves_o and_o we_o shall_v find_v so_o much_o difficulty_n to_o settle_v they_o that_o we_o shall_v not_o wonder_v that_o other_o thing_n be_v unsettled_a and_o again_o if_o thing_n be_v so_o mutable_a why_o shall_v we_o not_o think_v as_o i_o have_v already_o say_v that_o they_o will_v one_o day_n change_v to_o what_o we_o will_v have_v they_o but_o suppose_v they_o shall_v what_o be_v we_o the_o better_a if_o our_o opinion_n be_v not_o turn_v too_o we_o shall_v be_v as_o much_o afraid_a to_o lose_v they_o again_o see_v they_o be_v so_o unconstant_a as_o now_o we_o be_v desirous_a to_o have_v they_o by_o the_o benefit_n of_o their_o inconstancy_n we_o must_v therefore_o alter_v our_o esteem_n of_o thing_n now_o else_o we_o shall_v only_o change_v our_o trouble_n but_o not_o be_v rid_v of_o it_o when_o thing_n be_v change_v adeo_fw-la nihil_fw-la est_fw-la miserum_fw-la nisi_fw-la cùm_fw-la pute_fw-la etc._n etc._n so_o certain_a it_o be_v that_o nothing_o be_v miserable_a but_o when_o we_o think_v it_o be_v so_o and_o that_o nothing_o will_v make_v we_o happy_a unless_o we_o think_v that_o we_o be_v happy_a and_o we_o have_v better_o think_v so_o now_o than_o stay_v to_o be_v teach_v this_o lesson_n by_o the_o dear_a experience_n of_o a_o great_a many_o trouble_n let_v thy_o estate_n be_v never_o so_o prosperous_a yet_o if_o thy_o heart_n be_v unmortified_a thou_o will_v never_o be_v the_o near_o but_o rather_o the_o further_o off_o from_o settlement_n for_o they_o that_o have_v the_o great_a abundance_n be_v the_o soon_o disturb_v by_o every_o trisle_n because_o they_o be_v not_o use_v to_o have_v any_o thing_n go_v contrary_a to_o their_o humour_n but_o if_o thou_o will_v take_v any_o comfort_n from_o the_o unconstancy_n of_o thing_n let_v it_o be_v this_o that_o if_o thou_o think_v thyself_o therefore_o unfortunate_a because_o those_o thing_n be_v go_v that_o be_v joyful_a than_o thou_o may_v think_v thyself_o happy_a enough_o see_v the_o thing_n that_o be_v unpleasant_a be_v go_v away_o also_o and_o think_v i_o beseech_v you_o once_o more_o and_o be_v of_o this_o opinion_n that_o there_o be_v nothing_o better_a in_o this_o world_n to_o thou_o than_o thyself_o as_o long_o therefore_o as_o thou_o have_v thyself_o why_o shall_v thou_o be_v trouble_v especial_o if_o thou_o thyself_o think_v never_o the_o worse_o of_o thyself_o because_o thou_o be_v poor_a and_o destitute_a of_o friend_n for_o these_o take_v away_o nothing_o of_o thyself_o nor_o can_v any_o thing_n in_o the_o world_n deprive_v thou_o of_o thyself_o and_o as_o boethius_n well_o say_v this_o be_v the_o condition_n of_o humane_a nature_n that_o it_o then_o only_o excel_v all_o thing_n here_o when_o it_o know_v itself_o but_o when_o it_o do_v not_o it_o be_v below_o the_o very_a beast_n for_o it_o be_v natural_a for_o they_o to_o be_v ignorant_a but_o for_o a_o man_n it_o be_v the_o base_a vice_n especial_o
be_v none_o of_o our_o own_o no_o more_o than_o any_o thing_n in_o this_o world_n let_v these_o two_o thing_n then_o settle_v themselves_o in_o our_o mind_n which_o will_v lead_v we_o into_o the_o right_a way_n of_o fortify_v our_o soul_n both_o against_o this_o and_o all_o other_o trouble_n first_o never_o think_v that_o the_o thing_n which_o thou_o want_v will_v cure_v thou_o for_o they_o will_v rather_o make_v the_o wound_n wide_o and_o enlarge_v thy_o want_n the_o more_o we_o have_v the_o more_o we_o desire_v still_o to_o have_v and_o the_o way_n to_o think_v we_o have_v enough_o be_v not_o to_o desire_v to_o have_v too_o much_o it_o be_v very_o well_o observe_v by_o plutarch_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d that_o it_o seem_v to_o we_o as_o if_o our_o clothes_n do_v give_v we_o heat_n when_o as_o they_o be_v cold_a of_o themselves_o and_o in_o a_o great_a heat_n we_o shift_v our_o clothes_n to_o make_v we_o cool_v just_o so_o do_v man_n think_v that_o the_o thing_n without_o they_o will_v afford_v they_o content_a and_o that_o if_o they_o have_v a_o sumptuous_a house_n and_o have_v riches_n at_o command_n and_o be_v encompass_v with_o servant_n and_o have_v their_o friend_n to_o bear_v they_o company_n they_o shall_v live_v most_o sweet_o and_o delicious_o when_o as_o experience_n teach_v we_o that_o we_o be_v still_o desirous_a of_o some_o change_n in_o one_o thing_n or_o other_o about_o we_o it_o be_v the_o heat_n of_o our_o own_o body_n that_o keep_v we_o warm_a which_o our_o clothes_n do_v only_o contain_v and_o keep_v in_o that_o it_o may_v not_o fly_v abroad_o and_o disperse_v in_o the_o air_n and_o so_o be_v it_o the_o liveliness_n and_o strength_n of_o our_o own_o spirit_n that_o must_v make_v we_o live_v merry_o and_o which_o give_v all_o the_o pleasure_n and_o grace_n to_o these_o outward_a thing_n which_o minister_v to_o our_o comfort_n they_o can_v only_o help_v to_o maintain_v and_o increase_v our_o delight_n but_o our_o delight_n must_v arise_v from_o a_o more_o certain_a cause_n within_o ourselves_o add_v one_o heap_n of_o riches_n to_o another_o build_v great_a house_n invite_v to_o thyself_o friend_n and_o lover_n unless_o thou_o do_v free_a thyself_o from_o thy_o own_o desire_n unless_o thou_o do_v put_v a_o end_n to_o thy_o fear_n and_o care_n and_o such_o like_a thing_n thou_o do_v but_o like_o he_o that_o administer_v wine_n to_o a_o man_n in_o a_o fever_n or_o honey_n to_o a_o choleric_a person_n or_o meat_n to_o he_o that_o be_v trouble_v with_o the_o colic_n which_o do_v not_o strengthen_v but_o destroy_v they_o the_o less_o we_o have_v the_o better_a it_o be_v unless_o we_o desire_v but_o a_o little_a and_o therefore_o it_o be_v of_o absolute_a necessity_n that_o we_o form_n to_o ourselves_o such_o strong_a principle_n as_o will_v moderate_v our_o desire_n and_o make_v they_o reasonable_a but_o then_o let_v i_o tell_v you_o in_o the_o second_o place_n that_o a_o good_a book_n and_o a_o treatise_n of_o the_o principle_n of_o contentment_n may_v be_v without_o we_o as_o well_o as_o any_o thing_n else_o we_o think_v that_o we_o have_v good_a reason_n of_o be_v quiet_a which_o will_v comfort_v we_o upon_o all_o occasion_n but_o where_o be_v they_o in_o our_o book_n that_o be_v no_o more_o we_o than_o our_o money_n that_o buy_v it_o unless_o the_o book_n be_v in_o our_o heart_n we_o must_v labour_v to_o write_v these_o truth_n on_o our_o soul_n and_o turn_v they_o into_o the_o reason_n of_o our_o mind_n thing_n of_o faith_n we_o must_v make_v as_o if_o they_o be_v thing_n of_o reason_n and_o thing_n of_o reason_n we_o must_v make_v as_o sensible_a as_o if_o they_o beat_v continual_o upon_o our_o eye_n and_o ear_n let_v we_o colour_n and_o die_v our_o soul_n with_o these_o notion_n or_o else_o they_o will_v do_v we_o but_o little_a good_a if_o this_o book_n lie_v by_o we_o and_o not_o in_o we_o it_o will_v be_v little_a better_o than_o be_v paper_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 9_o arrian_n l_o 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