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ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A19646	Loves court of conscience written upon two severall occasions, with new lessons for lovers. Wherunto is annexed a kinde husband's advice to his wife. By Humfrey Crowch.	Crouch, Humphrey, fl. 1635-1671.; Mason, George, fl. 1610-1617. Ayres that were sung and played, at Brougham Castle in Westmerland, in the Kings entertainment. Selections.	1637 (1637)	STC 6074; ESTC S119167	7,451	26

LOVES COVRT OF CONSCIENCE Written upon two severall Occasions with new Lessons for Lovers Wherunto is annexed a kinde Husband's advice to his Wife By Humfrey Crowch LONDON Printed for Richard Harper and are to be sold at his shop in Smithfield at the Hospitall Gate 1637. Loves Court of Conscience VVherin doth sit Reason Discretion Grace Truth and Wit The Cryer of the Court. LOvers stand by and give your Iudges place Reason Discretion Wisdome Truth and Grace Which here is come your causes for ●…o try Where ●…ustice sits imbracing equity Intelligence MY Lords here is a Lover newly slai●… Whose corp●… within this coffin doth remain I come to give you notice that thi●… Elfe Vnjustly wrong'd unjustly hang'd himselfe A wretched woman was the cause of all His sad laments and his untimely fall Grace speaks I Can not see though she have hi●… abused How he can from the murder be excused Reason speaks T Is true my Lord had he been 〈…〉 by mee From this same bloudy fact he had been free Truth speaks ANd had the woman t●…in me for her guide The man had liv'd and sh●… had bin his brid Wisdome speaks ANd had they both my precepts wel observ From Reason Grace and Truth they had 〈…〉 〈…〉 Discretion speaks ANd had they not ●…efus'd me to imb●…ace Grace Reason Wisdom Truth had taken pla●… How divine Wisdom will of them dispose We cannot say no man thi●…●…ecret knows in●… But cause that Lovers should not be so doting I le read some lessons to them worth the noting The first Lesson SVch whose hands with heart agree In true loves sweet sympathy Such whose loves and true affection Doth to others give direction How to love and love indeed If in love they mean to speed Such that can no rivall brook Or suspicious of a look Or be angry for a kisse Or can wink at all a s●…le Such whose jealous friends can never From their hearts true love di●…ever Such who when they play and toy Do not work themselves annoy Love fixt on each others hearts Not upon the outward parts Lest that when those parts decay Love with glory passe away Such that do not love to range Such that cannot brook a change Such that with a roving eye Give no cause of jealousi●… Such who when their friends would part them Neither friends nor so●…s can start them Such who like the Camma●…ill Thrive and flourish all the while And the more they are oppr●…st They the more in love are blest Such as hate so foule a fact As to break a true contract Or a true contract to make False when once they do forsake Love and friend and honestie In the twinkling of an eye Such as when contract they are Think a minute a whole year●… Till they do enjoy their ma●… Such shall live in happy states Such as nought but death can sever Happy be their fortunes ever This is love and worth commending Ever living never ending These to marry need not ●…eare Cause they honest minds do beare Whilst the rest that break their faith Live in fear of Heavens wrath The second Lesson THe Turtle Dove when she bath lost her mate Being expos'd to good or evill fate Refuses comfort and her mate being lost Matches no more her first love being crost Contrariwise made of another nature Do lose themselves contrary to this creature For when their Lovers constant do expect them Others do sue for love that do affect them And steals away their hearts wins them and weds them Vnknowne to their first Lovers bords and beds them This is a hell a torture to the minde Of him that such discourtesie doth finde Offerd by her whose credit lyes a bleeding No good can come wher is such bad proceeding And such a Comedy most commonly Ends for the most part with a Tragedie Wofull experience manifestly proves The wofull ends of such false-hearted loves This should teach men to have a speciall care Whom they affect to whom they love do bear Since women are so fickle minded grown That when men think them sure they finde them flown Iust li●… 〈…〉 〈…〉 〈…〉 〈…〉 A 〈…〉 〈…〉 the 〈…〉 〈…〉 hardly 〈…〉 Goes home with mi●…h with melody laughter And thinks to come again a fortnight after Then findes them gone just so it is with men That sets their mindes on women now and then But should they set a thousand watchfull eyes Over these winged birds these Butter-flies T were all in vain if they intend to flie They 'l have their wils in spite of thee and I As soon hedge in the Cuckow as constrain A woman to be true so wilsull vain But yet I pitty them in such a case That love such women so much void of grace Because I know the greater ●● the love If truly plac'd the harder to remove The third Lesson COncerning contract twixt a couple now Without their friends consent I not alow But if the thing be done I cannot see Why friends should part friends that so well agree To hurt the tender conscience of a maid Who ere thou art that shalt her so perswade To break her f●…ith sh●… plighted to her love Shal●… 〈…〉 〈…〉 God above Th●… 〈…〉 secrets of the heart Will be reveng'd of thee though they two part Nor is shee free from Heavens punishment Though it be do●… with●…ut her friends consent For though rash vowes in heat of loves affection Are better broke th 〈…〉 kept by wits direction Yet how ●●● this the conscience satisfie Corrupted with the sin of perjury As for example I do vow a thing I vow performance this to passe to bring Which is I break and say 't was rashly done Will this excuse me from presumption Besides their words are very dirt and trash That would affirme that Lovers vowes are rash That love is surely too too hot to last That at the first sight is so firm●…ly plac'd To move a contract in two Lovers so To kn 〈…〉 the knot and after it undo Children 〈…〉 inconsiderate fooles do use To do and undo and themselves abuse But Lover should be wiser and so wise Not to do any thing without advise The fourth Lesson THe cōscience being stretched God offended The maid suborned and the man suspended Closely she marries and he ●…all not know The time when he receives his mortall blow She that ne're thought to do him so much harme Now keeps anothers bed and bosome warme And all upon perswasion of some friend Whose connsell proves as poyson in the end The guilty conscience never taking rest But night and day the offender doth molest Strange apparitions sometimes doth appeare Vnto the party filling her with feare With strange Aspect● she is perplext a nights In dreames and visions which she termeth sprites Sometimes shee thinks shee sees him whom she wrongs Comming to her with ●…ry burning tonge To pull that t●ngue out that did falsifie A spotlesse faith with foulest purgery Sometimes she thinks men in white sheets she

sees Covered with white from head below the knees And then she thinks although the sight be sained How white her conscience w●…s before 't was stained And though between her husbands arms she rest The thought of her first love doth her molest Her conscience stings her troubled heart doth smite her And dreadful dreams doth night by night affright her The fifth Lesson THe news being brought to the forsaken Lover As time will at the length all things discover His love so truly plac'd must be removed From her which heretofore so well he loved That which he did must be again undone The hardest taske that 's underneath the Sun A man assoone a mountain may displace As remove that his inward thoughts imbrace Or say that he will straight way take in hand To separate the Ocean from the sand For nature will be nature sense be sense And weaknesse unto both hath reference Poor man take Reason she must be thy Bride And in this matter let her be thy guide But O why do I talk of reason so Lovers have no such Bride nor none such know For if they ruled were by her directions Then might they learn to rule their own affections I wish distressed Lovers such a blisse To understand and know what reason is But all in vain love in another kinde By violence thrusts reason from the minde O grief to think you heavenly powers 〈…〉 Shew us the way but how to rule this love Or if it be a thing must govern us Why are we brought to inconvenience thus Pittie him O his friends in such a fit In whose behalf these lines of grief 〈…〉 writ And let his sufferings in a cause so right Be thought upon when he is out of sight Who being crost himselfe engaged hath To crosse the Seas from her that broke her faith That being gone he might not see the shame That 's drawing on upon so false a Dame Three yeares a faithfull friend to her he was Three yeers contract before this came to passe And now a three yeere Voyage is he going And all because he will not see her ruine Maidens be faithfull yongmen he that can Bridle affection he 's the wisest man The Sonet of Dido and Eneas After the Vertues they had playd their parts Errour came in to alter Lovers hearts DIdo was a Carthage Queen That lov'd a Trojan Knight Which wandring many a Coast had seen And many a dreadfull fight As they a bunting rode a showre Drove them in a lucklesse houre Into a darksome 〈…〉 Where Æneas with his charms Lockt Queen Dido in his arms And had what he did crave Dido Hymens rites forgot Her Love was wing'd with haste Her honour shee consider'd not But in her brest him plac't And when her love was new begun Love sent down his winged sonne To fright Æneas sleeping Who bad him by break of day From Queen Dido stoale away Which made her fall a weeping Dido wept but what of this The gods would have it so Æneas nothing did amisse For he was forc't to go 〈…〉 to keep With false loues but let them weep T is folly to be true Let this lesson serve your turn And let twenty Didoes mourn So you get daily new He or she that fancies wrong May be ruled by this Song A kinde husbands advice to his Wife MY love my bosom friend to whom I owe My best respects if you but this did know That your curst and unadvised words Doth pierce my heart like daggers knives and darts The reason is because I well respect you It would not be so did not I affect you My Lord my God provides all needfull things As well for me as for the greatest Kings And under God I carefully provide Meat for my children and my wife beside If you or they for whom I pains do take Deny obedience cause my estate is weak It is signe small love to me you beare As by your disobedience may appeare For if you will not love me for my self You shall not love me for I have no wealth If you on wealth so much did cast your eye Why did you marry one so poor as I I had small wealth when first with thee I married Nor do I wish that I unwed had tarried Since I am richer then I was before And who can justly say that I am poo●… Since God some children unto me hat●… given That may for ought I know be Saints in heaven These are my riches and my chief co●…tent Glory to God that mee such riches s●…nt Many a rich man that goe●… fine and b●…ave Would give a thousand po●…nd one child to hav●… Gold cannot get a child O if it could Then rich men would have children made of gol●… If gold be counted riches then have I Many good things that gold can never buy Then I am richer far then some that have Gold in their purses land●… and livings bra●…e Yet I enjoy these blessings but in va●… Because I love and am not lov'd again O would I did not love thee half ●…o well I 'de nere regard that firebrand of hell I mean your tongue that ●…oth afflict my heart For if a stranger should but act thy part I would not care I am of this belief Where is great love the greater is the grief If that it be repulst by evill speeches By a curst dame that striven to weare the breeches Consider what I ●…ay and be advis'd Silence in women kinde is highly pris'd How canst thou say thou lov'st me with thy har●… Thy tongue doth shew thou lov'st me but in pa●… It will be so unlesse you rule your tongue That member that hath done me so much wrong Those women love their husbands well indeed That to their humours are so well ag●…eed That though their hu●…ands ne'r so crosse appear They silent are because they love them dear●… I do not wish I such a wise embra●… But wish that such a tongue in thee were plac'●… For such as they may have worse faults then th●… And such as they are sure no wives for me Onely I wish thee silent as they are And then none of them shall with thee compare So well I do est●…em of thee sw●…t h●…art That nothing but thy tongue shall us two part Nor can I say that I in haste did chuse One that good counsell s●…orn'd and did refuse For I did never finde thee obstina●… That I should think my words are out of date Or that I speak now out of time or place Vnto a woman wanting wit and grace For wit I know thou hast and that is this To know what should be done what 's amisse And if this wit with grace together j●…yn Thou art more dearer ●…nd mor●… neerer mine For though for wi●… we bot●… may go to schoole Yet I do know thou art not such a foole But that this thing thou well do●… understand That thou dost know th●…rt under my command Vnlesse you 'l say the Priest