Selected quad for the lemma: friend_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
friend_n	affection_n	love_n	love_v	2,519	5	6.3625	4	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A92883	A funeral gift: or, a preparation for death With comforts against the fears of approaching death: and consolations against immoderate grief, for the loss of friends. By the author of The devout companion.	Seller, Abednego, 1646?-1705.	1690 (1690)	Wing S2452A; ESTC R215121	60,167	186

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with_o joy_n and_o be_v carry_v by_o angel_n to_o a_o everlasting_a inheritance_n there_o to_o remain_v to_o all_o eternity_n amen_n meditation_n xxxiii_o comfort_n against_o the_o fear_n of_o death_n and_o consolation_n against_o immoderate_a grief_n for_o the_o loss_n of_o friend_n if_o it_o be_v a_o blessing_n of_o the_o virtuous_a to_o mourn_v the_o reward_n which_o attend_v it_o be_v to_o be_v comfort_v and_o he_o that_o pronounce_v the_o one_o promise_v the_o other_o i_o doubt_v not_o but_o that_o spirit_n who_o nature_n be_v love_n and_o who_o name_n comforter_n as_o he_o know_v the_o occasion_n of_o our_o grief_n so_o have_v he_o salve_v and_o season_v it_o with_o supply_n of_o grace_n pour_v into_o our_o wound_n no_o less_o oil_n of_o mercy_n than_o wine_n of_o justice_n ii_o yet_o since_o affection_n owe_v compassion_n as_o a_o duty_n to_o the_o afflict_a and_o nature_n have_v ingraft_v a_o desire_n to_o find_v it_o that_o which_o die_v to_o our_o love_n be_v always_o alive_a 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