Selected quad for the lemma: friend_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
friend_n	affection_n	love_n	love_v	2,519	5	6.3625	4	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A43179	The Christians dayly solace in experimentall observations; or, cordials for crosses in thse sad and calamitous times of affliction. By R.H.	Head, Richard, Rev.	1659 (1659)	Wing H1277A; ESTC R222583	65,001	166

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then_o be_v any_o more_o greeved_a with_o their_o falsehood_n and_o unkindness_n and_o thus_o the_o malice_n of_o enemy_n and_o the_o false_a feign_a and_o sickle_n love_v of_o suppose_a friend_n shall_v all_o turn_v for_o our_o eternal_a advantage_n and_o therefore_o though_o we_o have_v pour_v out_o many_o tear_n over_o their_o live_a sepulcher_n yet_o we_o may_v comfort_v ourselves_o in_o their_o loss_n then_o enjoy_v their_o love_n with_o a_o continual_a fear_n of_o lose_v or_o incur_v their_o displeasure_n by_o a_o captious_a exception_n many_o time_n for_o a_o mere_a oversight_n or_o unwilling_a miscarriage_n and_o unpurposed_a enour_n though_o general_o we_o do_v ever_o observe_v they_o with_o obsequious_a love_n let_v we_o not_o then_o be_v so_o greevous_o trouble_v when_o we_o be_v any_o way_n wrong_v belie_v rail_v upon_o spurn_v at_o or_o trample_v upon_o by_o the_o foot_n of_o honour_a insolency_n or_o dunghill_n malice_n slight_v contemn_v and_o utter_o cast_v off_o by_o 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