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A06674 Meditations and deuout discourses vpon the B. Sacrament composed by Ch. M. Ch. M. 1639 (1639) STC 17128; ESTC S909 57,528 244

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an Emperour is but thy vassall It is honour ô Lord to much for me to be seruant to such a Prince how much more then to much to be thy freind Speake Dauid what thinkest thou of this honour which God doth to men in accounting them his freinds To mee saith hee thy freinds are become honourable exceedinglie nimis honorati Psa 38. to much honoured Nay God is not content onlie to be our freind but hath contracted with vs a firmer freindship and more indissoluble then euer was betwixt man and man Damon and Pythias Pylades Orestes and others are famous for their freindship which was so greate that the one esteemed th● other another himself and therefore the one was readie to dye for the other but this freindship ô Lord is not comparable to thy freindship which thou hast contracted with man Thou first hast contracted freindship betwixt thy self and man by Incarnation by which thou art linked to man in a most admirable vnitie in one person by which God is man and man is God which freindship is so faste firme and indissoluble that so long as God shall be God he shall be man and man shall be God O my soule be thou neuer so vngratfull as euer to forget this freindship It is the ground of all other freindships the most honourable Damon and Pythias were linked onlie in affection so was lonathas and Dauid 1. Reg. 1● whose soule is sayd to haue been g●●ed to Ionathas his soule but by this freindship of Incarnation God man were vnited in one person reallie and substantiallie O Lord what is man that thou shouldst so grace fauour him as to Vouchsafe to be so neerlie linked in freindship to him as to be one person with him Secondlie thou hast linked thyselfe in freindship with man by grace and charitie and this is an effect of the former freindship because the Incarnation is the foūtaine of al grace Iac. 2. Abrahamindewed with this grace is called by S. Iames. Amicus Dei the freind of God And Christ speaketh to his Apostles in those freindlie and comfurtable words Ioa. 15. You are my freinds if you do the things that I commaund you now I call you not seruants for the seruant knoweth not what his Lord doeth but you I haue called freinds because all thinges whatsoeuer I heard of my Father I haue notified vnto you And all the Iust by this freindship are freinds to him and he to them This freindship once made on God his part is neuer dissolued for he neuer ceaseth to be our freind till we turne his enemies by mortall sinne And although by sinne this freindship be to often broken on our part by particular men yet it is generallie so firme that there was neuer so firme a freindship betwixt man and man as there is by grace and charitie betwixt God and man There is no greater freindship or charitie saith our B. Sauiour then that a man yeald his life for his freinds which few freinds haue done for one another and yet our Io. 15. B. Sauiour hath died not onlie for his frends but euen for his foes to make them freinds and those his freinds haue bene so louing and so constant to him that many millions of Christians haue died for him as appeares in our so many Martyrs whom no threatning of Tyrants could soe daunt no promises so allure no torments so terrifie no deaths so scarre as to make them denie Christ or his religion but strengthened with grace chatitie they triumphed ouer all and for his loue they forsooke all as lands liuings life rather then they would forsake him and as he first died for them so did they dye for him O Lord tye me by this linke of freindship vnto thee that I may preferre thy loue before the loue of all but thee or for thee confirme me so in this freindship that by no mortall Sinne it may be dissolued but that I may remaine thy fast freind euen to death and may neuer againe shake hands with the world flesh and deuill thy sworne enemies or any creature whose loue is offensiue to thee that I may not only liue but also dye louing and so loue thee for euer The third f●eindship ô Lord which out of thy most ardent loue thou contractest with vs is by this B. Sacrament of the Altar by which thou art vnited vnto vs not only in affection as comonlie freinds are but also in substance The first freindship of Incarnation if we may iudge of the cause by the effect is the greatest and noblest because it ca●seth a greater and more noble vnion with God for that by Incarnation man was made the naturall sonne of God whereas by the freindship of grace and charitie he is only th' adopted sonne of God and the frendship of Incarnation is altogether indissoluble in so much that death which separated Christs soule from his bodie could not separate his humaine nature from his diuinitie the freindship of grace and charitie in this life is often broken by mortall sinne The freindship also of Incarnation in some respects exceedeth the freindship made by the B. Sacrament because by Incarnation man became God and God man whereas by the B. Sacrament man is not Deus but deifer not God but a bearer of God in soule and substance yet in one respect the freindship made by the Blessed Sacrament is greater then that of the Incarnation because by Incarnation preciselie taken that freindship was contracted onlie with that particular humain nature which God assumed vnto him in the vnitie of person but by the B. Sacrament Christ vniteth himself in substance to all those whoe receaue him in it By Incarnation none but Christs humaine nature was formallie deified and sanctified by the B. Sacrament all are sanctified who worthilie receaue it Yet in this B. Sacrament Christ hath shewed himself a greater freind then euer man was to man mēnes freindship cōsisteth only in affection but the freindship made by the B. Sacrament importeth a reall vnion of Christs substance with ours and therefore humain freindship causeth onlie a metaphoricall vnion betwixt those who are freinds but this freindship implieth a reall vnion of our substance with the substance of Christ and of our flesh and bloud with his And by humaine freindship external goods of fortune as riches lands monyes are common betwixt freinds according to the common saieng Inter amecos omnia sunt communia amongst freinds al things are common But the goods of their bodies as health strength beautie c. are not common nor can they but by this freindship made in and by this B. Sacrament Christs bodie bloud soule yea and diuinitie are imparted to vs and made common to vs and our substance is reallie vnited to his ô the admirable freindship Freinds although they be sepated in bodies and places yet by mutuall loue they are vnited in wills soule and spirit and especiallie if their freindship be
contracted by grace and charitie and therefore of the first Christians though separated in bodies place Act 4. S. Luke giueth this testimonie the multitude of beleeuers had one heart and soule And Ionathas his soule by freinship loue was said to be conglutinata ioyned fast as it were glued to the soule of Dauid 1. Reg. 18. Lib. 4. Confes c. 6. And S. Austin speaking of a great freind of his who was dead saith I thought my soule and his soule to haue been one soule in two bodies and therefore my life to me was an horrour because I would not liue halfe and therefore perchance I feared to die least he shoud dye wholie whom I much loued But this vnion betwixt these freinds was onlie metaphoricall and in affection whereas by the freindship made in and by the B. Sacrament there is a realle vnion not only of Christs substance with those that receaue him by communion but also of the receauers communicants amongest themselues because they all receauing the same indiuiduall bodie of Christ are al reallie vnited in it and by it to one another O admirable freinship and no lesse admirable vnion greater then is the vnion betwixt children of one Father and mother their vnion is called consanguinitie by which they are vnited in flesh and bloud which they receaue frō the same parents which is counted a greater tye then any humain freindship can make and yet they receaue not from their parents the same indiuiduall flesh and bloud either with their parents or with one another but another and that distinct though of the same Kind they who receaue this B. Sacrament do receaue the same indiuiduall flesh and bloud which he hath and so are vnited to him and amongest themselues in one the selfsame flesh and bloud By this freindship we liue not onlie together in one howse as other freinds doe but as Christ saith Ioan 6. Ioan. 6. he that eateth his flesh and drinketh his bloud abideth in him and Christ in him and so they liue not onlie together in one howse but also one with in another O freindship excelling all humaine freindship and euen carnall consanguinitie and the neerest kinred O how should we loue this noble freind who out of his excessiue loue hath linked vs vnto him not onlie in affection as freinds are nor in the like flesh and bloud as children of one Father and Mother are but in the selfsame Indiuiduall substance of which he consisteth O how should wee loue one another and euen more then wee doe our brethren and sisters because we are linked not onlie in flesh bloud of the same kind taken from the same parents as they are but in one indiuiduall flesh and bloud of Christ which we all receaue in this B. Sacrament Freinds at their departure by death or by a long iorney do leaue onlie their freinds an Image or a ringe or some other guif● for a remembrance and this argueth their great loue But Christ at his departure out of this world in respect of his visible presence hath left vs in this B. Sacrament the best thing he had not an Image or a ring or such like but euen his owne flesh bloud his owne selfe and so leauing vs visible remaineth with vs inuisiblie in this B. Sacrament and will soe remaine with vs to the worlds end How should we imbrace and loue this our so great freind VVhat shal we giue him for this guift he is more worth ten thousand times then we are or haue yet lett vs giue him ourselues as he hath giuen himself to vs and though there be infinite disparitie betwixt him and vs yet he will accept of our guift because it is asmuch as we can giue Some freinds and Confederates who haue made a firme league or freindship to make it firmer and more inuiolable haue let themselues bloud and haue signed it with their bloud So our B. Sauiour to make a firmer league freindship with vs did let himself bloud on the crosse and this his bloud he giues vs to drink daylie and his flesh also to eate in the B. Sacrament thereby to signe this league and to make it inuiolable O let vs not on our part break this freindship but let vs rather signe it with our bloud if the occasion be offered as Christ hath signed it with his which also he giues vs to drinke that we may neuer forget this league and freindship True freinds are readie to dye for one another as they say Pylades and Orestes and others were thinking themselues to liue though dead so long as their freind liueth and to dye though liuing when their freind dieth Our B. Sauiour hath sacrificed hīself once on the Crosse by a reall death and he daylie sacrificeth himself mysticalie in the B. Sacrament for vs lett vs be then alwaies readie in preparation of minde to dye for him who first died for vs let vs not thinke it much to giue our life for him who gaue his life for vs which being the life of God man infinitlie surpassed the liues of all men though neuer so great and manie yea and of Angels also if they could dye as they may be annihilated O my soule do thou resolue thyselfe into loue to shew thyself gratefull to so louing a freind doe thou imitate the Phenix burne thyself in thyne owne flames of loue that dying in this Fire to the world this life and thyself thou maist rise to heauen to an eternall life ô my soule stick to this freind so fast as that neither Father nor Mother sister nor brother prosperitie nor aduersitie life nor death nor al the creatures in the world may separate thee from him but as freinds liue willinglie together so thou maist liue in him and he in thee in this B. Sacrament so thou maist liue with him in the Church militant that thou maist euer liue with him in the Chuch triumphant so thou mayst liue with him heere by grace that thou maist raigne with him in heauen by glorie THE EIGHT MEDITATION How Christ hath shewed himself in this B. Sacrament a most louing spouse O My B. Sauiour ô louer of soules thou confoundest me with thy loue shewed to me in this B. Sacrament by so many waies I haue found thee in it by it a bountifull feastmaker prouident howse-holder a Father a Mother a Freind now I finde thee to bee in it and by it a most amorous spouse of our soules that so by one Title or other or altogether thou maist wrest out a reciprocall loue of ours towards thee As thou hast contracted three freindships with vs as we haue seene in the former chapter so hast thou contracted three Mariages with vs the first by Incarnation the Second by grace the third by this B. Sacrament By Incarnation thou art so fast wedded vnto vs and linked vnto vs by a knott so indissoluble that it excelleth the bond of carnall
our Sauiour we should receaue this B. Sacrament VVHEN thou hast O my soule by the considerations alleadged in the former meditation stirred vp thy selfe to a filiall feare and reuerence thou must also endeauour to moue thy selfe to a feruent loue and charitie towards thy Sauiour whō thou art to receaue To this all thy former meditations will conduce for that by them is shewed what a good house keeper how liberall an Hoste what a Father what a Mother what a Friend Spouse Phisitian and Pastour all which are titles of loue Christ hath shewed himself vnto the in this B. Sacrament Saye then vnto him thou hast shewed they self in this B. Sacrament a noble house keeper giue me the loue belonging to one of thy familie thou hast shewed thy selfe a bountifull Hoste giue me the loue of a louing guest thou hast shewed thy selfe a Father and Mother make me a louing and obediēt childe Thou hast shewed thyselfe a louinge friend make me loue thee reciprocallie yea a Spouse make me a louing spouse yea a Phisitian make me a louing patient yea a Pastour inflame my heart with the loue of a louing sheepe Thou neuer shewedst more loue to mee then in this B. Sacrament by which out of a great loue thou giuest to me and after so admirable a manner as loue is ingenious thy bodie bloud soule and diuinitie By Incarnation thou impartedst thy self onlie to that nature which thou tookest of the B. Virgin But by this Sacrament thou bestowest thyself on all in particular who receaue it VVith what loue shall I paye this loue Thou giuest thy All vnto me and can I giue lesse then my All to thee and yet so shall I not rendre like for like because my All is nothing to thy All nothing somuch as if a begger should giue his raggs for the Kinges purple robe crowne scepter and kingdome I vse to take kindelie all which a freind giueth be it but a ring or Image because I imagine that he giueth his loue in his guift yea and himself also in his guift though not in person with what loue then should I answer to thy loue who giuest thy selfe vnto me not onelie in thy guifts and effects as thou giuest by creation iustification and glorification but also by this B. Sacrament in thine owne person Children loue their parents and nurces because they feed and nourish them brute beasts loue them who giue them meate be it but crustes and bones hay or strawe how then should I loue thee O Lord who feedest me with thy owne flesh bloud seasoned and sauced with the Diuinitie O my heart to shew thy self that thou art not made of flint marble or steele but of soft flesh resolue thy self into loue for thy Sauiours loue shewed in this B. Sacrament and being so resolued and transformed imploy thy selfe and all thou are for his loue and honour If thou thus prepare thy selfe by a great reuerence and loue to this B. Sacrament in which the Sonne of God resideth as in his cabinet not onely he but his Father also the first person in Trinitie and their holy Spirit the Holie Ghost the third person who procedeth from them both consubstantiall and coequall vnto them will all three come vnto thee not onely to visit thee but also to dwell with thee for this God the Sōne promiseth saying If any loue me he will keepe my word Ioa. 14. and my Father will loue him and we will come to him and will make abode with him And because thou art notable of thyself to furnish thy howse so as it may be fitt for the entertainement of so great personages they will bring with thē their tapistrie and ornaments of grace and vertues by which thou shalt be adorned to their liking And because thou canst not prepare a feast worthie such guests though thou shouldest seeke sea and Land for it they will bring their feast with them to witt this Blessed Sacrament the Manna which conteineth all that can delight thy spirit and with it they will bring aboundāce of all grace by which they will feast thee and will be feasted of thee THE 13. MEDITATION To be made immediatlie after Communion How than●kefull the Receauer should bee VVHen thou hast receaued this B. Sacrament pause awhile and think what thou hast receaued Thou hast receaued more then the worth of Heauen and earth the Sonne of God in whom be all the treasures of wisedom and knowledge hidden Coloss 2. in whom dwelle the fulnesse of the God head corporallie who is the head of all principalitie and power thou hast receaued him who is worth so much that he is inestimable no price cā be sett on him Antonius and Cleopatra did on a time vainlie striue who should make the greatest feast And Antonius prepared all that Sea and Land could affoard Cleopatra not sollicitous for any such fare tooke an vnion which hung at her eare and resoluing it drank it at a draft and putting her finger to the other eare to take another vnion he who was elected arbiter and Iudge betwixt them bad Cleopatra hold her hand for that she had alreadie surpassed Antonius his feast hauing drunk alreadie the price of all Egypt But thou O my soule by receauing this B. Sacrament eatest and drinkest at once the bodie and bloud of Christ for with his bodie his bloud alwayes is by concomitance and inseparable vniō which is more then the price of Egypt yea thē a thousand worlds And therefore if thou shouldest resolue thy heart into gratitude and thankes giuing thou coulds not shew sufficient gratitude for this so great benefit Say then to thy bountifull Iesus with gratefull Dauid Psa 115. Quid retribuam Domino pro omnibus quae retribuit mihi what shall I render to our Lord for all things that he hath rendred to me nay what shall I render to my Lord for this onlie thing which he hath bestowed on mee thou hast ô Lord not onlie bestowed on mee great benefites and this the greatiest of all● but thou hast also rendred good for euill mercie and grace for my sinnes what can I render thee for this Psa 115. I will follow King Dauids counsell I will take the chalice of saluation and I will inuocate the name of our Lord I will take the chalice of thy Passion which thou didst drink on the Crosse I will offer that sacrifice for this and both for all thy benefites and by them I will inuocate and praise thy name for euer If I could speake at once with all the tongues of men and Angels I could not ô Lord giue thee sufficient thanks for this so great a benefit which conteineth thy sacred self and thy holie flesh and blood Deifyed by thy Diuinitie VVherefore in an astonishment at this great benefit and thy great liberalitie I will be silent and by my silence I will testifie and confesse that thou hast bestowed on me in this B. Sacrament more then
tongue can expresse yea more then heart can conceaue But although I can not giue thee O Lord any thing of mine owne though heauen and earth were mine owne which can haue any proportion with this thy so great guift yet I can pay thee with thine owne sufficientlie O eternall Father thou hast giuen me a guift equiualent to this great benefit and with this I can pay thee though I pay thee with thy owne And what is that It is thine owne Sonne Christ Iesus God man whom thou bestowest on mee in this B. Sacrament him I render againe vnto thee for this and all thy benefites He is thine I know by eternall generation because by that he was borne consubstantiall to thee but he is myne also by tēporall generation because by that he is borne consubstantiall to me and he is mine again by this holie communion and in a manner as much mine Io. 6. as the meat I eate the drinke I drinke because his flesh is trulie meate and his bloud is trulie drink I therefore render vnto thee ô Eternall Father thy owne sonne whom thou hast giuen to me and I render him not onelie for thy other benefites but also and especiallie for this which by communion of this B. Sacrament I haue receaued at thy bountifull hands And although in so doeing I giue thee but thine owne yet I giue thee also mine and him who is twise myne by Incarnation and by this Holy communion yea as often mine as I communicate And this guift which I offer to thee in thankes giuing for this all thy benefites thou will not thou canst not refuse Matth 3 17. because it is thy well beloued Sōne in whom thou art well pleased And if thou wilt haue also of myne I offer thee all I can haue I offer thee my hart and that also inflamed with loue and in a manner as I desire it should be resolued into loue of thee and all I am and haue by thy grace shall be hereafter for thee and thy seruice If my tongue speake hereafter it shall speake of thee who hast made it the bridge by which thou hast made thine entrie into mee If I think of any thing it shall be of thee who now art so present an obiect that thou art not onelie by mee but also in mee If I doe any thing it shall be by thy direction who now art in me to direct me in all my actions as my first Moouer If I liue I will liue by thee in thee because now thou liuest in mee to make me liue hereafter thy life not my owne former life that so I may say with S. Paul viuo ego iam non ego viuit vero in me Christus Gal. 2. I liue now not I but Christ liueth in me If I loue any thing hereafter it shall be thee or for thee for thou hast first loued me 1. Ioan. 4. and best loued me and by this B. Sacrament thou hast shewed thy self my greatest benefactour my greatest friend and louer Thou therefore here after shalt haue me for thy seruant Thou hereafter shalt haue my loue for that I can neuer bestow my self better then on thee I can neuer bestow my loue on a better obiect then thee who art Summum bonum cheefest good good by essence and not good onelie in thy self but good to me by creation by which thou giuest me my naturall being by iustification by which thou giuest me a supernaturall being and by this B. Sacrament by which thou giuest thy owne being to witt thy bodie bloud soule and diuinitie of which thou consistest THE 14. MEDITATION How the Communicant or Receiuer is enriched by this B. Sacrament and so should litle esteeme all worldlie losses COnsider how much thou art enriched by this precious Sacrament more then if thou wert Emperour not only of this terrestriall but also of the Celestiall world for thou possessest him by receiuing this B. Sacrament who is more worth then all that is in heauen or Earth yea then all that can be but God For he whom thou receauest is the Sonne of God consubstantiall and equall to his Father and his bodie and blood which he bestoweth on thee in this Holy Sacrament by reason of their vnion with the diuinitie are more precious then all that is in heauen and earth If euerie prayer or good worke of Christ was more worth then a worlds redemption if euerie drop of his blood is of that value that it could haue redeemed a thousand worlds of what worth and value is whole Christ whom thou wholie receiuest O my God ô my Sauiour what bountie is this to bestow so much on me so poore a creature who haue so litle deserued at thy hāds I should call it prodigalitie but that thou canst not be prodigall because thou canst not giue aboue thy state and meanes O my soule how happie wert thou if thou knewest or couldest conceaue thy riches and happines As therefore an Emperour of the whole world would not care if some litle cottage should be burnt or taken from him because it is nothing to the whole world which he possesseth so hereafter if God should permit asmuch to be taken from thee as was taken from Iob if thou loose lands and goods kinsfolkes friends and all if thou suffer domage in thy fame honour or libertie if thou be neuer so poore for worldlie wealth If thou bee neuer so crossed with aduersities say with Iob Our Lord Iob. 3. hath giuen and our Lord hath taken away as it hath pleased our Lord so is it done the name of our Lord be blessed Say vnto thy God though thou make me as poore as Iob thou shalt take nothing from me but that which thou gauest me and besides in this B. Sacrament thou hast giuen me that which is more worth then all thou caust take from me to witt thy self body bloud soule and diuinitie which whilest I possesse I can not be poore loose I neuer so much because I possesse thee who art all riches which whilest I possesse I can not be miserable I can not be but happie though all the miseries of the world should fall at once vpon me because I possesse thee who art the blisse of men and Angels If then I want temporall goods if I want health of bodie if aduersities crosse me giue me o Lord grace to beare all patientlie and not to think what I haue lost but what I haue gotten by receiuing thee in this B. Sacrament to which all I can loose is nothing Thou rainedst ô Lord Manna vpon the Iewes which was like the seed of a Coriander Exod. 16. and yet the Iewes were so gratefull for it that they cried Manha what is this what largesse what riches doth God raine on vs and yet that was but as a crumme which felle from thy Table But now thou raynest on me by meanes of this B Sacrament not a crumme of bread