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A33925	The body of divinity, or, A confession of faith being the substance of Christianity, containing the most material things relating to matters both of faith and practice : published for the benefit and profit of all, especially those who love the Lord Jesus ... / by Thomas Collier.	Collier, Thomas, fl. 1691.	1674 (1674)	Wing C5268; ESTC R23929	303,320	630

are as nigh to God as rich in Grace and Glory as the richest Jam. 2. 5. Hearken my beloved Brethren hath not God chosen the poor of this World rich in Faith and heirs of that Kingdom which he hath promised to them that love him 8. Yet if it be divine and true it runs 8. It is sutable to the causes of love out sutable to the causes of love for though true love be universal and impartial yet it is not blind but fixes most where it apprehends most of God most of Holiness Humility Love and constancy in the way and work of the Lord for this is certain that if we love for Godliness sake where we see most of Godliness and the image of Christ there we love most and this need not be stated as a duty for it is the property of true Grace and Love so to do we have Christ our Lord for example in this matter who had his beloved Disciple above the rest Joh. 13. 23. 20. 2. 21. 20 24. Not but that he loved all and so must we love all the Lord's people with the same love although there may and will be degrees therein Psal 16. 2 3. My goodness extendeth not unto thee but to the Saints that are in the earth and to the excellent in whom is all my delight So did Paul prize and prefer Timothy above all the rest of the Ministers with him for the excellency of spirit that was in him Phil. 2. 29. 20 21 22. And on this account a poor Saint may have more spiritual cause of love in him than a rich one he that is poor in the World may be rich in Grace and a rich Saint in the World may be rich in Grace and have more cause of spiritual love than some that are poor not but that all that are truly gracious are spiritually rich in Grace yet God giveth differingly as he pleaseth and there are differing capacities and improvings of what is given but this is certain that faithful improvement shall have addition and increase 9. And lastly True love to the Saints is 9 They love constantly constant love not by fits and good moods sometimes love and sometimes hate like the Religion of some who under convictions or afflictions will be very religious and make promises but when the fit is over their Religion is ended but true love both to God and his people never faileth 1 Cor. 13. 8. It is constant in adversity as in prosperity under weakness ●railties and miscarriages as under highest demonstrations of purity It 's true Saints under sin must be reproved and so it may be that some strangedness may be requisite yet love must still continue Gal. 6. 1 2. Heb. 13. 1. Let brotherly love continue to strangers as well as acquaintance ver 2. Prov. 17. 17. A friend loveth at all times and a brother is born for adversity Love in adversity continueth faithful in adversity if it reprove for sin and miscarriage it doth it love and faithfulness Prov. 27. 6. Faithful are the wounds of a friend but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful hence the Prophet saith Psal 141. 5. Let the righteous smite me and it shall be a kindness let h●m reprove me and it shall be an excellent oile which shall not break my head c. Where truth of love is it 's constant while the cause thereof continueth and in any miscarriage it doth all its works in love 3. They that love God do love all men 3. They love all as men they love Christians as such and they love men as men and enemies as enemies persecuters as persecuters they love them with the love of pitty and compassion and this is their duty and disposition in some measure if made partakers of the Grace of God in truth Mat. 5. 44. to 47. If ye love them that love you that is only them what do ye more than others Nothing more eminently discovers a Gospel-spirit than this for this is clear above nature nature never teacheth this lesson but the contrary Nature teacheth to hate and seek revenge on enemies but Grace teacheth to pitty them and pray for them and what Christ taught his Disciples he practised himself both in doing and praying for enemies Luke 22. 50 51. 23. 34. And this lesson Stephen had lea●ned Acts 7. 60. And to this we are exhorted by the Apostle Rom. 12. 19 20. and Gal. 6. 10. As much as in us lieth to do good to all though especially to the houshold of Faith This is the command of the Lord and then we love God when we keep his Commandments and his Commandments are not or should not be grievous to us Quest How shall I know that I love mine Quest enemies Answ 1. When you can pitty them in Answ their misery spiritual or bodily and pray for them and truly desire their good Ps 35. 13 14. But as for me when they were sick my cloathing was sackcloath I humbled my self with Fasting and my Prayer returned into mine own bosome I behaved my self as though he had been my friend I bowed down heav●ly as one that mourneth for his Mother This is a sutable frame of spirit for Christians towards enemies Mat. 5. 44. 2. When you are as ready to do them good as to desire their good when occasion and opportunity is offered Gal. 6. 10. As you have therefore opportunity do go●d to all men but on the contrary Nature without Grace waiteth opportunity to revenge but Grace teacheth otherwise Grace bears no hatred nor malice but gladly forgives so far as God forgives yea it begs forgiveness of God for them Luke 23. 34. And is ready to do any service of love for soul or body as occasion opportunity and capacity affords This Divine Virtue of Love being so Vse I. Of Information in three things choice a Vertue and so useful I shall for further profit endeavor to make some application of this truth and that 1. Of information and that in three things 1. To inform us in the truth of the excellency 1. Of the Excellency of Love of this Grace of Love to God to Man to Saints to Sinners it 's an excellent Virtue and much to be prized and pressed after by all Saints it 's the choicest Gift the choicest Virtue its choiceness and excellency appears 1. In that as hath been before mentioned 1. It 's prefer'd above all it 's prefer'd in Scripture above all and before all other Virtues before Faith Tongues Prophecy Knowledg understanding all Mysteries 1 Cor. 13. 1 2. 8. 1 2 3. In all which its Divine Excellency is wonderfully discovered it 's that which puts worth and value in all other Virtues and Duties for all without it is nothing 2. It 's that which doth the greatest 2. It d●●h the gre●●est work work and beareth the greatest burthens 1 Cor. 13. 4 5 6. It beareth all things c. It suffereth endureth beareth never faileth