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friend_n	adversity_n	bear_v	brother_n	812	5	7.0506	4	false

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ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A77608	Heaven on earth or a serious discourse touching a wel-grounded assurance of mens everlasting happiness and blessedness. Discovering the nature of assurance, the possibility of attaining it, the causes, springs, and degrees of it, with the resolution of several weighty questions. By Thomas Brooks, preacher of the Gospel at Margarets Fishstreet-Hill.	Brooks, Thomas, 1608-1680.	1654 (1654)	Wing B4943; Thomason E1446_1; ESTC R209539	332,772	663

all be loved with a sincere and cordial love The Apostle James doth roundly condemn that partial love that was among Professors in his days Jam. 2. 1 2. Not that the Apostle doth absolutely prohibit a civil differencing of men in place from others but when the rich Non gens sed mens non genus sed genius Not race or place but grace truly sets forth a man mans wealth is more regarded then the poor mans godliness and when men carry it so to the rich as to cast scorn contempt disgrace and discouragement upon the godly poor This is a sin for which God will visit the sons of Pride Pompey told his Cornelia it is no praise to thee to have loved Pompeium Magnum Pompey the Great but if thou lovest Pompeium Miserum Pompey the Miserable thou shalt be a pattern for imitation to all posterity I will leave you to apply it Romanus the Martyr who was born of Noble Parentage intreated his Persecutors that they would not favor him for his Nobility For it is not said he the blood of my Ancestors but my Christian Faith that makes me noble Verily he that loves one Saint for Yet there is a love of familiarity which we may lawfully shew more to one godly man then to another Thus Christ loved John more then the other Disciples the Grace that is in him for that Holiness that Image of God that is upon him he cannot but fall in love with every Saint that bears the lovely Image of the Father upon him he cannot but love a Saint in rags as well as a Saint in robes a Saint upon the dunghill as well as a Saint upon the throne Usually the most ragged Christians are the richest Christians they usually have most of Heaven that have least of Earth Jam. 2. 5. The true Diamond shines best in the dark Thirdly Our Love to the Saints is Yet this must be granted That grace in a rugged unhewn nature is like a Gold Ring on a leprous hand or a Diamond set in Iron As a Gold Ring is most pleasing and taking when it is on a neat clean hand and as a Diamond when it is set in a Ring of Gold so grace is most pleasing and taking to us in a sweet nature and not so much when it is in a rugged unhewn nature the beauty and glory of it being clouded and darkned by a rugged nature right when we love them and delight in them answerable to the Spiritualcauses of love that shine in them as the more holy and gracious they are the more we love them Psal 16. 2 3. My goodness extendeth not to thee but to the Saints that are in the earth and to the excellent in whom is all my delight This is most certain If godliness be the reason why we love any then the more any excel others in the Love Spirit Power and practise of Godliness the more we should love them There are those that seem to love such godly men as are weak in their judgments low in their principles and dull in their practises and yet look with a squint-eye upon those that are more sound in their judgments more high in their principles and more holy in their practises which doubtless speaks out more hypocrisie then sincerity Verily he hath either no grace or but a little grace that doth not love most where the Spiritual causes of love do most shine and appear Surely those Christians are under a very great distemper of spirit that envy those gifts and graces of God in others that out-shine their own Johns Disciples muttered and murmured because Christ had more followers and admirers then John And Johns Disciples are not all dead yea they seem to have a new Resurrection in these days Well as the fairest day hath its Clouds the finest Linnen its spots the richest Jewels their flaws the sweetest Fruits their Worms So when precious Christians are under temptations they may and too often do envy and repine at those excellent Graces Abilities and Excellencies that cloud darken and out-shine their own The best of men are too full of pride and self-love that makes them sometimes cast dirt and disgrace upon that excellency that themselves want Eus●bius speaks of him in his Ecclesiastical History As that great man that could not write his own name and yet called the Liberal Arts a Publick Poyson and Pestilence There is no greater Argument that our grace is true and that we do love others for grace sake then our loving them best that have most grace though they have least of worldly goods A Pearl is rich if found on a dunghil though it may glister more when set in a Ring of Gold so many a poor Believer is rich and glorious in the eye of Christ and should be so in ours though like Job he sits upon a dunghil though to the world he may seem to glister most when adorned with riches honor and outward pomp c. Fourthly True Love to Saints is constant 1 Cor. 13. 8. Love never faileth it continues for ever in Heaven that love was never true that is not constant Heb. 13. 1. Let brotherly love continue True love is constant in prosperity Consalvus a Spanish Bishop and I●quisitor wondered how the Christians had th●t Commandment Thou shalt love thy Neighbor as thy self so indelibly Printed in their hearts that no torture could blot it out and make them confess and betray one another or cease from loving one another and adversity in storms and calms in health and sickness in presence and in absence Thy own friend and thy Fathers friend forsake not A friend sayes the Wiseman loves at all times and a brother is born for adversity Prosperity makes friends and Adversity will try friends A true friend is neither known in prosperity nor hid in adversity True love is like to that of Ruths to Naomi and that of Jonathans to David permanent and constant Many there be whose love to the Saint is like Jobs Brooks Job 6. 15 16. which in Winter when we have no need over-flows with tenders of service and shews of love but when the season is hot and dry and the poor thirsty Travellor stands in most need of water to refresh him then the Brooks are quite dried up They are like the Swallow that will stay by you in the Summer but flie from you in the Winter It is observed by Josephus of the Samaritans that when ever the Jews affairs prospered they would be their friends and profess much love to them Augustus Caesar was a constant friends to those whom he loved he used to say Amare nec cito desisto nec te●ere incipio Late ere I love as long ere I leave but if the Jews were in trouble and wanted their assistance then they would not own them nor have any thing to do with them This age is full of such Samaritans yet such as truly love will always love In the Primitive