Selected quad for the lemma: friend_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
friend_n	aaron_n	child_n	father_n	16	3	4.2879	3	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A44931	A practical discourse of silence and submission shewing that good men should possess their souls in patience under the severest providences : and particularly in the loss of dear relations : preached at St. Thomas's Hospital, Southwark / by William Hughes ...	Hughes, William, b. 1624 or 5.	1694 (1694)	Wing H3345; ESTC R2599	45,851	98

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a_o strong_a tower_n the_o righteous_a run_v into_o it_o and_o be_v safe_a say_v solomon_n prov._n 18.10_o this_o also_o make_v the_o holy_a apostle_n say_v he_o can_v do_v all_o thing_n through_o christ_n that_o strengthen_v he_o phil._n 4.13_o and_o the_o context_n show_v that_o this_o do_v chief_o respect_v suffer_v wherein_o christ_n presence_n with_o the_o soul_n convert_v complaint_n into_o thanksgiving_n and_o repine_n to_o rejoice_n the_o church_n of_o old_a make_v a_o clear_a proof_n of_o this_o although_o the_o figtree_n shall_v not_o blossom_n neither_o shall_v fruit_n be_v in_o the_o vine_n the_o labour_n of_o the_o olive_n shall_v fail_v and_o the_o field_n shall_v yield_v no_o meat_n the_o flock_n shall_v be_v cut_v off_o from_o the_o fold_n and_o there_o shall_v be_v no_o herd_n in_o the_o stall_n yet_o i_o will_v rejoice_v in_o the_o lord_n i_o will_v joy_v in_o the_o god_n of_o my_o salvation_n habak_v 13_o 18._o and_o how_o be_v murmur_a and_o impatience_n send_v 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