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they_o now_o familiarity_n andr._n breed_v contempt_n answ_n this_o be_v the_o abuse_n of_o familiarity_n love_n shall_v breed_v love_n and_o love_n must_v be_v order_v according_a to_o the_o condition_n of_o the_o party_n love_v and_o love_v as_o child_n with_o one_o eye_n behold_v the_o affection_n of_o the_o mother_n so_o with_o another_o they_o shall_v behold_v god_n image_n in_o the_o mother_n and_o then_o that_o which_o be_v 3._o note_v as_o the_o ground_n of_o all_o child_n duty_n a_o loving-feare_n will_v be_v wrought_v in_o their_o heart_n which_o will_v cast_v out_o all_o contempt_n 3._o the_o mother_n have_v not_o that_o power_n to_o reward_n or_o revenge_n that_o a_o father_n have_v answ_n 1._o this_o be_v not_o to_o obey_v in_o the_o lord_n no_o outward_a respect_n shall_v move_v the_o child_n to_o obey_v his_o parent_n so_o much_o as_o conscience_n to_o god-ward_n if_o child_n due_o consider_v god_n how_o he_o have_v make_v no_o difference_n but_o command_v they_o to_o obey_v both_o alike_o and_o how_o he_o be_v able_a abundant_o to_o reward_v and_o severe_o to_o revenge_v that_o reason_n will_v be_v no_o reason_n 4._o the_o mother_n be_v subject_a to_o the_o father_n answ_n this_o be_v remove_v 54._o before_o as_o a_o general_a answer_n to_o these_o and_o all_o other_o such_o pretence_n as_o can_v be_v allege_v let_v it_o be_v note_v that_o the_o lord_n do_v not_o only_o in_o express_a term_n charge_v child_n to_o fear_v their_o mother_n but_o also_o the_o more_o to_o press_v this_o point_n sometime_o set_v the_o mother_n in_o the_o first_o place_n thus_o you_o shall_v fear_v every_o man_n his_o mother_n 3._o and_o his_o father_n which_o be_v not_o so_o to_o be_v take_v as_o if_o the_o mother_n of_o the_o two_o be_v the_o more_o excellent_a in_o this_o respect_n the_o father_n for_o the_o most_o part_n be_v first_o name_v but_o because_o it_o be_v the_o true_a trial_n of_o a_o child_n subjection_n to_o be_v subject_a to_o his_o mother_n he_o that_o 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