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A42680 XXXI sermons preached to the parishioners of Stanford-Rivers in Essex upon serveral subjects and occasions / by Charles Gibbes. Gibbes, Charles, 1604-1681. 1677 (1677) Wing G644; ESTC R25459 268,902 472

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merry heart for God accepteth his works Eccles. 9.7 He rejoyceth in them because he hath them with God's allowance with his favour they are sanctified to him by the word of God and prayer and thereby they are good to him 1 Tim. 4.4 5. otherwise they would be unclean to him Tit. 1.15 All things are good to the Godly with the light of God's Countenance if they can have them with his acceptance and use them for his Glory God is the principal thing in which a renewed Nature delights all other things are pleasant as they come from him and tend to him as they signify to us his good will towards us and as they are occasions of shewing our love to him Trahit sua quemque voluptas As carnall hearts have carnall delights so a spirituall person delights in the things of the Spirit of God Rom. 8.5 A Sow will feed on filth a Sheep on tender sweet grass So profane and ungodly men can be merry in a Tavern in Swearing Cursing Singing obscene Songs and Invectives against Piety praising of God hearing his Word but a Holy heart is weary of such Company it is a Hell to him to associate with such Woe is me saith David Psal 120.5 that I sojourn in Mesech that I dwell in the tents of Kedar but saith he Psal 122.1 2. I was glad when they said unto me Let us goe into the House of the Lord. Our feet shall stand within thy Gates O Jerusalem for there God is praised there is an Assembly of them that love God and delight in his Worship Truly saith S. John 1 John 1.3 our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son Jesus Christ As it is the greatest Grievance for an Epicure a swinish brutish voluptuous luxurious man to be restrained from his Cups wanton and sensuall Company and Delights so it is the greatest Grievance to good men to be withheld from the Communion and Society of Saints from the enjoyment of holy Ordinances and imployment in holy Exercises whereby they may honour and injoy Communion with God because they delight in God and count all other delight as insipid without relish while they want that Intercourse with God which makes all things savoury and pleasant to them 2. The End of a Godly man's life is to honour God and to promote the Service and Kingdome of Jesus Christ None of us saith the Apostle Rom. 14.7 8. liveth to himself and no man dieth to himself For whether we live we live unto the Lord and whether we die we die unto the Lord whether we live therefore or die we are the Lord 's Without God a Godly man's Life is not Vita vitalis a lively Life but rather a Dream then a Life He doth sensim mori he doth but linger and die a lingering death This saith the Apostle Phil. 1.20 21. is my earnest expectation and hope that in nothing I shall be ashamed but that with all boldness as always so now also Christ shall be magnified in my body whether it be by life or death For to me to live is Christ and to die is gain That is the whole gain of his life or death was Christ and therefore so he might glorify him and enjoy him he was indifferent whether he did live or die He was affected so to Christ and his love to him that in his farewell speech to the Ephesian Elders Act. 20.22 23 24. he saith And now behold I goe bound in the Spirit unto Jerusalem not knowing the things that shall befall me there Save that the Holy Ghost witnesseth in every city saying that bonds and afflictions abide me But none of these things move me neither count I my life dear unto my self so that I might finish my course with joy and the Ministry which I have received of the Lord Jesus to testify the Gospell of the grace of God It is the property of Love not to seek its own things 1 Cor. 13.5 but the pleasing and serving him whom he loves and accordingly to that he loves he regards nothing so much as the gratifying of his beloved is willing to part with any thing which may be inconsistent therewith imploys his faculties to the utmost acts ad extremum virium to the uttermost on his behalf Love is Affect us Vnionis an Affection of Union the Soul of a Lover is ubi amat non ubi animat not where he breaths but where he loves which makes him long after his beloved as David did Psal 42.1 2. As the Hart panteth after the water-brooks so panteth my Soul after thee O God My Soul thirsteth for God for the living God when shall I come and appear before God And for the same reason he is not content in Exile or Sickness when he cannot have opportunity to glorify God As on the other side it is well with him when he can injoy God and doe his work though it be with shipwreck of all his other Commodities he willingly parts with all and freely relinquisheth them for this end as knowing that of our Saviour to be a necessary Lesson to be learned by him He that loveth Father or Mother more then me is not worthy of me and he that loveth Son or Daughter more then me is not worthy of me Matth. 10.37 and again Luk. 14.26 If any man come unto me and hate not his Father and Mother and Wife and Children and Brothers and Sisters yea and his own Life also he cannot be my Disciple Excellent and worthy was the resolution of S. Paul Act. 21.13 When he was besought not to goe up to Jerusalem because of Agabus his Prophecy of his being bound at Jerusalem and delivered into the hands of the Gentiles he thus repells the motion of his most loving Friends What mean ye to weep and break my heart for I am ready not to be bound onely but also to die at Jerusalem for the Name of the Lord Jesus But far more excellent was the Objurgation of Christ to S. Peter to whom when he dissuaded him from going up to Jerusalem to suffer death there with indignation he turns himself with this Thunder-clap Get thee behind me Satan thou art an offence unto me for thou savourest not the things that be of God but those that be of men Matth. 16.23 And indeed though in a far inferiour degree such is the mind of all that truly love God and the Lord Jesus Christ They are magnanimously resolved to encounter with all Difficulties for Their honour as Luther who would goe to Wormes to witness his Doctrine before the Emperour though he should meet with as many Devils there as there were Tiles on the houses of that City and are well contented when they part with the greatest outward Advantages for it As those Martyrs that went to the Stake joyfully and that Marquess that left the Emperour's Court and Preferment there his Wife and Children to injoy the Gospell in a Protestant City And they think their Life not to be
quieting of his Spirit by remembrance of God's Covenant of Grace in Christ the Love of Christ in giving himself for him in the assurance of his Perseverance to the end and the knowledge of his Integrity Yea Holy persons do often go mourning all their days charging themselves with Hypocrisie with Blasphemy against the Holy Ghost with Apostasie condemning themselves as Reprobates uncapable of Pardon destitute of all Grace and so no better then Fire-brands of Hell and this even while they pray for Pardon repent of Sin are of so tender Consciences that they fear to sin against God and would rather die a thousand Deaths then once speak the least evil of Christ or God If none of these Clouds do darken the Joys of Holy men here yet there are other things which do and will certainly while they are on Earth much diminish them The Sins which they see committed by others are no small Vexation to Holy men Just Lot was vexed with the filthy Conversation of the Wicked for dwelling among the Sodomites in hearing and seeing he tormented his righteous Soul from day to day with their unlawfull deeds 2 Pet. 2.7 8. The Sufferings of the Saints are no small Affliction to their Fellow-members If one Member suffer all the Members suffer with it as if one Member be honoured all the Members rejoyce with it 1 Cor. 12.26 Much more are their Sins The incestuous Corinthian's sinfull taking his Father's Wife was matter of Mourning to the whole Church So the Schisms in that Church the Disorders in their Assemblies their Yielding to communicate with Idolaters in their Idolatries their going to Law one with another before Infidels and not composing their Differences between themselves were matter of Affliction to S. Paul I fear saith he 2 Cor. 12.20 21. lest when I come I shall not find you such as I would lest my God will humble me among you and that I shall bewail many which have sinned already and have not repented of the Vncleanness and Fornication and Lasciviousness which they have committed The Ignorance Unteachableness Unfruitfulness of his Hearers much more their falling away into Errours and scandalous Practices is no small Grief to a Godly Pastour which makes him walk heavily and complain to God serving him with many Tears and Temptations Yea the deferring of a Christian's Hope makes his Heart sick he is weary with waiting so that he cries Come Lord Jesus come quickly Our selves which have the First-fruits of the Spirit even we our selves groan within our selves waiting for the Adoption to wit the Redemption of our bodies Rom. 8.23 In this we groan earnestly desiring to be cloathed upon with our house which is from Heaven For we that are in this Tabernacle do groan being burthened not for that we would be uncloathed but cloathed upon that Mortality might be swallowed up of Life Being confident and willing rather to be absent from the Body and to be present with the Lord 2 Cor. 5.2 4 8. But they that are in the Presence of God have all Good They have the most high Descent as being born of God the most perfect Beauty in Soul having the Image of God perfectly restored and at the Resurrection their Bodies fashioned like unto the glorious Body of Christ They become fully Rich being made Heirs of God Joynt-heirs with Christ Rom. 8.17 When they have overcome they shall inherit all things God will be their God and they shall be his Sons Rev. 21.7 They have advancement to Honour and Greatness To him that overcometh saith our Saviour Rev. 3.21 will I grant to sit with me in my Throne even as I also overcame and am set down with my Father in his Throne I will not say that the Blessed Saints and Angels that stand in God's Presence are omniscient They know not the Secrets of Mens hearts much less the secret Counsels of God whose Ways are unsearchable and whose Paths past finding out That Conceit of some of the Papists about the Speculum Trinitatis the Glass of the Trinity as if by seeing God they could see all things in him according to that saying of Gregory Videt omnia qui videt Videntem omnia is most false though some of them make use of it to excuse their abominable Invocation of Saints deceased whom they absurdly and foolishly pray to for all sorts of Good things though they know neither them nor their Necessities much less their Hearts But I may safely say with the Apostle 1 Cor. 13.9 10 12. Now we know in part and we prophesie in part But when that which is perfect is come then that which is in part shall be done away Now we see through a Glass darkly or in a Riddle but then face to face now I know in part then shall I know even as also I am known The Beatifical Vision of God will perfect our Holiness and Wisedom so far as to free us from all Errour and Folly which now do miserably mislead us from all Ignorance which now doth sadly perplex us it will enlighten us with that Knowledge which will be sufficient to glorifie our God and satisfie our selves As the Light of Heaven exceeds the Light of the Sun so the Light of the Soul in those that are with God exceeds all the Light that was in Adam by Creation in Moses S. John S. Paul or any other of the most inlightned Saints on Earth by Revelation In a word there is no kind of Good which is meet for a created Being and an adopted Child of God to have but it is conferred on those Holy persons that are in the Presence of God which makes their Joys unspeakable and full of Glory But they are still more sweetned from the consideration of the Fountain whence they flow which is next to be considered III. What is the Cause and Motive from whence these Good things these Joys do proceed And that is the Love and Purpose of God which is immutable Ointment and Perfumes rejoyce the Heart so doth the sweetness of a man's Friend by hearty Counsell saith Solomon Prov. 27.9 The Love and hearty Welcome that a man meets with makes the Feast the more pleasant Eat not thou the Bread of him that hath an evil Eye neither desire thou his dainty Meats For as he thinketh in his heart so is he Eat and drink saith he to thee but his heart is not with thee The Morsell which thou hast eaten thou shalt vomit up and lose thy sweet words Prov. 23.6 7 8. Oftentimes men are invited to a great Feast but it is not out of Love but for some sordid Ends to engage them in something which they will find cause after to repent of it is not with True-heartedness which makes many sad at Feasts as fearing an After-reckoning Joseph's Brethren when they sate at meat with him marvelled one at another Gen. 43.33 not well knowing whereto that Invitation tended When men believe they are welcome indeed and that they are feasted in