Selected quad for the lemma: father_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
father_n	brother_n	husband_n	mother_n	15,395	5	9.7790	5	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A68107	Of domesticall duties eight treatises. I. An exposition of that part of Scripture out of which domesticall duties are raised. ... VIII. Duties of masters. By William Gouge.	Gouge, William, 1578-1653.	1622 (1622)	STC 12119; ESTC S103290	610,068	716

of_o diverse_a kind_n of_o consent_n ii_o a_o consent_n may_v be_v general_a or_o particular_a a_o general_a consent_n consent_n be_v give_v when_o without_o distinct_a respect_n to_o this_o or_o that_o particular_a liberty_n be_v grant_v to_o a_o wife_n by_o her_o husband_n to_o do_v all_o thing_n as_o seem_v good_a in_o her_o own_o eye_n etc._n that_o excellent_a good_a wife_n and_o notable_a good_a housewife_n that_o be_v set_v forth_o by_o the_o wiseman_n have_v such_o a_o consent_n for_o first_o it_o be_v say_v 11._o the_o heart_n of_o her_o husband_n trust_v in_o she_o and_o than_o it_o be_v infer_v that_o she_o order_v all_o the_o thing_n of_o the_o house_n whereof_o many_o particular_n be_v there_o specify_v whence_o i_o gather_v that_o her_o husband_n observe_v she_o to_o be_v a_o godly_a wise_a faithful_a and_o industrious_a woman_n give_v her_o power_n and_o liberty_n to_o do_v in_o the_o household_n affair_n what_o she_o think_v good_a he_o be_v a_o public_a magistrate_n for_o 23._o he_o be_v know_v in_o the_o gate_n sit_v among_o the_o elder_n of_o the_o land_n and_o according_o she_o use_v her_o liberty_n a_o particular_a consent_n be_v that_o which_o be_v give_v to_o one_o or_o more_o particular_a consent_n thing_n as_o that_o consent_n 6._o which_o abraham_n give_v to_o sarah_n about_o hagar_n and_o 23._o that_o which_o elkanah_n give_v to_o hanna_n about_o tarry_v at_o home_n till_o her_o child_n be_v wean_v this_o particular_a consent_n may_v be_v express_v or_o imply_v a_o express_a consent_n be_v when_o the_o husband_n manifest_v his_o good_a like_n by_o word_n writing_n message_n or_o sign_n and_o that_o whether_o his_o consent_n be_v ask_v as_o be_v note_v in_o the_o example_n of_o elkanah_n or_o free_o offer_v a_o implicit_a consent_n when_o by_o any_o probable_a conjecture_n it_o may_v be_v gather_v that_o the_o husband_n will_v be_v not_o against_o such_o a_o thing_n consent_n though_o he_o have_v not_o manifest_v his_o mind_n concern_v that_o very_a particular_a this_o implicit_a consent_n may_v be_v gather_v either_o by_o his_o silence_n when_o he_o be_v present_a to_o see_v a_o thing_n do_v or_o otherwise_o have_v knowledge_n thereof_o or_o else_o when_o he_o be_v absent_a by_o his_o former_a carriage_n or_o disposition_n in_o other_o like_a case_n the_o scripture_n account_v a_o husband_n silence_n when_o he_o know_v a_o thing_n and_o may_v but_o do_v not_o forbid_v it_o to_o be_v a_o consent_n as_o 8._o in_o the_o case_n of_o a_o wife_n vow_n for_o any_o thing_n we_o read_v to_o the_o contrary_a 23._o the_o shunemite_n have_v no_o other_o consent_n to_o prepare_v a_o chamber_n for_o the_o prophet_n and_o to_o go_v unto_o he_o than_o her_o husband_n silence_n and_o not_o forbid_v it_o when_o he_o know_v it_o as_o for_o the_o other_o kind_n of_o implicit_a consent_n it_o may_v be_v set_v forth_o in_o this_o follow_a instance_n suppose_v a_o good_a wife_n have_v a_o husband_n who_o she_o know_v by_o his_o former_a 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her_o husband_n mind_n she_o ought_v when_o convenient_o she_o can_v to_o make_v know_v to_o her_o husband_n what_o she_o have_v do_v as_o without_o all_o question_n annah_n do_v and_o so_o much_o may_v be_v gather_v out_o of_o these_o word_n which_o elkanah_n utter_v to_o annah_n 23._o the_o lord_n establish_v his_o word_n §._o 20._o of_o the_o thing_n whereabout_o a_o wife_n must_v have_v her_o husband_n consent_n the_o thing_n whereabout_o a_o husband_n consent_n be_v to_o be_v expect_v be_v such_o as_o he_o by_o virtue_n of_o his_o place_n and_o authority_n have_v power_n to_o order_n as_o for_o example_n order_v and_o dispose_v the_o good_n cattle_n servant_n and_o child_n of_o the_o family_n entertain_v stranger_n yea_o also_o order_v even_o his_o wife_n go_v abroad_o and_o make_v of_o vow_n with_o the_o like_a now_o then_o distinct_o to_o lay_v down_o a_o wife_n duty_n in_o this_o first_o branch_n of_o obedience_n it_o be_v this_o a_o wife_n must_v do_v nothing_o which_o appertain_v to_o her_o husband_n authority_n simple_o without_o or_o direct_o against_o his_o consent_n do_v not_o these_o word_n of_o that_o old_a law_n thy_o desire_n shall_v be_v to_o thy_o husband_n 16._o imply_v as_o much_o i_o deny_v not_o but_o that_o there_o may_v be_v sundry_a thing_n proper_a and_o peculiar_a to_o a_o wife_n wherein_o i_o will_v not_o restrain_v her_o liberty_n and_o therefore_o i_o use_v this_o phrase_n which_o appertain_v to_o her_o husband_n authority_n and_o i_o grant_v the_o forename_a general_n and_o implicit_a consent_n to_o be_v a_o true_a consent_n so_o as_o there_o need_v not_o a_o express_v particular_a consent_n for_o every_o thing_n and_o therefore_o i_o have_v add_v these_o clause_n simple_o without_o or_o direct_o against_o consent_n that_o be_v do_v simple_o without_o consent_n which_o be_v do_v without_o all_o warrant_n from_o the_o husband_n and_o that_o so_o covert_o as_o she_o be_v afraid_a it_o shall_v come_v to_o his_o notice_n imagine_v he_o will_v by_o no_o mean_n like_o it_o as_o rahel_n take_v her_o father_n idol_n without_o all_o 32._o consent_n of_o jaakob_n that_o be_v do_v direct_o against_o consent_n which_o be_v express_o forbid_v and_o disclaim_v by_o the_o husband_n but_o to_o descend_v to_o the_o particular_n before_o mention_v first_o concern_v the_o good_n of_o the_o family_n it_o be_v a_o question_n controvert_v whether_o the_o wife_n have_v power_n to_o dispose_v they_o without_o or_o against_o the_o husband_n consent_n before_o i_o determine_v the_o question_n i_o think_v it_o needful_a to_o declare_v 1._o what_o good_n 2._o what_o occasion_n of_o give_v the_o question_n be_v about_o §._o 21._o of_o the_o thing_n which_o a_o wife_n may_v dispose_v without_o her_o husband_n consent_n 1._o for_o the_o good_n some_o be_v proper_a and_o peculiar_a to_o the_o wife_n 16._o other_o be_v common_a good_n proper_a to_o the_o wife_n be_v such_o as_o before_o marriage_n she_o herself_o or_o her_o friend_n except_o from_o the_o husband_n to_o her_o sole_a and_o proper_a use_n and_o dispose_n whereunto_o he_o also_o yield_v or_o such_o as_o after_o marriage_n he_o give_v unto_o she_o to_o dispose_v as_o she_o please_v suppose_v it_o be_v some_o rent_n annuity_n fee_n ●ailes_n or_o the_o like_a these_o kind_n of_o good_n be_v exempt_v out_o of_o the_o question_n donata_fw-la in_o hand_n the_o wife_n have_v liberty_n to_o dispose_v they_o as_o she_o please_v without_o any_o further_a consent_n than_o she_o have_v by_o virtue_n of_o her_o hausband_n former_a grant_n to_o these_o i_o may_v refer_v other_o good_n but_o of_o another_o nature_n namely_o such_o as_o some_o friend_n of_o she_o suppose_v father_n mother_n brother_n or_o any_o other_o observe_v her_o husband_n to_o be_v a_o very_a ●ard_a man_n not_o allow_v sufficient_a for_o herself_o much_o less_o to_o distribute_v on_o charitable_a use_n shall_v give_v unto_o she_o to_o dispose_v as_o ●e_v please_v charge_v she_o not_o to_o let_v her_o husband_n know_v thereof_o how_o because_o it_o be_v in_o the_o power_n of_o a_o free_a donor_n to_o order_v his_o ●ift_n as_o he_o please_v and_o because_o he_o so_o order_v this_o gift_n as_o he_o will_v not_o have_v her_o husband_n know_v of_o it_o i_o doubt_v not_o but_o she_o may_v of_o herself_o according_a to_o the_o doner_n mind_n without_o her_o husband_n consent_n dispose_v such_o good_n she_o be_v herein_o but_o as_o a_o ●offee_n in_o trust_n again_o of_o common_a good_n some_o be_v set_v forth_o by_o the_o husband_n to_o be_v spend_v about_o the_o family_n other_o he_o reserve_v for_o a_o ●ocke_n or_o to_o lay_v forth_o as_o he_o himself_o shall_v see_v occasion_n concern_v those_o which_o be_v set_v forth_o to_o be_v spend_v i_o doubt_v ●ot_n but_o the_o wife_n have_v power_n

of_o parent_n make_v a_o will_v before_o they_o die_v 570_o 63_o of_o neglect_v to_o make_v a_o will_n 571_o 64_o of_o parent_n leave_v their_o estate_n to_o their_o child_n when_o they_o die_v 572_o 65_o of_o the_o inconvenience_n which_o improvident_a parent_n bring_v their_o child_n unto_o after_o their_o death_n 573_o 66_o of_o parent_n impartial_a respect_n to_o all_o their_o child_n 575_o 67_o of_o parent_n prefer_v a_o dutiful_a child_n before_o a_o disobedient_a child_n 576_o 68_o of_o the_o prerogative_n of_o the_o first_o bear_v son_n 576_o 69_o of_o parent_n partiality_n towards_o some_o child_n 578_o 70_o of_o the_o cause_n for_o which_o the_o first_o bear_v may_v be_v disinherit_v 579_o 71_o of_o the_o duty_n of_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n 580_o 72_o of_o the_o perverse_a carriage_n of_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n to_o their_o child_n 581_o 73_o of_o the_o fault_n of_o parent_n to_o their_o child_n husband_n and_o wife_n 582_o 74_o of_o their_o duty_n who_o be_v in_o stead_n of_o parent_n to_o orphan_n 583_o 75_o of_o the_o common_a neglect_n of_o orphan_n 584_o 76_o of_o the_o duty_n of_o guardian_n 584_o 77_o of_o the_o fraud_n of_o guardian_n 585_o 78_o of_o the_o duty_n of_o schoolmaster_n and_o tutor_n 586_o 79_o of_o the_o negligence_n of_o schoolmaster_n and_o tutor_n 587_o vii_o treatise_n of_o servant_n duty_n §_o 1._o a_o resolution_n of_o the_o apostle_n direction_n to_o servant_n 589_o 2_o of_o the_o lawfulness_n of_o a_o master_n place_n and_o power_n 591_o 3_o of_o the_o anabaptist_n argument_n against_o the_o authority_n of_o master_n and_o subjection_n of_o servant_n 592_o 4_o of_o a_o servant_n fear_v of_o his_o master_n 594_o 5_o of_o the_o extreme_n contrary_a to_o servant_n fear_v of_o their_o master_n 595_o 6_o of_o servant_n reverence_n in_o speech_n 596_o 7_o of_o the_o vice_n contrary_a to_o a_o servant_n reverence_n in_o speech_n 599_o 8_o of_o servant_n reverend_a behaviour_n to_o their_o master_n 601_o 9_o of_o the_o fault_n of_o servant_n contrary_a to_o reverence_v in_o carriage_n 602_o 10_o of_o servant_n obedience_n 603_o 11_o of_o servant_n forbear_v to_o do_v thing_n without_o their_o master_n consent_n 604_o 12_o of_o the_o unlawful_a liberty_n which_o servant_n take_v to_o themselves_o 606_o 13_o of_o servant_n obedience_n to_o their_o master_n commandment_n 608_o 14_o of_o servant_n harken_v to_o their_o master_n instruction_n in_o matter_n of_o their_o call_n 608_o 15_o of_o servant_n harken_v to_o their_o master_n instruction_n in_o piety_n 609_o 16_o of_o servant_n fault_n contrary_a to_o obedience_n in_o matter_n of_o religion_n 610_o 17_o of_o servant_n obedience_n to_o reproof_n and_o correction_n 611_o 18_o of_o the_o extreme_n contrary_a to_o servant_n patient_a hear_n of_o reproof_n and_o correction_n 613_o 19_o of_o servant_n amend_v that_o for_o which_o they_o be_v just_o reprove_v or_o correct_v 614_o 20_o of_o serve_v with_o tremble_v 615_o 21_o of_o serve_v with_o sincerity_n 616_o 22_o of_o serve_v for_o conscience_n sake_n 617_o 23_o of_o servant_n willingness_n to_o perform_v their_o duty_n 618_o 24_o of_o servant_n quickness_n and_o diligence_n in_o their_o service_n 619_o 25_o of_o servant_n faithfulness_n 622_o 26_o of_o servant_n faithfulness_n about_o their_o master_n good_n 623_o 27_o of_o servant_n carelessness_n over_o their_o master_n good_n 624_o 28_o of_o servant_n fraud_n 625_o 29_o of_o servant_n faithfulness_n in_o the_o business_n which_o they_o be_v to_o dispatch_v for_o their_o master_n 626_o 30_o of_o servant_n faithfulness_n in_o keep_v their_o master_n secret_n and_o conceal_v their_o infirmity_n 628_o 31_o of_o servant_n faithfulness_n in_o help_v one_o another_o 629_o 32_o of_o servant_n faithfulness_n about_o their_o master_n child_n 630_o 33_o of_o servant_n faithfulness_n in_o regard_n of_o their_o master_n or_o mistress_n bedfellow_n 632_o 34_o of_o servant_n faithfulness_n about_o their_o master_n person_n 633_o 35_o of_o the_o mean_n to_o make_v servant_n faithful_a 634_o 36_o of_o servant_n endeavour_n to_o make_v their_o judgement_n agree_v with_o their_o master_n 635_o 37_o of_o servant_n yield_v to_o do_v such_o thing_n at_o their_o master_n command_n as_o they_o can_v think_v to_o be_v most_o meet_a 636_o 38_o of_o servant_n forbear_v to_o obey_v their_o master_n against_o god_n 637_o 39_o of_o servant_n choose_v good_a master_n 639_o 40_o of_o the_o first_o motive_n to_o enforce_v servant_n duty_n the_o place_n of_o master_n 641_o 41_o of_o the_o second_o motive_n the_o place_n of_o servant_n 642_o 42_o of_o the_o three_o motive_n god_n will_v 642_o 43_o of_o the_o four_o motive_n reward_v of_o good_a service_n 643_o vii_o treatise_n of_o master_n duty_n §_o 1._o of_o the_o head_n of_o master_n duty_n 646_o 2_o of_o master_n choose_v good_a servant_n 647_o 3_o of_o master_n carelessness_n in_o choose_v servant_n 649_o 4_o of_o master_n maintain_v their_o authority_n 650_o 5_o of_o master_n make_v their_o authority_n to_o be_v despise_v 651_o 6_o of_o master_n too_o great_a rigour_n 652_o 7_o of_o master_n command_v power_n restrain_v to_o thing_n lawful_a 653_o 8_o of_o master_n presume_v above_o their_o authority_n 654_o 9_o of_o master_n command_v servant_n to_o do_v their_o duty_n 655_o 10_o of_o the_o sin_n of_o master_n in_o suffer_a servant_n to_o neglect_v their_o duty_n 656_o 11_o of_o a_o master_n wisdom_n in_o order_v thing_n indifferent_a 656_o 12_o of_o master_n offence_n against_o expediency_n 657_o 13_o of_o the_o power_n of_o master_n to_o correct_v their_o servant_n 658_o 14_o of_o the_o restraint_n of_o master_n power_n that_o it_o reach_v not_o to_o their_o servant_n life_n 659_o 15_o of_o master_n excess_n in_o correct_v servant_n 660_o 16_o of_o master_n order_v that_o correction_n which_o they_o give_v to_o their_o servant_n 661_o 17_o of_o master_n power_n over_o their_o servant_n in_o and_o about_o their_o marriage_n 662_o 18_o of_o master_n rigour_n in_o force_v marriage_n upon_o their_o servant_n or_o in_o separate_a man_n and_o wife_n 664_o 19_o of_o master_n power_n to_o dispose_v their_o servant_n person_n 664_o 20_o of_o master_n well_o manage_v their_o authority_n 665_o 21_o of_o master_n endeavour_v the_o salvation_n of_o their_o servant_n 666_o 22_o of_o master_n neglect_v to_o edify_v their_o servant_n 668_o 23_o of_o allow_a servant_n sufficient_a food_n 668_o 24_o of_o defect_n and_o excess_n in_o allow_v servant_n food_n 669_o 25_o of_o master_n care_n about_o their_o servant_n apparel_n 670_o 26_o of_o moderate_a servant_n labour_n 671_o 27_o of_o afford_v servant_n fit_a mean_n for_o their_o work_n 672_o 28_o of_o afford_v seasonable_a rest_n to_o servant_n 672_o 29_o of_o deny_v seasonable_a rest_n to_o servant_n 673_o 30_o of_o master_n offence_n in_o keep_v servant_n from_o the_o rest_n of_o the_o lord_n day_n 674_o 31_o of_o allow_a time_n of_o recreation_n to_o servant_n 675_o 32_o of_o master_n care_n over_o their_o servant_n in_o sickness_n and_o after_o death_n 675_o 33_o of_o neglect_n of_o servant_n in_o sickness_n and_o after_o they_o be_v dead_a 677_o 34_o of_o master_n provide_v for_o the_o future_a estate_n of_o their_o servant_n 678_o 35_o of_o well_o employ_v servant_n 679_o 36_o of_o exercise_v servant_n to_o a_o calling_n 679_o 37_o of_o appoint_v to_o every_o servant_n his_o particular_a function_n 681_o 38_o of_o disorder_n in_o family_n through_o master_n negligence_n 682_o 39_o of_o master_n overseeing_a the_o way_n of_o their_o servant_n 682_o 40_o of_o provoke_a servant_n to_o their_o duty_n both_o by_o fair_a and_o soul_n mean_v 683_o 41_o of_o pay_v servant_n their_o wage_n 684_o 42_o of_o master_n justice_n about_o their_o servant_n wage_n 685_o 43_o of_o suffer_a servant_n to_o provide_v for_o themselves_o 686_o 44_o of_o kindness_n to_o be_v show_v to_o good_a servant_n 686_o 45_o of_o unkind_a deal_n with_o good_a servant_n 688_o 46_o of_o 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husband_n or_o wife_n their_o love_n must_v be_v as_o entire_a to_o that_o other_o as_o it_o be_v to_o the_o former_a yea_o and_o more_o entire_a if_o there_o be_v any_o defect_n in_o the_o former_a for_o as_o child_n marry_v out_o of_o their_o parent_n house_n must_v not_o retain_v such_o a_o love_n of_o their_o parent_n as_o shall_v swallow_v up_o their_o love_n of_o the_o party_n to_o who_o they_o be_v marry_v but_o must_v according_o to_o the_o law_n leave_v father_n and_o mother_n and_o cleave_v to_o their_o yoke-fellow_n so_o neither_o must_v the_o love_n of_o a_o former_a husband_n or_o wife_n be_v predominant_a when_o they_o be_v marry_v to_o another_o this_o other_o must_v be_v as_o close_v cleaved_a

occasion_n of_o discord_n be_v offer_v say_v let_v there_o be_v no_o strife_n betwixt_o thou_o and_o i_o for_o we_o be_v man_n and_o wife_n no_o more_o two_o but_o one_o flesh_n §._o 14._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n dwell_v together_o from_o a_o mutual_a affection_n of_o love_n proceed_v a_o mutual_a provident_a care_n in_o husband_n and_o wife_n one_o for_o another_o in_o handle_v whereof_o we_o will_v first_o note_v the_o mean_n whereby_o their_o mutual_a providence_n may_v be_v the_o better_o effect_v and_o manifest_v and_o then_o the_o matter_n whereabout_o it_o must_v be_v conversant_a the_o mean_n in_o one_o word_n be_v cohabitation_n for_o a_o duty_n it_o be_v that_o man_n and_o wife_n dwell_v together_o the_o phrase_n use_v in_o set_v out_o the_o woman_n creation_n he_o build_v a_o woman_n whereby_o the_o erect_n of_o 79._o a_o family_n be_v intimate_v imply_v as_o much_o so_o do_v the_o law_n of_o marriage_n whereby_o man_n be_v enjoin_v to_o leave_v father_n and_o mother_n and_o to_o cleave_v unto_o his_o wife_n that_o be_v to_o go_v out_o of_o his_o father_n house_n and_o to_o dwell_v with_o his_o wife_n and_o so_o do_v this_o phrase_n forget_v 10._o thy_o father_n house_n take_v from_o the_o duty_n of_o a_o wife_n and_o mystical_o apply_v to_o the_o church_n saint_n peter_n express_o charge_v husband_n 7._o to_o dwell_v with_o their_o wife_n and_o saint_n paul_n lay_v it_o to_o 13._o the_o charge_n both_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n not_o to_o leave_v one_o another_o but_o to_o dwell_v together_o yea_o though_o the_o one_o be_v a_o infidel_n sure_o it_o be_v conscience_n of_o this_o duty_n which_o make_v the_o 3._o levite_n to_o go_v after_o his_o wife_n that_o go_v away_o from_o he_o to_o bring_v she_o home_o again_o and_o which_o make_v 14._o jacob_n wife_n to_o leave_v their_o father_n house_n and_o go_v with_o their_o husband_n uxor_fw-la the_o word_n under_o which_o saint_n peter_n comprise_v this_o duty_n be_v a_o title_n appropriate_v to_o a_o husband_n and_o a_o answerable_a title_n be_v appropriate_v to_o a_o wife_n from_o which_o the_o notation_n of_o our_o two_o usual_a english_a word_n husband_n housewife_n do_v not_o much_o differ_v the_o power_n which_o the_o one_o have_v of_o the_o other_o body_n and_o cohabitation_n the_o advantage_n which_o by_o live_v asunder_o they_o give_v unto_o satan_n both_o of_o which_o be_v express_o note_v 1_o cor._n 7._o 4_o 5._o do_v show_v the_o necessity_n of_o this_o duty_n and_o the_o many_o benefit_n arise_v from_o thence_o do_v further_o press_v the_o equity_n of_o it_o by_o husband_n and_o cohabitation_n wife_n dwell_v together_o all_o marriage_n duty_n be_v better_o perform_v mutual_a love_n be_v better_a breed_v preserve_v and_o increase_v the_o good_a gift_n of_o either_o of_o they_o be_v better_o observe_v by_o the_o other_o better_a help_n and_o succour_n be_v mutual_o by_o each_o afford_v to_o the_o other_o and_o in_o fine_a they_o be_v make_v more_o capable_a of_o do_v 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answ_n there_o can_v nor_o aught_o to_o be_v any_o cause_n of_o utter_a relinquish_a one_o another_o which_o be_v a_o kind_n of_o 3._o desertion_n but_o for_o live_v asunder_o for_o a_o time_n there_o may_v be_v just_a cause_n as_o 1._o weighty_a and_o urgent_a affair_n which_o concern_v the_o good_a of_o the_o church_n or_o commonwealth_n as_o when_o a_o man_n be_v send_v forth_o to_o war_n or_o on_o a_o ambassage_n in_o which_o case_n though_o he_o may_v take_v his_o wife_n with_o he_o yet_o be_v he_o not_o necessary_o bind_v there_o to_o especial_o if_o the_o place_n whither_o he_o be_v send_v be_v far_o off_o the_o passage_n thereto_o difficult_a and_o dangerous_a and_o his_o abode_n there_o not_o long_o when_o 27._o reuben_n gad_n and_o half_o the_o tribe_n of_o manassch_n pass_v over_o jordan_z to_o help_v their_o brethren_n in_o their_o battle_n against_o the_o canaanite_n they_o leave_v their_o wife_n behind_o they_o in_o their_o family_n 6._o when_o vriah_n go_v to_o war_n he_o leave_v his_o wife_n at_o home_n and_o 2._o when_o moses_n be_v to_o bring_v israel_n out_o of_o egypt_n his_o wife_n remain_v at_o her_o father_n house_n 2._o main_a duty_n of_o their_o particular_a call_n as_o of_o mariner_n who_o be_v oft_o to_o be_v on_o the_o sea_n merchant_n who_o trade_n in_o other_o country_n lawyer_n who_o attend_v public_a place_n of_o justice_n courtier_n who_o in_o their_o month_n or_o quarter_n attend_v their_o prince_n keeper_n of_o woman_n in_o childbed_n and_o sick_a person_n and_o other_o nurse_n provide_v always_o that_o in_o these_o and_o other_o like_a case_n there_o be_v 5._o a_o joint_n and_o mutual_a consent_n of_o both_o party_n for_o if_o man_n and_o wife_n may_v not_o defraud_v one_o another_o for_o a_o time_n to_o give_v themselves_o to_o fast_v and_o prayer_n without_o consent_n much_o less_o may_v they_o for_o light_a occasion_n live_v any_o time_n asunder_o without_o 7._o consent_n provide_v also_o that_o they_o take_v no_o delight_n 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a_o house_n the_o duty_n which_o the_o apostle_n apply_v in_o particular_a to_o bishop_n &_o deacon_n in_o general_n appertain_v to_o all_o husband_n 4._o that_o they_o rule_v their_o own_o house_n honest_o and_o again_o 12._o that_o they_o be_v such_o as_o can_v rule_v their_o child_n well_o and_o their_o own_o household_n the_o care_n of_o many_o husband_n be_v in_o this_o respect_n commend_v in_o scripture_n as_o of_o 19_o abram_n of_o etc._n jaakob_n of_o 15._o josuah_n of_o etc._n david_n the_o 53._o ruler_n at_o galilee_n and_o of_o many_o other_o that_o the_o wife_n also_o ought_v to_o be_v a_o help_n to_o he_o therein_o be_v very_o evident_a for_o the_o apostle_n lay_v it_o express_o to_o their_o charge_n 14._o that_o they_o govern_v the_o house_n will_v the_o wise_a man_n have_v so_o high_o commend_v a_o wife_n etc._n for_o well_o govern_v her_o husband_n house_n if_o it_o have_v not_o appertain_v to_o she_o it_o be_v very_o likely_a that_o wise_a abigail_n have_v a_o great_a hand_n in_o govern_v nabal_n house_n because_o the_o servant_n make_v complaint_n to_o she_o of_o nabals_n churlishness_n and_o because_o she_o have_v the_o servant_n at_o command_n ready_o to_o do_v what_o she_o will_v have_v they_o yea_o also_o because_o she_o can_v so_o ready_o prepare_v such_o store_n of_o provision_n for_o david_n and_o his_o man_n as_o she_o do_v hence_o be_v it_o that_o the_o wife_n be_v call_v mater-familias_a mistress_n of_o the_o house_n as_o well_o as_o the_o husband_n pater-familias_a master_n of_o the_o house_n object_n 12._o a_o woman_n be_v not_o to_o teach_v nor_o to_o usurp_v authority_n over_o the_o man_n answ_n 1._o that_o branch_n of_o teach_v have_v respect_n to_o public_a assembly_n and_o church_n in_o which_o she_o may_v not_o

a_o kind_n of_o obeisance_n this_o be_v not_o so_o to_o be_v take_v as_o if_o no_o difference_n be_v to_o be_v make_v betwixt_o the_o carriage_n of_o a_o servant_n or_o child_n and_o a_o wife_n or_o as_o if_o a_o wife_n shall_v bow_v at_o every_o word_n that_o she_o speak_v to_o her_o husband_n though_o in_o the_o kind_n and_o extent_n of_o many_o duty_n the_o same_o thing_n be_v require_v of_o wife_n which_o be_v require_v of_o child_n and_o servant_n because_o god_n have_v make_v they_o all_o inferior_n and_o exact_v subjection_n of_o all_o yet_o in_o the_o manner_n and_o measure_n of_o many_o duty_n there_o be_v great_a difference_n as_o in_o this_o the_o obeisance_n of_o child_n and_o servant_n ought_v to_o be_v more_o submissive_a and_o more_o frequent_a yet_o because_o god_n have_v place_v authority_n in_o the_o husband_n over_o his_o wife_n she_o be_v every_o way_n to_o testify_v her_o reverend_a respect_n of_o her_o husband_n and_o therefore_o at_o some_o time_n on_o some_o occasion_n as_o when_o he_o be_v go_v on_o a_o journey_n for_o a_o time_n from_o she_o or_o when_o he_o return_v home_o again_o or_o when_o she_o have_v a_o solemn_a and_o great_a suit_n to_o make_v unto_o he_o or_o when_o he_o offer_v a_o especial_a and_o extraordinary_a favour_n unto_o she_o or_o as_o i_o have_v observe_v such_o wife_n as_o know_v what_o beseem_v their_o place_n and_o be_v not_o ashamed_a to_o manifest_v as_o much_o when_o she_o sit_v she_o down_o or_o rise_v up_o from_o table_n to_o declare_v her_o reverence_n by_o some_o obeisance_n this_o can_v but_o much_o work_n on_o the_o heart_n of_o a_o good_a and_o kind_a husband_n and_o make_v he_o the_o more_o to_o respect_v his_o wife_n when_o he_o behold_v this_o evidence_n of_o her_o respect_n to_o he_o yea_o it_o can_v but_o be_v a_o good_a pattern_n to_o child_n other_o and_o servant_n and_o a_o motive_n to_o stir_v they_o up_o to_o yield_v all_o submissive_a obeisance_n both_o to_o her_o husband_n and_o to_o herself_o for_o it_o may_v make_v they_o thus_o to_o reason_n with_o themselves_o shall_v herself_o we_o scorn_v or_o think_v much_o to_o yield_v that_o to_o our_o father_n or_o master_n which_o our_o mother_n or_o mistress_n think_v not_o much_o to_o yield_v to_o her_o husband_n shall-she_a bow_v to_o he_o and_o shall_v not_o we_o much_o more_o bow_n to_o she_o thus_o a_o wife_n honour_v of_o her_o husband_n by_o yield_a obeisance_n to_o he_o make_v both_o he_o and_o herself_o to_o be_v more_o honour_a of_o other_o contrary_o mind_v be_v they_o who_o not_o only_o altogether_o omit_v wife_n this_o duty_n but_o also_o gibe_v and_o scoff_n at_o the_o very_a hear_n thereof_o say_v thus_o wife_n shall_v be_v make_v no_o better_a than_o child_n or_o servant_n but_o though_o scornful_a dame_n deride_v these_o outward_a evidence_n of_o their_o subjection_n yet_o such_o wife_n as_o fear_v the_o lord_n ought_v not_o to_o be_v hinder_v thereby_o from_o do_v their_o duty_n for_o by_o such_o evil_a example_n they_o may_v be_v discourage_v from_o every_o good_a duty_n it_o be_v sufficient_a that_o such_o holy_a woman_n as_o trust_v in_o god_n so_o behave_v themselves_o but_o for_o this_o particular_a we_o know_v that_o equal_n scorn_v not_o upon_o occasion_n to_o perform_v this_o kind_n of_o courtesy_n in_o make_v obeisance_n one_o to_o another_o how_o much_o less_o ought_v wife_n who_o be_v their_o husband_n inferior_n §._o 12._o of_o 3_o wifelike_a modesty_n in_o apparel_n modesty_n appertain_v to_o a_o wife_n be_v much_o manifest_v in_o her_o apparel_n s._n paul_n require_v this_o modesty_n in_o general_a of_o all_o sort_n of_o woman_n but_o s._n peter_n press_v it_o in_o particular_a upon_o wife_n for_o as_o it_o well_o beseem_v all_o woman_n so_o wife_n after_o a_o peculiar_a manner_n namely_o in_o attire_v themselves_o to_o respect_v rather_o their_o husband_n place_n and_o state_n than_o their_o own_o birth_n and_o parentage_n but_o much_o rather_o than_o their_o own_o mind_n and_o humour_n a_o wife_n modesty_n therefore_o require_v that_o her_o apparel_n be_v neither_o for_o costlinesse_n above_o her_o husband_n ability_n nor_o for_o curiousness_n un_o beseem_v his_o call_n as_o a_o poor_a man_n wife_n must_v not_o affect_v costly_a apparel_n so_o neither_o minister_n grave_a counselor_n sage_a magistrate_n no_o nor_o conscionable_a professor_n wife_n hunt_v after_o new_a fashion_n or_o in_o light_n and_o garish_a apparel_n attire_v themselves_o it_o be_v a_o token_n of_o great_a reverence_n in_o a_o wife_n towards_o her_o husband_n to_o have_v a_o eye_n to_o his_o place_n and_o state_n in_o her_o apparel_n on_o the_o contrary_a such_o proud_a deign_v as_o must_v have_v their_o own_o will_n in_o their_o attire_n and_o think_v it_o nothing_o appertain_v place_n to_o their_o husband_n to_o order_v they_o therein_o who_o care_v not_o what_o their_o husband_n ability_n or_o what_o his_o place_n and_o calling_n be_v they_o show_v little_a respect_n and_o reverence_n to_o their_o husband_n such_o be_v they_o who_o be_v no_o whit_n move_v with_o their_o husband_n example_n but_o though_o the_o man_n apparel_n be_v plain_a and_o grave_a yet_o the_o wife_n shall_v be_v costly_a and_o garish_a yea_o many_o there_o be_v that_o stand_v in_o some_o more_o awe_n of_o their_o husband_n sight_n but_o show_v little_o more_o respect_n unto_o he_o who_o have_v their_o silken_a gown_n beaver_n hat_n and_o other_o like_a attire_n not_o agreeable_a to_o their_o place_n and_o state_n lie_v in_o the_o country_n if_o they_o be_v of_o the_o city_n or_o in_o the_o city_n if_o they_o be_v of_o the_o country_n in_o a_o friend_n house_n where_o their_o husband_n shall_v matr._n not_o know_v it_o and_o when_o their_o husband_n be_v not_o with_o they_o wear_v they_o and_o paint_v their_o face_n lay_v out_o their_o hair_n and_o in_o every_o thing_n follow_v the_o fashion_n what_o can_v they_o which_o behold_v this_o think_v but_o that_o such_o a_o wife_n care_n be_v more_o to_o please_v other_o light_n vain_a person_n than_o her_o grave_n discreet_a husband_n or_o that_o her_o husband_n can_v nothing_o at_o all_o prevail_v with_o she_o which_o as_o it_o stain_v she_o own_o credit_n so_o it_o leave_v a_o blot_n of_o dishonour_n even_o upon_o he_o if_o the_o care_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v to_o give_v evidence_n of_o the_o reverence_n which_o she_o bear_v to_o her_o husband_n his_o desire_n and_o example_n will_v in_o this_o respect_n more_o prevail_v with_o she_o than_o the_o humour_n of_o she_o own_o heart_n §._o 13._o of_o a_o wife_n 24._o reverend_a speech_n to_o her_o husband_n as_o by_o gesture_n so_o by_o speech_n also_o must_v a_o wife_n reverence_n be_v manifest_v this_o must_v be_v answerable_a to_o that_o for_o by_o word_n as_o well_o as_o by_o deed_n the_o affection_n of_o the_o heart_n be_v manifest_v 34._o out_o of_o the_o abundance_n of_o the_o heart_n the_o mouth_n speak_v a_o wife_n reverence_n be_v manifest_v by_o her_o speech_n both_o in_o her_o husband_n presence_n and_o also_o in_o his_o absence_n for_o this_o end_n in_o his_o presence_n her_o word_n must_v be_v few_o reverend_a and_o meek_a first_o few_o for_o the_o few_o apostle_n enjoin_v 12._o silence_n to_o wife_n in_o their_o husband_n presence_n and_o enforce_v that_o duty_n with_o a_o strong_a reason_n in_o these_o word_n i_o permit_v not_o the_o woman_n to_o usurp_v authority_n over_o the_o man_n but_o to_o be_v in_o silence_n the_o inference_n of_o the_o latter_a clause_n upon_o the_o former_a show_v that_o he_o speak_v not_o only_o of_o a_o woman_n silence_n in_o the_o church_n but_o also_o of_o a_o wife_n silence_n before_o her_o husband_n which_o be_v further_o clear_v by_o another_o like_a place_n where_o the_o same_o apostle_n enjoin_v wife_n to_o 35._o learn_v of_o their_o husband_n at_o home_n the_o reason_n before_o mention_v for_o silence_n on_o the_o one_o side_n imply_v a_o reverend_a subjection_n as_o on_o the_o other_o side_n too_o much_o speech_n imply_v a_o usurpation_n of_o authority_n object_n then_o belike_o a_o wife_n must_v be_v always_o mute_a before_o her_o husband_n answ_n no_o such_o matter_n for_o silence_n in_o that_o place_n be_v not_o oppose_v to_o speech_n as_o if_o she_o shall_v not_o speak_v at_o all_o but_o to_o loquacitie_n to_o talkativenesse_n to_o overmuch_o tattle_v her_o husband_n presence_n must_v some_o what_o restrain_v her_o tongue_n and_o so_o will_v her_o very_a silence_n testify_v a_o reverend_a respect_n otherwise_o silence_n as_o it_o be_v oppose_v to_o speech_n will_v imply_v stoutness_n of_o stomach_n and_o stubbornness_n of_o heart_n which_o be_v a_o extreme_a contrary_n to_o loquacitie_n but_o the_o mean_a betwixt_o both_o be_v for_o a_o wife_n to_o be_v spare_v in_o speech_n to_o expect_v

to_o dispose_v they_o neither_o be_v she_o ●ound_v to_o ask_v any_o further_a consent_n of_o her_o husband_n for_o it_o be_v the_o wife_n place_n and_o duty_n to_o guide_v or_o govern_v the_o house_n 〈◊〉_d by_o virtue_n whereof_o provide_v sufficient_o for_o the_o family_n she_o may_v as_o she_o see_v good_a occasion_n of_o such_o good_n as_o be_v set_v apart_o to_o be_v spend_v distribute_v to_o poor_a or_o otherwise_o this_o i_o have_v note_v for_o such_o tender_a conscience_n as_o think_v they_o can_v give_v a_o bit_n of_o bread_n or_o scarp_n of_o meat_n to_o a_o poor_a body_n or_o make_v a_o mess_n of_o broth_n or_o caudle_n for_o a_o sick_a body_n except_o they_o first_o ask_v their_o husband_n consent_n provide_v that_o if_o her_o husband_n express_o forbid_v this_o liberty_n she_o take_v it_o not_o except_o necessity_n require_v it_o but_o our_o question_n be_v concern_v such_o good_n as_o the_o husband_n have_v not_o set_v apart_o but_o reserve_v to_o his_o own_o dispose_n §._o 22._o of_o a_o wife_n liberty_n in_o extraordinary_a matter_n ii_o for_o the_o occasion_n of_o dispose_v good_n it_o may_v be_v ordinary_a or_o extraordinary_a extraordinary_a for_o the_o good_a of_o the_o husband_n himself_o and_o other_o in_o the_o family_n or_o such_o as_o be_v out_o of_o the_o family_n if_o there_o fall_v out_o a_o extraordinary_a occasion_n whereby_o the_o wife_n by_o dispose_v the_o good_n without_o or_o against_o the_o consent_n of_o her_o husband_n may_v bring_v a_o great_a good_a to_o the_o family_n or_o prevent_v and_o keep_v a_o great_a mischief_n from_o it_o she_o be_v not_o to_o stay_v for_o his_o consent_n instance_n the_o example_n of_o etc._n abigail_n thus_o a_o faithful_a provident_a wife_n observe_v her_o husband_n to_o riot_n and_o to_o spend_v all_o he_o can_v get_v in_o card_v dice_a and_o drink_v may_v without_o his_o consent_n lie_v up_o what_o good_n she_o can_v for_o her_o husband_n her_o own_o her_o child_n and_o whole_a household_n good_a this_o be_v no_o part_n of_o disobedience_n but_o a_o point_n wherein_o she_o may_v show_v herself_o a_o great_a good_a help_n unto_o her_o husband_n 18._o for_o which_o end_n a_o wife_n be_v first_o make_v concern_v such_o as_o be_v out_o of_o the_o family_n if_o they_o be_v in_o great_a need_n and_o require_v present_a relief_n though_o the_o wife_n know_v her_o husband_n to_o be_v so_o hard-hearted_a as_o he_o will_v not_o suffer_v she_o to_o relieve_v such_o a_o one_o yet_o without_o his_o consent_n she_o may_v relieve_v he_o the_o ground_n of_o this_o and_o other_o like_a case_n be_v that_o rule_n lay_v down_o by_o the_o prophet_n and_o by_o christ_n himself_o viz._n 7._o i_o will_v have_v mercy_n and_o not_o sacrifice_v if_o god_n in_o case_n of_o mercy_n dispense_v with_o a_o duty_n due_a to_o himself_o will_v he_o not_o much_o more_o dispense_v with_o a_o duty_n due_a to_o a_o husband_n §._o 23._o of_o a_o wife_n 54._o restraint_n in_o dispose_n good_n without_o consent_n of_o her_o husband_n and_o of_o the_o ground_n of_o that_o restraint_n out_o of_o all_o these_o thing_n thus_o premise_v i_o gather_v the_o true_a state_n citat_fw-la of_o the_o question_n in_o controversy_n concern_v the_o power_n of_o wife_n in_o dispose_v the_o good_n of_o the_o family_n to_o be_v this_o whether_o a_o wife_n may_v privy_o and_o simple_o without_o or_o open_o and_o direct_o against_o her_o husband_n consent_n distribute_v such_o common_a good_n of_o the_o family_n as_o her_o husband_n reserve_v to_o his_o own_o dispose_n there_o be_v no_o extraordinary_a necessity_n the_o most_o ancient_a and_o common_a answer_n unto_o this_o question_n have_v be_v negative_a namely_o that_o a_o wife_n have_v not_o power_n so_o to_o do_v whereunto_o i_o for_o my_o part_n subscribe_v the_o ground_n of_o this_o answer_n be_v take_v from_o that_o primary_n law_n of_o the_o wife_n subjection_n 16._o thy_o desire_n shall_v be_v unto_o thy_o husband_n how_o be_v her_o desire_n subject_n to_o her_o husband_n if_o in_o the_o case_n propound_v she_o stand_v not_o upon_o his_o consent_n it_o be_v further_a confirm_v both_o by_o the_o 17._o forename_a and_o also_o by_o all_o other_o proof_n that_o may_v be_v produce_v out_o of_o the_o scripture_n concern_v the_o subjection_n of_o wife_n unto_o their_o husband_n if_o in_o order_v the_o good_n of_o the_o family_n she_o yield_v not_o subjection_n wherein_o shall_v she_o yield_v it_o against_o this_o groundwork_n some_o object_n that_o 7._o the_o same_o law_n of_o subjection_n be_v impose_v upon_o a_o young_a brother_n in_o the_o very_a same_o word_n and_o yet_o a_o young_a brother_n be_v not_o thereby_o bind_v brother_n to_o have_v his_o elder_a brother_n consent_n in_o dispose_v his_o good_n answ_n the_o law_n of_o the_o regality_n as_o i_o may_v so_o speak_v and_o preeminency_n of_o the_o first_o bear_v be_v under_o those_o word_n ordain_v and_o therefore_o a_o young_a brother_n be_v make_v a_o subject_n to_o his_o elder_n while_o he_o remain_v in_o the_o family_n as_o a_o son_n to_o the_o father_n the_o elder_a brother_n be_v as_o a_o lord_n over_o his_o other_o brother_n whereupon_o when_o isaak_n confer_v the_o right_n of_o the_o first_o bear_v upon_o jaakob_n think_v he_o have_v be_v his_o elder_a son_n esau_n he_o use_v these_o word_n be_v lord_n over_o thy_o brethren_n and_o let_v thy_o 29._o mother_n son_n bow_v down_o to_o thou_o which_o be_v so_o questionless_a the_o young_a brother_n may_v not_o simple_o without_o or_o direct_o against_o the_o elder_a brother_n consent_v dispose_v the_o good_n of_o the_o family_n so_o as_o this_o objection_n more_o strong_o establish_v the_o forename_a argument_n again_o it_o be_v object_v that_o that_o old_a law_n be_v to_o be_v expound_v of_o weighty_a matter_n answ_n the_o apostle_n who_o be_v guide_v by_o the_o spirit_n of_o the_o 24._o lawmaker_n extend_v that_o law_n to_o every_o thing_n but_o be_v not_o this_o matter_n of_o dispose_v good_n 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dead_a 2._o some_o gather_v that_o this_o steward_n be_v that_o ruler_n who_o 53._o son_n christ_n heal_v who_o thereupon_o believe_v with_o all_o his_o house_n which_o if_o he_o be_v than_o it_o can_v be_v doubt_v but_o that_o his_o wife_n follow_v christ_n with_o his_o good_a like_n and_o consent_n 3._o chuza_n be_v herod_n steward_n and_o so_o a_o man_n of_o great_a place_n and_o public_a employment_n might_n if_o he_o be_v then_o live_v depute_v the_o manage_n of_o all_o affair_n at_o home_n to_o his_o wife_n as_o the_o 11._o husband_n of_o the_o good_a wife_n commend_v by_o solomon_n and_o so_o she_o may_v have_v at_o least_o a_o general_a consent_n i_o do_v not_o certain_o determine_v any_o of_o these_o express_o to_o be_v so_o i_o do_v but_o note_v they_o as_o probability_n yet_o such_o as_o do_v sufficient_o overthrow_v the_o surmise_a liberty_n of_o a_o wife_n in_o give_v alm_n without_o any_o consent_n of_o her_o husband_n for_o this_o of_o all_o other_o probability_n seem_v 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of_o protection_n christ_n show_v himself_o a_o excellent_a pattern_n and_o precedent_n unto_o husband_n the_o better_a to_o perform_v this_o duty_n a_o husband_n must_v be_v careful_a 1._o to_o prevent_v as_o much_o as_o he_o may_v such_o danger_n as_o his_o wise_n be_v like_a to_o fall_v into_o 2._o to_o recover_v she_o out_o of_o such_o as_o she_o be_v fall_v into_o for_o this_o purpose_n do_v david_n carry_v his_o wife_n into_o gath_n lest_o if_o 3._o they_o be_v leave_v in_o israel_n saul_n shall_v work_v they_o some_o mischief_n and_o again_o when_o they_o be_v take_v by_o the_o amalakite_n he_o recover_v 18._o they_o according_a to_o that_o danger_n whereunto_o wife_n be_v subject_a must_v a_o husband_n care_n of_o protect_v his_o wife_n be_v manifest_v 1._o if_o she_o be_v in_o danger_n to_o be_v seduce_v and_o entice_v as_o euah_n be_v seduce_v by_o any_o evil_a instrument_n of_o the_o devil_n as_o jesuit_n priest_n friar_n profane_a blasphemous_a lascivious_a or_o riotous_a person_n his_o care_n must_v be_v either_o to_o keep_v they_o away_o that_o they_o come_v not_o at_o she_o or_o to_o put_v they_o away_o from_o she_o so_o soon_o as_o he_o can_v he_o may_v not_o suffer_v they_o to_o harbour_v in_o his_o house_n 2._o if_o by_o any_o sleight_n she_o be_v draw_v from_o his_o house_n he_o must_v maintain_v seek_v she_o and_o fetch_v she_o again_o as_o the_o levite_n do_v his_o wife_n or_o cause_v she_o if_o he_o can_v to_o be_v bring_v home_o again_o as_o david_n cause_v michal_n to_o be_v bring_v especial_o if_o they_o be_v take_v away_o by_o force_n as_o ahinoam_v and_o abigail_n david_n wife_n be_v 3._o if_o she_o be_v unjust_o slander_v he_o be_v to_o maintain_v her_o credit_n and_o reputation_n as_o much_o as_o his_o own_o as_o christ_n account_v himself_o despise_v when_o his_o church_n be_v so_o must_v he_o this_o care_n must_v he_o etc._n have_v of_o his_o wife_n credit_n even_o after_o her_o death_n as_o well_o as_o while_o she_o live_v 4._o what_o other_o mischief_n so_o ever_o be_v intend_v or_o practise_v against_o etc._n she_o he_o must_v be_v a_o tower_n of_o defence_n to_o protect_v she_o as_o ahoshuerosh_n be_v to_o ester_n against_o haman_n and_o that_o not_o only_o against_o stranger_n without_o the_o house_n but_o also_o against_o child_n and_o servant_n in_o the_o house_n child_n grow_v to_o year_n that_o be_v stout_a and_o stubborn_a will_v be_v ready_a to_o rise_v up_o against_o their_o mother_n especial_o if_o she_o be_v a_o mother_n in_o law_n because_o she_o be_v the_o weak_a sex_n the_o countenance_n of_o a_o father_n for_o the_o most_o part_n keep_v most_o in_o awe_n wherefore_o the_o husband_n must_v be_v a_o help_n to_o his_o wife_n and_o maintain_v her_o

honour_n against_o they_o yea_o though_o they_o be_v child_n of_o a_o former_a wife_n §._o 59_o of_o a_o husband_n maintain_v his_o wife_n against_o child_n of_o a_o former_a venture_n and_o servant_n object_n mother_n in_o law_n often_o prove_v unkind_a and_o unjust_a stepmother_n and_o deal_v unmerciful_o with_o their_o husband_n child_n must_v a_o husband_n in_o such_o case_n assist_v his_o wife_n against_o his_o child_n answ_n the_o protection_n i_o speak_v of_o be_v in_o case_n a_o wife_n be_v wrong_v than_o her_o husband_n be_v to_o do_v what_o he_o can_v to_o right_v she_o as_o we_o speak_v but_o if_o she_o be_v the_o wrongdoer_n he_o may_v by_o no_o mean_n bolster_v she_o up_o against_o his_o child_n and_o so_o make_v their_o wrong_n the_o great_a yet_o so_o far_o ought_v he_o to_o respect_v his_o wife_n as_o by_o all_o the_o fair_a mean_n he_o can_v to_o labour_v to_o pacific_a her_o mind_n and_o turn_v her_o heart_n towards_o they_o and_o if_o he_o observe_v her_o heart_n to_o be_v clean_o alienate_v from_o they_o then_o to_o put_v they_o forth_o to_o be_v bring_v up_o in_o some_o other_o place_n and_o so_o to_o take_v away_o from_o her_o the_o object_n of_o her_o displeasure_n that_o he_o and_o she_o may_v live_v more_o quiet_o together_o for_o if_o a_o man_n must_v forsake_v father_n and_o mother_n he_o must_v also_o forsake_v child_n and_o cleave_v to_o his_o wife_n peace_n and_o unity_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n must_v of_o all_o other_o be_v keep_v inviolable_a though_o thou_o cast_v away_o 14._o all_o nothing_o can_v happen_v more_o troublesome_a to_o thou_o than_o not_o to_o have_v a_o quiet_a wife_n at_o home_n thou_o can_v find_v no_o sin_n more_o grievous_a then_o to_o have_v contention_n with_o a_o wife_n if_o a_o wife_n must_v be_v maintain_v against_o the_o stubbornness_n of_o child_n much_o more_o against_o the_o insolency_n of_o servant_n for_o which_o purpose_n the_o example_n of_o abraham_n be_v record_v who_o servant_n may_v have_v a_o privilege_n above_o other_o because_o he_o have_v make_v she_o his_o bedfellow_n yet_o when_o she_o wax_v insolent_a against_o her_o mistress_n first_o he_o put_v she_o into_o her_o mistress_n hand_n to_o do_v to_o she_o as_o it_o please_v she_o and_o afterward_o he_o cast_v she_o out_o of_o his_o house_n §._o 60._o of_o neglect_v to_o maintain_v their_o wife_n contrary_n be_v a_o dissolute_a carelessness_n of_o husband_n who_o care_v no_o more_o to_o help_v and_o succour_v their_o wife_n then_o any_o other_o 1._o some_o more_o fear_n to_o offend_v their_o wife_n then_o they_o care_v to_o do_v house_n they_o good_a and_o in_o that_o respect_n they_o let_v any_o sort_n of_o people_n come_v to_o their_o wife_n that_o be_v welcome_a to_o they_o if_o magistrate_n in_o a_o commonwealth_n shall_v answer_v for_o suffer_v seducer_n to_o come_v into_o their_o dominion_n to_o deceive_v their_o people_n much_o more_o shall_v husband_n answer_v for_o suffer_v they_o to_o come_v and_o deceive_v their_o wife_n 1._o because_o they_o have_v a_o great_a charge_n over_o their_o wife_n then_o magistrate_n over_o their_o people_n 2._o because_o wife_n ought_v to_o be_v dear_a to_o husband_n then_o people_n to_o magistrate_n 3._o because_o they_o may_v soon_o espy_v they_o in_o their_o house_n than_o magistrate_n in_o the_o commonwealth_n 4._o because_o they_o may_v be_v much_o more_o easy_o keep_v out_o of_o a_o house_n than_o out_o of_o a_o commonwealth_n or_o a_o city_n 2._o other_o care_v not_o whither_o their_o wife_n wander_v and_o if_o they_o suffer_v do_v go_v out_o of_o their_o house_n they_o shall_v never_o be_v seek_v after_o by_o their_o list_v husband_n though_o this_o may_v be_v a_o just_a punishment_n on_o wander_a wife_n yet_o be_v it_o not_o just_a for_o husband_n so_o to_o deal_v with_o they_o if_o christ_n our_o husband_n shall_v so_o deal_v with_o we_o we_o shall_v soon_o be_v lose_v for_o we_o oft_o go_v astray_o like_o wander_a sheep_n but_o he_o be_v that_o good_a shepherd_n who_o seek_v after_o the_o lose_a sheep_n until_o he_o 4._o find_v it_o 3._o no_o marvel_n then_o that_o many_o husband_n be_v no_o more_o affect_v wife_n with_o the_o ill_a report_n and_o rumour_n raise_v against_o their_o wife_n when_o they_o so_o little_a regard_n who_o come_v to_o they_o or_o whither_o they_o go_v assure_o the_o discredit_n of_o a_o wife_n will_v turn_v to_o the_o man_n dishonour_n for_o as_o a_o virtuous_a wife_n be_v a_o crown_n to_o her_o husband_n so_o by_o the_o 4._o rule_n of_o contrary_n a_o infamous_a wife_n be_v a_o shame_n to_o her_o husband_n if_o therefore_o not_o for_o his_o wife_n sake_n yet_o for_o his_o own_o sake_n a_o man_n ought_v not_o too_o careless_o pass_v over_o the_o ill_a report_n which_o be_v raise_v against_o his_o wife_n 4._o there_o be_v such_o unkind_a husband_n as_o be_v move_v with_o no_o ill_a misuse_v usage_n do_v unto_o their_o wife_n nor_o will_v hear_v any_o complaint_n that_o they_o make_v unto_o they_o yea_o if_o they_o see_v they_o misuse_v they_o will_v either_o not_o seem_v to_o see_v it_o or_o but_o smile_n at_o it_o and_o so_o go_v their_o way_n and_o suffer_v their_o wife_n to_o right_v themselves_o as_o well_o as_o they_o can_v as_o this_o beseem_v not_o any_o christian_n to_o suffer_v his_o neighbour_n to_o be_v wrong_v for_o it_o be_v note_v as_o a_o commendable_a matter_n in_o moses_n that_o 13._o when_o he_o see_v two_o hebrew_n strive_v together_o he_o take_v his_o part_n that_o have_v wrong_o do_v to_o he_o and_o reprove_v the_o other_o so_o much_o ●esse_o a_o husband_n to_o who_o safeguard_n his_o wife_n be_v commit_v nature_n teach_v we_o that_o the_o head_n be_v as_o much_o affect_v with_o a_o wrong_a ●one_n to_o the_o body_n as_o to_o itself_o so_o ought_v a_o husband_n wife_n 5._o as_o the_o wrong_n which_o be_v do_v by_o those_o who_o be_v in_o subjection_n ●n_o the_o house_n under_o the_o wife_n be_v great_a than_o that_o which_o be_v do_v by_o stranger_n so_o be_v the_o husband_n fault_n the_o great_a in_o suffer_v it_o for_o ●e_n have_v more_o power_n over_o they_o in_o his_o house_n then_o over_o other_o cit_fw-la what_o then_o may_v we_o think_v of_o such_o as_o either_o by_o their_o connivance_n ●r_o by_o take_v part_n against_o their_o wife_n suffer_v both_o child_n and_o servant_n to_o insult_v over_o they_o assure_o those_o husband_n themselves_o will_v find_v some_o smack_n of_o the_o bitter_a and_o evil_a fruit_n thereof_o use_v that_o not_o only_o by_o that_o great_a discontent_n which_o their_o wife_n must_v ●eeds_o take_v thereat_o but_o also_o by_o that_o contempt_n which_o will_v follow_v on_o their_o own_o person_n both_o by_o their_o wife_n who_o can_v think_v they_o meet_v head_n to_o govern_v other_o but_o also_o by_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n who_o thereby_o will_v take_v occasion_n to_o wax_v proud_a and_o presumptuous_a against_o he_o by_o despise_v the_o weak_a man_n grow_v by_o little_a and_o little_a to_o despise_v the_o strong_a this_o man_n of_o wisdom_n and_o experience_n well_o know_v whereupon_o in_o commonwealth_n and_o policy_n govern_v by_o wise_a man_n the_o authority_n of_o inferior_a magistrate_n be_v uphold_v and_o maintain_v superior_a magistrate_n will_v not_o suffer_v they_o who_o be_v in_o authority_n under_o they_o to_o be_v despise_v for_o it_o be_v well_o know_v that_o it_o tend_v not_o to_o the_o honour_n and_o ease_v only_o but_o to_o the_o safety_n also_o of_o the_o supreme_a magistrate_n to_o have_v the_o power_n and_o authority_n of_o inferior_a magistrate_n respect_v and_o not_o trample_v under_o foot_n it_o argue_v therefore_o both_o want_n of_o affection_n and_o of_o discretion_n and_o understanding_n in_o husband_n to_o suffer_v child_n servant_n or_o any_o other_o in_o the_o house_n to_o insult_v over_o their_o wife_n who_o be_v joint_a governor_n with_o they_o over_o the_o house_n §._o 61._o of_o a_o husband_n first_o beginning_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n the_o general_a matter_n together_o with_o the_o particular_a kind_n of_o husband_n duty_n be_v thus_o far_o handle_v the_o manner_n also_o of_o perform_v they_o be_v to_o be_v deliver_v to_o instruct_v a_o husband_n in_o the_o manner_n of_o perform_v his_o duty_n to_o his_o wife_n the_o apostle_n lay_v down_o two_o pattern_n 1._o christ_n vers_fw-la 25._o 2._o ourselves_o vers_fw-la 28._o  _fw-fr as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n and_o as_o we_o love_v ourselves_o so_o must_v man_n love_v their_o wife_n that_o we_o may_v the_o better_o follow_v these_o pattern_n we_o must_v distinct_o note_v how_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n and_o how_o we_o church_n love_v ourselves_o the_o love_n of_o christ_n to_o his_o church_n be_v commend_v unto_o we_o in_o six_o several_a

the_o 10._o advice_n to_o the_o queen_n 1._o it_o be_v mystical_o to_o be_v take_v 2._o if_o it_o shall_v be_v literal_o take_v it_o be_v to_o be_v take_v as_o give_v to_o she_o after_o marriage_n when_o she_o be_v out_o of_o her_o parent_n government_n 3._o it_o have_v relation_n to_o the_o 24._o law_n of_o marriage_n ●nd_n imply_v not_o a_o simple_a forsake_v of_o parent_n but_o a_o prefer_n of_o a_o husband_n before_o they_o 4._o for_o the_o love_a of_o father_n and_o mother_n more_o than_o christ_n 〈◊〉_d it_o do_v not_o necessary_o imply_v a_o forsake_v of_o our_o parent_n ●or_a we_o may_v love_v christ_n more_o than_o they_o and_o yet_o perform_v ●uty_n to_o they_o 2._o if_o they_o be_v forsake_v it_o must_v be_v in_o opposition_n to_o christ_n that_o either_o christ_n or_o they_o must_v be_v forsake_v in_o that_o if_o we_o cleave_v to_o they_o they_o will_v draw_v we_o from_o christ_n 5._o for_o christ_n forbid_v one_o that_o follow_v he_o to_o go_v and_o bury_v his_o father_n 1._o it_o be_v because_o of_o a_o extraordinary_a call_n which_o he_o have_v 2._o it_o be_v set_v down_o as_o a_o pattern_n to_o minister_n to_o show_v that_o they_o shall_v especial_o attend_v upon_o their_o proper_a function_n and_o leave_v other_o secular_a matter_n to_o be_v perform_v by_o such_o as_o can_v perform_v they_o well_o enough_o to_o apply_v it_o to_o child_n forsake_v of_o parent_n be_v to_o pervert_v the_o sense_n of_o it_o thus_o we_o see_v to_o how_o little_a purpose_n the_o forename_a argument_n be_v allege_v to_o prove_v that_o erroneous_a opinion_n of_o child_n enter_v into_o religious_a order_n without_o their_o parent_n consent_v i_o may_v further_o show_v how_o irreligious_a their_o pretend_a religious_a order_n be_v and_o so_o show_v how_o unlawful_a it_o be_v to_o enter_v into_o they_o even_o with_o consent_n of_o parent_n but_o that_o make_v nothing_o to_o the_o point_n in_o hand_n §._o 15._o of_o the_o unlawfulnesse_n of_o child_n travel_n and_o bind_v 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and_o approve_v in_o scripture_n isaak_n marry_v the_o wife_n which_o his_o father_n provide_v gen._n 24._o 67._o jaakob_n both_o obey_v his_o father_n in_o go_v to_o laban_n house_n for_o a_o wife_n gen._n 28._o 2._o and_o also_o when_o he_o come_v to_o laban_n ask_v his_o daughter_n of_o he_o gen._n 29._o 18._o etc._n etc._n though_o samson_n see_v a_o daughter_n of_o the_o philistines_n which_o 9_o please_v he_o well_o yet_o will_v he_o not_o marry_v she_o before_o he_o have_v his_o parent_n consent_n judg._n 14._o 2._o 4._o these_o word_n of_o thamar_n 2_o sam._n 13._o 13._o speak_v unto_o the_o king_n who_o be_v her_o father_n for_o he_o will_v not_o withhold_v thou_o from_o i_o show_v that_o child_n be_v not_o wont_a to_o be_v marry_v without_o consent_n of_o parent_n which_o be_v further_o confirm_v by_o this_o oath_n of_o the_o israelite_n there_o shall_v not_o any_o of_o we_o give_v his_o daughter_n africa_n unto_o benjamin_n to_o wife_n judg._n 21._o 1._o 5._o 2._o the_o 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child_n reason_n being_n child_n come_v out_o of_o the_o substance_n of_o both_o alike_o 2._o the_o care_n and_o pain_n of_o both_o for_o the_o good_a of_o the_o child_n be_v very_o great_a i_o know_v not_o of_o whether_o the_o great_a the_o mother_n pain_n and_o care_n in_o bring_v forth_o the_o child_n be_v indeed_o the_o great_a and_o it_o may_v be_v also_o the_o great_a in_o bring_v up_o the_o child_n especial_o while_o it_o be_v young_a at_o least_o if_o she_o give_v it_o suck_v herself_o yet_o afterward_o the_o father_n exceed_v in_o provide_v fit_a calling_n sufficient_a mean_n of_o maintenance_n yea_o and_o portion_n or_o inheritance_n for_o it_o and_o that_o after_o he_o himself_o be_v dead_a thus_o one_o way_n or_o other_o the_o child_n be_v equal_o bind_v to_o both_o and_o according_o god_n law_n make_v no_o difference_n betwixt_o they_o object_n the_o wife_n be_v subject_a to_o her_o husband_n therefore_o a_o child_n ought_v to_o prefer_v his_o father_n before_o his_o 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they_o now_o familiarity_n andr._n breed_v contempt_n answ_n this_o be_v the_o abuse_n of_o familiarity_n love_n shall_v breed_v love_n and_o love_n must_v be_v order_v according_a to_o the_o condition_n of_o the_o party_n love_v and_o love_v as_o child_n with_o one_o eye_n behold_v the_o affection_n of_o the_o mother_n so_o with_o another_o they_o shall_v behold_v god_n image_n in_o the_o mother_n and_o then_o that_o which_o be_v 3._o note_v as_o the_o ground_n of_o all_o child_n duty_n a_o loving-feare_n will_v be_v wrought_v in_o their_o heart_n which_o will_v cast_v out_o all_o contempt_n 3._o the_o mother_n have_v not_o that_o power_n to_o reward_n or_o revenge_n that_o a_o father_n have_v answ_n 1._o this_o be_v not_o to_o obey_v in_o the_o lord_n no_o outward_a respect_n shall_v move_v the_o child_n to_o obey_v his_o parent_n so_o much_o as_o conscience_n to_o god-ward_n if_o child_n due_o consider_v god_n how_o he_o have_v make_v no_o difference_n but_o command_v they_o to_o obey_v both_o alike_o and_o how_o he_o be_v able_a abundant_o to_o reward_v and_o severe_o to_o revenge_v that_o reason_n will_v be_v no_o reason_n 4._o the_o mother_n be_v subject_a to_o the_o father_n answ_n this_o be_v remove_v 54._o before_o as_o a_o general_a answer_n to_o these_o and_o all_o other_o such_o pretence_n as_o can_v be_v allege_v let_v it_o be_v note_v that_o the_o lord_n do_v not_o only_o in_o express_a term_n charge_v child_n to_o fear_v their_o mother_n but_o also_o the_o more_o to_o press_v this_o point_n sometime_o set_v the_o mother_n in_o the_o first_o place_n thus_o you_o shall_v fear_v every_o man_n his_o mother_n 3._o and_o his_o father_n which_o be_v not_o so_o to_o be_v take_v as_o if_o the_o mother_n of_o the_o two_o be_v the_o more_o excellent_a in_o this_o respect_n the_o father_n for_o the_o most_o part_n be_v first_o name_v but_o because_o it_o be_v the_o true_a trial_n of_o a_o child_n subjection_n to_o be_v subject_a to_o his_o mother_n he_o that_o 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guest_n journey_n etc._n etc._n §_o 18_o 23_o 38_o 39_o 40_o 41._o 8_o a_o ready_a yield_v to_o what_o her_o husband_n will_v have_v do_v this_o be_v manifest_v by_o her_o willingness_n to_o dwell_v where_o he_o will_v to_o come_v when_o he_o call_v and_o to_o do_v what_o he_o require_v §_o 43_o 44_o 45_o 46._o 9_o a_o patient_a bear_n of_o any_o reproof_n and_o a_o ready_a redress_v of_o that_o for_o which_o she_o be_v just_o reprove_v §_o 47_o 48._o 10_o contentment_n with_o her_o husband_n present_a estate_n §_o 49._o 11_o such_o a_o subjection_n as_o may_v stand_v with_o her_o subjection_n to_o christ_n §_o 51._o 12_o such_o a_o subjection_n as_o the_o church_n yield_v to_o christ_n which_o be_v sincere_a

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to_o the_o wicked_a 144_o 106_o of_o limit_v the_o promise_n of_o temporal_a blessing_n 144_o 107_o of_o appropriate_a prosperity_n and_o long_a life_n to_o the_o obedience_n which_o child_n yield_v to_o their_o parent_n 145_o 108_o of_o god_n order_v his_o favour_n so_o as_o they_o may_v appear_v to_o be_v true_a blessing_n 147_o 109_o of_o god_n high_a account_n of_o dutiful_a child_n 148_o 110_o of_o child_n do_n good_a to_o themselves_o by_o honour_v their_o parent_n 148_o 111_o of_o parent_n do_v good_a to_o their_o child_n by_o keep_v they_o under_o obedience_n 149_o 112_o of_o the_o perpetuity_n of_o the_o substance_n of_o such_o thing_n as_o in_o their_o circumstance_n respect_v the_o jew_n be_v vanish_v 150_o 113_o of_o the_o determine_a period_n of_o man_n life_n 151_o 114_o of_o reward_n promise_v to_o obedience_n that_o it_o imply_v no_o merit_n 153_o 115_o of_o the_o connexion_n of_o parent_n duty_n with_o child_n 153_o 116_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o these_o word_n 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in_o marry_v without_o their_o parent_n consent_v 450_o 20_o of_o objection_n for_o child_n marry_v without_o parent_n consent_n answer_v 451_o 21_o of_o s●ealing_a child_n from_o parent_n for_o marriage_n sake_n 452_o 22_o of_o minister_n sin_n in_o marry_v child_n without_o parent_n consent_n 452_o 23_o of_o child_n forbear_n to_o dispose_v any_o of_o their_o parent_n good_n without_o consent_n 453_o 24_o of_o the_o sin_n of_o child_n in_o purloin_v and_o waste_v their_o parent_n good_n 454_o 25_o of_o child_n contentedness_n to_o be_v apparel_v after_o their_o parent_n mind_n and_o like_n 456_o 26_o of_o child_n forbear_n to_o bind_v themselves_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n against_o their_o parent_n consent_n 456_o 27_o of_o child_n active_a obedience_n 457_o 28_o of_o child_n obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n commandment_n 457_o 29_o of_o child_n disobedience_n to_o their_o parent_n commandment_n 459_o 30_o of_o child_n obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n instruction_n 459_o 31_o of_o 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other_o which_o the_o law_n require_v the_o two_o forename_a duty_n be_v the_o rhaine_n end_v for_o which_o guardian_n be_v choose_v in_o perform_v whereof_o if_o they_o be_v faithful_a great_a redress_n will_v be_v make_v of_o the_o untimely_a death_n of_o parent_n and_o notwithstanding_o parent_n die_v before_o their_o child_n be_v of_o discretion_n to_o manage_v their_o estate_n yet_o will_v their_o house_n and_o family_n be_v maintain_v and_o young_a heir_n keep_v from_o cunnie-catcher_n and_o cheater_n it_o be_v note_v of_o john_n who_o have_v the_o mother_n of_o jesus_n commend_v 27._o to_o he_o that_o he_o take_v she_o to_o his_o own_o home_n whereby_o be_v imply_v his_o provident_a care_n for_o her_o good_a §._o 77._o of_o the_o fraud_n of_o guardian_n contrary_n be_v the_o practice_n of_o most_o guardian_n who_o take_v pupil_n 1._o for_o their_o own_o advantage_n and_o make_v a_o prey_n of_o they_o the_o heathen_a can_v say_v that_o guardianship_n be_v to_o be_v perform_v for_o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o pupil_n and_o not_o of_o the_o guardian_n yet_o among_o christian_n be_v the_o forename_a fault_n of_o guardian_n 1._o there_o be_v few_o child_n that_o have_v not_o natural_a parent_n to_o look_v to_o their_o good_a education_n but_o be_v exceed_o neglect_v therein_o and_o bring_v up_o very_o rude_o and_o licentious_o yea_o many_o time_n too_o spare_o and_o niggard_o for_o diet_n apparel_n and_o other_o needful_a thing_n though_o they_o have_v sufficient_a to_o discharge_v all_o that_o shall_v be_v lay_v out_o upon_o they_o 2._o the_o main_a estate_n &_o patrimony_n of_o many_o pupil_n be_v much_o impair_v and_o if_o they_o have_v land_n as_o much_o waste_n be_v make_v upon_o they_o as_o possible_o can_v be_v and_o when_o a_o reckon_n be_v to_o be_v give_v it_o shall_v be_v a_o large_a unjust_a and_o most_o unconscionable_a reckon_n of_o the_o guardian_n can_v but_o get_v a_o general_a release_n it_o be_v all_o that_o the_o cave_v for_o 3._o marriage_n be_v after_o a_o for_o force_v upon_o many_o pupil_n and_o such_o match_n put_v upon_o they_o as_o they_o can_v like_v yea_o such_o as_o be_v no_o way_n fit_a for_o they_o neither_o for_o estate_n nor_o year_n nor_o proportion_n of_o body_n nor_o quality_n of_o mind_n little_o do_v these_o guardian_n think_v of_o that_o account_n where_o unto_o they_o shall_v be_v bring_v a_o other_o day_n before_o the_o lord_n who_o style_v himself_o the_o 14._o helper_n of_o the_o fatherless_a and_o who_o behold_v mischief_n to_o requite_v it_o fearful_a be_v that_o judgement_n which_o the_o lord_n have_v etc._n threaten_v against_o those_o that_o oppress_v the_o fatherless_a let_v not_o therefore_o unjust_a guardian_n think_v that_o the_o gain_n they_o get_v wrongful_o from_o their_o pupil_n shall_v prosper_v but_o rather_o let_v they_o look_v for_o god_n curse_v upon_o their_o own_o child_n and_o good_n if_o such_o as_o parent_n themselves_o have_v upon_o their_o deathbed_n commit_v their_o child_n unto_o in_o confidence_n of_o their_o faithfulness_n shall_v deal_v deceitful_o with_o their_o pupil_n their_o sin_n be_v double_v and_o treble_v for_o 1._o they_o violate_v the_o bond_n of_o friendship_n faithfulness_n and_o trust_v repose_v upon_o they_o 2._o they_o sin_v direct_o against_o justice_n 3._o most_o monstrous_o they_o transgress_v the_o rule_n of_o charity_n §._o 78._o of_o the_o duty_n of_o schoolmaster_n and_o tutor_n among_o those_o who_o be_v by_o voluntary_a appointment_n set_v in_o the_o place_n of_o parent_n be_v schoolmaster_n and_o tutor_n to_o be_v reckon_v the_o authority_n and_o charge_n of_o a_o parent_n be_v for_o a_o time_n commit_v to_o they_o therefore_o for_o that_o time_n they_o ought_v to_o perform_v a_o parent_n duty_n their_o duty_n be_v appropriate_v to_o education_n it_o appertain_v not_o to_o

5._o 23_o 24._o 24._o eph._n 4_o 8._o 8._o joh._n 14._o 3._o 3._o reu._n 22._o 17_o 20._o 1._o use_v a_o high_a favour_n to_o be_v the_o spouse_n to_o christ_n 1_o sam._n 25._o 41._o luk._n 15._o 19_o mar._n 1._o 7._o 7._o §._o 33_o 34._o 2._o use_v direction_n how_o christ_n spouse_n must_v carry_v herself_o est_fw-la 1._o 16._o etc._n etc._n 3._o use_v trial_o who_o be_v christ_n spouse_n spouse_n §._o 24._o 4._o use_v consolation_n the_o privilege_n of_o christ_n spouse_n ecclesia_fw-la omnem_fw-la sponsi_fw-la potestatem_fw-la tenet_fw-la aug._n contr_n don._n l._n 4._o c._n 1._o joh._n 1._o 18._o prou._n 8._o 30._o ephes_n 4._o 9_o joh._n 16._o 28._o mark_n 3._o 33_o 34._o use_v imitation_n all_o to_o be_v forsake_v for_o christ_n psal_n 45._o 10._o matth._n 10._o 37._o luke_n 14._o 26._o expound_v how_o parent_n to_o be_v hate_v for_o christ_n deut._n 33._o 9_o gen._n 41._o 4._o matth._n 19_o 27._o hosea_n 2._o 19_o isa._n 61._o 8._o &_o 54._o 10._o reason_n joh._n 13._o 1._o rom._n 11._o 29._o mal._n 2._o 16._o jer._n 3._o 1._o use_v cleave_v to_o christ_n christ_n deut._n 10._o 20._o &_o 13._o 4._o act_n 11._o 23._o 1_o sam._n 18._o 1._o rom._n 8._o 35._o etc._n etc._n all_o the_o saint_n make_v one_o spouse_n 1_o cor._n 12._o 13._o see_v §._o 22._o gal._n 3._o 28._o reason_n use_v christus_fw-la nihil_fw-la aliud_fw-la deputat_fw-la corpus_fw-la suum_fw-la i_o ecclesiam_fw-la quam_fw-la seipsum_fw-la quia_fw-la de_fw-la christo_fw-la &_o ecclesia_fw-la verius_fw-la intelligitur_fw-la erunt_fw-la duo_fw-la in_o carne_fw-la una_fw-la aug._n de_fw-fr pec_fw-la mer._n lib._n 1._o cap._n 31._o 31._o see_v §._o 70._o 70._o §._o 84._o 1_o cor._n 6._o 17._o &_o 12._o 12._o heb._n 10._o 27._o heb._n 12._o 15._o eph._n 4._o 27._o of_o a_o mystery_n see_v more_o in_o the_o whole_a armour_n of_o god_n treat_n 3._o §._o 168._o on_o eph._n 6._o 19_o 1._o use_v the_o mystery_n of_o our_o union_n with_o christ_n not_o to_o be_v measure_v with_o the_o last_o of_o our_o reason_n 2._o use_v no_o carnal_a thing_n in_o our_o union_n with_o christ_n ecclesia_fw-la christo_fw-la in_o occulto_fw-la uxor_fw-la est_fw-la occultè_fw-la quip_n atque_fw-la intus_fw-la in_o abscondito_fw-la secreto_fw-la spiritali_fw-la anima_fw-la humana_fw-la inhaeret_fw-la verbo_fw-la dei_fw-la ut_fw-la sint_fw-la duo_fw-la in_o carne_fw-la una_fw-la aug._n contr_n faust_n man._n lib._n 22._o cap._n 38._o 3._o use_v papist_n make_v our_o union_n with_o christ_n a_o carnal_a matter_n joh_n 6._o 52._o joh._n 3._o 4._o multos_fw-la adulteros_fw-la video_fw-la qui_fw-la sponsam_fw-la tanto_fw-la pretio_fw-la emptam_fw-la possidere_fw-la volunt_fw-la &_o id_fw-la agunt_fw-la ut_fw-la pro_fw-la sponso_fw-la amentur_fw-la aug._n in_o joh._n tract_n 12._o uide_fw-la bern._n ep_n 237._o ad_fw-la eugen._n eugen._n see_v §._o 17._o 2_o cor._n 11_o 2._o quod_fw-la est_fw-la in_o christo_fw-la &_o in_fw-la ecclesia_fw-la magnum_fw-la hoc_fw-la in_o singulis_fw-la quibusque_fw-la viris_fw-la &_o uxoribus_fw-la minimum_fw-la aug._n the_o nupt_a &_o concup_n lib._n 1._o cap._n 21._o 21._o alphons_n à_fw-fr castro_n contr_n haer_fw-mi lib._n 3._o petrus_n à_fw-fr soto_n de_fw-fr matr._n lect_n 2._o council_n trident._n sess_z 24._o can._n 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d reu._n 2._o 7._o 7._o luk._n 8._o 8._o mar._n 13._o 37._o eph._n 5._o 14._o rom._n 11._o 20._o reason_n the_o life_n of_o god_n word_n in_o application_n 1_o cor._n 14_o 9_o vnum_fw-la duntaxat_fw-la tibi_fw-la considerandum_fw-la est_fw-la quo_fw-la pacto_fw-la te_fw-la praestes_fw-la innoxium_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o reason_n act._n 20._o 35._o rom._n 14._o 12._o ezec._n 18._o 5._o etc._n etc._n luk._n 17._o 34._o use_v non_fw-la quae_fw-la alijs_fw-la data_fw-la sunt_fw-la praecepta_fw-la quaerimus_fw-la quando_fw-la alicuius_fw-la criminis_fw-la ac_fw-la cusamur_fw-la chrys_n loc_n citat_fw-la citat_fw-la §._o 10._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d who_o be_v to_o be_v account_v child_n who_o parent_n parent_n treat_n 5._o §._o 56_o 57_o etc._n etc._n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d all_o duty_n of_o child_n comprise_v under_o obedience_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d chap._n 5._o vers_fw-la 22._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d why_o the_o moral_a law_n be_v allege_v a_o genere_fw-la ad_fw-la speciem_fw-la honour_n comprise_v all_o child_n duty_n why_o both_o father_n and_o mother_n express_v how_o the_o five_o commandment_n be_v the_o first_o with_o promise_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d rom._n 13_o 8._o difference_n betwixt_o the_o promise_n in_o the_o second_o and_o fist_n commandment_n first_o simple_o take_v exod._n 13._o 2._o matth._n 1._o 25._o isa_n 38._o 2_o 3._o 1._o use_v 2._o use_v 3._o use_v 4._o use_v caution_n in_o seek_v our_o own_o good_a cic._n lib._n 2._o de_fw-fr offic._n &_o paradox_n 1._o use_v nihil_fw-la bonum_fw-la scriptura_fw-la nisi_fw-la quod_fw-la honestum_fw-la asserit_fw-la ambr._n offic._n lib._n 2._o cap._n 3._o 3._o exod._n 20._o 12._o 12._o deut._n 5._o 16._o longlife_o and_o prosperity_n join_v together_o deut._n 5._o 16._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d temporal_a prosperity_n promise_v 1_o tim._n 4._o 8._o deut._n 5._o 16._o prosperity_n a_o good_a thing_n levit._n 26._o 4._o etc._n etc._n deut._n 28._o 1._o etc._n etc._n gen._n 28._o 20._o &_o 32._o 10_o 11._o levit._n 26._o 15._o etc._n etc._n deut._n 28._o 16._o etc._n etc._n etc._n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d psal_n 73._o 13._o jer._n 12._o 1._o hab._n 1._o 3_o how_o prosperity_n prove_v a_o curse_n to_o the_o wicked_a matth._n 5._o 45._o rom._n 2._o 4._o ose_n 13._o 11._o 1_o tim._n 6._o 9_o gen._n 40._o 19_o rom._n 8._o 28._o complaint_n of_o saint_n impeach_v not_o their_o well_o be_v be_v job._n 9_o 3._o 2_o cor._n 12._o 9_o 9_o epb._n 3._o 1._o 1._o psal_n 119._o 67_o 67_o job_n 1._o 12._o 12._o ose_n 5._o 15._o 15._o 2_o cor._n 5._o 2._o long_o life_n a_o blessing_n psal_n 6._o 5._o isa_n 38._o 18._o phil._n 1._o 24._o job._n 32._o 7._o job._n 9_o 4._o gal._n 6._o 10._o gen._n 15._o 16._o rom._n 2._o 5._o 5._o 1_o king_n 14._o 13._o 13._o 1_o king_n 13._o 14._o isa_n 17._o 1._o 1._o 1_o cor._n 11._o 32._o 32._o gen._n 5._o 24._o heb._n 11._o 5._o deut._n 6._o 2._o psal_n 34._o 12_o 13_o 14._o rut._n 3._o 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d how_o disobedient_a child_n hinder_v their_o welfare_n and_o shorten_v their_o day_n deut._n 21._o 21._o judg._n 9_o 5_o 6._o 6._o 1_o sam._n 2._o 34._o 34._o 2_o sam._n 18._o 14._o 14._o 1_o king_n 2._o 25._o how_o fit_o prosperity_n and_o long_a life_n be_v join_v together_o god_n make_v his_o savour_n true_a blessing_n gen._n 17._o 19_o isa_n 38._o 5_o 6._o &_o 39_o 8._o 2_o sam._n 7._o 9_o etc._n etc._n 1._o use_v 2._o use_v 3._o use_v psal_n 37_o 37_o 38._o eccl._n 8._o 12_o 13._o isa_n 3._o 10_o 11._o 4._o use_v prou._n 22._o 6._o doctr._n substance_n of_o promise_n make_v to_o the_o jew_n still_o remain_v heb._n 13._o 5._o act._n 2._o 39_o use_v rom._n 15._o 4._o rome_n 4._o 23._o 1_o cor._n 10._o 11._o hinc_fw-la patescit_fw-la humanae_fw-la aquavitae_fw-la terminum_fw-la non_fw-la esse_fw-la decreto_fw-la simplici_fw-la &_o absoluto_fw-la constitutum_fw-la etc._n etc._n zach._n muthel_n in_o hunc_fw-la loc_n &_o n._n heming_n alijque_fw-la man_n time_n set_v job_n 7._o 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d job_n 14._o 14._o job_n 14._o 5._o eccles_n 2._o 3._o job._n 7._o 30._o isa_n 38._o 5._o mat._n 10._o 30._o &_o 6_o 27._o stat_n sua_fw-la cuique_fw-la dies_fw-la etc._n etc._n virg._n aeny_v 10._o use_v to_o be_v make_v of_o the_o determine_a time_n of_o man_n life_n dan._n 3._o 17_o 18._o job._n 9_o 4._o against_o merit_n merit_n whole_a armour_n of_o god_n treat_n 2._o part._n 4._o §._o 7._o on_o ephes_n 6._o 14._o 1._o observ_n parent_n bind_v to_o duty_n how_o parent_n duty_n be_v imply_v in_o the_o 5._o commandment_n 1._o use_v minister_n must_v provoke_v parent_n to_o their_o duty_n 2._o use_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d verse_n 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d occasion_n of_o provoke_a child_n to_o wrath_n heb._n 12._o 10._o 10._o see_v treat_n 5._o §._o 31_o 41._o 2._o obser_n ezec._n 3._o 18._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 3._o obser_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d enutrite_n beza_n nourrissez_fw-fr fr._n 4._o observ_n parent_n to_o provide_v all_o needful_a thing_n for_o child_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 5._o observ_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 6._o observ_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d instituere_fw-la