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want_v wisdom_n as_o who_o do_v not_o more_o or_o less_o let_v he_o ask_v of_o god_n who_o give_v liberal_o and_o upbraid_v no_o man_n jam._n 1.5_o forget_v not_o in_o every_o undertake_n to_o seek_v god_n first_o and_o last_o 24._o child_n learn_v to_o know_v and_o make_v conscience_n of_o discharge_v your_o duty_n towards_o your_o parent_n first_o honour_v your_o parent_n it_o be_v the_o express_a command_n of_o god_n exod._n 20.12_o ephes_n 6.2_o 3._o honour_n thy_o father_n and_o thy_o mother_n see_v what_o forcible_a reason_n follow_v it_o be_v the_o first_o commandment_n with_o promise_n say_v the_o apostle_n ephes_n 6._o namely_o the_o first_o commandment_n of_o the_o second_o table_n &_o have_v a_o great_a encourage_v promise_n annex_v to_o it_o viz._n long_a life_n &_o with_o it_o prosperity_n in_o those_o word_n that_o it_o may_v be_v well_o with_o thou_o and_o thou_o may_v live_v long_o on_o the_o earth_n honour_n comprehend_v reverence_n obedience_n and_o maintain_v they_o 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