the_o renew_v of_o the_o mind_n with_o knowledge_n and_o of_o the_o whole_a man_n with_o the_o image_n of_o christ_n v._o 10._o 10._o verse_n 10._o three_o god_n be_v no_o accepter_n of_o person_n without_o grace_n he_o will_v respect_v none_o and_o with_o it_o he_o will_v disregard_n none_o for_o with_o he_o there_o be_v neither_o grecian_a nor_o jew_n circumcision_n nor_o uncircumcision_n barbarian_a scythian_a bond_n free_a christ_n be_v all_o in_o all_o thing_n v._o 11._o 11._o verse_n 11._o hitherto_o of_o the_o second_o thing_n needful_a to_o holy_a life_n viz._n the_o mortification_n of_o vice_n the_o three_o follow_v viz._n the_o exercise_n of_o holy_a grace_n and_o duty_n from_o v._o 12._o to_o 18._o and_o here_o the_o rule_v concern_v either_o 1._o the_o matter_n of_o holiness_n v._o 12._o to_o 16._o or_o the_o mean_n of_o holiness_n v._o 16._o or_o the_o end_n of_o holiness_n v._o 17._o for_o the_o first_o he_o give_v in_o charge_n nine_o grace_n but_o first_o propose_v three_o motive_n 1._o the_o election_n of_o god_n as_o the_o elect_a of_o god_n 2._o their_o sanctification_n holy_a 3._o the_o love_n of_o god_n to_o they_o and_o belove_a the_o grace_n be_v of_o three_o sort_n some_o of_o they_o have_v their_o great_a praise_n in_o prosperity_n viz._n mercy_n kindness_n meekness_n humbleness_n of_o mind_n some_o of_o they_o concern_v the_o time_n of_o adversity_n principal_o viz._n long-suffering_a and_o clemency_n in_o forbear_v and_o forgive_n v._o 12.13_o 12.13_o verse_n 12.13_o some_o of_o these_o grace_n ought_v to_o reign_v at_o all_o time_n &_o these_o be_v three_o first_o love_n which_o be_v set_v out_o both_o by_o the_o dignity_n of_o it_o above_o all_o put_v on_o love_n and_o by_o the_o use_n of_o it_o it_o be_v the_o bond_n of_o perfectness_n v._o 14._o 14._o verse_n 14._o second_o peace_n amplify_v by_o the_o author_n of_o god_n by_o the_o power_n of_o it_o let_v it_o rule_v and_o by_o the_o seat_n of_o it_o in_o your_o heart_n to_o which_o he_o exhort_v by_o two_o reason_n 1._o from_o their_o vocation_n to_o which_o you_o be_v call_v 2._o from_o their_o mutual_a relation_n as_o member_n of_o one_o body_n v._o 15._o 15._o verse_n 15._o the_o three_o be_v thankfulness_n or_o amiableness_n v._o 15._o thus_o of_o the_o matter_n of_o holiness_n the_o mean_n follow_v which_o be_v the_o word_n the_o exhortation_n to_o the_o use_n of_o the_o word_n 1._o concern_v the_o word_n in_o general_n 2._o the_o psalm_n in_o special_a for_o the_o first_o he_o propound_v three_o thing_n 1._o the_o author_n of_o it_o the_o word_n of_o christ_n 2._o the_o manner_n of_o entertain_v the_o word_n let_v it_o dwell_v in_o you_o plenteous_o in_o all_o wisdom_n 3._o the_o end_n or_o use_v it_o shall_v be_v put_v to_o viz._n to_o teach_v in_o what_o we_o know_v not_o and_o to_o admonish_v in_o what_o we_o do_v not_o the_o second_o part_n concern_v the_o psalm_n in_o particular_a where_o he_o set_v down_o the_o sort_n psalm_n hymn_n and_o spiritual_a song_n and_o the_o right_a manner_n of_o sing_v of_o psalm_n sing_v with_o grace_n in_o your_o heart_n to_o the_o lord_n thus_o of_o the_o mean_n of_o holiness_n v._o 16._o 16._o verse_n 16._o the_o three_o thing_n be_v the_o end_n which_o be_v consider_v two_o way_n first_o 17._o verse_n 17._o as_o the_o end_n of_o intention_n that_o we_o aim_v at_o and_o so_o he_o exhort_v to_o it_o in_o these_o word_n whatsoever_o you_o do_v in_o word_n or_o deed_n do_v all_o in_o the_o name_n of_o the_o lord_n jesus_n 2._o as_o the_o end_n of_o consummation_n that_o finish_v our_o work_n and_o so_o they_o must_v give_v thanks_n to_o god_n even_o the_o father_n by_o he_o and_o thus_o of_o the_o rule_n of_o holy_a life_n that_o concern_v all_o man_n as_o they_o be_v christian_n now_o follow_v particular_a rule_n fit_v for_o particular_a calling_n and_o that_o in_o the_o family_n in_o the_o family_n there_o be_v three_o couple_n wife_n and_o husband_n child_n and_o parent_n servant_n and_o master_n and_o to_o these_o he_o give_v rule_n distinct_o first_o the_o wife_n duty_n be_v lay_v down_o and_o enlarge_v lay_v down_o in_o these_o word_n wife_n be_v subject_a to_o your_o husband_n enlarge_v first_o by_o a_o reason_n it_o be_v comely_a 2._o a_o limitation_n in_o the_o lord_n v._o 18._o 18._o verse_n 18._o second_o the_o husband_n duty_n be_v propound_v 1._o by_o exhortation_n husband_n love_v your_o wife_n 2._o by_o dehortation_n be_v not_o bitter_a to_o they_o v._o 19_o 19_o verse_n 19_o three_o the_o duty_n of_o child_n be_v lay_v down_o in_o these_o word_n child_n obey_v your_o parent_n and_o amplify_v 1._o by_o the_o extent_n in_o all_o thing_n 2._o by_o reason_n for_o this_o be_v well_o please_v to_o the_o lord_n v._o 20._o 20._o verse_n 20._o four_o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n be_v express_v by_o dehortation_n 21._o verse_n 21._o in_o these_o word_n parent_n provoke_v not_o your_o child_n to_o anger_n and_o confirm_v by_o a_o reason_n take_v from_o the_o ill_a effect_n lest_o they_o be_v discourage_v five_o in_o set_v down_o the_o duty_n of_o servant_n there_o be_v first_o the_o exhortation_n v._o 22.23_o the_o reason_n v._o 24.25_o 22.23.24.25_o verse_n 22.23.24.25_o the_o exhortation_n be_v both_o brief_o lay_v down_o in_o these_o word_n servant_n be_v obedient_a to_o they_o that_o be_v your_o master_n and_o explicate_v 1._o by_o proviso_n about_o their_o obedience_n 2._o the_o manner_n how_o they_o must_v obey_v the_o proviso_n be_v two_o one_o restrain_v master_n they_o be_v their_o servant_n but_o according_a to_o the_o flesh_n the_o other_o extend_v the_o duty_n of_o servant_n they_o must_v obey_v in_o all_o thing_n the_o manner_n how_o they_o must_v obey_v be_v set_v down_o first_o negative_o not_o with_o eyeservice_n not_o as_o men-pleasers_a second_o affirmative_o and_o so_o they_o must_v obey_v 1._o with_o singleness_n of_o heart_n 2._o with_o fear_n of_o god_n 3._o hearty_o as_o to_o the_o lord_n the_o reason_n be_v two_o first_o from_o the_o certain_a hope_n of_o reward_n from_o god_n v._o 24._o second_o from_o the_o certain_a vengeance_n of_o god_n upon_o they_o that_o do_v wrong_a the_o metaphrase_n upon_o the_o three_o chapter_n god._n verse_n i._o if_o you_o then_o be_v rise_v with_o christ_n seek_v those_o thing_n that_o be_v above_o where_o christ_n sit_v at_o the_o right_a hand_n of_o god._n hitherto_o you_o have_v be_v teach_v exhort_v and_o dehort_v in_o matter_n that_o concern_v faith_n and_o opinion_n now_o it_o follow_v that_o i_o shall_v stir_v you_o in_o such_o thing_n as_o concern_v your_o carriage_n both_o general_a as_o you_o be_v christian_n and_o particular_a as_o you_o be_v of_o several_a condition_n of_o life_n and_o the_o first_o thing_n you_o shall_v be_v careful_a of_o in_o the_o right_a order_n of_o your_o life_n be_v to_o raise_v up_o your_o thought_n and_o affection_n to_o the_o study_n and_o contemplation_n of_o heavenly_a thing_n for_o hereby_o you_o do_v effectual_o prove_v that_o you_o be_v rise_v up_o in_o the_o first_o resurrection_n with_o jesus_n christ_n and_o heavenly_a thing_n be_v above_o and_o therefore_o for_o their_o worthiness_n fit_v your_o contemplation_n and_o for_o their_o difficulty_n they_o can_v be_v reach_v without_o seek_v and_o diligent_a study_n and_o inquiry_n beside_o be_v not_o christ_n above_o your_o head_n and_o saviour_n and_o where_o shall_v your_o heart_n be_v but_o where_o your_o treasure_n be_v yea_o where_o crist_n be_v there_o in_o singular_a glory_n advance_v above_o all_o man_n and_o angel_n next_o in_o glory_n and_o power_n to_o god_n himself_o o_o then_o how_o shall_v your_o mind_n run_v upon_o he_o and_o to_o contemplate_v of_o these_o thing_n be_v to_o ascend_v after_o he_o earth_n verse_n 2._o set_a your_o affection_n on_o thing_n which_o be_v above_o and_o not_o on_o thing_n w_z ch_o be_v on_o the_o earth_n and_o when_o i_o exhort_v you_o to_o seek_v the_o thing_n that_o be_v above_o my_o meaning_n be_v that_o you_o shall_v study_v about_o they_o and_o with_o all_o wisdom_n raise_v up_o not_o your_o thought_n only_o but_o your_o affection_n also_o to_o the_o love_n of_o heavenly_a thing_n and_o this_o you_o can_v do_v unless_o you_o withdraw_v your_o affection_n from_o thing_n on_o earth_n whether_o they_o be_v tradition_n or_o worldly_a thing_n or_o the_o work_n of_o the_o flesh_n god._n verse_n 3._o for_o you_o be_v dead_a &_o your_o life_n be_v hide_v with_o christ_n in_o god._n now_o there_o be_v excellent_a reason_n by_o which_o i_o may_v brief_o stir_v you_o up_o hereunto_o both_o from_o the_o consideration_n of_o your_o present_a estate_n in_o this_o world_n and_o from_o the_o meditation_n of_o your_o future_a condition_n in_o the_o day_n of_o christ_n
3._o it_o be_v as_o easy_a to_o revive_v a_o dead_a man_n as_o persuade_v a_o carnal_a man_n fol._n 4_o eight_o sort_n of_o thing_n that_o be_v above_o fol._n 4_o a_o fourfold_a presence_n of_o christ_n fol._n 6_o of_o christ_n sit_v at_o the_o right_a hand_n of_o the_o father_n fol._n 6_o three_o benefit_n come_v by_o tender_a affection_n fol._n 8_o three_o sort_n of_o thing_n call_v thing_n on_o earth_n fol._n 8_o eight_o reason_n in_o general_a to_o dissuade_v from_o affect_v earthly_a thing_n fol._n 9_o salomon_n reason_n against_o the_o love_n of_o earthly_a thing_n fol._n 10._o 11_o christ_n reason_n fol._n 12_o the_o faithful_a be_v dead_a three_o way_n fol._n 13_o the_o life_n of_o christian_n be_v hide_v in_o diverse_a respect_n fol._n 14_o who_o may_v say_v christ_n be_v their_o life_n fol._n 16_o of_o the_o appear_a of_o christ_n fol._n 16_o six_o appearing_n of_o christ._n fol._n 16_o threefold_a judgement_n fol._n 16_o who_o shall_v judge_v who_o shall_v be_v judge_v where_o the_o judgement_n shall_v be_v and_o when_o fol._n 17_o the_o sign_n of_o the_o second_o come_v of_o christ_n fol._n 18_o the_o form_n of_o the_o last_o judgement_n the_o preparation_n of_o the_o judge_n the_o citation_n resurrection_n collection_n and_o separation_n of_o the_o judge_v the_o law_n and_o evidence_n by_o which_o man_n shall_v be_v judge_v and_o the_o sentence_n and_o the_o five_o consequent_n of_o the_o judgement_n with_o the_o use_n fol._n 19_o to_o 22_o what_o we_o must_v do_v that_o we_o may_v be_v assure_v of_o the_o glory_n of_o heaven_n fol._n 26_o how_o long_o we_o must_v continue_v our_o sorrow_n in_o mortification_n fol._n 29_o why_o sin_n be_v call_v member_n fol._n 30_o reason_n against_o whoredom_n fol._n 31_o seven_o kind_n of_o uncleanness_n beside_o whoredom_n fol._n 33_o remedy_n against_o uncleanness_n fol._n 34_o the_o cause_n and_o occasion_n of_o lust_n fol._n 35_o what_o covetousness_n be_v and_o the_o effect_n of_o it_o 36._o 37._o the_o sign_n of_o it_o 38._o remedy_n against_o it_o fol._n 39_o god_n wrath_n upon_o unclean_a person_n fol._n 41_o justice_n in_o god_n consider_v four_o way_n fol._n 42_o the_o fearfulness_n of_o god_n wrath_n set_v out_o fol._n 43_o the_o sign_n of_o god_n wrath_n the_o mean_n to_o pacify_v god_n anger_n and_o how_o we_o may_v know_v that_o god_n be_v pacify_v fol._n 44._o 45._o 46_o the_o mark_n of_o a_o child_n of_o disobedience_n fol._n 47_o difference_n between_o god_n anger_n towards_o the_o godly_a and_o the_o wicked_a fol._n 48_o the_o profit_n of_o remember_v our_o natural_a misery_n fol._n 49_o a_o fourfold_a life_n fol._n 51_o how_o we_o may_v know_v when_o sin_n be_v alive_a and_o when_o it_o be_v dead_a fol._n 51_o a_o man_n never_o true_o repent_v till_o he_o endeavour_n to_o be_v rid_v of_o all_o sin_n and_o motive_n fol._n 53_o anger_n indifferent_a laudable_a vicious_a 54._o degree_n of_o vicious_a anger_n reason_n and_o remedy_n against_o it_o fol._n 55._o 56_o malice_n and_o the_o degree_n and_o kind_n of_o it_o 57_o reason_n and_o remedy_n against_o it_o fol._n 57_o 58_o of_o blasphemy_n the_o kind_n of_o it_o and_o reason_n against_o it_o fol._n 59_o 60_o against_o filthy_a speak_n fol._n 61_o of_o lie_v reason_n against_o it_o and_o question_n answer_v fol._n 61._o 62_o what_o the_o old_a man_n signify_v and_o why_o corruption_n be_v call_v the_o man_n and_o why_o the_o old_a man_n 63._o 64._o and_o what_o the_o work_n of_o the_o old_a man_n be_v the_o old_a man_n be_v put_v off_o six_o way_n fol._n 64_o the_o necessity_n of_o the_o new_a birth_n fol._n 66_o of_o the_o renovation_n of_o the_o creature_n in_o four_o thing_n and_o of_o the_o obedience_n in_o three_o thing_n fol._n 66_o rule_n for_o attain_v of_o true_a knowledge_n fol._n 67_o of_o the_o image_n of_o god_n in_o christ_n in_o the_o angel_n and_o in_o man_n 68_o with_o their_o difference_n at_o large_a fol._n 68_o 69_o how_o christ_n be_v all_o in_o all_o and_o the_o comfort_n of_o it_o fol._n 72._o 73_o the_o kind_n and_o sign_n of_o election_n fol._n 74_o how_o many_o way_n the_o elect_a be_v holy_a fol._n 75_o five_o property_n of_o god_n love_n fol._n 76_o the_o kind_n of_o mercy_n fol._n 77_o motive_n to_o mercy_n rule_v how_o to_o show_v mercy_n fol._n 78_o true_a christian_a courtesy_n fol._n 79_o what_o humbleness_n of_o mind_n be_v negative_o and_o affirmative_o fol._n 80_o motive_n to_o humbleness_n of_o mind_n and_o of_o diverse_a sort_n of_o pride_n fol._n 80._o 81_o of_o christian_a meekness_n fol._n 81_o of_o long-suffering_a fol._n 81._o 82_o of_o forbearance_n the_o kind_n and_o motive_n and_o rule_n for_o the_o practice_n of_o it_o fol._n 82._o 83_o of_o forgive_a diverse_a question_n fol._n 84_o to_o forgive_v as_o christ_n forgive_v have_v five_o thing_n in_o it_o fol._n 85_o how_o love_n be_v above_o all_o virtue_n fol._n 85_o the_o sort_n and_o sign_n of_o love_n fol._n 86_o love_n be_v the_o bond_n of_o perfection_n three_o way_n fol._n 87_o of_o peace_n it_o be_v threefold_a fol._n 87_o how_o it_o be_v of_o god_n and_o when_o it_o rule_v and_o what_o we_o must_v do_v to_o get_v it_o fol._n 88_o what_o be_v require_v in_o perform_v thankfulness_n to_o man_n and_o what_o in_o receive_v it_o fol._n 90_o the_o scripture_n be_v the_o word_n of_o christ_n in_o four_o respect_n fol._n 92_o man_n sin_n against_o the_o word_n six_o way_n fol._n 92_o woman_n must_v seek_v knowledge_n as_o well_o as_o man_n fol._n 94_o the_o use_n of_o scripture_n in_o our_o house_n fol._n 94_o of_o the_o wise_a use_n of_o the_o word_n fol._n 95_o what_o we_o must_v do_v that_o the_o word_n may_v dwell_v plenteous_o in_o we_o and_o how_o we_o may_v know_v it_o do_v fol._n 98_o who_o may_v admonish_v or_o be_v admonish_v 99_o rule_v to_o be_v observe_v in_o admonition_n fol._n 100_o what_o mean_v by_o psalm_n hymn_n and_o spiritual_a song_n and_o rule_v in_o sing_v of_o psalm_n fol._n 101_o unto_o the_o goodness_n of_o the_o action_n the_o goodness_n of_o the_o end_n be_v require_v fol._n 102_o thing_n be_v do_v in_o the_o name_n of_o christ_n four_o way_n fol._n 103_o six_o reason_n why_o god_n child_n shall_v be_v more_o careful_a of_o their_o word_n and_o deed_n than_o other_o fol._n 104_o of_o give_v thanks_o to_o god_n fol._n 105_o of_o the_o government_n of_o a_o family_n the_o authority_n antiquity_n and_o utility_n of_o it_o fol._n 107._o 108_o four_o thing_n in_o a_o holy_a live_n together_o in_o a_o family_n fol._n 108_o six_o thing_n in_o household_n piety_n fol._n 108_o five_o thing_n require_v in_o the_o labour_n of_o a_o family_n fol._n 109_o the_o duty_n of_o wife_n fol._n 110._o 111._o 112._o 113_o why_o subjection_n be_v rather_o name_v in_o the_o wife_n duty_n fol._n 111_o five_o thing_n in_o the_o wife_n subjection_n fol._n 111_o six_o way_n wife_n must_v honour_v their_o husband_n fol._n 111_o four_o way_n wife_n shame_v their_o husband_n fol._n 112_o five_o way_n wife_n show_v faithfulness_n fol._n 112_o six_o way_n wife_n show_v fear_n fol._n 112_o six_o rule_n for_o wife_n work_n fol._n 112._o 113_o what_o wife_n be_v not_o bind_v to_o fol._n 113_o what_o they_o must_v do_v that_o they_o may_v perform_v subjection_n fol._n 113_o the_o wife_n comeliness_n in_o three_o thing_n fol._n 114_o husband_n show_v their_o love_n four_o way_n fol._n 116_o six_o way_n husband_n honour_v their_o wife_n fol._n 116_o seven_o reason_n why_o man_n must_v love_v their_o wife_n fol._n 117_o husband_n objection_n answer_v fol._n 117_o cause_n why_o man_n love_v not_o their_o wife_n fol._n 117_o of_o bitter_a husband_n fol._n 118_o four_o rule_n for_o cure_v this_o bitterness_n fol._n 118_o the_o duty_n of_o child_n fol._n 121_o child_n objection_n answer_v fol._n 122_o reason_n of_o their_o obedience_n fol._n 123_o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n fol._n 124._o 125_o how_o parent_n provoke_v their_o child_n fol._n 126_o servant_n duty_n fol._n 128._o 129._o 130._o etc._n etc._n five_o fault_n in_o servant_n fol._n 128_o four_o thing_n in_o the_o manner_n of_o servant_n obedience_n fol._n 129_o six_o way_n to_o know_v singleness_n of_o heart_n fol._n 132_o twelve_o sign_n of_o a_o single_a heart_a man_n fol._n 133_o eight_o sign_n of_o a_o single_a heart_a servant_n fol._n 133_o of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n in_o servant_n fol._n 134_o what_o master_n must_v do_v to_o get_v the_o fear_n of_o god_n into_o their_o servant_n fol._n 134_o eight_o objection_n of_o servant_n answer_v fol._n 135_o chapter_n iii_o verse_n i._n if_o you_o then_o be_v rise_v with_o christ_n seek_v those_o thing_n that_o be_v above_o where_o christ_n sit_v at_o the_o right_a hand_n of_o god_n hitherto_o of_o
three_o what_o be_v not_o forbid_v in_o these_o word_n parent_n provoke_v their_o child_n first_o by_o word_n second_o by_o deed_n 1._o by_o word_n three_o way_n first_o deed_n how_o parent_n provoke_v their_o child_n both_o by_o word_n and_o deed_n by_o burdened_a they_o with_o unjust_a and_o unmeet_a precept_n second_o by_o pursue_v they_o with_o contumelious_a word_n especial_o when_o they_o be_v always_o chide_v and_o rate_v of_o they_o three_o by_o disgrace_v of_o they_o to_o other_o before_o their_o face_n or_o behind_o their_o back_n 2._o by_o deed_n five_o way_n first_o by_o careless_a education_n for_o though_o child_n find_v not_o fault_n with_o this_o at_o first_o yet_o when_o they_o come_v to_o be_v of_o year_n and_o find_v their_o own_o unfitnesse_n for_o call_v or_o society_n etc._n etc._n then_o they_o fret_v against_o their_o parent_n neglect_v second_o by_o discourtesy_n and_o unkind_a usage_n of_o they_o when_o they_o be_v grow_v to_o be_v of_o year_n three_o by_o unjust_a deal_n about_o their_o marriage_n when_o either_o they_o restrain_v they_o of_o marriage_n when_o they_o have_v a_o call_n to_o it_o and_o a_o like_n of_o meet_a person_n and_o thus_o they_o provoke_v they_o to_o incontinency_n or_o when_o they_o compel_v they_o to_o marry_v when_o they_o have_v no_o calling_n nor_o like_n and_o thus_o they_o provoke_v they_o to_o discontent_n four_o by_o indiscreet_a and_o immoderate_a passion_n and_o severity_n in_o correct_v they_o five_o by_o unjust_a restraint_n either_o of_o present_a necessary_n of_o food_n and_o raiment_n math._n 7.9.10_o 1_o tim._n 5.8_o prou._n 13.22_o or_o in_o not_o say_v up_o for_o they_o 1_o cor._n 12.14_o second_o that_o parent_n may_v not_o provoke_v their_o child_n 1._o they_o must_v begin_v betimes_o to_o teach_v they_o their_o duty_n for_o ignorance_n be_v wayward_a 2._o they_o must_v sow_v the_o seed_n of_o piety_n and_o godliness_n in_o their_o heart_n as_o they_o draw_v out_o reason_n by_o degree_n so_o there_o be_v a_o conscience_n even_o in_o child_n as_o well_o as_o reason_n if_o it_o be_v inform_v and_o conscience_n will_v make_v they_o not_o only_o religious_a to_o god_n but_o dutiful_a to_o parent_n 3._o they_o must_v not_o give_v their_o child_n too_o much_o liberty_n at_o the_o first_o for_o if_o they_o do_v then_o will_v just_a restraint_n afterward_o be_v provocation_n 4._o they_o must_v pray_v for_o they_o to_o god_n many_o pray_v for_o child_n and_o so_o for_o their_o be_v that_o afterward_o never_o pray_v to_o god_n to_o guide_v their_o heart_n and_o so_o for_o their_o well_o be_v 5._o they_o must_v in_o general_n strive_v to_o teach_v or_o guide_v they_o by_o encouragement_n and_o allurement_n correction_n be_v not_o as_o diet_v but_o as_o physic_n and_o thus_o recreation_n be_v not_o to_o be_v deny_v they_o zach._n 8.5.6_o if_o nothing_o else_o will_v restrain_v passion_n in_o child_n they_o must_v impose_v silence_n upon_o they_o he_o that_o impose_v silence_n on_o a_o fool_n mittigate_v anger_n prou._n v._n 26._o 3._o this_o dehortation_n hinder_v not_o but_o that_o parent_n may_v 1._o rebuke_v their_o child_n 2._o correct_v they_o prou._n 13.24_o and_o 22.15.17_o and_o 29.15.17_o and_o 23.13_o and_o 25.14_o and_o 19.18.19_o thus_o of_o the_o duty_n child_n viz._n all_o child_n son_n and_o daughter_n in_o law_n as_o well_o as_o natural_a child_n and_o these_o be_v provoke_v 1._o by_o groundless_a jealousy_n and_o suspicion_n testify_v by_o secret_a listen_v question_v and_o inquire_v envious_o after_o every_o thing_n they_o do_v or_o say_v 2._o by_o suffer_v servant_n to_o vex_v or_o molest_v they_o 3._o by_o evil_a report_n of_o they_o 4._o by_o give_v evil_a counsel_n or_o report_v of_o fault_n to_o the_o son_n against_o his_o wife_n or_o to_o the_o daughter_n against_o her_o husband_n to_o make_v debate_n be_v ill_a in_o any_o but_o much_o worse_a in_o parent_n this_o of_o the_o party_n to_o who_o they_o owe_v this_o duty_n lest_o they_o be_v discourage_v the_o reason_n follow_v there_o be_v many_o reason_n why_o parent_n shall_v be_v careful_a by_o all_o mean_n to_o keep_v anger_n out_o of_o their_o child_n child_n 7._o reason_n to_o prevent_v anger_n in_o child_n 1._o wise_a man_n and_o godly_a man_n can_v scarce_o govern_v this_o affection_n without_o sin_v psalm_n 4._o much_o less_o child_n 2._o anger_n be_v a_o great_a provoker_n of_o god_n anger_n it_o breed_v a_o guiltiness_n of_o god_n anger_n math._n 6.3_o it_o let_v in_o the_o devil_n eph._n 4.26_o and_o usual_o satan_n in_o the_o time_n of_o these_o passion_n sow_n the_o most_o hellish_a seed_n and_o stir_n most_o impious_a thought_n in_o they_o 4._o it_o may_v bring_v they_o into_o great_a mischief_n in_o time_n proverb_n 28.18_o 5._o it_o be_v a_o great_a let_v to_o sound_v instruction_n and_o knowledge_n eccles_n 7.11_o proverb_n 14.29_o 6._o the_o angry_a person_n be_v usual_o suspicious_a and_o so_o unfit_a for_o society_n with_o man_n prou._n 1.22.24_o yea_o it_o be_v a_o great_a hindrance_n both_o to_o the_o profit_n of_o the_o word_n jam._n 1.21_o and_o the_o power_n and_o success_n of_o prayer_n 1_o tim._n 2.8_o 7._o some_o time_n this_o rage_n in_o young_a person_n be_v not_o to_o be_v cool_v but_o with_o blood_n as_o in_o caine._n but_o to_o omit_v the_o reason_n here_o parent_n must_v not_o provoke_v their_o child_n lest_o they_o be_v discourage_v concern_v discouragement_n in_o general_a we_o must_v know_v that_o it_o be_v a_o great_a sin_n to_o discourage_v other_o and_o a_o great_a hurt_n to_o be_v discourage_v the_o people_n must_v not_o discourage_v their_o teacher_n heb._n 13.17_o those_o that_o be_v in_o authority_n must_v not_o discourage_v such_o as_o be_v faithful_a and_o desirous_a to_o approve_v their_o fear_n of_o god_n and_o to_o discharge_v their_o duty_n governor_n in_o the_o family_n must_v not_o discourage_v servant_n or_o child_n in_o their_o good_a beginning_n and_o desire_n after_o good_a thing_n 5.14_o 1_o thes_n 5.14_o again_o this_o be_v a_o christian_a mercy_n &_o compassion_n to_o comfort_v and_o encourage_v the_o feeble_a and_o last_o god_n faint_a child_n shall_v be_v admonish_v to_o be_v of_o good_a comfort_n and_o to_o strengthen_v their_o weary_a knee_n 2_o cor._n 13.11_o esay_n 36.3.4_o concern_v the_o discouragement_n of_o child_n christian_a parent_n shall_v be_v careful_a for_o they_o may_v be_v discourage_v 1._o from_o the_o service_n of_o god_n when_o they_o shall_v see_v carnal_a man_n use_v their_o child_n better_a than_o they_o that_o make_v such_o a_o profession_n of_o piety_n 2._o from_o the_o capacity_n and_o desire_n after_o the_o undertake_n of_o the_o knowledge_n or_o exercise_n of_o great_a thing_n discouragement_n break_v their_o spirit_n and_o make_v they_o pusillanimous_a 3._o from_o the_o hope_n to_o please_v and_o so_o from_o the_o confidence_n of_o the_o parent_n love_n and_o then_o at_o length_n from_o the_o very_a mean_n of_o please_a either_o by_o honour_n or_o obedience_n this_o of_o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n and_o child_n the_o three_o couple_n in_o the_o family_n be_v servant_n and_o master_n the_o duty_n of_o servant_n be_v set_v down_o verse_n 22.23.24.25_o ver_fw-la 22._o servant_n be_v obedient_a to_o they_o that_o be_v your_o master_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n in_o all_o thing_n in_o all_o the_o word_n that_o concern_v the_o duty_n of_o servant_n i_o observe_v 1._o a_o exhortation_n vers_fw-la 22.23_o 2._o reason_n vers_n 24.25_o the_o exhortation_n be_v two_o way_n to_o be_v consider_v first_o as_o it_o be_v brief_o set_v down_o here_o be_v first_o the_o party_n exhort_v servant_n second_o the_o duty_n wherewith_o they_o be_v charge_v be_v obedient_a three_o the_o person_n to_o who_o to_o your_o master_n 2._o second_o as_o it_o be_v explicate_v in_o the_o explication_n i_o consider_v 1._o the_o proviso_n about_o their_o obedience_n 2._o the_o form_n or_o manner_n how_o they_o must_v obey_v the_o proviso_n be_v either_o for_o limitation_n to_o curb_v master_n they_o be_v to_o obey_v according_a to_o the_o flesh_n the_o soul_n and_o conscience_n be_v not_o in_o bondage_n to_o man_n or_o for_o extent_n to_o servant_n they_o must_v obey_v in_o all_o thing_n the_o manner_n how_o they_o must_v obey_v be_v set_v down_o 1._o negative_o not_o with_o eye_n service_n 2._o not_o as_o man_n pleaser_n 2._o affirmative_o with_o singleness_n of_o hart_n 2._o with_o fear_n of_o god_n 3_o hearty_o as_o to_o the_o lord_n the_o reason_n be_v 1._o from_o hope_n of_o reward_n &_o wage_n from_o god_n v._o 24._o 2._o from_o the_o certain_a vengeance_n of_o god_n upon_o they_o that_o do_v wrong_n v._o 25._o this_o be_v the_o order_n of_o the_o word_n from_o the_o general_a consideration_n of_o all_o the_o word_n i_o observe_v 5._o thing_n 1._o that_o
god_n upon_o she_o thus_o of_o what_o be_v require_v love_n viz_o indefinite_o first_o in_o heart_n as_o well_o as_o in_o word_n mal._n 2.15_o second_o not_o before_o other_o only_o but_o private_o three_o not_o sometime_o or_o the_o first_o week_n month_n or_o year_n but_o for_o ever_o constant_o four_o for_o conscience_n sake_n and_o not_o for_o shame_n or_o respect_n of_o her_o friend_n or_o while_o her_o mean_n do_v last_o your_o wife_n this_o be_v add_v first_o to_o exclude_v all_o other_o all_z other_o i_o say_v not_o from_o christian_a love_n in_o the_o general_a but_o from_o conjugal_a love_n second_o to_o include_v all_o wife_n though_o poor_a less_o wise_a or_o frugal_a froward_a etc._n etc._n thus_o of_o the_o exhortation_n the_o dehortation_n follow_v be_v not_o bitter_a unto_o they_o in_o these_o word_n the_o apostle_n do_v mollify_v the_o authority_n of_o the_o husband_n and_o provide_v that_o it_o pass_v not_o into_o tyranny_n here_o i_o consider_v four_o thing_n first_o what_o it_o have_v not_o in_o it_o second_o how_o man_n show_v themselves_o bitter_a to_o their_o wife_n three_o the_o mean_n to_o cure_v this_o bitterness_n four_o the_o reason_n to_o move_v thereunto_o for_o the_o first_o this_o exhortation_n to_o love_n and_o dehortation_n from_o bitterness_n do_v not_o bind_v they_o 1._o to_o love_v their_o vice_n they_o may_v know_v they_o to_o be_v the_o weak_a vessel_n yea_o take_v notice_n of_o the_o weakness_n of_o the_o vessel_n 2._o to_o lose_v his_o own_o authority_n by_o lightness_n and_o vain_a behaviour_n 3._o to_o omit_v the_o performance_n of_o holy_a duty_n to_o please_v her_o humour_n 4._o to_o give_v she_o a_o licence_n to_o do_v what_o she_o listen_v and_o live_v how_o she_o will_n 5._o from_o find_v fault_n and_o reprove_v so_o as_o they_o use_v not_o their_o own_o word_n but_o go_n last_o distinguish_v their_o nature_n wife_n of_o soft_a and_o gentle_a nature_n must_v be_v use_v with_o all_o gentleness_n but_o that_o let_v not_o but_o that_o wilful_a and_o stubborn_a wife_n may_v be_v hold_v down_o to_o a_o meet_a subjection_n man_n show_v their_o bitterness_n first_o by_o word_n and_o that_o diverse_o when_o they_o reproach_n they_o for_o their_o infirmites_n husband_n of_o bitter_a husband_n or_o deformity_n or_o when_o they_o grow_v quarrellous_a find_v fault_n with_o every_o thing_n or_o grow_v into_o passion_n upon_o every_o occasion_n second_o in_o deed_n by_o use_v they_o discourteous_o or_o by_o unjust_a restraint_n or_o last_o by_o blow_n many_o man_n have_v little_a grow_v in_o their_o furrow_n but_o wormwood_n they_o have_v a_o true_a gall_n of_o bitterness_n in_o they_o they_o may_v be_v compare_v to_o the_o star_n in_o the_o revelation_n 8.11_o for_o as_o that_o make_v the_o three_o part_n of_o the_o water_n bitter_a so_o be_v more_o than_o three_o part_n of_o the_o word_n of_o many_o husband_n bitter_a word_n yea_o as_o if_o their_o natural_a forwardness_n be_v not_o enough_o some_o man_n will_v sharpen_v and_o whet_v their_o tongue_n to_o sound_v out_o curse_a word_n like_o sword_n or_o arrow_n yea_o some_o be_v so_o unappeasable_a their_o anger_n be_v like_o the_o fool_n wrath_n prou._n 27.3_o these_o be_v a_o brood_n of_o chaldaean_n a_o bitter_a a_o furious_a nation_n for_o the_o cure_n of_o this_o bitterness_n four_o rule_n be_v to_o be_v observe_v 1._o man_n must_v pray_v god_n to_o cast_v something_o into_o their_o fountain_n to_o sweeten_v it_o man_n four_o rule_n for_o cure_v of_o this_o bitterness_n in_o man_n 2._o they_o must_v turn_v the_o course_n of_o this_o humour_n and_o spend_v it_o upon_o their_o sin_n in_o the_o practice_n of_o the_o duty_n of_o mortification_n 3._o eat_v god_n book_n for_o that_o will_v enable_v man_n to_o godly_a sorrow_n by_o be_v bitter_a in_o their_o belly_n and_o will_v sweeten_v their_o mouth_n 4._o look_v to_o the_o root_n of_o bitterness_n stay_v the_o spring_n of_o it_o in_o the_o beginning_n take_v heed_n of_o a_o custom_n in_o frowardness_n for_o then_o only_a custom_n in_o the_o use_n of_o the_o mean_n will_v cure_v thou_o again_o it_o will_v cost_v they_o daily_a sorrow_n before_o they_o can_v get_v their_o nature_n thorough_o heal_v last_o the_o reason_n follow_v why_o they_o must_v mortify_v bitterness_n bitterness_n reason_n against_o bitterness_n 1._o it_o be_v a_o wise_a man_n glory_n and_o discretion_n to_o pass_v by_o infirmity_n prou._n 19.10_o 2._o she_o be_v not_o his_o footstool_n but_o his_o helper_n 3._o see_v we_o be_v heir_n of_o blessing_n let_v we_o bless_v and_o not_o curse_v if_o god_n have_v sweeten_v our_o heart_n with_o grace_n let_v not_o our_o fountain_n send_v forth_o bitter_a water_n and_o sweet_a 4._o the_o apostle_n require_v that_o all_o bitterness_n be_v put_v away_o all_o for_o degree_n it_o be_v not_o enough_o we_o be_v not_o so_o bad_a as_o some_o be_v and_o in_o all_o person_n 5._o last_o it_o be_v a_o part_n of_o our_o good_a work_n and_o holy_a conversation_n to_o mortify_v bitterness_n and_o envy_n and_o strife_n hereby_o we_o must_v show_v that_o we_o have_v the_o wisdom_n that_o be_v from_o above_o for_o if_o our_o knowledge_n be_v right_a it_o will_v make_v we_o peaceable_a gentle_a and_o easy_a to_o be_v entreat_v on_o the_o other_o side_n if_o man_n sharpen_v their_o tongue_n to_o curse_a and_o bitter_a speak_n they_o may_v not_o boast_v of_o their_o knowledge_n for_o such_o wisdom_n be_v carnal_a sensual_a and_o devilish_a and_o they_o be_v liar_n against_o the_o word_n jam._n 3.13.17_o use_n be_v for_o instruction_n to_o all_o husband_n that_o fear_v god_n to_o approve_v themselves_o unto_o god_n in_o their_o sincere_a and_o love_a behaviour_n towards_o their_o wife_n especial_o they_o shall_v take_v notice_n of_o this_o vice_n of_o bitterness_n or_o if_o they_o have_v fail_v this_o way_n they_o shall_v recover_v themselves_o repent_v and_o amend_v and_o not_o be_v like_o those_o wretched_a person_n that_o draw_v iniquity_n with_o cord_n of_o vanity_n and_o call_v bitter_a sweet_a it_o be_v ill_a to_o fault_n this_o way_n but_o worse_a to_o excuse_v defend_v or_o deny_v it_o thus_o of_o the_o husband_n duty_n the_o next_o couple_n in_o the_o family_n be_v parent_n and_o child_n the_o duty_n of_o child_n be_v set_v down_o first_o because_o the_o inferior_n be_v charge_v first_o and_o chief_o to_o mend_v and_o perform_v their_o duty_n verse_n 20._o child_n obey_v your_o parent_n in_o all_o thing_n for_o this_o be_v well-pleasing_a to_o the_o lord_n the_o exhortation_n have_v in_o it_o two_o thing_n first_o their_o duty_n second_o the_o reason_n of_o it_o their_o duty_n have_v in_o it_o four_o thing_n first_o who_o be_v charge_v child_n second_o what_o be_v charge_v upon_o they_o obey_v three_o to_o who_o they_o owe_v it_o your_o parent_n four_o the_o extent_n how_o far_o forth_o in_o all_o thing_n the_o reason_n be_v because_o though_o it_o be_v not_o grateful_a &_o please_a to_o the_o parent_n by_o reason_n of_o their_o waywardnesse_n yet_o it_o be_v well-pleasing_a to_o god_n child_n viz_o all_o child_n without_o difference_n of_o sex_n both_o son_n and_o daughter_n or_o of_o age_n not_o only_o infant_n but_o child_n grow_v and_o of_o ripe_a and_o full_a year_n of_o condition_n the_o child_n both_o of_o poor_a and_o rich_a obey_v the_o obedience_n of_o child_n must_v be_v consider_v more_o special_o at_o sometime_o and_o so_o they_o must_v obey_v general_o the_o obedience_n of_o child_n consider_v of_o more_o especial_o or_o more_o general_o 1._o in_o the_o choice_n of_o their_o calling_n 2._o in_o the_o election_n and_o dispose_n of_o their_o marriage_n it_o must_v be_v with_o consent_n of_o parent_n thus_o do_v isaac_n gen._n 24._o thus_o even_o ishmael_n gen._n 21.21_o thus_o jaakob_n gen._n 27.46_o &_o 28.9_o thus_o samson_n judg._n 14.2_o and_o this_o power_n have_v every_o father_n over_o his_o virgin_n 1_o cor._n 7.36_o 37._o more_o general_o here_o i_o consider_v first_o that_o they_o must_v 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to_o their_o rebuke_n pro._n 13.1_o second_o to_o their_o restraint_n in_o diet_n apparel_n recreation_n etc._n etc._n three_o to_o their_o correction_n five_o with_o piety_n pray_v for_o they_o for_o if_o they_o must_v do_v it_o for_o all_o man_n much_o more_o for_o they_o and_o if_o for_o all_o in_o authority_n then_o for_o parent_n 1_o tim._n 2.1_o six_o with_o all_o meekness_n of_o love_n show_v three_o way_n 1._o by_o obey_v without_o inquire_v discourse_v murmur_a or_o contend_v 2._o by_o bear_v their_o infirmity_n either_o of_o body_n age_n or_o mind_n obey_v though_o age_a disease_a crabbed_a etc._n etc._n 3._o obey_v without_o respect_n of_o profit_n some_o child_n be_v obsequious_a so_o long_o as_o any_o thing_n be_v to_o be_v have_v from_o their_o parent_n but_o when_o they_o have_v all_o they_o must_v have_v than_o their_o forwardness_n to_o please_v be_v neglect_v this_o be_v a_o base_a and_o mercenary_a obedience_n seventh_o with_o all_o thankfulness_n and_o gratitude_n a_o great_a part_n of_o which_o be_v to_o recompense_v their_o parent_n kindness_n by_o relieve_v their_o want_n if_o they_o fall_v into_o want_n 1_o tim._n 5.4_o your_o parent_n viz_o both_o your_o parent_n not_o your_o father_n only_o but_o your_o mother_n also_o levit._n 19.3_o prou._n 15.20_o in_o all_o thing_n quest_n but_o must_v they_o be_v obey_v in_o sin_n answ_n no_o you_o must_v so_o obey_v your_o earthly_a father_n as_o you_o disobey_v not_o your_o heavenly_a father_n therefore_o in_o the_o lord_n be_v add_v eph._n 6.1_o but_o else_o we_o must_v obey_v in_o all_o thing_n that_o be_v not_o apparent_a to_o be_v sinful_a though_o against_o our_o ease_n profit_n credit_n etc._n etc._n or_o more_o plain_o thus_o all_o thing_n be_v of_o three_o sort_n first_o some_o thing_n be_v simple_o good_a this_o must_v be_v do_v though_o the_o parent_n forbid_v because_o god_n command_v second_o some_o thing_n be_v simple_o evil_a these_o thing_n must_v not_o be_v do_v though_o parent_n command_v because_o god_n forbid_v three_o some_o thing_n be_v indifferent_a in_o these_o child_n must_v obey_v though_o their_o parent_n require_v thing_n never_o so_o unmeete_a for_o thing_n may_v be_v unmeete_a that_o be_v not_o unlawful_a thus_o of_o the_o doctrine_n of_o their_o obedience_n against_o this_o doctrine_n child_n object_v many_o thing_n answer_v child_n objection_n answer_v object_n i_o be_o now_o in_o better_a estate_n in_o high_a place_n of_o better_a gift_n or_o such_o like_a than_o my_o parent_n answ_n this_o be_v no_o reason_n to_o withhold_v obedience_n and_o reverence_n for_o joseph_n be_v a_o prince_n in_o egypt_n and_o jacob_n in_o great_a want_n solomon_n sit_v in_o his_o throne_n of_o majesty_n and_o yet_o when_o his_o mother_n come_v to_o he_o he_o yield_v all_o reverence_n the_o throne_n do_v not_o make_v she_o cease_v to_o be_v a_o mother_n yea_o our_o saviour_n christ_n infinite_o excel_v his_o parent_n and_o yet_o he_o be_v subject_a unto_o they_o luk._n 1.51_o object_n but_o our_o saviour_n say_v call_v not_o man_n father_n on_o earth_n mat._n 23.9_o answ_n the_o word_n be_v not_o to_o be_v understand_v simple_o but_o comparative_o and_o that_o either_o to_o god_n or_o to_o the_o pharisy_n call_v no_o man_n father_n as_o thou_o call_v god_n father_n but_o so_o give_v title_n to_o man_n as_o all_o honour_n and_o sacred_a estimation_n of_o god_n fatherly_a care_n be_v preserve_v and_o call_v no_o man_n father_n as_o the_o pharisy_n ambitious_o desire_v to_o be_v call_v give_v not_o trust_v and_o childlike_a honour_n to_o man_n of_o what_o profession_n soever_o that_o you_o shall_v only_o trust_v in_o they_o and_o by_o perform_v honour_n or_o obedience_n or_o recompense_v to_o they_o grow_v careless_a of_o the_o duty_n you_o owe_v to_o your_o own_o parent_n as_o the_o pharisy_n teach_v mat._n 15.5_o object_n but_o my_o parent_n require_v base_a thing_n and_o such_o as_o cast_v a_o kind_n of_o discredit_n upon_o i_o in_o the_o world_n answ_n consider_v not_o the_o thing_n require_v but_o god_n ordination_n beside_o god_n the_o father_n require_v of_o christ_n to_o bear_v the_o cross_n spit_v in_o the_o face_n etc._n etc._n yet_o he_o willing_o obey_v object_n but_o my_o parent_n be_v disorder_v person_n and_o foolish_a etc._n etc._n answ_n pray_v for_o they_o but_o despise_v they_o not_o beside_o god_n know_v what_o be_v good_a for_o thou_o and_o therefore_o have_v cause_v thou_o to_o come_v out_o of_o the_o loin_n of_o such_o parent_n and_o require_v subjection_n of_o thou_o object_n they_o be_v not_o my_o natural_a parent_n but_o my_o stepfather_n or_o stepmother_n answ_n yet_o they_o must_v be_v obey_v so_o ruth_n obey_v naomi_n and_o moses_n jethro_n exod._n 18.19_o object_n they_o be_v not_o parent_n at_o all_o but_o my_o kindred_n only_o as_o my_o uncle_n aunt_n etc._n etc._n with_o who_o i_o be_o leave_v in_o trust_n answ_n thou_o must_v be_v rule_v by_o they_o so_o be_v hester_n by_o mordecai_n use_v this_o condemn_v the_o doctrine_n and_o practice_n of_o papist_n that_o defend_v the_o vow_n of_o solitary_a and_o single_a life_n of_o child_n without_o consent_n of_o parent_n and_o it_o meet_v with_o the_o doctrine_n of_o the_o pharisy_n that_o will_v dispense_v with_o child_n relieve_v of_o their_o parent_n so_o they_o will_v bestow_v it_o upon_o they_o mat._n 15._o 2._o this_o may_v serve_v for_o reproof_n of_o stubborn_a and_o ungracious_a child_n that_o forsake_v their_o parent_n instruction_n prou._n 1.8_o but_o especial_o such_o monster_n as_o despise_v their_o parent_n when_o they_o be_v old_a or_o mock_v they_o or_o curse_v they_o or_o chase_v they_o or_o rob_v they_o etc._n etc._n the_o curse_a estate_n of_o such_o child_n be_v set_v down_o in_o these_o scripture_n prou._n 15.20_o and_o 19.26_o and_o 23.22_o and_o 20.20_o and_o 28.24_o and_o 30.11.17_o thus_o of_o the_o duty_n the_o reason_n follow_v there_o be_v many_o reason_n why_o they_o shall_v obey_v parent_n reasins_z why_o child_n shall_v obey_v their_o parent_n 1._o child_n have_v their_o substance_n from_o they_o even_o their_o life_n and_o their_o education_n their_o parent_n then_o take_v care_n of_o they_o when_o they_o have_v no_o rag_n to_o cover_v their_o nakedness_n nor_o morsel_n to_o put_v into_o their_o mouth_n and_o what_o can_v child_n render_v equivalent_a hereunto_o 2._o christ_n himself_o be_v obedient_a to_o his_o parent_n luk._n 2.51_o 3._o this_o be_v the_o purity_n and_o uprightness_n of_o child_n and_o hereby_o they_o must_v be_v try_v and_o try_v whether_o their_o work_n be_v pure_a pro._n 20.11_o 4._o the_o consideration_n of_o god_n judgement_n upon_o wicked_a child_n shall_v much_o move_v such_o as_o be_v cham_n esau_n absalon_n abimelech_n etc._n etc._n 5._o if_o thou_o obey_v not_o thy_o parent_n thou_o may_v live_v to_o be_v require_v by_o thy_o child_n 6._o in_o the_o six_o of_o ephes_n 1.2.3.4_o there_o be_v many_o reason_n why_o child_n shall_v obey_v first_o it_o be_v the_o lord_n that_o be_v their_o obedience_n be_v both_o command_v by_o god_n and_o it_o be_v for_o god_n and_o beside_o it_o be_v no_o further_o urge_v then_o as_o may_v stand_v with_o faith_n and_o piety_n to_o the_o lord_n second_o this_o be_v right_n it_o be_v child_n justice_n three_o this_o commandment_n that_o require_v this_o be_v the_o first_o commandment_n with_o promise_n for_o this_o have_v a_o promise_n in_o the_o very_a first_o promulgation_n of_o it_o in_o the_o table_n write_v by_o the_o finger_n of_o god_n whereas_o all_o the_o rest_n have_v their_o promise_n annex_v afterward_o by_o the_o ministry_n of_o moses_n object_n but_o the_o second_o commandment_n have_v promise_n in_o the_o first_o promulgation_n of_o the_o law_n answ_n some_o answer_n the_o word_n of_o the_o second_o commandment_n be_v a_o proposition_n not_o a_o promise_n but_o this_o answer_n satisfi_v not_o some_o say_v the_o promise_v mention_v in_o that_o commandment_n belong_v to_o the_o whole_a law_n and_o not_o to_o that_o commandment_n alone_o but_o i_o think_v the_o plain_a answer_n be_v the_o five_o commandment_n be_v the_o first_o commandment_n with_o promise_n viz._n in_o the_o second_o table_n a_o four_o reason_n be_v child_n must_v obey_v for_o so_o it_o shall_v go_v well_o with_o they_o they_o shall_v get_v good_a and_o contentment_n and_o god_n grace_n and_o blessing_n by_o so_o do_v five_o they_o shall_v live_v long_o on_o earth_n to_o enjoy_v the_o blessing_n of_o god_n object_n wicked_a child_n live_v long_o answ_n their_o life_n be_v a_o death_n and_o it_o be_v not_o well_o with_o they_o esay_n 65.20_o object_n god_n child_n do_v not_o live_v long_o answ_n for_o the_o most_o part_n they_o do_v 2._o i_o say_v if_o god_n perform_v not_o this_o promise_n absolute_o in_o the_o letter_n yet_o he_o perform_v
this_o blessing_n by_o commutation_n into_o a_o better_a as_o when_o he_o give_v they_o eternal_a life_n for_o long_a life_n but_o the_o reason_n why_o child_n shall_v obey_v be_v here_o mention_v in_o the_o text._n it_o be_v well_o please_v to_o the_o lord_n some_o leave_n out_o to_o the_o lord_n and_o so_o the_o argument_n be_v more_o general_a for_o obedience_n be_v exceed_o please_a to_o their_o parent_n prou._n 10.1_o and_o 15.20_o and_o 19.13_o and_o 13.16_o and_o beside_o it_o be_v please_v to_o god_n but_o i_o see_v no_o reason_n to_o leave_v out_o the_o word_n some_o render_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d in_o the_o lord_n and_o so_o here_o be_v first_o a_o limitation_n they_o must_v obey_v but_o in_o the_o lord_n second_o they_o must_v obey_v not_o because_o nature_n and_o civility_n require_v it_o but_o for_o conscience_n sake_n as_o god_n institution_n but_o i_o take_v it_o as_o it_o be_v here_o render_v to_o the_o lord_n well-pleasing_a to_o the_o lord_n from_o the_o 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not_o sacrifice_n yea_o here_o he_o will_v be_v serve_v with_o obedience_n to_o man_n three_o that_o even_o child_n be_v bind_v to_o make_v conscience_n of_o their_o way_n and_o to_o learn_v to_o please_v god_n in_o their_o youth_n first_o god_n require_v it_o eccles_n 12._o â—_o psal_n 148.12_o there_o be_v scripture_n for_o babe_n and_o young_a man_n as_o well_o as_o old_a man_n second_o there_o be_v worthy_a example_n to_o excite_v they_o record_v in_o scripture_n as_o the_o example_n of_o joseph_n samuel_n david_n josiah_n jeremie_n daniel_n and_o timothy_n yea_o this_o be_v a_o great_a praise_n in_o jeroboam_n young_a and_o die_a son_n 1_o king_n 14.3_o three_o a_o conscionable_a care_n in_o child_n to_o please_v god_n be_v much_o praise_v in_o scripture_n they_o be_v bless_v that_o bear_v the_o yoke_n in_o their_o youth_n and_o the_o workmanship_n of_o grace_n and_o obedience_n in_o the_o heart_n and_o life_n of_o child_n be_v like_o the_o grave_v of_o a_o king_n palace_n psal_n 144.12_o a_o happy_a thing_n when_o the_o young_a man_n see_v vision_n as_o well_o as_o old_a man_n dream_v dream_n joel._n 2._o then_o do_v the_o church_n flourish_v when_o the_o son_n marry_v the_o mother_n be_v 62.5_o use_v 1_o this_o shall_v teach_v parent_n to_o begin_v betimes_o to_o teach_v their_o child_n the_o trade_n of_o their_o way_n prou._n 22.6_o and_o to_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o the_o instruction_n and_o admonition_n of_o the_o lord_n ephes_n 6.4_o 2._o parent_n shall_v learn_v also_o to_o be_v content_a that_o their_o child_n serve_v and_o please_v god_n as_o well_o as_o they_o some_o parent_n be_v so_o bad_a that_o they_o neither_o will_v instruct_v their_o child_n themselves_o nor_o abide_v it_o that_o they_o shall_v hear_v sermon_n read_v the_o scripture_n seek_v the_o company_n of_o such_o as_o fear_v god_n or_o sanctify_v god_n sabbaoth_n 4._o this_o shall_v teach_v all_o to_o repent_v even_o for_o the_o sin_n of_o their_o youth_n psa_n 25._o for_o they_o be_v 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