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A17310 The anatomy of melancholy vvhat it is. VVith all the kindes, causes, symptomes, prognostickes, and seuerall cures of it. In three maine partitions with their seuerall sections, members, and subsections. Philosophically, medicinally, historically, opened and cut vp. By Democritus Iunior. With a satyricall preface, conducing to the following discourse. Burton, Robert, 1577-1640. 1621 (1621) STC 4159; ESTC S122275 978,571 899

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what we learne at Church is for the most part to bee practised at home Many have little occasion of practice abroad Sixtly because the comfort and contentment of mans life lieth much in this How are the lives of many men made uncomfortable by disordered servants wicked children idle froward vicious wives God gave the woman at the first as a speciall help to man to shew that at home the chief help of his life was to be had Use. The Use should be therefore to teach Christians in their severall places in the family to make conscience of their dealing both to know it and to doe it as ever they would have God to come to them and dwell with them Psal. 10.1 2. and as they desire to be no hypocrites in Religion for such as make no conscience of doing their duties in the family whether themselves wives servants or children are not sound Christians they are but hypocrites They are not compleat Christians that are not good at home aswell as abroad they walke not in a perfect way Psal. 101.2 And besides till domesticall disorders be redressed the family will never be established Pro. 14.3 Secondly it is to be noted that Inferiours in the family are either onely or first or with most words charged about their duties as here servants and not masters and servants and wives with many words and there may bee divers reasons assigned of it 1. To preserve order God hath subjected the Inferiours to the Superiours and the Superiour in a family is Gods Image the Lord is therefore carefull to preserve his authoritie The Superiours receive lawes from God but not from their Inferiours The Inferiours are to learne their dutie without prescribing lawes to their Superiours 2. Because the disorders of Inferiours are for the most part most dangerous to the troubling of the family because the businesses of the family are done by their hands the Superiour providing for the common good by common instruments If the Master of the family bee never so godly-wise yet oftentimes the family may be destroyed by wicked servants and vicious wives Pro. 14.1 3. Because faults in the Inferiours are most scandalous against Religion especially where the family is unequally yoked as if the Head of the family be an unbeleever and the Members beleevers disorder in the beleevers is most extremely scandalous 4. Because if the Head of the family be disord●ed the orderly behaviour of the Inferiours may bring him into order and win him both to Religion and good order at home A conversation with fear in wives may win their husbands as chap. 3.1 2. of this Epistle 5. Because God would hereby shew that the Inferiours must alwayes doe their duties before they looke after the duties of Superiours they must be first served 6. By this course the Apostles did labour to intice the Gentiles to Religion by letting them see how carefull they were to breed goodnesse and love in their wives servants and children and the Apostles did wisely in so doing because it is a greater gain to Religion to gaine one master than many servants because such a master may doe more good The Use should be therefore to interest the obligation upon the consciences of wives servants and children and even the more they see that God saith unto them the more they should be carefull of their duties and ever the more desirous they see the Lord to bee to have them live without offence the more abominable they should account it to dare to offend still and if they have not masters or husbands they should strive to be good themselves before they complaine of the fault of their Superiours and should thinke with themselves If I were a better wife or servant I should finde my husband or servant better to mee Thus in the generall The first thing then the Apostle gives in charge concerns servants from verse 18. to the end of this chapter where observe First the proposition enjoyning servants to bee subject to their masters verse 18. Secondly the exposition shewing both how they should be subject viz. with all feare and to what masters viz. not only to the good but to the froward verse 18. Thirdly the confirmation of it by three reasons viz. from the consideration 1. Of the acceptation of such subjection with God verse 19.20 2. Of their calling verse 21. 3. Of the example of Christ which is urged 1. For the use of servants verses 22.23 2. For the use of all Christians by digression verses 24.25 First then of the proposition where we are to consider first the persons charged Servants secondly the duty imposed be subject thirdly the persons to whom they owe it to your Masters Servants Two things are to be inquired into about servants First the originall of their est●●e and secondly the bond that ties them to this subjection There are servants of God servants of sinne servants of men It is the servants of men that are here meant Servants of men are not all of one sort neither For first such as apply themselves to satisfie the unreasonable humors of men are said to be servants of men and condemned 1. Cor. 7.23 Secondly such as make themselves beholding to other men through their pride are forc't many times to become their servants Thus the borrower is a servant to the lender Pro. 22.7 Thirdly such as imploy their estates or bodies for the honour or preservation of their superiours are said to bee servants thus subjects serve Princes 1. Sam. 8.17 Fourthly such as imploy their labours and spend themselves for the common good are said to be servants thus Ministers are the peoples servants 2. Cor. 4.5 1. Cor. 9.19 But none of these are here meant These servants are domesticall servants such as are under the yoke of particular Masters in a family Those servants in the Apostles time were of two sorts some were bond servants such as were bought and sold in the markets over whom the Masters had absolute and perpetuall power some were hired servants that did serve by covenant and contract as servants do now for the most part with us Concerning these it may be inquired how it comes to passe that men that by creation have the same nature with other men should in their condition be abased to so low and meane estate as to serve them that are in nature alike to them This seemes to be a grievous inequalitie and therefore first to be searched into for the originall and causes of it It is out of doubt that before the Fall if man had staied in his Innocency there had beene no servitude because all men had been made after the Image of God both for holinesse and glory and so had been on earth as the Saints shall be in Heaven The first cause then of subjection and servitude was the confusion and sin of our first parents brought upon the world the earth being cursed for mans sake A necessity of toylesome ●●bour lay upon men
servants in heaven but in Gods Kingdome they are as free as their Masters and therefore should not thinke much of a little hardnesse or harshnesse in this life Thus of the originall of servants Secondly we may hence note that servants are bound by God himselfe in his Word unto their subjection The Word of God doth belong to the calling of Servants as well as to any other calling God hath included them within the doctrine of Scripture as well as any other men partly to shew that they have right to the Scripture as well as others and partly to shew that the power of binding servants is from God And God hath taken it upon him by his Word to teach Servants as well as other men and that for two reasons The one is because Servants belong to the Kingdome of Christ and his Church as well as other Christians and therefore must be taught as well as they Secondly the other is because usually Masters are negligent in teaching them and therefore God provides that by his Word they shall bee taught Men have some care in teaching their children but little of their servants and therefore God to shew that he is no respecter of persons gives order to his Ministers to see them instructed The Use may be divers Uses First Masters must learne from hence their dutie For when they see that God takes care to teach their servants they should not be so proud or carelesse as to neglect their instruction Yea it shewes also that if they would have them taught or reproved or incouraged they must doe it with Gods Word and with their owne yea it also shewes the folly and wickednesse of divers Masters that cannot abide their servants should heare Sermons or much reade the Scriptures when they doe not only wickedly in restraining their servants from the meanes of their Salvation or comfort but do foolishly also hinder them of that meanes which should especially make them good servants Secondly Servants may hereby be instructed or informed and taught Informed that though neither Master nor Minister will teach them yet they are not excused because they are bound to learn from Gods Word their duties And taught from hence they must be to do their duties to their Masters not for fear or reward but for conscience sake because God hath bound them to his subjection Thirdly Ministers should learne and from hence be awakened to take notice of their charge both to catechize in speciall and to teach servants in generall as well as others their hearers If it be a part of the Commission of great Apostles to instruct servants as well as other Christians then what accounts can they give to God if it be found that they have had no care of instructing the servants of their parishes and charges Doct. 3. Thirdly the indefinite propounding of the word Servants shewes that all sorts of servants are equally bound to subjection hired servants are as strictly bound as bond-servants The servants of Princes are not free from the duty of servants more than other servants and ●o likewise poore mens servants must be subject and obedient to their Masters with as much reverence and fear as servants to great men Old servants are tied to as much duty as such as come new to serve Religious servants are bound to as much subjection and obedience as Pagans or rather their bond is the stronger because Religion should rather make them better servants And so there is no difference of sexes men servants are bound as well as women servants neither doth birth office gifts or meanes priviledge any servant from the strictnesse of the bond of subjection Be subject The duty then required of servants is subjection servants must be subject It is not enough to weare their masters Cloth and to hire themselves to their masters they must make conscience of it to performe constant and humble subjection to their masters And so they must be subject to their masters three wayes First to their commandements and so they must obey them and yeeld themselves to them to be ruled and directed by them in all things Eph. 6.5 Colos. 3.22 Secondly to their rebukes and corrections For if children need rebukes and corrections then doe servants also Pro. 13.1 and 15.5 Servants will not alwayes be corrected by words and therefore need blowes Pro. 29.19 Gen. 16.6 yea they must patiently suffer correction though it be inflicted unjustly as appeares in the verses following this Text. Thirdly to their restraints Servants must be subject to the appointment of their masters even in the things wherein they restraine them as for instance in their diet It is a sinfull humour in them not to be content with such diet as their masters appoint them though it be worse than the diet of their masters or the diet of the children of the family So likewise in their company they must avoid all company that may be any way offensive to their masters and so likewise in their apparell in such cases where servants are to be apparelled by their masters as also in respect of their going out of the house in the day time when they have not leave but much more abominable it is to be out of their masters houses in the night without their leave And as their subjection must be performed in all these cases so the indefinite manner of propounding it shewes both that they must be subject in all things and in all the wayes of shewing subjection for the manner of it they must be subject in all things so as to beare with their masters for it is a sinfull rebellion to crosse or disobey or leave undone any thing that is required of them to doe And besides it showes that they must be subject in their very hearts and in their words and in their countenance and gesture as well as in the work to be done by them Use. The use may concerne both servants and the parents of such servants and the masters that rule them Servants should hence from their hearts learne to yeeld themselves over to their masters with all good conscience to performe the subjection required yea such servants as heare this doctrine may try their hearts whether they be indeed good servants or no for a good servant that makes conscience of his duty when he heares the doctrine doth from his heart consent to it and will strive to fashion himselfe according to it Now the servants that desire to be such as is required may attaine to it if they observe these rules First they must carefully study the doctrine of servants duties Servants oftentimes faile through meere ignorance because they doe not lay before their mindes what God requires of them Secondly they must often judge themselves for their faults wherein they have displeased their masters or neglected their duties therefore many servants mend not because either they will not see their faults or doe not humble themselves in secret for them Thirdly they
he sheweth the manner how they must be subject viz. With all feare Servants must subject themselves to their masters in all feare which being put downe indefinitely must be understood both in respect of God and in respect of their Masters Servants must shew their feare of God in their places divers wayes First by avoiding such sinnes as are contrary to the will and commandement of God in their generall life such as are swearing lying slandering hatred of the godly drunkennesse whoredome and the like Psal. 101.3 4 5. Secondly by carefulnesse to doe good service as well as their masters not only by spending the Sabbath in the duties of Religion but in redeeming the time in the week-dayes as may be without hindrance of their worke or offence to their masters to imploy themselves in prayer reading conference c. and the reason is because as servants must doe their masters worke as they are servants so they stand bound in the common obligation to doe Gods service as they are men and no man but is subject to the Law of God who hath given all his commandements to servants as well as to masters Thirdly by doing their masters worke out of conscience respecting the will and commandements of God and therefore serving their masters with all faithfulnesse as if the service were to be done to God himselfe or to Jesus Christ Ephes. 6.5 Col. 3.23 Fourthly by praying for their masters and for the good successe of their labours for their masters commodity thus Abrahams servant is commended for his practice of the feare of God and left for an example to all servants to doe likewise Gen. 24. Fiftly by doing their masters worke without eye-service being as carefull and as diligent when their masters are absent as when they are present as remembring that the Lord sees them though their masters do not Col. 3.22 The feare then towards their masters they may shew divers waies First by avoiding what may displease their masters such as is answering againe Tit. 2.10 contention with their fellowes and all unquietnes Phil. 2.4 fullennesse Prov. 29.19 and all unfaithfulnesse shewed either by pu●loining in the least things Tit. 2.10 or carelesnesse in disappointing the trust committed to them as also masterfulnesse pride and haughtie behaviour when they will not abide it to be told or directed or doing what they list not what they be appointed Secondly by reverent behaviour to bee shewed by lowlinesse of countenance by giving titles of honour and respect Iohn 13.13 by standing before them when they sit Luk. 17. by avoiding rude behaviour or sawcy familiarity as accounting them in heart worthy of all honour 1 Tim. 6.1 One point of which reverence is that servants should not presume to deliver their opinions easily in their masters presence unlesse it be required or may be gathered by argument from the lesse Iob 32.6 7. Thirdly by their secrecy in all the affaires of their masters especially they should take heed of discovering their masters infirmities to others abroad out of the family Fourthly by avoiding inquisitivenesse to meddle only with their owne businesse the servant knoweth not what his master doth Ioh. 15.15 Fiftly by doing their worke with all faithfulnesse and diligence in absence as well as presence that when the master comes hee may finde them so doing Mat. 24. Thus of the manner of the duty the persons to whom they must thus submit themselves follow and so they must be subject with all fear not only to the good but also to the froward To the good and gentle For the sense we must enquire who are good masters and who gentle Good masters are discerned by divers signes First they seeke not only painefull and skilfull but religious servants Psal. 101.1 6 7. Secondly they not only licence but teach their servants to keepe Gods Sabbaths and to worship him Commandement 4. Gen. 18.19 Thirdly they will not command their servants to doe any thing that is sinfull or to lye as snares or defraud others for their profit Fourthly that receive their servants especially such as are religious as their brethren Fiftly that are overseers as well of the manners of their servants as of their labours being as carefull that their servants be no worse to themselves than to their masters Sixtly that use their servants well not only praising them for well doing but alwaies rewarding their service with liberall wages and when they part from them not suffering them to goe from them empty without portion c. Masters shew their gentlenesse also divers waies as First when they use their authority moderately or are not haughtie or violent towards their servants Secondly when they passe by their infirmities and take not notice of all the ill they say or doe Eccles. 7.22 Thirdly when their servants offend they chide them with good words and not revile them But also to the froward Froward masters are such as are bitter to their servants hard to please that are apt to finde fault that use their servants hardly in words or deeds but chiefly such as are cholerick and passionate and peevish in their carriage towards their servants So that foure Doctrines may be noted from these words and from the coherence Doct. 1. First that God takes notice of the faults of Superiours as well as he requires duties of inferiours he sees frowardnesse in masters as well as disobedience in servants and the reason is both because God is no respecter of persons and also because he gives his law to all men And therefore superiours must make conscience of their duties for though in all things they are not to give accounts to their inferiours yet they must give accounts of all they doe to God Col. 3.24 Doct. 2. That God sees and dislikes such faults as the lawes of man take not notice of If a master should kill his hired servant mens lawes would take hold of him but if he be never so froward with him he may escape mens lawes But though the lawes of men punish not frowardnesse yet God will So we see in the exposition of Christ given unto divers commandements Mat. 5. man failed in killing adultery purity c. not once thinking of anger lust filthy speaking reviling c. yet God forbids even these things also which serves to reprove the folly of such as justifie themselves for very just men because they offend not the lawes of men but never consider that God can finde a world of faults in them that mens lawes cannot because God sees the heart and by his lawes requires obedience of the inward man and condemnes all swerving from the right temper of heart and carriage And therefore we should all looke to our waies to approve our selves not only to men but to God and so to confesse the imperfections of mens lawes as to admire the perfection of Gods Word Doct. 3. That frowardnesse is a vice to be avoided of all sorts of men It is not only uncomely in
not the duties of wives though they did never so much good other wayes yet they have not the praise of well-doing unlesse they doe their duties to their husbands the like may be said of Magistrates Ministers Husbands Parents Servants c. 7. Confidence in the flesh mars good duties when men trust to their own wits reason skill or any gifts and doe not all they doe in the name of Jesus Christ Col. 3.17 Phil. 3.3 and in particular conceitednesse and to be wise in themselves and proud will mar any action All should be done in meekenesse of wisedome 8. Inconstancie shames any action when we are wearie of well-doing or wavering or decline and goe backwards their righteousnesse being as the morning dew Quest. Can any thing we doe be well done seeing all our righteousnesse is as a menstruous cloth Esay 64.6 Answ. Our workes in themselves are none well done but by Gods indulgence assured unto us in the new Covenant where he 1. Accepts the will for the deed It is well done when our desire and endevour is to doe it as well as we can 2. He beholds the worke in Christ and for his intercession passeth by the evill that cleaves to our best workes 3. He regards it as proceeding from his owne Spirit in us who causeth us to doe good and worketh our workes for us as in the instance of prayer Rom. 8.26 Thus of the fourth observation Doct. 5. From the maner of the terme in the originall which hath a continuall respect to the present time and imports a continuall well-doing I note That a Christian should strive to be alwaies doing good he should let no time passe without well-doing 2 Tim. 2.21 2 Cor. 9.8 Psal. 106.2 Col. 3.10 1 Thes. 5.15 1 Tim. 5.10 And that for many reasons 1. Because he hath so little time left to worke in He should walke in the light while he hath the light the night will come when no man can worke and the rather since he hath lost so much time in doing workes of darknesse he should now redeeme the time Eph 5.15 1 Pet. 4.2 3. 2. Because he is Gods servant and therefore should be alwaies working Rom. 6. yea he is Gods Sacrifice therefore should he be wholly devoted to the doing of good Rom. 12.1 3. Because we have our taske set us and ever the more worke we doe the sooner we shall fulfill the measure prescribed us 4. Because hereby we shall much glorifie God Mat. 5.19 and silence wicked men 1 Pet. 2.12 15. 5. Because God is faithfull and will not forget our workes and labour we shall be rewarded accordingly If we sowe sparingly we ●hall reape sparingly 2 Cor. 9. Heb. 6.11 Gal. 6.9 God giveth us richly to enjoy all things in this world 1 Tim. 6.17 and our continuance in well-doing will be marvellously rewarded in heaven Rom. 2.7 Now that we may doe much good we must p●ay God to establish us in every good word and worke 2 Thes. 2.17 and withall we must furnish our selves with directions out of the Scriptures and studie the rules of life there prescribed 2 Tim. 3.10 17. Iames 3.17 and then we must be sure to make use of all the opportunities of well-doing And be not affraid with any amazement These words may be diversly referred and so diversly expounded If they be referred to the exhortation to subjection to their husbands in the maner before shewed then the sense may be that they should not feare that they should be misused if they were subject or else it limits the maner of subjection that they should not be subject only for feare or out of basenesse of mind feare should not be the ground of their obedience but conscience of Gods Commandements and love to their husbands If they be referred to the example of Sarah they may be taken either as a promise or as a condition as a promise thus If they imitate Sarah in well-doing they need not be affraid of the troubles of a married estate for by this course those troubles will be prevented or the tribulation they shall have in the flesh will not be great Or they may bethe second as a condition of their filiation if they will be Sarahs daughters then they must learne of Sarah to beare the troubles and afflictions may befall them and their husbands without disquietnesse and amazement Sarah could leave her owne countrey and was a comfort to her husband and we never reade that shee any way discouraged her husband or complained of miserie though she was faine to live in many strange places and had not at any time any certain abode any where But I thinke the words may be interpreted in generall as containing a prohibition of excessive feares and consternation of mind which is often found in women to the great offence and disquieting of their husbands The word translated Amaz●ment notes such a perplexitie of minde in which one is almost at his wits end and therefore the Verb of which this Noune is derived is used in the New Testament only in these cases as in the cases of rumours of wars or seditions readie to seize upon a people Luke 21.9 or in the case of a conceit that one sees a ghost or spirit Luke 24.37 And such as either of these doe women sometimes fall into and this the Apostle forbids He doth not forbid all feare for they must feare their husbands Ephes. 5. ult and they must feare God 2 Cor. 7.11 Nor doth he severely taxe that naturall fearefulnesse in women which followes their sexe but only such desperate vexations or passions as suffer them not to make use of their trust in God or love to their husbands Quest. What causes can there be imagined why these Christian wives should be in danger of any such consternation of minde Answ. The Apostle might well imagine divers causes of this frailtie 1. They had husbands that were Infidels which might be a great grievance to them and besides those husbands might perhaps absolutely forbid them or labour to restraine them from the exercises of Christian Religion which might put them into a great strait 2. Their profession of Christian Religion might bring upon them many tribulations and persecutions which women are not so able to beare 3. It may be the Apostle had observed that women were apt to fall into these desperate fits of passion and grieving when they were crossed by their husbands or servants or children Sure it is that many women now a daies if their husbands doe but crosse them in reasonable things they will cry and grieve as if they would die in the vexation of their hearts These strange humours and perplexities and desperate fits the Apostle absolutely forbids hee would not have any of them found in a Christian wife Ver. 7. Likewise ye husbands dwell with them according to knowledge giving honour unto the wife as unto the weaker vessell as being heires together of the grace of life that your
doth it not shall be beaten with many stripes See Rom. 1. ult Heb. 10.26 2 Pet. 2.21 Husbands and wives should in a speciall maner remember this for there is a great deale of need that they should take notice of this point Oh it is a grievous thing for a Christian to be wilfully corrupt to doe or leave things undone against his knowledge Doct. 7. One thing here is comfortable that God requires no more of his servants but to doe according to the knowledge they have Ignorances by the benefit of the new Covenant in Christ he will passe by so as they be carefull to get knowledge according to the meanes they have of knowledge This is a great comfort Doct. 8. In knowledge men should excell women therefore is knowledge here specially mentioned in giving the charge to men They are the head● of their wives and therefore in them should be the especiall seat of spirituall senses and understanding and their wives are charged if they doubt of any thing to aske their husbands at home It is a great dishonour to many men in this age in many places that women excell them in knowledge both for the measure of it and power of it and care to use the meanes to get it Thus of the generall Doctrines These words as they in particular order the duties of husbands shew divers things they are to look to in their carriage in dwelling with their wives To dwell with them according to knowledge imports 1. Matter of edification and so three wayes for first they must set up religion and the worship of God in their dwellings Iosh. 24.15 They must keepe off the curse of God from them and their wives and children by daily praying to God Ier. 10. ult They must diligently in their kinde instruct their family in the plaine things of Gods law talking and discoursing of the Word of God upon all occasions Deut. 6.7 Gen. 18.19 They must see that Gods Sabbaths bee kept and sanctified in their dwellings and therefore must not only restraine labour but bring their houshold to the exercises of religion and privately help them by examination or repetition Commandement 4. Exod. 20.4 yea and by sanctifying them to Gods worship Iob 1.5 which is done by exhorting them to holinesse and preparation and by humbling himselfe in prayer before God for himselfe and them and hee must sanctifie the creatures they use by prayer 1 Tim. 4.5 Secondly in speciall towards their wives they must use their knowledge in instructing them or resolving their doubts as there shall be occasion 1 Cor. 14.35 Thirdly they must teach their wives reformation and right order of behaviour by their example giving full proofe of their piety discretion providence painefulnesse and meeknesse not daring to commit the faults themselves they reprove in their wives and to live so as not to be liable to any just exception There is a question is often asked about the first branch of this answer and that is whether a woman may performe the duties of religion in the family in case of the absence or insufficiency of the husband Now for answer thereunto it is hard to give any peremptory rule because in this thing we have no Commandement from the Lord but yet seeing some of the duties of religion may be done by the wife as instructing of children and servants for the law of grace should be in her lips Pro. 31. and both Parents are charged with instructing the children Eph. 6. therefore I thinke by Anallogie it will follow that the wife may doe other duties as pray and repeat Sermons But yet it is most likely that this power extends not further than her children and her maids which was the power Hester used ch 4.16 or if it goe further it must be in some speciall cases and with observation of divers circumstances in which their safest way is to get direction and resolution from their learned Pastors 2. Matter of toleration and that in respect of the infirmities of his wife if her infirmities be bodily it must be the praise of his knowledge not to loath her for that because God layeth them on her and shee cannot helpe them And for her faults they are either meere frailties arising from ignorance or insufficiency she cannot help and those he must passe by altogether when he discerneth that she is not willing to offend in them Pro. 19.10 or else they are faults she committeth of knowledge and so they are either curable or incurable Curable are such faults of negligence or waiwardnesse that prove grievo●s to him or others for these his rule is he must not be bitter to her Col. 3.19 but shew himselfe to be gentle and easie to be intreated Iames 3.17 He must use all good meanes of counsell and forewarning of her and intreating and such reproofes as may be seasonable and secret as much as may be He must avoid raging and furious passion and reproaches If her faults be incurable that is such as he cannot mend by such courses then I suppose he may flie to the generall remedy of all Christians in the case of trespasses and that is to take one or two with him and admonish her and then if she mend not he may fly to his Pastor and such as have charge of soules with him and get them to admonish her But if none of these courses will serve I thinke the Pastor or others imployed in the businesse may give notice as they have occasion to other Christians of her incurablenesse and they may thereupon forsake her company and reject her as a Pagan or Publican but for the husband he must cohabite still and with patience beare the crosse God hath laid upon him waiting if at any time God will give her repentance or otherwise restraine her wickednesse 3. Matter of circumspection To dwell according to knowledge is to dwell with circumspection and that he must shew in matter of his owne right He must take heed that by no indulgence or remissenesse he lose his owne right He must keepe his authority and rule as head and not suffer things to be done or disposed ordinarily against his will And for the good ordering of necessary directions if his wife will not obey he must then provide to have things done as well as he can by his children or servants This I speake of things essentially expedient to the peace or well-being of the family he must not be his wives underling contrary to the order of nature and ordinance of God Gen. 3.16 1 Cor. 11.3 7 8 9. Eph. 5.23 1 Tim. 2.12 13 14. Secondly he must shew it in the care of his estate restraining her wastefulnesse if she be given to disorder or retchlesnesse in that kind Pro. 14.1 Thirdly in case of sin against God he mu●t take heed that he nourish not sin in her by connivence or neglect of counsell or reproofe Iob 2.9 10. Fourthly in case of difference betweene her and her servants so
things that concerne a religious life and then our duty to man and in particular to Magistrates This the Apostle intimates in that he first instructs them as Christians and then as Subjects and there is apparent reason first in respect of God secondly in respect of themselves and thirdly in respect of the Magistrate First in respect of God for we are first and chiefly bound to God our first covenant is made with God and we are more beholding to God than to all the world besides and therefore againe to respect his glory and obedience to him in the first and chiefe place Secondly in respect of our selves and our owne profit we must study God's Lawes as well as the Lawes of men yea with our first and chiefe cares and accordingly yeild obedience because though by keeping the Lawes of men wee may live quietly and safely and with much reputation yet all this will not protect us against the breach of Gods Law but the hand of God may pursue us while we live and we may be damned in hell when we die for want of a religious life Thirdly in respect of the Magistrate he shall have the better Subjects by it Good Christians are the best Subjects and the knowledge of Religion and Gods Word makes men obey not for feare or custome but for conscience sake and for feare of God's displeasure And besides it makes men humble and charitable humble not to thinke themselves too good to obey and charitable in not suspecting the meaning of Princes further than they must needs And it restraines the excessive pronesse of mens natures that are without Religion apt to speake evill of those that are in authority and chiefly because true Religion will make men pray heartily to God for their Governours and God himselfe doth spare or blesse them the rather for the prayers of the righteous The use should be to informe and teach all sorts of men to take heed of separating what God hath joyned together It is an extreme folly to give unto Caesar what is due to Caesar not to give unto God what is due to God and so it were to give unto God what is due to God if men could doe it not to give to Caesar what is due to Caesar. The respect of God's Lawes should make us more carefull to observe mans Lawes And contrariwise it is a fearfull case that many live in that thinke they have done enough if they live in obedience in respect of the authority that rules them in the places they live in they would bee much troubled if the Magistrate should bee offended with them but are never troubled though they provoke God to his face and they are maliciously foolish that would have the Laws of men obeyed when they are against the Lawes of God or would have men so rest in observing the just Lawes of men as not to be so forward and busie about the duties of Religion Further a question may bee here asked Why the duty of Magistrates is not here set downe as well as the duties of Subjects I answer that in those times of the Apostles the Magistrates were without so farre from being Christians that they did for the most part persecute that way and therefore they doe avoid medling or undertaking to teach them that would not learne but rather be incensed against such Teachers Besides if this and other Scriptures of the New Testament be marked we shall finde that the duty of Inferiours is both more often and more fully taught than the duty of Superiours for in that new and tender world great care was to bee had that under pretence of Religion civill obedience either in the family or Common-wealth were not neglected And it is a truth to be knowne at all times that God would not have Inferiours too skilfull in the duty of Superiours that they might first learne to shew duty before they called for duty from their Superiours That may be one reason why the duty of Masters is not here handled and in other places of the Epistles but briefly for many times the description of the duty of Superiours is used but as a glasse by the Inferiours to pry into the faults of those that rule them and so grow carelesse and wilfully stubborne under pretence of the faults of their Superiours But some one might say that by this means if the Magistrates did turne Christians they were left without rules of direction and so they should not know what to doe Answ. That inconvenience was long before prevented because the duty of Magistrates is fully taught in the Old Testament which unto a godly minde is of as great authority as the New Thus of the coherence and generall consideration of all the words The duty of Subjects followes to bee particularly considered of Submit Concerning Subjects here are five things to be considered of First the proposition of Doctrine in these words Submit your selves to every ordinance of man for the Lords sake Secondly the exposition of it in one case and that is the persons to whom they were to bee subject to all sorts of Governours to Kings or any other Governours Thirdly the confirmation by reason Ver. 14 15. Fourthly the answer of an Objection Ver. 16. Fiftly the conclusion Vers. 17. In the Proposition consider 1 The duty to be done Submit 2 The persons must doe it your selves 3 The things to which they must bee subject Ordinances where is a double extent viz to every ordinance though they be ordinances of men 4 The manner or motive For the Lords sake Submit The duty is to submit unto Magistrates Rom. 13.1 2. For Explication two things are to be considered Why we must submit and How we must submit For the first we must submit 1 Because God is the Author of Magistracy Gen. 9.6 Deut. 16.18 Pro. 8.15 Dan. 2.21 Ioh. 19.11 Rom. 13.1 4 6. Object The Divell is said to bee the Prince of this world and hee claimeth all the kingdomes of the earth Ioh. 12.31 Mat. 4.8 9. Sol. He is the Prince of this world by malicious usurpation not by any right 2 He is so in relation to wicked men he is their king but not of others 3 He speakes like himselfe that is like the father of lyes when hee claimes all the kingdomes of the earth for no part of the world is his because The earth is the Lords and all that therein is Object But God was angry with the Israelites for their asking of a King and therefore it seemes it was not his ordinance that there should be Kings Sol. He was not angry with them for desiring Governours for they had Governours before sent of God and the very King they had afterward God gave them him Hos. 13.8 but hee was angry for the cause of their request Their faith and hope was in a manner spent and they conceived more hope in a King than in God that had beene such a King to them so many yeares 2
must often meditate on the motives that may perswade them to subjection And so there are five things that might bow their hearts and breed in them a conscience of their duties First the Commandement of God it is Gods will they should beare themselves thus humbly and obediently toward their masters Secondly the promise annexed to Gods Commandement should move them God wil reward their work Eph. 6.8 Col. 3.24 And in particular inasmuch as their service is required in the fifth Commandement therefore if they be good servants God will blesse them with long life Thirdly the threatning if they bee not good servants but beare themselves naughtily and stubbornly they shall not only receive shame and punishment from men but God will plague them for the wrongs they doe to their masters even for all the grief wherewith they have vexed them and for all the losses they have brought to their masters Col. 3. ult Fourthly the examples of such as have born themselves full well in Scripture should much move them the piety of Abrahams servant Gen. 24. and the painfulnesse and faithfulnesse of Iacob Gen. 31.38 c. and the readinesse of the Centurions servant Mat. 8. yea it should much move them that Christ Jesus himselfe was in the forme of a servant Phil. 2. Fiftly the care of the Religion they professe should much move them if they be carelesse and proud and stubborne the Name of God and the doctrine of Religion may be blasphemed 1 Tim. 6.1 And if they be humble and carefull and faithfull they may adorne the doctrine of the Gospel as the Apostle shews Tit. 2.9 10. Use 2. Such parents as put their children forth to service must take heed that they spoile them not by giving eare to the complaints of their masters or by allowing them any way in stubborne and disobedient courses Thirdly if masters would have their servants to please them by their subjection they then must learn how to rule and govern them not only by teaching and charging them what to doe but also by over-seeing them whereby many faults may bee prevented and accordingly by seasonable reproving them and correcting of them betimes for the more wilfull offences so studying to carry themselves gently towards them as that they lose not their authority by too much love of their owne ease and quietnesse else it is just that their servants should prove a continuall vexation to them Pro. 30.22 and 29.19 To your Masters The parties to whom they owe subjection are their masters where three things may be observed First that though servants are under subjection yet it is not to all men or to other men but only to their masters which may warne men to take heed that they abuse not other mens servants or speake basely of them For though in respect of their masters they are servants yet in respect of them they are as free as themselves And in particular it should teach divers to meddle lesse with other mens servants by way of complaint to their masters It was Salomons rule Accuse not a servant to his master lest he curse thee and thou be found guilty Pro. 3.10 He gives two reasons of his advice The one is that his complaining may so vex the servants over whom he hath no jurisdiction that it may cause them in their impatience to vex him with their reproaches of him which an ingenuous minde should strive to avoide The other is that in such complaints most an end there is much mis-taking when men meddle with such things as belong to other mens families and then it is a soule shame to be found faulty To conclude this point we should remember that of the Apostle What hast thou to doe to judge another mans servant he standeth or falleth to his own master Rom. 14. Secondly that all masters have authority over their servants though the master be a poore man or an ignorant man or a cruell man or a froward man or a hard man yet the servant must be subject to him and beare himselfe as reverently and obedient as if hee were the richest or wisest or worthiest master in the world and the reason is because the subjection is due not to the masters riches or gifts or greatnesse but to the authority which God hath given him as a master and therefore servants must looke to this point and the rather because it will bee the greater triall of their snbjection and singlenesse of heart when neither feare nor reward nor any outward respect doth compell or constrain them but simply the conscience of Gods Commandement and the masters authority Thirdly wee may here inquire how masters come by this authority over servants by nature they have it not and therefore must have it by law The laws of men cannot make one man a servant and another a master therefore it is by the Law of God Since it is by the Law of God if we have recourse to the ten Commandements we shall finde that it is the fift Commandement which giveth masters this authority and honour the exhortations of the Apostle being but interpretations of that Law And that this point may bee cleared two things must be searched into first what sorts of men are called fathers and mothers there and secondly why they are so called in the Commandement seeing the most sorts of them in the usuall life of man have other titles For the first This tearme Father we shall finde in Scripture to be given first to such as begat us Heb. 12.9 Secondly to Ancestors Ioh. 6.18 Thirdly to Tutors so Students are called Children of the Prophets Fourthly to such as beget us in respect of grace as to our Ministers 1 Cor. 4.15 Gal. 4.19 Fiftly to Magistrates Gen. 41.43 1 King 24.12 Ezra 1.5 Sixtly to Elders in age 1 Tim. 5.1 Seventhly to the Inventors or Authors of any science art or trade Gen. 4.20 Lastly it is given to masters so Naamans servants called him Father 2 King 5.13 And from hence masters were wont to be called Patr●s familias as Magistrates were called Patres patriae For the second Magistrates Tutors Ministers Masters and all Superiours are called Fathers first because the father was the first degree of superiority the fountain seminary of all society Secondly God of purpose preserves this title in all superiority therby to sweeten subjection to inferiours and to make them think the severall dangers burdens labours subjections in each condition to bee not only tolerable but meet to be borns because they endure them under parents as it were so such superiority for that reason should not be resisted or envyed Thirdly that thereby superiors may be put in mind of their dutie to avoid insolency cruelty oppression and the too much respect of themselves God charging them by this title to remember that their inferiours are to them by Gods Ordinance as their children Thus of the proposition of the duties of servants The exposition followes and so first