17 18. May we therefore say that by reason of their Ignorance they took that Name of God his Word in vain No this was not a vain business for in this way they understood the words of Christ at last the meaning whereof they knew not at first 3. Catechizing may be considered under a double notion 1. In regard of the present Action 2. As it is an Introduction and preparation to the future and further knowledg of God Now though little ones do not at first so understand as to use with due reverence the Name and things of God yet it follows not that they take God's Name in vain because they repeat good things in order to and for the gaining of such a knowledg of God and of those Holy things as whereby they afterwards come to use them more reverently And therein the first use of them though not so reverent hath a part as being preparatory to it and having an influence into it and working as a good means for the begetting of it Do not we teach little Ones their Letters by signs and certain petty devised sayings and resemblances which put them in mind of their Letters And this is not a vanity but a way suited to their narrow capacities to make them learn them the sooner So in this and the like cases the first Rudiments are still to be taken and judged of not in a way of disjunction from what follows after but as a preparation to it and being so taken they are not vain but material things because they serve to very considerable ends It is neither vanity nor Hypocrisie saith a reverend Author to help Children first to understand words and signs Baxter's Christian Directory p. 582. in order to their early understanding of the matter and signification Otherwise no Man may teach them any Language or to read any words that be good because they must first understand the words before the meaning If a Child learn to read in a Bible it is not taking God's Name or Word in vain though he understand it not for it is in order to his learning to understand it And it is not vain which is to so good a use Thus for Parents 2. Nor are Christian Ministers and Governors of Families together with School-Instructors and Tutors less obliged to take care of the Religious Instruction and Education of their respective Servants and Pupils which clearly appears from hence 1. The Lord commands it and expects it at the hands of Masters When others intrust Masters with the bodies of Servants God intrusts them with their Souls commands them to take care of them as for which they must and shall give a strict account Lo here saith God is a poor mean Servant but he hath a precious and an immortal Soul A Soul purchased with the same Blood of God-Man that his Master 's was and himself though never so vile in the eye of sense Col. 3.11 yet capable of being made a Co-heir with Christ in Heaven Take this Man and take care of him as thou wilt answer it at the great Day If this Soul perish through thy default thy Life shall go for his Look to it therefore Masters give to your Servants that which is just and equal knowing that ye also have a Master in Heaven Do not use them as Slaves as Beasts but rather as Fellow-servants of the same Lord Col. 4.1 In this Text we may observe a Divine Precept and a perswasive Argument to back that Precept 1. The Precept Ye Masters give unto your Servants 1. That which is just 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Oecon. 15. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 whatever is due to them by any positive contract legality or obligation Aristotle names three things as due to Servants Work Food Correction To which since our Servants are usually such as are not so by conquest but by compact we may add a fourth viz. Wages Moderate Work convenient Food due Correction proportionable Wages 2. Not only that which is just but that which is equal too 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Dav. in Col. 4.1 And this refers not to the works themselves of Servants and Masters but to the mind and manner of doing which ought to bear a due proportion in both v. gr Col. 3.22 Servants are commanded to obey their Masters in all things not with eye-service but in singleness of heart fearing God and as serving the Lord Christ And Masters are required to return them that which is equal when they rule them piously and religiously That is just which the Law of Nature or Nations requires that is equal which true Christian Charity and meekness requires and which is due to servants by a moral obligation 2. The Argument Knowing i. e. holding this for an undoubted principle believing it and constantly remembring that Masters on Earth have a Superiour Master in Heaven As Servants if gracious are Gods Sons and thereby may be comforted so Masters are God's Servants and thereby may be caution'd Are Masters eyes on their servants to see whether they do their duties faithfully so God's eye watcheth them much more to observe whether they carry themselves in their Relation conscientiously Holy Job Job 31 13◠stood in aw of this great Master and acted accordingly Eph. 6.5 to 8. Servants must be obedient unto their Masters as unto Christ as serving the Lord Christ and the Masters must instruct and command in Christ Mr. Dod that great Servant of our Lord Jesus Christ from Exod. 20.10 gravely observes from those words Thou nor thy Son nor thy Daughter nor thy Man-servant nor thy Maid-servant c. That it belongs to all Family-Governours to see that their servants and all inferiours under their charge holily observe and keep the Lord's Day 2. I argue from those many and great benefits which accrue from the holy instruction of Servants and other Family inferiours 1. The Church is in an immediate capacity to receive benefit by it If Mistresses of Families did their parts and sent such polished materials to the Churches as they ought to do the work and life of the Pastors of the Church would unspeakably be more easie and delightful What a reviving of heart would it be to us to Preach to such an Auditory to Catechize instruct examine and watch over them who are so prepared by a wise and holy education and understand and love the Doctrine which they hear How teachable and tractable will such be How successfully the labours of their Pastors laid out upon them How comely and beautiful the Churches be which are composed of such persons and how pure and comfortable will their Communion be The Orchard is according to what the Nursery is So Churches are according to what Families are Good Families make good Churches and good Education makes good Families 2. Not only the Church but State would receive much good by this Towns Cities Counties Kingdoms would gain by it and it must needs be so for what are they
Philip to the Noble Eunuch q. d. To what purpose readest thou if thou be not careful to understand what thou readest The Word Preached either by Pastor or Teacher the Truth deliver'd in a way of Catechizing will do us no good unless we hear with understanding Hearken unto me every one of you and understand Mark 7.14 saith the greatest Preacher and have ye understood all these things Matth. 13.51 Dear Brethren as I know you desire not to sow your seed on the high-way Mat. 13 19. so as that the Fowls of that Prince of the Air should come and pick it up so be careful to make poor Creatures to understand what they are taught Now for the opening of the Truths laid down in the Assemblies Catechism I cannot but commend those four Books which I have found so exceeding useful for the younger ones among our people viz. Dr. Wallis Mr. Jos Alleyn Mr. Tho. Vincent and Mr. Tho. Dolittle their excellent Explanations 3. You will be sure to act very wisely very discreetly You know in Catechizing you have to do with different Sexes Ages Tempers Capacities some are less capable and more bashful these must not be expos'd to the scorn and contempt of those that have it may be more glib tougues and brazen foreheads but worse hearts You know when and how to incourage the willing to praise the forward to check the presumptuous to admonish the unruly patiently to bear with all You know what it is 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 to be Soul Nurses 1 Thess 2.7 8. how to impart with all dearness those Fundamental Truths which make for their spiritual and eternal good and growth 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 And shall I take leave in your names to assure younger ones that you will have a tender eye to the slowness of apprehension in some of them to the slipperiness of memory in others to the bashfulness of most to the reputation of them all That you will opportunely prevent their grosser mistakes and candidly palliate their lesser ones that you will give the best sense to the worst of their Answers and put some necessary words into their mouths the better to facilitate the expression of their thoughts that you will so wisely manage the whole business as that it may make for their reputation as well as instruction and that they may find favour both with God and men 4. What you do do it resolvedly and that in God's strength not in your own Expect opposition from within from without From within a proud heart apt to mutter 't is a low mean piece of drudgery No but rather the most Doctor-like part of our work and such as cannot accurately be perform'd without a clear insight into the greatest depths of Religion and a proportionable gift of ready Exposition The lowest Principles of Religion are the highest Mysteries Again the tender shoulder that shrugs and enters its Plea against the burthen as being too troublesom a weight to be added to the Load of our other Lords-day-labours Neither will this prevail with you Brethren we are confident you are not only able 2 Tim. 2.14 2 Cor. 12.15 but apt to teach 'T is your joy to spend your selves and be spent in the utmost service of your God and his Church You will not be much concern'd in the consuming of your Oyl so you may lend your Light To such gracious Souls as yours there is there can be no greater burthen than the sense you have of the heaviness of your people in hearing But from without the general averseness of young ones is pleaded as a grand obstruction As to that you are so well seen in spiritual Logick as to fetch meat out of this Eater and will easily conclude that this averseness in young ones from this exercise of Catechizing is not the least Argument of its singular usefulness The more unwilling the Patient is to have his Wound open'd searcht plaister'd and bound the more eager the compassionate Chirurgion is to give relief The more unwilling they are to present themselves to be Catechiz'd the more reason have we to press them to it by the greatest violence of perswasion .. Lastly let not want of success discourage Your Heavenly Master you know hath assured you that your labour is not 1 Cor. 15. last shall not be in vain in the Lord. God takes the measures of his servants not from their success which is his sole work but from their sedulous and faithful endeavors which is their duty Go you on to plant and water let the great Lord of the Vineyard alone to give the increase And know 2 Cor. 8.12 1 Cor. 3.6 7. 2 Cor. 2.15 you are a sweet savour unto God and though Israel be not gather'd but you seem to have spent your strength in vain yet surely your judgment is with the Lord and your work and wages with your God Isa 49.4 I have now done with the particular directions there remain yet some more general ones which being observed may with God's Blessing much promote the success of this whole work And so 1. To spiritual instruction add holy admonition exhortation good advice and counsel Do not only let them know by instruction what their duty is but press urge inforce this duty upon them by admonition and good counsel O my Child you see your Duty you know what you ought to do O do according to what you know What a strong powerful prevailing influence hath good counsel when duly applied Only see 1. That you back your counsel with the clearest Scripture and most convincing Arguments you can possibly Good advice without these is but a Bullet without Powder and Arrow without a Feather Argue with them about the Excellency of God Christ the Spirit Grace the vanity of the Creature the folly and sinfulness of sin See how Job handles the matter with his Wife about murmuring and impatience against God Job 2.10 What shall we receive good at the hand of God and not evil Hear what Bathsheba saith to Solomon Prov. 31.2 3 4. What my Son and what the Son of my Womb c. It is not for Kings O Lemuel it is not for Kings c. Shew them the beauty of Christ draw aside the Curtain let them behold the Image of that blessed Saviour pourtrayed in Scripture Do to them as the Spouse did to the Daughters of Jerusalem run over all the Excellencies of Christ to them and then conclude He is altogether lovely This is my Beloved and this is my Friend Can. 5.16 O Daughters of Jerusalem 2. Labour as much as possible to insinuate your selves into their affections Having clear'd your way into their heads labour to wind and scrue your selves into their hearts Let them know that you have no design upon them but to make them happy no private end only their everlasting good This done thou hast done all thy work when all jealousies of any sinister ends are blown away then Exhortations and
acceptance with God or in a condition of spiritual life that is the forerunner and earnest of a life of glory 2. But again if you consider the nature of the drink which he hath appointed it is wine and not water By it may be signified thus much that as there is no sort of drink so grateful to the palate so reviving and strengthning to the spirits so that spiritual life that the Soul is raised to by the Death of Christ is a life of the greatest pleasure and joy that is conceivable for as no liquor like Wine doth chear a sad drooping spirit so nothing doth so glad and chear the Soul as Faith in a Crucified Christ according to that of the Apostle Peter in whom though we have not seen 1 Pet. 1.8 yet believing we rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory Thus much for the Duty this do 2. The end of the Duty and that is in remembrance of me Here are two things to be inquired into I. What reason was there for the instituting an Ordinance for his remembrance II. Why of all the acts and expressions of his love to sinners above all he would be remembred in his sufferings for us which is the special signification of this Supper 1 To the first I say you must call to mind that the time of instituting this supper was the night before that day he died Now the consequent of his Death was to be this that he should be taken from Earth to Heaven there to be personally present till the day of judgment Now that his Church on Earth might not forget him in this long absence he therefore appointed this supper for a frequent quickning them to the remembrance of him till he came again 2 To the other Question I Answer That the reasons why Jesus would have this act of his love to be especially remembred above all other may be these 1. Because his dying for his Church was the greatest act of love he ever shewed his Church Greater love saith Christ hath no man than this John 15.13 1 John 3.16 that a man lay down his life for his friends Again saith the Apostle Hereby perceive we the love of God because he laid down his life for us If a man should part with his liberty and suffer bonds or lay down his estate and become poor or leave his Country and become an exile for his friend these were all expressions of great love but none of them are comparable to laying down life and shedding ones blood for a friend This last is that wherein Christ hath eminently demonstrated his love to his Church this he glorieth in and this is that which he would never have his Church forget but frequently remember in this supper 2. Because that though he gave and still doth give very great testimonies of his love to us as in his Resurrection Ascension Intercession preparing Glory and lastly in his coming again to raise us justifie us and to take us to himself to behold and enjoy that Glory that he had with the Father before the World was yet this Ordinance is rather for the remembrance of his bloody Death for us than for the remembrance of any of the other blessings and why Because that all these other depend on this Christ could never have risen to our justification had he not died for the satisfaction of the Law and his Fathers Justice Nor would he have been admitted as an Intercessor nor have been allowed one mansion in Glory for any of us nor would his Father have suffered him to have returned again to take any one of us to himself if he had not by his death made our peace opened the new way into the Holy of Holies and purchased a glorious Resurrection and an Ascension to the Heavenly and eternal glory for us So that since all his other acts of love to his Church depend on this of his dying no wonder if he appointed this Supper for the remembrance of his death rather than any thing else he either did or promised to do for us The Conclusion is that since that the end of this Ordinance is so glorious and that is the remembrance of the greatest love that ever God the Father or Son shewed to us it cannot but cast a Lustre and Glory upon the duty of coming to this Supper and engage us to a chearful participation thereof 3. The Obligation to this duty and that is Christ's Command this is implied in the Text but exprest in the foregoing verse what saith the Apostle Paul I have received of the Lord that which also I declare unto you The Apostle doth but declare the Command is Christ's he is the Author of it It is Christ not Paul that said This do in remembrance of me Christ's Commands are the bonds by which we are tied up to Obedience if we break his bonds we are transgressors Remember who they were that conspired together saying Let us break his bonds asunder and cast away his cords from us they were such that the Lord hath in derision to whom he will one day speak in his wrath and vex them in his sore displeasure The commands of superiors set out all duty to inferiors and punish for neglect and the higher or greater the superior is the more authority hath the command and the greater punishment will be inflicted on the disobedient If disobedience to the word spoken by Angels received a just recompence of reward of how much sorer punishment shall they be thought worthy that disobey the command of Jesus Christ If a Child's disobedience deserves the rod or a Servants the cudgel or a Subjects the axe or halter what doth disobedience to the Lord Jesus deserve that is greater than Father or Master or any earthly Soveraign whatever Take heed then my brethren of being found guilty of neglect of this duty that is bound upon you by the command of so great an authority as this of the Lord Jesus that hath said This do in remembrance of me 4. In the next place is to be considered the persons obliged and those are the Church of Christ so far as by Scriptural Qualifications they are capacitated to a participation thereof who are 1. Those that can discern the Lord's body in this supper the want of this the Apostle gives as the reason of unworthy receiving it 1 Cor. 10.29 and tells us they eat damnation to themselves Now there are two ways wherein the Lord's body may be said to be discerned in this supper 1. When the Understanding is spiritually enlightned to perceive the true nature and ends of this supper and thereby is enabled to see a greater difference between this and our ordinary meals for he that shall for want of knowledg therein come to this Table with no better preparations or to no other intents than when he goes to his own Table he doth certainly pervert the ends of the institution and prophanes the Ordinance and therefore cannot chuse
say I would my poor hungry child I would but I have it not Why then will you not come at me live together and eat together at my cost and care and charge and yet be whole months and never come at Me and that your children have reason raiment limbs not born blind nor of a monstrous birth which things Heathens have been affected with and a thousand ways besides have I done you good may God say Why then will you live whole years together and never together come at me Have you found one more able or more willing to do you good that you never can Why then are you so unthankful as not to come at me After the like manner the Lord expostulates with his People to whom he had been a bountiful Benefactor and yet they answered not his bounty nor served him their Benefactor for which he calls to the Heavens to be astonished and the Earth to be horribly afraid Jer. 2.5 Thus saith the Lord Mercies do engage to duties We should have him for our God for ever and serve him that always doth us good So the Poet. O Melibaec Deuo. nobis haec otia fecit Namque erit ille mihi semper Deus illius aram Saepe tener nostris ab ovilibus imbuet agnus Virg. Eclog. 1. Officia etiam saerae sentiunt nec ullum tam immansuetum animal est quod non cura mitiget in amorem sui vertat Leonum ora à magistris impunè tractantur Eliphantorum feritatem usque in servile obsequium demeretur cibus adeo etiam quae extra intellectum atque aestimationem bemeficii sunt posita assiduitas tamen meriti pertinacis evincit Ingratus est adversus unum beneficium adversus alterum non erit Duorum obliru est tertium etiam corum quae excideruâ—t memoriam reducet Qui instat onerat priora sequentibus etiam ex duto Immemori pectore gratiam extundat Nâ—o audebit adversus multa ocuâ—câ— allollere Senec. de benef c. 3. what iniquity have your Fathers found in me that they are gone far from me 6. Neither said they where is the Lord that brought us up out of the land of Egypt Should such a people forsake such a God and go far from him that did them so much good yet they did ver 13. Be astonished at this oh ye heavens You see when God is a Benefactor to a People and there is the same reason for Families and they do not serve him what monstrous wickedness it is God hath kept you all safe in the night and yet in the morning you do not say Where is the Lord that did preserve us come ô come Let us give joint praises to him God hath done you and your Families good so many years and yet you do not say where is the Lord that hath done such great things for us come let us acknowledg his mercy together God hath carried you through affliction and sickness in the Family the Plague hath been in the house and yet you live the Small pox and burning Feavors have been in your houses and yet you are alive your conjugal companion hath been sick and recovered children nigh to death and yet restored and for all this you do not say Where is the Lord that kept us from the Grave and saved us from the Pit that we are not rotten among the dead and yet you do not pray to nor pra se this your wonderful Benefactor together Let the very walls within which these ungrateful wretches live be astonished at this Let the very beams and pillars of their houses tremble and let the very girders of the floors on which they tread and walk be horribly afraid that such as dwell in such an House together go to bed before they go to Prayer together Let the earth be amazed that the Families which the Lord doth nourish and maintain are rebellious and unthankful Being worse than the very Ox that knoweth his Owner and of less understanding than the very Ass Isa 1.2 3. There is such validity in the consequence from God's being our Benefactor to our duty to him in serving of him that Joshua builds his exhortation to the Heads and People of Israel to fear and worship God upon this very foundation as appeareth plainly to any that read the Chapter where the Text lieth From what hath been said I reason in this manner 3. Arg. If God be the Founder Owner Governour and Benefactor of Families as such then Families as such are jointly to worship God and pray unto him This cannot be denied But God is the Founder Owner Governour and Benefactor of Families as such Neither can this be denied 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Aristot Moral Nunc adhibe puro Pectore verba puer nunc te melioribus affer Quo semel est imbuta recensâ— servabit odorem Testa diu Horat. Ep. l. 12. adeo in teneris consuescere mulâ—um est Virg Geor. l. 2. Therefore Families as such are jointly to worship God and pray unto him Argument 4. Masters of Families ought to read the Scripture to their Families teach and instruct their Children and Servants in the matters and doctrines of Salvation therefore they are to pray in and with their Families No man that will not deny the Scripture can deny the unquestionable duty of reading the Scripture in our houses Governours of Families teaching and instructing them out of the Word of God Amongst a multitude of express Scriptures look into these Exod. 12.26 And it shall come to pass when your Children shall say unto you what mean you by this service 27. Ye shall say it is the Sacrifice of the Lord 's Passeover who passed over the houses of the Children of Israel in Egypt when he smote the Egyptians and delivered our houses And there is as much reason that Christian Parents should explain to their Children the Sacraments of the New Testament to instruct them in the nature use and ends of Baptism and the Lord's Supper Deut. 6.6 And these words which I command thee this day shall be in thine heart 7. v. And thou shalt teach * Crebris admonitionum quasi ictibus haec mea praecepta infiges optabis sicut repetitis mallei ictibus fâ—rram aptatur Lud. de Dieu Et dentabis ea i. e. inter dentes versabis assidue lo queris vel dentibus mandes praemansa in os ingeres filiis tuis Malvend 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 whet or sharpen them diligently to thy children and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thy house and when thou walkest in the way and when thou liest down and when thou risest up i. e. morning and evening Deut. 11.18 19. Ephes 6.4 And ye Fathers provoke not your Children to wrath but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. And God was pleased with this in Abraham Gen. 18.19 For I know him that he will command his children and his houshold after him and they
conjunct Prayer of a domestick combination which is concerning Isaac Gen. 25.21 We read it And Isaac entreated the Lord for his Wife Heb. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Two words especially make for our purpose Ea praesente unà cum illa Junius Simul cum uxore cum qua communicabat preces Fagi 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 orare quidem significat sed non simpliciter quia assiduitatem importunitatem simul connotat precum multiplicationem Res convenit non enim dubium est tam longo tempore Isaacum saepiâ—â—s interpellasse Deum fretum spe promissionum Rivet in loc That vvhich is translated for his Wife might be read with his Wife in the presence of his Wife being vvith him and joining with him in this duty He prayed for and before his Wife it was then conjunct Prayer Isaac praying with his Wife The other vvord translated entreated signifieth to multiply powerful words in Prayer to pour out vvords in abundance and denoteth 1. The multiplying of his Prayers it was not only once but frequently that he pray'd with his Wife 2. The earnestness of his Prayer 3. The continuance and their perseverance therein till they had the mercy prayed for as follows and the Lord was entreated of him Isaac had been married near twenty years with Rebekah and so long without a child so that it seems they had been exercised in this duty for many years upon this account that Rebekah had no child for so long time for which they did unanimously and constantly offer up prayers to God and if they prayed together for issue should not you for the favour of God pardon of sin interest in Christ and eternal life By all you see that there was Family conjunct worship and praying to God by God's command and appointment and approved by God's acceptance of it Now let any one shew where God hath taken off this obligation if God hath any where said though I did appoint Adam to worship me in his Family and did accept of Abel 's offering that did as I commanded and did hear Isaac praying together with his wife yet now I will be prayed to in Families no more shew it if you can What book chapter and verse is it Obj. Will you say that the reason of their worshipping God in their Families at first was because there was no other to worship him with but when men did multiply and there were publick Assemblies men were not bound to do it Ans 1 Shew that Which is the Text that tells you that God's instituting of Publick Worship hath disobliged men from praying to God in their Families Ans 2 When men were multiplied Godly men did serve God in their Families Abraham did and Isaac did and Job did and Joshua did and Cornelius did Did they do it and were they not bound to do it What will you make of all the Worship and Prayers which these did give and offer up to God in their Houses If there was no obligation upon them they had not sinned if they had omitted it and it was no obedience when they did so Will you say either of these What! Were they Works of Supererogation No surely But when Aaron 's Priesthood was instituted Object then the obligation on Families ceased and after that the Israelites did not pray in their Houses Why will you speak without Book Shew me this either Answ I have proved an obligation by God's institution shew me where it is nulled and made void even after the Aaronical Priesthood was instituted But I say they did pray in their houses after this for after the institution of Aaron's Priesthood the Israelites celebrated the Passeover in their own Houses and that was not done without Prayer For though after the Priesthood was setled the Priests killed the Lamb yet after the Lamb was killed the Master of the house caused it to be brought back to his own house and did eat it with his Family Luke 22.7 8.9 10. And the Cup that was used at the Passeover whether it were Sacramental or no is controverted was blessed by the Master of the Family Weemes so that there was Prayer and Praise attending this celebration in their Houses conjunctly after the Priesthood was setled in which service they had also the expâ—ication of it why they kept it what was the meaning of the bitter herbs and why eaten with unleavened bread done in form of Catechizing Godw. Jew Antiq and in their Feasts the Master of the House prayed before and after after he gave thanks 1 For their present food 2 For their deliverance from Egyptian bondage 3 For the Covenant of Circumcision 4 For the Law given by the ministry of Moses then he prayed that God would have mercy 1 On his People Israel 2 On his own City Jerusalem 3 On Sion the Tabernacle of his Glory 4 On the Kingdom of the House of David his anointed 5 That he would send Elias the Prophet 6 That he would make them worthy of the days of the Messiah and of the life of the World to come Do you not call this conjunct Prayer and Praise thus done by the Master of the Family May we not now with confidence of the truth from all under this last Topick or Head of Argument frame this manner of reasoning Arg. 6. If serving of God and praying conjunctly to him in proper Families was commanded and appointed by God and never yet revoked then it is the duty of proper Families so to do But serving of God and praying to him conjunctly in proper Families was commanded and appointed by God and never yet revoked Therefore it is the duty of proper Families so to do Pareus Deorum cultor infrequem Insanientis dum sapientiae Consultus erro nunc retrorsum vela dare atque iterare cursus cogor relictos Horat. lib. 1. Od. 34. So much for the first Question Question Second Whether it be the duty of Families jointly to pray to God daily Aff. Some that are convinced that Family Prayer is a duty vvill sometimes practice it and yet but seldom some upon the Lord's Day and yet but once then in the Evening and that serves for all the week till the evening of the Lord's day next doth come Others pray once a day through the week but omit it in the morning when yet the very same reasons which should move them to do it at all should be cogent for more frequent performance of it and are so Though it be not determined expresly in the Scripture that Christian Families should pray together morning and evening every day yet in the general it is required that we should continue in Prayer Col. 4.2 which seems to be meant of Family Prayer For the Apostle had been speaking to Family relations Husbands and Wives Parents and Children Masters and Servants and treating of Family relative duties carrying on his speech still to the same persons saith continue in Prayer but such as
yet we perish much through our Parents and Masters neglect There stands my Father saith the Son and there stands my Master saith the Servant that never prayed with us we do accuse them they never did and they cannot say they did Will you not then wish you had never been Parents to such Children nor Masters to such Servants As you would avoid this be faithful to your trust and mindful of your duty lest thou wish O Vtinam coelebs mansissem ac prole carerem MOTIVE III. 3. Consider You have but a little time before you for the performance of this trust You and your Families shall live together but a while and if once you are parted by death it will be too late whether you die first or some of them 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Theoc. Sâ—es est in vivis non est spes ulla sepultiâ— 1. Suppose some of them dye before you if your Conscience be not feared and your hearts past feeling will you not be almost distracted when you follow them to their Graves to reflect and consider here is one dead out of my house with whom I never prayed we did dwell together and eat together and work together many years but we never prayed together Oh! what if his Soul be gone to Hell through my neglect What if he be damned and I be found guilty of his damnation Prayer was a means appointed by God to have done him good but I did not do it who knows if I had called him to Prayer and I had been confessing sin but God might have broke his heart for sin and given him repentance of which I saw no sign before he died And now Oh! what now if there be one Soul the less in my house and one the more in Hell Oh! this is that which wounds my Soul this is that for which my Conscience now doth sting me that when I had him with me I did not do my duty and now he is gone he is gone and now it is too late O my child my child whither art thou gone whither art thou gone O that he may live with me again were it but for a year or two a month or two that we might do together our before neglected duty If you be wise timely prevent such uncomfortable reviews 2. Suppose you die before them for if they do not die and leave you you must die and leave them and can you die without trembling for anguish of your heart without terrours in your Souls and fearful gripes in your Consciences more bitter than the pangs of Death to consider you leave a wicked prayerless Family behind you through your own neglect Would it not trouble you to leave them poor Wife and Children nothing to live upon if this hath been through your sloth and will it not should it not much more trouble you to leave an ignorant Wife Children and Servants unacquainted with God unaccustomed to prayer and all through your neglect Might you not then say if I had left them poor yet if I had left them good and fearing God and given to prayer by my example I could now have died with joy and left them all with comfort but now I lie a dying it is the wounding of my Soul to take so sad a farewel of my Family If I do live it shall be otherwise if I recover and God trust me with life and time yet further I will hereafter do it but my heart is sick my Spirits fail me and I perceive the symptomes of death are upon me and though I am loth to take my leave of my Wife and Children because I have been no more careful of the good of their Souls yet I see I must I must bid farewel unto them Come then dear Wife farewel Gemitúquo haec addidit alio Non alias hinc ad lacrymas Fata vocant Salve aeternum aeternúmque vâ—le Virg. Aeneid l. xi farewel I shall now be no longer thine and thou shalt be no longer mine but this had been no matter if I and thou had both been his whom we should have prayed unto together but we did not Woe is me poor dying man that we did not Farewel dear Children now farewel adieu adieu for ever but oh how shall I take my leave of you with whom I have not done what God required But yet I must whether I will or no I must now leave you But let me give among you what I have gotten for you Therefore to you my Wife I give so much and to this Child so much and to that so much But when I think I worked for you but never prayed with you this doth trouble me Oh! this doth trouble my departing Soul However you will have my Goods the grave and worms shall have my body but who oh who must now have my Soul This will be a sad parting when ever it shall come and yet this parting hour is a coming Pray now with them and in that manner too that then you may be comforted On the contrary if you discharge your duty faithfully and unfeignedly whether your Family be good or bad when you shall die you might take comfort that you did your duty So Mr. Bolton that was abundant in conjunct Prayers in his Family could comfort himself and did say on his Death-bed to his Children I think verily none of you dare think to meet me at the great Tribunal in an unregenerate condition MOTIVE IV. 4. The love that you should bear unto your Families should engage you often to pray together with them Diligatur Proles non ut nascatur tantum verum-etiam ut renascatur nascitur enim ad paenam nisi renascatur ad vitam Aug. de nupt conc l. 1. cap. 17 Ipsae ferae saevae immanes bestiae prolem nutrire solent at non tantùm curare debent parentes ut liberi sui vivant sed etiam ut Deo benè vivant Ames Cas Cons Will you shew your love unto your Children in providing Portions for them that they may live in credit in this life and will you not so much as pray with them that they may live in glory in the life to come Will you do much for their Bodies and nothing for their Souls You that are fondest Husbands and Fathers never love Wife and Children as you ought till you love their Souls The Soul is the best and more noble part and love to the Soul is the best and more noble Love But to love the Body and neglect the Soul is but cruel brutish Love What do you more for your young ones than the birds and beasts do for theirs Do you feed their bodies do not birds and beasts do the same for theirs Love your Wife Children and Servants as you ought and this will provok you to pray together with them MOTIVE V. Oeconomia est veluti paradisus in quo plantantur arbores quarum fructus odore dulcore suo imbuunt omnes vitae
this exercise is a thing of greater difficulty to me than such easie Undertakers are aware of and really to perform all the Duties I am to enquire into in a manner well-pleasing to our heavenly Father will cost them and us all more pains than only to read or preach an hour or two upon them which yet might lead into many important concerns of government and obedience Believe it herein we have all need enough of serious and frequent teacbing again and again (a) Heb. 5.12 for our conduct in the Relations whereunto God hath cast us In order then both to my preaching at present and all our future practice as a ground for the Resolution of this Question Question What are the Duties of Parents and Children and how are they to be managed according to Scripture I am directed to the words read Wherein we have the mutual offices of Children and Parents required and virtually at least prescribed with annexed reasons to enforce them severally upon each Relatives which afford this Proposition That God's pleasure and Childrens encouragement should move Christian Children to obedience and Parents to a moderate government in all things Here is a large theme but I shall endeavour as nigh as I can to speak much in a little hoping I shall obtain your pardon though I let slip some considerable Particulars if by some general anticipations and cautions I do in a Sermon decline those numerous special Cases which in a larger Treatise on this Subject might fairly step in and lay claim to some special satisfaction It were an excursion for me now to speak of Children and Parents in any other than the most famous signification * Analogum per se positam stat pro famostore analogato of the words taken not figuratively but properly not for those in a political but natural Relation yet as under the Christian Institution vvhere vve are ever to have regard to our blessed Lord and Master Indeed Children comprehend both sons and daughters 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Gen 46 29. the fruit of the body not excluding grand-children of what age or quality soever as indissolubly bound in duty to those who begot and brought them forth of both sexes Father and Mother the Parents of their flesh (b) Heb. 12.9 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Prov. 23.22 from whom they were originally derived And that the Apostle doth here direct the command to Inferiors before Superiors as in the 18. verse and elsewhere (c) Eph 5.22 6.1 5. to Children before Parents is not that Children and their duties are first in order of nature or time for there are offices of inbred parental love and care before they can be known or observ'd by children 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 but writing chiefly to children come to the use of reason he begins with them who are subject and ought first to perform duty The anticipation of time here connoting the honour due to Superiors he doth in the first place put those in mind of their duty who are to obey as usually more defective rather than those that have authority over them in this oeconomical conjunction Either in that this office of obedience is less easie and pleasing to our nature than that of parental love which is allur'd to exert it self readily by the right discharge of the former or in that the subjection of children is the foundation on which the good government of Parents doth depend and a means to make themselves ready for that authority which else they will be unfit for as Antoninus lays down the axiom which many of the moralists used viz. You cannot well govern others unless first governed * 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 For my method then in answering the complicated enquiry before me whiles I follow the Apostle in my Text I shall need no Apology to insist on I. The Duty of Children with the extent thereof urged from that which is most cogent to perswade to it and disswade from the neglect of it II. The Office of Parents enforc'd from the special consideration of that the Apostle suggests to move to it III. The manner and means of managing both offices or discharging both duties more generally and particularly according to the mind of God in his word The two former may be look'd upon as the explication of my Text and Proposition and an exhortation press'd with reasons or motives to the Duties and the last as Directions to perform them I. The Duty of Children with the extent thereof urged from that which is most cogent to perswade to it and disswade from the neglect of it This is express'd and imply'd in the former of the verses I have read to you wherein we have three Particulars to be spoken to 1. The Duty 2. Extent or latitude of it 3. Motive to it 1. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 1. The Duty of Children from the precept Children obey your Parents The word imports an humble subjection to their authority and government with a ready performance of what they require it being an explanation of that which in the law is engrav'd with God's own hand honour (d) Exod. 20.12 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 importing how highly they are to be valued and not lightly esteemed In another place it is ye shall fear every man his mother and his father (e) Lev. 19.3 with 14. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 awful fear being no other than a deep veneration both which are to be fairly read in the acts of genuine obedience for that doth flow forth from a compound disposition of love and fear mixed in an ingenuous child who is readily mov'd to obey in contemplation of that authority and affection implanted in the Parent towards it To speak more distinctly this obedience to Parents may contain in it these four things 1. Reverence 2. Obedience 3. Pious regards 4. Submission The three first of these may be reducible to active and the last to passive obedience 1. Reverence which is a due and awful estimation of their persons as to this relation placed in eminencie above their children to acknowledg them from God himself the Supreme Parent of us all (f) Acts 17.28 the authors preservers and governors of their lives and upon that account to honour them in their hearts speeches and behaviours from an honest desire to please and filial fear to offend them whose children they are of what rank soever they now appear in the world and therefore to comport themselves so in all the actions of their lives before God and men that they render themselves acceptable to their Parents Yea to both of them the law requires reverence to the Mother as well as the Father (g) Levit. 19.3 with 30. the word which is in one verse fear is in another translated reverence to the claim of which the Mother there seems to be favour'd with some kind of priority because Children who have most needed their Mothers in their tender
wisdom and Religion worth calling so in the world in that so few blessed be God some there are are good in their Relations Where are Magistrates to be found that are God's Vicegerents in their places Where are the Masters that command and direct in wisdom so as their service is rather a priviledg than a toil a pleasure than a vassalage Where are the Servants that obey in singleness of heart as unto Christ Isa 3.5 What a strange disorder and confusion is there in the world in Kingdoms Corporations Jam. 4.1 and Families and who may be thanked for it but mens lusts and their not faithfully filling up that Relation God hath set them in Most are governed by the Law of corrupt nature and hell but few too few have that respect to the Law of God which should be Ar. Epict. 1.13 How excellently doth that Imperial Philosopher declaim against those that are unfaithful in their places and do not willingly submit to and order their lives according to the direction of the most good wise and just Law-giver of the world Hear his words Antoninus ◠4. n. 24. l. ◠n. 38. He is an Aposteme of the world who being unfaithful in his place doth as it were apostatize and separate himself from God's rational administration O that men were wise and understood their true interest and were faithful to it O that every one would labour to rectifie that ataxy and disorder that is in himself and then in his Family Then O then how happy would our Kingdom Cities Families be It was no small commendation of the Grecian Commander Plutarch in vita Them that he reckon'd it none of the best qualifications of a man to be able to play well upon a Harp but to be able to govern himself and others well and if a City were put into his hands poor dis-mantled un-disciplined to be able quickly to make it rich strong orderly To fill up our Relations with Religion is the divine precept our true wisdom our peace profit it 's honest I had almost said it 's one of the fairest fruits of real Christianity Would we could all as one man engage to do our best for the putting this in execution and then holiness to the Lord might quickly be written upon our Door our City might be called Jehovah Shammah the Lord dwells there and our Land Hephsibah and Beulah For this let every honest soul pray for this let Ministers preach And in the prosecution of this design I shall in my poor way give you advice by resolving of this Question which I have made way to by this Preface What are the Duties of Masters and Servants and how must both eye their great Master in Heaven In the answering of this Question the more fully I shall do these things First Show you what is meant by Master and Servant Secondly Show you how both are to eye their great Master in Heaven Thirdly I shall show you what is the Master's duty exhort him to it and give him helps for the performance of it Fourthly I shall show what is the duty of Servants press them to it and give them some helps for the performance of it First I shall show what is meant by Master and Servant By Master here is meant either Master or Mistress such a one as hath the power of himself and upon whose government and command another dependeth Now in an absolute and most proper sense there is none may be called Master but God he only hath an absolute independent unlimited power of himself and hath all others at his command and direction and he alone is fit for this despotick Monarchy being infinite in wisdom goodness and justice And this clears the meaning of those words of our Saviour Call no man Father Master Mat. 23.8 but God that is look upon none as absolute infallible Lords of the Conscience but him But in a more limited sense there are Masters to which respect and honour must be paid by their Servants and that with all readiness and chearfulness so far as they command nothing that is contrary to God's command By Servant I mean one that is not at his own disposal but at the command of another so far as his commands thwart not the commands of God Remember whatever is spoken of Servants is spoken to Maid-Servants as well as Men-Servants Now this Relation seems in a word to rise from Nature Law or Contract From Nature in that some are of a more strong body and weaker understanding others of weaker bodies but of more judgment and experience and so one is by nature fit to rule and the other to be ruled That Relation that riseth from Law is when any one by some flagitious act hath justly forfeited his liberty and is condemned to servility either for a time or during his life The last and usual foundation of this Relation is by Contract and that is where one that is by nature free subjects himself to another's command for a certain time upon such and such just considerations Now this is that Relation that I am principally concerned to shew you the Duties of Secondly I come now to shew you how both Master and Servants are to eye their great Master in Heaven First they are both to have an eye to the presence of their great Master which is in Heaven God in his Nature is a Spirit that is infinitely immense filling Heaven and Earth and yet not included in either If man did indeed lye under the lively impressions of God's omnisciency and omnipresence what an awe would it put upon their spirits how honest would it make them in the dark This this would make the Master reasonable just and merciful this would make the Servant faithful diligent and constant in his obedience to his Master What makes men to act like Devils but this a hope that God doth not see Gen 17.1 Psal 16.8 What made Abraham so upright but his walking before God What kept David so unmoved but his setting the Lord always before his eyes I am perswaded the greatest failures in either Master or Servant have their spring here a secret root of atheism and disbelief of God's eye and observation What truth in all the Bible more clear than this and yet what almost less believed O what do men make of God How do they rob him of his glory and themselves of the truest motives of fidelity activity and chearfulness Sirs Is the hundred thirty ninth Psalm canonical Scripture or no Can any hide any thing from God's eye Jer. 23.24 Prov. 15.3 Prov. 5.21 Psal 94.7 9. Ar. Epict. 2. c. 8. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Ar. Ep. l. 1. c. 14. 1 Cor. 10.31 Rom. 6.16 Do not his eyes behold the good and evil Doth not he ponder the ways of men Do you indeed believe this What then is the meaning of falseness on all hands It was no unjust complaint of the Moralist when he said that
many dare not do that the image of God being present which they will do God himself being present hearing seeing and observing exactly all that they do The all seeing eye of God is a good Motto I would this were written upon our Doors Counters Counting Houses Studies over our Tables I shall conclude this with an excellent one of Epictetus his sayings When you are at home and have shut the doors and are in the dark remember you never say you are alone but God is within and he needs no Candle to see what you are doing Secondly both Masters and Servants must have an eye to the glory of their great Master in Heaven There is not an action in our whole lives but we should either habitually or actually respect God's glory in it and it is but reasonable that he of whom all things are and by whom all things are preserved and from whom are all our hopes of good here and hereafter should have all Glory for ever and ever Actions loose their excellency when they have not a right end and to make any thing our end below God Hierocles is little less than idolatry It was excellent advice given more then once by that brave Moralist Refer all things to God make him your center your end I shall conclude with another of that noble Emperour Marcus Aurelius Antoninus sayings Remember always in all things thy Relation to God for without respect to him thou wilt never perform any action aright while thou livest Thirdly both Masters and Servants must have an eye to the command of their great Master in Heaven Psal 119.6 Ask David how you shall escape a state and act of shame and he will tell you by having respect unto all God's commands If men would never command any thing but what they have warrant for from the Word of God commands would then be just and obedience easie then the poor Servant would never be put upon that sad Dilemma whether he should obey his earthly or heavenly Master Acts 5.29 The Pythagoreans were not at all out in that Doctrine of theirs That man is under an Oath of Allegiance to God to be obedient to his Laws and never willingly to transgress them If the Master consult God's commands then he will forbear threatning and not make his Servants to serve with rigor and be faithful meek putting on bowels and pity warning instucting and correcting like a Christian in love to them and obedience to God If the Servant had still an eye to their great Master's commands how singly uprightly diligently and chearfully would they obey To the Law to the testimony and peace will be to them that walk according to this Rule and the whole Israel of God Both Masters and Servants Enchiridion yea all men in all things should still be of Epictetus his mind and still use his Petition Lead me O God whither thou pleasest I will follow thee chearfully and if I be something unwilling yet notwithstanding I am resolved to look to thy command and obey it Let God's Word be our Counsellor and we can't do an unjust and imprudent act Fourthly Both Masters and Servants must have an eye to the assistance of their great Master in Heaven Our heavenly Master is so humble and kind that he never bids any Servant do any work but he is willing to put his own hand to it and to say the truth of it the best Servant of all is so weak and foolish that he is not able to manage the least piece of work his Master sets him about except himself be at one end of it and do the most of it nay I had almost said do all of it himself And if God stand by direct and assist how wisely John 15.4 gently and piously will Masters do their part and how patiently diligently and readily will Servants do theirs then the Masters will not threaten nor the Servants groan or complain But I may have occasion to speak something of this nature elsewhere Fifthly Both Masters and Servants must have an eye to the soveraignty power and justice of their great Master He is higher than the highest he hath us in his hand as the Clay is in the hand of the Potter and none of his ways are unequal he will do righteously when men do not and the day is coming when Masters and Servants King and Subjects must stand upon even ground before him and he will do unto every one according to their works O that Masters would remember that God is infinitely more above them than they are above the poorest Servant Were this well weighed how soon would the heat of some Masters be cooled their storms be calmed and their fury turned into meekness Remember man God can easily without doing any injury at all make thee and thy Servant change places O that Servants could still remember that they have a greater and a better Master that must be pleased whosoever is displeased the deep sense of God's soveraignty would quickly make the proudest heart stoop this this would pull down the stout insolent rebellious spirit of a wicked Servant and make him judge obedience far more tolerable then flames and if any thing of injury be done him by his Master the thoughts of God's justice and righting will quiet his mind I come now to the third thing proposed which vvas to shew you What is the Master's duty and to exhort him to it And this I shall do by giving him 1. Some cautionary Directions 2. Positive Directions First I shall give you some cautionary Directions First Let Masters take heed of being servants to sin and Satan and rebels to God A bad man is not like to be a good Master With what face can any man expect others should obey him whose commands are usually unreasonable whilst he disobeyeth God whose commands are always good and equal How can a drunken prayerless swearing wretch look for better service than he gives to his Master By sin man at first forfeited that Soveraignty that he had over the creatures and by a constant habit of sin especially gross sins which the light of Nature doth condemn a man prostitutes his reason debaseth his authority and looseth that majesty which else he is invested with How can a drunken Master rebuke or punish his servant for tipling Is an intemperate Sensualist a fit person to censure gluttony Can an unclean person condemn wantonness Is it likely that the Servant should be faithful who seeth his Master cheat and lye every day If the Master be a profuse Gamester and given to his pleasure is it like that his Servant should be frugal and diligent Are not lying and swearing and cursing and wickedness as soon learned of a Master as a Trade And is it worth the while for a man to give twenty fourty a hundred pound to teach his child to serve the Devil and a short cut to hell and a sure way to ruin and misery of body
of that deadness their souls lie under and that if they be not awakned quickly they must be unconceivably and eternally miserable ask them what they have to say against the ways of God and what they have to plead for their neglecting their souls for Sin and for Satan tell them these things are matters of such weight that they need not much time to determine what must be done It 's a matter of such vast importance that it calls for the greatest speed diligence and care imaginable and that you can't be satisfied till you see this work done catechise and instruct them constantly at least once a week Let the Word sound daily in their ears and pray twice a day with them let some time be allowed them for secret duties and put them upon the performance of them spiritually and constantly Keep them not too long at work or in the Shop on Saturday-night The Jews had their preparation for the Sabbath and the ancient Christians did not fall short of them in their preparation for the Lords-day Let the Sabbath be carefully spent in secret family and publick duties and for the better direction in your duties upon that day I refer you to that excellent piece Mr. Wells his Practical Sabbatarian a Book it 's pity any great Family should want Cause your Servants to bear you company to hear the most powerful Preacher you can require an account of what they hear and let the Sermons be repeated in your Family and ask them what it was that did most affect their hearts and labour to press things home afresh upon their souls and if you perceive any good inclinations in them encourage them greatly and improve them all you can and if you do not see what you would presently be not quite discouraged and cast them off as hopeless Exhort them daily while it is called to day Heb. 3.13 and if you see them still dull hard-hearted and under a spirit of slumber be yet the more earnest who knows but a little more patience and compassion and zeal may prevail But if after long using the fore-mentioned means you find them still refractory stubborn and to slight your counsel and run on in sin and to grow worse and worse you must add sharp reproofs and if they do no good Prov. 29.19 but they make a mock at them and endeavour to jeer their fellow-servants out of their duty too then you must add blows to your words Prov. 26.3 Stripes are fit for the back of a fool and if neither exhortations reproofs nor corrections will prevail but they continue still like sons of Belial rebellious to God and you Psal 101. then remember your duty is to ease your house of them consider well what danger there is of their infecting the rest of your Servants and Children consult your own peace honour and profit Let not a lyar a company-keeper 2 Cor. 6.14 a vile person dwell in your house when you have used all possible means for his reclaiming what fellowship should light have with darkness remember that God hath made you a Prophet a Priest and a King in your own Family Thirdly Another duty of Masters is diligently and faithfully to instruct their Servants in their Calling conceal nothing of the mystery of your Art from them I mean of what is lawful for if you are skil'd in the Art of cheating you must unlearn that your selves and never teach them that which will hazard their ruin Some Masters are ready to hide the most profitable and ingenious part of their trade from their Servants Remember Sirs that Law and Nature Reason and Religion all command you to be faithful in this thing their Parents or Friends put them to you to teach them an honest Calling and you promised you would do it and it's dishonesty in the highest degree to fail in this Fourthly Be just compassionate and loving be as ready to commend and encourage them for doing their duty as to reprove them for the neglect of it let them want nothing that is fitting for them in the place they are in let their food be wholesom seasonable and sufficient Prov. 31.15 let their clothing be warm sweet and decent let their lodging be warm and sweet and wholesom not too far from your eye and ear let them have rest sufficient to recruit nature and to fit them for God's Service and yours And in case of sickness let them have such tendance physick and diet as they need You can't imagine what obligations you may by this lay upon your Servants to fidelity how acceptable this is to God and how much reputation it will get you among men See an excellent example in the Centurion Mat. 8.5 6. Col. 4.1 Job 31.13 Give unto your Servants that which is just and equal It was Job's commendation that he did not despise the cause of his hand-maid Use your tongues to sweetness a soft word sooner prevails than a hard blow or curse Be punctually faithful to your contract with them pay them their wages to the full it 's better to do more than less than your bargain In a word As the Elect of God put on bowels of pity Col. 3.12 Jam. 1.20 Eph. 4.26 and put off all these anger wrath malice cursing remember the wrath of man works not the righteousness of God Be angry for nothing but sin Remember a Christ-like Gospel-spirit is a spirit of love Gal. 5.22 and peace meekness and faithfulness with these things God and man are well pleased Fifthly Discharge your Servants with sweetness and love and do not grudg that they should have a livelyhood as well as you Send them out of your Family with the counsel the good will of a Father and reckon one that was a faithful Servant to you seven years deserves to be esteem'd next a Child ever after To this end it would not be amiss if you give him as good a report as he deserves to raise his reputation and credit and if you help him as far as you are well able in his setting up you will not repent it upon a Death-bed nor at the Day of Judgment In old time God did require That when a Servant served six years Deut. 15 13 14 he should not be sent away empty but saith the Text thou shalt furnish him liberally out of thy flock out of thy floor and out of thy wine-press and that wherewith the Lord thy God hath blessed thee thou shalt give unto him And I know not why this may not be practised still where the Master is wealthy and able and the Servant poor and deserving Col. 5 13. Rom. 13.9 10 1 Thes 4.9 Neither do I know where the Gospel gives us a discharge from the works of Charity and Mercy I come now to Exhort Masters to this work to perform their Duty And this I shall press with a few Motives First Consider what a Master God is to his Servants he is
go down the wind and neglect his duty it may be faithfulness in you humbly to advise him in some such language as this Sir I intreat you give me leave in a few words to express my true affection respect and faithfulness to you and for God's sake take it not unkindly at the hands of your poor Servant if I acquaint you with that which I have with regret of heart observed too long in you many a good Customer we lose for want of your presence in the Shop your frequent absence makes us have little to do your credit to my sorrow God knows I speak it begins to grow much lower than it was wont to be my Mistress takes on heavily we have but few choice wares and no cash and little credit to fetch more and we can't hold long at this rate I beseech you Sir leave off your company-keeping and look into your Books and consider how things be O how loth am I to see you or yours do otherwise than well Sir I beseech you be not angry I come not to teach you but to intreat you and humbly to desire your serious consideration of what I shall further crave leave to speak Sir I beseech you forget not us your poor Servants we want your help in your Family your instructions your prayers your holy examples would be no small comfort to us In thus doing I am perswaded God would bless you your trade and credit might soon be recovered we should serve you with joy and bless God for you and you and yours fare the better for ever Now who but a mad man or incarnate Devil could choose but relish such sweet counsel as this though from a Servant Then you must be faithful in your deeds give nothing away without your Master's leave if you will be giving give what is your own give where and when God commands you and spare not labour to preserve and increase your Master's estate all you can by good and lawful means For this is that which is commanded by Christ in the Parable hath his gracious approbation and plentiful reward Well done good and faithful Servant thou hast been faithful in a little enter thou into the joy of thy Lord. Your faithfulness must be further expressed by indeavouring all you can the good of your Master's children labour to instil into them good principles incourage them in the learning their Books and Catechism and obedience to their Parents do what you can to prejudice them against sin and by your sweet examples to be in love with God and godliness betimes I might add also Zech. 5.2 3. Tit. 2.10 it is no small expression of faithfulness to do all the good you can for your fellow-Servants give them good counsel pray for them help them all you may and carry it so before them that they may easily discern an excellency in you and that you have a loving design upon them and mean no more harm by all you speak or do but God's glory your Master's profit and comfort and their souls salvation Fourthly Be very diligent in your Master's business dispatch what he sets you about with what speed and expedition you can A slothful Servant is a wicked Servant by idleness and carelessness you may do your Master more wrong in a day than you may make up in a twelve-moneth Besides you must remember your strength and time is your Master's and all of it must be improved for him except so much as God calls for or your Master giveth you I come now to exhort Servants to the performance of these duties and that I may if possible prevail I shall lay before them a few Motives to inforce this duty Consider if you do conscientiously perform the fore-mentioned duties you will bring no little honour to your great Master which is in heaven you will shew the power of his precepts the beauty and excellency of his laws and make Religion to be thought well of by this you will leave a strange conviction of the worth of Grace upon the conscience of your Master Whereas if you should be faulty in any of the fore-mentioned particulars if you make any kind of profession it is ten to one if God and Religion do not presently suffer for your fault Is this your Saintship and it may be all the people of God may be railed at and wounded for your sake for God's sake be faithful in the performance of your duty and in so doing you will put to silence those that may condemn you and cause them to glorifie your Father which is in heaven Consult your own interest here it will be more in your way than you it may be at first imagine I might tell you what respect and love it must needs beget in the heart of your Master and when he hath opportunity he cannot but speak well of you it will bring you in a more considerable revenue of peace and content by this you discharge your duty and your conscience may have peace in it you draw others eyes and love and make you a lasting interest which in time may signifie more than at present you are aware of Consider your time is but short Suppose you suffer a little hardship Seven years will not last always yet a little while and you must have your liberty and then you and your Master may be Companions Methinks the thoughts of your time being out should make you the more patient and faithful remember that the longest time is but short and ere long it must be furled together and then it will be nothing who is Master and who is Servant but who is faithful Consider that reason honesty and ingenuity do all call upon you to be faithful and perform your duty Why should your Master give you meat drink clothing wages or a calling for nothing doth not honesty and common justice require that there should be some proportion between what he gives you and you him did you not promise and ingage to be a faithful Servant do not your Indentures bind you to it doth not ingenuity oblige you to be faithful to him who hath been ready to take care of you in sickness and in health and to tender you next a child I might add the command of God requires it but because I hinted that in the beginning I shall not here repeat it Consider how great a reward you shall have in the other world your labour shall not be in vain in the Lord there shall be a sure reward to the righteous Suppose your Master give you not that incouragement that your fidelity doth deserve yet be not disheartned you have a Master who is more ready to take notice of a little good in you than a great deal of bad I mean the great God Therefore be of good chear Col. 3.24 knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance for ye serve the Lord Christ Yet a little while and he will right the
be Christ's Free-men Cast off the service of Satan 1 Cor. 7.22 Rom. 6.18 and be no longer commanded by him remember how cruel how false how unreasonable a Master he is consider what can he pay his Servants in at last and know 't is impossible to serve two contrary Masters at once Be not servants to your lusts cast them off as things that will not profit and instead thereof yield your selves to the Lord and serve him with all your might and so be holy as he is holy in all manner of conversation and the grace of God will teach you to deny ungodliness and worldly lusts and to live holily righteously and soberly in this present world that will teach you to reverence obey to be faithful and diligent to your earthly Master as knowing your labours shall not be in vain in the Lord. If the fear of God be but in your hearts it will teach you wisdom make you hate every evil way and to do that which is honest and just to your Master A good Christian can't be a bad Servant Secondly Be not a stranger to the Bible When others are foolishly squandring away their time do you solace your self with the Word of God let that be much read by you and labour to lie under the powerful impression of the prohibitions precepts promises threatnings and examples that are there and then you can't do amiss Epictetuc I remember it was the advice of an excellent Moralist that we should oft in our actions think what Socrates Zeno Plato or some wise Philosopher would do in such a case I had rather you would think oft what would such a one as Eliezer the Servant of Abraham do in such a case read how he carried himself how naturally he was concerned for his Masters interest how diligently faithfully and prudently he goes to work how importunately he addresses himself to God and how heartily he prays for prosperity and success in his Masters business how much he advanceth his Masters credit and how naturally concerned for his Masters Son and with what integrity and expedition he dispatcheth his business go you and do likewise The example of Joseph and Obadiah who were good in bad houses are well worth your consideration Mat. 8.9 I might add the example of the Centurions Servant whom his Master giveth this character of That he was as ready to obey as he was to command I shall add an example or two more though you find them not in the Scripture yet they are according to the Scripture one of them I knew well A certain Servant that it 's probable was converted by the Father was so faithful diligent lively full of spiritual discourse and importunate prayers for the children and family that it proved a means of the conversion of some of them here 's a Servant worth gold Another Servant I knew good for Earth and Heaven too that after other indeavours upon a fellow-Servant spent some time at midnight to pray for him and being very importunate the voice was heard into the next Chamber where he lay at which out of curiosity he rose in his shirt to listen and heard one pray for him by which prayer he was converted Study therefore the Scriptures and present the examples you find there to your imitation Thirdly Get a strong love to your Master Love will put you upon any work love will set head hand and feet a working and tongue a going love makes heavy things light hard things easie love is a mighty Engine it can do any thing love will make you forget length of time In a word love is like to make one faithful obedient and diligent Fourthly Be humble meek and patient The humble man thinks nothing below him which is his duty and if to do his duty be to be vile Mat. 18.4 1 Pet. 1.19 he will yet be vilerstill The humble God will guide exalt and save Humility displeaseth none but the Devil Fifthly Be much in good company and hearken to their advice Be constant in prayer and beg of God to make you faithful and be conscientious in your attendance upon a powerful faithful Ministry In a word live much in the thought of your great account and in thus doing I question not but you will find grace to be faithful to God and man and be accepted of your Master here and rewarded by God hereafter Thus I have according to my poor ability set the duty of Masters and Servants before them O that there were a general resolution in both to put these duties into practice O then what a blessed reformation should we soon have How soon would our great troubles cease How soon would our complaints be silenced and our sorrows be turned into joy O that all sorts and degrees of men would but reform one and fill up their particular places and relations with duty Then O what happy times what happy days should we yet enjoy Christians let 's joyn in our prayers and utmost endeavours for the promoting this glorious work and then our God would bless us and we should bless him for ever The Sinfulness and Cure of Thoughts Serm. XIX Gen. 6.5 And God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually I Know not a more lively description in the whole Book of God of the Natural corruption derived from our first Parents than these words Wherein you have the Ground of that grief which lay so close to God's heart v. 6. and the Resolve thereupon to destroy man and whatsoever was serviceable to that ungrateful creature That must be highly offensive which moved God to repent of a fabrick so pleasing to him at the creation every stone in the building being at the first laying pronounced good by Him and upon a review at the finishing the whole He left it the same character with an Emphasis †Gen. 1.31 very good There was not a pin in the whole frame but was * Eccles 3.11 very beautiful and being wrought by infinite * Psal 104.24 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Euseb Praeparo Evang. wisdom it was a very comely piece of Art What then should provoke him to repent of so excellent a work The wickedness of man which was great in the earth How came it to pass that man's wickedness should swell so high Whence did it spring Fom the imagination Though these might be sinful imaginations might not the superiour faculty preserve it self untainted Alas That was defiled The imagination of the thoughts was evil But though running thoughts might wheel about in his mind yet they might leave no stamp or impression upon the will and affections Yes they did The imagination of the thoughts of his heart was evil Surely all could not be under such a blemish Were there not now and then some pure slashes of the mind No not one Every imagination But granting that
A SUPPLEMENT TO THE Morning-Exercise At CRIPPLE-GATE OR Several more Cases of Conscience Practically Resolved by sundry Ministers The Second Edition Our rejoycing is this the Testimony of our Conscience that in simplicity and Godly sincerity not with fleshly Wisdom but by the Grace of God we have had our conversation in the World 2 Cor. 1.12 Conscientia est nescio quid divinum nunquam perit officium nostrum nobis semper ad memoriam revocat Doroth. Bibl. Pat. T. 4. p. 769. Quaerimus quomodo animus semper aequalis secundoque cursu eat propitius sibi sit sua laetus adspiciat hoc gaudium non interrumpat sed placido statu maneat nec attollens se unquam nec deprimens Seneca de Tranq anim p. 678. LONDON Printed for Thomas Cockerill at the Sign of the Atlas in Cornhil near the Royal-Exchange MDCLXXVI To that part of Christ's Flock to which I am more specially related Grace Mercy and Peace from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ our Saviour Beloved Christians AS I called in a Contribution of Help for the composing of a Legacy for others before my Civil Death so I now tender you A Supplement to that Exercise for your better liveliness of Spiritual Life I shall say nothing to commend these Sermons to you my Brethren are all herein unanimous to seek the Church's Profit not their own Applause only this I must say to prevent mistake viz. If any curious Reader shall find matter of Exception besides the Errors of Printing which I confess are too many the blame must be Personal because this joynt-work is no otherwise Social than as single Pearls strung together make one Neck-lace I easily grant here 's not yet a stating of all important Cases yet be this known to you whoever shall follow these Directions shall neither be barren nor unfruitful in the work of the Lord nor miss of an abundant entrance into his Everlasting Kingdom Live up to what you have attained and you may be confident that what is further wanting God will as you want it supply it Be assur'd of this that you will get more skill and strength for all necessary Graces and Duties by an humble serious constant Course of Godliness than you possibly can do by captious Criticismes and wrangling Contentions about lesser things in which too many spend their Lives I herein appeal to your Consciences should not these Sermons answer expectation but according to your judgment either the Cases are ill chose or not well stated in that the Matter is either defective or redundant the Language too curious or too careless the Directions too common or too singular I appeal from your Passions to your Consciences and down-right charge you in the Name of my Master who must be your Judg that you read with other Spectacles These are not calculated to humour you but to better you These are not Duties to be cavil'd at but to be practised O that you may be effectually perswaded 1. That your Love to God Sermon 1 must be predominant and growing or you degrade your selves below the Beasts 2. That your Love to Man must be universal and spiritual Sermon 2 Sermon 3 or you can't evidence your Love to God 3. That your Love to the World must truckle under both be subservient to both and never be otherwise for if the World master you 't will â—â—in you Oh that your awakened Sermon 4 Consciences may now allarm you 4. To catch at Salvation while it is Sermon 5 offer'd lest you perish for ever Though 't is a vexed Problem 5. What Knowledg is necessary to Salvation yet can you satisfie your Consciences without diligent Endeavours to proportion your Knowledg to the Means you enjoy And to bring forth Fruits every day as those that in some Sermon 6 measure feel 6. What 't is to be in the Spirit on the Lord's Day and Sermon 7 8. that the Word 7. Preach'd and 8. Read may be so impress'd upon Heart and Life that it may be an infallible Evidence you are taught of God And when through weakness of the Flesh your Duties may prove Sermon 9 wearisom 9. Learn to refresh your selves with the Songs of Zion But would you have more particular Directions They are before you Sermon 10 Here you may learn true Christianity 10. In the daily Improvement of Sermon 11 your Baptism Here you may learn 11. How to propagate Religion to Posterity by riveting Truth upon your own Hearts and teaching it to Sermon 12 others but while you are giving Milk to Babes 12. Excuse not your selves upon any account whatsoever from frequent and hungry feeding upon stronger Meat Be you as willing to seal to the Conditions of the Covenant as you are desirous God should seal to the Promises of it But who is sufficient for these things Pour out your Hearts therefore and Sermon 13 list up your Souls to God in all manner of Prayer 13. Let extraordinary Sermon 14 Prayer answer that title 14. Your secret Prayer speak secret Communion Sermon 15 with God 15. Let your Family prayer bring down Blessings upon your Family that you be neither Holy nor Happy alone but that when your Family-relations shall cease they may bless God to Eternity that ever there were such Relations between you Now therefore Sermon 16 16. Let Husbands and Wives be the liveliest Emblems in the World of Sermon 17 Christ and his Church 17. Let Parents and Children be the Evidences and Pledges of God's special presence with this and the next Sermon 18 Generation 18. Let Masters and Servants adorn the Gospel by their exemplary Faithfulness to their Heavenly Master Thus doing Sermon 19 19. Your Thoughts will be cured and in them you 'l enjoy God Sermon 20 20. Your Tongues will in some sense be God's glory as well as yours But Sermon 21 then 21. You must cautiously avoid the catching Canker of Detraction Sermon 22 22. So you shaâ—l by your Conversations convince the World there 's an Excellency in Christianity And that all this may be as well acceptable Sermon 23 to God as approved of Men 23. Do all in the Name of Christ and Sermon 24 while you thus embarque with Christ 24. He 'l steer you safe between Presumption and Despair those Rocks upon one of which most perish Hereby also 25. You 'l make your Port with the chearing Joys of an Sermon 25 Heroick Faith 26. And keep above all Vexing Discontents with your Sermon 26 Worldly Condition 27. And what Afflictions God's wise Love shall Sermon 27 inflict you 'l be able to bear them with more than a Roman Courage 28. And though reproachful Reproofs may bear hard upon you you 'l not Sermon 28 fret but welcome them as a precious Balm But when you have done your best yet through the Remainders of Corruption Guilt will be contracted 29. You can't but be restless till it be removed 30. Then you Sermon 29 30. may rather hope for than
Families Husbands towards their Wives Wives toward their Husbands both toward their Children and they again toward their Parents In a word Men are to study those things which are most profitable such as will better their condition and not only improve their understanding You know a sick Man had rather have a good Medicine than fine Clothes he minds more the easing of his Pain than the dressing up of his Body That which will make you spruce will not always make you well Fine trappings will not Cure a lame Horse nor the Painting of the Face heal the Diseases of the Spleen or Liver That knowledge which adorns your Mind yet may not always mend your Heart To conclude this Men must labour to know the truth as it is in Jesus Eph. 4.21 So to know it as to feel it and be under the influence of it or to know the truth to that end for which Christ teacheth it that is that Men may be better as well as wiser more ready to do their Master's will as well as know it Men know the truth as they should and as Christ would have them when their knowledge puts them upon the great duties of Mortification and Sanctification v. 22. That ye put off as to your former Conversation the Old man and v. 23 24. Be renewed in the Spirit of your Mind and put on the New man Prop. 7. Every Man should labour to get as much Spiritual knowledge as he can by the means of the knowledge he hath and as he can get without the neglect of other necessary duties It is not for nothing that the Apostle prays for the Collossians Ch. 1.9 that they might be filled with the knowledge of God's will in all Wisdom and Spiritual understanding and exhorts the Corinthians Epist 1.14.20 though in Malice they were Children yet in understanding to be Men. If Christians ought to grow in every Grace why not in knowledge which is it self a Grace and helpful to all other Graces We are to be accomptable for the means we have of getting our knowledge increased and therefore sure are to labour that we may get it encreased And though a less measure of knowledge might serve turn to bring a Man to Heaven yet 1. It is contrary to that Spirit of Ingenuity that largeness of Heart towards the things of God which is supposed to be in Believers to stint themselves in the knowledge of the truth and to be content to know only just so much as may carry them to Heaven That were to study Spiritual truths not so much because they love them as because they cannot want them and so not of choice but necessity 2. Even where a less measure of knowledge might save a Man yet a greater should be endeavoured after because it might be otherwise so useful For 1. It might make his work more easie Clearness of knowledge takes off much from the Difficulty of Duty The better a Man sees his work the more easily he may do it The most skilful Artist may sumble when he works by a dim light That Man is like to go on most readily in his way who not only knows the right one but the wrong ones too those turnings and by-paths which might mislead him and seeing the Monuments of others mistakes may be warned by their wandrings 2. More knowledge might make his way more pleasant The more delectable Objects a Man hath to entertain his Eyes the more delight he may take in Travelling When Night-journeys as they have more of Danger so have less of Pleasure A clear sight of Spiritual things may help a Christian in his way not only as a Direction but as a Delight 3 It might make himself more useful more helpful to others Nec in hoc tantùm te accerso ut proficias sed ut prosis Sen. Epist Though less knowledge might suffice us for our selves as to our general Duties yet more will make us helpful to others and enable us better for the performance of relative Duties The more knowledge we have the more we may communicate Those that understand most themselves may best instruct and direct others They that are well skilled in their own duties are most sit to teach others theirs Rom. 15.14 Filled with knowledge able also to admonish one another And thus we see in these propositions what knowledge we are to labour after in order to Salvation Only I add two Cautions against two ordinary vices which Men are very liable to in their enquiring after knowledge Nihil igitur certius est quà m alterū Angelicae cognitionis genus quo post Deum quae in Deo sunt reliqua intelligunt non ita perfectum esse quin in hoc cognitionis genere quotidie proficere possint novi Semper aliquid discendo ac novo modo cognoscendo Zanch. de dei ope ib. Caut. 1. Take heed of curiosity which is the itch of the mind It is not a kindly appetite but a fond longing or an ambitious vain affectation of knowing those things which we are least concerned or not at all concerned to know and which if known would do us little good It is a lust and therefore not to be indulged in our selves but mortified It appears 1. In making inquiries into these things which God hath not revealed Deut. 29.29 Secret things belong to the Lord our God but things that are revealed unto us and to our Children c. This curiosity our Saviour checks in his Disciples Act. 1.6 Wilt thou say they at this time restore the Kingdom to Israel Our Saviour replies It is not for you to know the times and the seasons which the Father hath put in his own power God hath revealed enough to us in his Word for our use and furtherance in Faith and Holiness and to desire to know more is to desire to be wiser than God would have us We must not pry into those things which it is only God's Prerogative to know The Angels themselves know not some things and we should be content as well as they not to be omniscient It is dangerous peeping into God's Ark you know who smarted for it 1 Sam. 6.19 If knowing what God hath revealed do not save us I am sure searching into what he hath not revealed will not God hath told us so much of his mind in the word as may take up our whole Man in the study of it and we cannot busie our selves in inquiring into his secrets without neglecting the study of those things which are revealed and are most useful for us 2. Curiosity appears in enquiring into the reason of God's will If Rulers in the World will not have their Laws disputed If volumus jubemus be their stile and though they do not give the reason of their Commands yet they count their Commands reason enough for their Subjects obedience Sure we should allow God as much as we do his Creatures We should reckon God's will is never unreasonable His
God 3. Odes or spiritual Songs may belong to natural things what we ought to debate discuss viz. The Race Order Harmony and Continuance of the World and God's infinite Wisdom manifested in it 2. Some distinguish these according to the Authors of them 1. Psalms they are the Composures of holy David 2. Hymns they are the Songs of some other excellent men recorded in Scripture as Moses Heman Asaph c. 3. Spiritual Songs they are Odes of some other holy and good men not mentioned in Scripture as the Song of Ambrose Nepos and others 3. Some aver that these several speeches mentioned in the Text answer the Hebrew distinction of Psalms Among them there were 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Mizmorim which treated of various and different Subjects 2. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 which only mentioned the Praises of the most High 3. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 which were Songs more artificially and musically composed and some Divines observe were sung with the help of a musical Instrument But I may add Are not all these several species mentioned to prefigure the Plenty and the Joy which is reserved for the Saints within the Vail when they shall join in consort with the glorious Angels in singing their perpetual Hallelujahs to their glorious Creator 3 The manner of Singing Our Text saith with Melody with inward joy and tripudlation of Soul If the Tongue make the Pause the Heart must make the Elevation The Apostle saith to the Colossians Colos 3.16 We must sing with grace which is as some expound it 1. Cum gratiarum actione with giving of thanks And indeed thankfulness is the very Selah of this duty that which puts an accent upon the Musick and sweetness of the Voice and then we sing melodiously when we warble out the Praises of the Lord. 2. With gracefulness with a becoming and graceful dexterity And this brings both profit and pleasure to the Hearers as Davenant observes Psalms are not the Comedies of Venus or the jocular Celebrations of a wanton Adonis but they are the Spiritual ebullitions of a composed Soul to the incomprehensible Jehovah with real grace God's Spirit must breathe in this service Et prodessâ— veliat dâ—lectâ—re Dav. Cantemus cum gratia à Spiriâ—u Sâ—ncto donata Chrysost Hoc quod praecinitur sine gratià Dâ—i impleri non potest Oecâ—m Sine corde nulla est modalatio Bod. here we must act our joy our confidence our delight Singing is the triumph of a gracious Soul the Child joying in the praises of his Father In singing of Psalms the gracious heart takes wings and mounts up to God to joyn with the Celestial Quire It is grace which sits the heart for and sweetens the heart in this duty And where this qualification is wanting this service is rather an hurry than a duty it is rather a disturbance than any obedience 4. The Master of the Chore the Preceptor that is the Heart We must look to the Heart in singing that it be purged by the Spirit and that it be replete with spiritual Affection He plays the Hypocrite who brings not the heart to this Duty One observes There is no Tune without the Heart Singing takes its proper rise from the Heart the Voice is only the further progress And indeed God is the Creator of the whole man and therefore he will be praised not only with our Tongues but with our Hearts The Apostle tells us He will sing with the spirit 1 Cor. 14.15 And David informs us his heart was ready to sing and give praise Nâ—n vox sed votum non musica cerdula sed cor Aug. De modo benè vivendi Bern. Psal 57.7 8. 108.1 Augustine admonisheth us It is not a Musical-string but a Working-heart is harmonious The Virgin Mary sings her Magnificat with her heart Luke 14.47 And Bernard tells us in a Tract of his That when we sing Psalms let us take heed that we have the same thing in our Mind that we warble forth in our Tongue and that our Song and our Heart do not run several ways If we in singing only offer the Calves of our Lips it will too much resemble a Carnal and a Jewish service 5. The End of the Duty To the Lord. So saith the Text viz. To Jesus Christ who is here principally meant Our singing must not serve our Gain or our Luxury or our Fancy but our Christ our Lord and dear Redeemer In this Duty it is his Praises we must mainly and chiefly celebrate And most deservedly we magnifie the true God by Psalms and Singing when the Heathens celebrate their false and dung-hill-Gods Jupiter Neptune and Apollo with Songs and Hymns One well observes Singing of Psalms is part of Divine Worship Deus est canendi Vnicus Scopus Bod. and of our Homage and Service due to the great Jehovah Bodius takes notice that God is the true and only scope of all our singing And truly if the Spirit of God be in us he will be steddily aimed at by us Thus Deborah and Barak sang their Triumphal Song to the Lord Judges 5.3 The several parts of the Text being thus opened they may be set together again in this Divine and Excellent Truth Doct. Non franges vocem sed frange voluntatem non serves tantùm Consonantiam Vocum sed concordium Mo um Bern. Aug. In the Ordinance of Singing we must not make Noise but Musick and the Heart must make Melody to the Lord. So the Text. Augustine complained of some in his time That they minded more the Tune than the Truth more the Manner than the Matter more the Governing of the Voice than the Raisedness of the Mind And this was a great offence to him Singing of Psalms must only be the joyous breathing of a raised Soul and here the cleanness of the Heart is more considerable than the clearness of the Voice In this Service we must study more to act the Christian than the Musitian Many in singing of Psalms are like the Organs whose Pipes are filled only with Wind. The Apostle Col. 3.16 tells us we must sing with our Heart We must sing David's Psalms with David's Spirit One tells us God is a Spirit and he will be worshipped in Spirit even in this duty Now to traverse the Truth 1. We will shew the Divine Authority of this Ordinance 2. We will shew the Sweetness of it 3. The Universal Practice of it 4. We shall shew the Honours God hath put upon this Ordinance 5. And then come to the main Case 6. And make Application For the first We shall shew the Divine Authority of this Ordinance 1. By Scripture-Command 2. By Scripture-Argument 3. By Scripture-Pattern 4. By Scripture-Prophesie 1. From Scripture-Precept And here we have divers commands laid upon us both in the Old and New Testament David who among his honourable Titles obtains this to be called the Sweet Singer of Israel 2 Sam. 23.1 he frequently calls upon himself Psal 7.17 I
to the Sheeps passing out of the Fold when they were to be Tithed for God Levit. 27.32 they were to be told with a Rod one two three c. and the Tenth was the Lords God will not covenant with us in the lump and body but every one was to be particularly minded of his Duty 't is not enough that our Parents did engage for us in Baptism as the Israelites in the Name of their little ones did avouch God to be their God Dent. 29.10 11 12. No man can savingly transact this Work for another we must ratifie the Covenant in our own Persons and make our own professed subjection to the Gospel of Christ 2 Cor. 9.13 This Work cannot be done by a Proxy or Assigns our Parents Dedication will not profit us without some personal Act of our own if we live to years of discretion Once more this must be done not only in words or visible external Rites which may signifie so much as personal Covenanting with God but a Man must ingage his heart to God Jer. 30.21 yea this is a business that must be done between God and our own Souls where no outward witnesses are conscious to it God speaketh to the Soul in this transaction Psal 35.3 Say unto my Soul I am thy Salvation and the Soul speaketh to God Lam. 3.24 thou art my Portion saith my soul and Psal 16.2 O my soul thou hast said unto the Lord thou art my God thus the Covenant is carried on in Soul-Language Now upon this Personal inward Covenanting with God our right to all the priviledges doth depend 2. Renew often the sense of your Obligation to God and keep a constant reckoning how you lay out your selves for him Acts 27.23 His I am and him I serve Phil. 1.21 To me to Live is Christ Some few Renegado's renounce their Baptism but most Christians forget their Baptism 2 Pet. 1.9 He is blind and cannot see afar off and has forgotten that he was washed from his old sins therefore we should be continually exciting our selves both to obedience and dependence that the sincerity of our first Vow and Consent may be verified by a real and constant performance of it 3. You should use frequent self-reflection that you may come to know whether you are indeed washed from the guilt and silth of sin 1 Cor. 6.11 Such were some of you but now ye are sanctified but now ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the spirit of our God You should observe what further sense you have of the pardon of sin how you get ground upon your bondage of Spirit and grow up into some rejoycing of Faith for by these signs God intended our strong consolation Heb. 6.18 And the Eunuch when he was Baptized went his way rejoicing Acts 8.39 Hath God applyed his Covenant to me Taken me into the Family Planted me into the Mystical Body of Christ and shall not I be glad and rejoyce in his Salvation So for Sanctification see whether God's Interest doth prevail in you or the Interest of the Flesh what Power and strength of Will you get against Corruption easily Gal. 5.16 17. whether sin be more subdued and you can govern your Passions and Appetites better Gal. 5.24 They that are Christ's should find something of this in themselves otherwise their Baptism is but an empty formality Fourthly and Lastly You must use it as a great help in all Temptations as when you are tempted to sin either by the delights of Sense a Christian hath his Answer ready I am no Debtor to the Flesh or I am Baptized and dedicated to God in the way of Mortification and Holiness to obtain pardon and Life 1 Cor. 6.15 Shall I take the Members of Christ c. this Soul this Body this Time this Strength is Christs not to please the Flesh but the Lord Or by the terrors of Sense Dionysia comforted her Son Majoricus an African Martyr when he was going to suffer for owning the God-head of Christ with this Speech Memento Fili Baptizatum esse in nomine Patris Filii Spiritus Sancti Remember my Son that thou art Baptized in the name of the Father Son and Holy Ghost and be constant So when you are tempted by the Devil taking advantage of your Melancholy and grievous afflictions to question God's Love and Mercy to Penitent Believers Remember the Covenant Sealed in Baptism that you may keep up your Faith in God through Christ which pardoneth all your sins and hath begotten us to a lively hope We must expect to be Tempted the Devil tempted Christ after his Baptism to question his filiation so solemnly attested Compare Mat. 3.17 with Mat. 4.16 Luther saith of himself that when the Devil tempted him to despair or to any doubts and fears about the Love of God or his Mercy to Sinners he would always Answer Ecce ego Baptizatus sum credo in Christum Crucifixum Behold I am Baptized and Believe in Christ Crucified And he telleth us of an Holy Virgin who gave this reply when the Devil abused her Solitudes and injected any despairing thoughts into her mind Baptizata sum I am Baptized and entred into God's Covenant and will expect the pardon of my sins by Jesus Christ Thus should we all the daies of our Life improve our Baptism till we have the full of that Holy and Happy estate for which we were first purified and washed in God's Laver. By what Scriptural Rules may Catechizing be be so managed as that it may become most Vniversally Profitable Serm. XI Proverbs 22.6 Train up or Catechize a Child in the way he should go or in his way and when he is old he will not depart from it THIS most Excellent Book of Sacred Aphorisins or Divine Proverbs is by some not unfitly compared to a costly Chain of Orient Pearls among which though there be a fair Connexion yet there is little or no Coherence I shall therefore immediately enter on the words themselves and in them I observe a Precept and a Promise an important Duty and a perswasive Motive 1. A grand important necessary Duty enjoyned Train up or Catechize a Child in the way he should go In which words we have 1. The Act or Duty prescribed Train up or Catechize Piously and prudently instruct and educate 2. The Object or Person that is to be trained up a Child By a Synechdoche all such Younger ones and Inferiours as are committed to the care and conduct of their Superiours 3. The Subject-matter wherein these Inferiours are thus to be trained up In the way he should go In that way or manner of life which most suits and becomes him that makes most for God's Glory and his own temporal spiritual and eternal good 2. Quo semel est in buta recens servabit odrem testa diu Aâ— plurimum So. Observation 2. A Cogent Argument or prevalent Motive to excite and quicken to the faithful discharge of this important Duty And
when he is old he will not depart from it i. e. not easily not ordinarily depart from it He will be the better for it as long as he lives Hildersham From the first of these viz. the Precept that enjoins the Duty I infer That it is the great and indispensable Duty and therefore ought to be the serious and constant care of Superiours prudently and piously to train up or Catechize to instruct and educate all such Inferiours as are committed to their care and conduct In the pursuing of this Momentous Truth I shall tread in this Method laying before you these five things 1. What it is to train up or Catechize 2. What is meant by That Way wherein persons are to be trained up 3. Who they are that are to be trained up or Catechized 4. Who they are that are to train up or Catechize and why 5. How the whole Affair may be so prudently piously spiritually managed as that it may be Crown'd with such a blessed success as to become most universally profitable 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 a 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 initia primum imbue institue instrue dedica Buxtorf 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 instructos expeditos incipientes suos pueros fidos initiatos quos domi nuâ—riverat quos arte bellied lege Divina instruxerat Whether by way of Question and Answer Vid pag. 7. 1. What it is to train up or Catechize Sol. The word in the Text is very pregnant and greatly significant Primum imbue give the first dip dy tincture seasoning Hence by a Metaphor the word is diversly translated Initia so Ar-Mout Begin or give the first instruction lay the ground-work foundation or first stone Deduc So Chald. Paraph. Vers Instrue Set in order or array arm train up instruct Thus Abraham armed or led forth his trained or instructed servants Gen. 14.14 The word is also translated Dedicavit Consecravit i. e. to set a person or thing apart and to devote it to the true God in a right manner for holy uses and ends with solemn prayer and praise Thus the word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 is used Deut. 20.5 Psal 30. title 1 Kings 9.7 2 Cbron. 7.5 1 Kings 13.13 1 Chron. 18.11 The Greeks render the word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 A word of a peculiar signification and imports a plain and familiar teaching and instructing of the ignorant by word of mouth in the first grounds and Fundamental Principles of the true and in the strictest sense the Christian Religion Thus the word is used Luke 1.4 Acts 18.25 1 Cor. 14.19 Gal. 6.6 Hence it may be suppos'd it was that our Translators in the Margent render the word Catechize as being prompted thereunto by the Jewish Rabbins who stile their form of Catechism 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 a Book of first instruction 2. What is meant by that way wherein persons are to be trained up or Catechized and initiated 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Juxta viam suam i. e. juxta vitae genu quod ipsum sequi velis Sol. In the way he should go In the way or manner of his life Gen. 43.7 in via sua in his way in his kind and according to his capacity and measure and suitably to the weakness and tenderness of his years in the sound knowledg and practice of those truths and principles which may fit him for the service of his God and Generation here and for the eternal enjoyment of his God hereafter Let Paul interpret Solomon in his way 1. In the nurture and admonition of the Lord Eph. 6.4 i. e. in all profitable instruction suitable to a Child's age and state 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 for the framing and moulding of him by knowledg unto a commendable and vertuous carriage and for the doing of greater good in humane Society when he comes to write himself Man but especially in Religious instruction The first Principles of the Oracles of God and of the Doctrine of Christ Heb. 5.12 6.1 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 in instruction in righteousness 2 Tim. 3.16 In the words of Faith and of good doctrine 1 Tim. 4.6 There is something more yet in the words ad os supra os Ar-Mont upon the mouth of his way A form of speaking frequently used in Scripture to note the suitableness or proportion of the thing Exod. 16.21 according to the mouth of his eating i. e. according to the measure of his eating So Num. 7.5 To every Levite according to the mouth i. e. the condition and degree of his service Thus here Train up a Child upon the mouth of his way i. e. in such a way as is not only good and honest in it self Pro captu ingenii ejus infirmioris ut non eum plus oneres quà m aetas fert but most proper and suitable to the spirit disposition end and capacity of the Child As Children are to be fed with such meat so they are to be taught in such a manner as they can most easily and profitably digest Teach them but thus upon the mouth and then out of their mouth shall come praise Psal 8.3 3. Who they are that are thus to be trained up or Catechized and why 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 a 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Excussit puerum puerulum infantem ex utero nuperrimè excussum 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Ità hodiè Rabbini puerum 5. annotum ad Biblia 10 ad mischna seu Textum Talmudium 13. ad Praecept 15. ad Talmud Jer. 1.6 2 Chr. 13.7 Isa 5.3 Sol. All younger ones and Inferiours that are committed by God or men to the care and conduct of Superiours all included in the name Child The Original word admits of several significations An Infant newly born Judg. 13.7 of three months old Exod. 26. A Child as soon as he begins to speak and exert his reason Thus it runs parallel with the Greek word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 And so we find Timothy instructed from a Child a Babe a Suckling 2 Tim. 1.5 with 3.15 It takes in Boys also and Girls Sons and Daughters of somewhat riper age youths as Shechem Gen. 34.19 Damosels and those marriageable Deut. 22.19 The word is also applied to Abraham's Men-servants Gen. 22.3 and to Booz Maid-servants Ruth 2.22 Est 4.4 To such as though they may be men in years are children in understanding These all and every one of these come within the List of those that Solomon and his God would have train'd up and Catechiz'd Nay let me add there is not a younger Son of the Prophets not one that sits at the feet of those Learned Gamaliels those truly Reverend Elijahs that can justly plead exemption from this seeming task shall I say or real honour of being clearly taught in and firmly fixt upon those Everlasting Foundations the first principles of the Oracles of God Heb. 5.12 6.1 4. Who they are that are thus to train up or Catechize these Inferiours and younger ones Sol. All
but the whole made up of these parts And the whole must needs be such as the parts are of which it consists Families are but like the Book in loose sheets and Kingdoms like the Book bound up The one but like letters that are single and apart the other like letters joined together Now if the sheets be not good or the letters not good the book or writing cannot possibly be good Give us the best Magistrates let them Enact the best Laws and back them with the strictest Exccution yet Societies will be naught whilest Governours of Families neglect their duty in Religious Education 3. With what a Cloud of Witnesses do the Holy Scriptures present us of Governours of Families that have been greatly conscientious in their faithful discharge of this duty Josh 24.15 We told you before of Abraham's Trained Instructed Catechized servants Gen. 18.19 After him Joshua who resolves that whatever others might do he and his houshold would serve the Lord though others should forsake the Lord yet he like Noah and Lot just in his Generation Joshua doth not only chuse to be saved by Jehovah but to serve Jehovah But more especially observe the latitude and circumference of his choice I and my House Not himself without his Family much less his Family without himself but himself and his Family and first himself and then his Family We vvill serve the Lord. Lo here the firmness and stability of Joshua's choice We will serve the Lord not only we desire to do it but we are fully resolv'd to do it Hear what David promises and pre-ingages when ever he came to sway the Royal Scepter viz. to be a singular example both as a Prince and as a Master of a Family Psal 101. In which respect this Psalm should be often read and ruminated on by such that their Houses may be as the House of David Zech. 12.8 And as Melancthon attests concerning the Palace of George Prince of Anhalt that it was at once Ecclesiastica Academica Curia a Royal Court a Learned Academy and an Holy Church Act and Mor. 1559. fol. Mr. Fox reports that Bishop Ridley often read and expounded this Psalm to his houshold hiring them with money to get it by heart Well what says David here v. 2. I will behave my self wisely in a perfect way I will begâ—n the intended Reformation at my self and then set things to rights in my Family I will walk within my house with a perfect heart and then see what work he makes how conscientiously he demeans himself towards those under his Family-charge from v. 3. to 8. Good Governours of Families are like that Noble-man who had for his impress two bundles of Millet bound together with this Motto Servare servari meum est for the Nature of Millet is to guard it self from all corruption and all those things that lye near it 'T is a rare Elogy that is given the late Reverend and Religious Dr. Chatterton that he was an House-keeper 53 years yet in all that time never kept any of his Servants from Church to dress his Meat saying Clark's lives that he desired as much to have his Servants know God as himself In short observe the strain and current of the whole Scriptures Dr. Jacom â— Dom. Deo Jun. â—07 and you shall find very few or none of those Family-Governours that were really converted themselves but they gave this excellent testimony of the Truth and soundness of the Grace of God in them viz. in being careful and sollicitous to beget and breed it in the hearts of those that were under their roof and charge If Esther fasts so shall her Maids too Esth 4.16 And in the New Testament we find the Masters interest and duty taken to be so great for the Conversion of the rest that as he was not to content himself with his own Conversion but to labour presently that his houshold should join with him that so the whole Family at once might be devoted to God So God did bless his own Order and Ordinance to that end And where he imposed duty on Masters he usually gave such success that commonly the whole Family was converted and baptized with the Ruler of the Family So we read Act. 10.2 Cornelius a Centurion a godly Captain a devout man and one that feared God with all his house to whom the Angel promised that Peter should tell him words whereby he and all his houshold should be saved Acts 11.14 Doth the Lord open Lydia's heart to attend to the things spoken by Paul It follows instantly she was baptized and her houshold Doth the Gaoler believe on the Lord Jesus Paul assuxes him that he shall be saved and his house and so it was for he and all his were baptized streightway for he believed in God with all his house Acts 16.32 33 34. Christ no sooner comes to Zacheus his Soul but Salvation comes to Zacheus house Luke 19.9 Crispus believes on the Lord with all his house Acts 18.8 The Noble man himself believed and his whole house John 4.53 These Family-Governours it seems took special care of the welfare of their Servants Souls did not act like Turks who mind nothing about their Slaves but their doing their own work These judg'd that if it were cruelty not to allow their servants bodily food much more savage and bloody to starve their Souls And therefore it might well be said of those happy Servants whom Providence fixt under their Conduct as the Queen of Sheba of Solomon's Servants 1 Kings 10.8 Happy are these thy servants which stand continually before thee and that hear thy wisdom Obj. But there are some Masters whose weakness and delusion I cannot but pity that are apt to object thus True 't is good to teach our ignorant Servants but we must question yea in our Consciences doubt whether we may require and command them to learn Will not this incroach on the Liberty of their Consciences which ought to be left free Sol. 1. I cannot but wonder at this depth of Satan who so strangely inveigles men to tolerate all things by meer scrupling of them and to let the Reins loose purely out of strictness To think it a sin in themselves to press a duty on others and no less than a breach of God's Holy Laws to injoin the keeping of them 2. Tell me how comes it to pass that Masters who can allow themselves to be severe enough to their Servants for loytering in their Shops cannot find in their hearts to rebuke them for neglect of their Souls that they who hold themselves bound in Conscience to inform their Servants in all the secrets of their Trade should think themselves as much tied up from pressing them to learn the Mysteries of Religion 3. There is but too much cause of fear lest they who use not all the means they can to bring their own Servants to the Faith be themselves brought at last to an unprofitable Repentance
the Institution of the two Sacraments of the New Testament But here as indeed in all Religious instruction remember that you are not to teach Parots but Christians persons though for the present ignorant yet capable of understanding both words and things Be not therefore satisfied in the Child 's bare repeating of the words Bowles Past Evang. l. 2. c 5. as a thick-skul'd Papist is taught to mumble over his Pater noster or Ave Maria which he no more understands than that sottish Priest did his Mumpsimus but first unlock the Cabinet that is open to the Child the true meaning of the words and then present him with the Jewels that is the Truths contained in those words Remember it as an undoubted Maxim It is impossible clearly to apprehend Truths unless we rightly understand those words in which Truths are wrapt up 2. For others that are of a larger capacity I shall not presume to dedicate among those more than scores of excellent Catechisms that are extant and may be of singular use both in Families and Churches which to pitch upon with the slighting of any of the rest I bless the Lord for the common Catechism of our Church and for Doctor Hills improvement of it in which I was initiated when a Child God hath signally own'd Mr. Perkins his Six Principles and no less Mr. Bali's Catechism Crook's Guide is highly esteemed by the Learned judicious and godly and I judge not unworthily if for nothing else than this its great harmony with the sum and substance of Christian Religion compos'd by that great Master in our English Israel These Catechisms I say to me with many many more sparkle like so many precious Diamonds in my eyes but it pleased the Lord in the beginning of my Ministry to direct me to the use of those Catechisms that were compos'd by the late Reverend Assembly of Divines at Westminster Catechisms which I then found greatly approved not only by the godly and judicious at home but also by several of the Reformed Churches abroad and such as have this peculiar Excellency beyond most that I have seen that every Answer in them is an entire Proposition of it self without relation to the Question preceding These Catechisms I have made use of both in my Congregation and Family now near thirty years and I desire to speak it with all humility and thankfulness if ever the Lord smiled on my poor Labours it hath been whilest I have been busied in this great useful necessary work of Catechizing and that out of these Catechisms How these Excellent Catechisms may be used to the best advantage by Parents and Governours of Families I have long since given directions which may be had at Mr. Parkhurst's at the Bible and three Crowns near Mercer's Chappel 2. Ecclesiastical Superiors And as to my dear and Reverend Brethren of the Ministry that would at the Great Day be publickly own'd as Pastors after God's own Heart such as have minded the Flock more than the Fleece and in that Flock the Lambs as well as the Sheep To these my Brethren though I dare not presume to give advice what can my Taper do to their Sun my dâ—op to their stream yet they will give me leave to be their Remembrancer Dear Brethren who are to me as my own Soul our great and good God hath been pleas'd to honour us so far as to set us up as Stewards in his house to give every one his proper portion in due seasâ—n and of all others you know our Master's will is that young ones be especially provided for The Duty therefore that we ow to God the love we bear to Truth and to Souls that are not capable of being saved without the knowledg of Truth to the Souls of younger ones especially who if they be not taught the Truth in their greener years will more difficultly be brought to learn it when they are grown older Nay the love we owe to our own souls who must give a just account for every poor Soul committed to our charge we knowing how great a Price the least Lamb of our Flock hath cost how rich a Prey Satan hath ever reckon'd on in the poorest Soul how industrious he is in hunting how many nimble Beagles he hath that rejoice to do their best in the worst service he lists to imploy them how great advantages they have at this time by the many sad and fatal breaches made in all our hedges Surely in the serious consideration of these and many more particulars we shall in the strength of our God arise and be doing and revive that most necessary exercise of Catechizing in the midst of us But how 1. For advice at large and such as you vvill have cause to bless God for ever for if you please to follow it I refer you to that faithful and skilful Workman Mr. Baxter his Christian Directory fol. pag. 498. 509. 512. 515. 543. 582. and fourth Part. 44. 2. More particularly 1. Whatever you do in this work you will do it soundly and purely If ever a Pastor will in Doctrine shew incorruptness gravity sincerity let him do it in Catechizing Tit. 2.7 8. Sound speech that cannot be condemned that he that is of the contrary part may not be ashamed Give to Babes the sincere Milk 1 Pet. 2 2â— not sophisticated Wine 2. Do it plainly so plainly that he that runs may read and understand so plainly that none may excuse themselves at the Day of Judgment and say Lord we would have learned thy saving truths but they were too high too hard too difficult for us Remember the generality of people are very dull of hearing and such as have need of Milk Heb. 5.11 12. and not of strong Meat Speak we therefore so as that our Discourse may rise to the Conviction of the wisest but yet at the same time sink and condescend to the capacity of the meanest I am apt to fear that even then Dr. Wilkins vvhen vve aim lowest vve yet at that very time shoot above not only the hearts but heads of our people Let our main care therefore be to open the understandings of our Catechumeni This is that vvhich the Lord had in his eye vvhen he did not only command the Levites to instruct the children of Israel in the meaning of all his Statutes Lev. 10.11 but he laid this charge also upon every Parent to teach the Children the meaning of every Law and Ordinance of God Exod. 12.26 27. and 13 14. Dent. 6.20 If God required this under the Law much more now under the Gospel Isa 11.9 Neh. 8.2 3 vvhen 't is promised that the Earth should be filled with the knowledg of God The only service that is now acceptable unto God is our reasonable service Rom. 12.1 i. e. such service as is done unto him with reason and understanding Act. 8.30 The Word read profits not unless understood Vnderstandest thou what thou readest said
abroad Anacreon lost his life by the kernel of a Raisin going wrong down his throat 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 nihil firmum nihil tutum nec murus ahencâ—â— nec arx Adamâ—nâ—ina Fabius a Senator of Rome in a draught of Milk swallowing a small hair was strangled Plin. nat hist Do not your daily sins cry aloud for daily punishments and should you not in daily Prayer cry as loud that God in mercy would prevent them or if they come upon you to sanctifie them for your good or remove them or if they remain to support you under them Know indeed that you are no where safe without God's protection night or day If your houses were built upon foundations of stone and the Walls were made of brass or adamant and the doors of Iron yet you would be no longer safe than God protects you from all dangers Pray then Reason 7. 7. You must pray to God in your Families daily (7) Ad candem Ethnicorum exemplis provocamur or the very heathen will rise up against you Christians and condemn you Those that never had the means of Grace as you have had nor a Bible to direct and teach them as you have nor Ministers sent to them as you have had in abundance do shame many that are called Christians and go for great Professors too When I have read the sayings of some Heathen shewing what they were wont to do and consider and know the practice and negligence of many Christians in their Families I have been ready to conclude the heathen to be the better men It was their manner to sacrifice to their Gods morning and evening that they might have the favour of them and be successful in their outward estates as you may learn from their Poets 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Hesiod 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 l. 1. Which I render thus With all thy might to God immortal bring Holy and pure the best Burnt-offering That he appeas'd might be by Sacrifice When thou ly'st down and when the Sun doth rise In him to thee a pleased heart shall dwell And thou shalt purchase when shall others sell Another 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Homer Odys l. 3. Do not the Heathens shame many of you they were wont to say now we have sacrificed let us go to bed you say now we have supped let us go to bed or let us play a game or two at cards and go to bed Are you men or swine in the shape of men Mr. Perkins likened such to swine that live without Prayer in their Families which are always feeding upon the mast with greediness but never look up to the hand that beats it down nor to the tree from whence it falleth Christian oecono So much for the second Question Question III. How Family Prayer might be so managed that it might be for the spiritual benefit of every one in the Family For answer to this 1. Something must be considered in reference to the Master of the Family that is the mouth of the rest to God or Rules concerning this duty 2. Something in reference to those who are to joyn or Rules for them 3. Something in reference to Governours and Governed conjunctly or Rules common to both for the better performance of Family Prayer that it might be for the good and benefit of all The directions that chiefly concern the Master of the Family are these Direction I. 1. Let the Master of the Family exercise his Authority in the good Government of his houshold He is to be the foreman in the worship of God in the Family Mr. Perkins writes thus That the Master of the Family hath the proper government of the whole houshold and he comes not to it by election but by the Ordinance of God settled even in the order of nature and by the light of nature hath the principality and soveraignty therein he is Pater-Familias the father and chief head of the Family and ought therefore to bear the chief stroke and to be the principal agent director and furtherer of the worship of God in his Family and to keep order and to exercise discipline in his house Let him improve his Authority in commanding and causing every one in his house under his charge to be present and to attend upon God in Family Prayer God and Nature have made him the head of all the rest and the head is to govern rule direct and influence the whole Body Let him also take care to purge his house from sin and to his utmost power endeavour that none in his house live in gross sins that there be no swearers drunkards and openly profane sinners under his roof Thus Jacob purged his house when he was with them to worship God Family-Reformation tendeth much to the better and more profitable managing of Family Prayer Gen. 35.1 And God said unto Jacob arise go up to Bethel and dwell there and make there an Altar unto God v. 2. Then Jacob said unto his houshold and to all that were with him put away the strange Gods that are among you and be clean and change your Garments Ver. 3. And let us arise and go up to Bethel and I will make there an Altar unto God This Text speaks of conjunct Prayer Allequitur quidem Petrus maâ—num uxorem dum jubet concordes esse ut simul Deum uno animo precentur Haec ratio domesticas omnes turbas jurgia debet componere ut in singulis familiis invocetur Deus Calvin in 1 Pet. 3.7 Rex est pater-familias pater patriae in suo regno pater-familias est rex in sua domo 4. And they gave unto Jacob all the strange Gods that were in their hand So David Psal 101.6 He that walketh in a perfect way he shall serve me v. 7. He that worketh deceit shall not dwell with in my house and he that telleth lyes shall not tarry in my sight Family disorders hinder Family Prayer 1 Pet. 3.7 where the Apostle giveth directions to Family relations that their conjunct Prayers might not be hindered 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 the same word is used Matth. 3.10 and is translated Hewen down speaking of a tree that bringeth not forth good fruit and in the same sense Matth. 7.19 Luke 3.9 It signifieth also to be cut off Rom. 11.22 Unsuitable walking in our houses strikes at the very root of Family Prayer Family wickedness is hewing at this duty and if not remedied will cut them short if it do not cut them quite down quite cut them off Now this Family reformation lyeth much on the care of the Master of the Family who is to rule as King in his own house Esther 1.22 Ahasuerus made a Law that every man should bear rule in his own house and God hath appointed the Master of the Family to be 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉
〈◊〉 ruler of his own house Kings are Fathers of their own Countries and Fathers are Kings in their own houses in respect of their rule and authority over them 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Homer Odys lib. 1. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Idem Odys 9. Direction II. N c sibi nec aliis utilis Omne animi vitium tanto conspectius in se Crimen habet quanto qui peccat major habetur Juven Sat. 8. 2. That Prayer be managed to the spiritual benefit of the Family the Master thereof should make it his business to be accomplished with gifts and knowledg suitable to the place where God hath set him Ignorance in a Master of a Family renders him uncapable of the discharge of the duties of his place and is worse than in a Child or Servant Such a Family is lik a body that hath a head without eyes It is a shame to see what little knowledg many Governours of Families have in matters of Religion that when they should instruct and catechise their children and servants need to be catechised themselves The Apostle requireth this qualification in Masters of Families that they should be knowing men so some interpret this place 1 Pet. 3.7 as becomes knowing men Naturally men are endued with greater powers to understand than women are 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Viri similiteâ— unà versentur ut scientes decet Beza Piscat Quid est stultius quam quia diu non didiceriâ— non discere Omnis aetatis homines schola admittit Tamduâ— dâ—scendum est quamdiu nescias Sen. Epist 76. and a Master of a Family hath had more time to get knowledg than Children and Servants have and if he hath not attain'd to more it is his shame and reproach and renders him more contemptible in the eyes of those that are subjected to him who have not that reverent awe of him and his authority as they would have if authority were accompanied with knowledg study then you Masters the Scripture more and the grounds of Religion more that you might be able to manage this duty to the greater profit of all in your Families Direction III. 3. It is necessary also to this purpose that the Master of the Family instruct each member of his house in the principles of Religion that they may be able to understand the matter of the Prayers that are put up to God For if the Governour have knowledg how to ask and those that kneel down with him know not the meaning of his words though commonly used and plain to them that have been instructed how shall they concur in such requests or confessions or say Amen to what they do not understand Or what spiritual profit can they get When you lament Original Sin which you and they were guilty of and defiled with if they know not what this means nor how they are corrupted even from their birth how shall they in Prayer be humbled for it If you pray that you may be justified sanctified or have the Image of God engraven on your hearts that you may have Faith in Christ repentance for sin be converted c. how shall they joyn with you if they have no knowledg of these things when they are ignorant what is meant by the Image of God by faith repentance conversion c. and what benefit can they have by such Prayers as to their own concurrence with you to make these things their own desire when yet they are the things you must daily beg of God That Prayer then might be performed to their spiritual edification lay first the foundation be knowing your selves and make them so too and Prayer will be more advantageously done to you and them Nisi priùs in nobâ—s ejusmâ—diâ— affectus exsuscitamus quos altorum animis impressos volumus frustrà erit quicquld conamur Bowl past Evang. Direction IV. 4. That Prayer be managed to the spiritual profit of those in the Family the Master of the Family should get his own heart in good frame and get his own affections warmed in the duty Do you come to Prayer with a lively heart and quickned affections your selves your heat might warm them Quod enim minister Ecclesiae est in templo id pius pater-familias esi indomo ille publico docendi munere fungitur hic privatim suam instituit familiam ad pietatem ac hoâ—â—statem dâ—mesticos suos format Gerhard lo. com de Conjug and your earnest importunity might stir them up unto the same let them see you are in good earnest by your fervent praying as becomes men that are begging for such things as the life of their souls the pardon of their sin the favour of God deliverance from hell and for everlasting happiness Whereas if you come to the duty with flat dull and cold affections this will make them so too As you find it with your selves when you are under a dull and lukewarm Preacher you have little workings of affections so your Family will find it under your Prayers if they be such for as a Minister should get lively workings in his own breast of those affections which he would raise in the People so should you in Family duties get those workings of love joy and sorrow for sin which you would desire should be in those that joyn with you for what a Minister is in the Church that you are proportionably in your house Direction V. Orationis Lex ut non aliter quà m eos decet qui ad Dei colloquium in grediuntur mente animóque compositi simuâ— Calv. Inst l. 3. cap. 20. 5. When you are to set actually on the duty prepare your Family by some short advice to carry themselves as becomes those that are going to speak to the great eternal God at least sometimes and the oftner the better Do not rashly rush out of your worldly callings into the presence of the glorious God say to them to this or the like purpose The God we are going to pray unto is a holy just omniscient God that looks into all our hearts that sees and knows the frame of our spirits that will not be mocked and cannot be deceived All we are sinful Creatures that have broke his righteous Laws and thereby have deserved hell and everlasting torments yet this gracious God holds forth his golden Scepter and gives us leave to approach his presence to beg for pardon and for Christ and grace and heaven Our wants are great and many too and yet our mercies are great and many too come then O come let us with a holy fear of God put up our joynt Petitions that God would supply our wants especially of our souls and make joynt confessions of our sins to God with humble broken penitent hearts and joyntly bless him for the mercies we are all partakers of but let us do all as those that would please God while we pray unto him and not by our
carelesness and sloth provoke him while we kneel before him Thus Job prepared his houshold Solennis erat apud Ethnicos mos lâ—vandi manus ante sacrificandum â—ut 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 idem ac 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 apud quosdam significet when he with them did sacrifice to God Job 1.5 Job sent and sanctified them and rose up early in the morning and offered Burnt-offerings according to the number of them all thus did Job continually Could Job sanctifie his Children could Job give them grace Parents might give their Children portions but can they give them holiness too they might put money into their purses but can they put goodness into their hearts yea they may advise and exhort them to get grace but can they work it too 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Hom. Iliad l. 6. Is not this bestowed by God the Author of all Grace How then did Job sanctifie his children The meaning is that Job did what he could to prepare and dispose them for the religious duties they were entring upon So the word Sanctifie is often used Exod. 19.22 Let the Priests sanctifie themselves 2 Chron. 30.25 and the Priests and Levites were ashamed and sanctified themselves 17. many that were not sanctified all is explained by Hezekiah's prayer v. 18. The good Lord pardon every one that prepareth his heart to seek the Lord God of his fathers though he be not cleansed according to the purification of the Sanctuary Direction VI. 6. It will be useful to this purpose Cui aliis in precando praecunáum sedulò perquirat quae apud suos obtinent peccata quibus maximè indigent gratiae quibus exercentur tentationes quae illos cujuscu que generis premunt grâ—vamina quae illis imminent judicia quae in illos indies confert Deus beneficia hand aliter suis se inter orandum accomodabit qui non haec omnia in numerato habet Bowl past Evan. that the Master of the Family understand the spiritual condition of every one in the Family that he may put up requests suitable to their condition Let him get a particular knowledg of their wants doubts fears temptations afflictions of soul of their sins as far as is convenient and the mercies of God towards them for as it is for the spiritual benefit of a people that their Minister understand the state of his flock that so he might study for them and preach to them pray for them and with them according as their case requires so it will be for the benefit of a Family to have their particular cases spread before the Lord in Prayer Direction VII 7. Keep seasonable hours for Family Prayer and take the fittest time when all might be most free from distraction and disturbance In the morning put it not off too long lest by worldly occasions it be put quite by Be not too late at night when the Family after weariness by their Callings all the day will be more fit to sleep than to pray Late Prayers are too commonly sleepy Prayers one asleep in one place and another in another and it may be the Master of the Family himself prays between sleeping and waking Be not clubbing abroad when you should be praying at home This is in the power of the Governour of the house to remedy the other being to be at the hour appointed by him Direction VIII 8. Spend so much time in Family Prayer that those that joyn might be affected but not so much as to be wearied with the duty Be not too short nor yet too tedious Not too short for the heart is not easily tuned nor the affections warmed nor the mind brought into frame our wants are many and our sins are many and some time must be spent to get the heart sensible of them and of God's mercies to us To rise up from your knees before these can be probably done is to come away no better than you went unto it This overhasty brevity argues but little delight in the duty and sheweth you care not how soon you get out of God's special presence I doubt such as thus slubber over Family Prayer with so much haste * Vt canis è Nilo do it because they may be said to do it to stop the mouths of others and the mouth of their own Conscience with the work done And yet too much prolixity and length of the duty may have its inconveniencies also 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Pos and make it to some graceless persons in the Family or to others that are good but wearied in their daily Callings before to be burthensome and they more backward to it But the most do not err on this hand therefore to say little here will be enough and leave it to the prudence of the Governour to consider the persons that joyn and other concurring Circumstances and to act accordingly So much for the Directions for the Master of the Family Secondly The Directions for such as are to joyn in Family Prayer for their greater benefit Let them be careful Direction I. 1. Direct That they be all present at the beginning of a duty and continue till it be ended In some Families there is great disorder in this respect Servants either by reason of the backwardness of their hearts for want of love to and delight in Prayer or by not wisely forecasting their business come when the Prayer is half over or else go out before it is ended or if at the beginning and end yet to look after one thing or other make breaches and interruptions in the Prayer by going out and coming in once or twice or more in the Prayer-time which if possible should be carefully avoided for Family Prayer being ordinarily not very long to lose any part of it cannot but be to the detriment and disadvantage of such persons for when their affections begin to be warmed by these interruptions they are cooled and damped again You should be more willing to go to your Prayer than to your meat when hungry by how much your Souls are better than your bodies and serving God better than feeding of the body If business come when we are eating at our Table we commonly let it stay till we have done what business shall wait upon you in that case let it do so also in the other that you might not lose the benefit of the Prayer Numa Pompilius made a Law amongst the Romans that men should not serve the Gods as they passed by or were in haste or did any other business but that they should worship and pray to them when they had time and leasure and all other business set apart Plutarch Direction II. 2. Direct When you are present at Family Prayer give diligent attention and mind what confessions of sins are made what petitions are put up and what praises are returned to God for mercies received The Devil will be striving that you may be absent in Prayer when you are *
delightful and hath its sweetness in it Q. 21 Have I not sinned indeed hath not my heart been in my sins are not my sins really sins And shall I not now pray indeed shall not my heart be in duty and my Prayers be really Prayers What! real sinning and counterfeit praying and is not counterfeit praying real sinning Awake o my Soul unto thy work Q. 22 Are not my wants real wants Do I not want grace indeed or at least really want more of it And should not my Prayers be as real as my wants Q. 23 Would I have God to put me off with seeming mercy Should I then put God off with seeming duty Q. 24 Are not my temptations real temptations and strong and powerful And should not then my Prayers be so too Q. 25 Am I not real and lively in my worldly business am I not in good earnest in my Shop in the Market and at the Exchange And should I not be so in the matters of another world in the business of my Soul Thus take some of these Questions lay them warm unto your hearts and propose them to your selves in the fear of God and they will heat you when you are cold and quicken you when you are dull if God set them home upon your hearts that you shall manage your Family Prayers to your spiritual benefit which was the third part of my work to direct you in The fourth follows Question 4. With what considerations may Masters of Families be urged to the constant performance of Family Prayer Notwithstanding it be a certain duty to pray in your Families yet I doubt when death shall come to drag you out of your houses it will find some of you guilty of neglecting of it to your dying day but yet I hope some may be Prevailed with What! have you neglected it and will you all do so still God forbid When you sin you act like men but when you go on in sin you act like Devils * Humanum est errare perseverare diabolicum I shall propound a few considerations to urge you to it and I intreat you in the name of the great eternal God before whom you and I must shortly stand and be judged to weigh them seriously and if you find there is no reason in them throw them by and look for and enquire after better but if there be resolve in the fear of God to buckle to your duty It is time †fecimus nos Haec juvenes esto desisti nempe nec ulira Fovisti errorem breve sit quod turpiter cudâ—s Quaedam cum prima resecen ur crimina barba Juven Sat. 8. it is high time to reform Did you sin when you were young and will you go on in riper years What do you come to Sermons for to hear what Ministers can say upon such a Question to discern their parts or to mend your own hearts and lives Do you come to hear that you may hear So you may and go to Hell when you have done or do you come to hear that you may practise and obey so you must if you are men for Heaven I charge you therefore here before the Lord and by Jesus Christ that shall shortly judge both you and me that your Families be no longer prayerless Families If I put you upon work that God doth not require from you then tell me so when you and I shall meet and stand at God's Judgment Bar But if it be no more than what you owe to God neglect it at your peril Sirs the day is coming and it hastens when you will you must be serious If thou diest within a week or two within a day or two or whenever thou shalt leave this world if the next hour after thou art not of this mind * Res ipsa fidem dictis dabit Serò sapiunt â—hâ—yges that thou shouldst have prayed in thy Family then say I did needlesly call thee to it but if thou shalt then see it was thy duty thou shalt also see when it is too late that thou didst befool thy self and make thy self guilty before God in thy neglecting of it Be wise therefore before it be too late and mind this work while thou hast time and opportunity To this purpose press your backward hearts with these things following MOTIVE I. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 1. Consider The Souls that live in your Families are precious and immortal Souls The Soul of the meanest Servant in your house is more precious than all the silks and wares in your Shop than all the Gold in your bags yea than all the riches in the world Mat. 16.26 And as they be of great worth so they be immortal too that must be damned or saved for ever And are these the Souls that you do not pray with that you thus neglect and slight must they live for ever and will not you call them to pray with you that they may live happily for ever 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Phocylid MOTIVE II. Quomodo ed nos pertinet in Ecclesia loqui vobis sâ—c ad vos pertinet in dâ—mibus vâ—stris agere ut bonam rationem reddatis de his qui vebis sunt subditi Aug. in Psal 50. Cum diserta mentio fiat librorum servorum ex eo câ—lligitur à parentibus patribus-familias exigi ut non ipsi solùm sabbatum sanctificent sed etiam à filiis servis curae ac fides su e commissis illud sanctificari curent Gerhar loc com de decalog Damnati seipsos omnésque sceleris socios assiduis execrationibus devovebunt parentem filius matrem filia execrabitur 2. These precious and immortal Souls in your Families are committed to your charge and care You Masters of Families have a charge of Souls as well as Ministers When you have a child born and continued to you there is one immortal Soul that God intrusts you with to bring up for him and Heaven When you take a Servant into your Family there is another Soul committed to your care Do you question this Study well the meaning of the fourth Commandment and you shall see that this is true And is it so And shall not the blood of those that go to Hell out of your Families through your neglect be required at your hands Have you done your duty when a Servant that hath served you seven years and you make him free can truly say My Master taught me my trade but he taught me not to serve God he often called me up unto my work but he never called me to Prayer Are you not afraid that your very Children and Servants will rise up in judgment against you and accuse you at the Bar of God Lord my Father saith the Son no nor my Master saith the Servant never prayed with us and we both Children and Servants being so brought up and having such Examples before us did not mind thy service neither Lord we are jastly condemned but
laetissimum affectum O securissimum amorem Dei quem Zelus non excruciat quem rivalis delectat sine absynthio sine aloe sine felle totus dulcis consentaneus cordi Nieremb de art vol. p. 336 337. Dost thou not pray alone without God without meeting with God Hadst thou there had thy heart enflamed with the love of God and tasted of the sweetness in communion with God would not this have filled thy heart with love to God and Souls in thy house and burning zeal that they might be partakers of the same Divine refreshments could'st thou hold thy peace after such discoveries while thy poor Family are without or would'st thou no time call them together that they also might experience the same delights that thou hast found As the woman of Samaria call'd her Neighbours Joh. 4.28 29. If thou hadst got some earthly Jewel thou might'st be loth that others should share with thee in the value of it because in earthly things participation causeth a diminution if a sum of money be divided amongst many the more one hath the less will fall to the others share Art thou indeed afraid of this Fear it not There is enough in God for thee and thine too Communication in spirituals causeth multiplication even in him that doth communicate to others If thou bee'st an Instrument to draw thine to the Love of God and to joy and delight in him this would fill thee with the greater joy Methinks then when thou hast been alone and God hath graciously been with thee thou shouldest go down into thy Family with burning love to God and them and say Come my Wife Children Servants leave your work and business for a while There is much sweetness in communion with God There is indeed delight which comes into the Soul by holy fervent Prayer I would not have you feed on husks while there is not only bread but dainties too in seeking God I do not love to see you always mudling in the world and be strangers unto God Come then come away for my Soul doth long that you should tast what I have found Thus thou wouldest think surely with thy self if thou speakest not out to them if thou didst meet with God in secret When it is not so with thee but thou can'st constantly neglect Prayer in thy Family reflect upon thy self whether in this sense thou didst not pray alone that thou didst not find God with thee warming of thy heart Tell me could'st thou be content to eat thy food constantly alone without thy Wife and Children and can'st thou be content to pray alone only As you eat together so pray together also Obj. 3. But I am ashamed to pray with others and that hinders me Answ 1. Ashamed to pray ashamed to do thy duty The more shame for thee Be ashamed to sin and of this shame for it is sinful and is to be lamented and prayed against and striven against and overcome Wilt thou tell God at the Day of Judgment that thou wast ashamed to pray in thy House and Family 2. But why ashamed when you are only with your own Family and those you daily converse withal and are head and chief and governer of 3. It is for want of use set upon the work and you will quickly overcome this Obj. 4. But I am not ashamed of the duty but of my own weakness I have not gifts and parts to manage this duty If I were gifted as other men be I would perform it as other men do Answ 1. Where do you live in London What! an old housekeeper in London or where there hath been much means of Grace and are you so ignorant that you are not qualified to pray in your Family This is your sin and will one sin be pleadable to excuse you from another One of the Ancients of the Parish and plead ignorance are you not asham'd 2. It is not parts and gifts and florid expressions that God looks at but an humble penitent broken and believing heart Have you not this neither If you have not get it quickly or you must to Hell If you have God will accept of such a Sacrifice bring it then 3. Study your sins and wants and mercies and get a sense of all these upon your heart and you will be able to express them in your Family in such a manner as may be more for their profit than the constant omission can be If a man feel himself sick or hungry do you think he could not find words to make his complaint and ask for help Study the Scripture and your own hearts and these will be good prayer-Books to furnish you for the duty Besides by praying you shall learn to pray 4. Do not deceive your self and say it is for want of gifts when it is more for want of a heart and love to the duty To discover this Suppose a Law were made by our Governours that every Master of a Family that doth not pray in his house with his Family shall be cast into the Lions Den What would you do then Would you rather venture your life and be torn in pieces by Lions than set upon this duty with that Knowledg and those Gifts that now you have Would you not find something to say to save your Lives And is not the Law of God as binding as the Laws of men and the Dungeon of Hell as dreadful as the Lions Den Go then set upon your duty Obj. 5. But there are some graceless and wicked persons in my Family that I cannot say we desire this or that spiritual blessing grace Christ c. for I see no ground to judge they desire any such thing Answ 1. Have they no grace and must they not pray that they may have some O cruelty Is he exempted from duty because he is not good or wilt thou say that such must only pray alone and be excluded while such from conjunct prayers Whither will this carry you Even to the shutting of all graceless or at least visibly wicked persons from all prayers in publick Congregations as well as from Family duty But this is so gross that I suppose you will not own it You have no reason then for the other 2. How do you know when you are confessing sin and acknowledging the evil of it but God might affect and break their hearts and they be changed on their knees and so be saved from damnation and will you deny them that means that God may bless for their conversion 3. Do you indeed use all other means to your utmost power to have them better Do you reprove them and shew them the danger they are in and perswade them to turn from sin to God and this with constancy and compassion to their Souls Or do you scruple this too Wilt thou neither pray with them nor speak to them when thou oughtest to do both I doubt it is thy sloth that hinders thee or the wickedness of thy heart and that thou pleadest
years are apt many times to despise them as more subject to infirmities and as looking for less of respect from their hands So that really to give them honour is a fuller evidence of cordial performance The Lord is pleas'd to begin there where the duty is most tried Reverence thy Mother and thy Father de leg l. 4. Ethic. l. 9. l. 2. Spizel de re literar Sineas p. 243. Both are to be had in a just veneration Plato and Aristotle could by Nature's light teach thus 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 This as the prime law of Nature the Spartans and generally all Nations of old did and Chinoises at this day do maintain with admirable care Now doing reverence to the Fathers of our flesh (h) Heb. 9.12 in Scripture may comprehend what Children owe to their Parents both with reference to their speech and behaviour 1 With respect to their speech that it be seasonable and agreeable to the relation grac'd with humility (i) 1 Pet. 5.5 and modesty in all converse with them in presence and discourse of them in absence They should give them honourable titles as that of Father and Mother do connote dignity (k) Jer. 31.9 Gal. 4.6 and so Sir or Lord (l) Mat. 21.30 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 thus we have good Children in the Book of God saluting their Parents as Isaac his Father Abraham (m) Gen. 22.11 Jacob Isaac (n) 17.18 David Saul his Father in law (o) 1 Sam. 24.28 Solomon Bathsheba my Mother (p) 1 King 2.20 21. Rachel Laban making her Apology My Lord (q) Gen. 31.35 David again Saul (r) 1 Sam. 26.18 and that with all meekness at a sit season in a few words with freedom and readiness (s) Gen. 22 7. 27.12 giving pleasing answers when spoken to in a becoming civility (t) 1 Sam. 12.4 6.18 waiting with contentment to hear them speak first (u) Prov 4.1 laying their hands on their mouths and refraining to talk in their presence without just occasion (w) Job 29.9 10 21. 32.5 6. And in their absence by speaking so of them amongst those they do converse that by the commendable reports they make of them or prudent apologies for them it may be understood what venerable respects they have for their Parents Thus 't is said of the Children of the prudent Mother they rise up as those who speak pathetically and call her blessed (x) Prov. 31.28 in that laudable discourse they have of her Hereby Children will prove themselves to be of a vertuous temper and not like that elder brother of the penitent Prodigal who spake undecently in a surly manner to his Father (y) Luk. 15 29 30. and sometime some of Jacob's sons to theirs (z) Gen. 34.31 and such like who by their rude and malapert prating disparage and aggrieve their parents (a) 26.35 27.46 Yet of a more untoward generation are they whom the Wiseman took notice of that curse their Father and do not bless their Mother but saith he their lamp shall go out in obscurity (b) Prov. 20.20 Neither can there be a better end of those who are under the Almighty's curse devoted to death (c) Lev. 20.9 Exod. 21.17 neither can they who do any way set light by their Father or Mother avoid a much easier censure (d) Deut. 27 16 Lib. 44. de Rep. sith by interpretation it is a dishonour to God himself Plato in his Commonwealth orders that Children should in their words through their whole life revere their Parents there being a great punishment imminent for light and idle discourse Further 2 The hehaviour and carriage of Children should ever be significative and expressive of reverence to their Parents in all their addresses the countenance so composed in their presence as may argue awfulness and respect the deportment lowly rising up before those they honour for relation as well as those venerable for age (e) Lev. 19.32 and at meeting thus Solomon though a King did to his Mother Bathsheba (f) 1 Kings 2.19 hasting to attend them in a lowly posture thus Joseph who liv'd as a Prince made ready to meet and presented himself to his Father whom he had maintained (g) Gen. 46.29 so Achsah Caleb's daughter who was married to her Cousin German when she addressed her self to her Father she alighted from her beast before she spoke to him (h) Judg. 1 14.5◠and again Joseph thought it no disparagement to prostrate himself to his aged father Jacob whose eyes were then dim that he could not see his behaviour when he also gave his own Children an example in praying for his Father's blessing (i) Gen. 43.12 which Esau though he came tardè did passionately beg for (k) 27.19 34. And though Parents now have not a Prophetick spirit as the Patriarch's had yet it seems still very equitable that Christian Children considering their Parents Superiority in the Lord should frequently upon occasion in an (l) Heb. 7 7. Mar. 10.17 humble manner crave their Parents prayers for God's blessing The rude and haughty looks which are in many Children before their Parents cannot comport with this duty which discards a dogged and supercilious countenance that betokens scorn and derision opposite to this filial reverence The Wise man makes a smart remark upon such odious insolent behaviour which might deter any of understanding from it when he saith (m) Prov. 30.17 The eye that mocketh his Father and despiseth to obey his Mother the Ravens of the Valley shall pick it out and the young Eagles shall eat it Here is a signal retaliation to those who in speech or behaviour deride the persons or despise the counsels of their Parents whether yet alive or deceased 'T were to be wish'd it had been better studied by some Children in this Generation I mean some late and present Preachers of our Age who do not parentare manibus but indeed upbraid the Ghosts of their reverend and pious Parents who warmly argued the necessity of regeneration either by reckoning them amongst the herd of Divines or with an harangue of lame sequels perch up to vent their callow notions and bespatter their own nest in complacence with the lax humour of the times when many for the bags cry Hail Master but betray the Son of Man with a kiss (n) Mat. 26.49 wic Luk. 22.48 yet I would hope there are but a few of this feather I proceed to mind Children of another duty and that is 2. Observance whereby their Parents pleasure with fit subjection is perform'd out of a real desire to promote their honour vvhich is more than in countenance and ceremonies to express obedience (o) Mat. 21.30 It is very requisite Christian Children should with an heedful circumspection observe the holy and wise prescripts and practices of their Parents by acknowledging subjection to their government Our blessed Lord himself set a
or froward (w) Luke 2.51 1 Pet. 2 18. in all that is well-pleasing to God whose honour is the end ingenuous Children should aim at by just and honest means in the exercise of their duties keeping themselves from their iniquities (x) 1 Tim 5.22 i. e. those which their own turbulent passions are apt to hurry them into If we did more reverence our selves we should carry better towards our Superiours Pythagoras his advice is very wholsom * 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Carmin Let a man be the greatest shame to himself keep his own heart in awe by a secret blush upon his own extravagancies in their first risings and so he will have his Keeper every where with him then as he saith further Let him follow that which is just not only in words but in deeds He that is duly affected with shame of himself will be careful to pay just respects in all due circumstances unto those he is mostly oblig'd to honour 4. Set about all your duties to your Parents willingly and readily not with grudging or disdain but with an holy warmth of heart lifting up your selves to and following hard after whatever God requires (y) Judges 5.39 in all affectionate expressions of a free and chearful spirit sith all is to be in the Lord who loves readiness (z) 2 Cor. 9.7 This manner of performance will be the more easie if Children timely learn the great lesson of self-denial and do really exercise that and love they will then without bogling go through the most unpleasant uneasie and mean imployments they are call'd unto and concern'd to manage for their Parents as Jacob's Sons did for their Father after as well as before their marriage (a) Gen. 30.35 37.13 14. 42.1 2 3. 43.15 47.1 2 3. and in his straits Judah express'd great readiness to comfort his Father (b) 44.33 34 with 30. Ruth as was noted before was very exemplary in this manner of obedience (c) Ruth 1.15 16. but Isaac's readiness was the most singular (d) Gen. 22.9 10. till Christ himself whom he typified came then saith he to his Father (e) Psal 40.8 Ad semper velle non ad semper agere I delight to do thy will O my God thy Law is within my heart Believe it Willingness puts a great acceptableness upon duties Children are bound always to will though not always to act they should readily embrace all opportunities 'T is said Amasiah the Son of Zichri willingly offer'd himself unto the Lord (f) 2 Chron. 17.16 and so should ingenuous Children be ever ready as Paul was in Christ (g) Acts 21.13 for their Parents service Somewhat of this was hinted before and I shall only add what Hierocles saith in this case * 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 c. in Pythag. Carm. p. 54 57 mihi It is fit we should not withdraw our selves from performing with our own hands what our Parents require as occasion serves but by how much the more mean and servile the offices by so much should Children think them the more honest and laudable and not to he avoided because expensive but to be done with a ready and chearful mind for their use and with joy we are put to those pains and expences for their sakes 5. Persevere in all and be constant with diligence unto the end whatever temptations you meet with Let not the instructions you have received according to godliness depart from your heart all the days of your life (h) Deut. 4.9 Be not fickle or inconstant but hold out in all circumstances though your Parents be aged and decay'd (i) Prov. 23.22 Ru h 1.15 16. 4.15 so long as they and you coexist in this world and the Relation remains Be like constant Ruth and holy Joseph when advanc'd he continued his obedience to the very last moment of his dear Father's life and after (k) Gen. 46.29 47.31 48.12 a vertue wherein it seems Samuel's sons were defective (l) 1 Sam 8.5 but Jonadab's were praise-worthy (m) Jer. 35.56 as well as others after their Parents decease when tempted to the contrary yea though it was in a business unpleasing to flesh and blood They did as Physicians prescribe to their Patients receive their Father's documents cum debitâ custodiâ so as not to indulge their appetites in that he forbad them but persevere in observing his injunction This is praise-worthy Nay though our Parents should not submit to the yoke of Christ we should not withdraw our neck from their yoke nor desist from obedience to them so far as it hinders not our obedience to Christ but should hold out that none take our Crown As Antonius said †〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Lib. 8. Sect. 5. Remember well you ought to be a good man and that which the nature of man requires of you this do constantly So that which the Nature of your Relation calls for do it with all your might and never suffer your self to be diverted or recalled from it Having found the true way of obedience go on in it and be not turned back again remembring vvhat our blessed Lord and Master saith He that shall endure to the end the same shall be saved (n) Mat. 24 13. After these Particulars to Children I must crave leave before I shut up 2. To say somewhat in particular unto Parents to direct and help them likewise to manage their office in an evangelical manner 1. Be sure that you your selves do keep up the life and power of godliness in your own domestick practise that hereby your children may be kept from corruption in a bad air and encourag'd in an holy conversation I have already hinted something of this concerning the exemplariness of Parents and in the premis'd general duty of their good behaviour and therefore shall not need to enlarge much upon it here Only suggest this that you are to walk in your integrity as for your own so for your posteritie's comfort in the family exercise of Religion by behaving your self wisely in an upright way and walking within your house with an upright heart (o) Psal 101 2. 112.2 Prov. 20.7 shewing your selves in all things patterns of good works (p) Tit. 2.7 And putting persons and things into their proper places to prevent confusion which else will arise and much obstruct you in your most important offices This will gain a reputation to your Government and facilitate the management of particular duties When your children see what a gloss you put upon holiness by your sincere chearful and grave Christian deportment they begin to discern the pleasantness of the ways of wisdom the excellency of the life of faith and the odiousness of flesh-pleasing courses and so come to esteem your instructions which are very legible and easie to be understood by such a practical commentary The holy life of John the Baptist had some influence upon Herod's affections for
most just and righteous in all his dealings Isa 45.21 Psal 92.15 Jam. 6.3 Psâ—l 103.14 Mat. 3.17 Mic. 7.18 Exod. 34.6 Psal 25.4 Job 36.22 Isa 28.26 Rom. 8.26 Psal 32.8 Isa 43.2 Dan. 3.25 Psal 23.1 Psal 34.10 Psal 19.11 Psal 31.19 20 who can accuse him of the least unrighteousness who can say he hath done him wrong and that be is a hard Master Come let any testifie against God and make good their charge if they can Is not he full of pity and ready to forgive how ready to moderate his anger when he is highly provoked It is not without good reason that the Prophet saith Who is a God like unto our God and he is ready to teach his servants and to help their infirmities and if their work be hard he doth bear the heavier part of it He is ready to keep them company to succour and encourage and comfort them he provides all things needful for them he delights in the prosperity of his Servants and loves to see his Servants thrive he gives them many a token of his love here But O what great things hath he laid up for them eye hath not seen nor ear heard neither hath it entred into the heart of man to conceive it Their reward is exceeding great sure and eternal O what harm would it do you to be like God do not your Servants deserve more kindness from you than you or any other doth from God Secondly Consider what need your Servants have of your utmost care in the fore-mentioned particulars They are young unexperienced heady nay naturally ignorant proud dead Children of wrath enemies to God every moment in danger of miscarrying and at whose hand will their blood be required think you if you do not your duty to warn reprove correct them Thirdly Consider how much it will be for your honour How high an esteem will all good men have for you how great a value must wise Magistrates set on you what reason hath the City and Corporation to rise up and call such blessed how great and how common a good such are is scarce to be expressed such shall have a good report in spite of wickedness your Servants can't but look upon you as their Counseller Master Father and give you suitable respect and honour Fourthly Consider how pleasing and acceptable this is to God Such the Lord is nigh to his eyes behold with delight It is not he that observes his great Sacrifices it is not he that makes many Prayers it is not he that makes the greatest show of Religion outwardly that is accepted Hierocles Josh 24.15 Psal 1.3 Mat. 25.34 but it is he that gives up his heart first to God as a warm Sacrifice full of love and then his house unto the Lord this this is the man that God will visit comfort bless this is he that ere long shall hear his great Master's commendation and have a welcome to Glory Fifthly Consider how much profit and pleasure you shall have here by your diligence and care you may be enriched there 's God's promise for your security By this your Trade is like to thrive your credit rise greatly Prov. 28.20 Prov. 10.6 your custome increase And when the careless Master makes hast to poverty a wise diligent and faithful is in the most likely way to get improve and keep an estate I might say what pleasure and comfort a man can't but take in his Family when every one acts regularly in their place Sixthly Consider how much good your faithfulness may do others Your Servants may for ought that I know call you their Spiritual Fathers and bless God for ever for your examples exhortations prayers and your Servants may instruct your Children and be frequently instilling one good thing or other into them and influence them more than you are aware of You are a mighty help to poor Ministers you help to plow up the ground and make it fit for the Divine seed you pull out the stones you weed up the roots of bitterness or at least keep them from thriving and growing up you harrow in the good seed you water it with your tears and God will make it fruitful you pluck up the darnel and the tares Of all the persons living we Ministers are most beholding to good Masters and good Parents we beseech you if you have any love for us or our Master either be faithful in this thing Epictâ—tus O make us glad when so many thousands are making us sad with their wickedness I might add your Examples draw others and make bad Citizens good Seventhly Consider the danger of your neglect if you be unfaithful you expose body soul estate wife children servants and all to sin ruine shame and the curse of God for ever you break the rules of equity and humanity you forfeit your reputation you go the likeliest way to work to bring upon you dismal calamities in your life worse at death and worst of all after death Mat. 25.26 Mat. 24.48 49.50 51. O consider this you that forget God and your duty and read that Scripture often you see quoted in the Margent I shall now crave leave to expostulate the case with Masters about their duty for I am loth to leave you till I have prevailed with you to set to your work like Christians Sirs you have heard your duty and what have you to object against it can you prove that that which I have desired of you is not required by God himself Have I not proved what I have said by plain Scriptures and doth not reason and humanity as well as Christianity oblige you to the putting these duties in practice have I not laid down many Motives to press you to your duty have I not told you what a Master God is to his Servants and put you upon being followers of him as dear children Would it be any disparagement to you to follow so perfect and unerring an example Doth not he teach direct help encourage and reward his Servants Is not he faithful to his promise tender pityful and easie to be reconciled and ready to forgive And are you not very well pleased with these properties in God And if this be amiable in God why should it not be lovely in you God humbleth himself to look upon what is done on earth and is it below you to look upon and take care of your Servants What great difference is there I pray between you and them Are they not of the same mould And shortly your bones and skuls will not be distinguished Why did you take them into your Family if you intended to take no more care of them than of a Dog Was it not a piece of base falshood in you to promise and engage what you never intended to perform Methinks I have a mind to debate this matter fairly with you so as to leave you resolved for your duty or without any reason or excuse for the neglect of it Sirs Is
that God will not over-look is this ingenuous Is this like to mend him and do him any good Can you design God's glory by it How do you think your Master will like it if it should come to his ears This is neither pleasing to God nor man Ninthly Take heed of murmuring discontent and repining Some Servants are of such a temper nothing will please them their food is not dainty enough their clothes not fine enough and nothing contents them The truth of it is if you be of this proud peevish discontented humour let me tell you take it how you will the worst bit you eat is too good for you your betters are thankful and fruitful with a great deal courser diet If your food be wholsom and sufficient your clothing warm and decent remember that you have reason to bless God Consider well what you deserve and how glad some of your betters would be of your leavings and suppose you be wronged use lawful means for your redress blessed be God this City hath excellent laws and an injured Servant may be heard and helped but if that may not be and you be really injured suppose you do your duty and can't have a good word nay instead thereof many a heavy curse many a causeless blow Suppose you are beaten for that for which you should be commended remember that patience nay thankfulness Matth. 5.13 1 Pet. 2.20 21. would much better become you than murmuring for if when you do well and suffer for it ye take it patiently this is acceptable with God for even hereunto were ye called because Christ also suffered for us leaving us an example that we should follow his steps Lastly Take heed of sinning to please your Master If a Master command one thing and God another you need not be long a determining which you should obey If your Master or Mistress should be so wicked as to put you upon sinning let Joseph's answer be yours How shall I do this great wickedness and sin against God If your Master put you upon telling of lies cheating using of false weights or measures breaking the Sabbath or any thing that is clearly against God's honour and your souls you must first with all the humility and meekness you can for your soul plead with him urge the commands of God the fear that you are in of displeasing of him and wounding your own conscience and if you can't by such means pacifie him tell him meekly of his danger in putting you upon sin and that Dan 3.18 come on it what will you neither can nor will obey him I come now to lay down Servants duty positively First Honour your Masters Labour to get and keep a true valuation of them in your hearts To this end observe what is excellent in them remember your relation to them their care over you let this put you upon praying for them and being affectionately concerned for them let your words be always humble meek and obliging 1 Tim. 6.1 1 Pet. 2.18 let your behaviour be with all the respect and sweetness you can Remember what counsel the Apostle gives you in this thing Let as many servants as are under the yoke count their own Masters worthy of all honour be very loth to displease them fear to offend lest in so doing you either offend God your self or cause them to do it I have sometimes thought that carriage of Naaman's Servants towards their peevish and unreasonable Master very well worth others imitation 2 Kings 5.13 The Text saith His Servants came near and spoke unto him and said my father if the Prophet had bid thee do some great thing wouldest thou not have done it how much rather then when he saith wash and be clean Love fear and honour your Master in so doing you please God and them too Secondly Obey your Masters sincerely chearfully universally and constantly as long as you stand in that relation to them you must do what you do for your Masters as you would do it for your self your Master's concerns must be looked upon as your own Col. 3 22. Yea whatsoever you do you must do it heartily as to the Lord out of Conscience and respect to God's command and honour a flattering out-side service without the heart love and good will is neither acceptable to God or man Let your obedience also be chearful go not about your work with an ill Will Chearfulness would not be a little helpful to your self your work and time would then seem nothing in comparison Eph. 6.7 God loves a chearful giver a chearful worker a chearful Sufferer and I believe no Master but reckons himself better served by him that goes chearfully and nimbly about his business than one that doth obey but with a sour discontented look and a heavy countenance By this you can't but win upon your Masters and even compel them to love you speak well of you and do well by you Let your obedience also be universal that is in all things that God gives you leave It is not for you to pick and choose nor dispute and grumble Some Servants are for easie Col. 3.22 pleasant and more honourable works and here they may be commanded but if they be at any time set about what liketh not their proud lazy ungodly humour they are ready to put it off upon another it may be to excuse it with a Lye perhaps like rebels flatly to deny obedience If a Master put him upon strict Observation of the Lord's day upon learning his Catechism and minding his soul then his base heart beginneth to rise as if his Master did undervalue him when he put him upon the service of God as if he judged it a liberty and priviledg to serve the Devil and as if it were an unsufferable injury to be commanded to escape the wrath to come and a drudgery to be call'd upon to look diligently after the securing of holiness and happiness Such as these look as if they were ripe for Hell and would not be long before they would come thither O that none of you that hear and read these lines may be found in this number think nothing below you but sin your disobedience can't be without sin if your Master command not a sin Lastly let your obedience be constant it must begin and end with your relation to your Master Thirdly Another duty of the Servant towards his Master is faithfulness Ingenuity calls for it Tit. 2.10 he is unworthy of trust that doth not answer it The Master reposeth much confidence in his Servant and that should oblige him to the greatest fidelity You must be faithful in word and deed Speak well of your Master behind his back and keep up his reputation and credit and if you can't do that without falsness to God if you can say no good by him say no harm except lawfully call'd to it and if you do perceive your Master's carelesness and wickedness makes him
wronged recompence the diligent reward the faithful You shall ere long know you served a Master that was most kind generous and noble Shortly you shall not be called Servants but Friends not Friends only but children not children only but heirs joint-heirs with the Lord Jesus eye hath not seen nor ear heard neither hath it entered into the heart of man to conceive what wages our great Master will give to all that make it their business to have always a conscience void of offence towards God and towards man and that do faithfully fill up their relation to their earthly and heavenly Master with duty Consider the danger of not performing of your duty as a Servant by this you declare clearly that you have no true grace in your hearts As I said in the beginning I say again he that is not relatively good is not really good a bad Servant is never a good Christian by this you give us just reason to fear that you are Servants of the Devil I spare to speak of your reputation for I am ready to think that if all other arguments and motives have lost their cogency that can't have much power know this if you be not faithful to your Master God will judg you as unfaithful to himself and wo be to that Servant whom God himself shall call wicked and slothful what follows but take him bind him hand and foot and cast him into outer darkness there shall be weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth And now Sirs What will you do Are you resolved for your duty or no Have I been all this while beating the air Have I not shewed you what the Lord your God requireth of you Have I desired any thing of you but what I have given you Scripture-warrant for and is Scripture nothing with you Can you prove that I am mistaken and lay heavier burdens than God lays upon you why then be at the trouble to turn to the Scriptures you see quoted in the Margent I dare not charge any thing upon you but what I have received of the Lord and are you angry with God's commands Dare you impeach your Maker of unjustice What harm is there in any thing that he enjoyns you Could you mend his Laws and make them better Which of his prohibitions can you find fault with Are you displeased that God forbids pride and arrogance Would you indeed have leave to be like the Devil Do you desire liberty to damn your self and bring confusion into the house where you dwell What a sweet world should we have if every proud fool might have his will What should Masters do with Servants if their commands should have no power upon them Who but a mad man will judg idleness carelesness and prodigality commendable qualities in a Servant Is it so unreasonable a thing for a Master to expect something to be done when his back is turned as well as when he is present What commerce could be carried on between man and man without truth Are you desirous that God should give you leave to lie and are you willing to have it known that you are of this mind Is it a slavery to have your hands tied from picking and stealing Would you have a license to steal and a badg of your priviledg that every one might read Are wicked profligate wretches the best companions Can you desire their company in the other world Is back-biting threatned by God in his Word and shall it be excused in you How would you like one that were always grumbling and never content nor pleased Is this temper hateful in another and lovely in you Is there any wrong done you when God bids you have a care of hazarding your soul to get your Master a groat Which of all the Cautions that I have given you are really prejudicial to your true credit pleasure or profit Well Epictetus I perceive you have nothing nay I am sure you can have nothing justly to object against them And dare you now venture still to be proud disobedient idle Do Sinners venture on still in spite of Master Minister and the divine prohibitions but be it upon thy peril for as sure as God lives he will call you to judgment Will half an hours junketting make amends for the loss of a soul for ever What is there in all the duties that are commanded that you have any thing to object against Are you troubled that your Master must be honoured Should we not have sweet doings if Masters and Servants were fellows If you your self should ever live to be a Master tell me plainly how would you like it to be slighted by your Servant Is Obedience a word you mislike What is a Servant good for without obedience What is he but a burden to the earth worse than the dung it self Are faithfulness and diligence displeasing to you And I pray who is pleased with unfaithfulness and idleness but wicked ones fools and the Devil And are such as these to be pleased rather than God Parents Masters Well once more What have you to say against your duty why it may not be practised speedily Have you weightier Arguments against it than I have for it Come produce your strong reason and shew your self a man Are the precepts of the mighty God nothing Are his injunctions of no validity at all Are you not at all concerned for his honour Is the gratifying a cursed lust a matter of greater importance and necessity than God's glory So little he will take care of himself and raise him honour out of your shame and ruine if you regard not God Have you no respect to your self Will your peace reputation and profit prevail nothing with you Is the quiet of the Family the glory of a City the prosperity and safety of a Kingdom a small matter with you Why all this seems in some measure wrapped up in Servants fidelity Have the promises and rewards of the great Master little efficacy Is Heaven glory and eternal happiness worth nothing The truth of it is if all this be nothing I know not what is something But what do you think of judgment wrath and Hell If the former Motives signifie little doth this so too Then I must confâ—ss I know not what to add more but you must take your course and take what follows but know this that you were warned and counsel'd and pleaded with till you had nothing to say or if you had I am sure nothing to purpose and that shortly you will be silenced But God forbid that all Servants should be of this mind some yea many I hope better of though I thus speak but the general complaint that sounds in our ears makes us judg such reasonings as these not altogether needless And now for the sakes of some that I hope resolve for duty I shall add a Help or two for the performance of their duty and so I shall conclude First If you would be good Servants labour to
Saints but 't is by the permission of the universal Soveraign who hath the hearts of all in his hands and suffers their rage for holy ends The enemy designes against their Faith but God's aim is to make them change their lives Now if either through strong fears or the stinging sense of troubles upon the account of Religion our Courage fails we are presently in danger of falling away and denying our Master The faint-hearted person is usually false-hearted and for want of resolution being frighted out of his Conscience and duty chooses sin rather than suffering and thereby justly deprives himself of the Crown of life that is promised only to those who are Faithful unto the death Besides not only the loss of heaven but the torments of hell are threaten'd against those who withdraw from the service of God to avoid temporal evils Rev. 21.8 The fearful and unbelieving are in the front of those that shall have part in the lake of fire and brimstone which is the second death Now what folly is it when two evils are propounded to choose the greatest that is eternal death rather than temporal and of two goods to prefer the less a short life with its Conveniencies on earth before that which is eternally glorious in heaven By which it appears how much it concerns us to fortifie and fix our minds by a stedfast belief of God's supporting presence with us in all troubles and of his gracious promise that in due time we shall reap if we faint not in well-doing 2. They are incapable of the Comforts proper to an afflicted state Those arise from the apprehension that God loves whom he chastens Rev. 3. for the least sin is a greater evil than the greatest trouble and his design is to take that away and from the expectation of a happy issue Hope is the anchor within the vail that in the midst of storms and the roughest seas preserves from shipwrack The character of Christians is Rom. 12.12 that they are rejoycing in hope But when the afflicted are under fearful impressions that God is an irreconcileable enemy and sadly conclude their miseries are past redress those divine Comforts that are able to sweeten the most bitter sufferings to believers are of no efficacy their deep sorrows are not like the pains of a travelling woman that end in a joyful birth but the killing tortures of the stone that are fruitless to the patient An obstinate grief and rejecting the Consolations of God is the beginning of sorrows the first payment of that sad arrear of mourning that shall be exacted in another world The Use shall be to excite us to those duties that are directly contrary to the extremes forbidden viz. to demean our selves under the chastenings of the Lord with a deep reverence and humble fear of his displeasure and with a firm hope and dependance upon him for a blessed issue upon our complying with his holy Will 1. With a humble reverence of his hand This temper is absolutely necessary and most congruous with respect to God upon the account of his Soveraignty Justice and Goodness declar'd in his chastenings and with respect to our frailty our dependance upon him our obnoxiousness to his Law and our obligations to him that he will please to afflict us for our good This is the reason of that expostulation Will the Lion roar in the forrest when he hath no prey Shall God's threatenings and judgments have no effect Who ever hardened himself against him and prospered Amos 3.4 Do we provoke the Lord to jealousie the most sensible and severe attribute when it is incens'd Are we stronger than he Can we encounter offended Omnipotency Can we with an army of lusts oppose myriads of mighty Angels 'T is not courage but such a prodigious degree of folly and fury that one would think 't were impossible a reasonable creature were capable of it Yet every sinner unreformed by afflictions is thus desperate Job 15.25 26 He stretches out his hand against God and strengthens himself against the Almighty he runneth upon him even on his neck upon the thick bosses of his bucklers Such a furious rebel was Ahaz who in the time of his distress did trespass more against the Lord This is that King Ahaz But God hath most solemnly declared that he will be victorious at last over the most fierce obdurate enemies 2 Chron. 28. As I live saith the Lord every knee shall bow to me His power is infinite and anger puts an edge upon his power and makes it more terrible If our subjection be not voluntary it must be violent 'T is our wisdom to prevent acts of vengeance by humble submissions The duty of the afflicted is excellently exprest by Elihu Job 34.31 32 Surely it is meet to be said to God I have born chastisements I will not offend any more that I know not teach thou me if I have done iniquity I will do so no more Add further upon another account reverence is due to God's chastenings for when love is the motive that incites one to give us counsel though it be mixt with reproofs and his prudence is not great yet a respect is due to the affection Now God who is only wise chastises men from a desire to make them better and happy he intends primarily to refine not to consume them by afflictions so that a serious regard to his hand is the most just and necessary duty of the creature Briefly every chastisement should leave deep and permanent impressions upon us the sense of God's displeasure should make our hearts mournful and mollified broken and contrite that his will may be done by us on earth as 't is in heaven 2. Let us alway preserve an humble dependance and firm hope on God for a blessed issue out of all our troubles The support and tranquillity of the soul ariseth from hence Christian patience suffers all things as well as charity being encouraged by a continual expectation of good from him Patience confirms all other graces and is to the whole armour of God what the temper is to material weapons that keeps them from breaking in the combat Now to maintain a constant hope in affliction 't is necessary to consider the reason of the Exhortation as 't is admirably amplified by the Apostle 1. The relation God sustains when he afflicts believers He is a Judge invested with the quality of a Father The Covenant of grace between God and Jesus Christ our true David contains this observable cause If thy children forsake my law and walk not in my judgments if they break my statutes Psal 89.30 31 32. and keep not my commandements then will I visit their transgressions with a rod and their iniquity with stripes The love that ariseth from this relation though it cannot hate yet it may be displeased and chastise them for their follies Moses tells the Israelites Thou shalt consider in thy heart Deut. 8.5 that as
much unto the horrible neglect of Parents in this Duty That Parental reproof is a Duty taught by the Law of Nature confirmed in the Scripture enjoyned under severe threatnings and penalties exemplified in Instances of Blessings and Vengeance on its Performance or neglect rendred indispensably necessary by that Depravation of our Natures which works in Children from the womb and grows up in strength and efficacy together with them I should not need to prove if it lay directly before me it being a matter of universal acknowledgment I shall only say that whereas there is on many accounts an immediate impress of Divine Authority on Parental reproofs that which Children ought to consider and know for themselves is that a continuance in the neglect or contempt of them is a token that seldom fails of approaching temporal and eternal Destruction Prov. 30.17 3. Authoritative reproof is Despotical namely that of Governors Rulers and Masters of Families This also partakes of the Nature of those foregoing and being a Duty founded in the Law of Nature as well as enforced by positive Divine commands casts a peculiar obligation to obedience on them that are so reproved And where Servants regard not sober and Christian reproofs as the Ordinance of God for their good they lose the advantages of their condition and may be looked upon as unsanctified Sufferers in a state of Bondage which hath an especial Character of the first curse upon it 2. Reproof is Fraternal or such as is mutual between the members of the same Church by vertue of that especial Relation wherein they stand and the obligation thence arising unto mutual watchfulness over each other with Admonitions Exhortations and Reproofs As this is peculiarly appointed by our Saviour Mat. 18.15 in confirmation of the Ordinance in the Church of the Jews to that purpose Lev. 19.17 and confirmed by many Precepts and Directions in the New Testament Rom. 15.18 1 Thes 5.14 Heb. 3.12 13. Chap. 12.15 16. So the neglect of it is that which hath lost us not only the benefit but also the very nature of Church Societies Wherefore our improvement of Rebukes in this kind depends much on a due consideration of that Duty and Love from whence they do proceed For this we are by the Royal Law of Charity obliged unto the belief of where there is not open evidence unto the contrary And whereas it may be those things for which we may be thus reproved are not of the greatest importance in themselves who that is wise will by the neglect of the reproof it self contract the open guilt of contemning the Wisdom Love and Care of Christ in the Institution of this Ordinance III. And Lastly Reproofs are Friendly or occasional such as may be Administred and managed by any Persons as Reasons and Opportunities require from the common Principle of universal Love unto mankind especially towards them that are of the Houshold of Faith These also having in them the entire Nature of Reproofs will fall under all the ensuing Directions which have a general respect thereunto If then we would duely make use of and Improve unto our Advantage the Reproofs that may be given us we are seriously to consider the nature of them with respect unto those by whom they are managed for all the things we have mentioned are suited to influence our minds unto a regard of them and compliance with them 2. The matter of a Reproof is duely to be weighed by him who designs any benefit thereby And the first consideration of it is whether it be true or false I shall not carry them unto more minute Distribution of the Substance and Circumstances of the matter intended of the Whole or Part of it but do suppose that from some Principal consideration of it every Reproof as to its matter may be denominated and esteemed true or false And here our own consciences with due Application unto the Rule are the proper Judge and Umpire Conscience if any way enlightned from the Word will give an impartial sentence concerning the Guilt or Innocence of the Person with respect unto the matter of a reproof And there can be no more infallible evidence of a miscarriage in such a condition than when Pride or Passion or Prejudice or any corrupt Affection can either out-brave or stifle that compliance with a just reproof which Conscience will assuredly tender Rom. 2.14 If a Reproof as to the matter of it be false or unjust and so judged in an unbiassed Conscience it may be considered in matter of Right and of Fact In the first case the matter may be true and yet the reproof formally false and evil In the latter the matter may be false and yet the reproof an acceptable duty 1. A Reproof is false in matter of right or formally when we are reproved for that as evil which is indeed our duty to perform So David was fiercely reproved by his Brother Eliab for coming unto the Battel against the Philistines ascribing it to his Pride and the Naughtiness of his Heart whereunto he only replied What have I done Is there not a Cause 1 Sam. 17.28 29. And Peter rebuked our Lord Jesus Christ himself for declaring the Doctrine of the Cross Mark 8.33 And so we may be reproved for the Principal Duties that God requireth of us And if men were as free in reproving as they are in reproaching we should not escape from daily rebukes for whatever we do in the worship of God Now though such reproofs generally may be looked on as Temptations and so to be immediately rejected as they were in the cases instanced in yet may they sometimes where they proceed from Love and are managed with moderation be considered as necessary cautions to look heedfully unto the Grounds and Reasons we proceed upon in the Duties opposed at which others do take offence 2. If the Reproof be false in matter of Fact wherein that is charged on us and reproved in us whereof we are no ways guilty three things are to be considered that it may not be unuseful unto us I. The Circumstances of the Reprover as 1 Whether he do proceed on some probable mistake or 2 Credulity and easiness in taking up reports or 3 On evil groundless surmises of his own or 4 From a real godly jealousie which hath been imposed on as easily it will be by some appearances of Truth Without a due Consideration of these things we shall never know how to carry it aright towards them by whom we are reproved for that whereof we are not guilty 2. Consider aright the difference between a Reproof and a Reproach for they may be both false alike and that whereof we are reproved have no more truth in it than that wherewith we are reproached Yea we may be honestly reproved for that which is false and wickedly reproached with that which is true so Augustin calls the Language of the Maid unto his Mother about drinking of Wine durum convitium though the
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Mat. 17.12 He shall turn the hearts of the Fathers to the Children and the hearts of the Children to their Fathers lest I come and strike the earth with a curse Of so great advantage is the right and hearty discharge of these relative duties I have been treating on for the saving of Nations and particular Churches from ruin and desolation Yea and so greatly instrumental are the Ministers of Christ for helping them in their duties that it concerns honest Parents as to consult those who are holy and able in the Ministry for their Childrens good so to commend such faithful Ministers to them as are worthy of their respect and to warn their Children to avoid such persons as are likely to draw them off from goodness yea and particularly in disposing of their Children especially into a Calling of publique consequence 't will be very requisite to consult those who are most able to judge in their own profession as in Divinity Physick or Law that they may be tryed by the faithful and skilful of that profession whether qualified for that they are designed lest you attempt that which cannot be effected as Quintilian †Nè tentes quod effici non potest nâ—c ab eo quod quis eâ—timè facit in aliud cui nimis est idoneus cum transferas observes by putting them upon what they are unapt for or hinder them from that they have a genius to and wherein they would be most serviceable And it will be good to take advice in choosing sit Educators and Tutors according to your abilities David had such learned ones as Tutors with his Sons 1 Chron. 27.32 to see them instructed as became the Princes of Israel a But here Parents should be very careful unto whose conduct they commit their Children or whom they take in to assist them that they be religious orthodox discreet humble courteous skilful and not covetous nor careless but diligent 'T was the great concern of reverend Claviger to have those that feared God about him to do what he could his Wife and Children might be such and then he thought them well provided for Luther kept one within his house to teach his Children that he might see them well-principled and ordered as well as learned And the abovenamed Quintilian * Si quis in eligendo filii praeceptore manifesta flagitia non vitet jam hinc sciat caetera quoque quae ad utilitatem juventutis componere conamur esse sibi hac parte omissa supervacua l. 2. Inst c. 2. from Nature's light could say If any one in choosing a Tutor for his Son did not shun manifest wickedness hence let him know that other things also which we endeavour to compose for the profit of youth prove useless and ineffectual this being neglected This Constantius †Socrat. III. 1. Sozom. II. 2. was well aware of when he was solicitous his Cousin Julian should not have or hear Ethnic Tutors lest considering his temper he should decline to the abomination of Gentilism But notwithstanding his care Julian privately got the writings of Libanius an Heathen Philosopher and after that of Maximus who under-hand laboured to pervert him in hopes he would come to the Empire and to hide this instill'd poyson from Constantius Julian counterfeited for a time a monastick life then openly in pretence read the Bible but secretly studied in earnest the Ethnic Doctrines which made him a most bitter enemy to the Christians when advanc'd to the Empire as the ancient Church experienc'd 'T is dangerous to commit a Lamb to to the conduct of a Wolf On the other hand Theodosius junior ‖ Soz. l. IX 1. was from his Cradle by his dying Father entrusted with his excellent and pious Sister Pulcheria then but 15 years old and having two younger Sisters Arcadia and Marina who got him instructed by such Tutors especially in the true Religion accustoming him to prayer and diligently to frequent the Assemblies that he had in great esteem the faithful Ministers and other Godly men who were lovers of Religion and so prov'd very instrumental for the Orthodox Faith and the advancement of Piety In our own Land and nearer our times we have a notable instance of Sir John Cheek who being Tutor to King Edward the Sixth Dr. L. in Sir John Cheek 's Life was a special instrument of raising up and promoting the Reformed Religion amongst us for he was not only instrumental to sow the seeds of that Doctrine in the Prince's heart which afterwards grew up to a general Reformation when he came to be King but by his means the same saving truth was gently instill'd into the Lady Elizabeth by those who by his procurement were admitted to be the Guides of her younger studies It is of great concern therefore to get good advice and assistance in the education of Children and for their encouragement to reward those well who are profitably employ'd in this work according to the Parents abilities and their deserts and for my own part I should account it better to spare in other matters than in this for good assistance to train up Children Thus I have as I could in my circumstances dispatch'd what I propos'd and now I dare upon the whole matter affirm That I have laid down nothing in all this discourse but what I hope is at least for the main agreeable to the mind of God and what by his assistance I my self should desire and really endeavour to practise either in the relation of Parent or Child which is all the Apologie I shall make for my plain dealing But shall conclude with those precatory expressions in the Psalms a very little varied with respect to those Parents who heartily embrace the word of exhortation (b) Psal 90.16 17. Let thy work O Lord appear unto thy servants and thy glory unto their children And the beauty of the Lord our God be upon them (c) 144.2 that their sons may be as plants grown up in their youth that their daughters may be as corner-stones polish'd after the similitude of a Palace Considering what the Lord hath promis'd for the encouragement of his faithful servants (d) 102.28 viz. Their children shall continue and their seed shall be established before him Duties of Masters and Servants Serm. XVIII Ephes VI. 5 6 7 8 9. Servants be obedient to them that are your Masters according to the flesh with fear and trembling in singleness of your heart as unto Christ Not with eye-service as men pleasers but as the Servants of Christ doing the will of God from the heart With good will doing service as to the Lord and not to men Knowing that whatsoever good thing any man doth the same shall he receive of the Lord whether he be bond or free And ye Masters do the same things unto them forbearing threatning knowing that your Master also is in heaven neither is there respect of persons with him THE
Question proposed to me to answer at this time is this What are the Duties of Masters and Servants and how both must eye their Master which is in heaven Before I come to the direct answer to this Question I shall make way to it by laying down a preliminary consideration or two First That God did in infinite wisdom make all things though of a far different nature Some beings he made more excellent and indowed them with noble faculties fitted for communion with himself and some of these he hath placed in a higher and some in a lower orb and yet all making the glory of infinite wisdom shine more clearly He sets one creature higher and another lower one to rule and the other to be ruled And of the same kind he advanceth one above another and yet with no injustice or wrong to any but for the mutual help one of another the beauty and harmony of the whole Vniverse and the more visible displaying of his own unsearchable wisdom Psal 104.24 Gen. 1.31 If all the Stars were Suns how intolerable would their heat and light be if the whole body were eyes how much of its use and excellency would it lose What a Chaos and heap of confusion would the Woald be without government and how can government be without superiority and inferiority It was not without good reason that the Philosopher said Hierocles in Py. Car. That there was a method of perfect wisdom in the making of all things and it was not by chance that they are what they are but the contrivance of the most excellent counsel Who could have mended what God hath made What could be better ordered than what infinite Goodness hath done Ar. Epist l. 2 c. 7. Anton. ex Palat. l. 7. Ec. 3.11 and who but a fool would desire that things should be otherwise than Wisdom it self hath determined Oh! what cause hath every one to adore God in every thing who hath made every thing beautiful in its place and season What cause have all to sit down content and thankful in that place where God hath fixed them how unreasonable and blasphemous are the repinings of some that are ready to quarrel with their Maker and to impeach him as guilty of partiality cruelty and injustice that hath not advanced them to a higher richer and more honourable condition then they are in Shall the thing formed say unto him that formed it why hast thou made me thus What diabolical pride and arrogance is this for the Creature to accuse and condemn his Creator Shall folly it self indict wisdom must God come to his Creatures Barr must he give thee an account of his actings art thou able to bear his pleadings and canst thou without sinking into nothing stand before his glory what obligation didst thou lay upon God to bring thee out of nothing into something did he stand in any need of thy being what was there in thee that should commend thee to God to advance thee above a toad or a dog I could here expatiate were it not a little besides my design To conclude I think it would be far better for us all to learn of that excellent Moralist who said Epictetus That though he was lame and almost blind and none of the richest yet because he was partaker of Reason he had cause to magnifie the distinguishing goodness of his Maker and could wish that all men would more adore and admire God and as for his part it should be his work while he had a being 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Ar. Epist. l. 1. c. 16. and he did call all to joyn in consort to his praise who hath made all things in so excellent an order and harmony Did we all consider what God is and what we are methinks it should effectually silence discontent and leave no room for any thing but love praise and gratitude O! would to God there were a little of that order harmony and wisdom in our actions that is in God's and that we could act like them that study to imitate their Maker O! that with Paul we could learn still to be content in whatsoever condition we are in 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 id l. 2. c. 14. and if we have spoken or thought any thing derogatory to the infinite Wisdom to repent and abhor our selves in dust and ashes and turn our murmurings against God that it is no better with us into admiration that we are not worse every state on this side eternal misery is advancement above what we deserve and a mercy we can never be thankful enough for Secondly As God did in infinite wisdom make every thing and placed every thing in that sphear that was most fit for it so it is the highest excellency of the creature to shine in his orb and be regular in his motion I mean It is every one's duty and excellency to fill up that place and relation that God hath set him in with duty The whole World is a great Army and God is the General of this Army and he appoints every one their station and rank and in keeping of it exactly is security honour and reward God makes one a King another a Subject one a Master another a Servant one rich another poor and he is really most excellent that is so in the faithful discharge of the state and relation he is in A good Servant is far better than a bad Master a good Subject than a wicked Prince he that is not relatively good is not really good He that breaks his rank to get a higher and safe place may be likelier to meet with destruction than promotion Adam's loss of Paradise and the Angel's loss of Heaven are sufficient demonstrations of this truth The World is a Stage saith the Stoick and in it every one hath his part to act and it 's our commendation and wisdom to act our part well whether it be a Prince or a Beggar a Father or a Child a Master or a Servant Psal 101.2 This was holy David's care and resolution He would behave himself wisely in a perfect way and how shall that be done better than by walking before God in his house with a perfect heart What was Abraham commended for more than his faithfulness and was this the least act of his faithfulness to instruct bis Family and teach them the fear of God Joshua was a man of great gallantry and resolution but I am ready to think he never acted both more bravely Josh 24.15 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Epict. than when he said As for me and my house we will serve the Lord. Socrates laughed at them for fools that endeavoured to perswade him to leave instructing the youth God saith he hath set me in this station and how can I leave it O how few Christians exceed this Heathen nay who almost comes near him if he lived as well as he spake It 's too true a proof that there is but little