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A30128 Christian behaviour, or, The fruits of true Christianity shewing the ground from whence they flow in their godlike order in the duty of relations, as husbands, wives, parents, children, masters, servants &c. : with a word of direction to all backsliders / by John Bunyan. Bunyan, John, 1628-1688. 1663 (1663) Wing B5492; ESTC R14817 52,342 160

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to_o their_o servant_n and_o first_o if_o possible_a they_o can_v to_o get_v they_o that_o fear_n god_n he_o that_o work_v deceit_n say_v david_n shall_v not_o dwell_v within_o my_o house_n and_o he_o that_o tell_v lie_n shall_v not_o tarry_v in_o my_o sight_n psal._n 101._o 7._o second_o but_o if_o none_o at_o the_o present_a but_o unbeliever_n can_v be_v get_v to_o do_v thy_o labour_n then_o 1._o know_v that_o it_o be_v thy_o duty_n so_o to_o behave_v thyself_o to_o thy_o servant_n that_o thy_o service_n may_v not_o only_o be_v for_o thy_o good_a but_o for_o the_o good_a of_o thy_o servant_n and_o that_o both_o in_o body_n and_o soul_n wherefore_o deal_n with_o he_o as_o to_o admonition_n as_o with_o thy_o child_n give_v he_o the_o same_o bread_n of_o god_n thou_o give_v to_o they_o &_o who_o know_v but_o that_o if_o thou_o with_o spiritual_a dilicates_n bring_v up_o thy_o servant_n but_o he_o may_v become_v thy_o spiritual_a son_n in_o the_o end_n prov._n 29._o 21._o 2._o take_v heed_n thou_o do_v not_o turn_v thy_o servant_n into_o slave_n by_o overcharging_a they_o in_o thy_o work_n through_o thy_o greediness_n to_o make_v man_n serve_v with_o rigour_n be_v more_o like_a to_o israel_n enemy_n than_o christian_a master_n exod._n 1._o 14._o 3._o take_v heed_n thou_o carry_v not_o thyself_o to_o thy_o servant_n as_o he_o of_o who_o it_o be_v say_v he_o be_v such_o a_o son_n of_o belial_n that_o his_o servant_n can_v not_o speak_v to_o he_o 1_o sam._n 25._o 14_o 15_o 16_o 17._o and_o the_o apostle_n bid_v you_o forbear_v to_o threaten_v they_o because_o you_o also_o have_v a_o master_n in_o heaven_n ephes._n 6._o 9_o as_o who_o shall_v say_v your_o servant_n can_v be_v guilty_a of_o so_o many_o miscarriage_n against_o you_o as_o you_o be_v guilty_a of_o against_o christ_n wherefore_o do_v wi●h_n and_o to_o your_o servant_n as_o you_o will_v have_v your_o master_n do_v with_o you_o 4._o take_v heed_n that_o thou_o neither_o circumvent_v he_o at_o his_o come_n 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family_n they_o have_v have_v more_o liberty_n to_o god_n thing_n and_o more_o fairness_n of_o deal_v than_o among_o professor_n but_o this_o stink_v and_o as_o jacob_n say_v concern_v the_o cruelty_n of_o his_o two_o son_n so_o may_v i_o say_v of_o such_o master_n they_o make_v religion_n stink_v before_o the_o inhabitant_n of_o the_o land_n gen._n 34._o 30._o in_o a_o word_n learn_v of_o the_o lord_n jesus_n to_o carry_v yourselves_o well_o to_o your_o servant_n that_o your_o servant_n also_o may_v learn_v something_o of_o the_o kindness_n of_o christ_n by_o your_o deportment_n to_o they_o servant_n be_v g●ers_n aswell_o as_o comer_n take_v heed_n that_o thou_o give_v they_o no_o occasion_n to_o scandal_n the_o gospel_n when_o they_o be_v go_v for_o what_o they_o observe_v thou_o unrighteous_o to_o do_v when_o they_o be_v with_o thou_o then_o master_n carry_v it_o right_o towards_o their_o servant_n when_o they_o labour_v both_o in_o word_n and_o life_n to_o convince_v they_o that_o 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