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A43768 Conjugall counsell, or, Seasonable advice, both to unmarried, and married persons directing the first how to enter into marriage estate, and the other how to demeane themselves in the Christian discharge of all such duties as that estate of life blads them to, that God may have glory, the church edification, and themselves and families, present and future comfort, tending much (by the blessing of God) to a through reformation of all the enormities of these evil times / by T.H. ... Hilder, Thomas. 1653 (1653) Wing H1974; ESTC R20660 113,375 218

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the_o palsy_n and_o grievous_o torment_v he_o go_v in_o person_n to_o jesus_n christ_n who_o be_v a_o physician_n both_o for_o body_n and_o soul_n and_o humble_o beseech_v he_o for_o his_o servant_n cure_v and_o through_o the_o free_a grace_n of_o christ_n obtain_v it_o its_o good_a to_o go_v to_o god_n in_o the_o first_o place_n for_o supply_n of_o all_o the_o want_n of_o ourselves_o and_o our_o relation_n he_o that_o be_v in_o misery_n ought_v to_o be_v comfort_v of_o his_o neighbour_n as_o it_o be_v in_o the_o geneva_n translation_n job_n 6.14_o now_o if_o neighbour_n must_v put_v forth_o themselves_o to_o comfort_v or_o relieve_v and_o help_v such_o as_o be_v in_o any_o misery_n how_o much_o more_o must_v governor_n of_o family_n labour_v to_o perform_v this_o duty_n to_o their_o sick_a and_o distemper_a servant_n the_o inference_n be_v undeniable_a a_o good_a man_n be_v merciful_a to_o his_o beast_n say_v one_o translation_n and_o another_o say_v a_o righteous_a man_n regard_v 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master_n have_v your_o servant_n bare_o live_v you_o will_v not_o like_v that_o if_o you_o will_v be_v please_v to_o put_v yourselves_o in_o their_o condition_n but_o in_o the_o second_o place_n it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o master_n to_o pay_v their_o servant_n their_o wage_n in_o due_a time_n and_o that_o be_v when_o it_o be_v due_a by_o the_o condition_n of_o the_o contract_n between_o you_o and_o they_o mal._n 3.5_o god_n threaten_v to_o be_v a_o swift_a witness_n against_o this_o particular_a sin_n of_o oppress_v the_o hireling_n in_o his_o wage_n among_o other_o sin_n now_o a_o man_n may_v be_v guilty_a of_o this_o sin_n as_o well_o in_o detain_v due_a wage_n in_o relation_n to_o time_n of_o payment_n of_o it_o as_o in_o overreach_v a_o servant_n in_o contract_n for_o it_o turn_v to_o that_o place_n deut._n 24.14_o 15._o thou_o shall_v not_o oppress_v a_o hire_a servant_n at_o his_o day_n thou_o shall_v give_v he_o his_o hire_n neither_o shall_v the_o sun_n go_v down_o upon_o it_o the_o labourer_n be_v worthy_a of_o his_o hire_n luk._n 10.7_o master_n give_v unto_o your_o servant_n that_o which_o be_v just_a and_o equal_a col._n 4.1_o james_n tell_v you_o that_o the_o detain_v wage_n from_o labourer_n cry_v and_o the_o cry_n of_o they_o be_v enter_v into_o the_o care_n of_o the_o lord_n of_o sabbath_n james_n 5.4_o and_o sure_o when_o ever_o the_o lord_n give_v a_o ear_n to_o cry_n whether_o the_o cry_n of_o innocent_a blood_n as_o that_o of_o abel_n gen._n 4.10_o or_o any_o other_o occasion_n some_o fearful_a vengeance_n do_v fall_v upon_o the_o head_n of_o such_o as_o cause_v they_o to_o ascend_v and_o therefore_o the_o apostle_n james_n bid_v those_o worldling_n howl_v for_o those_o misery_n that_o shall_v come_v upon_o they_o now_o you_o that_o be_v master_n etc._n etc._n as_o you_o will_v keep_v off_o the_o curse_n prevent_v the_o cry_n servant_n the_o three_o duty_n of_o master_n to_o their_o servant_n in_o the_o three_o and_o last_o place_n the_o duty_n of_o master_n etc._n etc._n to_o their_o servant_n be_v to_o be_v liberal_a to_o they_o at_o time_n of_o part_v in_o case_n they_o have_v be_v servant_n a_o considerable_a time_n and_o have_v be_v diligent_a and_o faithful_a and_o so_o a_o blessing_n to_o they_o deut._n 15.12_o 13_o 14._o so_o prov._n 17.2_o there_o be_v many_o master_n who_o be_v stranger_n to_o this_o duty_n even_o in_o the_o knowledge_n of_o it_o and_o more_o in_o the_o practice_n thereof_o yet_o some_o i_o dare_v not_o say_v in_o conscience_n to_o the_o performance_n of_o this_o duty_n but_o rather_o from_o the_o freeness_n of_o their_o nature_n do_v upon_o the_o matter_n that_o which_o be_v equivalent_a hereunto_o namely_o those_o that_o if_o their_o servant_n part_v from_o they_o by_o marriage_n will_v give_v they_o beneficial_a wedding_n dinner_n and_o sometime_o divers_a piece_n of_o necessary_a householdstuff_n which_o be_v a_o great_a advantage_n to_o they_o and_o this_o be_v so_o laudable_a a_o thing_n that_o i_o can_v wish_v all_o will_v more_o practise_v the_o same_o provide_v they_o prevent_v all_o abusivenesse_n of_o the_o creature_n by_o luxury_n and_o excess_n and_o disorder_n of_o every_o kind_n at_o such_o meeting_n thus_o you_o see_v that_o governor_n of_o family_n do_v owe_v three_o duty_n to_o their_o servant_n in_o relation_n to_o their_o outward_a condition_n first_o to_o allow_v unthem_n meat_n drink_n and_o all_o other_o necessary_n for_o their_o comfortable_a subsistence_n second_o to_o yield_v they_o sufficient_a wage_n and_o last_o to_o be_v liberal_a to_o they_o at_o time_n of_o part_v and_o thus_o by_o the_o gracious_a assistance_n of_o god_n we_o have_v finish_v all_o that_o be_v propose_v at_o first_o to_o be_v consider_v of_o by_o such_o as_o desire_v to_o enter_v into_o the_o marriage_n estate_n relate_v to_o the_o duty_n which_o each_o person_n in_o that_o condition_n of_o life_n owe_v one_o to_o another_o and_o both_o of_o they_o to_o such_o as_o god_n shall_v set_v under_o they_o viz._n to_o child_n and_o servant_n but_o here_o it_o will_v be_v of_o some_o concernment_n to_o take_v notice_n of_o what_o duty_n child_n and_o servant_n owe_v unto_o parent_n and_o master_n that_o they_o may_v call_v upon_o they_o to_o perform_v the_o same_o where_o we_o shall_v first_o observe_v the_o duty_n child_n owe_v unto_o their_o parent_n and_o then_o the_o duty_n of_o servant_n to_o their_o master_n etc._n etc._n in_o the_o first_o place_n it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o child_n to_o yield_v unto_o their_o parent_n all_o due_a reverence_n and_o honour_n parent_n the_o first_o duty_n child_n owe_v unto_o their_o parent_n this_o duty_n be_v express_o command_v by_o god_n in_o exod._n 20.12_o honour_n thy_o father_n and_o thy_o mother_n which_o the_o apostle_n eph._n 6.2_o take_v notice_n
such_o as_o be_v offender_n in_o this_o kind_n and_o such_o be_v all_o servant_n that_o discharge_v not_o the_o duty_n here_o mention_v now_o if_o servant_n will_v know_v how_o and_o in_o what_o way_n this_o duty_n shall_v be_v perform_v for_o their_o help_n therein_o i_o refer_v they_o to_o those_o mean_n brief_o nominate_v for_o direction_n to_o child_n in_o the_o performance_n of_o this_o very_a duty_n to_o their_o parent_n and_o by_o the_o way_n it_o be_v worth_a observe_n that_o in_o a_o real_a and_o true_a sense_n it_o may_v be_v say_v and_o prove_v that_o master_n etc._n etc._n be_v parent_n to_o then_o servant_n as_o well_o as_o to_o their_o child_n yet_o with_o a_o great_a deal_n of_o difference_n in_o the_o second_o place_n it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o servant_n to_o be_v obedient_a unto_o their_o manner_n etc._n etc._n this_o duty_n have_v some_o affinity_n with_o the_o former_a for_o if_o servant_n do_v not_o ready_o obey_v their_o master_n they_o can_v honour_v they_o they_o rather_o vilify_v they_o and_o expose_v they_o to_o contempt_n and_o disgrace_n there_o be_v many_o scripture_n text_n that_o offer_v themselves_o to_o confirm_v this_o truth_n servant_n be_v obedient_a to_o your_o master_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n eph._n 6.5_o servant_n obey_v in_o all_o thing_n your_o master_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n col_n 3.22_o exhort_v servant_n say_v paul_n to_o be_v obedient_a to_o their_o master_n in_o all_o thing_n not_o answer_v again_o tit._n 2.9_o the_o apostle_n peter_n do_v further_o press_v this_o duty_n servant_n say_v he_o be_v subject_a to_o your_o master_n with_o all_o fear_n not_o only_o to_o the_o good_a and_o gentle_a but_o also_o to_o the_o froward_a 1_o pet._n 2.18_o from_o all_o these_o place_n you_o may_v see_v this_o duty_n have_v the_o word_n of_o god_n for_o its_o foundation_n the_o centurion_n which_o we_o read_v of_o in_o the_o gospel_n have_v choice_a servant_n for_o their_o readiness_n to_o obey_v he_o for_o he_o tell_v christ_n that_o if_o he_o bid_v one_o go_v he_o go_v and_o if_o another_o come_v he_o come_v and_o if_o he_o bid_v his_o servant_n do_v this_o he_o do_v it_o we_o must_v not_o doubt_v of_o the_o truth_n of_o what_o he_o say_v though_o he_o speak_v those_o thing_n to_o illustrate_v and_o set_v forth_o the_o power_n of_o christ_n over_o all_o sickness_n and_o all_o thing_n for_o he_o do_v acknowledge_v that_o that_o sickness_n that_o have_v arrest_v his_o servant_n be_v the_o servant_n of_o christ_n &_o that_o as_o it_o do_v afflict_v his_o servant_n when_o christ_n command_v it_o so_o to_o do_v so_o it_o must_v leave_v his_o servant_n and_o depart_v when_o christ_n shall_v require_v the_o same_o mat_n 8.8_o 9_o it_o be_v much_o to_o be_v wish_v that_o every_o master_n have_v such_o a_o servant_n or_o such_o servant_n as_o this_o centurion_n have_v there_o will_v be_v more_o quietness_n in_o family_n and_o better_a success_n in_o all_o their_o employment_n than_o now_o there_o be_v but_o many_o servant_n in_o our_o time_n will_v go_v and_o come_v at_o their_o own_o pleasure_n and_o do_v what_o be_v good_a in_o their_o own_o eye_n their_o master_n must_v be_v subject_a to_o they_o and_o not_o they_o to_o their_o master_n but_o such_o servant_n will_v be_v the_o great_a loser_n at_o last_o mark_v what_o the_o apostle_n say_v obey_v they_o that_o have_v the_o rule_n over_o you_o and_o submit_v yourselves_o for_o they_o watch_v for_o your_o soul_n as_o they_o that_o must_v give_v a_o account_n that_o they_o may_v do_v it_o with_o joy_n and_o not_o with_o grief_n for_o that_o be_v unprofitable_a to_o you_o heb._n 13.17_o which_o be_v a_o exhortation_n in_o general_a yet_o it_o concern_v servant_n in_o special_a servant_n must_v not_o do_v any_o thing_n contrary_a to_o their_o master_n mind_n though_o they_o give_v no_o particular_a command_n to_o the_o contrary_n elisha_n do_v not_o command_v his_o servant_n gehazi_n not_o to_o go_v after_o naaman_n to_o receive_v a_o gratuity_n yet_o he_o go_v and_o do_v receive_v a_o talon_n of_o silver_n and_o two_o change_n of_o raiment_n of_o he_o but_o he_o can_v not_o crack_v of_o his_o profit_n as_o we_o say_v for_o he_o have_v the_o plague_n of_o leprosy_n with_o they_o into_o the_o bargain_n 2_o king_n 5.20_o 22_o 24_o 25_o 26_o 27._o can_v any_o man_n with_o any_o show_n of_o reason_n conceive_v that_o this_o example_n of_o disobedience_n in_o gehazi_n to_o his_o master_n and_o of_o the_o severe_a hand_n of_o god_n on_o he_o for_o it_o do_v stand_v upon_o record_n for_o nothing_o whatsoever_o thing_n be_v write_v aforetime_o be_v write_v for_o our_o learning_n rom._n 15.4_o and_o this_o be_v write_v to_o terrify_v rebellious_a and_o disobedient_a servant_n whereof_o the_o world_n be_v full_a but_o gracious_a servant_n will_v learn_v and_o practice_n better_o master_n the_o three_o duty_n of_o servant_n to_o their_o master_n in_o the_o three_o and_o last_o place_n it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o servant_n to_o their_o master_n to_o show_v all_o diligence_n fidelity_n and_o faithfulness_n in_o the_o discharge_n their_o business_n and_o answer_v the_o trust_n commit_v to_o they_o and_o that_o as_o in_o the_o presence_n of_o god_n when_o the_o apostle_n in_o that_o place_n of_o eph._n 7.5_o 9_o which_o we_o make_v use_v of_o before_o have_v exhort_v servant_n to_o be_v obedient_a to_o their_o master_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n with_o fear_n and_o tremble_a in_o singleness_n of_o heart_n as_o to_o christ_n he_o add_v not_o with_o eye-service_n as_o man_n pleaser_n but_o as_o the_o servant_n of_o christ_n do_v the_o will_n of_o god_n from_o the_o heart_n the_o very_a same_o you_o find_v in_o col._n 3.22_o in_o tit._n 2.9_o 10._o exhort_v servant_n say_v the_o apostle_n to_o be_v obedient_a to_o their_o master_n not_o purloin_v but_o show_v all_o good_a fidelity_n that_o they_o may_v adorn_v the_o doctrine_n of_o god_n when_o servant_n serve_v their_o master_n not_o with_o eye-service_n but_o with_o all_o faithfulness_n and_o singleness_n of_o heart_n with_o a_o good_a conscience_n they_o also_o serve_v jesus_n christ_n who_o will_v plentiful_o recompense_v the_o same_o either_o in_o temporal_a or_o spiritual_a blessing_n or_o in_o both_o he_o be_v a_o bless_a servant_n who_o obey_v his_o master_n command_n chief_o in_o relation_n to_o god_n injunction_n such_o a_o one_o not_o doubt_n be_v the_o servant_n of_o abraham_n and_o jacob_n to_o his_o father_n laban_n and_o joseph_n to_o potiphar_n and_o after_o to_o the_o keeper_n of_o the_o prison_n gen._n 30.27_o chap._n 39.3_o ult_n there_o be_v divers_a way_n and_o mean_n by_o which_o servant_n must_v show_v themselves_o faithful_a to_o their_o master_n and_o dame_n first_o by_o pray_v for_o they_o second_o by_o be_v diligent_a in_o the_o dispatch_n of_o their_o business_n three_o by_o preserve_v their_o estate_n and_o in_o help_v to_o increase_v they_o four_o by_o labour_v to_o protect_v their_o person_n from_o violence_n to_o their_o power_n and_o five_o by_o labour_v to_o preserve_v their_o reputation_n in_o order_n whereunto_o they_o must_v keep_v their_o secret_n undisclose_v and_o their_o infirmity_n from_o be_v publish_v but_o such_o servant_n as_o walk_v in_o way_n contrary_a hereunto_o it_o be_v incomparable_o better_a for_o a_o christian_a housholder_n to_o have_v they_o out_o than_o in_o his_o family_n and_o indeed_o it_o be_v far_o better_a that_o such_o servant_n shall_v lie_v under_o the_o cudgel_n of_o a_o turkish_a patron_n than_o set_v their_o foot_n under_o a_o honest_a man_n table_n thus_o we_o have_v with_o much_o brevity_n pass_v through_o the_o duty_n which_o servant_n owe_v unto_o their_o master_n and_o dame_n first_o they_o must_v labour_v to_o honour_v they_o second_o they_o must_v submit_v to_o they_o and_o obey_v they_o three_o and_o last_o they_o must_v show_v all_o diligence_n fidelity_n and_o faithfulness_n to_o they_o in_o do_v their_o business_n and_o 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beforesaid_a and_o if_o so_o then_o judge_v you_o what_o singular_a care_n shall_v fill_v your_o heart_n and_o head_n when_o you_o mind_n marriage_n and_o use_v the_o mean_n conducible_a for_o that_o end_n dear_a heart_n i_o can_v but_o think_v it_o necessary_a to_o acquaint_v you_o concern_v this_o poor_a piece_n ensue_v which_o be_v denominate_v conjugal_a counsel_n that_o the_o original_a copy_n of_o it_o be_v compile_v six_o and_o twenty_o year_n since_o which_o be_v then_o bring_v into_o a_o compendious_a way_n and_o true_o it_o be_v little_o more_o now_o i_o do_v present_v it_o not_o only_o to_o very_o intelligible_a private_a christian_n but_o to_o three_o very_a orthodox_n divine_v for_o their_o approbation_n of_o it_o it_o be_v then_o in_o my_o intention_n to_o make_v it_o public_a which_o approbation_n of_o they_o i_o have_v and_o counsel_n from_o one_o of_o they_o to_o print_v the_o book_n who_o do_v also_o put_v i_o in_o a_o fair_a way_n to_o accomplish_v the_o same_o and_o 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