who were wilfully the meritorious cause should also be the efficient in their own sufferings and then who can they complain of but themselves and they will be no more able to cease their self-tormenting then men that we see in a deep Melancholy that will by no Arguments be taken off from their sorrows SECT VI. 6. COnsider also how that their torment will be universal not upon one part alone while the rest are free but as all have joyned in the sin so must they all partake of the torment The soul as it was the chief in sinning shall be chief in suffering and as it is of a more spiritual and excellent nature then bodies are so will its torments as far exceed our present bodily sufferings As the joys of the soul do far surpass all sensual pleasures and corporal contentments so do the pains of the soul surpass these corporal pains and as the Martyrs did triumph in the very flames because their souls were ful of joy though their bodies were in pain so though these damned creatures could enjoy all their bodily pleasures yet the souls sufferings would take away the sweetness of them all And it is not onely a soul but a sinful soul that must suffer The guilt which still remains upon it will make it fit for the wrath of God to work upon as fire will not burn except the fuel be combustible but if the wood be dry or it light upon Straw how fiercely will it burn them Why the guilt of all their former sins will be as Tinder or Gunpowder to the damned soul to make the flames of hell to take hold upon them with fury And as the soul so also the body must bear its part that body that must needs be pleased whatsoever became of its eternal safety shall new be paid for all its unlawful pleasures That body which was so carefully looked to so tenderly cherished so curiously drest that body which could not endure heat or cold or an ill smell or a loathsome sight O what must it now endure How are its haughty looks now taken down How little will those flames regard its comliness and beauty But as Death did not regard it nor the Worms regard it but as freely feed upon the face of the proud and lustful Dames and the heart of the most ambitious Lords or Princes as if they had bin but beggers or bruits so wil their tormentors then as little pitty their tenderness or reverence their Lordliness when they shall be raised from their graves to their eternal doom Those eyes which were wont to be delighted with curious sights and to feed themselves upon beauteous and comely objects must then see nothing but vvhat shall amaze and terrifie them an angry sin-revenging God above them and those Saints vvhom they scorned enjoying the Glory vvhich they have lost and about them vvill be only Devils and damned souls Ah then how sadly wil they look back and say Are all our merry Meetings our Feasts our Playes our vvanton Toyes our Christmas Games and Revels come to this Then those Eares vvhich vvere vvont to be delighted vvith Musick shall hear the shriekes and cries of their damned companions Children crying out against their Parents that gave them incouragement and example in evil but did not teach them the fear of the Lord Husbands crying out upon their Wives and Wives upon their Husbands Masters and Servants cursing each other Ministers and People Magistrates and Subjects charging their misery upon one another for discouraging in Duty conniving at sin and being silent or formal when they should have plainly told one another of their misery and forewarned them of this danger Thus will Soul and Body be companions in Calamity SECT VII 7. ANd the greater by far will their Torments be because they shall have no one comfort left to help to mitigate them In this life when a Minister foretold them of Hel or Conscience begun to trouble their peace they had Comforters enough at hand to relieve them Their carnal friends were all ready to speak comfort to them and promise them that all should be well with them but now they have not a word of comfort either for him or themselves Formerly they had their business their company their mirth to drive away their fears they could drink away their sorrows or play them away or sleep them away or at least time did wear them away but now all these remedies are vanished They had a hard a presumptuous unbelieving heart which was a wall to defend them against troubles of minde but now their experience hath banished these and left them naked to the fury of those flames Yea formerly Satan himself was their comforter and would unsay all that the Minister said against them as he did to our first Mother Hath God said Ye shall not eat Yea shall not surely dye So doth he now Doth God tell you that you shall lye in Hell It is no such matter God is more merciful he doth but tell you so to fright you from sinning Who would lose his present pleasures for fear of that which he never saw Or if there be a hell what need you to fear it Are not you Christians And shall you not be saved by Christ was not his blood shed for you Ministers may tell you what they please they delight to fear men that they may be masters in their Consciences and therefore would make men believe that they shall all be damned except they will fit themselves to their precise humor Thus as the Spirit of Christ is the Comforter of the Saints so Satan is the Comforter of the wicked for he knows if he should now disquiet them they would no longer serve him or if fears and doubts should begin to trouble them they would bethink themselves of their danger and so escape it never was a theif more careful lest he should awake the people when he is robbing the house then Satan is careful not to awake a sinner And as a cutpurse will look you in the face and hold you in a tale that you may never suspect him while he is robbing your pockets so will Satan labour to keep men from all doubts or jealousies or sorrowfull thoughts But when the sinner is dead and he hath his prey and his stratagem hath had success then he hath done flattering and comforting them VVhile the sight of sin and misery might have helped to save them he took all the pains he could to hide it from their eyes but when it is too late and there is no hope left he will make them see and feel it to the utmost O which way will the forlorn sinner then look for comfort They that drew him into the snare and promised him safety do now forsake him and are forsaken themselves His ancient comforts are taken from him and the righteous God whose forewarnings he made light of will now make good his word against him to the least
one with another and Calvins Exposition which is the summ of all I have said q. d. Danda est vobis opera non tantum ut salsi intus sitis sed etiam ut saliatis alios Quia tamen sal acrimoniâ suâ mordet ideo statim admonet sic temperandam esse condituram ut pax interim salva maneat SECT XI 6. THe last whom I would perswade to this great Work of helping others to the Heavenly Rest is Parents and Masters of Families All you that God hath intrusted with Children or Servants O consider what Duty lyeth on you for the furthering of their Salvation That this Exhortation may be the more effectual with you I will lay down these several Considerations for you seriously to think on 1. What plain and pressing commands of God are there that require this great Duty at your hands Deut. 6.6 7 8. And these words which I command thee this day shall be in thy heart and thou shalt teach them diligently to thy children speaking of them when thou sittest in thy house and when thou walkest by the way and when thou lyest down and when thou risest up So Deut. 11. And how well is God pleased with this in Abraham Gen. 18.19 Shall I hide from Abraham that thing which I do For I know him that he will command his Children and his Houshold after him that they shall keep the way of the Lord c. And it is Joshuaes Resolution That he and his Houshold will serve the Lord. Prov. 22.6 Train up a childe in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it Ephes 6.4 Bring up your children in the Nurture and Admonition of the Lord. Many the like Precepts especially in the Book of Proverbs you may finde So that you see it is a Work that the Lord of heaven and earth hath laid upon you and how then dare you neglect it and cast it off 2. It is a duty that you ow your children in point of Justice from you they received the defilement and misery of their natures and therefore you ow them all possible help for their recovery If you had but hurt a stranger yea though against your will you would think it duty to help to cure him 3. Consider how neer your children are to you and then you will perceive that from this Natural Relation also they have interest in your utmost help your children are as it were parts of your selves If they prosper when you are dead you take it almost as if you lived and prospered in them If you labor never so much you think it not ill bestowed nor your buildings or purchases too dear so that they may enjoy them when you are dead and should you not be of the same minde for their everlasting Rest 4. You will else be witnesses against your own souls your great care and pains and cost for their bodies will condemn you for your neglect of their pretious souls you can spend your selves in toyling and caring for their bodies and even neglect your own souls and venture them sometimes upon unwarrantable courses and all to provide for your Posterity and have you not as much reason to provide for their souls Do you not believe that your children must be everlastingly happy or miserable when this life is ended and should not that be fore-thought of in the first place 5. Yea All the very bruit creatures may condemn you Which of them is not tender of their young How long will the Hen sit to hatch her Chickens and how busily scrape for them and how carefully shelter and defend them and so will even the most vile and venemous Serpent and will you be more unnatural and hard-hearted then all these will you suffer your children to be ungodly and profane and run on in the undoubted way to damnation and let them alone to destroy themselves without controll 6. Consider God hath made your children to be your charge yea and your servants too Every one will confess they are the Ministers charge and what a dreadful thing it is for them to neglect them when God hath told them That if they tell not the wicked of their sin and danger their blood shall be required at that Ministers hands and is not your charge as great and as dreadful as theirs Have not you a greater charge of your own Families then any Minister hath Yea doubtless and your duty it is to reach and admonish and reprove them and watch over them and at your hands else will God require the bloud of their souls The greatest charge it is that ever you were entrusted with and we to you if you prove unfaithful and betray your trust and suffer them to be ignorant for want of your teaching or wicked for want of your admonition or correction O â—ad account that many parents will make 7. Look into the dispositions and lives of your children and see what a work there is for you to do First It is not one sin that you must help them against but thousands their name is Legion for they are many It is not one weed that must be pulled up but the field is overspread with them Secondly And how hard is it to prevail against any one of them They are Hereditary diseases bred in their Natures Naturam expellâ—s furea c. They are aâ— neer them as the very heart and how tenacious are all things of that which is natural how hard to teach a Hare not to be fearful or a Lyon or Tiger not to be fierce Besides the things you must teach them are quite above them yea clean contrary to the interest and desires of their Flesh how hard is it to teach a man to be willing to be poor and despised and destroyed here for Christ to deny themselves and displease the flesh to forgive an Enemy to love those that hate us to watch against temptations to avoid occasions and appearance of evil to believe in a crucified Saviour to rejoyce in tribulation to trust upon a bare word of Promise and let go all in hand if call'd to it for something in hope that they never saw nor ever spake with man that did see to make God their chief delight and love and to have their hearts in heaven while they live on earth I think none of this is easie they think otherwise let them try and Judg yet all this must be learned or they are undone for ever If you help them not to some Trade they cannot live in the world but if they be destitute of these things they shall not live in heaven If the Marriner be not skilful he may be drowned and if the Souldier be not skilful he may be slain but they that cannot do the things above mentioned will perish for ever For without holiness none shall see God Heb. 12.14 O that the Lord would make all you that are Parents sensible what a work and charge
doth lye upon you You that neglect this important work and talk to your Families of nothing but the world I tell you the bloud of souls lyes on you make as light of it as you will if you repent not and amend the Lord will shortly call you to an account for your guiltiness of your childrens everlasting undoing and then you that could finde in your hearts to neglect the souls of your own children will be judged more barbarous then the Irish or Turks that kill the children of others 8. Consider also what a world of sorrows do you prepare for your selves by the neglect of your children First You can expect no other but that they should be thorns in your very eyes and you may thank your selves if they prove so seeing they are thorns of your own planting Secondly If you should repent of this your negligence and be saved your selves yet is it nothing to you to think of the damnation of your children You know God hath said That except they be born again they shall not enter into the Kingdom of God Methinks then it should be a heart-breaking to all you that have unregenerate children Methinks you should weep over them every time you look them in the face to remember that they are in the way to eternal fire Some people would lament the fate of their children if but a Wizard should foretel them some ill fortune to befall them and do you not regard it when the Living God shall tell you That the wicked shall be turned into hell and all they that forget God Psal. 9.17 Thirdly Yet all this were not so doleful to you if it were a thing that you had no hand in or could do nothing to help but to think that all this is much long of you that ever your negligence should bring your childe to these everlasting torments which the very damned man Luke 16. would have had his brethren been warned to escape if this seem light to thee thou hast the heart of a hellish Fiend in thee and not of a man Fourthly But yet worse then all this will it prove to you if you die in this sin for then you shall be miserable as well as they and O what a greeting will there be then between ungodly Parents and children what a hearing will it be to your tormented souls to hear your children cry out against you All this that we suffer was long of you you should have taught us better and did not you should have restrained us from sin and corrected us but you did not what an addition will such out-cries be to your misery 9. On the other side do but think with your selves what a world of comfort you may have if you be faithful in this duty First If you should not succeed yet you have freed your own souls and though it be sad yet not so sad for you may have peace in your own consciences Secondly But if you do succeed the comfort is unexpressible For first Godly children will be truly loving to your selves that are their Parents when a little riches or matters of this world will oft make ungodly children to cast off their very natural affection secondly Godly children will be most obedient to you They dare not disobey and provoke you because of the command of God except you should command them that which is unlawful and then they must obey God rather then men thirdly And if you should fall into want they would be most faithful in relieving you as knowing they are tied by a double bond of Nature and of Grace fourthly And they will also be helpers to your souls and to your spiritual comforts they will be delighting you with the mention of heaven and with all holy conference and actions when wicked children will be grieving you with cursing and swearing or drunkenness or disobedience fifthly Yea when you are in trouble or sickness and at death your godly children will be at hand to advise and to support you they will strive with God in prayers for you O what a comfort is it to a Parent to have a childe that hath the Spirit of Prayer and interest in God how much good may they do you by their importunity with God And what a sadness is it to have children that when you lye sick can do no more but ask you how you do and look on you in your misery sixthly Yea all your Family may fare the better for one childe or servant that feareth God yea perhaps all the Town where he liveth As Josephs case proveth and Jacobs and many the like when one wicked childe may bring a Judgment oâ— your house seventhly And if God make you instruments of your childrens conversion you will have a share in all the good that they do through their lives all the good they do to their brethren or to the Church of God and all the honor they bring to God will redound to your happiness as having been instruments of it eighthly And what a comfort may it be to you all your lives to think that you shall live with them for ever with God ninthly But the greatest joy will be when you come to the possession of this and you shall say Here am I and the children thou hast given me And are not all these comforts enough to perswade you to this duty 10. Consider further That the very welfare of Church and State lyeth mainly on this duty of well educating children and without this all other means are like to be far less successful I seriously profess to you that I verily think all the sins and miseries of the Land may acknowledg this sin for their great Nurse and Propagator O what happy Churches might we have if Parents did their duties to their children then we need not exclude so many for ignorance or scandal nor have our Churches composed of members so rude then might we spare most of the quarrels about Discipline Reformation Toleration and Separation any reasonable government would do better with a well-taught people then the best will do with the ungodly It is not good Laws and Orders that will reform us if the men be not good and Reformation begin not at home when children go wicked from the hands of their Parents thence some come such to the Universities and so we come to have an ungodly Ministry and in every profession they bring this fruit of their Education with them when Gentlemen teach their children onely to Hunt and Hawk and game and deride the godly what Magistrates and what Parliaments and so what Government and what a Commonwealth are we like to have when all must be guided by such as these some perverse inconsiderate persons lay the blame of all this on the Ministers that people of all sorts are so ignorant and profane as if one man can do the work of many hundreds I beseech you that are Masters and Parents do your own duties and free Ministers from these
unjust aspersions and the Church from her reproach and confusion Have not Ministers work enough of their own to do O that you knew what it is that lieth on them And if besides this you wil cast upon them the work of every Master and Parent in the Parish it is like indeed to be well done How many sorts of Workmen must there be to the building of an house and if all of them should cast it upon one and themselves do nothing you may judg how much were like to be done If there be three or four Schoolmasters in a School amongst three or four hundred Scholars all the lower that should fit them for the higher Schools should do nothing at all but send all these Scholars to the highest Schoolmaster as ignorant as they received them would not his life be a burden to him and all the work be frustrate and spoiled Why so it is here The first work towards the reforming and making happy of Church and Commonwealth lies in the good education of your children the most of this is your work and if this be left undone and then they come to Ministers raw and ignorant and hardned in their sins alas what can a Minister do whereas if they came trained up in the Principles of Religion and the practice of godliness and were taught the fear of God in their youth O what an encouragement would it be to Ministers and how would the work go on in their hands I tell you seriously this is the cause of all our miseries and unreformedness in Church and State even the want of a holy education of children Many lay the blame on this neglect and that but there is none hath so great a hand in it as this what a School must there needs be where all are brought raw as I said to the highest School what a house must there needs be built when Clay is brought to the Masons hands in stead of Bricks What a Commonwealth may be expected if all the Constables and Justices should do nothing but cast all upon King and Parliament And so what a Church may we expect when all the Parents and Masters in the Parish shall cast all their duty on their Ministers Alas how long may we Catechise them and preath to them before we can get them to understand the very Principles of the Faith This this is the cause of our Churches deformities and this is the cause of the present difficulty of Reformation It s in vain to contend about Orders and Disciâ—pline if the persons that live under it be not prepared Perhaps you 'l say the Apostles had not their hearers thus prepared to their hands Is not the word the first means of conversion Answ. 1. The Apostles preached to none at first but Infidels and Pagans And are you no better Will you do no more for your children then they 2. All the success of their labors was to gather here and there a Church from among the world of unbelievers but now the Kingdoms of the world are become the Kingdoms of the Lord and his Christ. 3. And yet the Apostles were extraordinarily qualified for the work and seconded it by Miracles for the convincing of their hearers 4. I do verily believe that if Parents did their duty as they ought the word publikly preached would not be the ordinary means of Regeneration in the Church but only without the Church among Infidels Not that I believe Doctor Burges and Master Bedfords doctrine of Baptismal Regeneration But God would pour out his grace so upon the children of his people and hear prayers for them and bless such endeavors for their holy education that we should see the promises made good to our seed and the unthankful Anabaptists that will not confesse that the children of the Saints are any neerer God or more beholden to him then Pagans so much as for the favor to be visible Church-members should by sweet experience be convinced of their error and be taught better how to understand that our children are holy II. I intreat you that are parents also to consider what excellent advantages you have above all others for the saving of your children 1. They are under your hands while they are young and tender and flexible But they come to Ministers when they are grown elder and stiffer and settled in their wayes and think themselves too good to be catechised and too old to be taught You have a twigg to bend and we an oake You have the young plants of sin to pluck up and we the deep rooted vices The consciences of children are not so seared with a custome of sinning and long resisting grace as others You have the soft and tender earth to plow in and we have the hard and stony wayes that have been trodden on by many yeers practice of evil When they are young ' their understandings are like a sheet of white paper that hath nothing written on and so you have opportunity to write what you will But when they are grown up in sin they are like the same paper written over with falshoods which must all be bloted out again and truth written in the place and how hard is that We have a double task first to unteach them and then to teach them better but you have but one We must unteach them all that the world and flesh and wicked company and the divel have been diligently teaching them in many yeers time We have hardened hearts to beat on like a Smiths Anvile that will not feel us We may tell them of death and Judgment heaven and hell and they hear us as if they were asleep or dead you have the soft clay to mold and we the hardened burned bricks You have them before they are possessed with prejudice and false conceits against the truth but we have them to teach when they have many yeers lived among those that have scorned at godliness and taught them to think Gods wayes to be foolish preciseness Custome hath not enâ—nared and engaged your little ones to contrary wayes But of old sinners the Lord himself hath said that if the Aethiopian can change his skin and the Leopard his spots then may those that are accâ—stomed to do evil learn to do well Jer. 13.23 Doth not the experience of all the world shew you the power of education What else makes all the Children of the Jews to be Jews and all the Children of the Turks to be Mahometans and of Christians to be in profession Christians and of each Sect or party in Religion to follow their parents and the custom of the place Why now what an advantage have you to use all this for the furtherance of their happiness and possess them as strongly beforehand against sin as else Satan would do for it and so Satan should come to them upon some of those disadvantages that now Christ comes on 2. Consider also that you have the affections of your Children more then any others
Have you as oft and as earnestly begged of them to think on their wayes and to reform as you have taken on you to beg of God that they may do so What if you should see your neighbor faln into a pit and you should presently fall down on your knees and pray God to help him out but would neither put forth your hand to help nor once perswade or direct him to help himself would not any man censure you to be cruell and hypocriticall What the Holy Ghost saith of mens bodily miseries I may say much more of the misery of their souls If any man seeth his brother in need and shutteth up his compassion from him how dwelleth the love of God in him Or what love hath he to his brothers soul Sure if you saw your friend in Hell you would perswade him hard to come thence if that would serve and why do you not now perswade him to prevent it The Charity of our ignorant forefathers may rise up in judgment against us and condemn us They would give all their estates almost for so many Masses or pardons to deliver the souls of their friends from a feigned Purgatory And we will not so much as importunately admonish and intreat them to save them from the certain flames of Hell though this may be effectuall to do them good and the other will do none 4. Another hinderance is A base man pleasing disposition that is in us We are so loath to displease men and so desirous to keep in credit and favor with them that it makes us most unconscionably neglect our known duty A foolish Physitian he is and a most unfaithful friend that will let a sick man dye for fear of troubling him And cruel wretches are we to our friends that will rather suffer them to go quietly to hell then we will anger them or hazard our reputation with them If they did but fall in a swoon we would rub them and pinch them and never stick at hurting them If they were distracted we would binde them with chains and we would please them in nothing that tended to their hurt And yet when they are besides themselves in point of salvation and in â—heir madness posting on to damnation we will not stop them for fear of displeasing them How can these men be Christians that love the praise and favour of men more then the favor of God John 12.43 For if they yet seek to please men they are no longer the servants of Christ Gal. 1.10 To winne them indeed they must become all things to all men but to please them to their destruction and let them perish that we may keep our credit with them is a course so base and barbarously cruel that he that hath the face of a Christian should abhorre it 5. Another common hinderance is A sinful Bashfulness When we should labor to make men ashamed of their sins we are our selves ashamed of our duties May not these sinners condemn us when they will not blush to swear or be drunk or neglect the worship of God and we will blush to tell them of it and perswade them from it Elisha looked on Hazael till he was ashamed and we are ashamed to look on or speak to the offender Sinners will rather boast of their sins and impudently shew them in the open streets and shall not we be as bold in drawing them from it Not that I approve of impudence in any For as one saith I take him for a lost man that hath lost his modesty Nor would I have inferiors forget their distance in admonishing their superiors but do it with all humility submission and respect But yet I would much less have them forget their duty to God and their friends be they never so much their superiors it is a thing that must be done Bashfulness is unseemly in cases of flat necessity And indeed it is not a work to be ashamed of to obey God in perswading men from their sins to Christ and helping to save their souls is not a business for a man to blush at And yet alas what abundance of souls have been neglected through the prevailing of this sin Even the most of us are hainously guilty in this point Reader is not this thy own case Hath not thy conscience told thee of thy duty many a time and put thee on to speak to poor sinners lest they perish and yet thou hast been ashamed to open thy mouth to them and so let them alone to sink or swim Believe me thou wilt ere long be ashamed of this shame O read those words of Christ and tremble He that is ashamed of me and of my words before this adulterous generation of him will the son of man be ashamed before his father and the Angels 5. Another hinderance is impatiency laziness and favouring of the flesh It is an ungrateful work and for the most part maketh those our enemies that were our friends And men cannot bear the reproaches and unthankful returns of sinners It may be they are their chief friends on whom is all their dependance so that it may be their undoing to displease them Besides it is a work that seldom succeedeth at the first except it be followed on with wisdom and unweariedness you must be a great while teaching an ignorant person before they will be brought to know the very fundamentals and a great while perswading an obstinate sinner before he will come to a full resolution to return Now this is a tedious course to the flesh and few will bear it Not considering what patience God used towards us when we were in our sins and how long he followed us with the importunities of his Spirit holding out Christ and life and beseeching us to accept them Wo to us if God had been as impatient with us as we are with others If Christ be not weary nor give over to invite them we have little reason to be weary of doing the message See 2 Timothy 2.24 25 6. Another hinderance is self-seeking and self-minding Men are all for themselves and all minde their own things but few the things of Christ and their brethren Hence is that Cainish voice Am I my brothers keeper Every man must answer for himself Hence also it is that a multitude of ignorant professors do think only where they may enjoy the purest ordinances and thither they will go over sea and land or what way of discipline will be sweetest to themselves and therefore are prone to groundless separation But where they have the fairest opportunity to win the souls of others or in what place or way they may do most good these things they little or nothing regard As if we had learned of the Monks and were setting up their principles and practice when we seem to oppose them If these men had tryed what some of their brethren have done they would know that all the purest ordinances and Churches will not
guilty of all the sin that he committeth in his drunkenness VVill you resolve therefore to set upon this duty and neglect it no longer Remember Eli your children are like Moses in the basket in the water ready to perish if they have not help As ever you would not be charged before God for murderers of their souls and as ever you would not have them cry out against you in everlasting fire see that you teach them how to escape it and bring them up in holiness and the fear of God You have heard that the God of heaven doth flatly command it you I charge every one of you therefore upon your allegiance to him and as you will very shortly answer the contrary at your peril that you neither refuse nor neglect this most necessary work If you are not willing now you know it to be so plain and so great a duty you are flat Rebels and no true subjects of Christ. If you are willing to do it but know not how I will adde a few words of direction to help you 1. Teach them by your own example as well as by your words Be your selves such as you would have them be practice is the most effectual teaching of children who are addicted to imitation especially of their parents Lead them the way to prayer and reading and other duties Be not like base Commanders that will put on their Soldiers but not go on themselves Can you expect your children should be wiser or better then you Let them not hear those words out of your mouths nor see those practices in your lives which you reprove in them No man shall be saved because his children are godly if he be ungodly himself Who should lead the way in holiness but the father and master of the family It is a sad time when he must be accounted a good master or father that will not hinder his family from serving God but will give them leave to go to heaven without him I will but name the rest for your direct dutie for your Family 1. You must help to inform their understandings 2. To store their memories 3. To rectifie their wills 4. To quicken their affections 5. To keep tender their consciences 6. To restrain their tongues and help them to skill in gracious Speech 7. And to reform and watch over their outward conversation To these ends First Be sure to keep them at least so long at School till they can read English It is a thousand pities that a reasonable Creature should look upon a Bible as upon a Stone or a piece of Wood. Secondly Get them Bibles and good Books and see that they read them Thirdly Examine them often what they learn Fourthly Especially bestow the Lords day in this work and see that they spend it not in sports or idleness Fiftly Shew them the meaning of what they read and learn Josh. 4 6 21 22. Psal. 78.4 5 6 34.11 Sixthly Acquaint them with the godly and keep them in good company where they may learn good and keep them out of that company that would teach them evil Seventhly Be sure to cause them to learn some Catechism containing the chief Heads of Divinity as those made by the Assembly of Divines or Master Balls SECT XVII THe Heads of Divinity which you must teach them first are these 1. That there is one onely God who is a Spirit invisible infinite eternal Almighty good merciful true just holy c. 2. That this God is one in three Father Son and holy Ghost 3. That he is the Maker Maintainer and Lord of all 4. That mans happiness consisteth in the enjoying of this God and not in fleshly pleasure profits or honors 5. That God made the first man upright and happy and gave him a Law to keep with Conditions that if he kept it perfectly he should live happy for ever but if he broke it he should die 6. That man broke this Law and so forfeited his welfare and became guilty of death as to himself and all his Posterity 7 That Christ the Son of God did here interpose and prevent the full execution undertaking to die in stead of man and so to Redeem him whereupon all things were delivered into his hands as the Redeemer and he is under that relation the Lord of all 8. That Christ hereupon did make with man a better Covenant or Law which proclaimed pardon of sin to all that did but repent and believe obey sincerely 9. That he revealed this Covenant and Mercy to the world by degrees first in darker Promises Prophecies and Sacrifices then in many Ceremonious Types and then by more plain foretellings by the Prophetâ— 10. That in the fulness of time Christ came and took our Nature into Union with his Godhead being conceived by the holy Ghost and born of the Virgin Mary 11. That while he was on earth he lived a life of sorrows was crowned with Thorns and bore the pains that our sins deserved at last being Crucified to death and buried and so satisfied the Justice of God 12. That he also Preached himself to the Jews and by constant Miracles did prove the truth of his Doctrine and Mediatorship before thousands of Witnesses That he revealed more fully his New Law or Covenant That whosoever will believe in him and accept him for Saviour and Lord shall be pardoned and saved and have a far greater glory then they lost and they that will not shall lye under the curse and guilt and be condemned to the everlasting fire of hell 13. That he rose again from the dead having conquered death and took fuller possession of his Dominion over all and so ascended up into heaven and there reigneth in glory 14. That before his Ascention he gave charge to his Apostles to go Preach the foresaid Gospel to all Nations and persons and to offer Christ and Mercy and Life to every one without exception and to intreat and perswade them to receive him and that he gave them authority to send forth others on the same Message and to Baptise and to gather Churches and confirm and order them and to settle a course for a succeâ—â—â—on of Ministers and Ordinances to the end of the world 15. That he also gave them power to work frequent and evident Miracles for the confirmation of their Doctrine and the convincing of the world and to annex their writings to the rest of the Scriptures and so to finish and seal them up and deliver them to the world as his infallible Word and Laws which none must dare to alter and which all must observe 16. That for all this free Grace is offered to the world yet the heart is by Nature so desperately wicked that no man will believe and entertain Christ sincerely except by an Almighty power he be changed and born again and therefore doth Christ send forth his Spirâ—t with his Word which secretly and effectually worketh holiness in the hearts of the Elect drawing
chiefly pressed those Duties which must be used for the attainment of this Everlasting Rest. In this I shall chiefly handle those which are necessary to raise the heart to God and to our Heavenly and comfortable life on Earth It is a Truth too evident which an inconsiderate Zealot reprehended in Master CULVERWELL as an Error That many of Gods Children do not enjoy that sweet Life and blessed Estate in this World which God their Father hath provided for them That is Which he offereth them in his Promises and chargeth upon them as their duty in his Precepts and bringeth even to their hands in all his Means and Mercies God hath set open Heaven to us in his Word and told every humble sincere Christian That they shall shortly there live with himself in unconceiveable Glory and yet where is the person that is affected with this Promise whose heart leaps for joy at the hearing of the news or that is willing in hopes of Heaven to leave this World But even the godly have as strange unsavory thoughts of it as if God did but delude us and there were no such Glory and are almost as loath to die as men without hope The consideration of this strange disagreement between our Professions and Affections caused me to suspect that there was some secret lurking unbelief in all our hearts and therefore I wrote those Arguments in the second Part for the Divine Authority of the Scripture And because I finde another cause to be the carelesness forgetfulness and idleness of the Soul and not keeping in action that Faith which we have I have here attempted the removal of that cause by prescribing a course for the daily acting of those Graces which must fetch in the Celestial Delights into the heart O the Princely joyful blessed Life that the godly lose through meer idleness As the Papists have wronged the merits of Christ by their ascribing too much to our own Works so it is almost incredible how much they on the other extream have wronged the safety and consolation of mens Souls by telling them that their own endevors are onely for Obedience and Gratitude but are not so much as Conditions of their Salvation or Means of their increased Sanctification or Consolation And while some tell them That they must look at nothing in themselves for Acceptation with God or Comfort and so make that Acceptance and Comfort to be equally belonging to a Christian and a Turk And others tell them That they must look at nothing in themselves but onely as signes of their good Estate This hath caused some to expect onely Enthusiastick Consâ—lations and others to spend their days in enquiring after signes of their sincerity Had these poor Souls well understood that Gods way to perswade their wills and to excite and actuate their Affections is by the Discourse Reasoning or Consideration of their Vnderstandings upon the Nature and Qualifications of the Objects which are presented to them And had they bestowed but that time in exercising holy Affections and in serious Thoughts of the promised Happiness which they have spent in enquiring onely after Signes I am confident according to the ordinary Workings of God they would have been better provided both with Assurance and with Joyes How should the Heir of a Kingdom have the comfort of his Title but by fore-thinking on it It s true God must give us our Comforts by his Spirit But how by quickening up our souls to beleeve and consider of the promised Glory and not by comforting us we know not how nor why or by giving men the foretasts of Heaven when they never think of it I have here prescribed thee Reader the delightfullest task to the Spirit and the most tedâ—ous to the Flesh that ever men on Earth were imployed in I did it first onely for my self but am loath to conceal the means that I have found so consolaâ—ory If thou be one that wilt not be perswaded to a course so laborious but wilt onely go on in thy task of common formal duties thou mayest let it alone and so be destitute of delights except such as the World and thy Forms can afford thee but then do not for shame complain for want of comfort when thou dost wilfully reject it And be not such an Hypocrite as to pray for it while thou dost refuse to labor for it If thou say Thy comfort is all in Christ I must tell thee it is a Christ remembred and loved and not a Christ forgotten or onely talked of that will solidly comfort Though the Directory for Contemplation was onely intended for this Part yet I have now premised two other Uses The heart must be taken off from Resting on Earth before it will be fit to converse above The first Part of saving Religion is the taking God onely for our End and Rest. CHAP. I. USE VI. Reproving our Expectations of Rest on Earth SECT I. DOth this Rest remain How great then is our sin and folly to seek and expect it here Where shall we finde the Christian that deserves not this Reproof Surely we may all cry guilty to this accusation We know not how to enjoy convenient Houses Goods Lands and Revenues but we seek Rest in these enjoyments We seldom I fear have such sweet and heart contenting thoughts of God and Glory as we have of our earthly delights How much Rest do the voluptuous seek in Buildings Walks Apparel Ease Recreations Sleep pleasing Meats and Drinks merry Company Health and Strength and long Life Nay we can scarce enjoy the necessary Means that God hath appointed for our Spiritual good but we are seeking Rest in them Do we want Minister Godly Society or the like helps O think we if it were but thus and thus with us we were well Do we enjoy them O how we settle upon them and bless our selves in them as the rich fool in his wealth Our Books our Preachers Sermons Friends Abilities for Duty do not our hearts hug them and quiet themselves in them even more then in God Indeed in words we disclaim it and God hath usually the preheminence in our tongues and professions but it s too apparent that it s otherwise in our hearts by these Discoveries First Do we not desire these more violently when we want them then we do the Lord himself Do we not cry out more sensibly O my Friend my Goods my Health then O my God! Do we not miss Ministry and Means more passionately then we miss our God Do we not bestir our selves more to obtain and enjoy these then we do to recover our communion with God Secondly Do we not delight more in the Possession of these then we do in the fruition of God himself Nay be not those mercies and duties most pleasant to us wherein we stand at greatest distance from God We can read and study and confer preach and hear day after day without much weariness because in these we have to do with
and drink yet your own Reason and experience will tell you that ordinarily you should observe a stated time Neither let the fear of customariness and formality deter you from this That Argument hath brought the Lords Supper from once a week to once a quarter or once a yeer and it hath brought family-duties with too many of late from twice a day to once a week or once a moneth and if it were not that man being proud is naturally of a Teaching humor and addicted to works of popularity and ostentation I beleeve it would diminish Preaching as much And will it deal any better with secret duties especially this of Holy Meditation I advise thee therefore if well thou maist to allow this duty a stated time and be as constant in it as in Hearing and Praying Yet be cautious in understanding this I know this will not prove every mans duty some have not themselves and their time at command and therefore cannot set their hours such are most servants and many children of poor or carnal parents and many are so poor that the necessity of their Families wil deny them this freedom I do not think it the duty of such to leave their labors for this work at certain set times no nor for Prayer or other necessary worship No such duty is at all times a duty Affirmatives specially Positives binde not semper ad semper When two duties come together and cannot both be performed it were then a sin to perform the lesser Of two duties we must chuse the greater though of two sins we must chuse neither I think such persons were best to be watchful to redeem time as much as they can and take their vacant opportunities as they fall and especially to joyn Meditation and Prayer as much as they can with the very labors of their callings There is no such enmity between laboring and meditating or praying in the Spirit but that both may conveniently be done together Yet I say as Paul in another case if thou canst be free use it rather Those that have more time a spare from worldly necessaries and are Masters to dispose of themselves and their time I still advise That they keep this duty to a stated time And indeed it were no ill husbandry nor point of folly if we did so by all other duties If we considered of the ordinary works of the day and â—â—ited out a fit season and proportion of time to every work and fixed this in our memory and resolution or wrote it in a Table and kept in our Closets and never brake it but upon unexpected or extraordinary cause If every work of the day had thus its appointed time we should be better skilled both in redeeming time and performing duty SECT II. 2. I Advise thee also concerning thy time for this duty That as it be stated so it be frequent Just how oft it should be I cannot determine because mens several conditions may vary it But in general that it be frequent the Scripture requireth when it mentioneth meditating continually and day and night Circumstances of our condition may much vary the circumstances of our duties It may be one mans duty to hear or pray oftner then anothers and so it may be in this Meditation But for those that can conveniently omit other business I advise That it be once a day at least Though Scripture tell us not how oft in a day we should eat or drink yet prudence and experience will direct us to twice or thrice a day according to the temper and necessities of our bodies Those that think they should not tie themselves to order or number of duties but should then onely meditate or pray when they finde the Spirit provoking them to it do go upon uncertain and unchristian grounds I am sure the Scripture provokes us to frequency and our necessity secondeth the voice of Scripture and if through my own neglect or resistance of the Spirit I do not finde it so to excite and quicken me I dare not therefore disobey the Scripture nor neglect the necessities of my own soul I should suspect that Spirit which would turn my soul from constancy in duty if the Spirit in Scripture bid me meditate or pray I dare not forbear it because I finde not the Spirit within me to second the command if I finde not incitation to duty before yet I may finde assistance while I wait in performance I am afraid of laying my corruptions upon the Spirit or blaming the want of the Spirits assistance when I should blame the backwardness of my own heart nor dare I make one corruption a plea for another nor urge the inward rebellion of my Nature as a Reason for the outward disobedience of my life And for the healing of my natures backwardness I more expect that the Spirit of Christ should do it in a way of duty which I still finde to be his ordinary season of working then in a way of disobedience and neglect of duty Men that fall on duty according to the frame of their spirits onely are like our ignorant vulgar or if you will like the Swine who think their appetite should be the onely rule of their eating When a wise man judgeth both of quantitie and qualitie by Reason and Experience least when his appetite is depraved he should either surfet or famish Our Appetite is no sure rule for our times of duty but the Word of God in general and our Spiritual Reason Experience Necessitie and convenience in particular may truly direct us Three Reasons especially should perswade thee to frequency in this Meditation on Heaven 1. Because seldom conversing with him will breed a strangeness betwixt thy soul and God Frequent society breeds familiarity and familiarity increaseth love and delight and maketh us bold and confident in our addresses This is the main end of this duty that thou maist have acquaintance and fellowship with God therein Therefore if thou come but seldom to it thou wilt keep thy self a stranger still and so miss of the end of the work O when a man feels his need of God and must seek his help in a time of necessity when nothing else can do him any good you would little think what an encouragement it is to go to a God that we know and are acquainted with O saith the heavenly Christian I know both whither I go and to whom I have gone this way many a time before now It is the same God that I daily conversed with it is the same way that was my daily walk God knows me well enough and I have some knowledg of him On the other side What a horror and discouragement to the soul it will be when it is forced to flie to God in streights to think Alas I know not whither to go I never went the way before I have no acquaintance at the Court of Heaven My soul knows not that God that I must speak to and