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30._o when_o their_o parent_n be_v not_o busy_a or_o in_o passion_n 5._o a_o ready_a please_a in_o their_o answer_n as_o 1_o sam._n 3_o 4_o 6._o matth._n 21.30_o q._n how_o must_v they_o express_v reverence_n in_o their_o gesture_n or_o carriage_n a._n 1._o in_o tender_v obeisance_n 46.12_o gen._n 46_o 29._o 1_o kin._n 2.19_o gen._n 46.12_o uncover_v the_o head_n stand_v up_o bow_v the_o body_n or_o knee_n 2._o in_o modesty_n and_o bashfulness_n in_o their_o countenance_n and_o carriage_n 3._o in_o take_v the_o low_a place_n 4._o in_o ask_v their_o blessing_n gen._n 27.19.34_o q._n what_o obedience_n be_v due_a to_o parent_n a._n both_o passive_a and_o active_a 1_o pet._n 1.14_o q._n wherein_o must_v passive_a obedience_n appear_v a._n in_o forbearance_n to_o do_v any_o thing_n of_o moment_n without_o consent_n of_o parent_n as_o in_o choice_n of_o a_o call_v gen._n 28.2_o 2._o in_o marriage_n deut._n 7.3_o 1_o cor._n 7_o 36_o 37._o gen._n 24.67_o and_o 29.18_o judg._n 14.2_o 3._o in_o 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parent_n q._n what_o motive_n be_v there_o to_o enforce_v these_o duty_n upon_o child_n a._n 1._o this_o be_v well_o please_v to_o the_o lord_n and_o the_o contrary_a displease_v 2._o parent_n be_v in_o god_n stead_n to_o they_o and_o in_o do_v their_o duty_n to_o they_o they_o do_v it_o unto_o god_n and_o contra_fw-la 3_o the_o promise_v make_v to_o their_o obedience_n of_o long_a life_n eph._n 6.1_o 2_o 3._o and_o happiness_n in_o this_o world_n in_o their_o person_n estate_n posterity_n by_o their_o parent_n blessing_n deut._n 5.16_o and_o the_o contrary_a threaten_n and_o curse_n to_o undutiful_a child_n prov._n 30.17_o 4_o this_o obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n on_o earth_n shall_v be_v a_o good_a evidence_n they_o be_v childen_a to_o god_n their_o father_n in_o heaven_n q._n be_v there_o not_o some_o beside_o natural_a parent_n that_o child_n owe_v duty_n to_o a._n yes_o such_o as_o be_v in_o the_o place_n of_o parent_n to_o they_o which_o may_v be_v three_o way_n 1._o father_n or_o mother_n in_o law_n by_o marriage_n 2._o guardiar_n the_o next_o of_o kin_n when_o parent_n be_v dead_a 3._o tutor_n and_o schoolmaster_n entrust_v with_o they_o q._n what_o duty_n do_v child_n owe_v to_o their_o father_n or_o mother_n in_o law_n a._n the_o same_o for_o the_o most_o part_n that_o they_o owe_v to_o their_o natural_a parent_n as_o 1._o reverence_n exod_a 18.7_o 2._o subjection_n luc._n 2.51_o 3_o recompense_n as_o ruth_n 1._o and_o 2._o chap._n q._n upon_o what_o ground_n be_v these_o due_a a._n 1._o the_o marriage_n bond_n make_v man_n and_o wife_n one_o flesh_n and_o so_o to_o be_v account_v by_o they_o 2._o it_o be_v a_o honour_n to_o the_o natural_a parent_n for_o child_n to_o respect_v the_o other_o party_n that_o be_v now_o one_o flesh_n with_o they_o q._n what_o duty_n owe_v they_o to_o guardian_n and_o tutor_n etc._n etc._n a._n a_o subjection_n and_o reverence_n because_o they_o have_v the_o trust_n and_o charge_n of_o parent_n to_o they_o as_o esth_n 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as_o in_o other_o relation_n tit._n 2.4_o by_o reason_n of_o the_o pain_n pain_n care_n and_o cost_n which_o nothing_o but_o love_n will_v bear_v out_o q._n what_o vice_n be_v contrary_a to_o this_o love_n a._n 1._o want_v of_o natural_a affection_n in_o the_o defect_n rom._n 1.30_o tit._n 3.3_o 2._o dote_v on_o they_o and_o fondness_n in_o the_o excess_n with_o too_o much_o indulgence_n 1_o sam._n 2.29_o q._n what_o be_v the_o general_a duty_n at_o all_o time_n to_o be_v do_v by_o parent_n a._n 1._o faithful_n and_o fervent_a prayer_n for_o they_o 1_o thes_n 5.17_o from_o beginning_n to_o end_v 2._o upright_o walk_v with_o god_n before_o they_o psal_n 112.2_o prov._n 20.7_o and_o 13.22_o 3._o a_o provident_a care_n for_o their_o child_n good_a all_o their_o day_n both_o temporal_a and_o spiritual_a good_a q._n what_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o mother_n to_o their_o child_n in_o their_o infancy_n a._n 1_o before_o it_o be_v bear_v care_v for_o the_o safe_a carriage_n &_o delivery_n of_o 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health_n math._n 7.9_o 19_o gen._n 37.3_o zech._n 8.5_o joh._n 4.47_o 2._o nurture_v they_o with_o good_a manner_n prov._n 22.6_o levit._fw-la 19.32_o prov._n 25.6_o luk._n 14.8_o and_o in_o some_o honest_a call_v gan._n 4.2_o and_o 37.12_o exod._n 2.16_o etc._n etc._n 2._o at_o their_o spiritual_a good_a in_o admonition_n of_o the_o lord_n deut._n 4.9_o gen._n 18.19_o prov._n 4.4_o 2_o tim._n 1.5_o in_o read_v the_o word_n 2_o tim._n 3.15_o catechise_v deut._n 6.7_o and_o by_o a_o exemplary_a life_n josh_n 22.15_o q._n what_o be_v the_o mean_n of_o nurture_n a._n 1._o frequent_a admonition_n to_o fasten_v their_o instruction_n deut._n 6.7_o whete_a they_o 2._o correction_n both_o in_o word_n of_o reproof_n prov._n 6._o 23._o and_o 15.32_o and_o in_o stripe_n if_o needful_a prov._n 22.15_o and_o 23.13_o 14._o q._n what_o duty_n do_v parent_n owe_v to_o child_n at_o ripe_a age_n past_a childhood_n a._n 1._o provision_n of_o fit_a calling_n as_o afore_o 2._o provision_n of_o fit_a match_n in_o marriage_n as_o abraham_n and_o isacc_n do_v for_o they_o both_o which_o require_v preparation_n of_o a_o stock_n and_o portion_n q._n what_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n at_o the_o time_n of_o their_o death_n a._n 1._o good_a counsel_n precept_n direction_n as_o isaac_n and_o jacob_n do_v 2._o faithful_n prayer_n and_o blessing_n of_o they_o commend_v they_o into_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n 3._o commend_v they_o to_o some_o faithful_a friend_n to_o oversee_v they_o and_o supply_v their_o loss_n esth_n 2.15_o 4._o to_o settle_v their_o estate_n by_o will_n to_o prevent_v division_n among_o child_n 38.1_o isa_n 38.1_o q._n be_v there_o not_o some_o beside_o natural_a parent_n that_o owe_v duty_n to_o child_n a._n yes_o those_o that_o be_v in_o stead_n of_o parent_n which_o be_v as_o afore_o father_v or_o mother_n in_o law_n guardian_n and_o tutor_n or_o scoolmaster_n q._n what_o duty_n do_v father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n owe_v to_o child_n a._n the_o same_o for_o the_o most_o part_n that_o natural_a parent_n owe_v to_o they_o luk._n 2.48_o exod._n 18.1_o ruth_n 3.1_o q._n what_o reason_n be_v there_o for_o this_o a._n 1._o marriage_n make_v man_n and_o wife_n one_o flesh_n they_o ought_v to_o love_v each_o other_o child_n as_o part_v of_o themselves_o 2._o it_o be_v a_o sign_n of_o entire_a love_n to_o each_o other_o love_v i_o and_o love_v my_o child_n etc._n etc._n 3._o it_o be_v a_o special_a mean_n to_o preserve_v love_n betwixt_o they_o q._n what_o duty_n do_v guardian_n owe_v to_o the_o child_n entrust_v with_o they_o a._n the_o same_o some_o few_o except_v that_o natural_a parent_n owe_v they_o esth_n 2_o 7_o 11_o 20_o 22._o and_o 4.13_o 1_o tim._n 5.8_o q._n what_o be_v the_o special_a duty_n a._n 1._o to_o look_v careful_o to_o their_o education_n 2._o to_o preserve_v their_o patrimony_n etc._n etc._n q._n what_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o tutor_n &_o c_o a._n 1._o to_o instruct_v they_o well_o in_o piety_n or_o religion_n 2._o in_o learning_n 3._o in_o good_a manner_n chapter_n 3._o the_o duty_n of_o servant_n to_o their_o master_n eph._n 6.5_o col._n 3.22_o servant_n obey_v in_o all_o thing_n your_o master_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n not_o with_o eye-service_n &c_n &c_n q._n what_o be_v the_o particular_n of_o these_o text_n a._n four_n 1._o the_o kind_n of_o their_o duty_n 2._o the_o manner_n 3._o the_o extent_n 4._o the_o motive_n q._n what_o be_v the_o kind_n of_o servant_n duty_n a._n two_n inward_a and_o outward_a q._n what_o be_v the_o inward_a a._n 1._o in_o judgement_n to_o he_o persuade_v of_o their_o master_n superiority_n over_o they_o 2._o in_o a_o special_a affection_n of_o fear_n not_o a_o slavish_a but_o reverential_a fear_n count_v they_o worthy_a of_o all_o honour_n mal._n 1.6_o eph._n 6.5_o 1_o pet._n 2.18_o q._n what_o be_v their_o outward_a duty_n a._n two_n reverence_n and_o obedience_n q._n wherein_o appear_v their_o reverence_n a._n 1._o in_o speech_n 2._o in_o their_o carriage_n q._n how_o in_o their_o speech_n a._n 1._o in_o forbear_v to_o speak_v in_o their_o presence_n attend_v to_o what_o they_o say_v 2._o in_o order_v their_o speech_n aright_o when_o they_o do_v speak_v where_o their_o word_n must_v be_v 1._o reverent_a give_v their_o title_n lord_n master_n etc._n etc._n 2._o few_o 3._o meek_n and_o humble_a 4._o seasonable_a mark_v 4.10_o 5_o ready_a to_o answer_v job_n 19.16_o 6_o true_a without_o lie_v 7._o good_a of_o they_o in_o absence_n as_o contrary_o ziba_n of_o his_o master_n 2_o sam._n 16.3_o q_o how_o in_o their_o carriage_n a._n 1._o by_o obeisance_n 2._o stand_v before_o they_o 3._o head_n uncover_v 4._o sober_a and_o modest_a countenance_n 5._o modesty_n of_o apparel_n suitable_a to_o their_o estate_n and_o place_n q._n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o their_o obedience_n a._n 1._o negative_a or_o passive_a to_o forbear_v what_o be_v forbid_v or_o deny_v they_o as_o 1._o not_o to_o go_v when_o and_o whether_o they_o listen_v 2._o nor_o do_v their_o own_o but_o their_o master_n business_n 3._o nor_o dispose_v of_o their_o good_n without_o leave_n prov._n 31.15_o 21.4_o exod._n 21.4_o 4._o nor_o marry_v without_o their_o consent_n 5._o nor_o go_v away_o before_o their_o time_n expire_v 2._o affirmative_a or_o active_a and_o that_o express_v 1._o in_o do_v their_o command_n luke_n 17.7_o 8._o 2._o in_o harken_v to_o their_o instruction_n both_o religious_a and_o civil_a 3_o by_o patient_a bear_v their_o reproof_n or_o correction_n 1_o pet._n 2.18_o though_o unjust_a tit._n 2.9_o with_o speedy_a amendment_n prov_n 27.22_o q._n in_o what_o manner_n must_v all_o their_o duty_n be_v perform_v a._n 1._o in_o singleness_n of_o heart_n col._n 3.22_o and_o hearty_o v._o 23._o or_o from_o the_o heart_n not_o with_o eye-service_n or_o as_o men-pleasers_a as_o geheri_n etc._n etc._n 2._o in_o conscience_n as_o fear_v god_n as_o unto_o christ_n as_o serve_v the_o lord_n christ_n eph._n 6._o 3._o with_o good_a will_n which_o imply_v four_o thing_n 1._o cheerfulness_n 2._o quickness_n or_o readiness_n 3._o diligence_n and_o activeness_n in_o it_o 4._o faithfulness_n 1_o cor._n 4.1_o tit._n 2.10_o in_o respect_n of_o 1._o their_o master_n good_n both_o in_o keep_v they_o as_o jacob_n and_o increase_v they_o as_o they_o that_o have_v the_o talent_n contra_fw-la tit._n 2.20_o 2._o their_o business_n dispatch_v they_o well_o as_o gen._n 24.2_o 12_o 26_o 33.56_o 3._o their_o secret_n especial_o their_o infirmity_n by_o conceal_v they_o jerem._n 38.27_o 4._o good_a example_n to_o their_o fellow_n to_o make_v they_o faithful_a diligent_a etc._n etc._n contra_fw-la math._n 24.48_o 49._o 5._o love_v and_o careful_a of_o their_o child_n to_o procure_v their_o good_a of_o soul_n and_o body_n q._n what_o be_v the_o extent_n of_o their_o obedience_n a._n in_o all_o thing_n that_o be_v in_o all_o lawful_a thing_n in_o the_o lord_n to_o bring_v their_o judgement_n to_o their_o master_n in_o all_o indifferent_a thing_n for_o which_o end_n let_v they_o choose_v to_o serve_v religious_a master_n q._n what_o be_v the_o motive_n use_v to_o persuade_v servant_n to_o do_v their_o duty_n a._n 1._o the_o place_n of_o a_o master_n he_o stand_v in_o christ_n stead_n and_o so_o christ_n be_v serve_v or_o neglect_v in_o he_o 2._o the_o honour_n of_o their_o own_o place_n and_o condition_n they_o be_v christ_n servant_n and_o freeman_n 1._o cor._n 7.22_o 3._o the_o recompense_n of_o their_o service_n from_o god_n col._n 3.24_o q._n what_o be_v that_o recompense_n a._n reward_n or_o punishment_n q._n what_o reward_n be_v promise_v to_o they_o a._n 1._o temporal_a many_o blessing_n first_o from_o their_o master_n as_o joseph_n mordecai_n etc._n etc._n 2._o from_o stranger_n that_o behold_v their_o good_a service_n 3._o he_o will_v bless_v their_o labour_n when_o they_o come_v to_o deal_v for_o themselves_o 43.23_o gen._n 43.23_o as_o he_o do_v jacob._n 4._o and_o give_v they_o such_o good_a servant_n as_o they_o have_v be_v 2._o eternal_a of_o the_o lord_n receive_v the_o reward_n of_o inheritance_n with_o their_o master_n verse_n 24._o q._n what_o punishment_n be_v threaten_v a._n the_o contrary_a to_o the_o reward_n temporal_a send_v they_o hard_a master_n or_o bad_a servant_n when_o they_o be_v master_n or_o curse_v their_o labour_n and_o eternal_a v._o 25._o he_o that_o do_v wrong_a shall_v receive_v for_o the_o wrong_n he_o have_v do_v q._n be_v there_o any_o other_o motive_n a._n yes_o 1._o if_o their_o master_n reward_v they_o not_o god_n will_v if_o they_o wrong_v they_o god_n will_v right_v they_o upon_o their_o master_n he_o that_o do_v wrong_a though_o a_o master_n shall_v receive_v for_o the_o wrong_n he_o have_v do_v no_o respect_n of_o person_n with_o god_n 2._o by_o be_v good_a servant_n they_o shall_v
the_o cure_n in_o his_o default_n the_o officer_n of_o the_o church_n must_v make_v supply_n by_o their_o discipline_n and_o in_o their_o neglect_n either_o the_o civil_a magistrate_n must_v reform_v both_o church_n and_o family_n and_o single_a person_n or_o expect_v nothing_o but_o ruin_n and_o destruction_n of_o all_o now_o see_v as_o be_v say_v it_o be_v not_o possible_a or_o not_o very_o probable_a for_o we_o minister_n to_o persuade_v every_o single_a person_n to_o a_o serious_a and_o through_o reformation_n of_o himself_o it_o remain_v to_o we_o in_o the_o second_o place_n to_o try_v how_o far_o we_o can_v prevail_v with_o chief_a householder_n to_o act_v their_o part_n to_o make_v their_o family_n good_a so_o all_o good_a who_o have_v both_o power_n in_o their_o hand_n and_o all_o good_a reason_n to_o move_v they_o thereunto_o as_o shall_v appear_v hereafter_o for_o this_o purpose_n i_o have_v choose_v this_o text_n as_o a_o worthy_a instance_n of_o a_o exemplary_a resolution_n in_o a_o great_a and_o good_a housholder_n that_o renown_a joshua_n by_o name_n who_o leave_v other_o to_o their_o choice_n for_o himself_o and_o family_n undertake_v to_o be_v religious_a do_v you_o say_v he_o as_o you_o please_v choose_v what_o god_n you_o will_v serve_v but_o as_o for_o i_o and_o my_o house_n we_o will_v serve_v the_o lord_n text_n part_n of_o the_o text_n in_o the_o word_n we_o may_v without_o much_o curiosity_n of_o division_n consider_v these_o general_a part_n 1._o the_o epitome_n of_o all_o religion_n express_v in_o these_o word_n to_o serve_v the_o lord_n which_o be_v the_o sum_n of_o both_o table_n of_o the_o law_n especial_o of_o the_o first_o 2._o joshuahs_n resolution_n to_o serve_v the_o lord_n wherein_o we_o have_v three_o particular_n 1._o his_o appropriation_n of_o it_o to_o himself_o as_o for_o i_o i_o will_v serve_v the_o lord_n 2._o the_o extension_n of_o his_o religion_n to_o his_o family_n as_o for_o i_o and_o my_o house_n we_o will_v serve_v the_o lord_n 3._o the_o order_n of_o it_o first_o himself_o will_v be_v religious_a and_o then_o his_o house_n i_o and_o my_o house_n etc._n etc._n 1._o for_o the_o first_o the_o service_n of_o god_n to_o be_v the_o sum_n of_o all_o religion_n religion_n 1_o the_o epitome_n of_o religion_n it_o appear_v by_o those_o place_n of_o scripture_n where_o true_a religion_n be_v command_v exod._n 23_o 25._o you_o shall_v serve_v the_o lord_n your_o god_n god_n to_o serve_v god_n deut._n 10.12_o what_o do_v the_o lord_n thy_o god_n require_v of_o thou_o but_o to_o serve_v he_o with_o all_o thy_o heart_n and_o all_o thy_o soul_n how_o to_o keep_v the_o commandment_n of_o the_o lord_n etc._n etc._n that_o be_v all_o his_o commandment_n of_o both_o table_n some_o there_o be_v who_o distinguish_v worship_n and_o service_n make_v worship_n the_o object_n of_o the_o first_o table_n and_o service_n of_o the_o second_o but_o without_o any_o ground_n of_o scripture_n for_o that_o hold_v out_o service_n as_o more_o general_a and_o include_v worship_n as_o a_o more_o special_a part_n of_o god_n service_n as_o be_v evident_a in_o the_o text_n above_o cite_v and_o many_o more_o like_a unto_o they_o we_o may_v better_o distinguish_v the_o service_n of_o god_n into_o immediate_a which_o be_v proper_o call_v worship_n in_o the_o fiâ—st_a table_n and_o mediate_v by_o man_n which_o be_v call_v righteousness_n in_o the_o second_o table_n for_o though_o we_o do_v not_o proper_o worship_n god_n by_o do_v the_o work_n of_o righteousness_n yet_o be_v we_o say_v to_o serve_v god_n in_o do_v to_o man_n the_o duty_n of_o the_o second_o table_n as_o the_o apostle_n say_v of_o servant_n that_o in_o obey_v their_o master_n they_o serve_v the_o lord_n christ_n col._n 3.24_o we_o note_v this_o because_o it_o will_v be_v of_o use_n anon_o resolution_n 2_o joshua_n resolution_n 2._o for_o the_o particular_n of_o the_o second_o part_n joshuahs_n resolution_n many_o thing_n may_v be_v obseve_v but_o we_o 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justice_n and_o judgement_n etc._n etc._n which_o also_o he_o practise_v gen._n 14.14_o where_o we_o hear_v of_o his_o train_a or_o instruct_v catechise_v servant_n and_o gen._n 17.23_o be_v enter_v into_o covenant_n himself_o and_o circumcise_v he_o circumcise_v the_o same_o day_n ishmael_n his_o son_n and_o all_o that_o be_v bear_v in_o his_o house_n family_n gen._n 35.2_o jacob_n purge_v his_o family_n and_o buy_v with_o money_n this_o family_n religion_n or_o reformation_n be_v gracious_o and_o courageous_o resolve_v on_o by_o david_n psal_n 101.2_o etc._n etc._n i_o will_v behave_v myself_o wise_o in_o a_o perfect_a way_n i_o will_v walk_v within_o my_o house_n with_o a_o perfect_a heart_n etc._n etc._n and_o mark_v his_o wisdom_n both_o in_o the_o constitution_n and_o order_v of_o his_o family_n ver_fw-la 3._o i_o will_v set_v no_o wicked_a thing_n a_o thing_n of_o belial_n the_o description_n of_o a_o wicked_a person_n before_o my_o eye_n i_o hate_v the_o work_n of_o they_o 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your_o house_n out_o 4._o keep_v out_o it_o be_v not_o possible_a to_o keep_v religion_n up_o in_o your_o family_n in_o power_n and_o purity_n when_o swearer_n drunkard_n &c_n &c_n atheist_n and_o scorner_n of_o godliness_n may_v have_v entertainment_n and_o countenance_n therein_o these_o will_v corrupt_v your_o child_n and_o servant_n and_o well_o if_o not_o your_o wife_n these_o will_n scoff_n you_o out_o of_o your_o religion_n or_o cool_v and_o quench_v your_o devotion_n prayer_n and_o read_v &c_n &c_n must_v be_v sometime_o intermit_v to_o gratify_v they_o sabbath_n must_v be_v profane_v for_o their_o sake_n say_v then_o you_o master_n of_o house_n away_o from_o i_o you_o wicked_a i_o will_v keep_v the_o commandment_n of_o my_o god_n even_a stranger_n of_o old_a be_v to_o be_v keep_v from_o profane_v of_o the_o sabbath_n as_o in_o the_o four_o commandment_n the_o strange_a that_o be_v within_o thy_o gate_n or_o if_o not_o to_o be_v turn_v out_o of_o door_n out_o of_o the_o gate_n nehem._n 13.17_o 21._o if_o they_o will_v not_o observe_v the_o religious_a service_n of_o the_o house_n nor_o go_v with_o you_o to_o god_n house_n let_v they_o not_o lodge_v in_o your_o house_n say_v then_o peremptory_o say_v and_o hold_v it_o as_o for_o you_o do_v as_o you_o think_v good_a be_v wicked_a profane_a etc._n etc._n it_o be_v like_o you_o but_o as_o for_o i_o and_o my_o house_n we_o wâ—ll_n serve_v the_o lord_n last_o to_o conclude_v all_o here_o may_v have_v be_v add_v a_o short_a exhortation_n to_o all_o sort_n of_o inferior_n in_o the_o family_n relation_n way_n inferior_n to_o submit_v to_o this_o way_n as_o wife_n child_n servant_n to_o submit_v to_o this_o religious_a order_v or_o reformation_n by_o the_o governor_n of_o the_o house_n if_o he_o must_v necessary_o command_v they_o ought_v conscientious_o to_o obey_v that_o so_o the_o family_n town_n church_n state_n may_v be_v happy_o reform_v and_o bless_a chapter_n 1._o the_o duty_n of_o child_n to_o their_o parent_n col._n 3.20_o child_n obey_v your_o parent_n in_o all_o thing_n for_o that_o be_v well_o please_v to_o the_o lord_n q._n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o this_o text_n a._n three_o 1._o a_o duty_n obey_v your_o parent_n 2._o the_o extent_n of_o it_o in_o all_o thing_n 3._o the_o reason_n or_o motive_n for_o this_o be_v well_o please_v to_o the_o lord_n q._n what_o be_v mean_v by_o child_n and_o parent_n a._n by_o child_n be_v especial_o mean_v such_o as_o proceed_v by_o natural_a generation_n by_o parent_n natural_a parent_n both_o father_n and_o mother_n q._n what_o be_v the_o ground_n of_o child_n duty_n to_o parent_n 3.3_o contra_fw-la 2_o tim._n 3.3_o a._n a_o mixture_n of_o love_n and_o fear_n love_v from_o the_o affection_n of_o parent_n to_o they_o and_o fear_v from_o the_o authority_n of_o
be_v fit_v to_o make_v good_a master_n 3._o and_o prove_v themselves_o good_a servant_n to_o god_n and_o true_o gracious_a tit._n 2.10_o 11._o and_o adorn_v the_o gospel_n and_o religion_n chapter_n 4._o the_o duty_n of_o master_n to_o their_o servant_n eph._n 6.9_o master_n do_v you_o the_o same_o thing_n to_o they_o forbear_v threaten_a know_v that_o your_o master_n also_o be_v in_o heaven_n col._n 4.1_o master_n give_v unto_o your_o servant_n that_o which_o be_v just_a and_o equal_a know_v that_o you_o also_o have_v a_o master_n in_o heaven_n q._n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o these_o text_n a._n two_n 1._o the_o duty_n in_o general_a justice_n and_o equity_n 2._o the_o reason_n know_v that_o you_o have_v a_o master_n in_o heaven_n q._n what_o duty_n concern_v master_n a._n 1._o care_v in_o choose_v good_a servant_n as_o psal_n 101._o at_o large_a especial_o godly_a and_o religious_a 2._o conscience_n in_o use_v they_o well_o q._n wherein_o do_v this_o last_o consist_v a._n 1._o in_o a_o wise_a maintain_v their_o authority_n as_o the_o authority_n of_o god_n 2._o in_o a_o right_a manage_n of_o it_o q._n how_o may_v they_o maintain_v wise_o their_o authority_n a._n 1._o by_o a_o good_a example_n and_o worthy_a carriage_n josh_n 24.15_o psalm_n 101.1_o 2._o 2._o by_o a_o awful_a carriage_n that_o servant_n may_v stand_v in_o fear_n of_o they_o 3._o by_o keep_v a_o distance_n from_o they_o lest_o familiarity_n breed_v contempt_n prov._n 30.22_o &_o 29.21_o q._n what_o be_v the_o extent_n of_o their_o authority_n a._n 1._o in_o their_o command_n restrain_v to_o the_o law_n of_o god_n and_o exercise_v in_o execution_n of_o god_n command_n as_o abraham_n gen._n 19_o 25.43_o levit._fw-la 25.43_o 2._o in_o their_o correction_n which_o must_v be_v moderate_a and_o discreet_a in_o consideration_n of_o the_o age_n sex_n fault_n of_o the_o person_n etc._n etc._n q._n how_o may_v they_o manage_v right_o their_o authority_n a._n by_o justice_n and_o equity_n as_o the_o text._n q._n what_o do_v justice_n respect_n a._n 1._o the_o soul_n of_o their_o servant_n in_o their_o edification_n and_o salvation_n josh_n 24.15_o to_o serve_v the_o lord_n by_o teach_v they_o principle_n of_o religion_n bring_v to_o public_a worship_n call_v they_o to_o account_v and_o pray_v with_o they_o and_o for_o they_o jer._n 10.25_o 2._o their_o body_n cherish_v they_o with_o wholesome_a food_n fit_a apparel_n 5.14_o pro._n 31.21_o deut._n 5.14_o moderate_a labour_n convenient_a rest_n vale_n and_o in_o sickness_n physic_n needful_a matth._n 8_o 6._o 3._o their_o estate_n that_o they_o may_v have_v a_o calling_n and_o that_o they_o may_v live_v of_o themselves_o gen._n 30.30_o q._n what_o do_v equity_n require_v of_o they_o a._n 1._o a_o good_a esteem_n of_o they_o not_o as_o slave_n but_o as_o child_n rather_o 2_o kin._n 5.13_o 1_o cor._n 7.22_o 2._o take_v notice_n of_o their_o goodness_n with_o approbation_n and_o kind_a acceptance_n 13.3_o matth._n 25.21_o rom._n 13.3_o well_o do_v good_a servant_n 3._o reward_v the_o good_a when_o go_v away_o as_o deut._n 15.13_o q._n what_o motive_n be_v there_o to_o enforce_v these_o duty_n upon_o they_o a._n 1._o they_o have_v a_o master_n over_o they_o and_o this_o will_v be_v a_o spure_a to_o incite_v they_o to_o their_o duty_n and_o a_o curb_n to_o do_v no_o wrong_n to_o they_o because_o he_o take_v notice_n of_o both_o 2._o their_o equality_n in_o regard_n of_o god_n you_o also_o have_v a_o master_n and_o so_o fellow-servant_n math._n 24_o 49._o 3._o in_o heaven_n servant_n be_v admit_v there_o no_o respect_n of_o person_n with_o god_n and_o yet_o there_o be_v far_o great_a distance_n between_o god_n and_o they_o than_o between_o they_o and_o their_o servant_n chapter_n 5._o of_o marriage_n in_o general_n heb._n 13.4_o marriage_n be_v honourable_a among_o all_o etc._n etc._n q._n wherein_o appear_v the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n a._n 1._o in_o the_o author_n god_n himself_o 2._o in_o the_o place_n paradise_n etc._n gen._n 2.18_o 21._o etc._n etc._n 3._o in_o the_o time_n in_o innocency_n 4._o in_o the_o person_n the_o first_o parent_n of_o all_o 5._o in_o the_o manner_n consultation_n etc._n etc._n q._n what_o be_v require_v to_o marriage_n a._n 1._o a_o right_a conjunction_n of_o man_n and_o woman_n 2._o the_o common_a and_o mutual_a duty_n which_o concern_v they_o both_o alike_o 3._o the_o particular_a duty_n of_o each_o party_n q._n who_o be_v account_v husband_n and_o wife_n a._n they_o who_o be_v right_o join_v together_o in_o marriage_n and_o of_o two_o make_v one_o flesh_n q._n who_o be_v party_n fit_a to_o marry_v a._n they_o who_o have_v ripnesse_n of_o year_n and_o wisdom_n to_o choose_v no_o way_n make_v impotent_a to_o marriage_n duty_n 1_o cor._n 7.36_o q._n who_o be_v to_o be_v account_v impotent_a a._n bear_v or_o make_v eunuch_n by_o any_o occasion_n mat._n 19.12_o or_o dangerous_o disease_v q._n may_v all_o sort_n of_o person_n but_o such_o marry_o a._n yes_o all_o heb._n 13.4_o 1_o tim._n 4.1_o 3._o as_o the_o disease_n of_o concupiscence_n be_v common_a to_o all_o 1_o cor._n 7.2_o 9_o q._n in_o choice_n of_o a_o person_n what_o be_v require_v a._n choice_n of_o a_o fit_a helper_n gen._n 2.18_o q._n what_o make_v a_o fit_a helper_n a._n 1._o one_o not_o within_o the_o degree_n of_o consanguinity_n or_o affinity_n prohibit_v 2._o equality_n in_o age_n condition_n estate_n and_o piety_n luk._n 1.6_o q._n how_o may_v a_o godly_a person_n be_v know_v a._n 1._o by_o their_o religious_a education_n and_o their_o answerable_a walk_n 2._o by_o the_o report_n and_o fame_n with_o the_o good_a 3._o by_o the_o look_n if_o modest_a and_o chaste_a etc._n etc._n 4._o by_o the_o speech_n if_o spare_v and_o humble_a 5._o by_o the_o apparel_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 6._o by_o the_o companion_n like_o will_n to_o like_v q._n after_o what_o manner_n be_v fit_a person_n to_o be_v join_v together_o a._n 1._o by_o a_o mutual_a like_n of_o each_o other_o gen_n 24.58_o 2._o by_o a_o actual_a contract_n gen._n 19.14_o 18._o luk._n 1.27_o a_o promise_n of_o marriage_n in_o due_a time_n 3._o by_o a_o public_a solemnisation_n of_o the_o marriage_n q._n what_o be_v the_o end_n of_o marriage_n a._n 1._o to_o be_v fit_a helper_n one_o of_o another_o 2._o propagation_n of_o a_o holy_a posterity_n 3._o to_o avoid_v fornication_n 1_o cor._n 7.2_o q._n what_o be_v those_o mutual_a and_o commâ—n_a duty_n concern_v both_o party_n alike_o a._n 1._o such_o as_o concern_v they_o between_o themselves_o 2._o joint_o with_o respect_n to_o other_o q._n what_o be_v the_o duty_n that_o concern_v they_o between_o themselves_o a._n 1._o such_o as_o respect_v the_o very_a be_v of_o marriage_n 2._o or_o such_o as_o respect_v the_o well_o be_v of_o it_o q._n what_o be_v those_o mutual_a duty_n to_o one_o another_o which_o respect_v the_o be_v of_o marriage_n a._n 1._o matrimonial_a unity_n account_v one_o another_o to_o be_v one_o flâ—sh_n and_o that_o without_o desertion_n of_o one_o another_o except_o in_o case_n of_o death_n or_o adultery_n math._n 1._o cor._n 7.10_o 11._o etc._n etc._n 2._o matrimonial_a chastity_n or_o faithfulness_n in_o the_o covenant_n of_o marriage_n mal._n 2.14_o 15._o tit._n 2.5_o q._n what_o reason_n be_v there_o for_o this_o chastity_n a._n 1_o it_o be_v one_o end_n of_o marriage_n 1_o cor._n 7.2_o 2_o it_o preserve_v a_o holy_a posterity_n mal._n 2.15_o 3_o it_o be_v the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n heb._n 13.4_o q._n what_o be_v the_o best_a remedy_n against_o unchastity_n a._n the_o render_v mutual_o to_o each_o other_o due_a benevolence_n 1_o cor._n 7.3_o 4_o etc._n etc._n q._n what_o be_v those_o mutual_a duty_n which_o tend_v to_o the_o well_o be_v of_o marriage_n a._n 1_o mutual_a love_n or_o entire_a affection_n one_o towards_o another_o epp._n 5._o last_o tit._n 2.4_o 1_o cor._n 16.14_o this_o be_v the_o ground_n of_o all_o their_o duty_n 2_o mutual_a concord_n and._n peace_n by_o unity_n of_o mind_n eph._n 4.3_o avoid_v contention_n pro._n 21.9_o q._n what_o be_v the_o best_a mean_n to_o preserve_v love_n and_o peace_n between_o they_o a._n 1._o all_o offence_n must_v be_v carefu_o prevent_v 2._o if_o give_v by_o one_o not_o take_v by_o the_o other_o forbearing_z one_o another_z eph._n 4.2_o and_o forgive_a v._o 32._o 3._o beware_v of_o jealousy_n or_o occasion_n of_o it_o 4._o study_v to_o please_v one_o another_o 1_o cor._n 7.33_o 34._o q._n what_o other_o common_a duty_n concern_v both_o a._n in_o general_a a_o provident_a care_n for_o one_o another_o good_a q._n what_o be_v the_o mean_n to_o promote_v that_o care_n a._n 1._o cohabitation_n or_o dwell_v together_o forsake_v all_o other_o psal_n 45.10_o 1_o cor._n 7.12_o 1_o pet._n 3.7_o 2._o prayer_n not_o only_o single_o
her_o honour_n 2._o equity_n as_o agreeable_a to_o the_o law_n of_o god_n of_o nature_n and_o to_o the_o gospel_n q._n what_o mean_v those_o word_n in_o the_o lord_n a._n it_o imply_v 1._o a_o limitation_n 2._o a_o direction_n and_o 3._o a_o motive_n q._n what_o be_v the_o limitation_n a._n a_o wife_n must_v submit_v and_o obey_v but_o in_o the_o lord_n that_o be_v in_o lawful_a thing_n q._n what_o be_v the_o direction_n a._n to_o do_v all_o her_o duty_n to_o her_o husband_n with_o a_o eye_n to_o the_o lord_n as_o unto_o christ_n eph._n 5.22_o q._n how_o be_v it_o a_o motive_n a._n 1._o in_o do_v her_o duty_n to_o her_o husband_n she_o do_v it_o to_o christ_n and_o he_o take_v it_o so_o 2._o in_o refuse_v or_o neglect_v it_o to_o he_o she_o do_v the_o same_o to_o christ_n chapter_n 7._o the_o duty_n of_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n col._n 3.19_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n and_o be_v not_o bitter_a against_o they_o q._n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o this_o text_n a._n two_n 1._o the_o duty_n of_o a_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n 2._o the_o manner_n of_o performance_n with_o mildness_n express_v by_o forbid_v the_o contrary_a and_o be_v not_o bitter_a to_o they_o q._n why_o do_v the_o apostle_n comprehend_v the_o whole_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n in_o love_n 33._o eph._n 5.25_o 28_o 33._o a._n 1._o otherwise_o no_o duty_n can_v be_v well_o perform_v from_o one_o to_o another_o 1_o cor._n 16.14_o 2_o the_o wife_n be_v the_o chief_a object_n of_o love_n above_o friend_n child_n parent_n must_v leave_v all_o for_o she_o as_o she_o all_o for_o he_o therefore_o must_v love_v her_o most_o deut._n 13.6_o wife_n or_o his_o bosom_n 3_o lest_o his_o superiority_n and_o authority_n over_o she_o shall_v degenerate_v into_o tyranny_n 4_o she_z the_o weak_a sex_n and_o apt_a to_o offend_v but_o love_n will_v cover_v all_o 5_o to_o provoke_v she_o to_o love_v he_o because_o he_o first_o love_v she_o as_o christ_n the_o church_n q._n what_o particular_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n do_v proceed_v from_o love_n knowledge_n 1_o pet._n 3.7_o according_a to_o knowledge_n a._n two_n 1._o a_o wife_n maintain_v of_o his_o authority_n 2._o a_o right_a manage_n of_o the_o same_o q._n why_o must_v a_o husband_n maintain_v his_o authority_n a._n 1._o this_o maintain_v god_n and_o christ_n authority_n who_o entrust_v he_o with_o it_o 2._o this_o most_o promote_v the_o good_a of_o his_o wife_n and_o the_o whole_a family_n q._n how_o may_v he_o maintain_v his_o authority_n a._n by_o be_v a_o example_n to_o they_o in_o love_n gravity_n piety_n honesty_n which_o cause_n a_o reverend_a respect_n in_o wife_n and_o family_n 1_o tim._n 4.2_o q._n how_o be_v this_o authority_n to_o be_v manage_v a._n 1._o by_o a_o tender_a respect_n of_o she_o 2._o by_o a_o provident_a care_n for_o she_o q._n what_o be_v that_o tender_a respect_n of_o she_o a._n it_o be_v either_o inward_a or_o outward_a q._n wherein_o consist_v his_o inward_a respect_n a._n 1._o in_o regard_n of_o his_o opinion_n of_o she_o 2._o in_o regard_n of_o his_o affection_n to_o she_o q._n what_o opinion_n must_v he_o have_v of_o she_o a._n 1._o in_o regard_n of_o her_o place_n she_o 1_o pet._n 3.7_o give_v honour_n to_o she_o he_o must_v esteem_v she_o not_o as_o a_o servant_n but_o as_o his_o yoke-fellow_n and_o companion_n a_o little_a low_o than_o himself_o as_o near_o to_o equality_n 2._o in_o regard_n of_o her_o person_n so_o he_o must_v esteem_v his_o own_o wife_n fit_a and_o best_a for_o he_o as_o provide_v by_o god_n prov._n 19.14_o and_o 18.22_o q._n what_o affection_n must_v he_o bear_v to_o she_o a._n it_o must_v be_v with_o the_o great_a delight_n in_o she_o as_o the_o delight_n of_o his_o eye_n as_o ezek._n 24.19_o ravish_v modest_o with_o her_o love_n prov._n 5.18_o 19_o q._n wherein_o appear_v his_o outward_a respect_n a._n 1._o in_o avoid_v offence_n to_o she_o 2._o in_o wise_o order_v her_o offence_n to_o he_o q._n how_o may_v he_o avoid_v offence_n to_o she_o a._n 1._o in_o take_v her_o duty_n tender_v to_o he_o 2._o in_o tender_v his_o own_o to_o she_o q._n what_o be_v to_o be_v do_v in_o take_v she_o a._n 1._o a_o kind_a acceptation_n of_o it_o as_o abraham_n do_v sarahs_n gen._n 21.8_o 1_o sam._n 1.23_o 2._o commend_v and_o reward_v she_o for_o it_o as_o prov._n 31.28_o 31._o esth_n 5.3_o 1_o kin._n 1.28_o etc._n etc._n q._n how_o must_v he_o tender_v his_o duty_n to_o she_o to_o avoid_v offence_n a._n in_o mildness_n a_o special_a fruit_n of_o love_n which_o the_o apostle_n intend_v in_o these_o word_n be_v not_o bitter_a to_o they_o which_o be_v express_v 1_o in_o his_o speech_n whether_o give_v her_o title_n as_o wife_n love_n etc._n etc._n or_o instrution_n command_n or_o reproof_n all_o with_o meekness_n gal._n 6.1_o prov._n 25.15_o 2_o in_o his_o countenance_n which_o must_v be_v amiable_a and_o please_a 3_o in_o his_o gesture_n with_o a_o kind_n of_o modest_a familiarity_n as_o isaac_n to_o rebecca_n gen._n 26.8_o 4_o in_o his_o action_n by_o favour_n and_o gift_n as_o 1_o sam._n 1.4_o 5._o elkanah_n do_v to_o his_o q._n what_o be_v require_v in_o order_v her_o offence_n to_o he_o a._n to_o passâ—_n they_o by_o with_o meekness_n and_o patient_o to_o bear_v with_o her_o weakness_n pâ—ov_n 19.11_o 1_o pet._n 3_o 7._o q._n wherein_o appear_v his_o provident_a care_n for_o she_o a._n 1._o in_o provide_v thing_n needful_a for_o she_o as_o her_o head_n 2.19_o 1_o sam._n 1.3_o 4_o 7._o and_o 2.19_o both_o for_o her_o soul_n in_o private_a and_o public_a mean_n of_o her_o edification_n and_o also_o for_o her_o body_n both_o in_o health_n and_o sickness_n especial_o in_o the_o time_n of_o childbearing_n and_o this_o not_o only_o in_o his_o life_n time_n but_o after_o death_n 1.21_o 1_o kin._n 1.21_o settle_v a_o comfortable_a and_o suitable_a maintenance_n on_o she_o 2._o in_o protect_v she_o from_o danger_n in_o her_o person_n and_o name_n 1_o sam._n 27.3_o and_o 30.18_o q._n what_o motive_n have_v husband_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n and_o do_v all_o these_o duty_n to_o they_o a._n beside_o the_o command_n of_o god_n these_o two_o 1._o the_o example_n of_o christ_n in_o love_v his_o church_n and_o therein_o themselves_o if_o godly_a eph._n 5.25_o now_o christ_n love_v first_o 1_o joh._n 4.19_o indeed_o and_o in_o truth_n give_v himself_o for_o it_o eph._n 5.26_o free_o deut._n 7.7_o 8._o pure_o to_o sanctify_v it_o v._o 27._o constant_o joh._n 13.1_o hos_fw-la 2.19_o so_o may_v they_o 2._o the_o example_n of_o one_o self_n eph._n 5.28_o 29_o a_o wife_n be_v himself_o they_o be_v one_o flesh_n finis_fw-la