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A77503 A looking-glasse for good vvomen, held forth by way of counsell and advice to such of that sex and quality, as in the simplicity of their hearts, are led away to the imbracing or looking towards any of the dangerous errors of the times, specially that of the separation. / As it was lately presented to the Church of God at Great-Yarmouth, by John Brinsley. Octob. 9. 1645. Imprimatur Ja: Cranford. Brinsley, John, 1600-1665. 1645 (1645) Wing B4717; Thomason E305_23; ESTC R200330 44,390 54

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